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you're not incompetent, you just need to get over your fear of success...
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The title drew me in immediately. I pressed PLAY and just started watching this and I'm already feeling the relatability of it! I'm so afraid of putting myself out there fully because yes, I'm afraid of rejection, but also, I'm afraid of success and I just can't explain why! I look forward to what this video has to teach
@TanzytheglowupG
9 ай бұрын
Me too like im crying over here 😢❤ tears of relief and happiness!
@AntaneseTooREAL
9 ай бұрын
Me!
@pinas.passport
7 ай бұрын
Literally same, damn this girl just talks right to my soul😱🤭
One nose boop for bubby 🐶💞
The saying says “Do it scared anyway”
Aspiring KZreadr here with no viral videos and I love how you put this. Everyone keeps telling me hopefully one of your videos go viral but honestly the numbers scare me and I know that it will immediately put me in another bracket because I know that my content is 🔥🔥🔥. I’m afraid of that and I’m always in my head! But I need to get over it because we got BIG goals. Love this series Bria. We need this 💕
@ToniArnay
9 ай бұрын
Keep on going! I know you can make it!
@Talalovee
9 ай бұрын
@@ToniArnay thank you lovee!!! 💕💕💕
@ColorOfCozy
8 ай бұрын
ima a month late but im also in the same boat! I love seeing other creators of color so I'm following right away 😋 you got this homie
@Talalovee
8 ай бұрын
@@ColorOfCozy awwww thank you so much!! 💕💕💕
WOW … I didn’t realize how much I’d resonate with the fear of being seen & fear of the unknown until this video really highlighted it for me. I feel a little closer to success now that I know what was really blocking me. ❤
@ToniArnay
9 ай бұрын
Keep on pushing! You are almost there 🙌🏾🙏🏾😇
Oh my goodness… this series is DEFINITELY for me! So glad you’ve been hitting all the mental points for us. Fear can be so crippling. For everyone watching this video and you run across this comment, KEEP GOING!! FOOT TO THE PEDAL BABE! 🤍
This video is GOLD, Bria! Whenever you made a point or gave some truth that we mostly know on unconscious levels, my mind was saying YES! YES! YES! Believe that you deserve the good that comes to you; failure doesn’t have to be the final step; treat yourself like you are a friend or family member; change is necessary or we don’t grow but stagnate; and don’t let others define you or break you down because those people don’t really care about you. I am so glad that you worked through these issues or recognize them where you refuse to let them steal your joy or keep you from being your wonderful self. Thank you for sharing and reminding me (who is much, much older than you) that I deserve the good that life offers. ❤️
hey bestie, I promise you I am so hard on myself it ain’t even funny and in many ways i thought I didn’t deserve certain stuff and that keeps me very stagnant. Need to start convincing myself that I deserve it. The one thing that I need to work on is visualizing my success. Sometimes I wish i had more supportive people around me, but it’s something that I can’t worry about right now.
This is exactly my problem. I've had this problem time after time in my life. Now it's keeping me from finishing school. My weird brain is trying to procrastinate on watching this video but I'm pushing through it cus I really want to get past this
Run it tf back ! She basically said if they not hating you not poppin.. Aw ok. She said what she said.! 😂❤
This is so aligned with my church service from last night! Thank you again for these recent videos!!! This is definitely a sign of me bridging some gaps and healing the old and new me. Love you Bri❤
Fear of success... Definitely. Several of these fears have been overcome at this point because knowing the issue is half of the solution. I am still working through many of my fears of success. I LOVE the idea of doing visualization just before sleep. I have been doing visualizations in my morning routine and feel great until lunch, so I think adding this in as a bedtime ritual would be ideal. Thank you!!! ❤😊
Such a powerful message! It's amazing how our own fear of success can hold us back and make us doubt our abilities. This video really resonated with me and reminded me to push past that fear and believe in myself.
