Another great episode from you both. Been a long time listener but had to sign here for this comment. I just want to say dont listen to anyone hating. These are YOUR experiences. These are YOUR trials and tribulations. And no one can take that from you. Keep being great! Love the new direction. Much love
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
We appreciate that Jimmy! Thank you for the support 🙏
@AnxiousPanda-x9cАй бұрын
Did you guys do any research at all into this topic before posting this video? It comes off as the most minimizing dismissive and down right incorrect take on the topic I have seen in a long time. Neither of you can even define what anxiety is. What anxiety actually is is the feeling of dread/ despair/ worry that something or more than likely everything can and will go wrong at all times. Randy talks about a general childhood separation anxiety that is pretty normal for children unless it was a regular occurrence and caused other issues during childhood. An actual condition would be when it gets to the point of not wanting to go to school because you cant be away from your parent that long. Then Dylan goes into how anxiety is people being out to get you at all times, that would be classified under paranoia, a very separate disorder. Anxiety is not a catch all term for any mental disorder and co-mingling them as if they are all under one condition is minimization and frankly disrespectful to people who deal with it regularly. @10:32 Dylan says all Anxiety and mental issues are out of our control but the entire rest of the episode is almost dedicated to how to control it and coping mechanisms. If we have no control over the disease why would you suggest those things? You later talk about how dealing with anxiety is as simple as calling a friend or going for a walk. Do you guys understand that anxiety in its worst form can physically change the makeup and chemical balance in your brain? Talking about taking drugs to help with the condition like it is a crutch and that it should almost be looked down on is exactly why we are in the position with mental health we are in this country, you are continuing the stigma of it being an issue that you shouldnt try to take care of the root of but that instead you should distract yourself from using other activities which is especially humorous because Dylan gets on Randy's case for suggesting just that in the early minutes of the episode. I also dont think Dylan has any idea how getting medication for these diseases actually works either, he seems to allude to it being as easy as going to your doctor, saying a few words and getting a prescription for life. You have to regularly take to doctors about your symptoms and depending on how severe they are there are a myriad of others things you can try as well, saying "popping pills and sitting on your couch for 10-20 years" is so minimizing, dismissive and disrespectful I can't believe you then work that into your faith within a couple sentences.
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
Thanks for taking the time! First off, we both never claimed to be defining anxiety, and very clearly didn't make that a part of the conversation. I do imagine that most adults know what the feeling of being anxious is, and don't need it defined for them. Minimization. So, exactly what you're doing to Randy? Minimizing his childhood experiences to prove your point over the internet? "An ACTUAL condition would be..." This is Dylan by the way. 99 percent sure I said anxiety leading to paranoia, which is a very common thing that happens when self-medicating your anxiety with illicit substances, something I have been very clear about in past episodes. Anxiety and other mental health related issues ARE out of people's control? What's wrong with presented coping mechanisms that may bring relief to someone going through any level of anxiety? We aren't saying that calling a friend is going to "cure" anybody's anxiety, and I think you know that. We ARE saying that calling a friend when you're feeling anxious and talking to them about your feelings is an appropriate coping mechanism. Nothing more, nothing less. Never did either of us present pharmaceutical medicine as a crutch, nor did either of us demonize it as you so claim. According to the National Institute of Health and Care Excellence, "antidepressants are to be used as 'maintenance' treatment for up to 2 years to prevent their depression returning (relapse)." evidence.nihr.ac.uk/alert/almost-half-people-long-term-antidepressants-stop-without-relapse/#:~:text=Guidance%20from%20the%20National%20Institute,their%20depression%20returning%20(relapse). Five minutes after we talk about that, I literally state that I was on them for over two years at one point and have considered taking them again lol. The "popping pills and sitting on your couch for 10-20 years statement" is true for many people in my life, and I am very sure about the context of that statement. If you think that popping benzos and melting through your 20s, 30s and 40s is adequate medical care, I don't know what to tell you. What you are describing is one thing, and what I am describing is another. Not everything is black and white as your comment is trying to make it seem, and most of your assumptions are barely fleshed out ideas on a podcast that you are choosing to internalize and turn into something they aren't. Filling in the blanks to try to create an argument based purely off of emotion and not logic. DISCLAIMER: Randy and I aren't medical professionals! Never claimed to be! We merely have conversations regarding our PERSONAL experiences.
