its because women are all the same, when you get older you will realize this fact.
@MorganMindfulness9 күн бұрын
Tell me you're bitter without telling me you're bitter 😂
@yourmomma29959 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness like i said you will figure it out. its obvious that you haven't had many women yet.
@MorganMindfulness8 күн бұрын
😂 The premise of this video is the more certain you are that you are correct in being bitter the more likely you are to experience more situations that'll make you bitter. In my experience including my own dating experience in remaining grateful for what I've had and what I'm going to have I've continued to have more experiences including with women that I can be grateful for. I'm not surprised you're better because you are so certain that bitter is correct that you were trying to convince other people that it's right to be bitter so no shit you've lived a bitter experience. First principles brother, your beliefs create your reality.
@yourmomma29958 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness well, the more you live the more you learn.
@MorganMindfulness7 күн бұрын
One area we truly agree.
@pretoreanec11 күн бұрын
Spend all my money gambling irl. In runescape got bout 10b bank 😂
@tristonjacobs496111 күн бұрын
you’re handsome and you have a good state of mind lol be my man
@MorganMindfulness8 күн бұрын
Thank you for the compliment
@connormclaren318312 күн бұрын
The stock market in games is less inherently broken and easier to make money in
@MorganMindfulness12 күн бұрын
@@connormclaren3183 for real the stock market in real life is manipulated way more than the stock market within RuneScape
@IceycoldYT11 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness idk just put money in sandp500
@adrianwessling666212 күн бұрын
Good at saving in osrs but will blow rl money if given a couple of beers
@somedude222112 күн бұрын
Im always broke ingame and got a good amount of savings irl, just cause in the MMO I know I will get good returns on my investment.
@GeneraIGrievous.16 күн бұрын
We were still intelligent, we just didn’t have knowledge.
@MorganMindfulness16 күн бұрын
@@GeneraIGrievous. I feel we were more knowledgeable however our knowledge was only transferable by experts. An expert archer could pass on knowledge as their skill was the proof. Now we is science more often than not to make knowledge easier to pass on as it has logical backing.
@GeneraIGrievous.16 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness Right, but the human race wasn’t dumb as you say it was
@MorganMindfulness15 күн бұрын
Very much a clickbait title. My point was the opposite in the video. I 100% agree with you.
@skate16618 күн бұрын
We’re not overpopulated we’re densely populated
@kontrollfreek263018 күн бұрын
What's shaggy doing on KZread shorts
@MorganMindfulness18 күн бұрын
@@kontrollfreek2630 looking for scooby have you seen him?
@tagmata187218 күн бұрын
Dude people fucking hate Elon musk
@MorganMindfulness18 күн бұрын
@@tagmata1872 😂 show me a single person that people don't hate. Just one.
@tagmata187217 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness dude Elon musk is literally one of the most hated billionaires in the US, he has his fans but they are a very small minority.
@BLUEBUNNY200818 күн бұрын
I was expecting someone to interpret half way through to give there own opinion
@MorganMindfulness18 күн бұрын
Honestly though, this video is set up to be remixed for sure.
@user-tn2md8du5x18 күн бұрын
I did and now my inheritance is gone
@MorganMindfulness18 күн бұрын
@@user-tn2md8du5x at least you made me laugh 😂
@Shadowplaysgeo19 күн бұрын
I don't have there number
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
@@Shadowplaysgeo I am sorry.
@JbEAFC19 күн бұрын
My grandma died on Saturday 😢
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
@@JbEAFC I am grateful for your grandma. I hope this video was at least bittersweet.
@JbEAFC18 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness thanks 🙏
@Christopher-eq1rn19 күн бұрын
Tbf, newt's life was awful in the real world, and while his escapism wasn't healthy, it was completely understandable
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
@@Christopher-eq1rn I think that is what made this such a good story. Not only that but none of the characters had wonderful lives, the main character has no Dad, his brother is in a wheel chair and sick and is jealous that he doesn't get to have fun like his brother, Ritz is made fun of for her hair and other things. Such a good game.
@callumdeezfuckingballs618819 күн бұрын
I dont even like my family
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
I only called one of my sets of grandparents. Idk call someone in your life you're grateful exists.
