Phones weren’t destroyed, she wasn’t beaten, pet wasn’t sold she was forced to feel how the victim felt which is the best discipline

@marieked

3 жыл бұрын

Leah Fitz exactly!

@blackcherrysmokebomb

3 жыл бұрын

Contrary to belief. You can beat your children you’re just not allowed to do it excessively or leave marks.

@kevinanddeb8829

3 жыл бұрын

It was also two days. And I am sure lots of discussion answers explanation was included.

@dqn1c

3 жыл бұрын

10/10

@MsElfi90

3 жыл бұрын

@@blackcherrysmokebomb Not where I live ;) Here you are not allowed to lay hands on your child.

All bullies need to feel how the victim of their harsh words felt.

@euphophonist

7 жыл бұрын

Also, Thrift store clothes are a punishment? I own one thing that isn't old, crappy, or a hand me down, but I am still thankful because it could be a lot worse and I have a roof over my head and clothes on my back. Everyone these days ungrateful little brats

@kittyrosefaerie7464

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@michaeljosephjackson5624

7 жыл бұрын

nice

@rougethebat523

7 жыл бұрын

Turtle Fitz this should go for abusers and adults who bully thier family/coworkers

@kimchi3339

7 жыл бұрын

Turtle Fitz I'm pretty sure they went to a thrift shop just cause they didn't wanna spend outrageous amounts of money on new clothes for a punishment. The idea is she's wearing "ugly" clothes and that's the main point of it.

"it lowers the kid's self steem" NO. It teaches them humility, it shows there are people behind the clothes they wear. What a great lesson

@kstar1489

3 жыл бұрын

@@crayon8943 you can teach your child to respect others without demeaning and disrespecting them

@DizzyGamerOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

Aight, A lesson, huh? Expect a note and a missing child the next time YOUR married ;)

@Andrea04Bettina

3 жыл бұрын

@@DizzyGamerOfficial why a missing child?

@No_Iceee

3 жыл бұрын

@@DizzyGamerOfficial wow, we got an edgy woke teenager here.

@sab-nm9di

3 жыл бұрын

@@DizzyGamerOfficial if my child would rather live in the streets and scavenge their own food than to wear thrift clothes after bullying somebody then 🤷‍♀️

This girl was humbled by her lesson she walked in her victims shoes, she learned and even made a friend

Are you kidding me? This is the best punishment I've ever heard. Bravo to the parents for giving her a taste of her medicine. I wish my bullies were punished that way.

@MJ-fy4yj

7 жыл бұрын

I agree 100%!

@rachelenders5657

7 жыл бұрын

M Davidson yes such a great and creative way!

@Timmering

7 жыл бұрын

Kayleigh Hay exactly

@carlosr9843

7 жыл бұрын

Kayleigh Hay hear hear

@khadizaahmed8989

7 жыл бұрын

I agree 100!%

Guys, this isn’t child abuse, cmon.. it’s a good lesson that she deserves

@iggydeez

3 жыл бұрын

No, it’s poetic justice

@quinnsmithy8778

3 жыл бұрын

yeah boi

@quinnsmithy8778

3 жыл бұрын

not to mention none of our business lol!

@gabrielasuna224

3 жыл бұрын

And now girls are the best friends!

@Tali_Kali2343

3 жыл бұрын

No this is a good learning lesson cuz now she feels what she was bullying to the other girl, good job mom 👏

"Through humiliation the child learns that she is less than." Wait a minute. The "humiliation" was her reaping what she sowed. A taste of her own medicine. Do unto others as you would have done to you. Tit for tat. Coming back 10 fold. This is not a new concept. This was EXCELLENT parenting.

@kstar1489

3 жыл бұрын

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. Putting your kid through bullying as punishment is still just bullying. Unnecessary and harmful.

@heidis.3699

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 What would have been an acceptable response/reaction by the parents?

@paanora440

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 pls don’t have or adopt children if you can’t teach them empathy.. once that little girl felt the way she was treating the other girl, she realized that she didn’t like that treatment given to her. Would you have continued to let her bully the other girl? Because from the video, she clearly learned from it.

@AnonymousC-lm6tc

2 жыл бұрын

No, it was a necessary consequence. Spanking, taking objects away or putting her in time out wouldn’t have done anything. Kids need to learn empathy based on walking a mile in the shoes of another. She needed to know how it felt to be bullied so she wouldn’t do it again and understand how it felt. She got what she deserved.

@AnonymousC-lm6tc

2 жыл бұрын

Furthermore, teaching a child a lesson or giving them a taste of their own medicine is not scarring. It is healthy to set boundaries and punish bad behavior. Punishments should be proportionate to the crime. That Ghandi quote is the dumbest thing I have ever heard, if anything retribution is the most equitable and humane way of dealing with bad behavior. If you steal from someone, you give them something of yours, buy something new or give them the money to replace it. If you break something, replace it. If you physically harm or bully someone else, you get a spanking. If you insult someone for being impoverished or the way they dress, all of your nice things (which are earned and a gift) are taken away for a week. Simple and effective.

You’ll never understand another person’s pain unless you share the same experience.

Damn i don't understand why people are hating this.. I mean this is the best thing to teach a lesson..

@B1300

6 жыл бұрын

It is a awesome choice plus you know your child

@Calamitys_Edge

6 жыл бұрын

I agree lol

@archiballarchi3922

6 жыл бұрын

true a little shame is naturaly good(":

@MintyOreosx3

6 жыл бұрын

MojoTV ikr

@AlexanderMccarthey87

6 жыл бұрын

It's reflective of our culture. We care too much about clothing and looks.

