Hi, I'm Kenny Weiss 👋
I teach the four pillars of the Authentic Self Cycle: Truth, Responsibility, Healing and Forgiveness through the process of Emotional Authenticity. If you are familiar with Emotional Intelligence, their process is like building the border of a puzzle. Simple, easy but it does not give you the full emotional skillset picture we need. Emotional Authenticity provides you the process to put the pieces together for the rest of the puzzle. The hard stuff in the middle that you need to live in your authentic self and truly achieve emotional intelligence.
I will be providing you the skills and tools to heal childhood trauma, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, narcissistic abuse, stress, shame, fear, anger, sadness, self-deception, self- sabotage, depression, divorce, relationship problems, parenting, parental alienation, estrangement, addiction, mental health, mindset, self-love, the worst day cycle and more.
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The behaviour you described reminds me of me and that’s terrifying, I hope the fact I can reflect and see this means I can work on it. I feel like there’s two parts of me which are polarises, the child me who grew up with narcissist emulating them, and the adult me who sees my mistake and how I need to change the way I react or berate others, I really am not proud and feel remorseful.
Im not trying to figure them out. I went no contact 9 months ago. Let them find another victim.
It's not just feeling the victim. It is a learned helplessness. Some of us are smarter to detect it and take stock while others might take a lifetime to figure it out.
The faster you recognize the better you can do
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I never invited her in my life even long before she wrecked my life
kzread.info/dash/bejne/dJOfyqRuc7y0Zto.htmlfeature=shared Haters don't win - about blame
My brother was her fav, she told me simply bec he was 'so easy'
Oneof the worst is staying with someone you're not really attracted to just to avoid loneliness.
No! My young Adults are doing well with me! Iam into big responsibility of my own kiddos. Thanks with the best of these video’s i am slowly learning and sure . We are goodparents. Thanks kenny and All the best!😊
What I struggle to understand is why there is a difference of a certain type of person who may be on this spectrum seeking communication/understanding and comfortable with getting vulnerable as part of that process, while other people who might lean more narcissistic appearing avoid any form of straightforward communication at all costs, even when it’s probably the easier route. I can see that some narcissistic appearing people never seem to quake in their delusions, while others always have a shifty amount of fear under the surface, but there is a real marked difference in methodology for which I don’t see a clear lineage.
Law enforcement should be aware of false accusations in a domestic situation..the man is always targeted
And what to do if the child can't participate in sports (difficult feet bone structure = sports shoes or [jumping, running] barefeet impossible = very few sports clubs without sports-shoes requirement available)??? (There is physiotherapy but progress is slow and/or there are evtl long breaks between sessions) Then the son has only his friends (whom he doesnt meet/invite/visit every week, unfortunately :( or his father (who often works at/after 3pm) or himself e.g. books or his mother... Is this then also enmeshment??? How to deal with such situations??? Thanks for comments or ideas ❤❤❤
Your suit matches the backdrop very well. Nicely produced video.
You are spot on! Trauma impacted my health as well!!
I have two boys.. i need help with my oldest for sure.. its not all my fault his dad teaches him his bad habits as well its hard to fix it when hes messing up everything i teach my son when he goes back there.. thank you so much for doing this for free finally someone who genuinely is helping me ❤️
I have a question. Does this all apply when the topic is intimate partner violence? What really stuck with me was the second point. “Staying the victim allows you to continue being the hurt child”. Wow. I don’t know why it’s so hard for me to accept that I had a part in being beat by my ex boyfriend. I could have walked away many times but I stayed, and although that is not “toxic” in the way he was to me, it was very toxic to myself, which may be even worst…
Both of my parents are gone as well. The fact that you admit your not perfect makes you believable and the fact that you are still manifesting even though your working on yourself still gives me hope ❤️
Its ridiculous pulling these terms out of your ass narcissisttttt
I have extreme panic attacks during job interviews, can someone please share how to get rid of them ? Thank you for everything kenny, i bought your book.
