Black Girls Texting Podcast
Black Girls Texting Podcast
Chelsea Pinky, Glynn Pogue and Sade Parham are the hosts of Black Girls Texting; a 1-hour dialogue unpacking conversations held in their group chat-a space they consider the most modern medium for unfiltered exchanges between girlfriends in real time.
The straight forward simplicity of the title is a play on the idea that, yes, Black girls can make magic but, as human beings, we also do the everyday; Black Girls Work, Black Girls Cook, Black Girls Laugh, Black Girls Travel, Black Girls Live, Black Girls Text.
Past episodes have tackled gentrification, pop culture, sex positivity, colorism and fatherhood in the Black community and have featured amazing guests such as Lena Waithe, Janelle Monae, Amanda Seales and more bad ass Black women!
In February 2021, BGT joined PodcastOne’s LadyGang Network.
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Ain’t scared of nobody however some 🦾African man needs to RISE ⬆️ to hip blk flk to wtf is going in Babylon & tell you about the worldwide demonic forces you up ⬆️ against They waging spiritual warfare … against you.. they not taken any prisoners 👍 with that I say .. pls don’t let em take your souls ESP YOUR CHILDREN who btw are their main 🎯 and have been for the past 10+yrs See by federal laws you to have comply. different pronouns etc 😢..& in addition to what they put on you over the past 4 yrs should have shown you that .. many gone be suffering long time THEY KNEW DAT 🤐✍️👍 ------ Now let’s talk about why my ❤sistas aren’t JUMPING OVER THE BROOM or as they say … marrying 1st historically it was the case for them ppl to only allow unions btw BM & BW that benefited them 👍 if it didn’t put in 🛑 gaps to keep em separated and divided… Like other things ppl sleep on when dealing with em this phenomenon no different .. WHAT’S THE REAL REASON ????? Well let me hold off cause I wanna drop a ⬇️💣on ya’ll You think perhaps things might be just a lil different … were it not for the fact that a lot of bro 😎 over the past 20-40 yrs ..weren’t auditioning for… rupaul 🤐💣🙌🏿🤭 That some of these ❤fine unmarried sistas would either be in a good relationship if MORE ELIGIBLE BM WERE OUT THERE ..Just SAYING 😮 Plus 🇺🇸feminization of blk boys facts Toss in P diddy & others Started long before him facts My point this is all by design ----- Google DR FRANCIS WELSING RIM ❤ ISIS PAPERS 📝 TBC UGANDA ❤🇺🇬🦾✍️✍️✍️
I scence the lady in top left has a kendered spirit beautiful soul many great things coming her way . 2024 ❤❤
I died and came back after seeing Sun flowers in heaven I seen them they sway and sing to you its angels I think in flower form because I love watching them grow not so much cut but growing.
I think I went to school with the girl in top left window but she looks like my niece and Cheryl Chapman good people ❤ 2024
I had to watch this video twice. I want to thank Dr. Stewart for examining the problems of Black relationships with a systemic analysis, instead of some gender essentialist, Black men are born deficient nonsense that is so common these days. Well done!
Coffee dates IS low-effort. All of that can be done over the phone/ video calls.
👏🏽 Kudos to realizing you got time & egg freezing! Don't try to conceive next time tho -- just have him get virility test lol
Well...Reesa Teesa's "Legion" wasn't attentive, she bypassed all his inattention for the paid bills.
Its everyone else's fault👍🏾😉 🤥🤥
The will to change was a great read “as a black man” and its shocking that men critique bell hooks cause she really coddled us for 200+ pages. Love y’alls work, thanks!
She is critiqued for using 1930s racist ethnology as the basis of her criticism of BM, as well as her f'd up upbringing and Daddy issues
"its shocking that men critique bell hooks cause she really coddled us for 200+ pages" The same Bell Hooks that critiqued black men by quoting the drapetomania guy? Yeah, her stuff should be looked over.
It's the same way they love Angela Davis til she talks about Black women's plight or others... then, she's called everything but "sista". Oppressors gon' oppress.