Seriously? This Mom deserves an award! Her daughter literally bullied a kid because of her clothes and now she's getting a taste of her own medicine. A ton of parents with bullies wouldn't even dare to realize their kids are bullies at all.

@cutie4704

7 жыл бұрын

Pixelcitizen Ikr?

@lorbe00

7 жыл бұрын

Pixelcitizen i am so with you on this. Last sentence is on point. I had schoolmates who were known bullies whose parents are cool with their behavior even after they are called by teacher-advisers. Parents' argument almost always is "he/she is just a kid, of course he/she can act immaturely"

@keybyss98

7 жыл бұрын

StormAmeri No kidding.

@keybyss98

7 жыл бұрын

Lorbe C Wow... Immaturity and Harmful are two different things. I just hope the school took further action outside of just calling their ignorant parents (detention, suspension,... something like this, etc,.).

@sananadeem97

7 жыл бұрын

Stepmom actually

I WOULD'VE DID THE SAME. Love how they turned out to be friends at the end

The “ugly” thrift shop clothes actually looked better than the outfit she’s wearing in the interview lol

@LD-2401

3 жыл бұрын

It really did

@bluecolumbine

6 ай бұрын

I thought the thrift store outfits were super cute honestly.

@klz9500

5 ай бұрын

You might need to be parented by this lady so you don't think it's ok to bully the clothing choices of a child... You turn around and criticize the girl's clothes like you just didn't watch all that 😂

@butterfly713

5 ай бұрын

@@klz9500 it’s not bullying to say the thrift shop clothes looked better than the outfit she is wearing. That’s called having an opinion, you should figure out the difference.

@fainafaina1940

4 ай бұрын

Exactly

She learnt a lesson Doesn’t regret it And now her and the girl are best friends I’d say the parents did a good job.

@kyamiwatersong424

6 жыл бұрын

NeedleMousenation pReAch

@M4rycr

6 жыл бұрын

Preach IT HONEY!!

@keah3706

6 жыл бұрын

👌🏻

@zukythegrimreaper9250

6 жыл бұрын

I know I might be hated for this. I hope u understand. But I would never be best friends with my "bully" after what they did to me. Back in the days I was bullied cause I was quiet. Everyone in the classroom was against me. Soooo after a few years later they picked on me for having a broken arm saying "it isn't broken", teachers never did anything. Then of course I started the most evil way. Even to the point I exposed them on their lies. I guess u can say I went too far. I mean it far too late for them to say sorry.

@3bay

6 жыл бұрын

Zuky TheGrimReaper Honestly I understand Pay Back is never the answer but I mean they deserved it

Empathy is literally having the ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes. This was a practical way to teach true empathy.

@ms.pirate

3 жыл бұрын

I think so too

@InternetPhD

3 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@HeaviTroi

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly 🙌🏾

@noneofyours16

3 жыл бұрын

They did right!! People are crazy

@artryg0n497

3 жыл бұрын

Empathy is a tool to use against ppl

Anyone said if this is “traumatizing” imagine how the other girl felt.

I’m glad that this girl learned from her mistakes and apologized to the girl she was teasing and I’m glad they became friends. At least she understands what she did was wrong and at least she’s glad that her parents punished her that way.

Harmful to the child's self esteem my ass. You humiliate someone, you have *no* right to think you can't be humiliated back. It's ridiculous to think some people consider that child abuse. That's wonderful parenting. Teaching your child empathy is one of the best things you can do as a parent.

@desratlinda8639

7 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@buteratutorials8581

7 жыл бұрын

pReAchHHhH

@itsmeagainmargaret.1899

7 жыл бұрын

John Ace Brown I agree

@taylordkr

7 жыл бұрын

John Ace Brown Absolutely right.

@paremour

7 жыл бұрын

John Ace Brown I agree!!!!!!!

YOU CANT SAY THIS IS TERRIBLE IF THE GIRL LITERALLY AGREED THAT IT WAS THE BEST IDEA AND THEY ARE NOW FRIEND.

@c.ggaming5614

7 жыл бұрын

lilly bee IKR THATS WHAT I THOUGHT AND THE GIRL ALSO AGREED

@kimmycoonz2796

7 жыл бұрын

WHY ARE WE YELLING

@spicy.scribz

7 жыл бұрын

lilly bee ikr 😂😂😂

@hamburgerdog25

7 жыл бұрын

BOY ITS REALLY LOUD IN HERE. GOOD POINT BTW

@joyrys486

7 жыл бұрын

MY EARS HURT NOW

I think there's ALOT of "adults" who need to try this as well.

True forgiveness is knowing how the person you hurt, really felt. Kaylee now understands exactly that. The fact that the two girls are friends now is a testament to Kaylee's new found empathy. A tribute to loving parents who wanted their daughter to be the best person she could be. When Kaylee said she wouldn't have had it any other way, I saw she truly got the lesson.

"Treat others how you want to be treated"

@aprilfoozeler

3 жыл бұрын

Preach! That’s what the Bible has been saying for so long!

@kaymccastle1154

3 жыл бұрын

After my parent's divorce I wore second hand clothes. This was when girls had to wear dresses and skirts to public school. After my mom finished washing, mending dyeing, starching, and ironing my dresses, I looked as good as any other kid in the classroom, and often got compliments on my outfits!

@DrivenByArt-yz5bs

3 жыл бұрын

Hi I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and many blessings to you all and stay safe

@gregfalco4528

3 жыл бұрын

@Bright Eyes Beauty The world would be a much better place if everyone lived by that.

