My name is Regina Y. Favors. This channel is dedicated to exploring concepts related to toxic encounters, relationship failure, rebound relationships, setback and overcoming setback, and life recovery. I have written multiple books which will be available between October and December 2021.
Topic: Romantic Relationships and Relationship Failure
Toxic Encounters: Why People Pursue Rebound Relationships, A Handbook, Part I
Toxic Encounters: Adult Attachment and the Problem with Rebounding, A Handbook, Part II
Toxic Encounters: Why You Should Go No Contact, Post-Rebounding, A Handbook, Part III
Topic: Overcoming Setback
Overcoming Setback: Five Keys for Entering & Exiting Correction. (Available by November 2021)
These audio lectures serve as companions to the books. Some audio lectures are available for download on reginayfavors.com/. The bibliography is available on the site.
Thank you for listening and purchasing.
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I made this mistake back in February. He ghosted me two weeks ago.
I have made this mistake a couple of times in my lifespan. When they ghost you, it is usually because the person he wants to be with is now available. It's like rebounding when it comes to the hobosexual ghosting you. Otherwise, he would be at the house using all your light bill and eating up all your food. Therefore, if he has ghosted you for two weeks, and it is still hot outside, then it could be the other woman is available, lets him stay without working, and he feels at peace with being a bum with free air conditioning. In other words, he didn't feel peace at your house, rightfully so, because he couldn't continue playing his game. Thank God he is gone because if you take him back, and try to get him to leave again, it could be dangerous. That means he would not have anywhere else to go, which further means the other woman likely kicked him out for good. Then that's when you see him using his mouth and hands. Be safe. They get dangerous after so much time in your house. Thank you for engaging. Become a subscriber if you like this video content. I appreciate the interaction. Have a great day.
Happiness is being single and child free and divested...
Amen to that. I'm in my healing season, and for the first time in my life, I'm resting and accepting this privilege to heal. Thank you for responding. There are more videos under this series. Take some time when you can to view another video. They are really helpful. Thank you again. Become a subscriber. Have a great day.
If you are interested in the workbook on this topic, you can visit my Amazon.com author page here: Amazon.com/author/reginayfavors. You will find The Hobosexual Squatter, which is a workbook. I'm still considering a novel. Thank you all for watching the videos and subscribing to the channel. Have a great rest of your day.
My uncle did this to woman his whole life; he'd go for older women, my grandmother said that they were older than her!
They never seem to change or think differently about life. They have to be hobosexuals. It's strange to me. I'm not putting up with later in my life. I'm not going to be a nurse or purse to a man who is not already my husband. Whoever I marry today, I will have to shut my mouth and let that person talk. A fool eventually utters all his mind. Take care. Thank you for listening. There are more videos in the series. I'm thinking about a novel. Become a subscriber. Have a great one.
I don't want to bring narcissism into this but I'm beginning to believe that most of these hobo's also have a personality disorder to boot! No healed, non mentally impaired grown man is going to WANT or NEED to live off of a woman!!! Woman are seen as a means to an end (supply) for a man that has nothing to lose! They are dangerous!!!
Omg yes here in Arizona the zone area down town the tore it all down I know lots homeless ppl always get trespassing write ups and arrest a lot of them
Do nothing. A person who doesn't want to change his or her life in some kind of way, do nothing for that person. Hobosexuals take a lot of energy, and you give over a lot trying to help the person. No more!
U can do drugs are woman and hang out all day
I love it lady
Thank you. Continue watching at your convenience. They will help you on your own journey. I appreciate you watching. Have a great one.
Gurl I search 😂 HOBOsexual all the time never see you
Use HOBOsexual In ur title my friend or ur hash tags these ur HOBOsexual type men we need more awareness so much more . And we need this to blow up goes into great debt and info
Use HOBOsexual In ur title my friend or ur hash tags these ur HOBOsexual type men we need more awareness so much more . And we need this to blow up goes into great debt and info
I enjoyed this video. Thank you 😊
Thank you for watching. The full is also divided into different sections, so any time you want to watch an individual slide discussion, feel free. I'm still not finished with this series. It might turn into a book later. Thank you for visiting channel. Become a subscriber at your convenience. Have a great one.
