I’m autistic and adhd and I’m a girl who almost 29 in 2024 I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend since 2017 and still going he’s just from South Korea he’s 16 hours a head of me! No he’s not bts but he’s amazing he’s normal and has no disabilities…. We love each other so much oh and he’s gonna be 29 as well!
@RascalMcBants2 ай бұрын
42:07 "Because I'm very heavily into touching young children." What?
@jedjones54064 ай бұрын
I was mainstreamed but very badly bullied. I got badly beaten a lot. I think I would have had a better life in special schools 😊Now I suffer depression and anxiety. I don’t believe in myself. I feel worthless and only good for a punching bag. I believed all the negative stuff said to me.
@WaiteLaura4 ай бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear that Jed - schools can be very cruel places. Do you have support with how you were affected by your experiences? L
@jedjones54064 ай бұрын
@@WaiteLaura Thanks. Yeah I am getting a bit of support thanks.
@jedjones54064 ай бұрын
@@WaiteLaura I just wish I could have a go fund me page so I can get a small house of my own and an emotional support dog. That would make me the happiest person in the World
@amyahlquist34366 ай бұрын
They are kidnappers there has to be a better way. These days reunification isn’t the CPS goal especially in the US it is very lucrative for the states and the children come out worse for being in foster care . I knew a family that was separated because they like their kid play in a fenced in back yard while the mom was washing dishes from breakfast the kid was 10 they called it neglect but the truth was their next door neighbor didn’t like them and wanted them gone. The parents lawyered up and got their kid back but CPS was relentless it was like they got put on some kind of radar. They can harass parents even after they have proven themselves fit over and over again. Their child however didn’t come back the same she went through trauma while in foster care. So the end result CPS traumatized this family and harmed the child. They also had a six month old boy in the home as well so they might have been after getting him adopted because that’s the prime age and interest for the states to make the most money. The family won a restraining order with the judge saying that it was appalling the were continuing to harass them and ordered CPS to stop perusing the matter.
@beclwhite7 ай бұрын
Jonathon is a bit too fixated on looks.
@MelissaG317 ай бұрын
My name Melissa golby 11,2992 sorry I ❤😂fril. Very Audrey
@MelissaG318 ай бұрын
Topsy and tim hospital melissa golby ❤❤😂🎉😢😮😮😅😊
@MelissaG318 ай бұрын
Topsy and tim hospital 🏥 11,2992
@MelissaG318 ай бұрын
Topsy and tim hospital 🏥 11,2992 ❤😢😢😮😅😊
@MelissaG318 ай бұрын
A1 songs 🎵 ❤😂🎉😢
@MelissaG318 ай бұрын
Topsy and tim hospital 🏥 11,2992
@MelissaG318 ай бұрын
My name Melissa ❤happy 😊 😃 Xmas present 🎁 😄
@loobyh62748 ай бұрын
So tragic he got taunted because of his mum condition you can tell how much she loved him he turned to drugs as a coping mechanism sadly dying of an accidental overdose at the age of 19
@MelissaG319 ай бұрын
Chessington world of adventures
@MelissaG319 ай бұрын
Boyfriend ❤😂🎉🎉😮😅😊
@MelissaG319 ай бұрын
Learning disability ❤😂😂🎉😮😅
@MelissaG319 ай бұрын
Monday 30th October ❤😂😂😢😮😅
@underdogrescueofflorida231311 ай бұрын
Very compassionate and intelligent care workers and family members. First have gratitude for their patient company and you'll be come likeable.