@mountainmama2101

3 жыл бұрын

@@aprilfoozeler yasssss!!! 👍

“This punishment can be harmful to a child’s self esteem” And the bullying wasn’t?!

@GrandMasterPeep

3 жыл бұрын

But they said she also got bullied because of it

@kaymccastle1154

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with the stepmom's method of correction. It was firm, but full of compassion. I saw another example where a father found out his daughter was bullying another girl. He took the money that he was going to spend shopping with his daughter and spent on the bullied girl with his daughter present. He found out that the girl didn't have a dad in the home, so he reached out to mentor her along with his daughter. Both girls are now friends!

@srt4788

3 жыл бұрын

@@GrandMasterPeep she understood what she did and got to experience the other side of the coin

@cynthiaisako

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@mountainmama2101

3 жыл бұрын

@@GrandMasterPeep Good. Then she will know how it feels.

It takes being in someone else’s shoes in order to understand and feel sympathy

The mom made an amazing call. What a way to practice empathy.

To be honest, I wouldn't mind wearing that. It looks really comfortable.

@ellie7601

8 жыл бұрын

+Phantastic Ikr

@fortheloveofkpop

8 жыл бұрын

+Ellie lousie Davies those clothes are kinda cute omg

@ellie7601

8 жыл бұрын

***** I know I would love them.

@imanithompson5613

7 жыл бұрын

Kids are saying that those are the worst clothes and we're over here talking about how cute and comfortable it is 😂

@mas0n25

7 жыл бұрын

Phanic! At The Disco honestly, that kind of looks like European fashion

I'm glad the girl agreed with her parents, and became friends with the girl she taunted

@tonifermallex

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Powers Me too

@fayyali2354

7 жыл бұрын

....tf??? Srry but ur mouth...

@lucaslucful

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Powers Amen

@rehnumajamil2751

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Powers mee too

@skylermarshall503

7 жыл бұрын

Hannah Powers did some one kidnap u or some thing wuts up with the tape.....

This story brought tears to my eyes. Because that’s beautiful the way her parents lovingly taught their daughter too love people. And obviously that instance helped change their daughter perspective.

There are plenty of kids who can only afford thrift store clothes. Teaching someone to be humble, and to remove their ego, is the best present you can give them.

This isn’t at all humiliating, they’re clothes, clothes a lot of people wear to school. It’s just to put the kid in her victims shoes

@annt.7785

3 жыл бұрын

True

@kittycaruso50

3 жыл бұрын

Right? Humiliating to wear 2nd hand clothes? This is why schools should all have uniforms in my opinion

@villamiles

3 жыл бұрын

@@kittycaruso50 When I was in school, it had uniforms and some girls still found the way of humiliate others over their uniform.

@noaht124

3 жыл бұрын

As stupid as this sounds, For entitled brats, yes. This is humiliating.

@noaht124

3 жыл бұрын

@@kw7588 it’s more “you made fun of her for what she wore, so you’re gonna walk in her shoes for a while” thing.

It's not "humiliation" , it's "sensitivity training".

@ashdluciangurl

3 жыл бұрын

I love the way you put it

@horrormovielover6725

3 жыл бұрын

indeed.Also to be humble and become empathic. It will benefit her as she grows.

@srt4788

3 жыл бұрын

I like that

@annt.7785

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I had to break up fights between people that were bullied for their clothes, it's just wrong to bully someone over the pettiest b.s. My friend was getting bullied because he was trying to get custody of his two younger siblings (we were almost 18 senior year), so he couldn't afford "the latest fashion". He would wear the same clothes to school sometimes, while he spend his minimum wage money on his little brother and sister, so that they can have nice clothes. You never know someone's situation.

@kittycaruso50

3 жыл бұрын

@@annt.7785 sweet that brought tears to my eyes what a good brother

As a teacher the biggest thing I learned is that discipline promotes change. That discipline is different for everyone

@Confidentk9sCa

3 жыл бұрын

100% agree. Positive reinforcement can work wonders too.

can we talk about how the school handled the girl's bullying and contacted the parents right away? more schools should be like that!

Whoever says this is harmful to a child is stupid. This worked. The girl learned her lesson

@kjkjstylze4652

8 жыл бұрын

caycug1 You are joking right?

@erikajeansalazar7464

8 жыл бұрын

+caycug1 WIth what you're saying, you're practically showing what a special type of idiot you are. Without discipline, kids wouldn't learn to respect. I grew up being physically disciplined by my parents. Yes, I'm asian and I got beaten up, slapped, and everything else you can imagine. But that didn't make me hate my parents. Although as a child it developed fear but now as I mature, I gained respect. It was all out of love. They'd prefer to have me disciplined in their own hands that be put in danger for my reckless actions.

@caycug1

8 жыл бұрын

f.y.i. Kids can learn discipline without being beaten, and without humiliating them in front of others.

@kjkjstylze4652

8 жыл бұрын

caycug1 What made them a bully?

@kayper54

8 жыл бұрын

+caycug1 Proverbs 13:24. They were following that verse and you are so blind to the simplest of God's Words that you couldn't even see it. They have insight to their daughter that you couldn't possibly have. You haven't any idea what would really work with that particular child. They were quite creative and I'll bet it made a permanent and lasting impression on her that simply a good, loving talking-to would never have had. Matthew 7:1 - 3. That's what you did with your very first comment; you made an insane judgement that was way off in the stratosphere it was so ridiculous. Get to work on that beam in your own eye before you start looking at the motes in others' eyes. And nobody was bullying you. From the looks of it everyone was being much kinder to you than you deserved.

