I am glad i found you girl way to go. My 2 older ones go to school but my 4 years old is struggling so he is always with me. Thanks girl
@Hystericalicy Жыл бұрын
I miss the childrens farm. Btw i also live in Abbotsbury
@jwilloughby6175 Жыл бұрын
Are you even active anymore
@misse3971 Жыл бұрын
Mine are 20 months old and 9 months old ( there is a gap of 11 months and 3 weeks between my daughters) and the guilt is still present 😢 I think will be there forever. About going out😅 with time became easier, faster. What works for me, for exemplar, when we go to day care with the older one: I wake them up only with 30 min before we go out! Like this, there will be no time to disagree, to play, to argue or something else 😂 I just say: come baby, we go to day care, we need to hurry a little bit, the kids are waiting for you 😁 And, most of the times, it works, and she’ll very cooperative.
@marclabrie6027 Жыл бұрын
Bad views on circumcision
@whiterose9299 Жыл бұрын
Best vlog by far, thank you x
@TheMennomilist Жыл бұрын
Even waiting 6 months after a reversal is definitely hard. We just found out after 4 years of a vasectomy reversal. . I literally gave up a couple years ago :: shrugs :: It was getting far too hard. I know this is an old video, but congratulations. It is SO good that you didn't talk to people that you were trying. I told people and literally had people check up on me every single month in the first year of trying. You did well how you talked about this. I am only 6 weeks pregnant and so hopeful I will carry and not lose it!!
@katiealmond1207 Жыл бұрын
Honey your organs and things are NOT taken out of your body during a c section!... You are in pain from the incision and your stomach muscles healing. You MUST keep up with your pain medications and not allow yourself to fall behind on them. Managing pain is essential to the healing process...
@KO-hf6bl2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing you frame this so positively. I had a similar vbac where I begged for a Cs and was ignored. I am still in therapy for it now - 4 years later and don't feel brave enough to have another baby even though I wanted one. It just shows how perspective is everything. I view it as the worst day of my life and feel utterly damaged by it mentally and physically. And yet you seem so light hearted and okay about it. I wish I could be like you! How was your recovery down below? I couldn't sit for months. I was just the same as you - no prep and went with the flow with first early baby boy. Had emcs and was well after. Got brainwashed by all the natural birth hype and went for a vbac - did all the prep in the world and had baby girl on due date with awful delivery. Things worked out better when I had done no prep at all! Do u have u plan on more children?
@KO-hf6bl2 жыл бұрын
I also did hypno with my second and really regret it actually because I feel it brainwashed me to think all could be fine! Such different perspectives.
@KO-hf6bl2 жыл бұрын
I also found the vbac recovery way longer.
@selamembaye76182 жыл бұрын
Cogra sis you get pregnant after 7 month that means is it possible to have vbac before 2 year after cs most dr advace 2 year what do u support
@FlourishinMotherhood2 жыл бұрын
Yeah absolutely. That isn’t advice given in the U.K. out medical professionals will support you no matter when you got pregnant. X
@selamembaye76182 жыл бұрын
Thanks sister what was the reason for your frist c section
@AlicjaRaczko2 жыл бұрын
I remember having one baby and I came back from a walk and I didn't know what to put my hands in. When I entered the door, I was greeted by the cat's vomit scattered all over the hall on the wooden floor, my son started to cry, and I felt that I was about to pee. I wonder what it will be like when the second one is born 😆
@rubylouis3953 жыл бұрын
Its a shame you don't post anymore
@FlourishinMotherhood3 жыл бұрын
I’ll be back soon. 😘
@rubylouis3953 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to that :)
@jwilloughby6175 Жыл бұрын
@@rubylouis395 and year on still no posts or uploads
@suseq9493 жыл бұрын
Why did your doctor not give you local anesthetic ( injection of lidocaine) before both the episiotomy and after while suturing? That is standard practice for stitches in any part of the body. I hate that some women are suffering during repair of birth lacerations. There is no reason for it. Some doctors are absolutely awful. My heart goes out to you.
@MrJamiez3 жыл бұрын
2:21 children aren't everything in a relationship? Children don't make a relationship whole? Surely not.
@Flaaaurie3 жыл бұрын
I had a horrendous first birth which ended in.an emergency c section (under a general) and a very poorly baby - I elected to have a section second time round and it was the best experience and I do not regret it or feel I missed out on a natural birth even though I had always wanted to experience that. Happy with how it went and I think I made the right decision, I also did not accept a date for my section I decided to wait until labour just incase I changed my mind :) not doing it again though as it was actually really scary but an experience that I will try never to forget
@zoyare3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, such an insightful video
@Xanxer3 жыл бұрын
I had a first emergency c-section, my boy was also face down but facing my spine and I had a 3 day labor that stalled halfway through. I was so tired. Trying for vbac in a few weeks, here's hoping!