@WeekndWarriorrr19 күн бұрын
I feel like the game is tryna tell us something. 🤣
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
@@WeekndWarriorrr As we have a generation of gaming addicts that play games until exhausted before heading to bed because to play less would leave energy to think about the problems in our day to day lives .
@lightgigas19 күн бұрын
I didnt know that
@RuslanMose29 күн бұрын
u are gay
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
You'd like that wouldn't you 😉 If I ever make an OF I'll drop you the link.
@pambennett8967Ай бұрын
I agree I want to start making quilts ... it's weird me I'm obsessed with the idea of making quilts but I want to do them by hand which is very time consuming ... I am going to start making them soon ... and I fully intend to just explore methods for the first few. I'll let you know if I get good enough to sell one .
@pambennett8967Ай бұрын
Problem is making stuff to just make it means lots more time per item which means you can't make enough to live on currently . I do get value from your videos btw... you're pretty centered and I find it calming to listen to you.
@michaelmcelligott6336Ай бұрын
The only uncorrupt bussinesses on earth are middle class bussinesses sadly . Small bussiness is our only real revenge . Clue the people up and explain to their brainwashed backsides why we should be backing the common person and pay the extra $2 if we want a world where we have some say because glow ball ism is not our friend .
@lorddragonyaАй бұрын
Time to take the wizard path of life
@RaGaB5Ай бұрын
100% no doubt, that’s how actually game works ….. recently
@Duck_TheАй бұрын
If you're struggling with eye fatigue or if you just use screens a lot. I recommend picking up a pair of computer glasses or artificial tears/eye drops to use in sessions. This will help your eyes a lot in the long run, it can make a huge difference in your later years.
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Thank you for the advice. So much screens.
@tomv89Ай бұрын
Definitely agree. When I reinstall and play a bit, it seems like I get a ton of good matchups. Then after a few days, losers queue starts.
@dmitrishostakovich3156Ай бұрын
Read the description. Mad respect. Just play it safe. People can be ruthless
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
These are some of my favorite videos I did. I use freestyle dancing along with singing smoking and rhythmic tapping in a ritualistic manner while listening to psychotechnologies such as meaningwave or something for me like polyphia to get into a flow state or as some might say get possessed by the holy spirit before moving onto my activities for the day. I find myself grateful I did these videos each time I'm enjoying one of these in the zone moments.
@dmitrishostakovich3156Ай бұрын
Not sure how else to put this, but your eyes look like you are permanently about to cry. Maybe get more sleep man.
@perz1valАй бұрын
That matchmaking is so addicting...
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
I rub my eyes a lot and when I was growing up would stay up late to game while my parents were asleep and got terrible sleep because of it. In my adult years I actually sleep quite well, am in bed around 10 every night and am up around 6 am daily, sleeping in on occasion if my body feels like it could use more sleep. I appreciate the comment 😁
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
@@perz1val for real though staying up all night against beginner bots. I couldn't lose, I was a god why not play all night who needs sleep.
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Also I play league, I probably am about to cry all the time.
@pezz8029Ай бұрын
Really makes you think.
@alakirteАй бұрын
Are you a drug addict or something wtf am I watching
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
Caffeine sugar and weed are a hell of a drug. Well same with dopamine and norepinephrine.
@alakirte18 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness that stuff isn’t good for you out of moderation. Good luck man.
@nethilymАй бұрын
never thought of it that way. interesting perspective
@popcorn245Ай бұрын
Reminds me of a great TED talk about reframing stress. I dealt with panic attacks in business, stress really got to me, I also used to get hot under the collar in games. Once you learn to reframe these moments as prepping you to tackle the issue, it becomes less of a shameful thing in your way and more of an uncomfortable step on the path. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hJd727iNcdK-dbg.htmlsi=dEOtgSn-rGYjy-9D
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
I'll have to give this talk a listen. I love the idea.
@user-bv7ys1st8dАй бұрын
Do you have any tips on handling frustration itself?