Hell no I’ll toss that crap out I threw it out sorry
Thanks for the advice yep Don’t move his ass in ! Especially if u already messed up ur credit like I did and had to rebuild n buying ur own home place now I’m 37 I’d never let some bum do this again
Thank you for watching the video. NEVER let someone burn you again. I think if we take the time to conduct these gap assessments and reflect before we get into more toxic relationships, we wouldn't need a whole lot of time to recover. Right now I'm in my healing season, and that's where I'm going to stay until I get my mind straight about men and their disloyalty. Thank you for visiting. Become a subscriber at your convenience. Have a great one.
My ex did this to me. He monkey branched to a new girl's home back in February. Once he gets tired of her, he will move on to the next.
You lose so much time and brain energy dealing with these fools. I'm literally in my healing season right now. Creating the video lessons helped me to process why I made the decisions I did. Today, I got to heal completely. I honestly should have started this process in 1998. I got my second chance to do it right this time. Hope you are healing and prioritizing your well-being. Thank you for watching the video. Hope you will become a subscriber. Have a great one.
@reginayfavors I'm glad you are healing and thanks so much for the video. I'm healing myself one day at a time.
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These are ideas we often learn too late, but I am still grateful for the opportunity. That way I don't have to die and lose my life before my time. Be safe. Thank you for responding. I appreciated if you would become a subscriber. Have a great day.
Wow! I needed this!!! Thank you!
Thank you very much for walking. This is an old one, but I do have some revised videos on the topic of Don't Move Him In. It's a whole series. When you get some time, revisit channel. Click "Videos," and you should see the series. I would appreciate it also if you became subscriber. Thank you for watching. Have a great day. God bless.
Ok I will definitely watch the newer videos. I did subscribe . This is such a blessing to have come across your videos. I'm learning so much and building my self esteem and confidence up! Continue the great work !
@@TeePalmer I researched rebound relationships for the very same reason. After getting out of a toxic relationship that affected me mentally, I needed to figure out what was going on with me and why I kept attracting toxic relationships. What you attract has a lot to do with your childhood, but there is also psychology research on this topic as well. Thank you for subscribing! Take the time you need to review videos at your pace. If you find the Rebound Relationship Special Topics more interesting for now, then stay on them. You can always choose others too. Be safe. Continue to prioritize your health, sanity, and finances. That's what all my videos are about. Thank you again. God bless.
Had a friend who He left his wife n children and moved lived tog. With his young Girlfriend.
Men make these life-altering decisions of abandonment, and they literally don't care about the consequences. They are moment-by-moment people, and that's what scares me the most. It is hard to build with men. Thank you for responding. Subscribe to the channel if you feel inclined. Take care.
i’m worried for future victims because one of the things we dealt with was that his last girlfriend committed suicide and he told me that she deserved it he don’t want to anything
it was pointed out to me by an ex how these hobosextuals a term he’s not familiar with but has a understanding about these type people who refuse to become employed in favor of this lifestyle. after doing some research i also found how these hobosexuals don’t realize that they could potentially cut their lives short playing this game with women. my hobosexual was physically assaulted by my ex who was coincidentally on the way to my house where they crossed paths. i let my ex know that this person had robbed me not exhaulting all the information because that could have got him killed. i let the hobosextual know not to mess with my ex to which confidently said he wasn’t worried about that. my ex said he was riding another females bike to my place and knew what he was trying to do and proceeded to assault the hobosexual. my ex and i remain friends without benefits for 7yrs and in a way is family for me since i have no family. this has really helped me to process what i went through for hopefully the last time because it seems as though these were the only type of guys i had ever dated including my ex. basically the relationship is doomed from the start. it’s a situationship not a relationship
Say that again for the people in the back. "These were the only types of guys I had ever dated." Same here. When I reflect on my experiences, which have not been many but enough to create a discussion, this type of person, i.e., the hobosexual, has pulled at my heels. I think it might have started in my family dynamic for emotional and psychological reasons, but I also think it might have started sexually when I was molested. It seemed like a certain type of spirit just pulls on you. You emotionally sleep walk until you realize that you are actually in danger. Today, I'm in my healing season, something I should have started back in 1998. I won't let anyone get in the way of this season this time. Take some time to journal your thoughts. You may have a vlog in you. Thank you for listening and watching the video. Have a great one.
