This movie has ruined me in the best way possible.

@valeriabracero32

4 жыл бұрын

Rebekah Drummond BROO SAME

@bluesky05555

4 жыл бұрын

Rebekah Drummond couldn’t have phrased it better

@sebastianharrington5041

4 жыл бұрын

It promotes perversion

@Shablimbles

4 жыл бұрын

Gandalf4568 one of them looks like he’s 12

@Shablimbles

4 жыл бұрын

Gandalf4568 I’m just saying that would be the only way this dude would say this is that Timothy Charlemet looks like he is a very young teenager

"don't go anywhere, stay right here" "you know i'm not going anywhere" *walks 20 steps*

@sareex2669

4 жыл бұрын

Chiara Bottini i thought the exact same hahaha

@Justasmile1000

4 жыл бұрын

It's only 15 😭

@miaa1762

4 жыл бұрын

I yodeled

@wdft-qk4ix

4 жыл бұрын

@@Justasmile1000 bro did you guys actually counted it?

@Justasmile1000

4 жыл бұрын

@@wdft-qk4ix yeah that's how obsessed I am with this movie

I love how it's just one shot

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

yes, everything is beautiful in this scene, the pacing, the rythm, the dialogue, I´ve heard in some interviews the resolution of this scene in one shot, (ones), it was suggested by the actor Armie Hammer. This Mr. Guadagnino such a sensibility it has.

@sonsdoingles

6 жыл бұрын

I thought the same!

@testruelove2530

6 жыл бұрын

Armie says it's like a scene from a play!..he was right! If there's a cut from the scene at any moment it wouldn't have the same effect!...I love what Timmy says in the shift of the dynamic of the relation ship!..it was Elio that set the phase in the conversation!..even when Oliver wanted to forget about it!..Elio was still brave to let him know what's really is going between them!... I'm paraphrasing.."it was his choice to wear a seat belt or not!"

@sarahdelgrosso271

6 жыл бұрын

Yep I love it too, and so so much...the fact it's just a sigle shot makes us feel the indeniable tension growing more and more between them, in real time...this scene couldn't any more perfect.

@iamsoglad3892

6 жыл бұрын

It was Armie's suggestion to Luca who had problems structuring the scene.

The setting. The lighting. The clothing. The music. The old objects and vehicles. The cinematography. Everything screams the feeling of old memories from a good summer.

@marcusporras9571

4 жыл бұрын

Yessss. It also teleports you to those quaint towns you love but know could never be a permanent residence.

@emmaem7784

4 жыл бұрын

I love the way they filmed it

@SR-xk5ih

4 жыл бұрын

it was filmed beautifully the whole aura of the film felt so sensual

@viethungvu8327

3 жыл бұрын

I know , right . That is why it is so natural. Too many beautiful things in this movie.

@zappertxt

3 жыл бұрын

YES! Absolutely! The slow peace of everything, the boredom, the nature, the sun bathing everything... Summers of a time long ago... that you only get to live once.

Elio flirting is somehow so cute. The way he says "you know what things" and his whole body language is just a special thing.

@blocktheloo1820

4 жыл бұрын

IKR

@kanada3020

4 жыл бұрын

yeah, when he did this 2:58 so cute

@user-vp1ql4hv5b

4 жыл бұрын

wow I didn't know I got so many likes on this comment

@paulmarca1

4 жыл бұрын

And his body language when they are standing on the river, in the place where Elio likes to read books...

@d.j.7069

4 жыл бұрын

Except that both actors are straight as an arrow. Maybe they should get white guys to play black characters again. Or men to play all women characters as in Ancient Greece. Why always have straight guys play gay ones?!?

"Because I wanted you to know"

@user-ms1ul1jx8q

4 жыл бұрын

Because I wanted you to know Because I wanted you to know Because I wanted you to know. Because I wanted you to know Because there's noone else I can say this to but you

@rachel3165

4 жыл бұрын

so cute

@nelma5512

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-ms1ul1jx8q my favorite scene.

@Sun.Shine-

3 жыл бұрын

It is in the book as well 😊

"Is it better to speak or to die"

@Marixpress2

4 жыл бұрын

💕😭

@mili9308

4 жыл бұрын

IT BROKE ME

@zeynepylmaz1843

4 жыл бұрын

To die obviously

@isbelthomas8399

4 жыл бұрын

ad soyad mood

@salmaehab9527

4 жыл бұрын

Speaaaaak

"If you knew how little i know about the things that matter..."