@AnxiousPanda-x9cАй бұрын
@@TheUncoolShow The title of your video is "Anxiety" but again you go on tangents about different mental health disorders, you linked a study to the effects of a maintenance program if you understand what a "maintenance" treatment is than you would know that means after the disorder has cleared up and the person feels better. That would be the same as taking cancer drugs for 2 years after your cancer has cleared up. That doesnt mean that it should take people 2 years or less to get out of a depression and again expecting that to be the case or assuming that can be the case for everyone is dismissive. Also if you read the study you would see that people that discontinued use early relapsed at a rate almost 20% higher than those that stayed on the drug. Also if you read further you would see that every single participant had already had 2 relapses and the researchers themselves say to be careful interpreting the data. Now here is an actual study that shows that "Anxiety disorders are often underrecognized and undertreated in primary care. Treatment is indicated when a patient shows marked distress or suffers from complications resulting from the disorder." and "Anxiety disorders should be treated with psychological therapy, pharmacotherapy, or a combination of both." That doesnt always mean drugs are the main key, but that everyone experiencing this WILL do better with real help and not just calling your friend or going for a walk. That is bad advice if someone hasnt already sought professional help. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5573566/ I am not minimizing Randy's experience, I am saying that if he is equating his 1 instance of missing his mom as a child vs children who physically cant leave to school because they are scared he is minimizing the experience of children who has a serious condition outside of a normal experience. Again "... that is pretty normal for children unless it was a regular occurrence and caused other issues during childhood", so if it was an on-going problem for Randy I empathize, otherwise he is diminishing the real effect of that disorder. Anxiety leading to paranoia is not the only direction that can go, some people can have paranoia without anxiety at all. @15:40-16:05, you ask about if you think people are out to get you and then say that I am reading that's a common symptom of anxiety. This is just blanket false, they are separate disorders and that symptom is not a symptom of anxiety, but paranoia can be caused by anxiety. What I think you are referring to with illicit drugs is a drug induced psychosis which again is a totally separate thing.
@randy_savage95Ай бұрын
@@AnxiousPanda-x9cyou appear very knowledgeable on anxiety and almost seem to give power to it.. you might as well make your own podcast since you have so much to say. I did in fact struggle with separation anxiety most of my childhood I just alluded to one instance because I didn’t want to spend half the episode going into detail. We clearly triggered you enough on this where you had to make a new anonymous KZread account to hate. Either way god bless you and thanks for leaving feedback
@AnxiousPanda-x9cАй бұрын
@@randy_savage95 I'm not giving power to anxiety, I am just pointing out bad advice and things that will cause people to be worse off than if they actually go to a professional for help. You would've made a much better episode actually discussing those experiences instead of talking about how using drugs to help is causing you to be "unsafe and unwell" @30:50 and instead you should be "breathing, hiking, praying and being grateful" @28:38 as you put it to get better. You should invite me as a guest, I'd be happy to discuss it further
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
@@AnxiousPanda-x9cthat leads me to ask do we know you personally?
@megankidd1061Ай бұрын
Good episode keep it up!!!❤
@Dylan_WilderАй бұрын
Dylan sucks
@loudnoizesАй бұрын
I like your videos. I think you touch on some powerful topics. yea yo curbstomp didnt your mother teach you better?
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
Appreciate it more will be coming 🙏
@lCurbstompАй бұрын
Who named the show? I know Dylan respects himself more than this.
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
I did actually! Named it after a scene (and more of a philosophy I am trying to adopt) off of a movie called "Almost Famous" which is important to me and some very important people in my life! kzread.info/dash/bejne/pGerj8miedG7c5s.html
@lCurbstompАй бұрын
Paha ya mean genuine opinions of who you are? Maybe that is who you are, and their opinion of you is accurate. And maybe you "lashing out" is more of a hissy fit and you are not respectable. By the grace, what will you do to stop being viewed as who you really are?
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
Lol...this is Dylan. If you'd like to stop remaining anonymous and wish to chat. We can do that? Randy and I are both processing parts of ourselves that we don't like and are attempting to learn and grow from past mistakes. If you can't respect that, your whole perspective is whack.
@decius596Ай бұрын
He's doing it right now
@Dylan_WilderАй бұрын
What are YOU doing right now? Nada.
@ChristianL2421Ай бұрын
Susan and Marty should be proud of the wise words from you Randy
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
Thank you buddy 😂
@JabariParkerrАй бұрын
Randomly was listening to podcasts and came across this one. Great work fellas, touched my heart
@randy_savage95Ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Many more discussions to come 🙏
@StevenBeck-qv5cvАй бұрын
Love that you guys are back
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
Thank you so much Steven! We really appreciate the support! Genuinely.
