I needed to hear this as I stand for my wife of 20 years (together 22 years) who decided 3 days after our daughter turned 18 to leave me and us because she wanted her freedom, space, and indepence, and no longer wanted to "identify as only a wife and mother" even though according to her she does not regret marrying me and that I was a good husband whom she always trusted and felt safe around, and that I was also a "wonderful dad". So here I am processing all this 3 months later placing my full trust and faith in the Lord.

@tinaureta9891

8 ай бұрын

Be strong Brother! “Give it to God & take a Rest”…. I’m in this with you. My husband (same exact situation) 26 years of Marriage. He’s a so-called Christ claiming Christian, but he is Turning his face from the Truth that he can’t just go off and do what he wants. God IS holding him accountable. I recommend , Fasting Raw food all day til 5 pm. Every day. And Pray all day on your knees. Claim the Blood of Jesus for her life. Ask God to Move Powerfully in her life and OPEN HER EYES to truth , whatever it takes. Break open her heart for Christ! In the meantime… Don’t talk to her. She is a Prodigal. If she texts , be kind and business, keep it short. Ask God to Fill her heart with the Holy Spirit❤️❤️ Coming down on her , all day and Night and while she sleeps. For You; Get Physically Healthy! Go to a gym, walk FAR & Pray all the way , everyday. Get fit! Eat Oower foods; help the sick… neighbors, people in your church…. focus on GOD! Let him , handle her! If the Lord wakes you Early morning @ 4 am, get up! Get on your knees by the side of the bed, CRY out for her Soul to be saved , because she is lying to God for the covenant she made. Remember… Ultimately, she may have to go through a lot of fire… til she finally turns around. Could be 3 months… or 3 years. Jesus is Coming Brother! Get yourself Fit for the kingdom. Ask for your own sins to be forgiven every day. Pray for me… It’s been 4 months. I’m praying on my knees early morning… for him to have a “SPIRITUAL AWAKENING”

@Fervent21

7 ай бұрын

I can completely relate. My husband is leaving the house this week for the same reasons. Been married 17yrs and together 20yrs. My kids are all under 18, so this will be a big blow to them. He also said I’ve been a good wife and mother, but he no longer thinks we are right for each other. I never thought he would give up on us and I have been feeling so devastated for the last 6months. Only God has given me the strength, courage and wisdom to continue being there for my kids. Although my life feels like it doesn’t make sense and my heart feels like it’s being shattered, I will continue to stand. May your will be done Heavenly Father. May the Holy Spirit speak to us and guide us. May we learn to be patient and listen to your word. I trust you Lord to work all things for our good. I believe that what God has joined together, let no man put asunder. Thank you Father for never leaving our side. Thank you for the restoration of our marriages that you have already planned for us. In the Mighty name of Jesus I pray, Amen.🙏🏼

@hipowa909

5 ай бұрын

cv19 released something mines cheated smh about 8 months ago. it hurts.and after she seems to not care about our family.

Thank you for this Video. I watched it daily to remind myself that God is at work and there is HOPE! My spouse has left the house and told me that he wanted a divorce (he is talking to the lawyers regarding the divorce procedure). He is no longer a Christian and we also have a toddler together. I can resonate so much. Initially I wanted to just move on, but I know it’s not the will of God. After praying and seeking God, I have decided to stand for my marriage. I know it’s not going to be easy being a covenant keeping spouse, but I know God will give me the strength to persevere. Please continue to keep me and my family in prayer. ❤❤❤

Honestly i do feel exactly what you are saying. Its like how do you get to commit adultery and it's ok. But when I look back my husband did not have a real relationship with the Father and I see most of his family is the same way living a double life. I needed this message

I have been feeling like this so much. I have been standing for 9 months. My husband in another state with the counterfeit and I feel like she is getting everything . I pray God dismantle what they have going

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

I understand sis. I am sorry for your hurt. We are in the season of judgement. God is speeding up the time. This won’t last much longer. He wants his children Holy…he is going to deal with it. Keep your strength in the Lord. ♥️

@teresanunn3793

Жыл бұрын

I pray that our Abba will open the eyes of your husband, bring him to repentance and completely restore him. I pray for yourstrength, I know how difficult of a situation this is and how pressing and burdensome this is. Continue to press into the Lord. Abide im Him and He will abide in you. That’s a promise!

@candishall7689

Жыл бұрын

@@teresanunn3793 amen I touch and agree with this prayer in the name of Jesus. Thank you so much for your prayer it was much needed. May God continue to bless you!

