YOU'RE A MOTHER! Figuring Out Our Domestic Duties As New Wives
If you are a wife and mother, you have a duty to dust, mop and keep the house sparkling clean, pamper and cater to your husband's every need, clean the children's running noses, do the market shopping, go to bed last because hey, YOU'RE A MOTHER.
Do you agree or not and why??
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If you are a wife and mother, you have a duty to dust, mop and keep the house sparkling clean, pamper and cater to your husband's every need, clean the children's running noses, do the market shopping, go to bed last because hey, YOU'RE A MOTHER. Do you agree or not and why?? Join us on today's interesting topic in the comments below! Come and bond with your family at the Golden Tulip this Sunday at the SUNDAY BRUNCH - UGX 90,000 for adults and UGX 60,000 for children. If you enjoyed this video please like it, share with someone who will relate and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
@glorianakayita9280
Жыл бұрын
How can l get the H.O.T and M.O.T. Would like to purchase them
@ndagirestellachristine3661
Жыл бұрын
Still need more of this topic especially when the house is full it was one of the best
@kisakyejosephine1198
Жыл бұрын
How can I send you a private message?
@livifm8749
Жыл бұрын
I also need them
@lindanisanisa1898
11 ай бұрын
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There is something I find fascinating about Pumla. In spite of her passionate and strong opinions, she is an authentic modern but yet a "traditional" woman. She is the typical example that we don’t have to fall into a single category. On certain topics she leans more towards modern, and on others she leans more traditional. This is why I find her intriguing.
@nkimminkimmi794
Жыл бұрын
You are very right about her!. Love listening to her views
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Banange Joyful. Who is paying you to spill these secrets? Haha! But for sure...I tend to dance between traditional & progressive. P
@rachaelmwine611
Жыл бұрын
You don't know the half of it😂. We are about to introduce a senga Pumla segment...
@anonnona6433
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. If you listen to one side of her story, you will be misguided 😂🤩🤩🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍for people who follow others blindly. I think she is empowered, independent but not toxic. She is a good person at heart ❤ ♥
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
@@rachaelmwine611hahahàaaaa! My Rachel...we need to keep marriages together for sure. P
But Angie never disappoints. Mbu I thought marriage was going for a holiday 😂
@namugerwamaria338
Жыл бұрын
She's a darling 😍
The way Pumla takes time and tries to interact with us in the comment section. I love this girl. Pumla, you are addictive. Love from Malawi 🇲🇼.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Oh Muli bwanji my African sister. Love right back to you ❤.
@janewerikhe9528
Жыл бұрын
Yes pumla is so real and down to earth,very engaging
@tumwebazekenneth4492
Жыл бұрын
Bumplove is more like MTN or maybe should buy n ownthe slogan, "every where u go"..grt job ladies.
@janewerikhe9528
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂woman demon can throw you into trouble
@brendanalunkuuma628
11 ай бұрын
Yes Pumla is addictive
I was partially like manuellla just tha me I over worked my self and got tired in two weeks and actually wanted a divorce. uuumm left home for work at 8,come back do dishes,mop,prepare supper,make the bed and by the time we have dinner am dosing and don't even want anyone to touch me...but thankfully my husband sat me down and taught me that I can't do all duties everyday,he taught me postponing some chores for the other day and we are good.
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you saw the light 😊
I wish there was an option of liking these videos more than once. Thank you ladies for the great conversations. You are impacting many lives. The Lord richly bless you
@natashaelizabeth337
Жыл бұрын
Me too
And Rachael is always the first to submit her response...ever ready😄.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha! This is true. Somehow it's usually her. P
@beatricemuringi4120
Жыл бұрын
Our beautiful index one....😂😂😂😂. I love her quiet perspective so much.