@thewaywardpoet

6 жыл бұрын

"What things that matter?" :P

@nympspanaguiton2105

6 жыл бұрын

thewaywardpoet "You know what things." 😉

@steveramson7177

6 жыл бұрын

Miguel Cunha one of the best movie lines i ever heard. Plus the monologue of Mr Perlman- " but to make yourself feel nothing, so as not feel anything. What a waste."

@emely902

6 жыл бұрын

why are you telling me this

@wonder3803

6 жыл бұрын

Miguel Cunha I wanted you to know..

I’ve just seen the film 16 times in 7 weeks - and I can’t come over it. This is actually my life with my friend Hans (we spent 30 years together) concentrated into 6 weeks in Italy. Met him 1984, he looked like Oliver with his hairy chest, and I was Elio, but just 2 years younger, exactly, we were both born the 21st of July. Had a wonderful life together until Hans passed away the other year - and left me alone in chaos - as Oliver did to young Elio. This is the most perfect film I ever seen, the love between them is amazing - like the 30 years we got - but just a couple of weeks for them… Jan Hermansson, Sweden

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

you have a beautiful love story Jan Hermansson.

@nonamedperson5891

5 жыл бұрын

wow !!

@thejosephworld2507

5 жыл бұрын

Jan Hermansson thats the kind of love i wish i could have !!! i hope my oliver will find his way to me.

@upupina90

5 жыл бұрын

All the best, Jan. Thank you for sharing your story

@khaleesisnow1683

5 жыл бұрын

Life imitates Art

He was robbed of an Oscar.

@tomtriffid

5 жыл бұрын

Yes . . . and once again recently for "Beautiful Boy."

@devotee6833

5 жыл бұрын

@M martin so was Leo but now see him xD

@putyourfavoritevinequotehe9364

5 жыл бұрын

R Berg we both know he deserved one

@jewelgrlbarbi

5 жыл бұрын

It's Leonardo DiCaprio all over again

@suzycreamcheesez4371

5 жыл бұрын

and a Golden Globe

Love this scene however I can’t help but laugh when I think of how my dumbass would NOT be able to hear from the distance they were talking I would of been like “WHa- hUh?!?”....”WHaT THingS??!!”

@celianax

4 жыл бұрын

THAT IS SO ME OMGGG

@ethanjones6586

4 жыл бұрын

C.T.S Texas 😂 also this couple makes me cry A LOT

@dylansinterlude1

4 жыл бұрын

LMAOO

@SignedWhatever

4 жыл бұрын

🤣

@mcribbin3000

4 жыл бұрын

what “thing” we’re they talking about? i’m confused

I love how subtly crafted and sophisticated this film is. No flashy special effects, no over the top villain (rather the antagonist in this story is time), and the romance is not shoved in your face.

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

You are in the right, no special effects, no top villain, I think the movie is so powerful, because all the time it´s talking about feelings. And is so beautiful. Specially in this times...

@thomasthompson6378

6 жыл бұрын

I wonder if the real antagonist in the film isn't Oliver's "recognition" -- if you want to call it that -- that he has a real life waiting for him elsewhere in America, one that could never include Elio?

@marcocaloi8599

6 жыл бұрын

I loved how the authenticity of the scenes is given by the context. Here, after one of the greatest scenes, Oliver goes to take his printed pages. That's precisely what makes it real. That's what makes the scene alive, it goes over its own inherent meaning since that meaning can't exist without context.

@elainesnow326

6 жыл бұрын

Beautifully put

@mc-ob7vp

5 жыл бұрын

"the antagonist in this story is time" very beautifully said!!

nothing: absolutely nothing: my head: ʸᵒᵘ ᵏⁿᵒʷ ʷʰᵃᵗ ᵗʰᶦⁿᵍˢ

I really didn't notice it was one shot until they got back on the bikes, it felt so natural.

@ficklenickle1678

4 жыл бұрын

Alex alejo i didnt even noticed until you pointed that out, so cool!!

@achaAoki

4 жыл бұрын

One thing i love about these comments is that, people always share things that others didn't notice. Thanks for pointing that out.

@Chen-05

2 жыл бұрын

@@achaAoki youre right,I just noticed very little and meaningful details just by reading these comments:)

@irisc1883

2 жыл бұрын

I know I’m late but wow I just noticed! How did they even memorize all of those lines that’s impressive

You know I'm not going anywhere.