@FranTaylor04 Жыл бұрын
Hello everyone! I am the second child of Tracey and Mark, I was removed at birth and later on adopted! I appreciate all the lovely comments you guys have left over the years, they truly had their hearts in the right place, take care ❤
@WaiteLaura Жыл бұрын
Fran, thank you so much for posting. My students continue to watch this documentary as part of their university studies. It raises such important issues about the rights of parents with learning difficulties and the rights of children. I hope things worked out ok for you. laura
@FranTaylor04 Жыл бұрын
@@WaiteLaura wow! I begin my journey now to understand their genetics and lifestyles. I am at university too, I study psychology. Now onto my second year. Do you have the rest of the documentary? It makes me so happy that they are making an impact still as unfortunately mark died in 2016. I would love to chat further :)
@WaiteLaura Жыл бұрын
@@FranTaylor04 I do actually have the full episode on DVD which I'd be happy to send you. I added it to KZread but they took it down for copyright issues. I teach Disability Studies. So great to hear you're at uni. Is the way of messaging on KZread so I can give you my email address?
@xcalif0rniadreamingx11 ай бұрын
@@WaiteLaura is there any way I can be sent parts 1 and 2 please?
@xcalif0rniadreamingx Жыл бұрын
Are parts 1 and 2 available?
@ailahtain Жыл бұрын
RIP Parys Lapper, sweet sweet angel, no pain anymore
@glennhoddle10 Жыл бұрын
Kes is a cutie pie and has a kind , gentle soul. She deserves better so I am glad she rejected Jonathan. He came across as a deluded , egocentric , boring jerk. Dude needs to take a good look in the mirror before judging others.....
@rainy.d7404 Жыл бұрын
Just because someone has a disability it doesn't mean they have to date someone else with a disability. What if their soulmate happens to not have any mental or physical disabilitiy? I think people with disbilities should not be so limited when looking for love. Yes they need the support from a carer but they should be able to date from a bigger pool of people.
@darabennett4316 Жыл бұрын
Did,...did I understand that mother correctly? When her and her daughter were reading off the persons profile, and it said, " tall, dark, & looking for his Cinderella ". The mom says, " well in your case, one of the stepsisters. " Was that an insult to her??! Felt like it. Surely, mom wasn't that big a jerk.
@finoladerwin389 Жыл бұрын
I have ld l have a bf and l am working
@cozbox2356 Жыл бұрын
of course online dating does not work for them. ONLINE HAS ALWAYS BEEN BASED ON LOOKS. y do abiled people not get this s--t 🤔
@Shannonbarnesdr1 Жыл бұрын
that is really cool, unfortunately in most places relationships - even close friendships are actively discouraged and prevented, i was in special Olympics 20 years ago,, as well as in the adult social services, and they DO NOT allow relationships they actively would separate people, and would not allow people to form close bonds, i was mis DX'd as DD/MR due to bad evals, i actually have a couple of learning disabilities, ( issues with math,and reading comprehension, and general processing issues ) but i was not tested properly, nor was i ever given proper accommodations, instead i was quickly written off as slow / delayed DD, and ended up in the system, luckily i got out, but i tell ya, after a little over 20 years of not being allowed, or given any access to potential relationships, even when quite a few case workers and helper-aids would ask , ''a re you interested in friendships, or other relationships as in romantic / love '' i said yes, and id love it if they could help me network and meet people'' not a single one of them would... they all said after i answered yes and asked for help, they said things like : oh i really dont know anyone, or i dont have much in ways of friends myself'' thankfully i got out, i even got tested with a visual based test, that is geared for folks who are known to be learning disabled, or its suspected, and i scored over 100, if i remember right it was 102, in all areas was at or a little over 100.
@Isisbridge2 жыл бұрын
Disabled or not, is it good for a child to have his mother's naked body displayed to the world?
@tessaadie6592 жыл бұрын
The comments from the other residents made my blood boil but not somrthing I haven't heard for 30 years when working in learning disability. A big stumbling block for some so called 'normal' people seems to be epilepsy for some reason, people are afraid of it. I am so glad to see people leaving home at last but the transition needs to start much younger and at the same time to be helped to get a job so that they can lead fully rounded happy lives and also to have a relationship, if they want to. Good luck to them all.
