☯️Andy, I hope u see this and actually listen to this video!!! After listening to video i have to say, They won't and dont understand how it feels when the other person has been open and honest. It is soooooo tramtic and overwheming and over consuming and all u can think about and the more u learn the more it hurts and EVERY therapist or consluer would say move on but the way I thought we loved and felt cuddling and kissing after 20 years i know that type of feeling usually goes away aftter a year or a few years and I pray 🙏 that im right and we get better but now i have to heal myself because he can't heal me . He was supposed ro be earning back my trust and did and even when my heart and gut said otherwise i still trusted again but this is first time hes acted out on it. Im just so lost. Now Andy if u read and listen ill know ☯️
@lovenotjudge7912 күн бұрын
This video is 💯 true. Every word! Ty i just sent this to him because he doesn't understand i am destroyed and crushed and terrified
@al48552 күн бұрын
People don't make mistakes. People make choices. Everythinh we do, we think about it. We don't think about the consequences, we think about the fun and then make the choice.
@MorrisGray-mc8jc3 күн бұрын
SOME PEOPLE ARE HELLE CRAZY
@Aliensemble3 күн бұрын
Extremely insightful, thank you 🖤
@carpenterguy70524 күн бұрын
Why are you still together after that 😅
@anissaholmes44954 күн бұрын
Matthew 19:9. God tells us to forgive as He has forgiven us. Reconciliation is not commanded of us. Jesus said we can divorce if there is infidelity. The marriage convent was broken and the betrayed spouse is free to find someone else without eternal consequences.
@viacondios192 күн бұрын
Bible doesn’t say you’re free to remarry, ask John the Baptist.
@ace78217 күн бұрын
What’s the track playing in the background?
@ace78217 күн бұрын
A compulsive liar lies so much they don’t even remember they are lying. Lying about anything early in a relationship is probably the most clear and earliest clue she will cheat on you, use you and dumb after she sucks you dry to the bone.
@KEBTAWAN_RECORDS8 күн бұрын
How do you get the cheater to confess who it was and stuff? Anyways it seems best to end it and move on.
@rajeshgulia710 күн бұрын
Quality content 👌
@MildredMallery11 күн бұрын
AMEN
@RS-ov2st12 күн бұрын
Opposite sex people CAN NEVER BE JUST FRIENDS. THATS AN INVITATION FOR TROUBLE EVERY TIME. THATS A FOOLS PARADISE.
@ceeceeivory865412 күн бұрын
Rasheem, you walking 🦷
@Saved.by.Jesus.13 күн бұрын
Sin sin sin sin sin sin sin sin sin. Is of the Devil. The word is sin. Cheating was never the word used for it. It is called SIN. HELL IS A REAL PLACE FOR THOSE WHO SIN AGAINST God. Thought Is a spirit and is a communication from a spirit. Fast and prayer, long prayer 10 hours. You can pray all day. You can’t be my friend if you are woman. No no
@husbandslockerroom404115 күн бұрын
Marriage can thrive but the one who cheated need to be remorseful and repent to God.
@hasanipettiford13 күн бұрын
I totally agree!!
@alphonsocoley517015 күн бұрын
HELL NO move on...thats a lie me and my wife talk all the time and she the only one i talk to.and if you can't talk to the one you live with you WEAK.......you all are wasting your time listen at this shit.Because they will say can't NO man and woman can work together that's a lie..and me and my wife was together from sun up to sun down.my grandmother and grandfather worked together in a orange Grove for over 60.anx never went out on each other.i don't waste my time listen at shit like this.this is why so many marriage end.that said the same things to mh 1st wife.20 yrs later she ask me to come back i said NO.that's B/S
@DvO8217 күн бұрын
What is that book? From chapter 6 I didn’t hear the title clearly
@Gotoworkkk17 күн бұрын
Roses are red and love is fake. Weddings are basically funerals with cake.
@mintesnotgizaw430817 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mohammadpatel105018 күн бұрын
Hi there, love this video. Thanks
@user-xf4ze2zr4h19 күн бұрын
Fd12 Lord give me the strength hell and give me the energy to get through this video and still take care of his damn kids
@agoogleuser433723 күн бұрын
Spot on, great info, sent this to my WW!!
@kimberlygiden479227 күн бұрын
Finally my question has been answered- he’s known her longer than we’ve been married. I couldn’t understand why he hid her and went to great lengths to re-hid her once I started asking about her.