@daphinenamuli7566
Жыл бұрын
Pumla...Pumla how I love your views. Thank you ladies for sharing your experience. Surely when my wife and mother season arrives,I'll return for revision,👏
I always look forward to Bump love every Friday. An interesting topic today... Motherhood and wife responsibilities can be very overwhelming. When i had just come to the US, newly wed with a baby and my beloved traditional muganda man, i was shocked by what i had to do without help (house helps). Even with all the machinery available to reduce the load, i was mentally convinced that this was alot. Instead of spending my time taking care of my responsibilities one by one, i used to call my sisters to express how hard it was for me, spend my time feeling sad and not doing anything. By the end of the day, little had been done and stuff was piling. Now i know better. I clean as i go, i don't postpone doing stuff. I love a clean, neat and organised house so i make sure before i go to bed, everything is in order so that i start the day on a clean slate. I train my children young to clean after themselves after eating, cleaning and organizing the bathroom after every shower, folding clothes and placing them in their rightful places, making their beds etc. Sometimes i have to do them all over again but they perfect the skill with time. I've learnt to plan for my time and chores, and also embrace my responsibilities. By the way, i also do my own gardening, maintaining my backyard with lots of flowers and a section for vegetables. We have hime cooked meals everyday, i study and work. I think its about changing your mindset and planning your time.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Oh wow! A testimony here. Someone in the comments asked for advice for diaspora moms and wives. Inwish she could read this. Kudos to you Ritah. I want to start home gardening of vegetables. I need tips.
@Deedor72
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 👌🏾
@BobMazima-uh1ju
Жыл бұрын
Wow! great testimony. So encouraging! Tackle tasks one by one
@AgathaMartha
Жыл бұрын
So cute
@mwebazacharity1240
Жыл бұрын
Wowwwww...this is amazing gardening while working and studying with kids and a man..😮
I need the course that Manuela went through on Femininity because I need to learn before marriage because my personality is really strong.
@MaleenPeters
Жыл бұрын
My exact thoughts. Hope she will share the details
@sumayamya357
Жыл бұрын
Same here.......Manuela please guide us on where to find the course
@expatriateliving3481
11 ай бұрын
@Manuela can you share the course?
For sure , Racheal looks the type and I really like the fact she’s so down to earth
In the world 🌍 you are the only women show that has remained relevant with it's topics to just women and kids ... from kenya am impressed with your energy, reality, wisdom, sense of class and humor... just classic
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Thank you our Kenyan sister.
@rachaelmwine611
Жыл бұрын
This is amazing feedback, thank you🥰
I've dodged bump love for a looooong time coz i felt so guilty from what was discussed😣 but I've eventually gotten over myself and binge-watched it for like 2days! I must say i didn't know what i was missing. You ladies(and gents) are changing my life😊 in all the right places. There are some things that u mentioned that i need to follow-up on urgently. The HOT products, the feminine studies, the financial literacy, my walk with God, etc. Am on a roll😅
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Oh Namara. It's okay to take a break when you feel triggered. It's even better when you work past it and return. Glad you're back
What caught me laughing is the fact that Angie thought marriage was a holiday ......wooowww...thanks ladies for the educative ideas..love u mummies❤
Rachel's innocence always lights up Pumla, it's cute😌😌
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Hehe! I never get used 😅
@rachaelmwine611
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@oliviaharris1657
Жыл бұрын
True
@bettynalujja457
Жыл бұрын
😅😅
Each and every one of you is so unique. I could feel Rosette's absence today .I like hearing each and everyone of your opinions
Manuela your life journey is very inspirational - it shows that a situation is never permanent. The other ladies too do have very interesting stories to share. Love you all.
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
It never is......
@wakiboinerebecca5315
Жыл бұрын
Thank u ladies for alway bringing out the best in yo conversations
@ndagirestellachristine3661
Жыл бұрын
@@manuelap.mulondoplease we still need more content on this topic it was one of the best
@KimberlyNgabirano
Жыл бұрын
@@manuelap.mulondokindly share details of the course you took please.. We love love love the show
Thanks pump love for the show I have even grown healthy since I joined you guys 😂😂2023 is really moving on smoothly coz of u sisters God bless you 🙏
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
TOTALLY LOVE THIS ❤. P
I once requested my husband to help me fetch water since it's my worst chore, en asked me where I get water from thinking he wanted to go thr,then he said hmmm my mum carries two jerrycans from uphill up to home, en he stopped thr🤣🤣🤣I just said to myself"Docus please it's ok" wefekooo up to now I have never requested fr it again
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Eh!