@cherylbrandenburg4412Ай бұрын
Hi Dylan and Randy I tune in to catch people pleasing all of it is true
@TheUncoolShowАй бұрын
Thanks Cheryl :) you're the best. Love you very very much and hope you're having a good day
@crunkdaddy11Ай бұрын
support comment
@vincesalazar57194 ай бұрын
🤭 "promo sm"
@abbasrizvi73665 ай бұрын
Hey Randy ! It was great seeing you in Houston! Show content is great ! Keep going both !
@randy_savage955 ай бұрын
Love ya Abbas 😎
@JabariParkerr6 ай бұрын
I like that you focus on the quality of the content
@TheUncoolShow6 ай бұрын
Appreciate you! We are VERY amateur but we are going to continue to grow. Always LOVED Jabari Parker. One of the biggest NBA what-if's of all time for me. Would've been a 27 PPG scorer easily.
@Thefunhouse486 ай бұрын
Hey uncoolers, what’s on the bookshelf?
@TheUncoolShow6 ай бұрын
Books and records and films and sports memorabilia! We are definitely trying to find ways to make the background more visually appealing!
@Thefunhouse486 ай бұрын
Love the passion 😊
@TheUncoolShow6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much John. God bless
@Jay-ks9sk6 ай бұрын
Amazing pipes on you Randy!!
@JabariParkerr7 ай бұрын
I think the quality of the show is decent but would be better if Dylan brought back the socks. Nothing says good podcast like a really dirty sock in the center of everything
@user-lz2yo7dh7c7 ай бұрын
Happy Dads sponsor them already!
@crunkdaddy117 ай бұрын
Support comment
@walleye7927 ай бұрын
Take me a little while to be sold on love. Yet he is doing better. Joe barry needs to go no question
@randy_savage957 ай бұрын
Agreed just have to trust the process!
@Mr_Burns_7 ай бұрын
Highnoon is far superior to happy dad
@randy_savage957 ай бұрын
Don’t say that so loud buddy we need the happy dad sponsor 😂
@walleye7927 ай бұрын
I still haven't been bought on love yet it is way to soon to jump on the bandwagon for a quarterback yes he played well for three weeks wait three years before he proves himself
@randy_savage957 ай бұрын
I think all we are trying to say is that Jordan clearly has this team rallying around him and no one is ready to crown him yet haha
@walleye7927 ай бұрын
Fire Joe BARRY
@walleye7928 ай бұрын
Packers are still a very young team yet,going to take a few years to put it all together yet
@randy_savage958 ай бұрын
Couple years and look out!
@ChristianL24218 ай бұрын
Sup randy
@andrewdubow8 ай бұрын
Oh my! It appears I have been blatantly misquoted!
@Dylan_Wilder8 ай бұрын
Oh Randy ❤
@randy_savage958 ай бұрын
Got you on the next one lol
@Mr_Burns_8 ай бұрын
Randy's still salty you threw that game of rocket league
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Another great episode from you both. Been a long time listener but had to sign here for this comment. I just want to say dont listen to anyone hating. These are YOUR experiences. These are YOUR trials and tribulations. And no one can take that from you. Keep being great! Love the new direction. Much love
We appreciate that Jimmy! Thank you for the support 🙏
Did you guys do any research at all into this topic before posting this video? It comes off as the most minimizing dismissive and down right incorrect take on the topic I have seen in a long time. Neither of you can even define what anxiety is. What anxiety actually is is the feeling of dread/ despair/ worry that something or more than likely everything can and will go wrong at all times. Randy talks about a general childhood separation anxiety that is pretty normal for children unless it was a regular occurrence and caused other issues during childhood. An actual condition would be when it gets to the point of not wanting to go to school because you cant be away from your parent that long. Then Dylan goes into how anxiety is people being out to get you at all times, that would be classified under paranoia, a very separate disorder. Anxiety is not a catch all term for any mental disorder and co-mingling them as if they are all under one condition is minimization and frankly disrespectful to people who deal with it regularly. @10:32 Dylan says all Anxiety and mental issues are out of our control but the entire rest of the episode is almost dedicated to how to control it and coping mechanisms. If we have no control over the disease why would you suggest those things? You later talk about how dealing with anxiety is as simple as calling a friend or going for a walk. Do you guys understand that anxiety in its worst form can physically change the makeup and chemical balance in your brain? Talking about taking drugs to help with the condition like it is a crutch and that it should almost be looked down on is exactly why we are in the position with mental health we are in this country, you are continuing the stigma of it being an issue that you shouldnt try to take care of the root of but that instead you should distract yourself from using other activities which is especially humorous because Dylan gets on Randy's case for suggesting just that in the early minutes of the episode. I also dont think Dylan has any idea how getting medication for these diseases actually works either, he seems to allude to it being as easy as going to your doctor, saying a few words and getting a prescription for life. You have to regularly take to doctors about your symptoms and depending on how severe they are there are a myriad of others things you can try as well, saying "popping pills and sitting on your couch for 10-20 years" is so minimizing, dismissive and disrespectful I can't believe you then work that into your faith within a couple sentences.