Bless you for helping me i cant say it enough ive been scammed so much and I really do need help my whole life has been traumatic and I don't know how to heal from it
Bless you for helping me ❤️ thank you so much
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Cant agree here. Too much victim blaming here. Sone people are NOT codependant and a bunch of mislabling I dont see happening. I see leople tortured for years by whats classic narcissism and then to have a counselor gaslight them telling them the truck that just ran over them WASNT A TRUCK Its doesnt take a psche degree to get Barcissism right. It isnt brain surgery or a NASA space flight. You were purposly tortured by an arrogant punk who could care less about you and their inner and outer worlds they present dont match. Small children dont like Halloween costumes because they get it that somethings wrong. As counselors we should never think so high and mighty of ourselves to doubt the intellect of our clients and see them as off the mark and we are Father knows best, only I can see and say you cant. Counselor eletism is a Narcissistmin disguise. We have a duty to our clients not to gaslight them nor assume they have to be codependant. I can tell you after 10 years of widowhood with 2 bad dates I have no desire to bake my problems into someone elses or vise versa. Im not dying for a partner. My pets do that job far beyond what another human could ever do. Some of us actually break from codependany and find its a beautiful hotel where you give some worth and value to yourself. This talk was way to hard on victims putting them down as if they cant accuratly identify what happened and scolds them for thinking they have empathy. Like you resent their achievement. Where are you coming from here This is giving me red flags and thats not good. Empathy does not equate to Stupidity. Self reflection suggested here. Im telling the truth
So glad I found you ❤️ I needed answers. Too my trauma has become crippling
Where is the link to the quiz?
I didn't know about NPD..but that was exactly the trick I used until we broke up, well she broke up.
Thank You So Very Much for Sharing This I Am A Victim Of Narcissistic Abuse I Was Horribly Abused Emotionally. I Have Lost Myself I Would Get Months And Years Of The Silent Treatment.Becoming Suicidal In The Beginning Because I Didn’t Know What I Was Dealing With.I Recently Called Out The Narcissist For Using Me He Turned The Tables On Me When He Was done Belittling Me I Found Myself Apologizing To The Narcissist. Narcissistic Abuse Is Brutal Cruel Abuse.
Goodnight and have a good rest!
Thank you , I see what you are saying is spot on . I didn’t know what co dependent meant and how it keeps me in a state of sacrificing my own values .how this kept me in a narcissists hold and effects everything in my life. Glimmer of hope !
Your video is blank in the middle- wonder if you can fix it.
Yeah got it too much on my plate.
That’s me. Realizing I’m so messed up from my childhood.
Blame, shame, guilt, guilt tripping, physical abuse, verbal abuse, body shaming, comparisons, “dress up doll”, symptoms of depression that I want to get checked out but can’t? It’s okay, it’s not that important because I don’t wanna waste their money. Mother and father fight all the time, they’re getting divorced. Cheating? I am making myself miserable, I am making myself sad.
Yep all of that been said to me!!!!! Done with his put downs.
Hmmmmm.....could be....my ex wife did that and it turns out she had sociopathic tendencies. This could be a red flag not to marry a person that displays this. She was a fake and ripped me off. Said she had childhood trama.
After many decades of therapy, I still don't remember most of childhood. Sometimes I remember little things, something triggers a memory, not often. And I don't want to remember much. What I remember is not good.
I just realized that my adult kids that live with me are draining me, narcissistic abuse. 😮
You are the man. I wish I could be the Skywalker to your Yoda in the Dagobah system. Well, in a way you already are.
Wow, thank you for that brutal truth because I feel like nobody will actually say that tell me the facts and let me make my own decisions
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FACTS! Heard that throughout my childhood countless number of times….
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This guys wonderful
Your videos are so accurate. The more I distance myself from my mother, the more memories come up randomly. And I remember what she did while my stepfather wasn't home from the time after my father died. She often wished me dead and beat me - these are all memories that I have repressed