@amandatrotter89743 жыл бұрын
All of this true. That lack of time is definitely with the toddler a reality check.
@randirallo82553 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story 💙 My husband got his VR in November 2019 which was about 7 years after his vasectomy. He's had a "low" sperm count about 6 months afterwards. I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2015, so we've been trying but no luck. We looked into IVF, but in the US its cost is not an option. This video has given me some hope. Although, I'm 10 years older than you...
@susmismart78403 жыл бұрын
I have 5mnth baby ..when will be cure lactose intolerance how many mnth??? LI are dangerous???shall I give breastmilk for my baby
@DrManhaten943 жыл бұрын
I know this video isn't the most current but my husband and I are planning on trying for another baby next month! Our son is currently 5 months and I want them close in age! Any additional advice\feedback would be wonderful! Thank-you!
@nathaliemoraffah8363 жыл бұрын
How did you prep your son for Ellen’s arrival, since he was so little?
@amystokes1533 жыл бұрын
Loved the raw and honest video! New subscriber here and fellow mummy vlogger saying hi! Looking forward to watching more of your videos :)
@ukmum51843 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh you have the most beautiful children x
@spectacular67713 жыл бұрын
Wow it’s help my frnd
@tatianna82144 жыл бұрын
I have a 19 month old and a 7th month old and oh boy its an adjustment like the tantrums and jealousy is the worst for my 19th month old other than that they are now best friends they play together. They eat together or more likey she steals his food. Lol
@EllyandNelly4 жыл бұрын
Literally when you talk to your kids it's like I'm watching myself! 😂 We have the same life 💁🏼♀️ I just watched an old video of yours - then clicked on this one - and can't believe they're both so big already! Madness Xx
@chloebrett37184 жыл бұрын
loved this vlog! im also a stay at home mummy of 2 :) glad i stumbled across your channel :)
@1stubble4 жыл бұрын
Can you please do more Speed Cleaning videos? I really love ❤️ your Speed Cleaning!!
@mummytotwogirls29664 жыл бұрын
I'm glad its not just my daughter who eats biscuits with butter 😂 love your vlogs ❤️
@1stubble4 жыл бұрын
Love your speed cleaning, this one was a little to fast! Can you please do more?
@notjustamom79034 жыл бұрын
There's always good days and not so easy days he he you never know when you have little ones😂
@notjustamom79034 жыл бұрын
Awww your little ones are adorable❤️
@victoriaaldridge87004 жыл бұрын
is it a BOY💙 or a GIRL💜
@olyshare4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking about this, I never intended to bed share, but its the only way my son sleeps.
@NinthJewel4 жыл бұрын
Are sweeps painful? Glad to know vbacs are allowed in the uk
@flatcapcrazy4 жыл бұрын
My sons called Rory too 😊
@shamimashimu92734 жыл бұрын
When did you get pregnant after c section delivery? I mean how many years did you wait for vbac?
@FlourishinMotherhood4 жыл бұрын
shamima shimu very quickly! I fell pregnant when my first baby was 7 months old. I had her when he was 16 months old x
@sushriyapradhan70383 жыл бұрын
How interval your first and second baby
@sarah2009sara3 жыл бұрын
7 months
@sweaver864 жыл бұрын
I’m having my baby in less than 2 weeks !
@nnijah_k80714 жыл бұрын
You sound so negative and ungrateful😞
@sabrinabordonaro99194 жыл бұрын
The struggle is so real. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year and a half after his vasectomy reversal. He has two children with other women and I have none. I'm also 7 years younger than he is and am only 24 with no complications on my side. He, however, has had two sperm analyses done and both came back with poor morphology. :( I am so disheartened, but when I hear stories like this I feel a little bit encouraged. :) Thank you for sharing!
@anisanahid30384 жыл бұрын
I wish I never clicked on this video shes so negative, the nurse is commenting on her babies eyelashes and she takes offence. Do not watch will really put you off
@katiealmond1207 Жыл бұрын
Right? This is one personal experience of an emergency c section situation.... I hate fear mongering videos. Women might watch this knowing nothing about the process and be scared out of their minds. Most times hospitals prioritize delayed cord clamping, skin to skin, allowing mother's to have their moment with the baby with the exception of the baby being unhealthy or needing immediate professional care... I go in for a planned c section next week and I've watched and listen to dozens of videos and doctors relaying what will happen. I have never heard of home injections to prevent blood clotting. I believe that too is a case by case based treatment... Just don't rely on this video for anything...