@estelle3005

5 жыл бұрын

The book actually described this comment as an affirmation of total and eternal devotion Elio felt towards Oliver. What a classic piece of literature

@p.styles860

5 жыл бұрын

i'm not okay

@eatmyahs7603

4 жыл бұрын

suzycreamcheesez this is probably one of the most underrated lines of the entire story. this speaks volumes, as future Elio (as far as love goes) never goes anywhere.

@zeynepylmaz1843

4 жыл бұрын

I'd said that to a boy I loved 2 years ago. And when I saw Elio said the same thing when I watched the movie for the first time my blood froze

@thu9312

4 жыл бұрын

suzycreamcheesez but you are going to somewhere and never come back 😞

This film is a spell, it pulls you in, further and further deep

@Vampluvver

4 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@rithistewartx5908

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss

At first I didn't understand this scene, I didn't pay close attention to it, now that I'm re-watching I come to the realisation that this scene is a masterpiece (like the movie itself) Elio declaring his love to Oliver without even saying really saying it. This scene is so simple yet so complicated and I think that's what I like about it. God, this movie is amazing.

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

yes, it´s a beautiful scene, I like the simple dialogue, but in the background of every word there is a powerful message.

@11Garrett11

5 жыл бұрын

Yes the powerful message is that the older man is not being careful with the younger man's heart at all.

@tomtriffid

5 жыл бұрын

@@11Garrett11 That's perhaps a bit harsh. In Oliver's American world, those sorts of feelings must not be even acknowledged, let alone acted upon. In that sense, Elio is much the stronger of the two.

@bspearslover99

5 жыл бұрын

Why exactly did Elio say”If you only knew how little I know about the things that matter” and how did Oliver know that this was Elio confessing his love?

@evitayamin5333

5 жыл бұрын

@@bspearslover99 samee here I also need explanation abt that, someone pls help

I thought this was one of the most powerful and symbolic scenes of the movies. Notice the techniques Guadagnino uses as Elio and Oliver navigate this conversation. When they first start talking about smoking, multiple cars and mopeds drive by, creating a loud buzz and noise over the scene. This matches the meaninglessness of their conversation about smoking. It is a conversation that ultimately means nothing. It is empty, it holds zero significance. It is simply noise. There are no more vehicles or noise like this until the very end of the scene. For the rest of the scene Elio and Oliver rotate around the statue. They begin far apart as Elio brings up how little he knows. Here, they are distant from one another both physically and in the way they speak. "Because I wanted you to know" Elio half speaks to himself. As they continue to move around the statue, this directly represents the way they move and dance around the point of their conversation. Neither of them actually says what they're feeling or what they are talking about. Deep down they both know, but instead they dance around the point for the whole conversation, just like they dance around the statue. Until finally they meet, "these are things we cant speak about" and the door (of the car) is quite literally shut on the conversation. All of this being done under the watch of the church. They can't fully express themselves due to the ever present judgement and stifling expectations of society. This scene screams volumes. So so incredible and I think it's a perfect example of one of the key themes of the movie: that love should be expressed. It felt like for most of the movie, Elio and Oliver dance around their feelings like they do in this scene. And in this scene it is quite frustrating to watch. I think many viewers watching the screen want to tell the characters to "just say how you actually feel!!" And through that discomfort and frustration, Luca is returning that exact same sentiment back onto you. Share the love you feel you in your life because it's frustrating and confusing when you don't. Don't hold back and never be afraid to be open and honest with those you love.

@wiredjustwhatever

5 жыл бұрын

I also just noticed that Elio says "I'm not going anywhere" as he passes by the bus in the background - the same bus that will take them away from here temporarily, but only Elio will return.

@nailakamana763

5 жыл бұрын

Wow amazing. So that's why he was looking at that church. I was already wondering.

@MiracleWinchester

4 жыл бұрын

Fuck this scene I was so mesmerised I could not breathe

@latenightcashews

4 жыл бұрын

after multiple rewatches, one thing that stood out to me and which i haven't seen much or any mention of, is the way oliver words his reply "are you saying what i think you're saying?". on the surface it seems like a candid thing to say, but after pondering this conversation, i find it such an obtuse expression because it masks a painfully astute self-awareness and also fear towards whatever it is that elio has brought up. both are holding back from being completely transparent with each other. oliver is phrasing it as his conjecture-- he is wary and does not want to proceed with impulse. he is possibly dissuading himself from even ascertaining that he knows what elio is talking about. but perhaps it's this very peculiarity that makes it the perfect response to elio's equally circuitous confession. this exchange demonstrates their intellectual compatibility, which is one of the main factors of their attraction.