Thanks for taking the time! First off, we both never claimed to be defining anxiety, and very clearly didn't make that a part of the conversation. I do imagine that most adults know what the feeling of being anxious is, and don't need it defined for them. Minimization. So, exactly what you're doing to Randy? Minimizing his childhood experiences to prove your point over the internet? "An ACTUAL condition would be..." This is Dylan by the way. 99 percent sure I said anxiety leading to paranoia, which is a very common thing that happens when self-medicating your anxiety with illicit substances, something I have been very clear about in past episodes. Anxiety and other mental health related issues ARE out of people's control? What's wrong with presented coping mechanisms that may bring relief to someone going through any level of anxiety? We aren't saying that calling a friend is going to "cure" anybody's anxiety, and I think you know that. We ARE saying that calling a friend when you're feeling anxious and talking to them about your feelings is an appropriate coping mechanism. Nothing more, nothing less. Never did either of us present pharmaceutical medicine as a crutch, nor did either of us demonize it as you so claim. According to the National Institute of Health and Care Excellence, "antidepressants are to be used as 'maintenance' treatment for up to 2 years to prevent their depression returning (relapse)." evidence.nihr.ac.uk/alert/almost-half-people-long-term-antidepressants-stop-without-relapse/#:~:text=Guidance%20from%20the%20National%20Institute,their%20depression%20returning%20(relapse). Five minutes after we talk about that, I literally state that I was on them for over two years at one point and have considered taking them again lol. The "popping pills and sitting on your couch for 10-20 years statement" is true for many people in my life, and I am very sure about the context of that statement. If you think that popping benzos and melting through your 20s, 30s and 40s is adequate medical care, I don't know what to tell you. What you are describing is one thing, and what I am describing is another. Not everything is black and white as your comment is trying to make it seem, and most of your assumptions are barely fleshed out ideas on a podcast that you are choosing to internalize and turn into something they aren't. Filling in the blanks to try to create an argument based purely off of emotion and not logic. DISCLAIMER: Randy and I aren't medical professionals! Never claimed to be! We merely have conversations regarding our PERSONAL experiences.
@@TheUncoolShow The title of your video is "Anxiety" but again you go on tangents about different mental health disorders, you linked a study to the effects of a maintenance program if you understand what a "maintenance" treatment is than you would know that means after the disorder has cleared up and the person feels better. That would be the same as taking cancer drugs for 2 years after your cancer has cleared up. That doesnt mean that it should take people 2 years or less to get out of a depression and again expecting that to be the case or assuming that can be the case for everyone is dismissive. Also if you read the study you would see that people that discontinued use early relapsed at a rate almost 20% higher than those that stayed on the drug. Also if you read further you would see that every single participant had already had 2 relapses and the researchers themselves say to be careful interpreting the data. Now here is an actual study that shows that "Anxiety disorders are often underrecognized and undertreated in primary care. Treatment is indicated when a patient shows marked distress or suffers from complications resulting from the disorder." and "Anxiety disorders should be treated with psychological therapy, pharmacotherapy, or a combination of both." That doesnt always mean drugs are the main key, but that everyone experiencing this WILL do better with real help and not just calling your friend or going for a walk. That is bad advice if someone hasnt already sought professional help. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5573566/ I am not minimizing Randy's experience, I am saying that if he is equating his 1 instance of missing his mom as a child vs children who physically cant leave to school because they are scared he is minimizing the experience of children who has a serious condition outside of a normal experience. Again "... that is pretty normal for children unless it was a regular occurrence and caused other issues during childhood", so if it was an on-going problem for Randy I empathize, otherwise he is diminishing the real effect of that disorder. Anxiety leading to paranoia is not the only direction that can go, some people can have paranoia without anxiety at all. @15:40-16:05, you ask about if you think people are out to get you and then say that I am reading that's a common symptom of anxiety. This is just blanket false, they are separate disorders and that symptom is not a symptom of anxiety, but paranoia can be caused by anxiety. What I think you are referring to with illicit drugs is a drug induced psychosis which again is a totally separate thing.