@Gotoworkkk17 күн бұрын
Same here they used to date 20 years ago and never really broke up because he went into Air Force bootcamp… he’s been hiding this for over two years now sneaking her around.
@ace78217 күн бұрын
He doesn’t love you and was always cheating on you immediately after getting married. Be glad he’s not in your life. Every day you stay no contact is a brighter day of happiness. Don’t ever go back.
@cewilliamsableАй бұрын
Why am I still here???? I promised my daughter during all the mess that I would stay for her and her brothers. She asked me as I was packing my things to leave. I dont know how long I can do this. 😫😩
@MarioGonzalez-bv9hpАй бұрын
My wife won't forgive me after I have asked her I'm lost of what to do
@MarioGonzalez-bv9hpАй бұрын
I am desperate, I have single handedly ripped my marriage apart. One reason was my infidelity for a number of years don't think wife wants to reconcile but I care about her so much I'm a narcissist can you help
@angelaponte4733Ай бұрын
My wife had an affair in 2017 to 2021. I just found out in February of 2024, it broke me down, I confronted her about, first she denied it, when I show her the proof she couldn't believe it, I said to her, what done in dark come to light, I still love her, but I'm still hurting, months later, please what should I do,
@clarencehammer3556Ай бұрын
Yes, you must forgive.
@rckbttm1410Ай бұрын
I found out she's licking booty 🕳️ of men and as soon as i got my boys tested she broke up with me when she found out.,,i can imagine now what the test results are
@rckbttm1410Ай бұрын
She'll never tell you that she lick booty
@DillLeysАй бұрын
Who cheats more men are women?
@ddnickАй бұрын
Remember people, Snakes can't listen, betrayal is a series of choices it doesn't starts from the bedroom... Stop listening to these self proclaimed experts who are pushing u back in the same hell... I know its hard to leave but believe me when u get rid of that snake, u will respect ur self for rest of your life
@nenelife2811Ай бұрын
They have no humanity
@RomeHernandez-qd3jrАй бұрын
I'm about to lose my son over my poor decisions and my inability be fully truthful. She deserved better
@Gotoworkkk18 күн бұрын
You have every right to see your son. Take this to court and you will get partial custody. Don’t give up on him.
@user-dm1xh6bz3iАй бұрын
Children will grow up and be cheaters like their parents
@rikaft7355Ай бұрын
I have 3 years relationship with my bf and just know that he cheated on me. He apologized to me and will do anything for me. But my heart is still hurt. And i tried to revenge him and cheated on him too. And i told him and he forgave me maybe because he felt guilty. But still my heart won’t forgive him. And i still opened up that wound again and again. I feel stuck. I want this relationship working on again like before. I love him so much. But my overthinking won’t stop. And it hurts my mental and my mind.
@cewilliamsableАй бұрын
There is never a good reason why someone cheats. So the why really doesn't matter and you should divorce them immediately.
@patthome8328Ай бұрын
I have a question are women more forgiving than the man is about an affair I feel that women might overcome it better than men
@reneeezealor4811Ай бұрын
Question ? I’ve heard it said through many videos that people don’t dress up for their spouses . What should couples do when spouses come home late or work odd hours that would require the other person to be “dressed up” during hours they should be asleep. Should that person lose sleep just to look a specific way and then end up looking stressed and old from lack of sleep. I’m just curious how this works out. I know many people whose spouses get off from work in the middle of the night . Should they wake up and get dressed 🤷🏾♀️ Anywho I focus more on cheaters holding themselves accountable . There are spouses who go through all of what was described here as reasons people cheated . What’s the reason those particular people choose not to cheat as a result of what the other person “did or failed to do” or how they were “feeling”? Cheating is a choice and reflection of character, beliefs, and morals . Hold people accountable 💯 This is a fallen world .
@jaminclardy2605Ай бұрын
No offense I don't think he's talking about that type of situation or moment to be "dressing up" he is speaking in general. Not looking for the moments where it makes zero sense to be waiting all dressed up looking nice. There are days and times that people don't work and or have down time that they can then put the effort. Let's not be a professional misser of the point
@codenamekidnextdoor6575Ай бұрын
Im going threw this right now the emotional roller-coaster my wife just told me 3 days ago she cheated last year I'm heartbroken..
@husbandslockerroom404115 күн бұрын
@codenamekidnextdo… I’ll pray for you and your wife. Did she openly tell you or you probed her? Is she remorseful? I was remorseful and we have flourished.
@codenamekidnextdoor657514 күн бұрын
@@husbandslockerroom4041 she told me herself she said the guilt was eating her up. She doesn't show remorse like a normal person but she says she is and we are seperated right now.