18:13 „Staying unhappy and dissatisfied with your current situation is going to be as permanent as you make it.“ I wind it back at least 3 times 💯
You pointed out eveything that was wrong with my life and that was straight up so cool! I wonder if i should apply to scholarships but always ended up imagining myself getting rejected (aka fear of success), and i am now on my way to fix this
this came at the exact right time because I've been struggling so bad lately to overcome this fear. I have such big dreams but starting,,,,whew
Gah your videos are always SO timely. I feel like no one ever talks about this, yet it’s so important! Great video, Bria ❤️👏
This video was reassuring for me. I noticed that I am afraid of success. That’s not going to stop me from accomplishing my goals
@ToniArnay
9 ай бұрын
You Go🥳❤️🙏🏾😇
The fear of success is such a real thing and I'm glad that people like you are speaking out about this. Thank you 💚
Bubby aww.. thats a sign of comfort..the couch drop
you always have a video out with something i need to hear! thank you for these videos, they've really changed my perspective on how i think about myself!
Sooooooo on point. I had a business that got VERY successful in my twenties and it scared the shit out of me. Now I’m starting another one after doing a lot of work on myself and realizing that success is what I’m afraid of since I already know I have the potential. It’s hard to talk to anyone about it because they’re usually just like “well that’s dumb” but they’ve never really pushed themselves to be successful so they think I just magically happened to build a business by accident.
@user-be7tc2bd6e
9 ай бұрын
Amigo,keep on grinding and don't talk to others about what you want to do. Just do you.I did 10 yrs of civilian contracter work over-seas ( Iraq,Qatar,Kuwaitt & Afghanistan ) doing mercenary work,then logistics.Been back in america for over a year now and hating it. LOL. I didn't even want to come back to america,but,had no choice,the US military got kicked outta Afghanistan,so the contracters had to bounce-TOO. LOL.I'd rather be hunting/fighting insurgents/terrorists,that's what I'm good at.Before becoming a civilian contracter I volunteered to go on 4 deployments to go fight in Iraq,with the Texas Guard ( i also did 2 tours back-to-back ) my first tour was in 2005 with an infantry unit at Camp TQ and we did joint missions with the Marines. ON these 4 tours I arrested/detained countless Iraqee citizens and insurgents,kicked in countless doors and-KICKED-much &&& !!! LOL.I didn't tell anyone what I wanted to do,JUST did it. I'm advising you to do like-wise.
thank u sm for this girl!!! i really needed it
You are absolutely 100% right. You give great advice and thank you for being transparent!
definitely feeel this whole video as a new youtuber! it’s nice to know i’m not alone ❤
Bria, Bria, Bria! You continue to drop these emotional ass gems. Your authenticity is something I’ve always loved about you. I totally can relate on this topic - there’s so many fears that come with new heights
Thank you for this ❤ so spot on
You never miss Bria! I thank the universe for earth angels like you❤️
Absolutely love your pep talks
So good! I found your channel a while ago, and literally resonate so much with your content. Thank you for your belief in yourself and constantly showing up for you, as you are such a light for others! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this ! I really needed to hear everything you covered ! I know I’m holding myself back because I’m worried about what people will think about me making changes for myself . Like you said when you grow it can throw the balance of things off and even the people around you . I feel I’m not good at what I do but my work speaks for itself . I appreciate being opening about these struggles
Girl i love you so much, i needed to hear everything you said as someone who's also scared of changes
Watching Bria’s videos help me feel grounded😌✨✨
THANK YOU, I needed this
I Love me some Bria! You’re always speaking on what I need to hear ❤
Your videos are always right on time! Thank you for explaining everything so thoroughly. I've definitely been dealing with and healing from the fear of success. My biggest take away is that success is actually good and we can expand ourselves and our lives the more successful we become. Change is what has seemed scary, but change is actually good!!! :D
I always come back to your channel for a breath of fresh air. You are so real and honest. I feel like you’re that one bestie that will snap me back to reality😂.
Gurl, I appriciate you so much for this! It was exactly what I needed to hear, the way I needed to hear it thank you.
