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Hi, my name is Ashley! On this channel, I create content for busy parents who want to learn practical tips and advice for implementing Montessori at home with their children. Thanks for watching!

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  • @relentlessrhythm2774
    @relentlessrhythm27742 сағат бұрын

    This explains why my siblings hated me. I was anxious of being punished so I was the "good" one.

  • @amandas633
    @amandas6334 сағат бұрын

    Some people go no time for cleaning education cooking shopping being nice to each other and having a sweet home nice mom and babies clean warm healthy and strong

  • @amandas633
    @amandas6334 сағат бұрын

    Yes we do this

  • @chynalove6712
    @chynalove6712Күн бұрын

    Awesome

  • @1987tritan
    @1987tritanКүн бұрын

    My 13 month old tries to eat ingredients during meal prep. Any advice?

  • @user-kg4eg7fm4k
    @user-kg4eg7fm4k2 күн бұрын

    😍

  • @zzzh9160
    @zzzh91603 күн бұрын

    👌

  • @zzzh9160
    @zzzh91603 күн бұрын

    👌

  • @zzzh9160
    @zzzh91603 күн бұрын

    👌

  • @relentlessrhythm2774
    @relentlessrhythm27744 күн бұрын

    Thank you for these tips. I wamt to learn as much gentle parenting techniques as possible before entering motherhood, and learning wont stop then.

  • @ndifrank6404
    @ndifrank64044 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this really saved my bad mood from my previous surgery of ectopic pregnancy

  • @cchivers2665
    @cchivers26654 күн бұрын

    I'm nervous about fork tines going into the eyes

  • @yvonneedwards4165
    @yvonneedwards41655 күн бұрын

    Came here for my 2 month old son ❤

  • @chelseagoly7786
    @chelseagoly77866 күн бұрын

    What age are these activities created for?

  • @adrianavaldes8792
    @adrianavaldes87927 күн бұрын

    You are doing a great job teaching your baby, and your videos are a great inspiration and guide for parents specialy like me that I'm a first time mom and your videos help me a lot know what to do. Thank you❤

  • @RenataLawrance
    @RenataLawrance9 күн бұрын

    If only my husband was happy for my son to follow Montessori principles *sigh*

  • @leafirestone
    @leafirestone9 күн бұрын

    Does Montessori also have a way to teach them about finances ? And being able to buy their own toys and teaching them how money works possibly? I feel like this would be a very important life skill that I would like to teach them young inorder to build credit and be financially smarter as they grow, Ofcourse not forcing them to do any skills they don’t want to but would it be considered a reward by paying them allowance?

  • @LisaGelhaus
    @LisaGelhaus10 күн бұрын

    I wanted to view the intro video, but it is classified as “private” and can’t be accessed. Might want to update the video description.

  • @cnellz7932
    @cnellz793212 күн бұрын

    What if they are spitting it out

  • @tasnadireka
    @tasnadireka12 күн бұрын

    Really like your hand washing station

  • @lobright4358
    @lobright435812 күн бұрын

    Aww the clip at the end is too cute😊 I have a 5 month old baby and still can't face the fact that he ll be eating solids in some months. Time flies very quickly

  • @StephanieFaller
    @StephanieFaller13 күн бұрын

    This generation is a death to us all. Plus, they are so annoying. I agree with a few of these, but come on..

  • @oumaghilesafk2159
    @oumaghilesafk215913 күн бұрын

    Merci pour les conseils

  • @take2tayt2t73
    @take2tayt2t7314 күн бұрын

    Soooo helpful omg thank you!!!

  • @leandroCaveira1
    @leandroCaveira115 күн бұрын

    omg, I cracked so hard with the child labor comment 😂

  • @younglink7164
    @younglink716415 күн бұрын

    New subscribers here. Thank you

  • @ashley6229
    @ashley622915 күн бұрын

    I’m 3 weeks and 4 days 😊

  • @JustJC5
    @JustJC517 күн бұрын

    I have to disagree with calling overwhelming emotional, physical, sensory experiences, or etc., tantrums. It seems to me that you are describing “meltdowns”. If a child has a disruption in a routine, it may lead into an overwhelming response from them. If a child experiences a perceived loss of autonomy, this can also lead to overwhelming responses. I would suggest looking into PDA, otherwise known as “Pathological Demand Avoidance”; better known as “Persistent Drive for Autonomy”.

  • @wychen9687
    @wychen968717 күн бұрын

    My baby is 16 weeks. Is it still suitable to introduce the mobiles?

  • @ZayYanPyiSone
    @ZayYanPyiSone18 күн бұрын

    I like 16 weeks

  • @adoracionportilla9235
    @adoracionportilla923519 күн бұрын

    Is it NOT The boy might suppressed his Feelings to Trauma IF IMPOSED SPANCKING . What’s good then?