The irony is that she is totally rocking the vintage look.

@xoxMusikxox

3 жыл бұрын

Right? She actually looks super cute.

@rebeccaberlin

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think that translates in 4th grade.

@xoxMusikxox

3 жыл бұрын

@@rebeccaberlin oh yeah I agree - that's why it's ironic. it's a "punishment" for her in her eyes, but in reality she looks really cute.

@lalagady7527

3 жыл бұрын

i love thrift store clothes. they fit her well and they did look great. anything from a thrift store can look good in my opinion

@naufrage0

3 жыл бұрын

One day she’ll learn that lol. That’s why thrift stores overcharge now.

I'm so glad theres parents who actually take action for inappropriate behavior

“It can hurt self esteem” sometimes I wonder if schools are not supposed to exist

Self-esteem? SELF-ESTEEM?! WHAT ABOUT THE KID GETTING BULLIED?!

@plamenaantonova3031

7 жыл бұрын

TheOcelotGirl THANK YOU!!!!!

@ltlt9447

7 жыл бұрын

TheOcelotGirl millions of us grew up without bitching about bullying .

@dakotas7643

7 жыл бұрын

TheOcelotGirl well if you think about it the girl even said that it helped her

@rvk1522

7 жыл бұрын

Urban Clementine she was talking about the girl that haily bullied

Kid seems fine. Both girls are friends now. She learned a valuable lesson and was not harmed in any way.

@ihatebertram9719

3 жыл бұрын

It makes me happy seeing they have made up

@JustRockMySoul

3 жыл бұрын

If anything it made her a better person.

What a great way to instill some empathy and humility. I love this.

this was the best lesson the parents that could give.

Kudos to the parents on this. Making a kid wear thrift clothing isn't shaming. It's teaching the kid some humility. If you say it's shaming, you're saying that people should be ashamed of having to shop at thrift stores or low end clothing stores.

@psps1180

6 жыл бұрын

Don't forget to drink your Cyanide agreed! First thing my mom did when she caught me picking on another girl was to call my brother and cousins and have them tease me. Then she said, you're upset that people that love you are picking on you. She may not be as lucky to have somebody that loves her. You don't have to be her friend if you don't get along but I expect you to apologize and at least be polite. Well. I thought about it, and I asked. The girl had been mean to me before I picked on her, but I learned that her mom and dad were divorcing and she had been sent to school in Texas and was actually very jealous of all the nice things I had. So I helped her make friends in our class, gave her a few things I wasn't using, and we got along fine. We're not ”best friends” or even that close but I learned that day that hurt people hurt others, and reacting badly just makes them hurt more.

@sinandcyanide7505

6 жыл бұрын

Noneya Beeswax that's an invaluable experience that a lot of kids don't get. I'm glad you were able to see the good in that situation! You reacted well and your mom obviously chose the right move for you.

@Fayecolavecchio

6 жыл бұрын

the werid thing is she looks really good in that dress

@kathymathers1611

6 жыл бұрын

ASHLYN BOUNNHARITH good she needed to be humiliated. As you can see, she learned from it.

@xMitchieGoesRawrx

6 жыл бұрын

Don't forget to drink your Cyanide Agreed. Most parents just snatch their devices or ground them, but the children never get a true understanding of why bullying is wrong and they’ll end up doing it again. However, this creative punishment made the girl REALIZE her mistake and feel empathy for the girl she bullied.

if that girl were a real fashionista she would've rocked that like it was no big deal

@ebencipe

6 жыл бұрын

Agree :)

@kittnchops

5 жыл бұрын

I would have. I've been known to buy ugly clothes on purpose.

@mariaaleksandraantuszewicz4933

5 жыл бұрын

Tbh the clothes that girl chose to wear on her own were the ugly ones- I mean they were timelessly out of style and made her look like a 50 year old. Some of the thrift store outfits were pretty bold vintage choices but I would have rocked those effortlessly and I never considered myslelf a fashionista, whatever that means...

@TCB_Aries

5 жыл бұрын

True

@IMVUDressUp

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Girl those dresses she picked out could’ve been really good if she got them tailored and wore a cute belt with it. As someone that’s a true fashionista it’s not hard to make ugly clothes cute

Great way to educate. Kids can be so horribly cruel...

God bless these parents! So many times,I have seen parents turn a blind eye to their child that bullies others.It wasn't humiliation,it was walking in another's shoes,and clothes,to learn EMPATHY!👊

honestly the parents did a good job imo. they pretty much forced their child to "walk a mile in someone else's shoes." humiliation CAN go too far, but the parents really executed this on an eye for an eye situation.

@tracyqin7589

7 жыл бұрын

Toni Macaroni And sharing videos in Fb because parents feel the need to film their kids when they're crying. This doesn't leave the kid with embarrassing videos on the internet, which might pop up when a employer is looking at their job history. The parents did this in a way that doesn't affect the kid in the future, but allows her to learn and realize what she did wrong and how insignificant the trends are

@abigail-du3rv

7 жыл бұрын

Naomi Ugwu kids are mean this can come back in highschool anytime clothes to kids aren't just clothes

@phonetism

7 жыл бұрын

Abbi Hodnett if her parents turned a blind eye, she would've lived a large portion of her adolescence bullying other children. humility is an important quality for anyone to have. i honestly doubt that wearing ugly clothes for less than 3 days would've lead to lifelong bullying.

@frostycreeper1055

7 жыл бұрын

An eye for an eye would make the world blind.