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Perspective is going to be number one. Mindfulness based meditation is my second suggestion. I ran across a video I plan on uploading soon I recorded a few years ago with a student where we went over this topic, some of the basics of mindfulness meditation, and then jumped into a meditative exercise.
@TheShrewdMonarchАй бұрын
Just got off a League Arena video and I’m really into mindfulness and expansion. Lovely
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Got into a lot of the mindfulness practices because of a guy named Weldon Green that used to teach Mindfulness to TSM back in the early days of league.
@warpendant-mh1ecАй бұрын
Wow, this came at the perfect time. I've been experiencing so much frustration during the writing process that it almost feels like I've taken a few steps back. But the message in this video rings loud and clear. The peaks and valleys are inherent in any worthwhile effort. Seems pretty obvious, but somehow just hearing you normalize my periods of extreme frustration enabled me to break out of this one. Thank you!
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Love comments like this one. In the book the art of impossible writer Steven Kotler talks about how he has at one point in every book he has written in the last 15 years come to a point where he is so angry he is on the ground banging his fists into the ground he is so frustrated and has chalked it up as part of his writing process. A book isn't done if he hasn't experienced this at least once.
@simonqwertyuiop6492Ай бұрын
I draw and paint. I needed this today, no idea why I got recommended this but I needed this. Thank you
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Comments like this make my day 😁
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
Drop a video with some art one of these days :)
@rabbitcreative2 ай бұрын
Competition (LoL) is inherently destructive. See Alfie Kohn's "No Contest".
@MorganMindfulness2 ай бұрын
While it may be an incorrect way of thinking, books like enders game hit home a bit too much and I find myself wanting to improve myself by any means necessary for what it to come in our near future. Like in the book enders game, being good at gaming could quite literally transfer to surviving or even leading in a future where things become chaotic as opposed to ordered.
@rabbitcreative2 ай бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness in times of chaos, cooperation is critical to survival. Man is not an island.
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
@@rabbitcreative I agree whole heartedly and with that said when I asked myself why I love league of legends I found myself reminiscing on my time spent playing youth sports and the companionship that accompanied sport. League is one of the areas I get access to this companionship especially when I am playing and improving with friends.
@kingtommyDotCom2 ай бұрын
I recommend a tripod. The shaky "handheld" feel only detracts from the good info that you're here to share. If possible, once you intuit these things, seek scholarly papers on the topics. You're using specific terminology, so perhaps you're already familiar with relevant scholarly papers (and I do mean, literally, scholarly papers from sources like Google Scholar if you have access). Sharing that third-party support for your statements will help to sharpen concepts significantly faster. Good stuff! Spread that positivity.
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
A special video is in the works thanks to this comment. While I will continue to pump out these spur of the moment shakey hand held videos, I also look forward to putting together some videos that are more professional and take the time to look at scholarly sources as well as real world characters that epitomize the concepts.
great video tho i appreciate you speaking so candidly to the internet while sharing the knowledge of norepinephrine
@MorganMindfulnessАй бұрын
@@oodam I was like whaaat?
@Tarik3602 ай бұрын
I agree that flow is a reward and should be emphasized as such or rather, a bonus that comes and goes during one's work and that one should be careful not to rely too much on flow to proceed with an action. It's like a happy bird that lands on your ship in the middle of your voyage, rarely at the start or end of your journey.
@KPenceable2 ай бұрын
My life changed after I learned many controversial facts about the world that pretty much deconstructed all belief systems out there extant in our society. I'm pretty much the only person I know aware of this stuff in such aggregation. (E.g. germ theory not being real was a big one for me.) And it turns out there's just ubiquitous fraud in all science, religion, and philosophy. I believe the flow state stuff is definitely real though. I'm bullish on that.
@Edyremoh2 ай бұрын
Never heard that point about frustration. Thank you for sharing
@MorganMindfulness2 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you for watching and thank you for commenting 😁
@Arcanineisthebest2 ай бұрын
I've ponered long about this topic, let me tell you something. When practicing guitar I've found that frustration tells me when I'm trying to run instead of being methodical. I can nail any piece if I practice slow enough and slowly rack up the tempo, I only get frustrated if I try to rack it up too quickly and try to play it anyway. It's a sign of stubbornness, and a sign something in your learning process is wrong. Not saying frustration is not a part of life, it just doesn't have to be a part of any healthy learning process. Patience is much, much, MUCH more rewarding than pushing through frustration. The ability to be humble enough to say "ok, back to square one" and understand it as part of the process. If I feel frustrated I straight up stop as that messes up with all the dopamine you feel when you achive those littke micro tasks or micro achievements that keep you pushing forward till the end.