I really enjoy that you aren't just spouting off the same lame LOA points of talking. Actually getting to the root of why we ruin our own manifesting. 💯
Thank you for posting this. I got to me at the right time. 💕
I needed to hear it. Thank you for sharing it☺
This was amazing! And so needed ❤
Absolutely love this video! It hit home for me. I had no idea I had a fear of being seen, success, and criticism. It is definitely a reason why I having issues moving forward in my life when it comes to my career and becoming an influencer. Thank you so much for this video! Now I know it to work on!
Ugh Bria I love your content and you so much! I have always loved KZread and have been watching it since I was in middle school, but I've never felt as closely connected to a creator as I do with you. Your age group, living in the South, choosing to stay at home vs going out now, getting over the fear of money, I could go on and on!!! Your channel is truly my safe space 🥹 This video made me realize I have a fear of judgment and it is holding me back from reaching new levels of success on my own journey 😭Whew called me allllll the way out but I needed to hear that! Thank you for all you do. Thank you for still going and creating content even when you experience failure or tough moments. I'm forever rooting for your success and happiness!!!!
I needed to hear this! So grateful for this video 🙏 I’ve been holding myself back because of the fear of success and judgement I might get from others 😔 but I’m ready to take the leap forward and suffer a little to grow because it’s all part of the process 💫 Let’s Goooo!
I absolutely love you!!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and creating this amazing content!! ❤
this is so good! i appreciate your channel so much. It has helped me since I found it!
Thanks soooo much for yet another amazing video, your content is the best!
I just want to say that you're Amazing! Thank you, thank you for this video..I am so grateful that i was guided to this video.I so needed to hear and i still need to just sit with this because this is me, wow it feels so.... good admitting that.I feel like you 're reading a page from my diary/journal/book.Thank you for this and for being so..... AMAZING!
30:39 so the entire video resonated with me. Your videos help me so much, not just with self analyzation, but watching your journey is just inspiring and I just want to thank you.
One of my favourite videos I watch over and over to give me the kick up the butt that I very much need! Thanks so much B!!!! XXX
Thank you Bri 🫶🏾
I love your energy!!
Thank you so much Bria needed this
This content is gollllllld❤️❤️The tip about breaking down everything is what I needed❤️❤️Tk u Bria
Go girl! Perfect timing for this video❤
Thank you Bria! Your videos always give me the tough love/pep talk I need to keep going. As always, this resonated and was so helpful ❤
When I say this is on TIME. It is on TIME. Love your channel. Glad I found you and subscribed.
Hi Bria! I love your videos & how relatable & encouraging you are. I would love a video about how to start youtube/social media from scratch or what you wish you knew when you started.
I really enjoy your perspective on this❤
Thank you for this ❤ Ive been looking for someone to just tell me this stuff, not that ion know em but hearing it from someone makes a difference
@BriaJones
9 ай бұрын
I feel you on that, sometimes we just need to hear it!
Super random but I love love love energy. Ugh so refreshing! Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. ✨😍
25:58 i had a "best friend" who was never supportive for me throughout my happiest & saddest moments in my life while i was always supportive for her. i remember when i got my dream car for my 21st birthday, she was completely silent about it, everyone else around me in my group congratulated me and were happy for me but she never said a word and i always noted that in my head but shrugged it off in hopes she just forgot to say something. i was completely wrong, she really just wasn't happy for me and only cared for herself, thankfully she's no longer in my life, she kept leaving our friend group and even left me during a time i lost one of my grandparents, left when other ex friends left me years ago, and somehow i kept letting her back in but once she left again for the third time, i put my foot down and no longer will accept her back in. the right people will be there for you in your worst & best times! I've got best friends who stayed through both and i'm forever grateful for them. as always, wonderful video bri
I love this weekly reads thanks so much!!
I didn’t expect my world to change the way it did after this video thank you ❤
Your content is so inspiring. You’ve been filling in the blanks for me as I grow and seek more within myself. I see your growth and love your mindddd. Thank you sharing and leading by example.