@phonetism

7 жыл бұрын

FrostyCreeper10 justice is blind :)

The girl herself said: "I was happy to learn this lesson" Parenting experts bruh

@kstar1489

3 жыл бұрын

She’s a child. The parenting expert is actually going off actual research. Intentionally putting your kid through bullying and public shaming - both shown to be potentially traumatic and lowers self-esteem - is not only dangerous but lazy parenting. You need to talk to your kid like a human. If your kid makes fun of someone with a Borden leg will you break their leg? It’s stupid. You can teach that it was wrong without this elaborate, denigrating nonsense.

@K3V1N4TW

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 what if the kid doesn’t listen? Just wondering.

@antoniahenry7203

3 жыл бұрын

most of them don't have kids themselves i guess...? lol

@caffienevaccine

3 жыл бұрын

I’m more concerned about how, the parent coming up with this punishment is a stepmom. This is gonna create a complex

@antoniahenry7203

3 жыл бұрын

@@caffienevaccine mmm that's a decent point...

The daughter agreed that it was an appropriate learning experience. That is the true test of whether it was an effective and valuable lesson.

This is the best way to each empathy!!!! Amazing...take notes!!!!

"Is this cruel shaming?" IT'S JUST THRIFTED CLOTHES

@samanthasignorile820

6 жыл бұрын

tae bae its not about the clothes its about the fact that she was getting bullied also.

@sweetpeachbellini8245

6 жыл бұрын

Samantha Signorile Can you think of a better way for that child to learn empathy and compassion? This is exactly what she needed and in no way, shape or form was this cruel.

@samanthasignorile820

6 жыл бұрын

SweetPeach Bellini we all have different opinions and my opinion is that this is extremely damaging to a childs self esteem. Shes forever gonna be none as the girl with thrift store clothes.

@gloriacruz242

6 жыл бұрын

no not really

@Ash-ii4hg

6 жыл бұрын

tae bae IKR I honestly like them...

“It’s cruel shaming” it’s literally just thrifted clothes for a few days it’s not like its forever

@sapphiccc

6 жыл бұрын

angel TBH I like trift store clothes you can find alot of good things there

@angel-ne5pg

6 жыл бұрын

Grace King same it’s not bad

@BIGTIMESWORLD

6 жыл бұрын

I thrift clothes all the time the shirt I have on my pfp is thrifted

@Libruhh

6 жыл бұрын

and then they put her on GMA and now millions of people have seen this

@connorfleser5716

6 жыл бұрын

Some people have to wear these cloths cuz they can’t afford others

This is the perfect way to teach a child about bullying. Good job mom!

This made me so sad. What a great lesson.

“This is humiliation!” So is being bullied....? 😂

@jessiegranville5478

3 жыл бұрын

This is a teaching moment

@KittysInu

3 жыл бұрын

Its not even humiliation, its viewed as such by people who dont understand what its like to struggle for money. In fact, the whole way this was set up is kinda gross. "Well off family makes daughter dress like shes lower class to teach her a lesson. Was this too far?"

@bayvillagebug

3 жыл бұрын

And well deserved at that!

@itzrainbowdragon1915

3 жыл бұрын

@@KittysInu I agree with the punishment. It allowed her to walk around in someone else’s shoes for a little while and it actually humbled the little girl. No harm was done.

@taylorrhouser

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly, that guy says it’s teaching bullies that they’re “less than”, as if that’s a bad thing?? Bullies should know they’re not better than the people they’re bullying, that’s like the whole point

I stand by the parents. I think it's creative, and it humbled her rather than damage her confidence.

@maryannburgess9955

6 жыл бұрын

What's wrong with thrift store clothing my daughter only shops there that's her choice. She is 16

@artsysundae

6 жыл бұрын

Maryann Burgess Yes, but the point was that she didn’t the clothes.

@river-leemacintyre1134

6 жыл бұрын

Do you really think she can turn out any worse waring second clothes then she will not being punished. If they had grounded her she would have blamed the victim rather then realizing how it felt to be different. Parents did right

@tarahoman5809

6 жыл бұрын

1,000 liker 😂

@flowersinthebreeze6861

6 жыл бұрын

its taught her that lesson and tit got he results she knew what it feels like so probably wont bully again. if everyone did this then maybe bullying wouldnt be as common as it is

I believe some of the best lessons we can teach our children is how to act appropriately in the face of fear and humility... the child's reaction was very mature and responsible. Good job parents!

Respect these parents. This isnt freaking child abuse, this is teaching her an amazing lesson😅

Omg! These self-esteem “experts” are in part responsible for why people feel so entitled and are so fragile.

@lumijasminasmr3583

3 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@fireflymiesumae

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@ElysianWorld

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!! THANK YOU

@robynalice879

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly though, he's kind of demeaning how smart an 11 year old can actually be. If this kid was 4 obviously they wouldn't get the concept, but treating her like she's still 4 is an insult.

@caprice3110

3 жыл бұрын

#truth

but she looks cute in the "ugly" thrift clothes

@CrystalRuizEnriquez

3 жыл бұрын

I think it was more about her feeling like she was wearing ugly clothes. I mean, let's face it, at that age we are very opinionated on what we seem cute and ugly. I look back to when I was a child and remember how I thought some clothing was ugly and i see pictures now, and i looked cute. I liked this lesson on humility and sensitivity.

@amelialalllalala3914

3 жыл бұрын

fr

@dylanjperri

3 жыл бұрын

No piece of clothing is really *ugly* though. As long as you know how to style it. She looked like a vogue model in the dress with the puffy sleeves.

@gothicgirlfriend7375

3 жыл бұрын

You think that because you're an adult. All young people are "cute" compared to an average adult.