Communism definition 28:55
If Black men are broken and can't see the value of Black women. Why is it the men of other races not marrying BW..cuz ya kno .they aren't broken right
Thanks Theresa. Great talk. 🎉
masculine and feminine energy is an ancient concept. Read up on ancient civilizations and how they viewed these dynamics. (yin and yang in taoism, hermetic law of gender, and carl jung's concept of the anima vs. animus).
passive/ potential VS active/ kinetic isn't a gendered thing tho, that's the bigger issue
This was helpful ❤❤❤
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I thought this podcast was very interesting, but it missed me because I thought it was about black women aren't getting married. This is all over the place.
I really enjoyed this discussion with black women, whether from America or the Caribbean Islands. I appreciate the discussion on reparations. The issue is black oppression = white dominance around the globe 🌎. When black people gain economic freedom across the board, it threatens white supremacy. It's not the interest of the dominant society to bridge the gap between white and blacks around the globe.
This is what I look like trying to twerk 🤣
This woman is solely focused on being a victim. Nobody should listen to her. She's lost....
This is 100% pure Feminist Babble. Where is this lady from . TETHER ALERT.
You guys, Jesus, stop always blaming slavery and whites for everything!!! Jesus. What happened so self agency!!!!!!! My goodness
They're not getting married because they're not using their common sense
A lot of black women have no interest in marriage. My sister and cousins definitely feel that way.
The government already sets up trusts on every citizen they just don’t openly disclose it and it’s hella difficult to withdraw funds from it but the banks can ……..this nation actually hates all people but it benefits them to create a class system so people fight among each other and do their dirty work for them. Some groups of people love being hateful.
Oh wow
This just popped up. You girls asked great questions!!! ❤❤❤ she is everything 😊
I don’t think BW as a collective want to be married.. almost everything in the culture along with stats points to this…. The community is being run exactly as planned.
Color does not determine if black women get married. This woman says some good things but that is BS. Its a womans attitude and cooperation without ego that determines if she gets married. Most men are not that shallow. Black men love black woman. And slavery 400 years ago has nothing to do with how people act today. People know right from wrong they just choose to do wrong and make bad choices from their illusionary expectations and choices. And this nation hates black men. Period and black women are making things worse for us and themselves by giving in and taking the White supreminst bait. Twerking all over the damn place and saying there aint no good men. And most of yall So called "educated" women who studied one subject think yall are better than men wotking a regular blue collar job. Man STOP the cap women. Yall need to wake up and stop playing victim. Everything is not racism either. Take accountability and destroy your pride and ego. ✌🏾PS look up the definition of "BASH" Manosphere is not "BASHING" anything. Truth is truth
OMG!!! What I heard here was absolutely ridiculous. I heard everything under the sun, except for ACCOUNTABILITY. It's ALWAYS Something, or someone else's fault on why BW find themselves in the state their In. It's simple. BW chose Zaddy government over their men. I saw the damage it caused in my own family. Welfare and entitlement programs destroyed the nuclear family. BM have not had a VOICE until now, and we are speaking loudly. BW for decades have sided with WS and the narrative that BM ain't ish. Now, they act is if they don't know why they are the least married and the most divorced. The lies that are continually told by our elders are a part of the problem. Until they start being honest to themselves. BLK male and female relations will continue to IMPLODE. BM are tired and have moved on. We're going where we are celebrated and appreciated and not just tolerated. Sorry, but the damage is irreparable at this point. BW will have to lie in the beds they have made. It's a hard pill to swallow, but it is what it is.
Our sisters were treated awful. But today our sisters are impossible to deal with.
We were treated worse. And as a whole and we don't act like them.
Holy shit. Why are we focused on this rather than, just cooperating and moving forward. TOGETHER
she is talking all around the real issue which is feminism, eugenics and integration. western thought, philosophy and ideas are the reason for this not the solution. academia always over thinks everything when most solutions are simple and common sense.
The baby part is DARK.
Where is that foolish guy from "Dear Future Wife" podcast? Who wanted them to stay together because of black love.
I think in this day and age to say this nation hate’s black people is irresponsible without explaining exactly why because it’s not about who you are it’s about what they stole. America had a black government that was stolen so we need to start telling the full story instead of the slavery fable.
black men want to be with other men no women they can not be trusted
stay single and be happy
The reason Black women are not getting married more is because they refuse to open up their options to dating and marrying other races of men.
Because men don't want marriage that has been corrupted by feminist values and corrupt divorce courts !!
