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@starblossom1370

4 жыл бұрын

I'm going to ✔️ it out 😍

@Blaq_butterfly

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I was told this earlier on in life... now that I know, I’m going to make a change💯💯

Thank goodness I’m under 18 and I’m learning all this!

@Tan87ful

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed 👏🏽👏🏽💯💯

@106FMCatt

5 жыл бұрын

😄👏🏽👏🏽

@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165

5 жыл бұрын

Yess!! Get a head start

@dorothykozlowski5124

5 жыл бұрын

Yes dont be like those of is who learned too late and gave it all to the dusties!!!

@Noodleay

5 жыл бұрын

The Whoever 💸💍💸💍

I have a 65 year old patient who puts on tinted moisturiser, blush and lipstick every. Single. Day. Whenever I visit her she has on a lovely silk scarf even if she has nowhere to go. She was admitted to hospital with a fractured hip bone and still asked nurses to bring her tinted moisturiser, blush and lipstick. And get this: the other older female patients were giving her dirty looks and asking why she was making herself look nice!! The cherry on top of the cake is that it turns out my 65 year old patient is actually 83! #thereisnoexcuse

@briana14333

3 жыл бұрын

So sweet! Whatever makes her feel beautiful and comfortable in her last chapter :)

@akuasalaam490

3 жыл бұрын

The rest of there in their catty and jealous as hell 😂😂😂

@veronicavillegas8926

Жыл бұрын

Wow. I need to step up my game 😫

@TheCelmap

10 ай бұрын

​@@veronicavillegas8926absolutely 😂. I'm doing the same and getting more beautiful everyday. I'm investing harder on self-care and better quality garments. By doing so my husband wants sex every day and started to give me more money all randomly 😂, never been more happy.

@crissyglamdoll8346

9 ай бұрын

Wow! Never stop taking care of yourself . Thanks for sharing this story.

Because of this channel I have started to wear makeup 💄 everyday... speak softer and ask for help... I asked a random man to hand me a bottle of wine 🍷 off the top self in the grocery story... the man almost ran over to assist me... I’m learning so much about the power of femininity

@Tomi_janet15

5 жыл бұрын

Wow😹😹😹

@karlamitchell81

5 жыл бұрын

Tomi Janet lol it was truly eye opening

@dite6s9mora73

5 жыл бұрын

I wear very little makeup and never anything on the eyes but men often compliment my blue eyes. I don't think makeup is that important for men, acutally from my experience they like it very subtle, but I am from Europe so maybe it is different in the USA.

@karlamitchell81

5 жыл бұрын

dite6s9mora yes it’s different in the USA.. especially if you want a high caliber man.... men want extremely feminine looking women makeup is part of it

@msholliday3935

5 жыл бұрын

Me too! Makeup. Everyday. Even going to the dollar tree!

My man taught me that A mans ego is boosted when you two are out together and you look hot, he will often get validation through other men giving him the thumbs up..... men love that shit 😏😏😏 the only downside is when they are not in your presence they are always wanting to know where you are and what you’re doing 😂😂

@Tan87ful

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly lol

@jasminejp5899

5 жыл бұрын

Paul Hogue confidence and ego are different hun

@jasminejp5899

5 жыл бұрын

RKELLYSCOCO Gurl 😂😂😂 I’m trying to swat off these damn feminist flies, thanks for helping Chile 😂😂😂

@yoca78

5 жыл бұрын

This is so spot on , every single serious relationship I had worked like this . Men get validation from other men looking at their women and this increase attractiveness and value in their eyes

@18QueenHearts

5 жыл бұрын

Sooooo trueeeeee!!!! Recently visited my love's homeland since we don't live near each other anymore. He took me out to meet his pals and they were wildddddd with compliments and I saw the satisfaction on his face lol. They took me away from him and had me like a princess, threatening him if he did anything stupid. Flipside though: I'm back home and he started a new job on another island and even though we make very concerted efforts to continue to reassure each other; ever so often he still says he doesn't feel comfortable because he knows how much attention I attract

Get your teeth done ladies if they are not perfect. The best money I have ever spent. Men love my teeth

@pianotnt

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I have a slight overbite and I'm getting that fixed

@angelsweet9611

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Braces was the best decision I ever made and I’m more confident smiling all the time

@lorawest7180

3 жыл бұрын

That's my issue right now. Wish I could afford it.

@swiitdoll

3 жыл бұрын

mergirl2000 Dunne get detachable veneers. Just take them out at bed time and put back in the morning

@JarethLab

3 жыл бұрын

“Got a bag and fixed my teeth, I hope these heaux know it ain’t cheap.”- The prophet Cardi B lols

Also, men know that if their woman starts looking nice and put together, that other men will also take interest in her.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

Men just love when people look at their girlfriend or wife with interest don’t they? Women are also visual.

@427skies

3 жыл бұрын

@@deletetruth8771 Women are not as much visual as men.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

@@427skies Women are just as visual as men, it’s just that “most “ women would settle for a less attractive man if he can financially support them. Of course they would choose a man that’s both attractive and wealthy if they could, but if they had a choice between just an attractive man or just a wealthy man, they would choose the wealthy man as a long term partner. because most women value financial stability, over how attractive a man is in the long term. Women just say they don’t care about looks because it would make they seem more shallow, for liking a unattractive man for his money “hence girls don’t care about looks” so it doesn’t matter if he’s out of shape and unattractive to a women, he’s taking her on vacation.

@427skies

3 жыл бұрын

@@deletetruth8771 ok

@anandaphonglo9879

7 күн бұрын

​@@427skies virtue signal lol

I've been working on myself this past year and working on my femininity big time. I made it a point to wear dresses this summer since I've been slimming down. I've chosen dresses that are flowing when I walk during the day & wrap dresses for date nights (I'm normally in jeans). My husband has taken notice big time. This summer all he talks about is how good I look. I haven't had this much consistent praise since before I had my daughter. Yes, I fell off & put myself last when I became a mom. But I'm heading back to natural feminine self. Ladies don't neglect yourself and/or your looks.

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

LaPerla here she comes!!🛍💰

@Glad2BGolden

5 жыл бұрын

Tea Todd Style Stingy This is interesting to hear from a married lady about her experience. What affect has looking more feminine had on your husband?

@teatodd2

5 жыл бұрын

@@Glad2BGolden My husband has always been a provider. And I've always been feminine in my mannerisms & style but fell off for a few years. But he's been more aware of my physical looks and tells me to go shopping, get my nails done, etc. He's more physical too like random kisses, caressing my body, & hugs. He takes me out more, such as lunch & dinners. He was beaming with pride when we went on vacation. Men & women complimented him on how beautiful I am, how good of a couple we looked, & how he got a 10. I know it stroked his ego a lot even though he's not that type of man he's still a man. I hope that helped answer your question 😊.