@cassidyym8858

3 жыл бұрын

It’s trendy to wear thrift shop clothes now

I’m a mom of two and this looks like something I would’ve done also. Teach them young, be creative to do so. I LOVE THIS MOM💕

I think that was a perfect lesson...and she's got a good friend out of it too. Who cares about a child's self esteem when she is destroying someone elses.

Kaley wasn't the worst of bullies, she just needed to be put back in her place, and now she has a new friend because she learnt the lesson. More parents need to do this when they find out their kids are bullies.

It's not humiliation. It's humility. If it's "embarrassing" to be poor, then more important it is for kids to learn how it feels to be poor. It isn't a product of the parenting, it is the product of society shaming poor children. Well done mom. And glad the daughter learnt something. Bullying is extremely dangerous and good parenting can definitely stop it.

@Mags765

6 жыл бұрын

👏🏼

@lizardfishbird

6 жыл бұрын

Honest to god, you can get some cool shit from thrift shops.

@cyberghetto2714

6 жыл бұрын

Stephany .A. I bet you’d learn a lesson too if you wore that same outfit the girl did, you’d learn the lesson that you could go perfectly with thrift shop clothes.

@busymeowser

6 жыл бұрын

I have to wonder would the punishment been as harsh if she was her actually biological daughter rather someone from a previous marriage to her husband? #stepmother

@jadecoolness101

6 жыл бұрын

Stephany .A. Okay. Well then you say what the parents should have done to teach their kid not to be a little shit to poorer kids at school. If you have a better idea then share it.

Love your solution to this issue!

Props goes to mom. I would of done the same to my kid. The mother wasn't trying to humiliate her daughter, she wanted to show her daughter how the other girl felt by being humiliated in front of ppl

Most of my clothes are from thrift shops and they are poppin.

@Lumi0215

6 жыл бұрын

Definitely easy to find some great things at a Thrift shop! I’ve had friends who love thrift shopping, but in this particular instance she made the girl point out clothing she found ugly, and then made her wear the clothing she didn’t like.

@treenak6689

6 жыл бұрын

Zelle Kate me too I shop every where

@krizellekatearana1344

6 жыл бұрын

Airborne Tortilla how am i a hoe?

@vallerie897

6 жыл бұрын

Zelle Kate Fake profile pic?

@hannabhx4813

6 жыл бұрын

+Airborne Tortilla Maybe you should shut up, okay? Don't be a jealous Bitch and get on with your life!

finally a parent who punishes a child who is a bully

Her parents made a great decision good for them !!! 💕

We need more parents like that!

Honestly, I think this is the perfect punishment. Half the time I hear stories of parents doing nothing when their kids do something wrong, and I'm glad these parents had the wherewithal to do this to and for their child. I know if my kid was bullying someone I'd be VERY disappointed because I know what it feels like to be bullied.

@angelbaby3872

7 жыл бұрын

Madcatter couldn't have said it better, even the kid knows this is correct

@reevy9986

7 жыл бұрын

Madcatter i totally!

@jojo-pd4ii

7 жыл бұрын

Madcatter tell that to the black father who cut of his daughters hair and publically shamed her. She then committed suicide

@MaddieNiec

7 жыл бұрын

+cosmic infinity That is a COMPLETELY different story. The mother didn't really publicly shame her daughter, unless she posted it on social media or something. She taught her daughter a lesson in humility with the punishment not being too severe. Many parents either go way to far, like the father you speak of, or they do nothing. This mother, I think, had the perfect punishment.

@kellyalves756

7 жыл бұрын

Madcatter I wouldn't even call it punishment-- it was a teachable moment, a lesson in empathy.

Sadly those clothes were low key cute

@ctrlzme.6448

4 жыл бұрын

yea she has the face to make it cute

@wetfetus5791

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@scarlettamy3466

4 жыл бұрын

100th like😊

@keisonkei1098

4 жыл бұрын

Yes they were so cuteee

@driftersforge4962

4 жыл бұрын

I agree the clothes nowadays wouldn't look good on her

The parent's solution was perfect ! Kudos to you both.

Yeah I got teased mercilessly about wearing thrift store clothes and to this DAY I wish somebody cared enough to do this for me. I love this 💞💗💞

Great punishment. She learned her lesson, she’s sorry and now she’s friends with the person she bullied. I couldn’t think of a better outcome? How do people disagree?

@Galaxybutterfly88

6 жыл бұрын

bridget o

@xjustaprofile

6 жыл бұрын

Those clothes were kinda cute tbh :/

@bridget4139

6 жыл бұрын

Taemin's Cat i agree, i like some of them

@danidarkoxo

6 жыл бұрын

I agree with you! Also she looked adorable in those clothes 😭

@bridget4139

6 жыл бұрын

YOMYOM i know!

The kid grew from this, and she seems to genuinely appreciate that her parents changed her perspective. Kudos to her parents for being creative and not coddling the ego.

“Harmful to her self esteem” knowing it’s only for a few days. So imagine how the girl she was bullying feels daily.

Especially with designer names being the trend right now, I think this was a great idea. She was not trying to humiliate her child, she was just trying to make her understand how the girl she teased felt.

This isn’t humiliation, it’s a lesson. And she learned how other people feel when she did what she did, and because of that she’s a better person.

@kstar1489

3 жыл бұрын

It is literally humiliation. They intentionally made her go through bullying

@ruthie_rosario

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 So what about the people who can only afford hand-me-downs? Since the parents chose to have the children, are they intentionally trying to humiliate their child? No. This is the real world. We can’t make everybody like us. All we can do is try to teach our kids to be empathetic. We can’t control what others do.