@@AnxiousPanda-x9cyou appear very knowledgeable on anxiety and almost seem to give power to it.. you might as well make your own podcast since you have so much to say. I did in fact struggle with separation anxiety most of my childhood I just alluded to one instance because I didn’t want to spend half the episode going into detail. We clearly triggered you enough on this where you had to make a new anonymous KZread account to hate. Either way god bless you and thanks for leaving feedback
@@randy_savage95 I'm not giving power to anxiety, I am just pointing out bad advice and things that will cause people to be worse off than if they actually go to a professional for help. You would've made a much better episode actually discussing those experiences instead of talking about how using drugs to help is causing you to be "unsafe and unwell" @30:50 and instead you should be "breathing, hiking, praying and being grateful" @28:38 as you put it to get better. You should invite me as a guest, I'd be happy to discuss it further
@@AnxiousPanda-x9cthat leads me to ask do we know you personally?
Good episode keep it up!!!❤
Dylan sucks
I like your videos. I think you touch on some powerful topics. yea yo curbstomp didnt your mother teach you better?
Appreciate it more will be coming 🙏
Who named the show? I know Dylan respects himself more than this.
I did actually! Named it after a scene (and more of a philosophy I am trying to adopt) off of a movie called "Almost Famous" which is important to me and some very important people in my life! kzread.info/dash/bejne/pGerj8miedG7c5s.html
Paha ya mean genuine opinions of who you are? Maybe that is who you are, and their opinion of you is accurate. And maybe you "lashing out" is more of a hissy fit and you are not respectable. By the grace, what will you do to stop being viewed as who you really are?
Lol...this is Dylan. If you'd like to stop remaining anonymous and wish to chat. We can do that? Randy and I are both processing parts of ourselves that we don't like and are attempting to learn and grow from past mistakes. If you can't respect that, your whole perspective is whack.
He's doing it right now
What are YOU doing right now? Nada.
Susan and Marty should be proud of the wise words from you Randy
Thank you buddy 😂
Randomly was listening to podcasts and came across this one. Great work fellas, touched my heart
Thank you so much! Many more discussions to come 🙏
Love that you guys are back
Thank you so much Steven! We really appreciate the support! Genuinely.
Hi Dylan and Randy I tune in to catch people pleasing all of it is true
Thanks Cheryl :) you're the best. Love you very very much and hope you're having a good day
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🤭 "promo sm"
Hey Randy ! It was great seeing you in Houston! Show content is great ! Keep going both !
Love ya Abbas 😎
I like that you focus on the quality of the content
Appreciate you! We are VERY amateur but we are going to continue to grow. Always LOVED Jabari Parker. One of the biggest NBA what-if's of all time for me. Would've been a 27 PPG scorer easily.
Hey uncoolers, what’s on the bookshelf?
Books and records and films and sports memorabilia! We are definitely trying to find ways to make the background more visually appealing!
Love the passion 😊
Thank you so much John. God bless
Amazing pipes on you Randy!!
I think the quality of the show is decent but would be better if Dylan brought back the socks. Nothing says good podcast like a really dirty sock in the center of everything
Happy Dads sponsor them already!
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Take me a little while to be sold on love. Yet he is doing better. Joe barry needs to go no question
Agreed just have to trust the process!
Highnoon is far superior to happy dad
Don’t say that so loud buddy we need the happy dad sponsor 😂
I still haven't been bought on love yet it is way to soon to jump on the bandwagon for a quarterback yes he played well for three weeks wait three years before he proves himself
I think all we are trying to say is that Jordan clearly has this team rallying around him and no one is ready to crown him yet haha
Fire Joe BARRY
Packers are still a very young team yet,going to take a few years to put it all together yet
Couple years and look out!
Sup randy
Oh my! It appears I have been blatantly misquoted!
Oh Randy ❤
Got you on the next one lol
Randy's still salty you threw that game of rocket league
LFG
Jordan Love is a bum. Love you both 😘
:)
PBG
lets go!
Go pack go
Great content! 10/10