Coach Menachem Bernfeld

Coach Menachem Bernfeld

Live the life you are meant to live! Take back control of the areas of your, Marriage, relationships, self-awareness, self-growth, education, all the areas in life that need to flourish and grow.
Listen to Coach Menachem how he helps people from where they are to go to the next level in life.
Watch every Sunday night to the zoom "Let's get real with Coach Menachem" Show at 9:30 pm where we bring on every week a different speaker from the Jewish community in all different topics to help us grow in life.

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  • @MarciaB12
    @MarciaB12Күн бұрын

    Thank you so much. I didnt catch the name of your program.

  • @Masmidah1
    @Masmidah1Күн бұрын

    Anyone who is open and honest about their mental health these days is like someone who invested in Apple stock in the 1980s. In 10-20 years from now, this will be normal conversations. But those that are doing the work now - have the ability to live freely until it is the norm. What wealth! What growth!

  • @usherparnes8388
    @usherparnes83882 күн бұрын

    This is as Let’s Get Real as it gets. This shiur / program opens up our eyes to deep pain and fighting for survival and seeing internal strenth and triumph. This is a program that should be heard by every single person.

  • @pragmaticliving9420
    @pragmaticliving94202 күн бұрын

    I'm in the first fourth/fifth part of this and I have to confess I was pretty much ASLEEP until the day before Pesach (Passover) and after being oyver an aveirah (sin) something completely snapped inside me. I don't know why that particular day or why then because nothing extreme happened to wake me up from my slumber of spiritual emptiness it was like Hashem (G-d) Himself did me a HUGE kindness and woke me up I don't know if it zchut (merits) avot (of our forefathers) some personal merit, a prayer, I have no idea but what I do know was I suddenly had a STRONG clarity and A STRONGER urge for so much more clarity and I've been reflecting and buying seforim lots of seforim the Nesivos Shalom ztl and so many other holy seforim and I can't get enough and I'm SO GRATEFUL for the yeshuah (salvation) and so broken at the same time of everyone else the confusion that they're in, the darkness, the falsehood, the emptiness the matrix I cry as I write these words and hold myself back from crying at other times. The Torah, Yisrael, and Hashem are one (Zohar) I hope we all can wake up soon and experience the happiness, clarity, peace, unity, and most importantly the light/presence of our Father our King Hashem Yishtabach Shemo La'ad and we greet the Mashiach and rebuilding of the 3rd Beit Hamikdash bimhera beyameinu! 🙏✡️☮️❤️

  • @zahavalist9540
    @zahavalist95403 күн бұрын

    Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share my story and experience

  • @Masmidah1
    @Masmidah1Күн бұрын

    Zehava! You are so fantastic! You have no idea how many people you are touching! And empowering!

  • @MarciaB12
    @MarciaB12Күн бұрын

    What a wonderful wonderful show today. I can relate so well.

  • @MiriamGross-ed3eu
    @MiriamGross-ed3eu3 күн бұрын

    Can't wait for IFS you said next week . IFS is so so amazing looking forward. Thank you so much

  • @AutisticBarbie
    @AutisticBarbie6 күн бұрын

    🌷

  • @annamelamed981
    @annamelamed9817 күн бұрын

    Thank you Better than any phycologist and all for free

  • @jacobfreedman1008
    @jacobfreedman10087 күн бұрын

    Epic message from an epic yid!

  • @benrubin5509
    @benrubin55099 күн бұрын

    Dr. Rabbi Epstein for president!!

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewall10 күн бұрын

    Enjoyed this very much.thank u.

  • @NavesNiche
    @NavesNiche10 күн бұрын

    This resonates deeply, thank you for this video

  • @milivojelancuski2391
    @milivojelancuski239112 күн бұрын

    Taoci nisu u gazi nego van Palestine, to što ste našli u Gazi to je varka da ne potopite podzemne tunele- Njima su taoci dragoceni za zamenu i kriju ih van Palestine. Oni vode prljavi rat- Pozdrav i neka Gospod spase Izrael i borce IDF. a ovi što se mole a mladi njih treba poslati da brane Izrael- pozdeav.

  • @avishaizarifpour7627
    @avishaizarifpour762715 күн бұрын

    This was unbelievable! Incredible chizuk from Rav Zucker!

  • @Etobicoke67
    @Etobicoke6716 күн бұрын

    Have you dealt with child abuse, and how to recover from its damaging effect on childhood development. Also facing the far reaching effects into adulthood, especially if the abuse was from a parent?

  • @Ben-mf4go
    @Ben-mf4go17 күн бұрын

    You ever consider making “Shorts” clips out of these long podcasts? It’s too hard to watch such long things all the time

  • @MiriamGross-ed3eu
    @MiriamGross-ed3eu17 күн бұрын

    Every single week you amaze me to next level with such amazing and practical speakers. Hashem should cont. Sending you the right people to help klal yisroel in this generation.