Thank you Angie for the calculations and eye opening for saving for machines to lessen work, time and tiredness. Thanks a lot bump love
its the same perception I have with this gals OMG and I hv a happy marriage coz I dont just cramm in my marriage I always put in common sense to make it better always ...Thank you God for u pipo and wisdom
How I wish you organize an event for the women so that we atleast get a chance to dine with you ladies, hold conversations and also get some advice because for sure I've learnt alot from bump love and organized my life cz I was going through a phase of bad depression 🥺watching Manuela episode about it saved me, and also as a first time mum doctors kept telling me how organized I was kumbe I had watched the episode of wat is required in the hospital bag 🤣💞credit goes to you ladies🙏🙏discovered this show when I was four months pregnant 👌I'm sure my baby can recognize your voices🤣🤣🤣🤣cz I watched all the episodes 🙏🙏thank you so much ❤ may the lord bless you for us
@babiryejameo8979
Жыл бұрын
I support
@rachaelmwine611
Жыл бұрын
We are working on something, very soon.
We missed Rosette's views here. Very grand opinions from all the ladies ... everything said by everyone today was so relatable ...
Angie looks beautiful! That hair is the best on her yet
Thank u ladies ❤it was such an educating episode
Am ever learning something new ❤ thank u sisters for the show
What an educative segment this was!!!🥰
Thank you so much ladies for this piece🎉
The ever giving bump love. A perfect mix of humour, wisdom and relatable content. Thank you ladies, we appreciate. Much love from Deutschland ❤❤❤❤.
Just what I needed hear at this time in my life❤
This has been a lovely episode... Great work ladies.
I have re watched this episode, so enlightening…thx ladies
Wooow this episode was and is one of my favorites...thank you ladies! Rosette I missed you on set!
Thank you ladies, the conversations was awesome. ❤
Manuela, wow! It's really true a man can change because of his wife's good conduct. Thank you, ladies, so full of knowledge. Thank you for sharing with us.
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
A good man can..... there are some men that never change unfortunately
Thanks for preaching ladies. I have actually been blessed 🥰🥰🥰
today's episode😝😜. Always looking forward to Friday😄😀
This conversation! wow. All I can say is I have learnt alot from each of you ladies, thank you.
this was really helpful, thanks darlings, whats funny is i feel that connection with you guys like i have known you my entire life
you are an amazing team, you are changing lives.
Thank you ladies for the great work you are doing....
I've watched soooo many episodes, but this one has spoken to the inner me, my real struggles......thanks ladies bottom line we need peace and its high time i made peace with my space
Dont remember how I started watching, but I needed this channel. I learn so much
Loved every minute of this. Too many nuggets put together for us ❤️❤️
And Friday is here💃💃💃💃💃. Always looking forward to seeing and hearing from you ladies. Its been such an enriching conversation well done your appreciated and loved for your wisdom everyday ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for the show, looking forward to putting them in practice.....I love you so much Ladies
Angie's smile makes my day, love you guys from Dubai
Y' all are getting so good at this. Angie, this was well done. So happy for you 😊😊😊😊
You ladies are the real deal! Keep sharing, keep inspiring. I appreciate you
Are you guys ready to receive a big cheque one day because I'll tell my husband that you changed my mindset about marriage and I now treat him like a king that he is and he'll want to bless you? Lol This was one of the best episodes thus far!
@pumlanabachwa8668
11 ай бұрын
"The King that he is" Yeeeeeesssss 😊. P
Thank You ladies for this episode, i will keep this for my future person.
This is nice. You guys are delivering n influencing our generation 👏
These ladies' shows are so educative ❤thanks bumplove team
Angie saying she knew marriage was going 4 a holiday got me down😂😂😂😂,thank u ladies for the show i love it❤❤❤❤❤
@bflaviasusanne
9 ай бұрын
😂 holiday for me too😅
Team Pumla let's gather...machines have helped me a great deal...as someone who tried stay in house helps and failed, getting the leave outs to help where machines don't is big deal. Thank God Mr is super supportive
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Machines came indeed. P
@luzskin254
Жыл бұрын
@@pumlanabachwa8668 kindly would you do a show explain some of those machines...I need soft life instantly
Listening to these ladies is changing my lifestyle, thinking each day... keep it up ladies.