@manda-panda

Жыл бұрын

Maybe ur husband is the one that's the counterfeit in your life now. Did you ask God if he was the one u should marry? Or if he's the one that God wants for your future? Sometimes I wonder if God feels betrayed by me focusing more on a person (a disloyal, immoral person at that) rather than focusing on Him & trusting Him. My husband is on my mind MUCH more than God is, much more time than I spend reading His Word or talking/praying to Him, etc.. God must feel like He isn't a priority in my life, certainly not THE priority. Much the same as I feel abt me in my husband's life. Well I'm working on changing that bc God knows what's best for me, He knows my husbands true plans & intentions, & I can't go wrong making Him the center of my life instead of an adulterous husband. I've done everything in my power to save my marriage. Now there's nothing more I can say or do, my best efforts didn't work. So every morning I lay it all at God's feet, my marriage & my husband & my future. It's a relief, actually, just letting it go so He can handle it for me. Such a relief to let go.

@amberlypettey

Жыл бұрын

@@manda-panda that’s so good- I need to do that. My husband is so much on my mind and hurts me so much. Perfect peace whose mind is stayed on God and mine has not been but in my situation or husband.

Thank you Dani every night I listen to this video!! It keeps my faith and hope alive!!! God’s been pressing on me to continue to stand and fight for my spouse and marriage !!! My broken heart is feeling much lighter!!! I’m focusing on my self and my relationship with God, I pray on my knees every night before bed!!! Thank you

I am not”standing” as most seem to understand it. I have let her go. I put her in the hands of the Lord. I am not kicking against the goad. The Lord gives us free will and my ex-wife is doing what she wants. So I have focused my heart and mind on God. When I stopped focusing on her, the pain went away. I am trusting in Hod alone for whatever the outcome will be. The battle belongs to the Lord. If she does not come back to me then my goal is to not hate her but to come to a place of indifference. If I allow myself to hate her then she will continue to let me down. I’m not fully there yet but I do pray that God will guide her to whatever it is she’s looking for.

@bassman6692

4 ай бұрын

This is EXACTLY where I’m at. We are both Christians. She left because she thinks I’m emotionally abusive. She has made me feel like I was going crazy, emasculated me beyond belief, blamed me for everything wrong in out marriage, projected, gaslit, never apologizes without withdrawing, tells me when to be angry, that I’ll never be happy and is impossible the be vulnerable with. When I realized what she was doing I confronted her. 3 days later, after telling all the ways I’m a wonderful person, moved out when I wasn’t home. It crushed me. She leaves me and blames me. Just another mind game. I mourn the loss of our marriage but realize she was destroying me. At this point she hasn’t filed for divorce. Since there’s no biblical reason for a divorce I’m convicted to stand for my marriage (Mark 10:9) but I struggle because I don’t see her ever changing and I don’t want to be around her anymore. I’m so conflicted but know that God can do anything. I pray that He softens her heart. This really hurts.

@robina3443

2 ай бұрын

🙏🏾💖🕊️

I have been praying for my prodical husband that the Lord take him to the pig pen just like the prodical son..that is where he will come to his senses and I pray for his salvation 🙏

@robina3443

2 ай бұрын

See the video she released today, hope all is well with you💖

Prayer worries needed for my lady dealing with all.of this in Jesus name amen 🙏

Dani, Thank you for this message. I've been under heavy attack from the enemy this week and needed to hear this. God is working through you. The struggle is real but He gives us what we need when we need it. Praying for you, my sister in Christ.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Will! And yes he is. We can trust he is moving mountains. We forget that the Lord loves our spouses even more than we do!

Pls pray for my spouse to change her heart. And to be restored our marriage. Thank you.

Hi Dani, I have to thank God for bringing me to this video. Long story short my Wife(Valerie) suffered childhood verbal and mental abuse, on August 26 2021 my wife asked for separation/divorce without marriage counselling ( a friend of hers recommended against it) the reasons she gave was intimacy( which both of us have medical issues) and communication . I love my wife with all my heart and soul, I was the only one fighting for my wife and our marriage. It's been 2 years since we separated, there's been no communication, now I found out she's in a relationship with another man for 4 months. I've been praying to God since 2021 and every time God's response was the same 3 words 1) Faith 2)Patience 3) Hope. Praying and seeking prayers for reconciliation/restoration as well as the removal of this other man!!

