The RELM & Co

The RELM & Co

Welcome to my channel, I'm Rebecca, and I run The RELM & Co, personal styling and fashion brand.

The RELM & Co is a guide for the everyday female who wants to empower themselves to live a healthy and fulfilling life by looking and feeling good without judgment or negativity. Our goal is to help you with style tips, mindful shopping habits, and how to build a wardrobe you love.

Here on my channel, you'll mostly be seeing style and fashion content. I'll share videos on finding your personal style, sustainable & conscious fashion, the latest trends, style tips with a splash of lifestyle and beauty.

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Spring 2023 Style Trends

Spring 2023 Style Trends

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  • @MidnightMuse102
    @MidnightMuse10212 сағат бұрын

    0:25 those sunnies are errything 😍

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo3 сағат бұрын

    Thank you! I love that they look like they are from the 70s.

  • @MidnightMuse102
    @MidnightMuse10231 минут бұрын

    @@TheRELMCoI’m a big fan of oversized sunglasses

  • @angelsmith4467
    @angelsmith4467Күн бұрын

    Really cute finds ❤😊

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo3 сағат бұрын

    Thank you! I love them.

  • @caritovazquez5255
    @caritovazquez52552 күн бұрын

    🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩😍🌼🌹

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    Thank you!!! 🥰

  • @thelmasmyth1521
    @thelmasmyth15212 күн бұрын

    Love the picture. Beautiful frame.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I thought it was lovely as well and would be perfect on a gallery wall. 🥰

  • @ellelle
    @ellelle3 күн бұрын

    Love love love

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    Thank you! This was my favorite upcycle to date.

  • 3 күн бұрын

    Cute outfits! My favorite was style #2. Love the oversized scarf and how you tied it on the bag.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I love a good scarf, there are so may style possibilities.

  • @KChrisWatching
    @KChrisWatching3 күн бұрын

    Yes, the thrift store across the street is worth going to. I like that oval pic.-victorianish.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    I'll check out that other location. I'm so bummed I didn't remember it until I was almost home. That's the perfect description for that picture.

  • @greeneyedmimibostian3013
    @greeneyedmimibostian30133 күн бұрын

    Im thirty minutes north of Charlotte. Its awful hot.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo3 күн бұрын

    It's very hot and humid. I've only been here for 3 months, so I'm trying to acclimate to the heat.

  • @wendykidd
    @wendykidd2 күн бұрын

    @@TheRELMCo- I’ve been here for 25 years. Good luck with that. 😅

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    @@wendykidd 😂I'll let you know how it goes. I heard the fall here is lovely...this is me hoping. 🤞

  • @KeriLudwig1027
    @KeriLudwig10273 күн бұрын

    Love love the jolly man portrait!!!! Oh no! It was left behind!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo3 күн бұрын

    I know, it was so great! Some lucky person will pick it up, it was too good.

  • @nickyonstilts128
    @nickyonstilts1285 күн бұрын

    You can never have enough cardigans. Wear what you love as you said at the end.♥

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo5 күн бұрын

    YES! I love it. I wear mine so much too, they are a perfect layering piece to throw on/off as the temp changes.

  • @nickyonstilts128
    @nickyonstilts1285 күн бұрын

    I've had some holes in wool blazers from ThredUp, but they refunded my money & I got to keep the items. Darn moths! Love the flame red of that J Crew cardigan!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo5 күн бұрын

    They have a really good return policy. I would rather keep the item than have it in the landfill. I don't mind small imperfections.

  • @DaleAnne1
    @DaleAnne15 күн бұрын

    I tried to buy 3 items from thread up today , but it would not accept my card!!?

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo5 күн бұрын

    I heard a lot of businesses were effected by the crowdstrike security issue today, that might be why. I went to Wholefoods and their system was really slow. The airports were essentially down today, all flights were delayed or cancelled.

  • @KChrisWatching
    @KChrisWatching7 күн бұрын

    Hi new Charlottean, Thrifting is so much better than trying to enjoy the hot humid weather. I would love to make things and upcycle. You will probably like some of the places other people listed. I made note of a few I’ve not been to. Some Goodwills are definitely better like the one in Weddington. East of Charlotte (not mentioned) are many thrift shops including I’ll Second That, Matthews and Monroe Habitat for Humanity, Second Chance in Monroe and Waxhaw, Zabs Place in Matthews, and Good Stewart and several others that have been in Monroe a long time. I didn’t mention them all. Lots of farms and produce stands to visit too ❤. I’d make placemats with the gingham shirts and maybe a centerpiece with gingham ribbon. I might tie die the bedspread or make it boho with elephant prints and daisies. The slip scares me lol.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo5 күн бұрын

    Thank you for the amazing recommendations. I'm adding them to my list. I do love all the farmer's markets and pop-up vintage markets here. It seems like there's something happening every weekend which is so much fun. I love the idea of placements, I have a few ideas saved on my "upcycle/sewing" Pinterest board. Haha, yeah slip dressing isn't for everyone.