  • @andyemediatech
    @andyemediatech19 күн бұрын

    THIS DESERVES A FOLLOW UP

  • @andyemediatech
    @andyemediatech19 күн бұрын

    Bout time this was addressed. Overdue. Thank you. Staying single for 1000s of reasons. Mother in laws often expect the wife to “fix” their sons. Women told their depression is because they are single when they may need mental health counseling.

  • @charlesbalcher173
    @charlesbalcher17321 күн бұрын

    Engaging

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewall21 күн бұрын

    Thank u coach❤🎉

  • @rebeccacarroll3554
    @rebeccacarroll355421 күн бұрын

    Thank you Coach!

  • @Ben-mf4go
    @Ben-mf4go24 күн бұрын

    The “soothe first” approach, works for dealing with a wife as well.

  • @Etobicoke67
    @Etobicoke6729 күн бұрын

    Autism is an emotional and social learning difficulty from a brain structure disorder, not a mental illness. Emotional ill health in people with Asperger's syndrome/ high IQ autism is caused by ignorance and dismissal of this fact and being forced to mask their emotional and social difficulties. In Israel the psychologists do a brain scan during assessments for Autism to see the size and shape of the amygdala and hippocampus. Your amygdala is a small part of your brain, but it has a big job. It's a major processing center for emotions. It also links your emotions to many other brain abilities, especially memories, learning and your senses. Like many parts of the brain's limbic system, the hippocampus is involved in memory, learning, and emotion. Its largest job is to hold short-term memories and transfer them to long-term storage in our brains. It also plays a role in emotional processing, including anxiety and avoidance behaviors. Also in my experience schizophrenia and bipolar are often symptoms of childhood traumas. The DSM should be a signpost not just for labelling and medicating people to get them "functioning" and appear "normal" in order to "get a shidduch" as if applying for a job. Most families do not want to look at the possibility that one member's symptoms are the result of the family's dysfunction, neglect or abuse, maybe using strict and impersonal Torah observance to cover up the problems.

  • @ruthduffield5778
    @ruthduffield577829 күн бұрын

    Can I have a session/discussion with you guys? I’m in Melbourne Australia. 🙏

  • @letsgettserious
    @letsgettseriousАй бұрын

    54:48 this man has too much arrogance to be a therapist

  • @Masmidah1
    @Masmidah123 күн бұрын

    This is such a crucial and important episode. Yasher koach for the insight

  • @teresacastillo1783
    @teresacastillo1783Ай бұрын

    lack of bananas causes anxiety dog helps too anxiety attacks cia mind controlling❤

  • @Shidduchcoach
    @ShidduchcoachАй бұрын

    Dr. Hollander is a rare breed, not afraid to speak the truth. Having worked with some of his former patients, I know that he is also an excellent practitioner

  • @hindybertram1216
    @hindybertram1216Ай бұрын

    Lots of good info here; I’m not sure that autism and ADHD should be lumped together with schizophrenia or bipolar

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewallАй бұрын

    Omg!!! What amazing info u r giving!!!!

  • @Jessiekyla-wd8rf
    @Jessiekyla-wd8rfАй бұрын

    Rabbi.. I was one of those kids that rebelled against their parents. We healed.. through grandchildren, mostly, and my own emotional realizations. I’m back now ✡️ Thank you for this, I listened many times.

  • @jacuzzihot
    @jacuzzihotАй бұрын

    All Rabbis are liars. Lying about Chosen People hoax, promulgated by lying Jews, but the lies were apparently so popular they just keep on being parroted by a seemingly infinite army of Rabbis. Dressed up like the wizard in Lord of the Rings, which is also fantasy, but has at least entertainment value and does not purport to have an element of truth. Why they keep on appearing everywhere in youtube? How I block any channels related to Rabbis? If you guys keep on paying the Rabbi, you get even more BS spoonfed, if you like the lies that you hear.

  • @rudeb7
    @rudeb7Ай бұрын

    Amen to Judy Knopf! ein od milvado.

  • @rudeb7
    @rudeb7Ай бұрын

    What Rabbi Greenberg says about staying in America is true of Chabad rabbis who have a mission to stay wherever their people are. Everyone else, if they can or if they want, could move to Israel, and if enough go, change the world. Israel does not need the U.S.

  • @rudeb7
    @rudeb7Ай бұрын

    or Mexico!

  • @theingridaria
    @theingridariaАй бұрын

    👑❤️‍🔥✡️

  • @jmvmuligande727
    @jmvmuligande727Ай бұрын

    Glory to God in the highest for your quick recovery. Welcome back, Father , we missed.