@MorganMindfulness19 күн бұрын
Thank you for this comment. It makes me think frustration is likely a good way to measure the difficulty level of what you are trying to do and reducing difficulty in this scenario by slowing down can help make the challenge manageable.
@Arcanineisthebest19 күн бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness Exactly. Your task is not to push past your limits., it's to find your limit, stay there, and get so used to it so it's not your limit anymore, and then you can proceed to increase it. Kind of like a workout. Good luck my man :)
@zjmullan2 ай бұрын
I disagree. I've learned a lot by calmly focusing on what I should do to improve. Getting pissed off usually hinders me both in the short and long term. As long as you care about what you're doing and are trying to improve that's what matters, and for some people it requires them to be frustrated I suppose
@MorganMindfulness2 ай бұрын
I think we agree more than you would think. What you're describing to me is also an important part of the learning process, where as frustration comes into play when you are trying to break past prior limitations in ways you have not been able to in the past. While saying calm and focusing on what you should do to improve can get you a long way, that moment of wanting to punch a wall may be exactly what you need to finally see what you need to be focusing on. Then once you've seen this paired with the wiring from the norepinephrine it is much easier to keep in mind what you need to be doing to improve and stay calm because this lesson was wired in by frustration.
@zjmullan2 ай бұрын
@@MorganMindfulness interesting, I definitely see where you're coming from. If you don't know what you're doing wrong and are at the start of the dunning-kruger curve it's easier and probably more beneficial to get angry at yourself. I just speak from the perspective of someone who has gotten mad countless times while playing a game I care about and it's just clouded my judgement, made me lose harder, and consequently made me angrier to repeat the vicious cycle. I've improved a lot lately through shifting my goal from winning to keeping a cool head. Thanks for the thoughtful response man
@powerowl21202 ай бұрын
@@zjmullanhe's not saying getting angry with yourself, he's saying that being frustrated is natural, and part of learning. And instead of trying to resist and deny it, you should play into it and harness the focus chemicals being released by that emotional state. It's not about calm being better than anger or the other way around, it's about using everything you possibly can to your advantage when learning, hence optimal learning
@zjmullan2 ай бұрын
@@powerowl2120 for me, calm is better than anger. By virtue of harnessing the anger you're not truly angry. Blind anger and frustration is inherently not helpful but I agree with you that he wasn't advocating for that
@Arianschko2 ай бұрын
While I watched this video I wondered why my chess progress was stagnant and then I noticed that I wasnt pissed off that easily anymore which I tried to change resulting in me getting into the flowstate and nearly getting a new record.
@plautus-jc8be2 ай бұрын
it's bad
@plautus-jc8be2 ай бұрын
the manager was right. It's called social skills
@richardwilson35482 ай бұрын
I used to be nice person until I realized I wasn't really helping anyone including myself. People need to be responsible for themselves or they never learn. Unless someone is really physically or mentally incapable they need to take care of their business. Stinky, rude people, and lazy people have no right to take from, impose upon others, or ignore basic hygiene.
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its because women are all the same, when you get older you will realize this fact.
Tell me you're bitter without telling me you're bitter 😂
@@MorganMindfulness like i said you will figure it out. its obvious that you haven't had many women yet.
😂 The premise of this video is the more certain you are that you are correct in being bitter the more likely you are to experience more situations that'll make you bitter. In my experience including my own dating experience in remaining grateful for what I've had and what I'm going to have I've continued to have more experiences including with women that I can be grateful for. I'm not surprised you're better because you are so certain that bitter is correct that you were trying to convince other people that it's right to be bitter so no shit you've lived a bitter experience. First principles brother, your beliefs create your reality.