@ka8155

5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your comment. I've made a decision to start wearing more dresses too. Where do you suggest I start buying dresses? I like flowy midi dresses but I need cute ones and I don't have Instagram or Facebook for research.

@teatodd2

5 жыл бұрын

@@ka8155Check out stores like New York & Co, Target, Macy's, Boston Proper, & thrift stores. I've found a lot of dresses from the thrift store that are from the companies I listed. I focus on what I like and what looks good on my body, not on trends. Also focus on snatching the waistline. I like to add a belt or have the tie string hit the smallest part of my waist. This really helps accentuate your waist/hip ratio. If you can spend more money check out independent designers like shopfksp.com. She has beautiful feminine pieces that are timeless. I hope that helped.

It's just best to always look put together because as soon as you walk out the house thinking you're not gonna run into anybody BAM!!!! 😂😂😂

@wshelby83

5 жыл бұрын

True!!

@ElleDan87

5 жыл бұрын

That ish Always happen!

@lebnikon1436

5 жыл бұрын

That is the truth !

@luminescent__

4 жыл бұрын

OmG this is the sick TRUTH!lol .. WHY was I (in GIANT-ass walmart), (at 2 IN THE MORNING, on a WEDNESDAY), & (in the GROCERY dept.) when I was RECONGNIZED by an ex Boss ((male)) (from yrs ago) who STOPPED & turned down my aisle to come & talk to me?! 🤦‍♀️😂

@by_toffie

4 жыл бұрын

exactly, I will never understand why people only put themselves together when they are going someplace special. This only means that you put yourself together for other people. We need to stop doing this ladies, put yourself together for you and always be on point and ready to leave that home for anything.

My husband loves to take me everywhere and loves taking pictures of us and posting them on his Facebook and Instagram. He loves watching me exercise, he loves watching me get ready to go out, and the feeling is mutual. If we go to the mall and out to eat he loves buying me clothes and when I watch him play basketball, dedicates shots to me :) We' ve been married 10 years and we're both 38 and in great shape. My husband works very hard as and I am fortunate and able to stay home and raise our children in comfort. It's a pleasure for me to look good for myself and him, it's a pleasure to home cook his favorite meals, keep a clean house, raise our children together and just be best friends. Looks show both of us that we value and want to keep the admiration going for us both. I tease him and say that if we're going to be together for as long as the good Lord allows, we damn sure better be easy on the eyes.

@chanela.7786

3 жыл бұрын

Goals😍

@ashleyadkins464

3 жыл бұрын

❤

@notaytguru8214

3 жыл бұрын

I love this

@tsps4119

3 жыл бұрын

I was waiting for you to say you don't work. I was going to say how you do all that and work a job.

@sm-yj7nu

3 жыл бұрын

How nice!

My ex didn't want me to wear make up and then I caught him checking out women with make up 🙄 you speak the truth sis !!!! ✊🏽

@MedusasSnakePit

3 жыл бұрын

Why do they do this? 🙄

@sachawisespeaks1627

3 жыл бұрын

@@MedusasSnakePit It's a learning curve.... listen to your intuition about things in the beginning.... walk away when things don't add up xx

@millymilly8264

Жыл бұрын

Most men are jealous of beautiful women

@PlatinumDagger

Жыл бұрын

@@millymilly8264 Most definitely be careful of that kind.

@SR77736

10 ай бұрын

​@@lmusima3275this. Or they are insecure and know other men will want you if you have your make up on.

I agree 100%. Every since I started doing my nails, hair and new elegant clothes, my husband of 16 years is now treating me like we are newly dating. Takes me to Couples dinner every week and finally cut out his bad friends that I've been saying for years. Does things around the house and just looks like me like I'm a young sexy thing

@wshelby83

5 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful!!!! I know you must be loving that!

@iloveplatano

5 жыл бұрын

Nice!

@MariamAli-wg6gk

4 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing! I always do that and I‘m in a longer relationship and still nothing lol

@swarren400

4 жыл бұрын

YES!! WIVES..WE'RE LEVELING UP TOO!

@ConsciousProgressReloaded

4 жыл бұрын

Ohhh yes! Get it girl!!! 😁😁😁

After college I lived in NYC I had the opportunity to intern at a ritzy PR Firm on 5th Avenue. It was an opportunity brought to me by a friend that worked in the industry. So the owner of the business -a woman -had no idea prior to our interview what I looked like. I was eager to show off my portfolio and what qualified me for the job. Immediately after five minutes of conversation with this female business owner it was clear that she was less interested in my credentials and more interested in what I looked like. She kept making comments about how beautiful I was and what beauty products I used. I had never had this type of commentary during a job interview. It caught me off guard but I needed the money and the experience turned out to be great. What I learned is that in some spaces no matter how smart or qualified you may be it could just come down to how you look and how the powers that be see you aesthetically add to their business. Annoying but hard to ignore

@valeriegaddy8833

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS....Your...LOOK....First...Thing...Noticed.

@Ssookawai

4 жыл бұрын

You shouldn't be annoyed. You have assets and you should bet on them. Now you're at your prime (biologically) so don't hesitate to value your charms to get your way to the top (I'm definitely not saying that you can sleep around, that's not what I mean by using oneself's charms). Meanwhile, get this tremendous résumé (CV) worked on and by the time you'll be in a very high position, you can look back and see that your credentials were used well . Never play down, always play up and don't feel guilt because you're chosen because you were the prettiest. People receive thousands of résumés, the last choice is always based on your personality, it's common knowledge in HR.. people who did well in an interview, pleased the jury/ HR and other managers with their soft skills, how well spoken, agreeble yet assertive, hungry for work and success... You might not be the prettiest but the way you hold yourself is very attractive.

@ramia184

4 жыл бұрын

It's always about how you look.

@flydiva8

4 жыл бұрын

Krystle Veneice that’s real! I’ve started seeing more job postings mentioning personal appearance. You have to look the part you’re trying to play.

@ps9902

4 жыл бұрын

UKBlackman eastern civilisation is worse trust me. Plus in east they think only white is right which is even worse.