@LoveCrazyCandy

4 жыл бұрын

What an amazing comment

Yup. It’s decided. I’m rewatching this tonight.

@user-fe8rk5lt9y

6 жыл бұрын

I watched it only last night and watch again right after and 2 more times today.... Don't blame me 😂😂

@lifemusic1980

4 жыл бұрын

I'm about to watch it again as well. 😫

@donniedarko5641

4 жыл бұрын

i haven’t rewatched in a year. this movie causes me to feel unbearable pain that i often like to steer away from. but i might watch it tonight, this clip just made me feel it all over again.

@eskimarf744

3 жыл бұрын

it's time to do that again right now

@ultron374

2 жыл бұрын

@@donniedarko5641 same with me. I felt emptiness and pain after watching this movie that i don't think i can watch it again. Same reation as to film "The pianist" of R. Polański

Ellio's language skills, personality and intelligence are so alluring...It's no surprise that Oliver was drawn to him..... That's what made the film so good to me. I felt the emotions in the scene...like this one.

@jaquelinebernhard5682

10 ай бұрын

It's so true, everything in his face in his body says something to spectators. Amazing Timothee ❤

This scene is incredible. They declared their love without saying "I love you"

@witchtimelord9411

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I love so much about this film, it's clear that Elio and Oliver are in love but they never said those words to each other, I think that makes it so much more powerful.

@danieldavis3035

Жыл бұрын

Is that what they did? I missed it. I don't get subtle nuance. I read the book and loved it though!

Elio's being reminded/ warned by two things in this scene to not fall for Oliver: - the bus is reminding him of that Oliver has to leave soon and that he shouldn't fall in love with him - the church is telling him that homosexuality is not accepted by society nor by the catholic religion yet he still went for it... but it was worth it :) his heart broke when Oliver left but thanks to him he experienced the best love that he could ever find

@nyhyl

4 жыл бұрын

What bus?

@vinsmokeabdullah5830

4 жыл бұрын

And that is exactly what i love and hate at the same time. It’s so hurtful to know that there was and there are still people in love but the society doesn’t allow it. For me LOVE is LOVE, and to think people can’t be just together is just... ahhh so shitty

@monkeydee7132

4 жыл бұрын

Thought Elio comes from a jewish family?

@jakewhitney3712

4 жыл бұрын

he's jewish

@Loonaurtheworld

4 жыл бұрын

Can't relate to Elio, I have this HUGE ass crush on this boy in my class. I want to go for it but ALL OF THE PEOPLE HERE IS HOMOPHOBIC AND JUST STRAIGHT UP GON PUNCH YOU IF YOU SAY THAT UR LGBTQ+

"You know I'm not goin' anywhere." This is my favorite part

@estelle3005

5 жыл бұрын

The book actually described this comment as an affirmation of total and eternal devotion Elio felt towards Oliver. What a classic piece of literature

@estelle3005

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. This is incredibly sad. How can a young man harbour such intense feelings? Sadly his life after Oliver was virtually meaningless hence he described it as “ being in a coma” while Oliver’s life was described as a “parallel life”. Do you remember the part of the book where Oliver asked “ Do you like me that much, Elio?” And Elio replied.....” I worship you Oliver”. My heart is absolutely shattered to pieces for poor Elio! Wish Oliver never came to his house

@namsewol4

2 жыл бұрын

where to watch free?

@ultron374

2 жыл бұрын

@@estelle3005 true. Pretty much toxic stuff

@user-cb9ne6nm7c

2 жыл бұрын

ye

The way he said: you know what things... omgg

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

😆

@bxbxb1_554

3 жыл бұрын

What did he mean???

@bxbxb1_554

3 жыл бұрын

@@heatherdoty66 tyyyy

The way he sways while nodding yes😊

@thewaywardpoet

6 жыл бұрын

That was too adorable. I found myself grinning during that part. :)

@nganle-qk1qv

6 жыл бұрын

So cute. And look at Oliver's face, seem like he can't handle with his baby's thing. Lovely, both of them.