Thank you also for subscribing. I appreciate it greatly.
@@reginayfavors likewise i appreciate you and 🙏 also for sharing. absolutely we need to acknowledge what is really happening and there are so many more women being affected. i’m going to create an article of my personal experience to share and pass down. i’ll say it again for the people in the back 💯 were fortunate to be able to pass this information on social media to bring awareness to potential victims that don’t have the resources i have to make it through so they can protect themselves of this millennial issue that has spilled over onto basically anyone
@@reginayfavors you have a very powerful voice
@@reginayfavors this isn’t over and i’m glad to cross paths with you
During the time my ex told me she wanted to separate my ex wanted to leave me and she had these crazy ideas where I would leave the house for a year and stay with my parents while she stayed at my house until the year of the separation was over and she found her own place. I disagree to that stupid idea because I would have been out of an apartment and she would’ve never found a new place. In the end, she found her own place after her cheating. I tried past I tried to put her on the lease, but luckily I was saved from not doing so. Fellas never put, her name on the lease always have your own place
This is fantastically thorough and insightful. Thank you for taking the time to take a pragmatic approach to the topic.
I appreciate your response. I turned the audio into a book companion. You are welcome to visit Amazon.com/author/reginayfavors to view a list of titles. Regardless, thank you! My main purpose is to explore the concept of setback in different areas of our lives and then explore how to overcome the setback. There are so many books on "Be resilient," but there isn't that much content on overcoming setback BEFORE pursuing resilience. Thank you. Become a subscriber. I'm still growing the production on the channel. Have a great one. God bless.
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Great VIDEO! SYSBM exists because there are heterosexual MEN of COLOR that are NOT compatible with the AMERICAN BLACK WOMAN, why? Because the average (more than 50%) AMERICAN BLACK WOMAN choose to be with the man you described in the video above. Let me say that again, men who follow SYSBM was never on the AVERAGE BLACK WOMAN’s radar UNTIL she no longer had other options (multiple babies by the man who sees prison as an option), therefore, dating and marring WHITE WOMAN, ASIAN WOMEN as well as others became a NECESSITY for US (individual heterosexual MEN of COLOR). I applaud your efforts at doing something positive for the BLACK COMMUNITY, unfortunately SYSBM is SOLELY dedicated to AVERAGE ($40,000 or more a year), CHILDLESS, EDUCATED, HETEROSEXUAL MEN of COLOR living and enjoying life OUTSIDE and AWAY from the COMMUNITY. ….as for the black man that see prison as an option (that is the issue that needs the full focus and attention of black people, NOT INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS ie #sysbm)…..good luck with them.
🙏🙏🙏 Why aren't your video views increasing? And not reaching people? The reason is 1. Your video is not being SEO properly 2. Your video is not reaching the right people 3. Not using video hashtags properly 4. Not sharing the video on social media There are a few more reasons. That's why your videos are limited to your channel. Can't get out In a word, your video is awesome. such videos are in great demand. If you do these things correctly. Hopefully you will get a lot of visitors. Feel free to ask me any questions you may have. If i can help a wonderful person like you. Feel lucky. I will cooperate with you in all kinds. I am waiting your reply,,,
Thank you for the advice. Have a great one.
@@reginayfavors Please check your inbox
Thank you 👍🏾 and Amen 🙌🏾🌹
You're welcome. Welcome to the channel. I'm still uploading the full series. The internet is a bit slow. Everything should be up by tomorrow. Have a great one and thank you for adding a comment. Take care.
You said you agree with the lady that said she don't give a man money, not even a homeless, smh I found it interesting that you agreed with that, and your views are against men, smh I have gained so much to say about you that I don't think you may find agreeable but is not to disrespect you in any way, but I'm sure people would like to hear them, I will like your invite first , like I said I'm not tryna be disrespectful in any way, but I find these things to be needed to be heard .... Please welcome me for our conversation...
