Danish queer couple out to educate and spread love! One is trans, one is cis (kinda), but we're both ready to entertain and have a good time with you guys! : )
this was pretty cool to see and helped me introspect a lot on my own struggles with relationships!
@WivesVsWorld3 сағат бұрын
So happy to hear that! Thank you so much for watching ❤️
@Blueparle14 сағат бұрын
I have ideas for a lot of books som are original som are spin-offs I hope I can get them all published
@Jadacakes17 сағат бұрын
This made me tear up 💖 It feels like it’s retroactively helping that young scared girl I learned to hide deep in the dark actually peek out and see the light just a little more clearly. This experience can be so surreal sometimes, because there are moments where you get to soothe and comfort a version of you from over a decade ago that was trying so hard to just get by, because you know and still are that person on some level, and the profundity of that type of healing is just 🥲 Not sure what part of this video in particular sparked that, or if it’s kinda the emotional stage I’m in, but I really appreciated this
@Jadacakes17 сағат бұрын
💖💖💖💖
@kellyann0119 сағат бұрын
Also, congratulations on 11k!
@WivesVsWorld18 сағат бұрын
Thank youuuu it's wild :')))
@kellyann0119 сағат бұрын
I love these videos, and love you two ❤
@WivesVsWorld18 сағат бұрын
Aaahhhh you're the absolute sweetest!! Thank you so so much for becoming a member ;A; ❤️
@JadacakesКүн бұрын
Just found you because your Dating a Cis Person ended up in my recommended videos, and wow it was really cathartic to see another trans-cis wlw couple sharing the emotions and dynamics that can show up in a relationship similar to my own (I’m a trans woman married to a cis woman), so I HAD to see what else you two had to say. This is the second one I’ve watched so far and omg I love you two already, and I’m so excited I found this channel! Can’t wait to catch up on the other videos and I look forward to seeing more in the future!
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
Oh that's amazing! Thank you so much for your kind words and for watching! So happy it resonates ✨️❤️
@pedroff_1Күн бұрын
I never quite saw me as a man - I was honest with some people and it felt like just a title to make things easier. As I transitioned, I found out I had quite the feeling for heing a woman. I wanted to be one. I had some undescribable discomfort from being shirtless for the longest time. Always blamed me on my dad fat shaming me when I ever so slighly chubby at around 14. Now, even if I still have the same prominent belly I used to get (and it even disappeared as I got older and even skinnier), I love showing my body, as much as I still need to get used to the feeling, and to a bit of embarrassment. I used to not care about clothes, or my appearance in general. First time I let my hair grow was so it became a fluffy ball that didn't need brushing. Now, I love rocking my well-brushed curls, which take quite an effort every morning, and love experimenting with clothes and my appearance. I still go for more masc-leaning fem clothes, but, damn, those were the ones I loved when my friends wore. I definitely got a boost in my multi-year journey of opening myself up now that I'm so much more confident in my image, in who I am, and proud of it. Romantically, I always struggled a lot with getting involved with someone, but I met my current (and first) gf just as I was starting transitioning She has been amazingly supportive and has helped me explore my tender so much more. I love seeing myself as a lesbian (/sapphic-leaning bi woman), and having a lesbian relationship with her. It, for some reason, just feels SO right.
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
Honestly, that all makes so much sense! So happy to hear you've found someone so supportive ❤️ thank you so much for sharing your perspective!
@theFILMNERD653Күн бұрын
Whenever I would happen to ask anyone (which I still haven´t) it´d be to know where on your journey you´re at in order to know how much advice or consolation I should seek in you, but since neither of us personally know each other I don´t really think i should or even need to ask.