You’re preaching!! I went on two dates with this guy and both times he commented on the way I carried myself. When he noticed how much attention I got from other ppl I could tell it bothered him. Long story short he ghosted me two weeks after and then I seen him out with another woman that was plain lol you’re right about a man sizing you up to see if they can afford you

@jasminejp5899

5 жыл бұрын

Chelsey Franklin my mans ego is boosted when other men are checking me out!! He is very secure when I’m with him bc he can afford me. He often gets the head nod from other men when we’re out and he tells me all about how many approvals other men have of me, Chile I don’t know why he tells me this but he does😂😂

@emnasomrani4140

5 жыл бұрын

Omg sooo true, I noticed that when men realize they cannot afford us, go for less attractive women cause that's what their 'budget' allows them to have and be with. It's not like we're being ghosted, it's more like dust taking itself out

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

On to the next one..who will afford you💰💰💰👜🛍

@LaTrav08

5 жыл бұрын

I think the same thing just happened to me...all praises on how I look, how I carry myself, my drive and ambition...he finally comes by my house, everything is tidy and well appointed....boom, drops off the face of the earth on me. I never thought that maybe I was just too much woman for him🤔

@tamarag9981

5 жыл бұрын

Yea he wasn't secure enough to handle the idea of you having or obtaining options 😆😆

“How you treat yourself is a signal to men on how to respect you!” If that doesn’t say everything! That’s the ONLY thing that should be written in any magazine about how to date and deal with men!

@Tan87ful

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

purplekitty please yell to those way back there somewhere 🗣🗣🗣🙉

@lw4431

5 жыл бұрын

You do these things and they still act up and cheat

@lindawilliams2164

4 жыл бұрын

@@lw4431 Yes Queen a few of them will, NO matter What, Get rid of their behinds and keep it movin! But alot of times ( not always ) I find that ladies ignore the red flag, warning signs. Ex he says he works all the time ( hes building a future) ,and you can never hear from him except hes tired & needs a booty call RED FLAG hes not too tired for that so he can create some time to take you out. Example he never calls you only TEXT whats up with that Care enough to WANT to HEAR my voice!, Stop giving up the cookie too soon before you can tell if hes a cheater or not. If he can not wait, then hes NOT WORTH YOUR BODY OR TIME OR ENERGY!! Have patience. Most cheaters do not hang around for too long there is always another woman they can use. Love on yourself, by taking care of yourself FOR YOURSELF, ENJOY YOUR LIFE, he will appear Queen when you least expect it.

@Willow22nd

4 жыл бұрын

@@lw4431 It's not about keeping your self up just him. It's about not losing you in him, so even if he does cheat it's easier for you to move on without having to build yourself up from scratch. You cannot control someone but you can minimize their damage to you.

Looks do matter but being faithful is a choice because as we can see there are plenty of women who are beautiful and still get cheated on. You should keep yourself up to feel good for yourself and to attract your mate or if you single and want a quality man. MEN are Visual.

@WIGAHOLIC14

5 жыл бұрын

@49jubilee who says a woman can not beautiful and have a few extra pounds. I am not one to weight shame their are plenty of women who are beautiful with a few extra pounds and know how to dress their body and keep their appearance together. Also attraction is natural like I stated it is a choice to be faithful.

@Tan87ful

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

@zero1188

5 жыл бұрын

they didnt bring anything of value to the relationship so he found it somewhere else

@MeMe-no4wr

5 жыл бұрын

@tag line women should keep themselves up hair, makeup etc, but do it for themselves, it is true men are visual, but only when it comes to black women.....because we all no men are not visual when it comes to non black women. It does not seem to matter what a non black women looks like then, even some of the high quality men could careless about up keep when it comes to non black women. Ijs

@artemis2016

5 жыл бұрын

@@MeMe-no4wr Try more like very few care about up keep, especially when reference to weight. Where I live the women are between a size 0 to 8, and 8 is pushing it. I'll say that they care less about hair and makeup, but weight is top priority for high caliber men.

For women beauty is literally power... Let’s embrace our power ladies !!!!

@living9377

3 жыл бұрын

Facts!!!!!

@ijeBeauty

3 жыл бұрын

Yasss

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

@@dreamyanon5151 Men do like both looks and personality just like a women likes looks and personality, only difference is sometimes his wallet outweighs both.

@dstanhope

3 жыл бұрын

You have a sexual market value that decreases each day, men don't. Think about that for a minute

@rmercedes971

3 жыл бұрын

@@dstanhope Men DO 😂…. Don’t let these Redpillers convince you that young girls want to be with old heads. It’s actually repulsive for most. Young women don’t want to deal with old men 👴, unless the money is EXTRA EXTRA long (and you’re lose with it).

I enjoyed the video!! More women should put more effort into themselves!! Working in the beauty industry I see and hear this everyday about men not liking makeup and weaves, but are breaking their necks looking at the women who do!! #glowupladies

@ladyrootz3311

5 жыл бұрын

Makeup but no weaves

@ChanelandWine

5 жыл бұрын

Yes please say it louder.

@IluvBeauty84

5 жыл бұрын

Makeup and commercial hair done well is very different from a bad weave and over the top makeup. When a woman feel better about herself it shows on the outside.

@SR77736

5 жыл бұрын

@K41 nothing eting eith glued on lashes. Lash extensions arr costly. It's definitely a start and if done well (which I'm sure you'll probably agree) looks well if a natural length. I agree with the rest of your comment.

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

Where is the lie?🤔

Men are visual creatures, women are emotional. Relationships are a gamble. Find you someone that is worth the gamble and pray that yours work out. My humble opinion.

@girlnextdoor2836

5 жыл бұрын

Yessss Madam !!👏🏾

@Fabulosity84

5 жыл бұрын

Agree!!

@artemis2016

5 жыл бұрын

Women are visual as well, but not as visual. Many will pick stability over looks. Nobody wants to wake up to someone's whose face scares them every morning.

@SR77736

5 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@ZipporahAanael

5 жыл бұрын

Gourmet Soups&lunches you better work that red dress. Looking good mama! 👌🏾

Thank you. I’m off to the gym. ❤️

@Azizajewelry

5 жыл бұрын

TruthFan legit! 🙌

@elegancworld4452

4 жыл бұрын

Go girl💗

@ChocolateAfterDark

4 жыл бұрын

Sure you are?

@yasminx16

4 жыл бұрын

I’m off to the gym too! lol #loveyourself

@Glad2BGolden

4 жыл бұрын

Araweelo baby Needs consistency

Most of my colleagues have told me that "I make them look bad " and that "I make them feel not girly enough". That's how I know, I'm on the right track.

“Netflix and chill dusty” I’M DEAD 😂

@Tan87ful

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

Bums have no muny✋💰💰😬😩

@priscillaagboada5933

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@pinkbubbles2572

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

I have worked and chats to men mostly black men, they always complain that they wish if their wives or girlfriends, take more care of their weight. Black Women are not ugly we just need to take care of ourselves more. Eat healthy, work out , stay positive, dress well, keep hair nice and tidy & be confident of who you are. Men are Visual. I’m off to the Gym 😂😂

@anikadiamond007

4 жыл бұрын

There is a video of a woman who is average and didn't put anything toward her looks. Yet she was thick, with huge boobs and butt. I thought that looks mattered and men like feminine, well maintained women. However, that video made me question that. How do you explain that? Seems all that a woman needs now a days are big breasts/boobs and nothing else.