@@MorganMindfulness well, the more you live the more you learn.
One area we truly agree.
Spend all my money gambling irl. In runescape got bout 10b bank 😂
you’re handsome and you have a good state of mind lol be my man
Thank you for the compliment
The stock market in games is less inherently broken and easier to make money in
@@connormclaren3183 for real the stock market in real life is manipulated way more than the stock market within RuneScape
@@MorganMindfulness idk just put money in sandp500
Good at saving in osrs but will blow rl money if given a couple of beers
Im always broke ingame and got a good amount of savings irl, just cause in the MMO I know I will get good returns on my investment.
We were still intelligent, we just didn’t have knowledge.
@@GeneraIGrievous. I feel we were more knowledgeable however our knowledge was only transferable by experts. An expert archer could pass on knowledge as their skill was the proof. Now we is science more often than not to make knowledge easier to pass on as it has logical backing.
@@MorganMindfulness Right, but the human race wasn’t dumb as you say it was
Very much a clickbait title. My point was the opposite in the video. I 100% agree with you.
We’re not overpopulated we’re densely populated
What's shaggy doing on KZread shorts
@@kontrollfreek2630 looking for scooby have you seen him?
Dude people fucking hate Elon musk
@@tagmata1872 😂 show me a single person that people don't hate. Just one.
@@MorganMindfulness dude Elon musk is literally one of the most hated billionaires in the US, he has his fans but they are a very small minority.
I was expecting someone to interpret half way through to give there own opinion
Honestly though, this video is set up to be remixed for sure.
I did and now my inheritance is gone
@@user-tn2md8du5x at least you made me laugh 😂
I don't have there number
@@Shadowplaysgeo I am sorry.
My grandma died on Saturday 😢
@@JbEAFC I am grateful for your grandma. I hope this video was at least bittersweet.
@@MorganMindfulness thanks 🙏
Tbf, newt's life was awful in the real world, and while his escapism wasn't healthy, it was completely understandable
@@Christopher-eq1rn I think that is what made this such a good story. Not only that but none of the characters had wonderful lives, the main character has no Dad, his brother is in a wheel chair and sick and is jealous that he doesn't get to have fun like his brother, Ritz is made fun of for her hair and other things. Such a good game.
I dont even like my family
I only called one of my sets of grandparents. Idk call someone in your life you're grateful exists.
I feel like the game is tryna tell us something. 🤣
@@WeekndWarriorrr As we have a generation of gaming addicts that play games until exhausted before heading to bed because to play less would leave energy to think about the problems in our day to day lives .
I didnt know that
u are gay
You'd like that wouldn't you 😉 If I ever make an OF I'll drop you the link.
I agree I want to start making quilts ... it's weird me I'm obsessed with the idea of making quilts but I want to do them by hand which is very time consuming ... I am going to start making them soon ... and I fully intend to just explore methods for the first few. I'll let you know if I get good enough to sell one .
Problem is making stuff to just make it means lots more time per item which means you can't make enough to live on currently . I do get value from your videos btw... you're pretty centered and I find it calming to listen to you.
The only uncorrupt bussinesses on earth are middle class bussinesses sadly . Small bussiness is our only real revenge . Clue the people up and explain to their brainwashed backsides why we should be backing the common person and pay the extra $2 if we want a world where we have some say because glow ball ism is not our friend .
Time to take the wizard path of life
100% no doubt, that’s how actually game works ….. recently
If you're struggling with eye fatigue or if you just use screens a lot. I recommend picking up a pair of computer glasses or artificial tears/eye drops to use in sessions. This will help your eyes a lot in the long run, it can make a huge difference in your later years.
Thank you for the advice. So much screens.
Definitely agree. When I reinstall and play a bit, it seems like I get a ton of good matchups. Then after a few days, losers queue starts.
Read the description. Mad respect. Just play it safe. People can be ruthless
These are some of my favorite videos I did. I use freestyle dancing along with singing smoking and rhythmic tapping in a ritualistic manner while listening to psychotechnologies such as meaningwave or something for me like polyphia to get into a flow state or as some might say get possessed by the holy spirit before moving onto my activities for the day. I find myself grateful I did these videos each time I'm enjoying one of these in the zone moments.