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
Yes of course! It makes sense for other trans people to seek out this information. But as you say - coming from strangers, the questions can be quite uncomfortable ^^;
@BlueparleКүн бұрын
I can’t wait to go to prom so I can have a lot of fun and dance with the man or woman of my dreams and I hope to win prom queen and probably have a Carrie white experience 👸🏼🪣🐷🩸🔥
@catcat609Күн бұрын
Drop your Spotify playlists! 🥰
@fireblade1986Күн бұрын
took me ages to get back into a pool... and still makes me scared at times... especially going alone... ... anyway I'll allways get some looks going in... I'm tall, quite muscular, wide shoulders... well perfect swimmers body.. luckily i'm a pretty good and smooth swimmer, and once i swam a couple of pool-length ... there are no more questions asked xD ... well i got really flatterd a few weeks back by a woman asking me how long it took me to get so good at swimming, and it would look so graceful and effordless compared to the men. ... so well sporty trans woman it is ... and i still secretly giggle all the time when yet another guy in the pool tries to keep up with that woman, who needs a quater of the strokes as he does xD ... sometimes i might just go all out a few minutes later :P ... trans life is hard enough most of the times, but there are just priceless moments aswell.
@newlenmediaКүн бұрын
Do you want to have children?
@WivesVsWorldКүн бұрын
Nope! We're very happily child free 🥰
@newlenmediaКүн бұрын
@@WivesVsWorld That's wonderful. I only asked because you're in a unique situation. Obviously, a transwoman cannot have biological children of her own (yet). Since your partner is a cis woman, that's something that is available to you, I think. Regardless, I'm glad you're happy together. I think you two seem to have a happy and healthy relationship. The world needs more of that. Thanks for this video.
@simhalКүн бұрын
Love it I am constantly asked how does your relationship work?
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
Yeah, it can become frustrating!
@simhalКүн бұрын
Wow came across this channel. What a refreshing view. I get asked often. It is however no one business.
@user-yr2nb4vr3qКүн бұрын
What do they call it when you identify as highly skeptical you are a human? Im genuinely asking for myself
@user-yr2nb4vr3qКүн бұрын
I don't understand why we are focused on what category of people we are and what's normal for it?
@iwannabeyourdog41952 күн бұрын
trans-SUS??? couple 🤯
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
😂❤️
@BabyMatie2 күн бұрын
Wow you are both the luckiest woman i the world and I would love to meet someone like you and I have only started transitioning and it is hard when your partner does not support you.
@DeathNellie2 күн бұрын
Holy shit! I haven't seen the Girugamesh meme since highschool ^^
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
Hahaha happy to unlock some memories! 🙌
@GabrielBell3 күн бұрын
Thank you for the part on feeling insecure talking about your own sexuality while actually liking the topic otherwise… I could really relate and feel validated by that…especially in some areas of discourse a transwoman can already feel like being seen as a predator by identifying as lesbian…
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
Exactly, it's such a toxic discourse that can leave some deep scars. I'm glad it resonated. Thank you for watching ❤️
@whistl0343 күн бұрын
"I love men... you just don't need them to live" God, I LOVE Cher
@WivesVsWorld23 сағат бұрын
She knows what's up 🙌
@alanboulee54533 күн бұрын
What is CIS? I am a straight male and it's the first time I've heard that term.
@WivesVsWorld3 күн бұрын
It just means that a person is comfortable being the gender they were assigned at birth ^^ so if you were always a boy and feel comfortable being a man, then you're cis!
Such a beautiful poem ❤️ thank you so much for sharing! ✨️
@dextergreener78249 сағат бұрын
@@WivesVsWorld Thank you very much, I am known as Cassandra or Cassy
@user-qk2eb2yf3l4 күн бұрын
Being afraid of being dumped by a new friend, ❤ xxx being us regardless of Orthodoxy
@user-qk2eb2yf3l4 күн бұрын
Being Trans is alright now, you look beautiful because some good features carry over ❤ from Petra
@user-qk2eb2yf3l4 күн бұрын
We are about who we connect with, our hobbies and interest. What about what made us want to come out?