@leekeene5889

4 жыл бұрын

@@anikadiamond007 you should worry more about yourself and not what another woman has going on. I'm too busy creating and maintaining my BEST self to worry about what someone else is doing. You sound young and immature

@jasminewashington6728

4 жыл бұрын

@@anikadiamond007 "Seems all that a woman needs now a days are big breasts/boobs and nothing else." Exactly smh... btw what's the link to the video?

@c45177

Жыл бұрын

That’s so weird, why not communicate that directly with their wives instead of gossiping. Very odd.

I'm going to Sam's club, dressed to the 9 yall, ya hear meh?!?!

@SagRising19

5 жыл бұрын

lol ι ĸnow тнaтѕ rιgнт

@lyhmedia5225

5 жыл бұрын

Home Depot here I come

@mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@LucaB0830

5 жыл бұрын

blackkjuice as it should be

@Ellenm6775

5 жыл бұрын

*** COSTCO!!

This is very true. Black women participate in to many defeminising activities.

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

😍

@tania0070

5 жыл бұрын

The absolute truth. I helped a male friend carry a large speaker from off of his truck and into his basement. Looking back on it now ... I should have had my ass beat for it.

@kwameopoku3576

5 жыл бұрын

Honestly

@ImNotCallingYouALiar

5 жыл бұрын

This made me think about how I used to wear basketball shorts to school. My mom HATED it because of how masculine it was. I didn't care because it was comfortable and all of my friends were doing it as well. But now that I think of it, it was mostly the black girls that wore them (there were a few Hispanic girls too). Now you can't even catch me wearing those kind of shorts even in my own home.

@APTTMHYforever

5 жыл бұрын

So sad but true... I was teased, criticized and questioned all my life about being too prissy, girlie girl, and acting “white”🙄🙄🙄 I grew up in a majority black area, lower working class and most of the other girls always criticized me... even my own family (mostly just my female cousins smh) luckily my mother and grandmothers always encouraged me! As a child, my grandmother even nicknamed me “First Lady”😂

My parents were married 55yrs I have 8 siblings ...I thought my mom was crazy for cooking cleaning pressing all of us girls hair on Friday night.Had us shining our patent leathers shoes ironing our dresses ...She wore heels while vacuuming. I TOTALLY get it now mom! She never worked (unless she wanted to) kept all the credit/debit cards and NEVER paid any bills..I came from a feminine background but got sidetracked but pick meisha..Now back onboard and happy to have the structure needed to level up to the fullest. Ladies we can ALL be like my mom(except the 9 kids). Leveling up 2021

@paigelovette8156

Жыл бұрын

Your mom had 9 kids?!

I am 55 years old and this is golden information!

@lindawilliams2164

4 жыл бұрын

Never too late to learn something new and positive.

Idk what hurts more, the fact that no one taught me this or the fact that I truly feel like I’ve lost out for not knowing these things

@racheltheodore7236

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you on that.😭

@prettyloubey8411

4 жыл бұрын

No one taught you love because they honestly didn’t know this information themselves. I truly understand we’re your coming from.

@TivonyByTifani

29 күн бұрын

It’s ok, it’s never too late to start your journey 💖

Not gonna lie, I let myself go after having my daughter in September. My body is snatched but I stopped doing my hair, makeup, etc or dressing well. After watching you for a week or two, I bought myself a new weave and threw out all my clothes that have holes and a bad fit. My children’s father is a dusty and acts like it doesn’t matter if I’m here or not. Friends come before me and I realized I settled. I’m young. My kids need a role model. I’m not giving him anymore money. No more cookie. I’ve made a Pinterest board of the home I’ll have and the lifestyle I will get. I’m not going to waste the rest of my 20s. ❤️❤️

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

You had kids with a dusty? That’s amazing.

@gogetter3721

2 жыл бұрын

good for u darling. Good luck!!

@jennypotts2008

2 жыл бұрын

Work 👸🏽wishing you the best 🙏🏽

@kimneinem

Жыл бұрын

Replying to remind you to keep up with your goals. Go sis!

@enjolique367

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!

Look good, eat healthy, work out for YOU not a man. Pls, fidelity/love/marriage is not about a women's look. If a man is a cheater, he will cheat. If a man wants to marry you, he will with no pressure. The adverse is true. Love isn't love anymore. Its vanity and lust and for those couplings, it's all about looks.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

“It’s all about looks” yeah just for women not for men. Males need looks and wealth to be the more attractive then Males with just one or the other. Women for the most part need to just be attractive. Delete my comment in your non biased comment section.

@geminidiamond1212

2 жыл бұрын

@@deletetruth8771 You just proved her statement dumbass. & u act like men don’t care about looks?? Gtfooo

@thefeminineeye

4 ай бұрын

This. Do it for you. For your confidence. A cheat will cheat regardless

Looks matter! If you were ever in a relationship that you got comfortable with and out of the blue dress up & put on lipstick. The guy perks up responds to it. He’ll say you look beautiful or the dusty that tries to keep you down will say ‘who or what’ are you getting dressed up for?! Pay attention.

@alexarenee29

4 жыл бұрын

My dusty ass ex would do that... “Who you tryna look good for?” Or when I’d put on makeup he’d tell me I looked like a clown.🙄

@poohcanplay123

4 жыл бұрын

My ex had the latter response. I have so much to learn.

Looks matter!! Put yourself first Queens.

@regularity2556

4 жыл бұрын

@Amerokee Free/ cheap p*ssy

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

@@regularity2556 who wants to be exploited for their material possessions? when a holes a hole.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

Most biased comment section.

Thank you Chloe for speaking truth into my life. I’m a beautiful black woman who used to believe the negative programming that black women get on the daily. I made the mistake of marrying a Mexican dusty and had 3 kids by him. He’s not the provider type. Then, when I finally got my own money, he discouraged me from getting my hair done and shopping at Sephora. It’s so hard shaking that dust off, especially when u have kids w/ a no ambition man. Hopefully one day I will come out of this better. I’m loving this journey I’m on back to loving myself, appreciating my femininity and really reprogramming my brain to be a receiver and the ultimate prize. Plus my children need to see their mom happy...body, mind, and spirit...Thank you!

@celestegarcia923

4 жыл бұрын

Elle D you’re wrong, Hispanic men still don’t care about us Hispanic women. It doesn’t matter

Hi Chloe, I followed all your tips about femininity and now I have men in my DMs 😁 guys who have seen me at my worst now double take and go right in the DMs talking about how smart and beautiful I am!!!! Of course I have a bf but now I know that I have options just like he does. I no longer walk to the beat of his drum...GIRRRRL I make my own beat!!! I thank you for this because just like many of your followers, my mom was a single mom and never taught me some of these tricks and tips. She was too busy providing and trying to break stereotypes, that after going thru puberty I had to fend for myself. Ladies!!!! Know your worth!!!!! If your boyfriend doesn’t see it, someone else will. The next will come with resources as long as you follow Chloe’s tips! Thank you sis!