  • @pinkaffections
    @pinkaffections9 күн бұрын

    Welcome to CLT 💜💜💜💜

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo8 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! I'm very excited to be here.

  • @SteviesEarthBasedKitchen
    @SteviesEarthBasedKitchen9 күн бұрын

    Super cute! I just thrifted a similar skirt and this video came up.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo8 күн бұрын

    I love that! This style of skirt is so versatile with so many creative ways to style it.

  • @JorgeGarcia-qq2nr
    @JorgeGarcia-qq2nr9 күн бұрын

    Nice skirt

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo9 күн бұрын

    Thank you! It's lightweight and has a lovely eyelet trim.

  • @monmur7952
    @monmur795210 күн бұрын

    If you haven't been to Clearing House on Central, it's a unique place for home stuff, prices go down every time it hits a date on the tag.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    Love that! Thank you so much for the recommendation!

  • 10 күн бұрын

    Love this. Thanks for sharing great!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    You are welcome! I'm a big fan of wearing scarves so I wanted to share a few of my favorites.

  • 10 күн бұрын

    Love vintage scarves, midi skirts and yes, I'm definitely a boots in the summer girl!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    Yes! LOVE IT!

  • @moisesperez1351
    @moisesperez135110 күн бұрын

    Love your videos

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! I appreciate you watching them.

  • @NancyThecheerfulheart
    @NancyThecheerfulheart10 күн бұрын

    Could you do a whole video on how you wear scarves?

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    I have this video on 5 ways to wear a head scarf. It's mostly on wearing scarves in my hair, but I could do another one on wearing them in other ways. kzread.info/dash/bejne/h4dry7Cjps-qiJc.html

  • @caritovazquez5255
    @caritovazquez525510 күн бұрын

    😍😍😍😍😍🤩🌼🌹

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    Thank you!!!!

  • @user-xx4ez3jc5h
    @user-xx4ez3jc5h10 күн бұрын

    I like your boots, but NOT for the summer! I always like wedges, and enjoyed seeing your dog 😊

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I love these boots too. I find boots in the summer is very divisive, you either love it or you're not a fan. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm always so curious how everyone feels about summer boots. And, yay, I'm so glad you liked seeing my pup.

  • @JorgeGarcia-qq2nr
    @JorgeGarcia-qq2nr11 күн бұрын

    Hi im new here hope that you don't mind that i wear women clothing i love your video

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo10 күн бұрын

    Hi and welcome! My motto is "Wear What You Love" and I truly stand by that. Thank you so much for watching!

  • @deborahfountain-yates8547
    @deborahfountain-yates854712 күн бұрын

    Would love to see more ideas for men’s long sleeve dress shirts

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo12 күн бұрын

    Love it! I have a ton, so happy to share more.

  • @DMshell17
    @DMshell1714 күн бұрын

    I just love your outfits!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo12 күн бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @SuperMsPharmacy
    @SuperMsPharmacy15 күн бұрын

    I can't leave a beautiful vintage coat behind. I can never stick to a season when shopping. When I find a beautiful piece, it has to come with me. This is also why I have to limit my trips to the thrift. I have run out of space, and I love it all. 😂

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo12 күн бұрын

    I hear that! There are so many incredible pieces out there.

  • @DMshell17
    @DMshell1715 күн бұрын

    I love!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo15 күн бұрын

    Thank you! This was a fun project.

  • @ladyhero721
    @ladyhero72116 күн бұрын

    Your so gorgeous girl! ✨✨✨✨✨

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo15 күн бұрын

    Aw, thank you!

  • @brianaclearly
    @brianaclearly16 күн бұрын

    How much larger is the shirt than your actual size?

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo15 күн бұрын

    This shirt is a men's medium, which would be considered an oversized shirt for me. I'm a women's size small. One thing to consider when selecting a shirt, darts and princess seams will effect the shape of the shirt. You can also add adjustments.

  • @tinyblackbird
    @tinyblackbird16 күн бұрын

    The Sleepy Poet is an antique mall that has a large vintage section 😊 happy hunting!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo15 күн бұрын

    Oh love that recommendation. Adding it to my list. Thank you!

  • @monmur7952
    @monmur795210 күн бұрын

    Yes, I second the Sleepy Poet on South!

  • @clau83938
    @clau8393818 күн бұрын

    You are too fab!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo18 күн бұрын

    Aw, thank you!

  • @clau83938
    @clau8393818 күн бұрын

    Personal style>trends. Coming from someone who loves trends 😅

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo17 күн бұрын

    Definitely. I think trends are fascinating. You just have to find the ones that fit in your style.