@iconoclasticinnuendo5 күн бұрын
Hey, awesome video! So happy I found this! Just commenting to let you guys know the music is a little loud. I think if you guys lowered the volume on the music a little bit it would make your speaking much easier to hear.
@sampsonhandrich52755 күн бұрын
2:33 smoke OPIUM??????!!!?!?
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
What else would I smoke with Oscar Wilde?!
@jimventurini57245 күн бұрын
Love is love❤️
@Xcorgi5 күн бұрын
Anyone who says don’t ask me if I’ve had top or bottom surgery means they definitely have NOT. That’s why they’re so defensive about it. Anyone who’s actually had it is actually pretty proud to tell you that yes they did.
@stuwigg84025 күн бұрын
I am not sure how the algorithm found me, but I'm grateful it did. My eldest daughter just came out as gay, I have a trans neice, and one of my daughter's friends has been in a relationship with a trans man for several years. I just want them all to be happy!
@matthewthomas46205 күн бұрын
Wow there are some really unhinged people out there. Thanks for sharring the comedy gold. Your comentary was wonderful.
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
There really are! Luckily they can be quite entertaining, haha. Thank you so much for the kind words and for watching ❤️
@jcoulton45 күн бұрын
For me, a lot of attention-grabbing sounds, and even some ambient noise, hold equal weight in my mind, so they tend to get mixed up, eg. if I'm talking to someone, and some other sound is nearby (like traffic noise, or a baby crying), my concentration is split, and I miss what the conversation was about. Because of this, I don't really get into music with lyrics unless they're musically great, and even then, the lyrics often just drown out anyway. Let's be honest though, a LOT of popular songs are just the vocals ontop of the same repeating chords. It's boring. As a result, I don't follow music trends, or what artist is topping what chart. If I listen to anything, it's instrumental in nature, eg. classical, game soundtracks, etc., especially if I have an emotional attachment to it. Like a Dark Souls or Hollow Knight piece will remind me of the fight in the game, and the times I got wiped out by the enemy, or when I finally beat them. It becomes awkward whenever someone asks what music I''m into. I know that they're just making small talk, and are looking for some generic answer, but that's just not something that I can provide.
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
That makes a lot of sense! And hahah yeah I can imagine that complicates the music question even further 😂
@MiaKeller-l1q6 күн бұрын
Hey! I found out about your channel 4 days ago while at work and I binged your entire videos from the old ones to the most recent ones, and every video was really entertaining, normally my job is a really boring office job but your videos saved me!, I am a trans girl in a relationship with a cis woman for 4 years and we have known each other for 10, we started our relationship young as well so I was really surprised with all the similarities our relationship has to yours it's like we found our dopplerganger relationship, anyways I really want to let you know that I think you re both so wholesome and pretty and I love your content c:
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
Awwww what an honor to have kept you company during work! Thank you so much for watching all our videos :') you probably know us better than we know ourselves by now, haha! And that's so wonderful! It's amazing to find kindred spirits ❤️
@MiaKeller-l1q4 күн бұрын
@@WivesVsWorld 💜
@Northstander6 күн бұрын
Just found this channel, having watched one of the most recent vlogs, thought I would wind back to the beginning and see how you started...liking it so far, bang goes the weekend!
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
Aw that's so sweet of you! Hope we can provide some entertainment during the weekend 🥳❤️
@user-xs7iw6cu1z6 күн бұрын
I love having 6 outfits
@AlloAnder7 күн бұрын
So interesting!
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@Psara7 күн бұрын
question: you’re both absurdly pretty. how? how do i do that? oh im also a trans girl. i’m just being a little jealous i actually think im cute af.
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
Oh, you're a cute af trans girl? Sounds like you already know how to be absurdly pretty 😌 haha thank you so much for the kind words ❤️✨️
@javitronex90417 күн бұрын
I love seeing this... i hope my future will be as bright and happy as theirs is right now (im transfem) Thank you for this vid ❤
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️ I hope your future will be bright and beautiful and everything you want ❤️✨️ wish you all the best!!