@HickoryDickory86

6 жыл бұрын

I know!!! One of my favorite things.

@childene

6 жыл бұрын

SO grateful for your comment & please excuse my long response. To me this is one of the many precious, striking moments of Chalamet's portrayal because he conveys with such a childlike movement how innocent Elio is; but, also, it’s as though he's about to shake his head to answer "No" to Oliver's question (because he’s terrified of the ramifications)...and then answers “Yes” by nodding. I live in southern Louisiana and have yet to meet one person locally who has seen CMBYN. I only saw it a month ago; it has affected me profoundly and I have no one to talk with about it. P.S. I don’t in any way pretend to be a film critic.

@scablet

4 жыл бұрын

its was very flirty...in a cute way!

The piano in the background just adds that extra emotion I love it

@courage2347

4 жыл бұрын

DanBdx68 THANKYOUU

@alvindaffaariarpan9790

3 жыл бұрын

FINALLY 😭 btw, the name of the piece is Ravel - Un Barque Sur L'Ocean

@arungomz2512

5 ай бұрын

Thank you🙂.. From then till now, I wanted to find this music badly❤️.

How hard to express ones love without using the three magical word.

i wanted his backpack SO BAD & when i finally found it, it was $8,000. rip me

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

why so expensive? it was used by Elio?

@endofscene

6 жыл бұрын

Where is it?

@MarusaTheBadKid

6 жыл бұрын

haha..'used by Elio'

@lollol5309

6 жыл бұрын

you can find it if you just type "Call Me By Your Name Elio's Backpack" into google and do a bit of looking around. it was so expensive because it's from a fancy Italian brand... kinda like Gucci to us Americans. BUTTTT I found a cheaper one on Amazon for like 70 bucks :)

@eglanelaj9785

5 жыл бұрын

BIG NUT but Gucci is italian, and it's also really expensive here in Italy...

This is one of the greatest scenes of one of the most memorable films in comtemporary cinema. Subtle and smart. So refreshing from all the blockbuster noise... Pure gold!

@alooncneja916

6 жыл бұрын

kexakalu you said everything ! :)

@suzycreamcheesez4371

6 жыл бұрын

see also Brokeback

@codyseifert4427

6 жыл бұрын

no..gay...

@mickeymouse2able

6 жыл бұрын

Excellent! Timothy Chalamet is so perfect in his acting like an awkward teen. Breathtaking face and body language. Just like the old stars like Greta Garbo in silent movies that acted with their eyes and faces. This kid is amazing. I saw him in the lobby of the hotel I work for before he was nominated. He's very playful and real.

@11Garrett11

5 жыл бұрын

yes..gay...

I'm watching this again for like the 100th time, and only now noticing the beautiful irony of when Oliver says "stay right here" and elio replies rather sadly "you know I'm not going anywhere " and the camera pans so that we see a bus in the background - it's a subtle reminder of how little time they have left together; elio isnt going anywhere, but oliver will; Oliver will move on, but this will never leave Elio. It's what makes this scene so strangely emotional.

@thuder6036

3 жыл бұрын

Y are we both loving the screen is ruin me the best way possible

There's a part in the book just a few days after this confession and their first kiss when Elio kept trying to break the silence between them, Oliver asked Elio: "Do you really like me that much, Elio?" to which the champion of love, Elio replied: "Do I like you? Oliver, I worship you." mic drop

@eddydraconian

4 жыл бұрын

Does Oliver like him as much?

@LAZISH

4 жыл бұрын

This scene is in the directorial cut:(((((

@juanacoronaa

4 жыл бұрын

I watched the movie before reading the book so now I’ll go back to read the book to get the whole perspective of it

@nourelhoudajaafour959

3 жыл бұрын

@@juanacoronaa its sad cuz the book is also in elio's perspective..we dont get to see oliver's perspective at all

@sean8625

2 жыл бұрын

who is the top tho? Is it really Elio? Oliver is the bottom?

Timmy's italian was flawless when he said "andiamo l'americano!"