@Mayie02194 жыл бұрын
So much attitude and negativity on this video! Dislike!
@scalpandthings4 жыл бұрын
Loving all your vids atm 😊 Do you think you will ever have baby number 3? Xxx
@kyliesaunders77324 жыл бұрын
I had my second C section 9 weeks ago(first was an emergency second elective) I discussed the surgery with my OB she explained the process to me.An incision is made through the uterus,no organs sliced and diced or internal parts placed outside the body during the procedure which is a common misconception 😂😂I loved both of my ceasers,speedy recovery I guess every experience is different x
@chloelaylane86714 жыл бұрын
I have two girls a 1 year old and a 2 day old!
@MarionMeggers3 жыл бұрын
That’ll be me in about 9 months. How is it going for you having them so close in age?
@hannahyaxley81224 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! ❤️ I’m due in sept with my second! Had a traumatic Labour with my first last September so nice to hear it can be a little more positive! Nice to see your doing well with the age gap too as mine is about the same 😝 xx
@larasmith50445 жыл бұрын
Love Your accent! My 4 year old still needs mommy! So glad I found a way to not miss anything
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I am glad i found you girl way to go. My 2 older ones go to school but my 4 years old is struggling so he is always with me. Thanks girl
I miss the childrens farm. Btw i also live in Abbotsbury
Are you even active anymore
Mine are 20 months old and 9 months old ( there is a gap of 11 months and 3 weeks between my daughters) and the guilt is still present 😢 I think will be there forever. About going out😅 with time became easier, faster. What works for me, for exemplar, when we go to day care with the older one: I wake them up only with 30 min before we go out! Like this, there will be no time to disagree, to play, to argue or something else 😂 I just say: come baby, we go to day care, we need to hurry a little bit, the kids are waiting for you 😁 And, most of the times, it works, and she’ll very cooperative.
Bad views on circumcision
Best vlog by far, thank you x
Even waiting 6 months after a reversal is definitely hard. We just found out after 4 years of a vasectomy reversal. . I literally gave up a couple years ago :: shrugs :: It was getting far too hard. I know this is an old video, but congratulations. It is SO good that you didn't talk to people that you were trying. I told people and literally had people check up on me every single month in the first year of trying. You did well how you talked about this. I am only 6 weeks pregnant and so hopeful I will carry and not lose it!!
Honey your organs and things are NOT taken out of your body during a c section!... You are in pain from the incision and your stomach muscles healing. You MUST keep up with your pain medications and not allow yourself to fall behind on them. Managing pain is essential to the healing process...
It's amazing you frame this so positively. I had a similar vbac where I begged for a Cs and was ignored. I am still in therapy for it now - 4 years later and don't feel brave enough to have another baby even though I wanted one. It just shows how perspective is everything. I view it as the worst day of my life and feel utterly damaged by it mentally and physically. And yet you seem so light hearted and okay about it. I wish I could be like you! How was your recovery down below? I couldn't sit for months. I was just the same as you - no prep and went with the flow with first early baby boy. Had emcs and was well after. Got brainwashed by all the natural birth hype and went for a vbac - did all the prep in the world and had baby girl on due date with awful delivery. Things worked out better when I had done no prep at all! Do u have u plan on more children?
I also did hypno with my second and really regret it actually because I feel it brainwashed me to think all could be fine! Such different perspectives.
I also found the vbac recovery way longer.
Cogra sis you get pregnant after 7 month that means is it possible to have vbac before 2 year after cs most dr advace 2 year what do u support
Yeah absolutely. That isn’t advice given in the U.K. out medical professionals will support you no matter when you got pregnant. X
Thanks sister what was the reason for your frist c section
I remember having one baby and I came back from a walk and I didn't know what to put my hands in. When I entered the door, I was greeted by the cat's vomit scattered all over the hall on the wooden floor, my son started to cry, and I felt that I was about to pee. I wonder what it will be like when the second one is born 😆
Its a shame you don't post anymore
I’ll be back soon. 😘
Looking forward to that :)
@@rubylouis395 and year on still no posts or uploads
Why did your doctor not give you local anesthetic ( injection of lidocaine) before both the episiotomy and after while suturing? That is standard practice for stitches in any part of the body. I hate that some women are suffering during repair of birth lacerations. There is no reason for it. Some doctors are absolutely awful. My heart goes out to you.
2:21 children aren't everything in a relationship? Children don't make a relationship whole? Surely not.