@henrychu69282 жыл бұрын
To all out there..u deserve to be here..you deserve to be loved and give love..finding that special someone is never easy..eventhough the ones that doesn't have a disabilities....never give up..there is someone for everyone..not everyone is looking for perfection..it doesn't exist..be yourself..love yourself..give and try your best. People will find good qualities in you..God bless all of you looking for love and good luck all.❤
@stephensimeson38072 жыл бұрын
Hi amy sure u find some one some one out there for u sure will
@pookab59052 жыл бұрын
I really liked Barry, intelligent good looking and just a nice chap. I really hope by now you are settled down with a girl and are happy. One of my relatives has CP and is married with one daughter so dreams can and do happen.
@satsumamoon2 жыл бұрын
Alison is such a lovely, funny and clever person. Im so sorry her son died. Her only child, her lovely, lovely boy.
@bobbyalexander18603 жыл бұрын
13:13 him "she's helpful" her "he's kind" Wow there is a whole wealth of knowledge in those plain and simple words . beautiful
@NoNopeAndNo3 жыл бұрын
My parents 3 criteria for selecting my schools over the years: 1. Free 2. Free 3. Free Did not matter if it was run by a heavy smoking alcoholic lepricorn wearing a cape & clown nose.
@NoNopeAndNo3 жыл бұрын
These humans are soul healing. I find their genuine honesty extremely heart-warming.💚
@BOUNCERBABE3 жыл бұрын
These are the most incredible parents ever. They are much better, caring and loving parents, than some I know
@frankmangan21133 жыл бұрын
I bet you know more than a few ?
@luisharvey-oi3xy Жыл бұрын
Dueieiek
@luisharvey-oi3xy Жыл бұрын
@@frankmangan2113 😢trjekeyeye
@FranTaylor04 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you for your comment! I am the second child of Tracey and Mark, I was adopted and removed at birth, but yes, pure hearts xx
@stephaniemartinez45483 жыл бұрын
I think they are a cute couple seem so happy
@FranTaylor04 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou! Xx
@annierose12693 жыл бұрын
Much love to all my fellow 'mad' peeps.🤗
@annierose12695 ай бұрын
2 years later I'm watching this and boy are they making us look bad...
@zoecook84053 жыл бұрын
im glad my parents didnt bring me up as a kid my uncle did it all and im proud of him. my parents are nobheads my dad is a druggy and my mum tryed to kill me inside her stomach. look at me now 29 nearly 30 got 4 beautiful kids and another on way in june i couldnt be happier
@davidyoung5640 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations you spawned
@zoecook84053 жыл бұрын
really the fat man says she ugly seen the state of him fat as out and nasty! this is why i never go for fat lads there to nasty and think about themselfs and nobody else. so glad im in a loveing relationship and got a skinny man
@Jay-er6oo3 жыл бұрын
This was a brilliant watch. Thanks for the upload.
@Jay-er6oo3 жыл бұрын
Theyre a beautiful couple and a lovely lttle family!
@majorpygge-phartt26433 жыл бұрын
How do you find someone who like me CANNOT work or socialise or go out to any so-called "hospitality" venues because they're so intolerable? Why ARE such folk always so totally ignored? They DO matter and ARE human!
@Bebedollie3 жыл бұрын
I love Barry's personality hes lovely and hes handsome. And his support worker is awesome. I hope he found love❤
@Bebedollie3 жыл бұрын
When that support worker was talking about a person with disabilities only gets touched when assisted that really touched my heart ❤
@kathrynmacmillan13613 жыл бұрын
Off topic but what a handsome man Daniel is.
@esthereddy17153 жыл бұрын
best face Ive ever seen. nice man it seems, too
@jamieleecurtisfan2 жыл бұрын
i thought that , cant find him on line tho lol
@kathrynmacmillan13613 жыл бұрын
Just because a person has cerebral palsy does not mean they are intellectually challenged. That means they are completely aware of their surroundings and have the same desires as “able bodied” persons. I hate when people speak to these people like they are dumb.