@balu-vi6sp

5 жыл бұрын

La maggior parte delle volte il suo italiano è asdolutamente perfetto,veramente bravissimo ......grandissima ammirazione per le doti artistiche di questo giovane ragazzo....la sua emotività e la sua empatia credo di nn averla mai trovata in nessun attore. Pensando poi alla sua età l'unica spiegazione è che con certe doti ci si nasce. Fantastico

@balu-vi6sp

5 жыл бұрын

@@lunadiggorytennant yes, it's true .... Elio still has an excellent Italian pronunciation almost always .... sometimes his Italian has a French cadence and it's still very nice to hear

@sumantjaiswal3811

5 жыл бұрын

What does it mean?

@balu-vi6sp

5 жыл бұрын

@@sumantjaiswal3811 let's go American!

@Sabrina-qz6hf

4 жыл бұрын

Non è vero. It is not true, he speaks Italian very badly. And "andiamo l'americamo" doesn't even make sense in Italian! Capisco che vi piace il film, ma dai, l'accento e la pronuncia di questi due non si può sentire, fanno sanguinare le orecchie!

O: Why are you telling me this? ... E: Cause I thought you should know. O: Because you thought I should know? E: Because I wanted you to know. ... E: Because there's no one else I can say this to but you. O: Are you saying what I think you're saying?

@laken1804

Жыл бұрын

I am still amazed that Oliver understood what he saying.

I am 67 and this movie haunts me. The scene at the train station where Elio and Oliver part had my mind rushing back to 1979 in Palma de Mallorca, Spain, when I was in the U.S. Navy. I was 23 and Javier was 18. It was our destiny that we met the innocent way we did. We spent three glorious days together, walking, talking, joking, laughing, eating... I promised to find him the next time my ship was in port. Our last day slowly wound its way through the morning, the afternoon, but finally evening arrived. We made the day last until around midnight when our meandering brought us to the landing at the bay where my ships' liberty boat would take me away from Javier. I wanted to cry so badly but didn't want to draw the attention of my drunken shipmates also waiting for the boat. Then it started to rain lightly, and I realized the gods were crying for us. We finally had to be apart... The next year when my ship went back to the Mediterranean and arrived at Palma, I rushed to the sailor bar where I knew two of Javier's lesbian friends worked. They told me Javier had been drafted into the Spanish navy for his two years mandatory service. I never saw my sweet, sweet Javier again. Javier has been in my mind and heart for 44 years now. I think about him and I have a little cry occasionally. Elio, I understand...

@andreaf8404

8 ай бұрын

thank you for sharing❤

@jesussaiz9488

6 ай бұрын

I had the same experience in the late seventies in my military service in Spain in Zaragoza.i never saw him back and in my late sixties I occasionally cry.in fact that changed my life,big wound.

@bdml77

3 ай бұрын

This made me cry

@ellespencer8563

Ай бұрын

I’d watch this movie

Excellent! Timothy Chalamet is so perfect in his acting like an awkward teen. Breathtaking face and body language. Just like the old stars like Greta Garbo in silent movies that acted with their eyes and faces. This kid is amazing. I saw him in the lobby of the hotel I work for before he was nominated, before he became really known. He's very playful and real.

@azazel3239

5 жыл бұрын

I think its Timothee. He's french, so that would mean he has two e's instead of a y

@sheylapaola9658

5 жыл бұрын

Bcuz he's actually only TWO years older than a teen... hahah

@monalletinie143

5 жыл бұрын

@@sheylapaola9658 4 years older*

@uhhh1199

5 жыл бұрын

Azazel don’t forget the accent on the first e! timothée

@loool-6215

4 жыл бұрын

Timothée

Has anybody noticed Oliver's happy little smile just before he sets off on his bike at the end?

@zeinabsleman2918

4 жыл бұрын

Yeeees I've noticed it..!!😍😍so dreamy..❤❤

@55ilmi

4 жыл бұрын

Omgg he notice what elio said

@55ilmi

4 жыл бұрын

Omgg he notice what elio said

LOVE this scene!!! The music gives it a very dream-like quality!!!!

@thomasthompson6378

6 жыл бұрын

Yes . . . but that music is supposed to represent the ocean, you know? (Still, it does work wonderfully well here.)

@davidthaler7018

6 жыл бұрын

Well, yes, given its title (Une Barque Sur L'Ocean). It plays throughout the scene only when the two of them are separated (little Elio, sailing alone on the sea of First Love).....until they leave town and ride into the distance together (now little Elio has a first mate on his voyage). Yeah yeah...corny metaphors...

The genius of James Ivory's script is that it doesn't sound written. It just sounds like two guys talking. Brilliant.

