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Celebrate good times come on. I also have a very similar shirt that I wear often 😂
As a 7 who just wanted to play with the other kids but was harshly rejected I turned inward and played by myself in my imaginary world of stuffed animal friends and blanket forts. I thought I was a 9 since I basicaly trained myself in to my own peaceful little world and wouldn't speak up out of fear of rejection. It makes me wonder how certain emotinal trauma may change the way the types look.
Ive always struggled to believe you could only be a wing on either side of your core type… because I tested highest 7 which I KNOW is me, but also almost tied for second was 2 & 3, followed by 5 🤔 so I’ve not really identified with wing 6 or 8 because they don’t seem as resonant with me… I probably lean more towards the 6 based on your description… is it possible to be just a pure 7 without a wing? What would explain the high scores of 2 & 3? I resonate with parts of both of those and LOVE to research for days like a 5… does this question make sense?
My therapist said I was probably a 9 but the test I took said I was a 5... I don't relate to 5 at my core. I feel like I'm an 8 🤔🤦🏻♂️
No but convince me to say yes
What if your spouse is 3 (maybe wing 4) but none of the instincts seem to fit? SP is the closest, but there’s no preoccupation with security, etc, but definitely strives to be diligent in work, and is natural at leading but doesn’t want to be the focus of attention, yet commands the room with charisma and wisdom. No regard for keeping up appearances… Does that sound like SP?
Lol I think I am a 7w6. I thought I was a 9w1 because my energy isnt as high as I thought a 7 would be but I do know what I want and am not self forgetting like at all. I never wanted to grow up I kwpt going trick or treating until I was a teen and was mad when people told me I was too old for it. I am always late cuz I get distracted but I'm always like oh no I'm gonna miss things so rushing to get there 😅. Tapas is my favorite thing small bites of everything for the win. I do like shopping online but hate waiting. I just like to see all of the options in front of me I do like thrifting though that is an adventure
When I am alone I am more of 6w5, when I am with people I am 6w7. Not sure what my actual wing is.🤷
Great video! As a 4w5 I appreciate the positivity of 4s. I don’t think I could’ve been born to worse parents…they were good people but totally closed off. I’m beginning to think I’ll always be alive which sucks but I’ll be okay.
Point 5 is key for me, but I hadn't understood that until this video. I will absolutely use this to find the highest level of goal in which I do believe - and then I'll get moving on it. Thank you!
I'm intj5. 🎉1 to 1
Makes so much more sense than only having one wing!
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Very happy to have asked SIRI on my phone to give me info on the Counter-type of Point 2, and it is the sub-type I’d diagnosed myself to be. I am excited to have discovered your teaching. THANK YOU for your succinct and clear presentation!
I am type 2. Befriender my roll❤
it looks like i'm all 9 types. why?
I've done multiple Enneagram tests and each one decides I'm a Type 5. And yet, I do not fit perfectly the strict stereotype you describe. I have strong tendencies towards type 7 and 8 but my default is Type 5 but the boundaries of that Type are a bit more porous for me. I'm a lawyer and engineer, but both need me to work in a team at least some of the time, which I hate. No perfect job for the perfect Type 5, I'm afraid.
Entp 5w6 here! Most of the people who knew me always told me i give introverted vibe
A little unsure about this one. Either SX or SP. SO is my blind spot.
I'm definitely an INFJ 4w3 with an INTP 4 crush 😂. 3:25 That’s so true tbh, lol.
I'm an 8. I have names for all those bad drivers. I've got no problems with using my horn or yelling at bad drivers.
Yes to almost all of this. It’s hard being a 5 plus having ADHD!
4w5 absolutely!
This is such a helpful video
When you buy seeds they come with a planting zone and some instructions, this is like instructions for growing seeds, it all depends how you cultivate
The music in the video is too loud and distracting 🙈
Great video, thank you Hillary. You have a lovely style- friendly and genuine.
Awww thank you Jane! You are so kind 😊❤️
Eight female here. Love your energy ♡
Eights are my favorite! ❤️
I am 684 tritype.
By Your Excellent Subtype Descriptions, which are, unlike most others, are very clear and to the point. I am an sx/so 8, 8w9. Your Husband sounds like me a little.
Wow, thank you!
Hillary, Your explanation of the core 4 really hits home! I used to wonder if i mistyped.. but now i know i’m not. Funny thing is i actually am doubtful “am i really 5 or i’m just hoping” even after this and did a further research haha
Envy for normal is huge!😜 I’m an artist and came in sensitive and shamed for being “ too sensitive “ - utilizing this super power as a gift and not identifying with the kaleidoscopic emotions whirling through have been great tools ! Thankyou
Yes sub type SP as a four means I have a dimmer switch and can tone it down for the sake of maintaining connection- I know when I’m “too much” ha
I'm a contractor who does work on behalf of a federal agency. I sometimes have to dig for information on the Internet and follow breadcrumbs. I like that aspect of my work and feel a real sense of accomplishment when I successfully find the information that I need, especially if someone has tried to hide that information.
Why this 'music'?
I believe I'm a type nine but the outdoors is the opposite of calming for me. I dislike the bugs, wind, pollen, and blinding sun 🥲 I love the quiet and coolness of the indoors that put me at peace
didn’t realize i was a social 4 because im so socially anxious
This just confirmed that I am a 4... but I do struggle with the loneliness that can occur. The cost, if you will, of being an "individualist" is that it is hard to feel part of a community, and it's even MORE challenging finding people or community in which I can feel a part of in some way... But, thank you for this!
bruh i need knowledge for my identity
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1 2:53 2 4:21 3 5:55 4 7:57 5 9:39 6 11:53 7 13:43 8 15:57 9 17:14
4s who have been through hell but become healthy become great counselors, therapists, social workers, life coaches, etc because they have the empathy needed.
Right on target ha ha ha Thanks a lot Hillary!
Omg I am exploring whether I could be a type 6 and right around sign 9 I started thinking “hmm maybe this whole enneagram concept just doesn’t work” and then you got to sign 10 and I was like 😅
omg when I first heard about the enneagram, I thought it was just as much accurate as a horoscope. that was 3 years ago. and now my friend gave me the book and i took the test, i feel like I'm really seen. ALSO I was 100% ready for covid. I already buy my TP in bulk and I had other supplies on hand for just in case scenarios.
5w4 feels like a graphic designer while 5w6 feels like an engineer.
I relate to both so and sx. How to know which one I am? 😒
Im a 8w9 but when ım with my friends ı make jokes a lot and laugh a lot with them that's why ı was really confused with my wing, but according to your theory wings can change in any participate time?
I like how the subtitles calls 8s "aids"
Yup, that’s my moto since high school 😉