I think one key point that liberal women seem to overlook or ignore - if you eject patriarchy out of marriage the incentive for men (of any race) to marry is greatly reduced. This focus on redefining manhood and masculinity is not an alluring argument for most men.
She contradicts herself a few times. If Systemic oppression is hindering black wealth and thus, black love, how could the wealthy black men be marrying women of lighter skin tone or other races? When polyamory was discussed, she said some men cant afford monogamy (they cant afford 1 relationship but can afford multiple??) She hinted at the colorism and featurism issues but that's the truth. BM dont like how most of us look. They dont like our 4c hair, big noses, dark eyes, etc. Their dream is a community of Westley Snipes and Mariah Carey's. I also wish she'd pulled the statistics of BM interracial marriage rates, which show that those relationships don't last either
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Wholesome interview and conversation. Thanks ladies.
here we go with the non-existent "patriarchy" argument. As long as women control the children through tender years doctrine and control their husbands money through the family court system, divorce, alimoney, and child support THERE IS NO PATRIARCHY.
2/2: Dr. Stewart is pre-occupied with her perception that America "doesn't love black people," and apparently she thinks blacks lack the agency to advance because of that. Worrying about whether or how much America loves blacks -- as if there's any way to quantify that -- was clearly not a priority for blacks living under legalized racial discrimination. They had much bigger priorities and had to focus on fighting _real_ disenfranchisements. Contrast that with those in the modern era who make a living decrying their systemic mistreatment and lamenting how Jim Crow's still alive and well to eager audiences who soak up that message. It seems totally lost on the listeners that many of these "oppressed" societal whipping boys make mad dollars per lecture. Can I have some of _that_ “victimhood,” pretty please? 🤣 Even in a bleak racial climate, which a black American such as myself born in the 1970s can barely even fathom, blacks able to greatly increase their high school and college graduation rates, particularly during the 1940s and '50s. They accomplished that to such an extent that the collective household income for people in that demographic rose sharply. That should not be little-known history, especially for young blacks, who are far too often fed inaccurate and defeatist spin about an intractably racist America. Or make that AmeriKKKa to use the cartoonishly militant spelling. Yes, terrible acts of racism occurred back then under Jim Crow. It wouldn't dare deny that. It's ludicrous though to even suggest that in 20-flippin'-24 the racial climate is still the same, leaving blacks hopeless without major governmental intervention. Get outta here. The grim reality is that these days, as has been the case for decades, a black murder victim in America is far more likely to meet that fate at the hands of another black person that from a white person. And in places such as Chicago and St. Louis, just to name a couple, violent crime among blacks is an awful scourge. It does the supposedly omnipresent white supremacists' work for them. Plus, contrary to popular belief, thanks larger to media hype and slanted news coverage, blacks are no more likely to be killed by police than whites in America, according to a recent study by black Harvard professor Roland Fryer. He has reported being shocked by his and his research team's own findings. Blacks being killed by police is a sexier topic to the media that whites meeting the same fate, such as the largely ignored Tony Timpah, who was killed in a way similar to George Floyd. It allows news outlets to attract viewers and readers by painting a sensational picture of American apartheid. That's part of the reason people get riled up about phantom menaces, which seems to be Dr. Stewart's method of selling her book. And like it or not, it has been the case for quite a while that a white American more likely to be killed by a black person than the other way around. It's not even close, despite the fact that whites in our country outnumber blacks about 5 to 1. But of course people with Dr. Stewart's mentality blame racism for leaving blacks destitute and desperate, therefore turning to crime as a means of income. We're at a standstill when it comes to improving our individual and collective situation, they'd argue, until we get some outpouring of love from the U.S. government The excuses and nonsensical reasoning just never ends for them. Along with the usual racial victimology, Dr. Stewart makes hackneyed claims of women being oppressed by "the patriarchy" and anti-scientific absurdities about gender as a mere social construct. Actually American women, including black women, are overall on par with or _surpassing_ men in various measures of success. And miss me with the income-gap fallacies, which fail to take into account the disparate career *choices* men and women make. By the way, dangerous jobs tend to come with much compensation, and men represent around 95% of occupational deaths each year. Something tells me that women, even the most gender-non-conforming, wouldn't care to bridge that gap and risking increasing the proportion of women among jog-related deaths from a paltry 5%. So much for all that Diversity, Equity and Inclusion we keep hearing about, eh? 🤷🏽♂ In Dr. Stewart we have one of many successful blacks and accomplished women who sells an inaccurate doomsday message to members of both groups. It'd be nice if people like her would encourage others to put in the work to forge ahead in life and tell others how they did it rather than wallowing in self-pity. But apparently she feels the need to sell the snake oil of perpetual victimhood and the racist and sexist dragons that blacks must slay in order to make it. People who think the way she does must think that mindset makes their own achievements look more impressive than they'd otherwise seem. It also allows them to play Pied Piper to blacks and women, as if they can lead the supposedly downtrodden class to the Promised Land. Best of luck to anyone who follows them down the road to nowhere. I'm glad to know that growing numbers of blacks and women are abandoning that path.