@newdayrestoration5391

11 ай бұрын

I’m lifting up you and Valerie in prayer tonight. I pray you get the healing you need during this stand and pray she will be moved to repentance and Godly sorrow. Stand on the promise the Lord has given you. Don’t focus on what it looks like but speak to your destiny and what God has spoken. 🙏🏽

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, please pray for the healing and restoration of my marriage. please come into agreement with me for my Chinese Buddhist wife's salvation. Please pray that God will turn her heart of stone into a heart of flesh and that she will forgive me of my past mistakes in our marriage. please pray that she will love me again and come home. Pray God will make me the man he intends on me being for his glory. Please pray for us both to be a testimony of God's loving grace and mercy. in Christ Jesus love, thank you.

Pray for my marriage. 10 years , 5 babies on earth 3 in heaven. He never broke an old soul tie and she messaged him about her marriage problems and then he had a “dream” that he was supposed to have her as a wife but also keep me and the kids ?! It’s completely demonic and the more I pray the more compassion and mercy I have for his soul. Please pray for full deliverance and restoration over my family. We started our marriage so holy and pure so this is so devastating but I am so encouraged to have found your channel!

Thank you. ❤ Its time for me to put all my focus on the Lord and not on spouse. I’m still standing as I really hone in on my first love and that is with Jesus.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

You got this!

Sure feel like it. I can't move unless GOD commands me to do so. I can now understand GOD own ❤️ dealing with HIS OWN prodicals.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Right. Look at how many times we have committed adultery against Christ…and yet he was still patient and loving with us. He will give us time but if we continue in our rebellion…he’s lifting his hand off of us. That mercy is going to dry up at some point.

Always coming in at the right time. Thank you!!!

Thank you!! Needed to hear this tonight! God Bless You Sister!

This is so true! Thank you. 🦋

I truly appreciate you being obedient and sharing this song with your testimony. Thank your abs may the Lord bless you.

Yes, "confusion". But I don't want to be cheated any more and eventually, I'd like the re-arrangement by God with another man. Yes, they *"counted me as less than rubbish"* !!!

Hi Dani! Prayers please for: David & Lora Much love to you & yours 🙏❤ THANK YOU & LORD BLESS YOU FOR WHAT YOU DO TO HELP THOSE THAT ARE HURTING SO BAD & YOUR COMPASSION.

I don’t wish our pray anything bad on my wife…so this is tough. She’s the mother of my children so I pray for her covering and protection every day. I hear this often so as a standing husband I’m a bit at a loss because how else will she realize the divorce and breaking up our family is wrong if she doesn’t “hit rock bottom”. Everything is going well and I’m truly happy she’s doing well in her career because that’s been challenge in the past and she’s moved on and says she’s happy in her new relationship. Again, I don’t pray for bad or loss to happen to her but I have surrender the outcome and my covenant wife to God. I just pray his will is done in both of our lives

@michaelsmith1364

7 ай бұрын

Had to come listen to this again as now my wife is engaged to the other person. I have to keep my eyes on God and trust and believe no matter what hear or see He is working to restore my marriage and family

I've listened to this twice and now on the third go. This is major wisdom and I will be sharing. Thank you so much for your faithfulness and testimony, God is using you mightily and will multiply what you are doing beyond your wildest dreams. THANK YOU DANI AND PRAISE GOD!! ❤

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

I’m so happy to know this video ministered to you! Hallelujah! And thank you for your kindness and blessings.

@brandont1603

Жыл бұрын

Amen, I needed to this.

@YatesUSA

9 ай бұрын

I just found this channel... I've been standing for almost 2 years and struggling and losing hope... it is encouraging to see other stories... how long have you been standing, Dani?

I pray GOD takes my husband as low as he needs to go to change his heart. My spouse goes to church every Sunday. He stands up and claps. All while being a drunkard, sexual immoral and hateful. I have seen no accountability given to him by church leadership. My husband is a fraud and I have seen no judgment for his behavior. He continues his ungodly ways. He has filed for divorce stating abandonment. However, I left because he would get so drunk. I felt unsafe because he has a gun and is police. He continues to live his life with no repentance or accountability. I pray GOD moves fast. It’s almost been two years.

Hallelujah I don’t know who my spouse is and who it is and I pray reveals it to me and also prepare me to be a wife to the right person/husband. In Jesus’ name amen!

This was exactly what I needed to hear x

The most comforting 15mins I've had in a while. Thank you

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏽♥️

Wow, this has encourage me. Will continue to pray for my partner

Thank you for this!

Thank you Dani!