@sal-dq2uv

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 yeah because that was what she was doing to the other girl

@elisakrivas

3 жыл бұрын

@@kstar1489 The bullying was temporary, though and they were trying to teach her. I'd agree with you if they just randomly decided to do this, if the bullying would continue, or if the humiliation were more public than just school, but being made fun of for a few days and her actions of her wrong-doings were not mentioned to anyone? The harm had no lasting effects, but the positive effects were learned.

@renelacomb8737

7 ай бұрын

@@kstar1489 stop commenting

People will always have something to say about the way you raise your kids, I think this was the absolute BEST way to punish their child for what she did to that girl. The parents could've done what most people do and whoop her ass with a belt, but they chose the nonviolent way and these parents ARE STILL BEING TOLD THEYRE WRONG!

@themadlass5584

7 жыл бұрын

Robert Mata I agree with you on that. 😑 It's ridiculous. 😑😑😑😑

@jacquedenise86

7 жыл бұрын

Robert Mata exactly, they taught their daughter a valuable lesson, and I guarantee she'll remember for a long time.

@miriamasillo5860

7 жыл бұрын

Robert Mata more better than taking phone away.

@robertmata1997

7 жыл бұрын

Miriam Asillo oh definitely

It’s that her “self esteem” was over the top so she needed a step down. They said for two days, not her life. Why are others against it when it’s literally JUST wearing clothes she doesn’t like...

This was an amazing teaching lesson. I was bullied and I wish my bullies did it. The experts are wrong.

The parents did nothing wrong 👏👏👏👏👏 I was bullied growing up and I don't want my child to be a bully.

@jtomasettiw7401

5 жыл бұрын

I was bullied for four years and my school did nothing.

@wetfetus5791

4 жыл бұрын

Same if I found out my child did this I would do the same thing these parents did

@serenaxagx1168

3 жыл бұрын

bro the parents did, you dont record ur kid and put them all over the fucking internet

@chabelllita

3 жыл бұрын

If my kid acted like that, I would give such a long lecture they wish they went through what that girl went through.

@lenni332

3 жыл бұрын

@@jtomasettiw7401 I’m sorry to hear that

There is a line between abuse and discipline and I believe the mother took the appropriate course of action. She gave her daughter the opportunity to walk in someone else's shoes. It's very clear some people these days do not have the money to buy brand clothes and to be honest, I don't see why thrift shop clothing is bad either... kids these days are too spoiled to understand the struggle that is economy... Besides, this mother prevented her daughter from doing any future bullying, I call that a win in my book.

@moonslunar2418

6 жыл бұрын

Angelica Rodriguez Tbh those clothes weren't even bad either, so why would she complain...

@imquaking9869

6 жыл бұрын

Angelica Rodriguez i fully agree with you

My sister-in-law was one of 17 children who grew up in West Virginia under the most poor conditions you can never imagine. But my sister-in-law was extremely brilliant and mine because she read constantly. But her family moved from the hills of West Virginia to Orlando Florida. Her mother took her to the thrift store to buy school clothes for her, and because she didn't know any better she bought all prom gowns and wore them to school and she was known as the girl with the prom dresses. She was bullied and made fun of. Some girls in the school went to the guidance counselor and asked for intervention to help my sister-in-law. All the girls got together and they wardrobe to her with some of their own clothing and the guidance counselor explained what was appropriate for school and she was dressed to the hilt. The girls that defended my sister-in-law, or what we really need more of in the world we live in with the bully mentality and what you wear you're all ugly anyway if you no matter how much you spend on your clothing if you're ugly in your soul and someday you'll look in the mirror and you will see the very ugly person you are that came out of your person. Be kind and beautiful and you will be beautiful no matter what you wear. The ugly and bullish and it will show up on your face like warts on a witch.

It’s not abuse. It’s teaching her empathy

I think this was the best punishment. Just being grounded would have taught her nothing but rebel even more. She stepped in her shoes and realized where she messed up.

Am I the only one who thought she looked really cute in the "ugly" clothes?

@christalodum3365

7 жыл бұрын

I have always thrift shopped ... I was embarrassed about it when I was little but now I just see how economical, and environmentally friendly it is and am proud.

@amethyst0285

7 жыл бұрын

Christal Odum But you're not a kid.

@butterflytaster5553

7 жыл бұрын

Especially the red and purple dress Like, she pulled it off really well

@christalodum3365

7 жыл бұрын

amethyst0285 you're right. From a young age, I would certainly never discriminate based on clothing, but I had to get older before I felt confident in those clothes. I think often times, with maturity comes a greater sense of self that decreases vanity.

@molinaproductions123

7 жыл бұрын

Same honestly

I applaud the parents for this valuable lesson 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Compare to many ignorant parents who applaud their bully child for outshining other children! Great story❤

This was needed.

"It may be harmful to there self-esteem" how about we teach our kids that self-esteem isn't found in what your wearing or the words of others.

@compilationrex124

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly...well said

@katrinab7657

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes, kids' egos need to be taken down a notch. Self-esteem can easily become inflated, especially for a pretty, popular child. Don't want her to build her self-esteem by tearing others down or using looks and money to determine the worth of oneself and others.

@kimmmerkim5811

3 жыл бұрын

I do believe that is exactly what these parents did😁

This isn't humiliation, it's called teaching humility. I'm so tired of these doctors being so butt hurt about the creative ways parents choose to punish their kids. There was no way that girl could sympathize with her classmate that she bullied until she walked a day in her shoes. Bravo bonus mom and dad (I hate the word step LOL)! I probably would've reverted back to what I knew worked on me and spanked her, and that's only because I don't have that creative process in my brain. I'd look at this and say, "Why the hell didn't I think of that?".