  • @kathleendeal4903
    @kathleendeal490319 күн бұрын

    Quilted mid-length coat…gorgeous

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo17 күн бұрын

    Right! That's what I was thinking.

  • @garciajessica504
    @garciajessica50419 күн бұрын

    check out Thrift Pony in Plaza Midwood

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo17 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I've heard good things. I will add it to my list to check out.

  • @clothingline3886
    @clothingline388620 күн бұрын

    I hope Charlotte works for you. I’m from Boston too I miss those thrift/vintage stores. Now in Phx love, love stores here. The scarves look fabulous on you especially the red one with red lip. Looking forward to the gingham looks. Hmm!!! the white bedding would be great on the bed… I’m just saying😊

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo17 күн бұрын

    Thank you! It will be an adventure. How's the thrift/vintage in PHX? Yeah, I'm leaning towards keeping it a blanket..at least for now.

  • @winterwrenn
    @winterwrenn2 күн бұрын

    I second keeping the blanket as is, cuz it’s waaaaay too hot 10 months out of the year down here to wear any type of jacket. I’m also a transplant from up north and it’s been really sad not being able to wear my sweaters 😂

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo2 күн бұрын

    @@winterwrenn Yeah, I think you're right, I will keep it a blanket. 😀 I haven't experienced the winter here, but it sounds like it's not too cold. I'm originally from Southern California. We didn't have cold winters there either.

  • @gailwilliams5278
    @gailwilliams527821 күн бұрын

    Never knew this was possible. Great idea!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    It's such a great way to size down t-shirts or to create a different silhouette.

  • @kblack8770
    @kblack877022 күн бұрын

    Welcome to Charlotte (The Queen City). I just happened onto your channel and subscribed, after all you are a Sister Charlottean. There are Salvation Army and Goodwill Stores N,S,E,W of you and the small surrounding cities. I would say within 30 miles tops in either direction. When I drive to another city like Gastonia, I check to see what's in the area to make the most of my visit. Again...WELCOME.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I'm excited to be here, so far it's lovely. And I love and appreciate the pro tip! I'm looking forward to exploring Charlotte's thrift and vintage scene.

  • @UNITS200
    @UNITS20022 күн бұрын

    I want all the things in your closet! The teal and red. I would have never thought to do that but it was amazing.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I've spent several years carefully curating my closet and I can truly say that I love my wardrobe.

  • @49-ASpecialKindaBird
    @49-ASpecialKindaBird22 күн бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    You are welcome!

  • @gailwilliams5278
    @gailwilliams527823 күн бұрын

    I have three beautiful, vintage, full slips (red, navy, ivory). Wore them as nightgowns. Very 50s-60s Liz Taylor. Im far too old to wear them as slip dresses but have always thought they had that potential, for someone more daring than me. But yep, you would get looks from the older crowd.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    I love vintage slips. Your pieces sound gorgeous. Haha yeah, I'm used to getting looks from people. I used to live in a very small town that didn't appreciate my personal style.

  • @gailwilliams5278
    @gailwilliams527823 күн бұрын

    But seriously, I love this look!

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    I love it too. I think it's the juxtaposition of the pieces. They seem like they wouldn't work together, but they do.

  • @gailwilliams5278
    @gailwilliams527823 күн бұрын

    You don’t work in a bank, do you?

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    No, I work in tech, so I have more flexibility in my work wear.

  • @sheilagarner1615
    @sheilagarner161523 күн бұрын

    I just thrifted the antique sofa and chair last Wednesday 😂

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    LOVE THAT! Such a great find.

  • @bunniesinclair197
    @bunniesinclair19723 күн бұрын

    Welcome to the neighborhood 😄 Hi from Lexington, NC

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Hi! Thank you so much! I'm so excited to be here and explore the area a bit more.

  • @Jan-xp8yi
    @Jan-xp8yi23 күн бұрын

    You should check out Amy’s Closet in Denver & Penny Thrift in Stanley, both support women in need.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Love the recommendations! Thank you! I will check them both out.

  • @caritovazquez5255
    @caritovazquez525523 күн бұрын

    😍😍😍😍😍🌼🌹

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @gailwilliams5278
    @gailwilliams527823 күн бұрын

    It would be so much fun to go thrifting/styling with you, or just have you do a look through my closet for fresh, creative ideas. But the next best thing is to watch your vids.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I would LOVE that. I used to moonlight as a personal stylist awhile back, it's such an incredible experience.

  • @UNITS200
    @UNITS20023 күн бұрын

    Love your style :)

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I truly appreciate that.

  • @DMshell17
    @DMshell1724 күн бұрын

    Loved your the lavender outfit you were wearing.

  • @TheRELMCo
    @TheRELMCo21 күн бұрын

    Thank you! I thrifted that top and the scarf I bought at an estate sale.