My fiancé left me back in May. I've been broken and Devastated since it happened. I've been praying that God brings a miracle into my. Because I still love her. I ask You please pray for Cheryl Ebright and I ( Anthony Espinoza). Please it hasn't been a easy.

Pray for CFH I LOVE HER SO VERY MUCH IN JESUS NAME AMEN 🙏

Yes, I am a new subscriber, a newbie

You’re such a blessing thank you so much! My heart has been so heavy and I’ve felt so much confusion lately. I need to remind myself that I need to step out of Gods way . His way is the only way and it resonated with me so much when you talked about how we all live double lives. It’s so true it’s not what it looks like on the outside I was guilty of that myself. So thank you so much beautiful soul. I am praying for you and your spouse and the ministry . I can’t thank you enough.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Our trust and faith is so imperative as God uses it to move. So glad the video helped and encouraged you 🙂. Thank you for your prayers!

@sallykoch3526

Жыл бұрын

Amen the Lord sees

@YatesUSA

9 ай бұрын

Hi Espi, I just found this channel and feeling encouraged... I've been standing for almost 2 years and feeling tempted to date for companionship and loneliness... wondering too if I am in the Lord's way. How long have you been standing?

Thank you. Pray for God to give me.more patience as I go through this season of separation with my wife due to her pride. I am humbled and waiting for the will of God. May He favor her and humble her so that she can have the best gift in the world which is following Christ. Amen.

I was drinking. With a handgun in my hand. I ask God to take care of my children. I passed out and during that. I heard stop worrying about your children. I woke up changed. Very excited for God. And I started learning. Now I am the saved with a spouse I’m standing for. A month ago they lost $5 an hour and 10 hours. I believe the other person has shown true colors. And today they quit the job.

Thank you ❤

Spot on

This is my third time standing too. I’m encouraged to hear your story and perspective. I have been quite confused how many times he’s returned but then falls back into sin. He is still in the house but once I get a job I will be filing for legal separation.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Amber, if you don’t mind me asking…why are you filing legal separation? Are you being led by the Lord?

@amberlypettey

Жыл бұрын

@@newdayrestoration5391 I don’t know what else to do. We’ve done so much in regards to counseling, inner healing, recovery groups. He just never hit rock bottom yet I suppose. Just pretends he’s better but sneaks around talking to women and lies to my face and to those trying to help him. Blames me and his upbringing. Those I trust recommend it as well-

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

@@amberlypettey I know this is hard but based on your response the answer is no. We should never seek spiritual advice from man because men are fallen. In these matters we must go to the Lord and the word. You filing separation or divorce is coming into agreement with something that God has not asked you to do. You have named everything but God. Your spouse needs to encounter God on his own and that usually happens without us. Im not saying the answer is to stay. Im saying seek God.

@demsticks4771

9 ай бұрын

@@amberlypetteyit’s a spiritual issue he needs deliverance reach out to me. It’s a spirit

@traciwilliams5673

9 ай бұрын

I agree Dani, seek God . There’s a scripture : 1 Corinthians 7:13 if your unbelieving husband chooses to live with you , don’t put him away . Here’s a chance for you to live out your Godly life. No we’re not perfect but keep your focus on God so you don’t get on that rollercoaster of emotions. Remember he is not guided by the Holy Spirit. I see my family as my 1st mission field to evangelize. Look at him as a lost soul and pray for him. God loves him and wants him saved also. ❤

Thank you lord Jesus Christ and Abba Father for restoration in my marriage with my husband Floyd Custodio Goes

AMEN i received in Jesus name 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤

Please for my ex-husband. I never became a housewife because I was the breadwinner. I became a mother and I thank God for that. I feel bad for my son because felt rejected by his father. He has a girlfriend or probably a wife now. Please pray that Satan will open his eyes and that he will realize his shortcomings to us. We hope and pray that he will listen to the Holy Spirit.

@neroharvey

8 ай бұрын

"...pray that Satan..."?

This sounds like me tonite.

He will go church to please me I actually had to tell him to go now he claims he is serving God n goes to other church w strange woman after 23 yrs marriage he abandon us

Yes, I understand.

Please pray for my marriage Amen 🙏

I receive it in Jesus name Amen

Amen!!!

Yes, but how much time do will I have to wait again??? I'm still forty and still single!!!! He's forty six (more or less) and he's almost getting old!!! I let go him with all his sin and his totally desrespect. I'd wish God to choose anothet one in his place.