I had a horrendous first birth which ended in.an emergency c section (under a general) and a very poorly baby - I elected to have a section second time round and it was the best experience and I do not regret it or feel I missed out on a natural birth even though I had always wanted to experience that. Happy with how it went and I think I made the right decision, I also did not accept a date for my section I decided to wait until labour just incase I changed my mind :) not doing it again though as it was actually really scary but an experience that I will try never to forget
Thank you for this, such an insightful video
I had a first emergency c-section, my boy was also face down but facing my spine and I had a 3 day labor that stalled halfway through. I was so tired. Trying for vbac in a few weeks, here's hoping!
All of this true. That lack of time is definitely with the toddler a reality check.
Thank you for sharing your story 💙 My husband got his VR in November 2019 which was about 7 years after his vasectomy. He's had a "low" sperm count about 6 months afterwards. I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2015, so we've been trying but no luck. We looked into IVF, but in the US its cost is not an option. This video has given me some hope. Although, I'm 10 years older than you...
I have 5mnth baby ..when will be cure lactose intolerance how many mnth??? LI are dangerous???shall I give breastmilk for my baby
I know this video isn't the most current but my husband and I are planning on trying for another baby next month! Our son is currently 5 months and I want them close in age! Any additional advice\feedback would be wonderful! Thank-you!
How did you prep your son for Ellen’s arrival, since he was so little?
Loved the raw and honest video! New subscriber here and fellow mummy vlogger saying hi! Looking forward to watching more of your videos :)
Oh my gosh you have the most beautiful children x
Wow it’s help my frnd
I have a 19 month old and a 7th month old and oh boy its an adjustment like the tantrums and jealousy is the worst for my 19th month old other than that they are now best friends they play together. They eat together or more likey she steals his food. Lol
Literally when you talk to your kids it's like I'm watching myself! 😂 We have the same life 💁🏼♀️ I just watched an old video of yours - then clicked on this one - and can't believe they're both so big already! Madness Xx
loved this vlog! im also a stay at home mummy of 2 :) glad i stumbled across your channel :)
Can you please do more Speed Cleaning videos? I really love ❤️ your Speed Cleaning!!
I'm glad its not just my daughter who eats biscuits with butter 😂 love your vlogs ❤️
Love your speed cleaning, this one was a little to fast! Can you please do more?
There's always good days and not so easy days he he you never know when you have little ones😂
Awww your little ones are adorable❤️
is it a BOY💙 or a GIRL💜
Thanks for talking about this, I never intended to bed share, but its the only way my son sleeps.
Are sweeps painful? Glad to know vbacs are allowed in the uk
My sons called Rory too 😊
When did you get pregnant after c section delivery? I mean how many years did you wait for vbac?
shamima shimu very quickly! I fell pregnant when my first baby was 7 months old. I had her when he was 16 months old x
How interval your first and second baby
7 months
I’m having my baby in less than 2 weeks !
You sound so negative and ungrateful😞
The struggle is so real. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year and a half after his vasectomy reversal. He has two children with other women and I have none. I'm also 7 years younger than he is and am only 24 with no complications on my side. He, however, has had two sperm analyses done and both came back with poor morphology. :( I am so disheartened, but when I hear stories like this I feel a little bit encouraged. :) Thank you for sharing!
I wish I never clicked on this video shes so negative, the nurse is commenting on her babies eyelashes and she takes offence. Do not watch will really put you off
Right? This is one personal experience of an emergency c section situation.... I hate fear mongering videos. Women might watch this knowing nothing about the process and be scared out of their minds. Most times hospitals prioritize delayed cord clamping, skin to skin, allowing mother's to have their moment with the baby with the exception of the baby being unhealthy or needing immediate professional care... I go in for a planned c section next week and I've watched and listen to dozens of videos and doctors relaying what will happen. I have never heard of home injections to prevent blood clotting. I believe that too is a case by case based treatment... Just don't rely on this video for anything...
So much attitude and negativity on this video! Dislike!
Loving all your vids atm 😊 Do you think you will ever have baby number 3? Xxx
I had my second C section 9 weeks ago(first was an emergency second elective) I discussed the surgery with my OB she explained the process to me.An incision is made through the uterus,no organs sliced and diced or internal parts placed outside the body during the procedure which is a common misconception 😂😂I loved both of my ceasers,speedy recovery I guess every experience is different x
I have two girls a 1 year old and a 2 day old!
That’ll be me in about 9 months. How is it going for you having them so close in age?
Thank you for sharing! ❤️ I’m due in sept with my second! Had a traumatic Labour with my first last September so nice to hear it can be a little more positive! Nice to see your doing well with the age gap too as mine is about the same 😝 xx
Love Your accent! My 4 year old still needs mommy! So glad I found a way to not miss anything
You have a beautiful face
Yay go Rory!! Love your vlogs xxx