@kimberlybrown8477

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree. The conversation seemed so natural that the significance of the dialogue went over my head.

@TooLittleInfo

Жыл бұрын

The dialogue in this scene follows the original scene in the book very closely. In fact many of the lines in the film are lifted directly from the book. Interestingly, some of them have been reworked into scenes that are different from the book, sometimes even spoken by different characters from the book, but the lines are identical, and it works really well both ways. Really interesting adaptation.

"Are you saying what I think you're saying?" Elio swaying nervously and nodding his head shyly has left me all soft and mushy inside 😔 He's so precious 💕

Elio have to tell him somehow ... back in the early 80's, well, it wasn't that easy to admit the attraction to someone who you might see as an ordinary friend! Oliver also is in denial of what he feels at that moment!

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

i think now it isn´t so easy,

@thrasheusanonymous

4 жыл бұрын

Oliver had his life set on this on and off relationship he had back in the states but he met Elio and changed his life around. The hard part is what do you do with a summertime romance....and some people pursue it and other like Oliver just move on. Tough times

His sentence "because I wanted you to know" comes back into my head again and again during my days.

I think one of my favorite things about this movie is that we never hear them say “I love you”. We see it shown so clearly without words.

The only film I have ever watched where I long for more and more. It simply won’t let you go, and I am happy about that. It is beautiful in every way possible.

@loris7660

4 жыл бұрын

I sat and sobbed at the end. Then I just sat some more. Elio's dad's speech at the end is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard. What an example to the rest of mankind. 😭

@ultron374

2 жыл бұрын

After watching this movie I felt extremely empty inside and in pain...seriously... similar story happened to me with the difference that i am straight. It would be better for Elio never say anything to Oliver or even Oliver never coming to this house.

@worldofmine6175

Жыл бұрын

I feel this away too though I recently found there is a sort of sequal though its only in book format its called find me and its a continuation of the story in sorts and its four acts though it takes places with the same characters years later

Such a very powerful segment that melts my heart anew with each viewing. Elio's coquettish wiggle after "..are you saying what I think you're saying?" is so redolent of teenage behaviour too! Perfection! Such a transformative experience watching this work played out with such enormous delicacy and love of their characters!

@thomasthompson6378

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, somehow this segment of the film is almost beyond perfect.

@nisfornick

4 жыл бұрын

Love the wiggle, and the little head tilt he does too....

@bxbxb1_554

3 жыл бұрын

What did he mean by that

Oh my god....this is so beautiful. This might be one of my favorites scenes of any movie, ever.

@suzycreamcheesez4371

6 жыл бұрын

see also Brokeback and Skam Season 3

@scrainbow1234

6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely LOVE both of those. Thanks for the recs though :)

@suzycreamcheesez4371

6 жыл бұрын

aloha nui loa!!

This is what summer was like before cell phones, 500 channels, social media, and other timesucks of today. I miss those great summers where everybody was friends with everybody and parties where everyone was invited.

The use of Ravel's "Une Barque sur l'Océan" makes this scene so dreamy and languid. While I love the entire film, this has to be my favorite part. Sheer brilliance!

@underboy02

6 жыл бұрын

It´s interesting how it´s used the music in the movie as stated of mine of Elio´s. This piece represent the fascination of Elio´s about Oliver. It was innecesary to request a film composer, they used pre recorded music and had matched at perfection.

@elainesnow326

6 жыл бұрын

Mariano Sister so true although Stevens wrote two exquisite songs for it. And the other song of his which was included was perfect as well

@TooLittleInfo

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for that, I was wondering what the name of the piece was! Very evocative.

How he repeats "I wanted you to know" So romantic and tender and raw. Arrrgh this movie is so good ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

You don't understand why- but at the moment you see Elio watching the top of the temple, *you just know* it's him imploring to whatever god there is for a chance with Oliver. This damn film just sneaks inbetween you, like flu.

A moment of character development on Armie's part right at the conclusion of the scene 04:15 to the end. Right after telling Elio "we can't talk about those things" when Elio hops on his bike and begins to ride away, Oliver hesitates for a moment, just staring at nothing, trying to process what just happened and what it means. You can imagine him thinking to himself, "Now what do I do?" He is probably wondering whether he handled Elio's confession well or poorly. Then he snaps out of it when Elio calls, "Hey! Andiamo Americano!" It's a subtle moment, but shows us where Oliver's heart is now. And kudos to Armie for playing it so quietly and subtly.