@robincoffman36583 жыл бұрын
Patrick: as a Muslim man living with my grandmother is quite degrading and I love women in The niqab I find them attractive piously and also attractive and beauty because women's need cobs are sometimes ironed pressed and beautiful but if I had to date a disabled Muslim woman I would love her without her niqab in the house and with her niqab outside the house but as Shakespeare said and I am sure it is Shakespeare beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that is quite true as much as I as a Muslim like material objects and I still do not let the material things mislead me from the path of Allah but on the contrary I think as a human being's body I would like to say there is no perfect standard to human beings anatomy and capability but I don't know too many women and niqab that are disabled thank you!
@majorpygge-phartt26433 жыл бұрын
Shows like this INFURIATE me. Why on EARTH is there NEVER anyone disabled like ME shown on such programmes?! Who CANNOT go to anywhere communal and therefore rowdy, and cannot marry anyone and suffer absolutely APPALLING conditions all the time, every morning, noon and night! Like far more severe misophonia, which means being totally cut off socially, and being FAR too HOT all the time and sweating profusely, even here in the north of england, even in the winter! What if you're absolutely paralysed and immobilised by the absolutely BRUTAL frying HOT weather in the summer?! What if you have all manner of complex life RUINING disorders forced on you so you can't have ANY remotely "normal" life at ALL?!
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I’m autistic and adhd and I’m a girl who almost 29 in 2024 I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend since 2017 and still going he’s just from South Korea he’s 16 hours a head of me! No he’s not bts but he’s amazing he’s normal and has no disabilities…. We love each other so much oh and he’s gonna be 29 as well!
42:07 "Because I'm very heavily into touching young children." What?
I was mainstreamed but very badly bullied. I got badly beaten a lot. I think I would have had a better life in special schools 😊Now I suffer depression and anxiety. I don’t believe in myself. I feel worthless and only good for a punching bag. I believed all the negative stuff said to me.
I'm really sorry to hear that Jed - schools can be very cruel places. Do you have support with how you were affected by your experiences? L
@@WaiteLaura Thanks. Yeah I am getting a bit of support thanks.
@@WaiteLaura I just wish I could have a go fund me page so I can get a small house of my own and an emotional support dog. That would make me the happiest person in the World
They are kidnappers there has to be a better way. These days reunification isn’t the CPS goal especially in the US it is very lucrative for the states and the children come out worse for being in foster care . I knew a family that was separated because they like their kid play in a fenced in back yard while the mom was washing dishes from breakfast the kid was 10 they called it neglect but the truth was their next door neighbor didn’t like them and wanted them gone. The parents lawyered up and got their kid back but CPS was relentless it was like they got put on some kind of radar. They can harass parents even after they have proven themselves fit over and over again. Their child however didn’t come back the same she went through trauma while in foster care. So the end result CPS traumatized this family and harmed the child. They also had a six month old boy in the home as well so they might have been after getting him adopted because that’s the prime age and interest for the states to make the most money. The family won a restraining order with the judge saying that it was appalling the were continuing to harass them and ordered CPS to stop perusing the matter.
Jonathon is a bit too fixated on looks.
My name Melissa golby 11,2992 sorry I ❤😂fril. Very Audrey
Topsy and tim hospital melissa golby ❤❤😂🎉😢😮😮😅😊
Topsy and tim hospital 🏥 11,2992
Topsy and tim hospital 🏥 11,2992 ❤😢😢😮😅😊
A1 songs 🎵 ❤😂🎉😢
Topsy and tim hospital 🏥 11,2992
My name Melissa ❤happy 😊 😃 Xmas present 🎁 😄
So tragic he got taunted because of his mum condition you can tell how much she loved him he turned to drugs as a coping mechanism sadly dying of an accidental overdose at the age of 19
Chessington world of adventures
Boyfriend ❤😂🎉🎉😮😅😊
Learning disability ❤😂😂🎉😮😅
Monday 30th October ❤😂😂😢😮😅
Very compassionate and intelligent care workers and family members. First have gratitude for their patient company and you'll be come likeable.