@hunny585

4 жыл бұрын

woww u rock! can u pls share some basic tips i can begin with? i'm working on femininity so anything u suggest will be beneficial

@PalettePrincess97

2 ай бұрын

Just make sure these men aren’t the ones on dating apps, those are ALL dusty.

Does he want to sleep with you or KEEP you?

@jasminejp5899

5 жыл бұрын

Both 😁

@jesss8060

5 жыл бұрын

Such a crucial question. It’s very important to know where you stand w someone 🌚

@serenitysbubble2384

5 жыл бұрын

Haha both 😂

@Tan87ful

5 жыл бұрын

Very good question

@kristysmith4990

5 жыл бұрын

They aren't ashamed for what they want and we shouldn't be either when we want them to be a provider.

My parents have been happily married for over 35 years and I really do believe my mother’s outward beauty (and inward) inspires him FOR SURE!

I wholeheartedly agree with everything you say in this video I've tried to tell my girlfriends my nieces that keep your looks up I was married for 25 years and my husband told me wow I married a Glamour Girl I kept my looks up until the day he passed away I'm keeping my looks up now because I'm looking for husband number 2 thank you so much for this video I will share it with my friends

@AyaEgbuho

Жыл бұрын

Yasssss❤

Looking your best not only works for the man of your dreams but my girlfriend just got the promotion she's been working hard for the past two years by upping her style, makeup game, and wearing glamorous hairstyles. So yes fabulosity works!

Just Put Your Health First and everything else will fall into place.

@splanet5088

4 жыл бұрын

💯

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

For men Just put your wealth first and all the ladies will come flocking in because you have wealth. But ladies just be attractive simple.

This happened to me, I was going half on dates and trips because my sons dad claim he didn't have the money now. I started cheating myself, stop working out and buying for myself. When he wanted us to move in together and go 50\50, I left. A year later I've lost 40pds, working in my purpose, and shop. My ex that finally started getting notoriety and picking up in his business. Did not look back at me. His new woman (I'm not a hater lol) is beautiful, seems feminine, and a business owner. I didn't get mad ladies, I started leaving my son with him even more so I can continue my education, workout, and date elgible bachelors. He never told me about her and I never told him I knew. Move smart ladies, work on you!

@nicolesmith7611

3 жыл бұрын

@@deletetruth8771 no I didn't cheat on him. I was cheating myself out of opportunities.

@katrina1694

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t even get to leave my child with dad lol At least you have that option.

I'm a 50 year old who has struggled with my weight for 30 years. I'm making positive changes in my life such as eating a healthier diet, going to the gym and buying perfumes, makeup, clothes etc. I'm planning on getting a tummy tuck once I hit my wt loss goal. When I discussed it with my boyfriend he was pretty much silent, not showing any emotion about it one way or another. At first it took the wind out of my sails but listening to this channel has definitely lifted my spirits. I don't need his validation or permission to do what I know what will be best for me. Men gets use to women being a certain way whether it's being overweight, low self esteem, low confidence etc and when women change that dynamic they feel threatened. They know that once you elevate yourself they will have to do the same. Like I said, if you don't support me during my glow up you'll be left in the background.

I completely agree, looks DO matter, ladies! But, I confess that I've been treated like a lady when I was dressed down and dressed to the nine. I say that because while looks do absolutely matter, I believe that being treated like a feminine woman is about radiating the energy, too. Chloe touched on that topic as well, oh so eloquently. Femininity is an energy, an aura, a vibe - not just a look. I've had doors opened for me and men have paid for me even when I was dressed in leggings, knee high boots and a T-shirt just as often as when I was dressed in heels, skirts and wearing make-up. The point: if we are going to look feminine, we must BE feminine, too. Love you all! 💞

@nathancarter1082

3 жыл бұрын

Facts!!

@nathancarter1082

3 жыл бұрын

Facts!!

Besides loving me , my looks and how I carry myself made my husband wife 👰🏾me up with the quickness. I had a guy hit on me while I was with him and he got mad, i told him I’m with you but, with no ring he’s not in the wrong. He wifed me up with the quickness.

@MsPleasantries

4 жыл бұрын

How soon did you get married after meeting?

@MsDieynaba

4 жыл бұрын

Giiiiirl 🤣🤣🤣 let them know, who says you're gonna be around forever? 🤷🏾‍♀️

@tralaritralarajiju2652

3 жыл бұрын

Hahshahah yeah!!♥♥♥

THANK YOU 🙏🏾 Dressing up, wearing makeup, and putting on accessories are a MUST for me everyday. Now thinking about it, every guy that told me to “not worry about my appearance” were BROKE guys.

This came just in time, I just snatched up a provider type and older man and he prefers me being sexy vs classy and conservative. I used to silently complain about it but am learning that if a man is providing for me and spending on me and all he wants is for me to look sexy when we’re out than that’s easy and I should just roll with it!!🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

@rosyorbit9229

5 жыл бұрын

No disrespect but you’re comment about you’re lover rubs me the wrong way. It seems to be more of he feels entitled to sex because he’s rich and he deserves it. It seems more that you allowed him to pressure you into doing something you’re uncomfortable with doing. Women shouldn’t be with someone like that in my opinion, But hey each their own. Have a good day.

@jasminejp5899

5 жыл бұрын

Afro you clearly did not even read my comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@candycrushesit6814

5 жыл бұрын

Sensitive Sunshine just make sure he would marry the sexily dressed woman. Men are very gifted at being hypocritical. They’ll date and lust after one woman but will marry her total opposite. In the end know what you want from this man and this relationship and make sure that he’s after the same thing.

@rosyorbit9229

5 жыл бұрын

Phelisa G I agree. I’m all for Black women dating up and marrying providers and protectors, I just hope we don’t put ourselves in dangerous situations where we allow high status men to feel entitled and pressure us and eventually hurt us all because of his status. Black women please stay safe and stay away from men who pressure you no matter his status.

@rosyorbit9229

5 жыл бұрын

Sensitive Sunshine I read it. I read it twice before commenting and I still agree with what I said. We should avoid men who pressure us into doing things we don’t agree with. I’m glad you found you a man who is a generous provider, I just hope you don’t allow yourself to be put in dangerous situations where a man uses his status to manipulate and hurt you. As you see now with all the recent allegations going on, rich men are powerful and can get away with abuse easily. Just stay safe is all I’m saying.

Chloe is entirely right. This information is actually golden to getting what you want. Your mindset has not leveled up if you believe that "oh, she's trying to make black women do the most for a man" "why aren't men putting just as much effort." LADIES, YOUR LOOKS ARE A WEAPON! I attract all types of men (especially high value) because of my looks. When I realized that my college degrees & job meant nothing to men, only my looks, I used that as a weapon to get what I WANT, NOT please men.