  • @adoracionportilla9235
    @adoracionportilla923519 күн бұрын

    IS SPANCKING GOOD AS DiSCIPLINE FOR A 2 YR OLD BOY.? Pls answer me , ASAP

  • @cinthyadiaz7812
    @cinthyadiaz781219 күн бұрын

    Mine like ago play with our stuff 🙃 he’s no longer interested in toys and is on the move

  • @imyourmommummy7603
    @imyourmommummy760320 күн бұрын

    i only get drops at a time and i’d have it on for hours and only get about 2oz

  • @brattrox2939
    @brattrox293921 күн бұрын

    To other peoole watching this, If you live somewhere with Scorpions please be sure they aren't on your property (wander around outside with a black light) before doing a floor bed, cribs come in handy for keeping young children safe from them because they are dangerous to young children. Sometimes people place glass jars at the feet of their crib to prevent Scorpions from climbing it, so make sure your crib has feet that allow that.

  • @mo0nstonegirl
    @mo0nstonegirl21 күн бұрын

    About to go in for surgery to have my 2nd tube removed. First ectopic was 2019 now another in 2024... Been trying for baby number 2 for 12 years now with hub. Only remaining option for us is IVF x I'm at 11 weeks right now, so 4cm. Quite large. Last one burst (12 weeks along). I'm SO hoping this one doesn't before my surgery! Had to go to the hospital 3 times before they found it.... It's been 60 days since all this started.

  • @SarahLynnMuise
    @SarahLynnMuise22 күн бұрын

    So what happens when I put it on and it is painful. Am I installing improperly?

  • @shanakay1761
    @shanakay176124 күн бұрын

    I started with purees but it's whatever she fed herself. She started at 4 months ish. (She holds the spoon herself) I am not going this route so excited thank you!

  • @kimberlyzamora6018
    @kimberlyzamora601824 күн бұрын

    Bless this family thank you lord

  • @noncsi011
    @noncsi01124 күн бұрын

    Anyone can offer ideas on how to transfer raising strategies from “traditional” to montessori when the child is already 3 years old?

  • @angelaclaro1
    @angelaclaro125 күн бұрын

    How to teach your child not deal with NO. You’re in the right video!

  • @Talegoncita
    @Talegoncita25 күн бұрын

    I know this video is old, but I strongly disagree on the crib. The WHO says that slepping with your newborn until is 6 months old is a must to reduce the risk of SIDS and it's recommended to extend it up to 1 year. A full bed is impossible to accommodate in my (and presumably all of us) master's bedroom 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @ashleyblack4993
    @ashleyblack499325 күн бұрын

    I have a 7 year old. When she was a toddler, I hated taking her to the park upon leaving, she'd freak out and have a tantrum. I started telling her that if she leaves the park willingly, we will return sooner. However, if she doesn't leave willingly, then we will NOT go back to the park for awhile. This worked well for her because I would bring her back to the park the next day if she left willingly. Even now she's 7, we'll go to the park and I'll ask her what happens if we don't leave when Mom says it's time to go. She'll respond with, "We won't come back for a long time." LOL so she actually understands now but it took awhile since I started that when she was young.

  • @aleciamilot1874
    @aleciamilot187426 күн бұрын

    Do you homeschool your girls now or do they go to school? ❤️

  • @salma_Nella22
    @salma_Nella2226 күн бұрын

    This doesn’t seem to work for children under 2 or 2.5. My 1 year old is wild and I have to walk away and show him no attention about it. I used to comfort him through his tantrums and regulate for him, but his screaming got so loud that I couldn’t handle it anymore. Then when he calms down I hold out my hand and I talk to him. The only times I give his tantrum any attention is when it comes from him getting hurt, if he needs something or is very tired. He is throwing less tantrums and uses more hand gestures now and pulls me to what he wants or needs. I used to do this Montessori thing for my 5 year old when he was 1 and it never worked. After he turned 2 years old I began teaching him breathing exercises and removing him from wherever it is that he’s having his meltdown if we’re out in public. I would wait outside with him patiently and tell him “ I understand why you’re upset. I’ll wait with you here until you feel better”. He’s very self aware now and I always made it a point to help him understand his feelings, label them and talk about it. I always tell him to use his words not his hands. He tells me how he feels and doesn’t react anymore. It’s nice.

  • @user-jq9um8wr5w
    @user-jq9um8wr5w26 күн бұрын

    This. Every tip, every word. So good. Thank you, Ashley! Hope you and Mike and your fantastic family are well!

  • @samruddhiavhad7228
    @samruddhiavhad722827 күн бұрын

    How many weeks were you pregnant?

  • @jenweatherwax7113
    @jenweatherwax711327 күн бұрын

    This inspired me to make her toys look nicer and not put lots of toys on one shelf. It’s been great! She happily dove into her toys with fascination and it was so much easier to clean up ❤

  • @as71318
    @as7131828 күн бұрын

    How often did you do this, once a day or at every feeding?