This wat happend to my marriage my spouce went to leave with friends pls pray for me

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

❤️🙏🏽

The counterfeit tells me to leave my husband alone and that he does not like me i shd accept he does not love me and leave them that they are going far together and i shd just accept i am nog loved .i shd just wait for divorce to go through

@robina3443

2 ай бұрын

That is so incredibly disrespectful and hurtful. I am so sorry you're going through this put on your armor and Stand In The LORD. Follow HIS lead. Ephesians 6:10-18 Shalom🙏🏾💖🕊️

When I tell you GOD heard me go off earlier tonight … girl … you definitely being used fr

💯!

So true

Amen

Good morning. I'm a new subscriber. I was trying to follow you when you quoted scripture. But I do not see 1st Cor. 10:11 to read as you spoke it. Could you clarify? Please & Thank you

@ShaunaRenee_

Жыл бұрын

Same here! Please clarify

gave up on ever meeting that one...

What to do about retroactive jealousy, it's paralyzing the relationship, it's like talking to a demon.

my question is if they repent before judgement do they not experience judgement? my brother lost everything and got on drugs over losing his wife, son, 8 family members deaths he still hasn’t surrendered to God from what i see and what concerns me is what else has to happen? i know he’s Gods child and he’s in major pain it just worries me.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Judgement comes but I believe when they submit God shows them mercy. I’m so sorry to hear about your brother. God wants him to be the Lord of his life. When we fall apart when we are detached from a spouse it really paints a picture of where our hope is in. I pray that your brother has a powerful encounter with the Holy Spirit and he is set free 🙏🏽

@redeemingthebroken

Жыл бұрын

@@newdayrestoration5391 thank you so so much! me too! your channel is such a blessing!!! he’s suffering so bad i see it but it’s so hard for anyone to have compassion on him that isn’t where they need to be with God yet! God bless uou

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Are you on FB? If you are…join our group. It’s under New Day Restoration

@redeemingthebroken

Жыл бұрын

@@newdayrestoration5391 thank you i’ll join now! 💞

Satan tempted Jesus with the same stuff our prodigals are embracing. Its Not God giving them a "good life"

What happened for you to loose everything , my husband is deceiving me financially we had a business together

@marievandenberg127

Жыл бұрын

Same here... may God convict them and bring them to repentance to God and us their standing suffering wives. God touch their heart, soul and will...

boy howdy! Judgement is harsh

Wow timely word for me in due season - thank you so much. What do you do though if your husband has repented and turned to Christ and is now saved but still doesn't choose to come back home but to pursue another route with another woman. I know he has free will. I have been standing for 6 years now. 😢

Three times standing and your husband knows what he needs to do?! Why do you think this is? Was it before God's timing or??

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

My husband had addiction issues. Anyone who has drug or alcohol addiction issues are demonically oppressed. It’s a stronghold that cannot be defeated unless they surrender and receive deliverance.

@tnj4ever

Жыл бұрын

@@newdayrestoration5391 and I'm guessing he doesn't want deliverance yet?

Even after 8 years?

What version of 1 Corinthians 10:11 were you reading?. It didn’t match. No disrespect. Just trying to follow you. I’m a stander of many years.🙂👍🏽❤️🙏🏽

I've wondered about this. I don't think there's scripture...if God will hold them accountable if they just separate and not divorce? I'm thinking He will but not sure.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

Yes, the Bible talks about abandonment. God is 100% not ok with this, unless it’s due to abuse.

@manda-panda

Жыл бұрын

They reap what the sow, just like the rest of us. Otherwise God would be a liar, but bc God isnt a liar then His word will definitely come to pass. And He said we all reap what we sow. Infidelity/immorality is a big deal, so much so that even God said we can divorce bc of it. Don't forget that this is the reason God is a divorcee', His "bride" was committing adultery with other gods. So yes, unfaithful spouses will be held accountable whether they're divorced or or not. Adultery is one of the Big Ten, after all.

@tnj4ever

Жыл бұрын

​@@manda-panda wasn't talking about infidelity.

I have been standing for my marriage restoration almost 2yrs my husband had an affair with another woman I can't do anything but only God can do 🙏🙏

Heyy! The scripture 1Corinthians 10:11 doesn’t match what you are reading

Why do you think some are still standing for 7-10 years?? I've asked God but havent heard yet.

@newdayrestoration5391

Жыл бұрын

You know what Tina? I literally had this same thought today. I can’t answer why, only speculate. I think for some it may be something in their lives causing hinderances (not fully surrendering) And maybe for some…timing…they may have a big call on their lives and God has them in a season of service. It’s a question I think many of us have.

Amen