Yes I was wondering as to why after being on here or this channel for 2 years that you only have 41 views and only 95 subs, I think I have some answers to it, that's if you would like to discuss it, who knows it may even help you get more people, I think I know your problem, first try renaming your title, it seems you are up against men but again why aren't the women agreeing with you if your speaking on there behalf
I hear you give advice as if you are a limited or unconnected or halfway or detached person towards other people, I really would like to hear your definition of love if you will
On another subject, no one can or should tell someone what another person does or don't far as caring or loving someone, everybody has different ways of expressing these things, and doing what we do, is our ways, it should be never compared to what others use as there ways, only if you are trying to use those things to make what your doings are look or feel to be more, either your ways are going to determine that to that person or it's not and you gone need help or to use others doings to prove that , which is never the genuine approach to defining those things, do more or do less, do different things or remain doing the things you know how to do or feel is the way, but the key to ones special spot is mostly everything needful and useful and the things that repeatedly shows day after day that you have unconditional and unlimited ways that you are willing to keep showing and doing , because we all know it's never enough to something that's ongoing, unless there's a money value that's connected to it, otherwise actions is gone be the only ways, day in day out, either be willing or limit yourself and do only a certain amount and if that doesn't work then say you not willing to do nothing more , and the people with these conditions and limitations will often find thereself tapping out or not doing nothing more , take it or forget it, which is not the type of love and relationship that will stand the test of time, these kind will often run it's course, that's why some only stay together for a short period of time or for the time frame they are willing to participate, then guess what, it's time to move on, no love lost...
When feeling to wish you have cheated or wanting to cheat doesn't always come from the other person, often it's used as the other person to make it excusable, but to say with words instead of its being something that just happened, has a whole nother meaning as to why it's now a want or need, we as people are programed in life to it being never enough, we are programed to want it all, to be greedy to be as if nothing is enough in life, people act as they are being already cheated in other ways, that leads to the specific topics we feel the needs to challenge, like in relationships, money, material things, and other things that we often feel we ain't getting our fair share of, nobody is being cheated of anything , that's first to except, second is nobody has to do anything they don't want to do or participate in nothing that's not in your DNA, or the person you are, we often use things to cover up and be our reason for our actions, when it's always deeper than what the now topic of discussion is now , like cheating,
Cheating goes only as far as the two people involved will allow it to go, it is a such thing as comma, which is some are going through the things they are owed as a person that has had the same opportunities in life, and then there's other circumstances that brings and causes cheating, possibly it's things one don't commit to as being the other half, which leads to unforfilled desires that leads to it, there's a lack of connection with each other that forms many lustful needs and wants that either you get at home or other places, it's all kinds of things that leads to the want and need for someone else, it's not to put one reason on the why's to why we cheat, the list will continue to go on ....
With any misunderstanding I may have about you, I will like to further comment and learn more about you and your way of thinking, I don't mean to offend you or your character, I only wish to connect and form some type of understanding of why you feel the way you strongly feel, so please stay commented with me , if you will,
I only have listened to you only for a few topics, and I've come to my conclusion that you have been done wrong or don't have no real heart felt feels towards another person without something in return as the promise, you probably won't do what you can , but if you see fit, which is controlled, which is not genuine, you are a person of self
No I don't agree about the job situation and doing things that shouldn't be done , because that person should be able to do it thereself, I think and know it's different circumstances at different times, it's people that will if could and there's people that will not if they had to
Right, and me not being a taker, often find myself feeling used and not appropriated to the point of doing the same, which lead me to reaching my higher point of now rathering to be noticed by God in rather he feels the need to complensate me for all I do, which has a higher reward and pay back, so now I don't want the person to repay me , I rather get my blessings from God for doing the things i do
This advice is extremely harmful! Stress can genuinely take a toll on a person's health to the point where their body begins to deteriorate. It can render them unable to work at all, which in turn might push them back into homelessness. It's crucial to consider the well-being of the whole person, rather than solely focusing on their industry or financial situation. We should refrain from urging individuals to endure a toxic environment simply to make ends meet, as either way, they may end up homeless, and in some cases, this could lead to dire consequences, possibly even death.