I'm dating a man that hate IG model type chicks , because he basically he cant afford them. He dosent know that I can see through this bs.. that's the type of women he desire but cant afford. That's why he want a Corvette C8. To impress chicks. Not me.

@jamarrasanders3880

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like your with the wrong “man”

@keikei1943

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr us feminine women can see thru their lies😂😂😂

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

“He can’t afford them” But he could afford you? Are you an object like the other chicks you’re categorizing?

Looks matter to men when it comes to the women they date, but it doesn't seem to matter when it comes to themselves. I literally see NO attractive men in my neighborhood or city, and when I do, it's like seeing a unicorn.

@biggki00

11 ай бұрын

Exactly

@kheleecebrown1799

11 ай бұрын

110% they expect Perfection but then they themselves look homeless.

A man should not be meeting a woman in a bonet. In fact, a woman should never leave her home wearing a bonet, smh.

@becky15707

4 жыл бұрын

Periodt

And ladies, stop walking out the house with a satin bonnet on. Men think it looks nasty so just wear a 🧢 , I’m just keeping it real.

I finally found a black woman channel that actually have the same mind set as mine 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 finally someone is telling the truth

My husband used to be very kind to me , always cared about my feelings and did whatever it took to make me happy…I was in my 20s and 30s and stayed cute and slim….after having my son , I blew up to 200 lbs and am now 41…he couldn’t care less about me , in fact he hasn’t had sex with me in a year….he is mean, doesn’t care about insulting me and never does anything for me anymore…I can definitely testify it’s because of my looks…I have been on a self glow up journey since the summer and have lost 35 lbs, I am working on getting my body back and when I do , I will get him back on his leash

@kaylajames3098

2 ай бұрын

Did it work?

Yes I fully agree. Every woman in my family steps out of the house looking put together even my 73 year old grandmother. How can a woman want an attractive man if the woman is looking busted. You become what you want to attract. Good men can have their pick of women and he is not going to choose someone that looks like they just don’t care about what they look like. Honestly I keep up with my appearance for me. Taking care of yourself is just something you should want to do. It’s your body . You wouldn’t show up to a job interview looking any kind of way so....

I dated a rusty dusty who would make me pay for my own meals at restaurants and borrow money from me. When that relationship ended I was over him and not thinking of him within 6 months but it took me close to 3 years to forgive myself for allowing myself to be treated that way.

@kheleecebrown1799

5 ай бұрын

Keep it moving 😁.

Ladies! She's telling the truth here. I had my hair done,light makeup and lashes. I was engaging in a friendly conversation with a stranger and the gentleman said " I would love to talk to you but to be honest you look too expensive for me." At first I was confused but he saw by the way that my upkeep was that the kind of man I was probably used to having was not where he was at. Looking, dressing your best and being at a healthy weight attracts better quality men

@kheleecebrown1799

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely 😁💯. NO DUSTY.

My ex-boyfriend always would pick a fight with me whenever I had regular clothes and make up on. Somehow convinced me that putting on extra pounds was sexy. Even my mother told me not to continue to keep coming out the house like that. Until one day he actually did cheat and trade me in for a younger worse looking woman twice my weight, less education, no ambition, drama queen. Goes to show how many inches of dust he was worth in the end. Now I'm living my best life and he did me a huge favor. Lesson learned, never downgrade or water down your ambitions. Even this man felt threatened by me and saw my my own worth more than I did.

@lumpascrumpa7253

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂 inches of dust

When Chloe said, “He got you for a bargain” I SCREAMED lmaoooo

You said it! A lot of women “claim” they don’t care. TUH! She’s lying! When YOU look good and take care of YOU.. so will a man! Hair, Health, Nails, Attire, Money... all that.

@peachygal8856

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with all of this. I’m about to be 33 in 2 weeks and it’s time to level up! 💕

Wished someone gave me advice like this when I was younger.😒🤦‍♀️

@karlaluster4249

4 жыл бұрын

Same.

@r.simpson3307

4 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏

@lexischristian4138

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

Men are definitely attracted to looks I recently started dating my boyfriend which I met online. When we first met he was instantly attracted to me. He liked how I looked. I make sure I put extra effort to look good for him when we do go out on dates. Men are definitely visual creatures. I used to be a "looks don't matter" type of woman but when I started to take care of my appearance that's when men would approach me. 😊

@sBaby-wj7uv

5 жыл бұрын

Amerokee key word: baby mamas, not wife 😂😂😂

@leekeene5889

4 жыл бұрын

@Amerokee that's a low valuevway of thinking. Start reading and expand your mind. These men who have ' ugly babymoms' probably can't rub 2 pennies together. If a man isn't established, career minded and competent! I don't give a damn what he got, what he's doing or who he's doing it with. Furthermore, if it doesn't pertain to me, I could care less. Start caring more about yourself and less what others are doing. Your life Will change for the better

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

@Amerokee because of good looking girls acting masculine turning them away, they might as well settle for a less attractive women who acts feminine at least.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

Women are visual creatures also, that’s a misconception, that’s what feminists say to make males seem likes rabbits that just like females for their looks, just to make themselves feel better about liking men for their wealth and looks, women would seem selfish if they said I like him “for his looks and wealth”, “while he just likes me for my looks.”

@keepingupwithkye

2 ай бұрын

@@deletetruth8771misogynistic men say this.. so I’m confused 😂

It’s crazy how women will try to talk you out of leveling up your looks “for a man.” You stated nothing but facts.

So true. Men do pay attention to how you treat yourself and will deal with you accordingly.

"when a broke dusty cheats on you , that is when most women feel the most robbed" LOL. It's funny because it's trueeee.

I tell my daughter this exact thing all the time. Men don't care about how many degrees you have. They don't care about how good your heart is. THEY don't care about how smart you are. Men care about how pretty you are. They want you to be the prettiest woman on their arm when they walk in the room. That's what they want. They like soft and feminine.

@kheleecebrown1799

5 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯 l am just learning this.

Honestly, when your husband (the only kind of man that matters) sees that you're TRYING to lose weight and take care of yourself, they at least respect you more. No one says you have to be perfect, but not trying is NOT an option. Trophy wife for life!

Pack mules?😂😂😂 😂 Chloe I don't know how you don't laugh your word choice kills me

@jayejustj7955

5 жыл бұрын

I Literally have to pause after she uses her descriptions😂😂

@yourentrepreneurjourney

5 жыл бұрын

Mules get fed up and kick back 🐎 #sisbetide #elevationlongoverdue #countryinmyformerlife

@Foodenthusiast23

5 жыл бұрын

African Podcast right!??😂😂

@lovergirl________

2 ай бұрын

I'm always laughing at her sayings 😂😂😂

A man who dont want a woman care for her looks probably fear that she might attract the attention of a guy that can afford to help her her self-actualize and make her dreams come true. Guys are very aware that some men have more power then others. Thank you for this video, you are right on!