@CatOcatastrophe7 күн бұрын
9:40 into the video I had too pause and ponder... So like, my understanding or interpretation of the question made me think : "Much like how dogs need too sniff butts too understand each other, so too is too be human and ask questions; no matter how "in a person's business it is, or not in a person's business, much like how dogs go about sniffing each other's butts." And since butt sniffing is linked too "business", (because potty humor) a lot of people / commonly accepted too ask questions. There are no dumb questions; only dumb answers, my teacher once told me. But am curios about your takes on this banger, and those that are actively reading this
@catoboros7 күн бұрын
Thank you Anya for my favourite quote of the year: "Can you call someone an egg if the chicken is already walking around?" ❤🏳⚧
@WivesVsWorld5 күн бұрын
Hahahaaaa I'm glad you liked that one! 😂❤️
@Vernal_the_Oryx7 күн бұрын
I was freaking out when you said Dir En Grey, it has to be a trans woman thing. That made me so happy, I still have a physical copy of the marrow of a bone." The Final is my all-time favorite song. Don't know if you were also fans of X Japan, considering the older style, but omg the validation and euphoria.
@WivesVsWorld7 күн бұрын
Maybe so, at least for me the VK scene was very alluring due to the whole playing with gender presentation thing 😂❤️ I looove X Japan - even got to see them live in London in 2017! 😍❤️
@Vernal_the_Oryx7 күн бұрын
@WivesVsWorld I'm so jealous, I never had the chance to see them. As for vk, that and today's "genderless style" have been inspirational in my clothing designs. It's been hard finding cute stuff, so I make it myself. So good to know creators with such great taste. Glad I could sub.🙂💚
@banini16897 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing and providing representation. I am a queer cis female and my partner identifies as non binary transfem. We are very smitten with each other.
@WivesVsWorld7 күн бұрын
Awww that's adorable! So happy to hear that and happy you're here ❤️ thank you so much for your kind words ✨️
@richardvallonjr.67167 күн бұрын
I have boobs as an older man and no one asks if mine are real. I think I'm a B or C cup.
@richardvallonjr.67167 күн бұрын
no one ever asks straight people - when did you know you were straight. Maybe we should. Asking this question will shed some light on attitudes. in 1987 I was working at a Hospital making slides for doctors. A book said- most people have specific ideas about what constitutes what is Male and what is Female- biology has its own ideas. I have a gay buddy who is married to.a man. I've known him 2 years and in this time his partner has transitioned to being a woman. This transition is complete in my mind. My frind is happy and still very much in love- so that is what counts.
@WivesVsWorld7 күн бұрын
That's honestly such a good quote! I really like that ❤️
@BandieDiamanda7 күн бұрын
"so you want 3 forms?" "yis :D" I have never felt more seen on that front than just then!!
@WivesVsWorld7 күн бұрын
I'm so happy you relate 🙌✨️
@BandieDiamanda7 күн бұрын
@@WivesVsWorld also made me think of the character Valtraid from sea of stars: he has a twink body and when he rips his magic shirt off it makes him hunk 😂
@WivesVsWorld7 күн бұрын
That's hilarious 😂❤️
@1ch07 күн бұрын
I don’t know. It’s always hard to know how I would react in certain situations. But I always try to be respectful and show empathy. I also have ADHD, so I know I can say things I later regret and I am not even aware when I do it. This makes me want to always improve myself and be the best person I can be. So I would probably notice if someone is transgender, although there are some beautiful humans where you can’t tell anymore. It depends, I guess. I was on a journey where I didn’t know if I was gay or straight or what. Also, at the time, this was not as openly discussed as it is now with being neurodivergent and what gender you identify as. So now I would say I am pansexual but I prefer female looks. I read the term “finsexual” somewhere, that would apply. If you are feminine and attractive to me, I don’t really care what gender you are. I met with women and I also met with transgender women. If anything, a transgender woman is even more attractive to me because I simply like peepees. :D
@Battletech_Emily7 күн бұрын
I find it's much easier to find comfort in T4T relationships. I have five partners, only one of them is cis. I don't think I'd ever really try to find another cis partner. I mean... realistically I'm polysaturated at this point (ie. I've hit my maximum amount of partners... I have no more time to split up). In general, it's easier to get along with other trans folk. I feel like I'm more seen and I have to do a lot less explaining about what causes dysphoria, what doesn't, what things (in bed or not) are ok... but with any of my trans partners, that's never been a thing. It's only ever been an issue with my cis partner. Perhaps it's not the same everywhere. From what I've seen in this video, that's likely the case. But you've also been together for over a decade I think? I find when I'm with another trans woman, I hit that level of comfort and understanding immediately. There's no teaching involved. So in that, I feel more comfortable. I feel safer and more seen. I know there'll be less explanations necessary and we'll start off several steps up the comfort ladder.