🙌🏻yes this video definitively resonates thank you for this!!💙
thank you for this video xoxo
Phenomenal message Bria! The fear of success has been holding me back. I love that haters represent moving in a prosperous direction. Sending love and light. I was bullied growing up and had no idea how the irrational thought patterns of that time remained conscious from decades ago. I am going to try the visualization practice tonight!
Oh THIS is the one i needed 😭🫰🏽 thank you Bria!
THANK YOU QUEEN
Hi Bria, thanks for this video ❤ watched it at the right time, just what I needed to hear 👌🏻
Thank you so much for talking about this Bria!
@BriaJones
9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
This video is more helpful to me and am still in rebuilding myself,thank you very I keep watching all your videos coz it seems you talk all about me
Amazing video! I am so thankful you were able to put into words and resurface all the fears I had subconsciously! I’ve got some journaling to do! Lol thank you!
Loved this so much! ♥️
Always dishing out the best 🎉🎉❤❤ thank you Soo much bestie b 💞
congrats on 300k! 🎉 I subbed yesterday at 299. Your videos are super insightful
Thanku for making videos on such relatable topics. I was feeling very low and found your channel, watched a few videos, and am feeling motivated now. I work from home so, I couldn't meet many people in daily life. Please make videos on mental health and how to keep ourselves going.
Excellent breakdown and tips! I do have a fear of success which contradicts my excitement to succeed lol but I keep going. Loving this series 💙
how do i like this more than once
Thank you‼️💯💌🫶🏾
Thank you for being real. It’s motivating. ❤ I have a horrible fear of success. ESP around creepers online.
I pray I remember these things as I continue to grow and achieve different levels of success.
I’m obsessed with this video and I haven’t even finished watching it yet
Sooooo good! I love your video's. They help and are SO motivational 🥰
Girl, I prayed for money to invest in a business coach. I manifested it and today I received the money from my brother, as soon as I had it I felt like I was gonna pass out. I literally could not breathe and every fiber of my being was telling me to not invest this money, that I was making the wrong decision and I'd regret it. I had to step out, breathe, say some affirmations and only then did I come and without even look I just clicked on the screen and paid the damn coach. Fear of success is real, self-sabotage is real and it's a serious battle everyday
This got me you called me out and I’m happy. I learned to make steps wow thanks Bria !!
Amazing video! I have a fear of being seen, however I’m putting myself out there more. Love the way your dog is living his/her best life on that sofa🤣🤣
This is a fabulous video! (And... unsolicited thought incoming, please feel free to roll your eyes and dismiss it! But have you considered coaching? Your energy is *so rich and positive*, i genuinely feel a bit coached just watching the video!) Thanks so much for both the personal side of this video, which is super relatable, and the action steps towards the end! Excellent work!
I literally hyperventilated at every milestone…I’m both relieved that I found out what’s blocking my energy, yet not surprised in a way…success is hard for ALL these reasons so it feels EXTREMELY good to be heard and FELT about them ❤
I felt all this! I’m a real estate agent doing all the back work but I’ve been soooo scared to put myself out there.
This s the video I needed. I've been anted to grow my youtube channel for years now. I start posting or I'll have a really good idea and I'll start working on it, and then I'll stop mysefl and I think this video really showed me why I keep doing that.
This girl is amazing ❤
I really resonate with this and I know it and over told myself but hearing it from someone else makes me feel less crazy. Like I am worthy or these good things and they should be happening to me yet I'm in shock everytime like it isn't something I really wanted
This recent videos have been on point. 👏🏾
Thank you❤
Bestie Bri always coming through with the 🔥
Thank you for this video! It's funny, in college I wrote an essay on the fear of failure. I really enjoyed this video and thank you for being real and honest. I think you are going to be one of my new favorite KZreadrs!😁💝
I just found you again & I loved this video thank youu for putting it out