@kmiller1kАй бұрын
great info. wish there wasn't any background music.
@youtubefans510Ай бұрын
evryone can be a cheater hypothetically so don't be too judgemental , it can be you own brother sister cousin etc.
@youtubefans510Ай бұрын
for people who preach their religious morality : hate the sin not the sinner , judge others as you want to be judged, treat others as you want to be treated and forgive those that have trespassed against us in short practice your religious doctrine for good not for evil by being judgmental , that is NOT the way of the lord
@youtubefans510Ай бұрын
why cant people just accept each other as human beings capable to have feelings for others even when you dont act upon it ? is it so hard to accept and understand that we may have feelings and do have feelings for more than just one person? treat others as you want to be treated , so why be so judgemental , you are being lied to ? look in the mirror !!! and change yourself be more empathic more humane
@laveya3527Ай бұрын
I thought this was going to be helpful but he took the lazy god solution route
@SleepyBoaSnake-ik7bxАй бұрын
My problem is she want to move forward but wont tell me who it was
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I aint gone lie. She fine fr fr.
☯️Andy, I hope u see this and actually listen to this video!!! After listening to video i have to say, They won't and dont understand how it feels when the other person has been open and honest. It is soooooo tramtic and overwheming and over consuming and all u can think about and the more u learn the more it hurts and EVERY therapist or consluer would say move on but the way I thought we loved and felt cuddling and kissing after 20 years i know that type of feeling usually goes away aftter a year or a few years and I pray 🙏 that im right and we get better but now i have to heal myself because he can't heal me . He was supposed ro be earning back my trust and did and even when my heart and gut said otherwise i still trusted again but this is first time hes acted out on it. Im just so lost. Now Andy if u read and listen ill know ☯️
This video is 💯 true. Every word! Ty i just sent this to him because he doesn't understand i am destroyed and crushed and terrified
People don't make mistakes. People make choices. Everythinh we do, we think about it. We don't think about the consequences, we think about the fun and then make the choice.
SOME PEOPLE ARE HELLE CRAZY
Extremely insightful, thank you 🖤
Why are you still together after that 😅
Matthew 19:9. God tells us to forgive as He has forgiven us. Reconciliation is not commanded of us. Jesus said we can divorce if there is infidelity. The marriage convent was broken and the betrayed spouse is free to find someone else without eternal consequences.
Bible doesn’t say you’re free to remarry, ask John the Baptist.
What’s the track playing in the background?
A compulsive liar lies so much they don’t even remember they are lying. Lying about anything early in a relationship is probably the most clear and earliest clue she will cheat on you, use you and dumb after she sucks you dry to the bone.
How do you get the cheater to confess who it was and stuff? Anyways it seems best to end it and move on.
Quality content 👌
AMEN
Opposite sex people CAN NEVER BE JUST FRIENDS. THATS AN INVITATION FOR TROUBLE EVERY TIME. THATS A FOOLS PARADISE.
Rasheem, you walking 🦷
Sin sin sin sin sin sin sin sin sin. Is of the Devil. The word is sin. Cheating was never the word used for it. It is called SIN. HELL IS A REAL PLACE FOR THOSE WHO SIN AGAINST God. Thought Is a spirit and is a communication from a spirit. Fast and prayer, long prayer 10 hours. You can pray all day. You can’t be my friend if you are woman. No no
Marriage can thrive but the one who cheated need to be remorseful and repent to God.
I totally agree!!
HELL NO move on...thats a lie me and my wife talk all the time and she the only one i talk to.and if you can't talk to the one you live with you WEAK.......you all are wasting your time listen at this shit.Because they will say can't NO man and woman can work together that's a lie..and me and my wife was together from sun up to sun down.my grandmother and grandfather worked together in a orange Grove for over 60.anx never went out on each other.i don't waste my time listen at shit like this.this is why so many marriage end.that said the same things to mh 1st wife.20 yrs later she ask me to come back i said NO.that's B/S
What is that book? From chapter 6 I didn’t hear the title clearly
Roses are red and love is fake. Weddings are basically funerals with cake.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hi there, love this video. Thanks
Fd12 Lord give me the strength hell and give me the energy to get through this video and still take care of his damn kids
Spot on, great info, sent this to my WW!!
Finally my question has been answered- he’s known her longer than we’ve been married. I couldn’t understand why he hid her and went to great lengths to re-hid her once I started asking about her.