@LiuGondor7 күн бұрын
Nice music choice. I'm just gonna think of this as a 30 minute long Sam O'Nella video.
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this was pretty cool to see and helped me introspect a lot on my own struggles with relationships!
So happy to hear that! Thank you so much for watching ❤️
I have ideas for a lot of books som are original som are spin-offs I hope I can get them all published
This made me tear up 💖 It feels like it’s retroactively helping that young scared girl I learned to hide deep in the dark actually peek out and see the light just a little more clearly. This experience can be so surreal sometimes, because there are moments where you get to soothe and comfort a version of you from over a decade ago that was trying so hard to just get by, because you know and still are that person on some level, and the profundity of that type of healing is just 🥲 Not sure what part of this video in particular sparked that, or if it’s kinda the emotional stage I’m in, but I really appreciated this
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Also, congratulations on 11k!
Thank youuuu it's wild :')))
I love these videos, and love you two ❤
Aaahhhh you're the absolute sweetest!! Thank you so so much for becoming a member ;A; ❤️
Just found you because your Dating a Cis Person ended up in my recommended videos, and wow it was really cathartic to see another trans-cis wlw couple sharing the emotions and dynamics that can show up in a relationship similar to my own (I’m a trans woman married to a cis woman), so I HAD to see what else you two had to say. This is the second one I’ve watched so far and omg I love you two already, and I’m so excited I found this channel! Can’t wait to catch up on the other videos and I look forward to seeing more in the future!
Oh that's amazing! Thank you so much for your kind words and for watching! So happy it resonates ✨️❤️
I never quite saw me as a man - I was honest with some people and it felt like just a title to make things easier. As I transitioned, I found out I had quite the feeling for heing a woman. I wanted to be one. I had some undescribable discomfort from being shirtless for the longest time. Always blamed me on my dad fat shaming me when I ever so slighly chubby at around 14. Now, even if I still have the same prominent belly I used to get (and it even disappeared as I got older and even skinnier), I love showing my body, as much as I still need to get used to the feeling, and to a bit of embarrassment. I used to not care about clothes, or my appearance in general. First time I let my hair grow was so it became a fluffy ball that didn't need brushing. Now, I love rocking my well-brushed curls, which take quite an effort every morning, and love experimenting with clothes and my appearance. I still go for more masc-leaning fem clothes, but, damn, those were the ones I loved when my friends wore. I definitely got a boost in my multi-year journey of opening myself up now that I'm so much more confident in my image, in who I am, and proud of it. Romantically, I always struggled a lot with getting involved with someone, but I met my current (and first) gf just as I was starting transitioning She has been amazingly supportive and has helped me explore my tender so much more. I love seeing myself as a lesbian (/sapphic-leaning bi woman), and having a lesbian relationship with her. It, for some reason, just feels SO right.
Honestly, that all makes so much sense! So happy to hear you've found someone so supportive ❤️ thank you so much for sharing your perspective!