@lai8544

3 жыл бұрын

The thing is that is relative you know. You gotta know your child, in this case it was great and she learned the lesson. But the same treatment on other child could have gone really bad, a child with social anxiety could have focused way too much on what others say about them and instead of (just?) learning the lesson it could be worsening her/his anxiety and even traumatize the kid. You know, it’s not drama if it’s real and people should respect the differences on people, there’s not a formula for everyone.

@keeganjoyner9569

3 жыл бұрын

@@lai8544 ok but that kid was bullying someone the victim of the bullying is prolly traumatizing

@lai8544

3 жыл бұрын

@@keeganjoyner9569 Two wrongs don't make a right

@declaracionespolemicas

3 жыл бұрын

@@lai8544 Why would someone with social anxiety bully someone else for how they dress? I expect someone who suffers from social anxiety to be fully aware of what being bullied feels like. Bullying is also a social activity, as someone who suffered from social anxiety before it seems highly unlikely you would require this kind of punishment on the first place. Girl learned being teased and mocked for wearing different clothes isn't nice, she literally had to step on the other girl's shoes. I thought it was a nice lesson and she obviously took it well.

@lai8544

3 жыл бұрын

@@declaracionespolemicas Yes, she took it well and that’s great it worked for her. The social anxiety was just an example, another example: the kid could have anger issues and be very angry and stressed with the situation resulting in not learning anything and just feel more anger and hate (now towards her/his parents)... p.s: I also suffered with social anxiety and would never bully someone, yet social anxiety doesn’t necessarily inhibits someone from bullying

I mean, she said she didn’t understand why they were making fun of her only because of what she was wearing when she was the same person as before. Seems to me like she now recognizes that there is a whole valueable person under each outfit so job well done!

If nothing else this teaches her to appreciate the fact that her parents can actually afford to give her all of the expensive name brand clothes that she wears and for that alone she should be grateful.

She deserved it. Bullying is literally one of the worst things you could ever do. I have experienced bullying for a long time and i fell right into depression but don't worry im ok now. Here's some advice: never bully anyone because you never know what the person you are bullying is going through.

@mountainmama2101

3 жыл бұрын

You: "Bullying is literally the worst thing you could ever do." Me: "Wow...you just put murder, rape, physical torture, and terrorism below bullying on the list of bad things."

@chika5384

3 жыл бұрын

@@mountainmama2101 that’s not what they meant lmfao what?

@terimkel3

3 жыл бұрын

@@mountainmama2101 obviously you don’t get it and not what the op meant. I really hope you aren’t a “mother”. Your children are probably the bullies.

@mountainmama2101

3 жыл бұрын

@@terimkel3 awe....bless your heart. You can't bear it when someone has a different opinion or approach. You are the bully. Demeaning anyone who dare differ with you. Shame on you.

@mountainmama2101

3 жыл бұрын

@@chika5384 don't project your thoughts or feelings onto what was said. She said, "Bullying is *LITERALLY* the worst thing you could ever do". How is it hard for you to understand this. Lmao! 😂😂😂 If you think Bullying is worse than muder and rape, by all means, you're entitled to your opinion.

I'm glad the girl knew that she was wrong and realized that her parents did the right thing

👏Yes this is an amazing way to teach a lesson now she is conscious about her actions 💖

This is actually beautiful that they became friends.

That Dr needs to go educate himself, I would have done the same thing as these parents & so would many others

@coelacanth9821

3 жыл бұрын

oh, no no - he's an EXPERT!

@Loaves_of_Cat

3 жыл бұрын

An expert doesn’t always know what will work, especially when it concerns other living beings like kids

@pattym9182

3 жыл бұрын

It's like...yes, it DOES make them feel "less than." That is the point. This girl thought she was MORE THAN someone else, and "talking to her" (who is, indeed, a CHILD) is NOT as likely to reach the same impact. Children don't have the depth of awareness adults do, or the ability to understand, empathize, or rationalize things they don't understand, and SOME kids bully because they don't actually KNOW what it's like to feel "less than," and would think twice if they actually, truly KNEW how horrible their words make others feel. We don't know EXACTLY what was said, but I'd bet in the 2 days she had to wear them, she eventually heard things that were very similar to the things she was saying. A lot of bullies end up eating their own words later in life, but to so quickly be forced to have them cast unto you...no wonder she's now friends with the girl. And she's at a young enough age where that would have been enough to make her rethink her attitude. Hopefully everyone who watches this story has ignored the "doctor's" warning LOL.

@jaydel3

3 жыл бұрын

In a case by case scenario. There is no Universal solution.

@GadereneLegion

3 жыл бұрын

I think it depends on the way it’s done. It can be destructive if you’re not careful. This had thought put into it. It was very intentional.

Yo thrift store clothing is low-key kinda cute

@yourmom-kx7vv

7 жыл бұрын

true

@epen1898

7 жыл бұрын

Yep, she still pulled the look off.

@kar0lkitty764

7 жыл бұрын

Tresha A yazzzzzzzzzz

@sarafarias8504

7 жыл бұрын

Agree.Best way to look fashionable:)

@itsnotthatdeepluv

7 жыл бұрын

Tresha A highkeyyyy

Kudos to the parents and to the daughter. She also made a new friend. Win for everyone involved.

I have always told my kids, unless you walk in their shoes, don't judge! Love this, great parents! Learned a lesson and gained a friend!