@kheleecebrown1799

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯.

I wish I had this information years ago. Hope you never stop posting your commentaries. Women need to hear this...Thank you!

It's funny how these dusty men will lust after high maintenance women, be angry that they can't have those women because they can't afford them; so they engineer a low or NO maintenance mindset in another woman who exudes desperate dust-bunny energy just so he can have a woman he can afford, and then get angry at that no maintenance woman he created because she's not the high maintenance woman he wanted in the first place. Make it make sense. Ladies, if a man tries to convince to not wear makeup or have nice things, run as fast and as far as you can

Yes healthy, in shape and gorgeous is a MUST for women. Every woman has her own pretty femininity.

Right. I completely agree. I don't know why humans, particularly many women like to refute this and behave as if we're so super intelligent that we don't posses the instinctual patterns of behavior that all mammals on earth possess in one iteration or another in courting and mating. I totally understand the importance of respect and the intolerance of being disrespected because of appearance. That goes without saying. However, let it be a reminder that the way in which humans behave, choose and how we aspire for what we want to attain is very similar to the mammalian instincts and social intelligence of other living, breathing and walking species. Women, your beauty does not have to be the center of your soul. That is not what this eloquent woman promotes. Yes, intelligence and intrinsic qualities are gold. However, remember and know that your beauty is YOURS to possess and for men to observe. So have it (your beauty), recognize it, wear it, use it, embrace it, esteem it, adorn yourself with your birth given beauty and most importantly, get what you want in life without doing what you don't what to do.

My girlfriend and I love your channel Chloe. I don't think it's because of money that dusties don't want their girlfriends to wear makeup, etc. I think it's because they don't want them attracting any more bees to his honey.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but a women’s honey is a richer man.

I’ve been with my man for three years and I still don’t really look busted around him. He’s only seen me busted a hand full of times and the reason is because I take pride in my appearance for me. I feel good when I look good AND I want him to always know that I have options. Lol. IJS he needs to know that others do notice me.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

Wtf are you talking about?

I went out to a happy hour by myself today to the nicest steakhouse in town and I looked amazing. Seriously. I’ve been testing the waters by myself to try different looks and what I notice is that when you are a black woman and you show up to a place looking amazing head to toe, you really turn heads. The way that men respond to you when you are fully feminine is night and day. So many black women walk around looking bummy and it’s crazy. Where I live it is rare that I will see a black woman in a dress and I work in the financial district. They will have slacks on or something, but it’s like they don’t feel comfortable wearing dresses or choosing a more feminine outfit. Or their hair is not done. Theyll have a decent outfit on but they’ll skip out on something, they’ll have horrible nails and feet or a bad wig on. And ladies You HAVE to work out. It is unavoidable. If you are dressed to the nines but you are overweight you’re not going to get the results with men that you want. Periodt. Black women are still avoiding the gym like the plague. They think their outfit will make up for them being overweight and it doesn’t. Black women do not understand how much an advantage we truly have when we are height and weight proportionate and looking our best. We turn heads! Do not let these male bullies on KZread think otherwise because in REAL LIFE in places where men with money ACTUALLY ARE, they are not relevant 😂😂😂😂 And you are right, black women need to stop taking everything personally and do what i strategic to win in the dating game. If you know men respond to a certain thing, then do that thing and take your feelings out of it!

@amab1853

Ай бұрын

This is true. But I realized in the black community so many black women are dealing with emotional issues, trauma from their past, being the head of the household financially & are stressed. All of those things is why some black women put themselves last and are not being their best selves. Once the emotional work is done, you can work on your physical appearance & look your best

@nicnelson9393

24 күн бұрын

Thank you for the robust explanation 🙏.

@KevonnieElaine

4 күн бұрын

Yes all of this.

This is the most profound channel I’ve found in awhile. This is common sense as a woman and yet we don’t practice these winning habits. Now I’m single with 3 children.. because when I had upscale standards at 19 20 years old I was told I was a gold digger and high maintenance then I lowered my standards and now look. 🤣😂 Not anymore. I’m tapping back into my feminine thanks to you

Femininity is an ENERGY. Women are so focused on looking like they got it instead of actually having feminine energy. Nothing against makeup weave lashes and everything else fake but make sure your real face underneath is taken care of. Make sure you look appealing BOTH with and without makeup. Make sure you taking care of your real hair underneath the wigs. Make sure your real eyelashes are not missing because the fake ones are ripping them off. Make sure your real nails are healthy underneath the fake ones. Make sure your real body is in shape instead of adding and enhancing so much etc. If more women spent more time taking care of the real them instead of putting on so much fake to look real then maybe that femininity you speak of will organically attract itself to you. Yes men are attracted by what they see but they are also tired of women catfishing them. You look like a model with all that stuff on but when you take it off and show the REAL YOU it's so unkept and unattractive. Since when who you truly are is no longer enough? Since when as women is it okay to add fake on top of real? To each his own but I'll rather work on what God has blessed me with and fix up on the real me without having to look like someone else to get men to notice me. OAN: please remember that at night when you take all of that stuff off and look into the mirror what reflection do you see? That same plain Jane regular looking women you criticize is now looking back at you. Be humble!

@sondraphillips6316

Жыл бұрын

You took the words right out of my mouth!! 👏🏾👏🏾

Woman are more accepting and appreciate beauty in all forms . While men only see one standard of beauty. Even a good heart doesn't impress a man.

Very true! Was dating a guy who had more money then he knew what to do with. He never once said money isn’t important or people shouldn’t focus on money and loved to see me dressed up and make effort and of course he would treat me. Also dated a guy who would always say not everything is about money and went 50/50 on everything. Was a lovely guy so I stuck around- when he asked me for a couple of hundred is when I tapped out . Funny how money wasn’t important when it came to me- but when he needed it - it was important

Chloe has said nothing wrong. I LUUUUHHHHH this channel. This is applicable knowledge!!!

My ex dusty used to always tell me not to dress up and wear too much make up , yet he met me that way , he said he liked me in jeans And with no make up..Ofcourse , because he didn’t want to take me anywhere looking nice . Runnnnnn from these dusty fools . I love to dress feminine and I love make up !!

I'm a man, and I love what you're doing for women on this channel. Lots of women think that being a strong independent woman that don't need a man, that acts or portrays herself as a Thot will get a man to fall for them in the long run, when it's the opposite. As a man, I find myself more willing to love a woman the most, when she is being confident and feminine, I do anything for those. The ones that I first mentioned, they are good for a fun night, and no more

A single woman here. I keep myself in shape and looking good for myself first and men second. I can't stand it when I don't look good in my clothes.