Whenever I would happen to ask anyone (which I still haven´t) it´d be to know where on your journey you´re at in order to know how much advice or consolation I should seek in you, but since neither of us personally know each other I don´t really think i should or even need to ask.
Yes of course! It makes sense for other trans people to seek out this information. But as you say - coming from strangers, the questions can be quite uncomfortable ^^;
I can’t wait to go to prom so I can have a lot of fun and dance with the man or woman of my dreams and I hope to win prom queen and probably have a Carrie white experience 👸🏼🪣🐷🩸🔥
Drop your Spotify playlists! 🥰
took me ages to get back into a pool... and still makes me scared at times... especially going alone... ... anyway I'll allways get some looks going in... I'm tall, quite muscular, wide shoulders... well perfect swimmers body.. luckily i'm a pretty good and smooth swimmer, and once i swam a couple of pool-length ... there are no more questions asked xD ... well i got really flatterd a few weeks back by a woman asking me how long it took me to get so good at swimming, and it would look so graceful and effordless compared to the men. ... so well sporty trans woman it is ... and i still secretly giggle all the time when yet another guy in the pool tries to keep up with that woman, who needs a quater of the strokes as he does xD ... sometimes i might just go all out a few minutes later :P ... trans life is hard enough most of the times, but there are just priceless moments aswell.
Do you want to have children?
Nope! We're very happily child free 🥰
@@WivesVsWorld That's wonderful. I only asked because you're in a unique situation. Obviously, a transwoman cannot have biological children of her own (yet). Since your partner is a cis woman, that's something that is available to you, I think. Regardless, I'm glad you're happy together. I think you two seem to have a happy and healthy relationship. The world needs more of that. Thanks for this video.
Love it I am constantly asked how does your relationship work?
Yeah, it can become frustrating!
Wow came across this channel. What a refreshing view. I get asked often. It is however no one business.
What do they call it when you identify as highly skeptical you are a human? Im genuinely asking for myself
I don't understand why we are focused on what category of people we are and what's normal for it?
trans-SUS??? couple 🤯
😂❤️
Wow you are both the luckiest woman i the world and I would love to meet someone like you and I have only started transitioning and it is hard when your partner does not support you.
Holy shit! I haven't seen the Girugamesh meme since highschool ^^
Hahaha happy to unlock some memories! 🙌
Thank you for the part on feeling insecure talking about your own sexuality while actually liking the topic otherwise… I could really relate and feel validated by that…especially in some areas of discourse a transwoman can already feel like being seen as a predator by identifying as lesbian…
Exactly, it's such a toxic discourse that can leave some deep scars. I'm glad it resonated. Thank you for watching ❤️
"I love men... you just don't need them to live" God, I LOVE Cher
She knows what's up 🙌
What is CIS? I am a straight male and it's the first time I've heard that term.
It just means that a person is comfortable being the gender they were assigned at birth ^^ so if you were always a boy and feel comfortable being a man, then you're cis!
I have enjoyed your channel and you’re being authentic. I came as trans woman in 2020 and on HRT. Ever since then I became calm. I have written 101 poems. Here’s one of them a passion of mine. Soul Mates Tentatively, I opened up to you with my soul. I feel the calm connection that binds us as whole. This Love we share makes me cry. I beg and beg and wonder why! You have chosen me, me! as tears start to flow. You tenderly embrace me with love, that knows. We stare deeply into our eyes, lost in love. As our hearts open their wings like a dove. Our souls are on fire as our hearts ignite the flames. We are one, unbreakable, for our love will not be tamed. Copyright © Dexter Greener | Year Posted 2024
Such a beautiful poem ❤️ thank you so much for sharing! ✨️
@@WivesVsWorld Thank you very much, I am known as Cassandra or Cassy
Being afraid of being dumped by a new friend, ❤ xxx being us regardless of Orthodoxy
Being Trans is alright now, you look beautiful because some good features carry over ❤ from Petra
We are about who we connect with, our hobbies and interest. What about what made us want to come out?