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewallАй бұрын

    38minutes in i almost didnt listen and then i hear him speaking my voice .omg❤❤❤❤❤❤im in west palm beach.

  • @thesoulmateconnection
    @thesoulmateconnectionАй бұрын

    The Gentile can help you see that what is one, is one. I am not Jewish, but I see Him in my image. We all need an image to see ourselves. What you know, we know and vise versa. Your anxiety, I feel it. What you think, I think. It is how we know. We are married to God. We are ONE. What is that? It is your bomb!! It I a love bomb! Male and female are energy. We are His image to each other. Please let us help you. You are not alone 🙏🙏🙏

  • @thesoulmateconnection
    @thesoulmateconnectionАй бұрын

    If I can just give my vote, I am not Jewish. About 5 years ago I started writing posts that I am a Gentile with a Jewish heart. I am a Gentile, you are a Jew. These 5yrs have revealed tons of revelation about both sides. Really, we do not see each other and that is the saddest truth that we must see. We have BOTH been rejecting each other since the beginning of time. To say one ill word about the others God is saying your God is bad and my God is the true God. There is our war. The true God is that we are all the image of God. We all see Him in our image. If the Jew rejects his image, you reject God. That comes back to the self. The challenge I about which God is better. The challenge is to see the God we know in our image. Torah is our love and our story. We are here to live it. We are here to be examples of God. The challenge is to love the other so they will see God. We need an image because we all are created in an image. We can only be who we are. We are looking for acceptance, not constant rejection. Since I have been on this road, I am gaslit by Jews and nonjews alike. Because I won't pick a side, I am hated even more than you. So, this really is a simple fix. We have to surrender to see that God is ONE. Masculine and feminine, He created us BOTH in ONE. May we see Him in our image 🙏

  • @wesleycurryii3341
    @wesleycurryii3341Ай бұрын

    JEWISH PROPHECIES: Bad boom; Boom; mark of the ten: the black: death; War; Javol: Hell

  • @wesleycurryii3341
    @wesleycurryii3341Ай бұрын

    Your TOY TV Show is ALL mix. There is no blend in it. Guess who I am? Hint: I gave Noah the plum. I speak and interpret every language known to mankind, I have the DOVE over my head that was on Noahs Ark, it is the Key to the house of David written in isaiah 22.