@kheleecebrown1799

5 ай бұрын

Me too l got to keep up the maintenance PERIOD 😊.

Weight gain is a side effect from medication taken for Lupus. Sometimes, You have to choose between being vain or living. I would choose life.

@kellijasper5912

5 жыл бұрын

It's not an either or scenario. Find clothes that work with your current figure. Do your hair and wear some make-up. When you look good you feel good. Research supports this.

@GabbyCash

4 жыл бұрын

Dream Dream Serene sounds like you need therapy and not KZread

@RoniiiB

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

This is so true! This very concept had me start a boutique that's all about femininity and being a lady. No THOT wear, just classy, girly & flirty. We have lost the art of being a Lady and have not embraced our girly side. Like the song says, 🎶I LOVE being a girl🎶 ...and being confident in it too. When I wear dresses and red lipstick I notice my husband looks at me with a sparkle in his eyes. He acts like he doesn't care about those things but his actions say something else. I am a very spoiled and very blessed woman. My husband is VERY good to me in ALL ways so I make it priority to be well groomed from the inside out. Don't let yourself go sisters once you get him. Keep up your appearance and grooming. He notices the mani-pedi, the white teeth even the new hair style (wig, weave, whatever). Keep it cute😘

I am learning to be more feminine as I grow older. I cannot believe I wasted so many years not being more conscious about what I throw out there. I am learning to take care of myself now as my child grows up. Thanks for this Chloe.

I’m not sure what to make of this. It’s just sad to know that men and women can’t truly love each other and keep their families together. It’s disheartening to believe that once you are not perfectly pleasing to them they will cheat on you or leave you. Interesting 🤔a man who stood at the alter and made vows in front of many witnesses. A man who watched your belly grow with his children. A man who helped you bury your parent. The one you gave your all to is weak enough to throw it all away on some ass? Someone who is deemed a reflection of himself? Wow!! Just sad.

@LyallvanderLinde

5 жыл бұрын

Every relationships has problems, right? maybe we don't talk about it. Maybe she never tells me how she feels, but expect me to know what's on her mind all the time. If i married and gave you children. it means i love you. But i'll be honest, what you say may be true, but it sounds very one-sided. Every story has two sides. I promise you, if you care to explain your side, we can come to a conclusion of why the husband chose some ass, as you call it. We cannot just blame our partners for all our problems.

@keepingupwithkye

2 ай бұрын

De/center these men 😂😂😂

If you want to know what a guy likes, especially in terms of hair and makeup, just look at his instagram likes.

@vanessaj7202

4 жыл бұрын

Taren Daily ok n ok girl

@luciuschrist6929

4 жыл бұрын

Only gay guys like hair and make up,we men just want beauty,makeup or no makeup.just be beautiful

I am soooo glad I came across this video. I am in my 30's and have always been taught to use my mind and pay no mind to my looks......yet I am still wondering why I have all these great accolades and no man. Ha!!!!!!! I wish someone told me the tea sooner. Great vid 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Next title should read: “looks, why it matters to us, bw”. Enough of these average or below average nikkas with so much mouth & demands 🤷🏽‍♀️🌚..but yeah, good video

@forhaircompanies

5 жыл бұрын

Ciaobella Amour 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@donnak.3636

5 жыл бұрын

1:05 was addressed to you.

@crystalswirlzreloaded9350

5 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

@tarendaily8429

5 жыл бұрын

This clearly isn't the channel for you.

@latashar2252

5 жыл бұрын

Ciaobella Amour exactly!

"When broke men engineer your smallness" Chloe, this video and every word are so right on point. Thank you so much for this education!

This is sooo true! When I was younger I dated a dusty and he would always try to get me to dress down or not look my best by saying things like “you don’t have to do all that.” But now fast forward a few years later I upgraded to a man with means and he loves when I look my best. He takes pride in the way I look he loves when I go get my hair done t switch up my styles. He loves my makeup and jewelry. He always compliments me telling me how good I look. So you’re right Chloe men are visual. I ❤️ your channel!

Beyonce, Halle Berry, Jennifer Lopez, and the list of "beautiful women " goes on that had a man with a wandering eye. Looks catch them, personality keeps them.

@JM-yf5rt

3 жыл бұрын

All of those beautiful women had cheaters. I don't think it is on the woman at all. That is a flaw within those men. Good points!

@WeGoJaiye

10 ай бұрын

I really don't think personality "keeps" them....... if a man is sexually indisciplined he will cheat and continue to cheat.... plz don't put that responsibility on a woman's looks or PERSONALITY

Hi Chloe ! I’m 30 and I wish I found you or got to listen to you in my 20s . Since I’ve been listening to you , I’ve been improving myself big time . Also you are freaking hilarious 😂😂😂

He won't even approach if he doesn't like how you look

I'm working on forgiving myself for becoming hardened. I grieve for person I was before it was borderline niave so I'm learning strategy and hope my heart can soften again.

Looks matter, the difference between my going to even the grocery store dressed up vs dressed down is night and day. When I look nice men are constantly asking me if I need help with anything. When I don't I'm not noticed at all.

@deletetruth8771

3 жыл бұрын

Deception is key.

Enter the butthurt in 3..... 2........ 1....... 🤣💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾 This message is Roxstar approved.

@heartyberry241

5 жыл бұрын

Omg, Hi Roxie!!! ❤

Yes and to add to that about putting yourself as a woman up on a pedestal is to know that you will always ALWAYS have options. So even when the man cheats on you, yes you'll be heartbroken but whenever you're ready to date again, it will and CAN be possible and much faster too.

Hi Chloe....am first here! When it comes to attracting men, looks is number one periodT.

@tochukwunjoku

5 жыл бұрын

💜Mardi⚜️Gras💚 😂😂😂👊👊lipstick on a pig😄😄😄 that’s a new one. Correction taken - thank you!!

@tochukwunjoku

5 жыл бұрын

💜Mardi⚜️Gras💚 absolutely no problem dear! Your correction is right and I am happy you corrected me. Many thanks for the apologies - much appreciated!

@artemis2016

5 жыл бұрын

Seeing you ladies communicate in such a matter, almost brings me to tears. I love this!

@luxuryqueen42

5 жыл бұрын

*puts on my wig, lipstick, highlighter, eyeshadow.....* do I look good? Looks in the mirror. Smacks lips 👄. Pushes boobs up. Wait! I forgot to put my contour. Ok ok. Puts on my dress. 👗

@betty5449

5 жыл бұрын

Aji N....And how do you know that??? She seems like a lady to me....a very decent, sophisticated, intelligent and emotionally mature lady to me.The way she has taken being corrected is amazing.

Ur most definitely right! I'm old school and when I grew up in the 60s and 70s, my mom always wore a dress and some sort of heels for my dad before he came home from work. To tell u the truth women back then were always well kempt.