You've misread the video on purpose. The goal is not to repeat the cycle, so once you exit homelessness, create strategies so that you stay out of it. Homelessness is a condition that people perpetuate for 20 plus years. They die on the streets with cancer and other ailments. Once you have been able to get a place, stay in that place. Don't let someone cheat you out of that place. Don't cheat yourself. Have a great day.
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Mr. William Powell, thank you for the comment. I am still building this channel, so I have a two-year SLOW plan. However, it is coming along. I appreciate your comment. Hope you will become a subscriber. Have a great day.
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I would like to know the author's perspective on the success of that rebound relationship if failing to reconcile.
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I needed to hear this.
Thank you. I hope it blessed you in some ways. We need to plan our exits out of toxic relationships of all kinds. Be safe. Keep planning. Envision a future of peace. God bless. Thank you for watching and hopefully subscribing.
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This is the only video on KZread that I found talking about this subject. Thank you it was very informative a new subscriber gained!
I appreciate the subscription. The channel is still a wonderful work in progress. I appreciate your visit. Please feel free to watch more videos on this topic. You can also visit my website where the videos are grouped under particular tabs and by subject. www.reginayfavors.com. God bless. Be well. Thank you again. Have a great one.
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Hi, I just wanted to thank you for your videos! The content you have on ur channel is going to be keepin me good company for the next month or so as I go through all that you have to share. I’ve been researching human behavior and personality disorders for over year now and thought I knew most of the terms and come to learn a few more from you. Really appreciate it!
Ms. Chrissy Price, thank you for visiting the channel. The development of content is ongoing, so I definitely have more to post. It's just me, so you know how that goes, but I am grateful for the opportunity to serve. Thank you for visiting. Future audios (at a later date) will focus on the DSM-V. People throw around narcissistic disorder on KZread, but we really need the definitions and an audio discussion. That's the future. I appreciate you. Have a great one. Be safe.
@@reginayfavors Thanks Regina for the fast reply! Very generous of you to be doin this stuff with ur time. You go girl ✌️
@@chrissyprice7483 Thank you for becoming a subscriber. Have a great one.
Some older men who are well-established, retired, professional, etc may have "Attractive" wives at home, but prefer to date what society calls "undesirable" women. Women who appreciate a man of "status". Women who will be scared to lose a man like that, so they stay loyal to them. I've met a lot of older guys like that in their 60s...they pick up prostitutes off the street and take care of them, get them cars, etc because they can really control them. These guys have wives at home but are never at home. One guy I know only eats breakfast at home, then he's gone all day. His wife thinks he's at "work" lol. Relationships are deep. When people get married, you think everything is fine and they must really like each other..but in the real world, it's so many variables!! These same men I describe aren't even keeping their cheating secret. Everybody knows! These men are mostly black that I know, in their 60s, and most of them have white wives who they've been married to for 30+ years..It's really deep.
Perfect analysis. You are discussing something that I am interested in under the concept of secure base. You may be familiar with this concept in psychology. Secure base essentially is the security a baby feels to explore its surroundings when it knows the parent or caregiver is present. It crawls away, looks back, and then continues to crawl, and ultimately returns knowing it can. I think men, people in general, who cheat in their marriage do so from a secure base: they feel confident to "explore" their surroundings knowing they can return to their "caregiver" or wife. These men are still operating in some childlike understanding. That's my current research project that I'm creating an annotated bibliography over the course of a couple of years. I love your analysis. Thank you for responding and teaching. Have a great one.
Accomplished Men DON'T look towards Women as an investment, the closes contribution by a Woman would be as distraction. Equal but Different, contributing with equally Important but differing in how ones contribution will be beneficial to the opposite sex. Investments improve and gain value over time, by nature a Woman’s value is tied to her biological clock, deteriorating and counting down. But for a Man, his measure is tangible and profit driven. More the other way around, Men are Investments and Women are more the Asset. 🏆 P.S. Attraction forever evolves and deteriorates over time, not rocket science or theory but fact in nature!
Thank you.