Hello everyone! I am the second child of Tracey and Mark, I was removed at birth and later on adopted! I appreciate all the lovely comments you guys have left over the years, they truly had their hearts in the right place, take care ❤
Fran, thank you so much for posting. My students continue to watch this documentary as part of their university studies. It raises such important issues about the rights of parents with learning difficulties and the rights of children. I hope things worked out ok for you. laura
@@WaiteLaura wow! I begin my journey now to understand their genetics and lifestyles. I am at university too, I study psychology. Now onto my second year. Do you have the rest of the documentary? It makes me so happy that they are making an impact still as unfortunately mark died in 2016. I would love to chat further :)
@@FranTaylor04 I do actually have the full episode on DVD which I'd be happy to send you. I added it to KZread but they took it down for copyright issues. I teach Disability Studies. So great to hear you're at uni. Is the way of messaging on KZread so I can give you my email address?
@@WaiteLaura is there any way I can be sent parts 1 and 2 please?
Are parts 1 and 2 available?
RIP Parys Lapper, sweet sweet angel, no pain anymore
Kes is a cutie pie and has a kind , gentle soul. She deserves better so I am glad she rejected Jonathan. He came across as a deluded , egocentric , boring jerk. Dude needs to take a good look in the mirror before judging others.....
Just because someone has a disability it doesn't mean they have to date someone else with a disability. What if their soulmate happens to not have any mental or physical disabilitiy? I think people with disbilities should not be so limited when looking for love. Yes they need the support from a carer but they should be able to date from a bigger pool of people.
Did,...did I understand that mother correctly? When her and her daughter were reading off the persons profile, and it said, " tall, dark, & looking for his Cinderella ". The mom says, " well in your case, one of the stepsisters. " Was that an insult to her??! Felt like it. Surely, mom wasn't that big a jerk.
I have ld l have a bf and l am working
of course online dating does not work for them. ONLINE HAS ALWAYS BEEN BASED ON LOOKS. y do abiled people not get this s--t 🤔
that is really cool, unfortunately in most places relationships - even close friendships are actively discouraged and prevented, i was in special Olympics 20 years ago,, as well as in the adult social services, and they DO NOT allow relationships they actively would separate people, and would not allow people to form close bonds, i was mis DX'd as DD/MR due to bad evals, i actually have a couple of learning disabilities, ( issues with math,and reading comprehension, and general processing issues ) but i was not tested properly, nor was i ever given proper accommodations, instead i was quickly written off as slow / delayed DD, and ended up in the system, luckily i got out, but i tell ya, after a little over 20 years of not being allowed, or given any access to potential relationships, even when quite a few case workers and helper-aids would ask , ''a re you interested in friendships, or other relationships as in romantic / love '' i said yes, and id love it if they could help me network and meet people'' not a single one of them would... they all said after i answered yes and asked for help, they said things like : oh i really dont know anyone, or i dont have much in ways of friends myself'' thankfully i got out, i even got tested with a visual based test, that is geared for folks who are known to be learning disabled, or its suspected, and i scored over 100, if i remember right it was 102, in all areas was at or a little over 100.
Disabled or not, is it good for a child to have his mother's naked body displayed to the world?
The comments from the other residents made my blood boil but not somrthing I haven't heard for 30 years when working in learning disability. A big stumbling block for some so called 'normal' people seems to be epilepsy for some reason, people are afraid of it. I am so glad to see people leaving home at last but the transition needs to start much younger and at the same time to be helped to get a job so that they can lead fully rounded happy lives and also to have a relationship, if they want to. Good luck to them all.