The way i love you guys,thank you so much
Me here too "l hate suffering"😂😂😂 l stopped mopping in my parent's home plus washing. Even if l don't have a maid,l can't do those things, l will hire a person to do those chores. I love cooking at my own will,there are days l will wake up not in the mood of cooking ,but hey l love it,my time is for hustling and attending to my plants.
@pumlanabachwa8668
11 ай бұрын
Yeeeeeeeeessssssss. Let's do what we love and pay someone to do the rest
Skipped watching this particular episode coz I thought it was boring…. But wowwww am speechless, so insightful
Whew! This is a very insightful conversation..very timely for me! Thank you Bump love ❤❤
Very insightful thank you ladies ❤
Oooh My God!!! I'm intrigued even before I watch the show... because this mix entwala speed 😀. Thanks ladies 🙏
Forever loving these conversations. Like Racheal's dad, mine always comes home with bread and milk (but he is healthier now so no milk but still bread and fruits). In fact, if I visited cousins and their parents did not come back in the evening after work with akavera of milk and bread, in my world as a child you did not work. Even if you shop in bulk but can not come home with that kavera, you are not successful in my world. 🤣🤣 I am not married yet but I feel like that kavera has to be discussed, the contents might change but it needs to be there. As a single woman right now, I do get to do all the shopping, cooking, etc. I come home with everything. I make lists. I like how I do my things, and I like supportive partners (basically enabling me to play my role). Financial, spiritual, emotional, and physical; we do not have to lay the bed together but you can get out of it early so that it is laid. Have the decency to put the dirty clothes in the laundry basket. You could drive me to the market/supermarket, pick me up later or give me the car to ease my movement. I can do the shopping. I am a minimalist and I love clean spaces, I love functionality. I missed you Pumla. I am here for conversations to have clarity not to assume things about what our roles are in relationships, I am here for who is more competent. I am here for learning, I am here for finding other things that can ease our lives.🤗 Angie, I like this thought trail; we need to renew our mindsets (when I try to tell people, the excuse is that we live abroad so it is easier and practical for us). Manuela thank you for sharing that on when to switch on and off. Part of taking a feminity course that is scripture-led. HOT. In summary; Do what you do not want to do in order to get what you need!
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
The kavera has to discussed 😅. P
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
It's important to know when to switch on and off
Thank you Ladies for the show,it's indeed very knowledgeable. Am glad i subscribed. @Manuela please share were we can take the coarse
This week's session was really educative ..thanks alot ladies..can't wait to attend the Good Wife conference 😊
So much to learn. Thank you Bump love
Thanx for the show it has helped me alot
Thank you phenomenal ladies for such an enriching conversation. I have watched this episode for the past two days due to a busy schedule but i'm glad to have watched it till the end. You are positively impacting so many lives and homes through these conversations. Keep up the good work. Let me go got myself the H.O.T meal edition and say bye for the rest of the year to those WhatsApp messages that keep asking me what to cook for lunch and dinner mid meetings + work...Blessing to you all
I just want to appreciate the production team. Guys well done. Editor, I so love your cuts. Genuinely, your flaming, lighting and sounds are on point
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dani. They are going to love this comment. Let me even screenshot for them.
@sophienamyalo3353
Жыл бұрын
Yeah even the sound is so good. Weldone editing team.
Thanks ladies for the educational show, I always cannot wait fie Fridays😂. I want you if it is possible to discuss managing finance in marriage more especially if the man is earing less or unemployed. Thank you for considering my request. Yours, bump lover.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Your wish is our command. It's coming.
Thanks for the show ladies. Ohhh am amazed with Manuel's advise .