Not sure how else to put this, but your eyes look like you are permanently about to cry. Maybe get more sleep man.
That matchmaking is so addicting...
I rub my eyes a lot and when I was growing up would stay up late to game while my parents were asleep and got terrible sleep because of it. In my adult years I actually sleep quite well, am in bed around 10 every night and am up around 6 am daily, sleeping in on occasion if my body feels like it could use more sleep. I appreciate the comment 😁
@@perz1val for real though staying up all night against beginner bots. I couldn't lose, I was a god why not play all night who needs sleep.
Also I play league, I probably am about to cry all the time.
Really makes you think.
Are you a drug addict or something wtf am I watching
Caffeine sugar and weed are a hell of a drug. Well same with dopamine and norepinephrine.
@@MorganMindfulness that stuff isn’t good for you out of moderation. Good luck man.
never thought of it that way. interesting perspective
Reminds me of a great TED talk about reframing stress. I dealt with panic attacks in business, stress really got to me, I also used to get hot under the collar in games. Once you learn to reframe these moments as prepping you to tackle the issue, it becomes less of a shameful thing in your way and more of an uncomfortable step on the path. kzread.info/dash/bejne/hJd727iNcdK-dbg.htmlsi=dEOtgSn-rGYjy-9D
I'll have to give this talk a listen. I love the idea.
Do you have any tips on handling frustration itself?
Perspective is going to be number one. Mindfulness based meditation is my second suggestion. I ran across a video I plan on uploading soon I recorded a few years ago with a student where we went over this topic, some of the basics of mindfulness meditation, and then jumped into a meditative exercise.
Just got off a League Arena video and I’m really into mindfulness and expansion. Lovely
Got into a lot of the mindfulness practices because of a guy named Weldon Green that used to teach Mindfulness to TSM back in the early days of league.
Wow, this came at the perfect time. I've been experiencing so much frustration during the writing process that it almost feels like I've taken a few steps back. But the message in this video rings loud and clear. The peaks and valleys are inherent in any worthwhile effort. Seems pretty obvious, but somehow just hearing you normalize my periods of extreme frustration enabled me to break out of this one. Thank you!
Love comments like this one. In the book the art of impossible writer Steven Kotler talks about how he has at one point in every book he has written in the last 15 years come to a point where he is so angry he is on the ground banging his fists into the ground he is so frustrated and has chalked it up as part of his writing process. A book isn't done if he hasn't experienced this at least once.
I draw and paint. I needed this today, no idea why I got recommended this but I needed this. Thank you
Comments like this make my day 😁
Drop a video with some art one of these days :)
Competition (LoL) is inherently destructive. See Alfie Kohn's "No Contest".
While it may be an incorrect way of thinking, books like enders game hit home a bit too much and I find myself wanting to improve myself by any means necessary for what it to come in our near future. Like in the book enders game, being good at gaming could quite literally transfer to surviving or even leading in a future where things become chaotic as opposed to ordered.
@@MorganMindfulness in times of chaos, cooperation is critical to survival. Man is not an island.
@@rabbitcreative I agree whole heartedly and with that said when I asked myself why I love league of legends I found myself reminiscing on my time spent playing youth sports and the companionship that accompanied sport. League is one of the areas I get access to this companionship especially when I am playing and improving with friends.
I recommend a tripod. The shaky "handheld" feel only detracts from the good info that you're here to share. If possible, once you intuit these things, seek scholarly papers on the topics. You're using specific terminology, so perhaps you're already familiar with relevant scholarly papers (and I do mean, literally, scholarly papers from sources like Google Scholar if you have access). Sharing that third-party support for your statements will help to sharpen concepts significantly faster. Good stuff! Spread that positivity.
A special video is in the works thanks to this comment. While I will continue to pump out these spur of the moment shakey hand held videos, I also look forward to putting together some videos that are more professional and take the time to look at scholarly sources as well as real world characters that epitomize the concepts.
MONDAY TECHNEWSDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY WOOOOOO
my bad bro wrong video 😭
great video tho i appreciate you speaking so candidly to the internet while sharing the knowledge of norepinephrine
@@oodam I was like whaaat?