Hey, awesome video! So happy I found this! Just commenting to let you guys know the music is a little loud. I think if you guys lowered the volume on the music a little bit it would make your speaking much easier to hear.
2:33 smoke OPIUM??????!!!?!?
What else would I smoke with Oscar Wilde?!
Love is love❤️
Anyone who says don’t ask me if I’ve had top or bottom surgery means they definitely have NOT. That’s why they’re so defensive about it. Anyone who’s actually had it is actually pretty proud to tell you that yes they did.
I am not sure how the algorithm found me, but I'm grateful it did. My eldest daughter just came out as gay, I have a trans neice, and one of my daughter's friends has been in a relationship with a trans man for several years. I just want them all to be happy!
Wow there are some really unhinged people out there. Thanks for sharring the comedy gold. Your comentary was wonderful.
There really are! Luckily they can be quite entertaining, haha. Thank you so much for the kind words and for watching ❤️
For me, a lot of attention-grabbing sounds, and even some ambient noise, hold equal weight in my mind, so they tend to get mixed up, eg. if I'm talking to someone, and some other sound is nearby (like traffic noise, or a baby crying), my concentration is split, and I miss what the conversation was about. Because of this, I don't really get into music with lyrics unless they're musically great, and even then, the lyrics often just drown out anyway. Let's be honest though, a LOT of popular songs are just the vocals ontop of the same repeating chords. It's boring. As a result, I don't follow music trends, or what artist is topping what chart. If I listen to anything, it's instrumental in nature, eg. classical, game soundtracks, etc., especially if I have an emotional attachment to it. Like a Dark Souls or Hollow Knight piece will remind me of the fight in the game, and the times I got wiped out by the enemy, or when I finally beat them. It becomes awkward whenever someone asks what music I''m into. I know that they're just making small talk, and are looking for some generic answer, but that's just not something that I can provide.
That makes a lot of sense! And hahah yeah I can imagine that complicates the music question even further 😂
Hey! I found out about your channel 4 days ago while at work and I binged your entire videos from the old ones to the most recent ones, and every video was really entertaining, normally my job is a really boring office job but your videos saved me!, I am a trans girl in a relationship with a cis woman for 4 years and we have known each other for 10, we started our relationship young as well so I was really surprised with all the similarities our relationship has to yours it's like we found our dopplerganger relationship, anyways I really want to let you know that I think you re both so wholesome and pretty and I love your content c:
Awwww what an honor to have kept you company during work! Thank you so much for watching all our videos :') you probably know us better than we know ourselves by now, haha! And that's so wonderful! It's amazing to find kindred spirits ❤️
@@WivesVsWorld 💜
Just found this channel, having watched one of the most recent vlogs, thought I would wind back to the beginning and see how you started...liking it so far, bang goes the weekend!
Aw that's so sweet of you! Hope we can provide some entertainment during the weekend 🥳❤️
I love having 6 outfits
So interesting!
Thank you so much! ❤️
question: you’re both absurdly pretty. how? how do i do that? oh im also a trans girl. i’m just being a little jealous i actually think im cute af.
Oh, you're a cute af trans girl? Sounds like you already know how to be absurdly pretty 😌 haha thank you so much for the kind words ❤️✨️
I love seeing this... i hope my future will be as bright and happy as theirs is right now (im transfem) Thank you for this vid ❤
Thank you for watching ❤️ I hope your future will be bright and beautiful and everything you want ❤️✨️ wish you all the best!!