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
I guess it's because I have experienced it
Ladies, ladies!! You rock!! You are a breath of fresh air. You’re authentic, you’re not afraid to be vulnerable and we love you for it!! Learnt alot from your show
Ooohhhh Angie how I love you.....the closing statement brought joy on my face,,,,"book a room" ,,please your man and everything else will fall in play..I love loved this conversation
I am so happy that i hear from bumplove. I cant wait to become a perfect mother and wife who has learnt from your mistakes, got your hacks right and embraced all your strengths❤. Lol
thanks ladies, this is my forever Friday show tht
I will rewatch this episode more times. It was too much of good. Thank you Emmanuela for sharing your story . I has touched my heart
What an episode. Thank you ladies for hearing these nuggets. Manuela adding the spiritual reference part, oh God; I love you personally. All of you. May God continue using you to bless us.
Thank you bump love for the consistency 💓
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the love right back ❤. P
I love you ladies, i love the fact that the conversation look so normal and authentic, its like there is no camera and all your various experiences sink in together perfectly at the end. Hello pumla i love you, you inspire me❤
Wisdom, humour, good energy, enlightment...the Bump Love show embodies so much. We appreciate you phenomenal ladies❤
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
We appreciate you for being here every single Friday ❤. P
Hey bump love thanks for sharing how I wish you endeavor to make it a point for all the five to be present in all the shows . Its a stronger team of five . thanks
You ladies are too funny 😂 at the same time knowledgeable ❤we appreciate you bumplove ❤❤ ❤❤❤❤
Love love bump love from Kenya, Pumla represents some of us so well ❤❤
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Love right back Faith ❤. P
Amazing how iam watching u awesome ladies past midnyt..yo honesty n humility gets m..gud job
Thank you so much ladies, you are saving a life😢May Allah guide and. Preserve you 🤲🏾
Oooh men I have loved watching you ladies and tapping in your wealth of knowledge bless your souls
I wish you ladies knew how much you have changed my life,love you very much ❤️
😍😍😍😍I have enjoyed the show Wawa today I have learnt to many things 😊
Loved everything shared. These are real conversation starters. Manuela taught me something coz i also struggle with striking a balance between my masculinity and feminine side. Love the honesty you all come with❤.
Bump Love, i love your show but this episode in particular is my favourite by far. All your experiences are so relatable. i love it
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Love it 😊
From Nairobi Kenya, I have been missing on watching the show, from Feb since I gave birth, I have been so overwhelmed taking care of my baby no sleep doing house work .....good let me hear from this show
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the new bundle. Be kind to yourself. It gets easier 😊
@imeidamoraa3966
Жыл бұрын
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Thank you Pumla and You people from Uganda are my in laws.... Lok
Thank you for this❤Sending love from Kenya
you are absolutely great at explaining everything! i always love the reality of your discussions
@pumlanabachwa8668
11 ай бұрын
Thank you Irene ❤
@kiryowairene5895
11 ай бұрын
@@pumlanabachwa8668Awww... Youre welcome
Hello ladies i love you talks and thank you for sharing real life things as other people these day want to hear what is good not knowing that there is the other life.
Always a pleasure watching these episodes
I Love today's topic. i try to invest in gadgets to make my work easier and enjoy the available time for resting.
What makes this the # 1 talk show in East Africa (this isn't debatable) is the wits, varying perspectives and immensity of experiences each of you candidly share with your viewers. Keep on keeping on.
@pumlanabachwa8668
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the "It isn't debatable" ❤.
@karungidiana6989
Жыл бұрын
That ka machine that Manuela has, I need it please plug me
@rachaelmwine611
Жыл бұрын
Love this❤
We missed Rosette’s opinion, otherwise ladies ur so amazing🥰🤗
@ProAysha
Жыл бұрын
sure we missed her smile
@mauricenorbert1752
Жыл бұрын
Really missed this one.. ❤
I agree with Manuela, an doing an Etiquette Consultancy course and it has changed me for the better
@manuelap.mulondo
Жыл бұрын
Oh really? Plug us
I needed this for sure
Wow, this is the kind of content...…I love, love, love.... I think I’ve watched it four times.
@pumlanabachwa8668
11 ай бұрын
Thank you Christine ❤