Same here they used to date 20 years ago and never really broke up because he went into Air Force bootcamp… he’s been hiding this for over two years now sneaking her around.
He doesn’t love you and was always cheating on you immediately after getting married. Be glad he’s not in your life. Every day you stay no contact is a brighter day of happiness. Don’t ever go back.
Why am I still here???? I promised my daughter during all the mess that I would stay for her and her brothers. She asked me as I was packing my things to leave. I dont know how long I can do this. 😫😩
My wife won't forgive me after I have asked her I'm lost of what to do
I am desperate, I have single handedly ripped my marriage apart. One reason was my infidelity for a number of years don't think wife wants to reconcile but I care about her so much I'm a narcissist can you help
My wife had an affair in 2017 to 2021. I just found out in February of 2024, it broke me down, I confronted her about, first she denied it, when I show her the proof she couldn't believe it, I said to her, what done in dark come to light, I still love her, but I'm still hurting, months later, please what should I do,
Yes, you must forgive.
I found out she's licking booty 🕳️ of men and as soon as i got my boys tested she broke up with me when she found out.,,i can imagine now what the test results are
She'll never tell you that she lick booty
Who cheats more men are women?
Remember people, Snakes can't listen, betrayal is a series of choices it doesn't starts from the bedroom... Stop listening to these self proclaimed experts who are pushing u back in the same hell... I know its hard to leave but believe me when u get rid of that snake, u will respect ur self for rest of your life
They have no humanity
I'm about to lose my son over my poor decisions and my inability be fully truthful. She deserved better
You have every right to see your son. Take this to court and you will get partial custody. Don’t give up on him.
Children will grow up and be cheaters like their parents
I have 3 years relationship with my bf and just know that he cheated on me. He apologized to me and will do anything for me. But my heart is still hurt. And i tried to revenge him and cheated on him too. And i told him and he forgave me maybe because he felt guilty. But still my heart won’t forgive him. And i still opened up that wound again and again. I feel stuck. I want this relationship working on again like before. I love him so much. But my overthinking won’t stop. And it hurts my mental and my mind.
There is never a good reason why someone cheats. So the why really doesn't matter and you should divorce them immediately.
I have a question are women more forgiving than the man is about an affair I feel that women might overcome it better than men
Question ? I’ve heard it said through many videos that people don’t dress up for their spouses . What should couples do when spouses come home late or work odd hours that would require the other person to be “dressed up” during hours they should be asleep. Should that person lose sleep just to look a specific way and then end up looking stressed and old from lack of sleep. I’m just curious how this works out. I know many people whose spouses get off from work in the middle of the night . Should they wake up and get dressed 🤷🏾♀️ Anywho I focus more on cheaters holding themselves accountable . There are spouses who go through all of what was described here as reasons people cheated . What’s the reason those particular people choose not to cheat as a result of what the other person “did or failed to do” or how they were “feeling”? Cheating is a choice and reflection of character, beliefs, and morals . Hold people accountable 💯 This is a fallen world .
No offense I don't think he's talking about that type of situation or moment to be "dressing up" he is speaking in general. Not looking for the moments where it makes zero sense to be waiting all dressed up looking nice. There are days and times that people don't work and or have down time that they can then put the effort. Let's not be a professional misser of the point
Im going threw this right now the emotional roller-coaster my wife just told me 3 days ago she cheated last year I'm heartbroken..
@codenamekidnextdo… I’ll pray for you and your wife. Did she openly tell you or you probed her? Is she remorseful? I was remorseful and we have flourished.
@@husbandslockerroom4041 she told me herself she said the guilt was eating her up. She doesn't show remorse like a normal person but she says she is and we are seperated right now.
great info. wish there wasn't any background music.
evryone can be a cheater hypothetically so don't be too judgemental , it can be you own brother sister cousin etc.
for people who preach their religious morality : hate the sin not the sinner , judge others as you want to be judged, treat others as you want to be treated and forgive those that have trespassed against us in short practice your religious doctrine for good not for evil by being judgmental , that is NOT the way of the lord
why cant people just accept each other as human beings capable to have feelings for others even when you dont act upon it ? is it so hard to accept and understand that we may have feelings and do have feelings for more than just one person? treat others as you want to be treated , so why be so judgemental , you are being lied to ? look in the mirror !!! and change yourself be more empathic more humane
I thought this was going to be helpful but he took the lazy god solution route
My problem is she want to move forward but wont tell me who it was
You need real milk not fake synthetic milk
👆🏼YES WE DO!