9:40 into the video I had too pause and ponder... So like, my understanding or interpretation of the question made me think : "Much like how dogs need too sniff butts too understand each other, so too is too be human and ask questions; no matter how "in a person's business it is, or not in a person's business, much like how dogs go about sniffing each other's butts." And since butt sniffing is linked too "business", (because potty humor) a lot of people / commonly accepted too ask questions. There are no dumb questions; only dumb answers, my teacher once told me. But am curios about your takes on this banger, and those that are actively reading this
Thank you Anya for my favourite quote of the year: "Can you call someone an egg if the chicken is already walking around?" ❤🏳⚧
Hahahaaaa I'm glad you liked that one! 😂❤️
I was freaking out when you said Dir En Grey, it has to be a trans woman thing. That made me so happy, I still have a physical copy of the marrow of a bone." The Final is my all-time favorite song. Don't know if you were also fans of X Japan, considering the older style, but omg the validation and euphoria.
Maybe so, at least for me the VK scene was very alluring due to the whole playing with gender presentation thing 😂❤️ I looove X Japan - even got to see them live in London in 2017! 😍❤️
@WivesVsWorld I'm so jealous, I never had the chance to see them. As for vk, that and today's "genderless style" have been inspirational in my clothing designs. It's been hard finding cute stuff, so I make it myself. So good to know creators with such great taste. Glad I could sub.🙂💚
Thank you for sharing and providing representation. I am a queer cis female and my partner identifies as non binary transfem. We are very smitten with each other.
Awww that's adorable! So happy to hear that and happy you're here ❤️ thank you so much for your kind words ✨️
I have boobs as an older man and no one asks if mine are real. I think I'm a B or C cup.
no one ever asks straight people - when did you know you were straight. Maybe we should. Asking this question will shed some light on attitudes. in 1987 I was working at a Hospital making slides for doctors. A book said- most people have specific ideas about what constitutes what is Male and what is Female- biology has its own ideas. I have a gay buddy who is married to.a man. I've known him 2 years and in this time his partner has transitioned to being a woman. This transition is complete in my mind. My frind is happy and still very much in love- so that is what counts.
That's honestly such a good quote! I really like that ❤️
"so you want 3 forms?" "yis :D" I have never felt more seen on that front than just then!!
I'm so happy you relate 🙌✨️
@@WivesVsWorld also made me think of the character Valtraid from sea of stars: he has a twink body and when he rips his magic shirt off it makes him hunk 😂
That's hilarious 😂❤️
I don’t know. It’s always hard to know how I would react in certain situations. But I always try to be respectful and show empathy. I also have ADHD, so I know I can say things I later regret and I am not even aware when I do it. This makes me want to always improve myself and be the best person I can be. So I would probably notice if someone is transgender, although there are some beautiful humans where you can’t tell anymore. It depends, I guess. I was on a journey where I didn’t know if I was gay or straight or what. Also, at the time, this was not as openly discussed as it is now with being neurodivergent and what gender you identify as. So now I would say I am pansexual but I prefer female looks. I read the term “finsexual” somewhere, that would apply. If you are feminine and attractive to me, I don’t really care what gender you are. I met with women and I also met with transgender women. If anything, a transgender woman is even more attractive to me because I simply like peepees. :D
I find it's much easier to find comfort in T4T relationships. I have five partners, only one of them is cis. I don't think I'd ever really try to find another cis partner. I mean... realistically I'm polysaturated at this point (ie. I've hit my maximum amount of partners... I have no more time to split up). In general, it's easier to get along with other trans folk. I feel like I'm more seen and I have to do a lot less explaining about what causes dysphoria, what doesn't, what things (in bed or not) are ok... but with any of my trans partners, that's never been a thing. It's only ever been an issue with my cis partner. Perhaps it's not the same everywhere. From what I've seen in this video, that's likely the case. But you've also been together for over a decade I think? I find when I'm with another trans woman, I hit that level of comfort and understanding immediately. There's no teaching involved. So in that, I feel more comfortable. I feel safer and more seen. I know there'll be less explanations necessary and we'll start off several steps up the comfort ladder.
Nice music choice. I'm just gonna think of this as a 30 minute long Sam O'Nella video.