1/2: WOW! Where do I begin? What on Earth is Dr. Stewart talking about?! 🤦🏽♂ Let me state up front that my criticism is all for her, not BGT for giving her a forum. I can respectfully agree to disagree with those who have different beliefs from myself, including the hosts of this podcast. I'm a free-speech absolutist, so I support the right of people with various viewpoints to express themselves, regardless of whether I agree with them. I happen to find Dr. Stewart's message counterproductive and sorely detached from reality. I'm actually glad in a way that she went as far as she did here with her polemic. Those who've been susceptible to that kind of extremism, particularly blacks, need to hear how off the rails and off-base it is. And wow, is she ever a perfect example. Her deeply flawed outlook is the reason we're seeing a significant shift among blacks away from Dr. Stewart and her kindreds' "all our problems are because of slavery and racism" beliefs. Many of us long ago wised up to that racket, and increasing numbers of blacks seem to have grown tired of the propaganda that tells us how helpless and hopeless we are. It's super important to note that black Americans were very quick to get married and maintain strong family structures after the end of slavery in America. In fact, black women were more likely to be married than white women as recently as the 1950s. So the same old blaming of slavery for a trend that began around the 1960s is a very tough sell. Dr. Stewart's argument that society's so-called "forbidden black love" prevents masses of blacks from becoming "coupled as adults" and building relationships is absurd and downright pathetic. Prioritizing family, moral values and certainly education allowed the poverty rate for black Americans to plummet from around 80% to 40% between 1940 and 1960, long before "diversity" and other such buzz words became all the rage. Blacks during that time built thriving communities in such places as Tuskegee, Alabama, where native son and famous musician Lionel Richie, born in 1949, fondly recalls there being black doctors, lawyers, educators, etc., during his childhood. Solid family units are super helpful in avoiding poverty. In fact, black married couples today have household incomes comparable to white married couples. Whatever disparity does exist between them nearly disappears when one accounts for the fact that a significant percentage of blacks live in areas with lower costs of living. So if the prevalence of white supremacy, that trusty argument for people like Dr. Stewart, is supposed to be keeping blacks down, white supremacists sure are sleeping on the job. 🤷🏽♂ More fun with the doc in Part 2 of my comment. 😃
No, what are YOU talking about, particularly your claim stat about the disparity between white & black married couples disappearing? Where? Neither Brookings Institute nor Pew Research, for instance, have this in their findings.
I have to ask in her example of the will she said the man was to be sold upon the master's death". Did she mean "freed"?
Yes, I meant freed. That was an error! Thanks for that!!!
Black girls aren’t getting married because the media has gloried a bad boy with hood swag as the ideal man to be with in the black community! Essentially an obvious player or bad boy is the man black women prefer to have sex with, date, and marry! Unfortunately the black men who actually want to commit and build families are often considered lame because they lack the hood swag! So cultural conditioning has caused black women to value men who aren’t family type men!
All of these conversations are missing the fact that men are in crisis.That affects dating,marriage and overall relationships.
So true men are in critical condition.
@@lisalee3067Exactly.Scholars and intellectuals are discussing and writing books on it.
What crisis Men are in?
@@MrMeToo-fh7pe a crisis of stupidity!
@@MrMeToo-fh7pe 7 million dropped out the workforce to look at screens Unaliving rates Crime rates Drug overdose rates Homelessness rates