  • @wesleycurryii3341
    @wesleycurryii3341Ай бұрын

    TELLING THE VISION FROM JESUS (of the foot cut off on cankered gold and silver that did not bleed (JAMES 5) is HOW the 144,000 shall be sealed in their foreheads, and in no other way. ---- In scripture (KJV) the 144,000 are The noise of the cry of the fishgate, the 12 tribes of Israel, 12,000 in each tribe. The Government of Israel. The REMNANT. -----JESUS CHRIST appeared to you all (7) Seven Times and you say He did not appear to you. Jesus Christ spoke to all of you and you say He did not speak to you in the Holy Spirit saying: TELL THE VISION, TELL THE VISION, TELL THE VISION, TELL THE VISION AND YOU SHALL NOT NEED THE MARK. TELL THE VISION AND YOU SHALL HEAL WITHOUT MONEY. NO TIME TO TALK ALLAH? YOU WANT WAR (Said Jesus in the HOLY SPIRIT to you ALL) ------ Jesus appeared to the 144,000 young virgin children giving them these words (Prophecies) Bad Boom, Boom, Mark of the 10, The Black, Death, War, Javol, Hell .------ Bad Boom is (Ezekial) The Wheel in the middle of the wheel [A Nuke in a green volvo in Chicago} -----BOOM (Ezekial) Fire infolding in itself. The bad boom in Chicago shall detonate in Marina City Towers and all in Chicago shall evacuate that city, I have seen it with my own two eyes and met the four engineers that built it. To help you I told the FBI everything I know about this, but like you all they refused to listen. -----HELL begins that moment the nuke in Chicago explodes. It will not concuss much, but it shall saturate the city with radiation and melt one of the two twin towers called Marina city. ALL in Chicago shall be forced to evacuate taking nothing with them. When it explodes US GOVT shall blame Russia and nuke Russia shall immediately respond by sending Nuclear Missiles against WASHINGTON D.C. NEW YORK CITY, (ATLANTA?) and not surprisingly HUNTINGTON WV where I live. I told the VIISON from JESUS and shall not be harmed by it. -----. MARK OF THE TEN (The OMNI branded Barcode Mark of satan comes with temptation of $32,523. The OMNI MARK and OMNI MONEY shall not prosper --------THE BLACK: All who take the OMNI mark shall get a skin disease revealing the ashes (DEATH) in their souls as gray scabs that itch on those faces and loins and bodies: ------- DEATH: The unwashed ashes in your souls, JESUS revealed this to all of you. ----------JAVOL: The enforcers of the Mark of the beast, the OMNI. At first the OMNI will be taken by the worshippers of money, but eventually CHINA shall see America weakened by the destruction of its capitol and from 32 Submarines off the California coast shall launch hundreds of Nuclear Missiles aimed at 50 targets. The 50 Targets are all the United States Capitol Cities. China is THE LEVIATHAN in scripture, and shall overthrow the US GOVT. In the invasion, Chinese military shall go door to door throughout America relocating all people. There shall be famine and the Chinese military shall take all the children and process them in slaughter houses and feed them back to those marked with the OMNI MARK in bags 'labeled' Tuna and Chicken. Jesus sent you a MIRACLE of FOOD when I asked HIM to that I told the vision of the valley, HE heard my prayer and sent you food. You continue to deny this. TELL THE VISION AND YOU SHALL NOT NEED THE MARK. ------WAR: You are holding WAR agains JESUS right now by not telling the vision of the valley, ------- the vision with the ORANGE RED in the middle of the lower dark green leaves on the palm trees on the right side of the valley of decision. ------------NONE of the 144,000 are grown adults and the 144,000 speak ONLY when the HOLY SPIRIT of JESUS CHRIST tells them what to say. They do not speak to their own parents nor to any of you because you do not want to listen. The 144,000 are all ABOVE YOU. I am chosen by JESUS to gather all the 12 Tribes of Israel, those young children who NEVER use or watch TV. We go to Meggido for the final battle against SATAN at the end of the seven years of HELL soon to begin. (Say I am a nut, but you have seen visions from JESUS showing all this. And ask yourself, at the end of the seven years of HELL who has fallen? And who is standing unharmed, and HOW? me if you wish. I shall be sent by JESUS to visit each and every person on earth, without TV, to help you to TELL THE VISION FROM JESUS. Here is a LINK to a FILM I made describing the VISION you all did see, and what its interpretation is.kzread.info/dash/bejne/q3WJ1JKNe9m3ZbA.htmlsi=-Rsbdt-7nBHMagv-

  • @Etobicoke67
    @Etobicoke67Ай бұрын

    My hard work over a period of 34 years has attracted people I sense Hashem has provided for mè to learn from, good and painful experiences, not all Jewish and not all observant of Torah. But I am learning via trauma therapy to reintegrated dissociated parts of my personality which split off to survive chronic traumas of sexual, physical and emotional abuse from my late father and emotional/social neglect from my late mother. Also I am finding out Hashem is my Abba and Ima and transfer my need for others to mentor me, to Him. I am recovering from generational child abuse on my Dad's Gentile christian family and generational abuse from society for being Jewish. My Mom hid being Jewish from society after her parents died by 1950 and hid it from me until found out age 14 from my dad's Mom as if it was a shameful secret. She married into an anti Jewish family, although my Dad rebelled against them by marrying her. They tested Mom by saying bad things about Jews. No Rabbi has been able to mentor me because my experience of life is so out of their depth, but I believe Hashem has led individuals, Jewish and not Jewish, as signs along the way to healing with the help of therapists who have understood the various stages of healing I was in at the time. Experiences have helped when I have tried when my child dissociated selves have felt safe. These include positive and negative experiences I was not allowed to try as a kid by my Dad to stop me getting to know others and reveal his bad behavior, and my Mom for fear of doing wrong due to Dad's bullying and control.

  • @ruchamatwersky1328
    @ruchamatwersky1328Ай бұрын

    Wow this is so validating meaningful and clarifying. Thank you so much Rabbi Taub for this powerful talk.

  • @chanazeiler2950
    @chanazeiler2950Ай бұрын

    Very insightful and very appreciative of this video and content

  • @morehn
    @morehnАй бұрын

    It's a result of excessive fear of sticking out so it snaps back eventually. The Modern Orthodox world tries to do the opposite. They try to blend in because they grew up to excessively stick out.

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewallАй бұрын

    I'll try to listen in Sunday night

  • @kariv722
    @kariv722Ай бұрын

    ❤ six monthes of worldwide abuse later, of dancing to the treacherous nations tunes, what would be the rabbi's update on this video?

  • @cynthiaa.doorson628
    @cynthiaa.doorson628Ай бұрын

    DEAR PROFESSOR, Misophonia You should (also) cure with meanwhile LISTENING TO YOUR FAVORITE MUSIC. 👂🦻🎻🎨🎧🎶🎵🎼 BE GOOD AS YOU SHOULD 🕎