I agree that flow is a reward and should be emphasized as such or rather, a bonus that comes and goes during one's work and that one should be careful not to rely too much on flow to proceed with an action. It's like a happy bird that lands on your ship in the middle of your voyage, rarely at the start or end of your journey.
My life changed after I learned many controversial facts about the world that pretty much deconstructed all belief systems out there extant in our society. I'm pretty much the only person I know aware of this stuff in such aggregation. (E.g. germ theory not being real was a big one for me.) And it turns out there's just ubiquitous fraud in all science, religion, and philosophy. I believe the flow state stuff is definitely real though. I'm bullish on that.
Never heard that point about frustration. Thank you for sharing
You're welcome. Thank you for watching and thank you for commenting 😁
I've ponered long about this topic, let me tell you something. When practicing guitar I've found that frustration tells me when I'm trying to run instead of being methodical. I can nail any piece if I practice slow enough and slowly rack up the tempo, I only get frustrated if I try to rack it up too quickly and try to play it anyway. It's a sign of stubbornness, and a sign something in your learning process is wrong. Not saying frustration is not a part of life, it just doesn't have to be a part of any healthy learning process. Patience is much, much, MUCH more rewarding than pushing through frustration. The ability to be humble enough to say "ok, back to square one" and understand it as part of the process. If I feel frustrated I straight up stop as that messes up with all the dopamine you feel when you achive those littke micro tasks or micro achievements that keep you pushing forward till the end.
Thank you for this comment. It makes me think frustration is likely a good way to measure the difficulty level of what you are trying to do and reducing difficulty in this scenario by slowing down can help make the challenge manageable.
@@MorganMindfulness Exactly. Your task is not to push past your limits., it's to find your limit, stay there, and get so used to it so it's not your limit anymore, and then you can proceed to increase it. Kind of like a workout. Good luck my man :)
I disagree. I've learned a lot by calmly focusing on what I should do to improve. Getting pissed off usually hinders me both in the short and long term. As long as you care about what you're doing and are trying to improve that's what matters, and for some people it requires them to be frustrated I suppose
I think we agree more than you would think. What you're describing to me is also an important part of the learning process, where as frustration comes into play when you are trying to break past prior limitations in ways you have not been able to in the past. While saying calm and focusing on what you should do to improve can get you a long way, that moment of wanting to punch a wall may be exactly what you need to finally see what you need to be focusing on. Then once you've seen this paired with the wiring from the norepinephrine it is much easier to keep in mind what you need to be doing to improve and stay calm because this lesson was wired in by frustration.
@@MorganMindfulness interesting, I definitely see where you're coming from. If you don't know what you're doing wrong and are at the start of the dunning-kruger curve it's easier and probably more beneficial to get angry at yourself. I just speak from the perspective of someone who has gotten mad countless times while playing a game I care about and it's just clouded my judgement, made me lose harder, and consequently made me angrier to repeat the vicious cycle. I've improved a lot lately through shifting my goal from winning to keeping a cool head. Thanks for the thoughtful response man
@@zjmullanhe's not saying getting angry with yourself, he's saying that being frustrated is natural, and part of learning. And instead of trying to resist and deny it, you should play into it and harness the focus chemicals being released by that emotional state. It's not about calm being better than anger or the other way around, it's about using everything you possibly can to your advantage when learning, hence optimal learning
@@powerowl2120 for me, calm is better than anger. By virtue of harnessing the anger you're not truly angry. Blind anger and frustration is inherently not helpful but I agree with you that he wasn't advocating for that
While I watched this video I wondered why my chess progress was stagnant and then I noticed that I wasnt pissed off that easily anymore which I tried to change resulting in me getting into the flowstate and nearly getting a new record.
it's bad
the manager was right. It's called social skills
I used to be nice person until I realized I wasn't really helping anyone including myself. People need to be responsible for themselves or they never learn. Unless someone is really physically or mentally incapable they need to take care of their business. Stinky, rude people, and lazy people have no right to take from, impose upon others, or ignore basic hygiene.
YUP
Straight facts.