To all out there..u deserve to be here..you deserve to be loved and give love..finding that special someone is never easy..eventhough the ones that doesn't have a disabilities....never give up..there is someone for everyone..not everyone is looking for perfection..it doesn't exist..be yourself..love yourself..give and try your best. People will find good qualities in you..God bless all of you looking for love and good luck all.❤
Hi amy sure u find some one some one out there for u sure will
I really liked Barry, intelligent good looking and just a nice chap. I really hope by now you are settled down with a girl and are happy. One of my relatives has CP and is married with one daughter so dreams can and do happen.
Alison is such a lovely, funny and clever person. Im so sorry her son died. Her only child, her lovely, lovely boy.
13:13 him "she's helpful" her "he's kind" Wow there is a whole wealth of knowledge in those plain and simple words . beautiful
My parents 3 criteria for selecting my schools over the years: 1. Free 2. Free 3. Free Did not matter if it was run by a heavy smoking alcoholic lepricorn wearing a cape & clown nose.
These humans are soul healing. I find their genuine honesty extremely heart-warming.💚
These are the most incredible parents ever. They are much better, caring and loving parents, than some I know
I bet you know more than a few ?
Dueieiek
@@frankmangan2113 😢trjekeyeye
Hello! Thank you for your comment! I am the second child of Tracey and Mark, I was adopted and removed at birth, but yes, pure hearts xx
I think they are a cute couple seem so happy
Thankyou! Xx
Much love to all my fellow 'mad' peeps.🤗
2 years later I'm watching this and boy are they making us look bad...
im glad my parents didnt bring me up as a kid my uncle did it all and im proud of him. my parents are nobheads my dad is a druggy and my mum tryed to kill me inside her stomach. look at me now 29 nearly 30 got 4 beautiful kids and another on way in june i couldnt be happier
Congratulations you spawned
really the fat man says she ugly seen the state of him fat as out and nasty! this is why i never go for fat lads there to nasty and think about themselfs and nobody else. so glad im in a loveing relationship and got a skinny man
This was a brilliant watch. Thanks for the upload.
Theyre a beautiful couple and a lovely lttle family!
How do you find someone who like me CANNOT work or socialise or go out to any so-called "hospitality" venues because they're so intolerable? Why ARE such folk always so totally ignored? They DO matter and ARE human!
I love Barry's personality hes lovely and hes handsome. And his support worker is awesome. I hope he found love❤
When that support worker was talking about a person with disabilities only gets touched when assisted that really touched my heart ❤
Off topic but what a handsome man Daniel is.
best face Ive ever seen. nice man it seems, too
i thought that , cant find him on line tho lol
Just because a person has cerebral palsy does not mean they are intellectually challenged. That means they are completely aware of their surroundings and have the same desires as “able bodied” persons. I hate when people speak to these people like they are dumb.
Patrick: as a Muslim man living with my grandmother is quite degrading and I love women in The niqab I find them attractive piously and also attractive and beauty because women's need cobs are sometimes ironed pressed and beautiful but if I had to date a disabled Muslim woman I would love her without her niqab in the house and with her niqab outside the house but as Shakespeare said and I am sure it is Shakespeare beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that is quite true as much as I as a Muslim like material objects and I still do not let the material things mislead me from the path of Allah but on the contrary I think as a human being's body I would like to say there is no perfect standard to human beings anatomy and capability but I don't know too many women and niqab that are disabled thank you!
Shows like this INFURIATE me. Why on EARTH is there NEVER anyone disabled like ME shown on such programmes?! Who CANNOT go to anywhere communal and therefore rowdy, and cannot marry anyone and suffer absolutely APPALLING conditions all the time, every morning, noon and night! Like far more severe misophonia, which means being totally cut off socially, and being FAR too HOT all the time and sweating profusely, even here in the north of england, even in the winter! What if you're absolutely paralysed and immobilised by the absolutely BRUTAL frying HOT weather in the summer?! What if you have all manner of complex life RUINING disorders forced on you so you can't have ANY remotely "normal" life at ALL?!