The best and smartest confession ever. How magical it is. Now, this movie is a spell

"Because there's no one else I can say this to but you." This makes so much sense after reading the book. I remember just trying to understand everything Elio thought when there was silence in the movie, but now that I've read the book, every little silence in the movie makes sense. It's full of thoughts, of repressed emotions. It has a flavor of its own.

@Esse who down below says he still doesn't understand this scene. Elio is telling Oliver in a roundabout way that he likes him... saying it without really saying it. This is what their relationship has been like until this point: both of them interested in each other but neither of them openly saying so. Oliver has shown many clues that he likes Elio but Elio's response has been unclear and confusing, even rude sometimes. It finally gets to a point where Oliver is annoyed with Elio: "Just don't play at being the good host." Elio isn't mature enough to realize that his responses have been sending mixed signals to Oliver, but he is learning. Later that same day, he offers, "Truce?" and the two of them shake hands and get back on track. So now when Elio openly says he doesn't know about the things that matter, he is admitting to Oliver that he doesn't know what he is doing or how to show what he really feels. Oliver has been confused about Elio to this point, and asks "Why are you telling me this?" Elio's first response is almost but not quite the truth: "Because I thought you should know." Oliver repeats it back as a question, as if to ask Elio to be clearer about what he means, and at first Elio answers with another question: "Because I wanted you to know?" ("Is this the right answer?") Oliver still doesn't respond, and so Elio says it again but as an affirmative statement: "Because I wanted you to know." And repeats it again, more confidently: "Because I wanted you to know." It took him a few tries but he finally got it right and he is being honest and vulnerable now. In effect Elio is telling Oliver "I might be smart in a lot of other ways, but I don't know how to show you that I like you, and I need you to take the lead and show me how to do it." Oliver is still not sure, and so he asks, "Are you saying what I think you're saying?" Elio answers silently with a nod of his head. He is new to adult and sexual relationships. As a guest in their summer home, this now puts Oliver in a tricky and awkward situation, and he says "We can't talk about those kinds of things, we just can't." In the next few scenes we see how Elio tries to show, even inappropriately at times, that he likes Oliver in a physical, sexual way. Oliver's response is, "You are making this very difficult for me." But Oliver understands now, so he continues to take it slowly and carefully until he finally has to tell Elio to "Grow up. Meet me at midnight." So in this scene at the monument, Oliver has come to realize Elio is naive and inexperienced, and he has to take things carefully and patiently at Elio's pace. This is a turning point in how they will relate to each other through the remainder of their time together. What Elio is not prepared for, and what Oliver cannot teach him, is the pain that awaits at their inevitable separation. Oliver can't help him with that, nor can he prevent it from happening. Elio will have to experience that for himself, and on his own. Fortunately he has understanding parents who will be there for him. As Oliver tells him later on the phone, "You are so lucky..." The beauty of this movie is that the script does not spell this all out in words. It shows us what is happening between these two without saying it out loud, in the same way Oliver and Elio relate to each other. It is up to us, the audience, to figure it out on our own, the same way Oliver and Elio have to figure out their relationship. The movie is not going to explain it for us; it is enough to show us the important moments and it trusts us to put the in-between pieces together.

@charlesdarnay5455

2 жыл бұрын

Perfect analysis. Spot on.

I could watch this movie everyday and I won't even complain

I love how ethereal the music is in this scene

@lanaritchie

2 жыл бұрын

Ravel providing

I love everything about this scene. Under the seemingly casual calm conversation, emotions run like waves of the ocean.

@Girltiktoks

2 жыл бұрын

Ur pfp

The best piece of Armie's work. I could not like him more in any other movie. This was his master piece.

"You know I'm not going anywhere ..." oh god ♥️

@estelle3005

5 жыл бұрын

The book actually described this comment as an affirmation of total and eternal devotion Elio felt towards Oliver. What a classic piece of literature

This movie makes me feel so young, full of hope, and filled with the promise of what young love, ANY love, brings. Just so pure before it EVER got complicated! What a wonderful time!

The moment you remind yourself whenever a character says 'I know nothing' that a love scene is coming

The Portuguese have a word that isn’t translatable in English called Saudede, it’s a bittersweet feeling of nostalgia but even those words don’t explain it. This film took me right back to my youth, it’s the most beautiful film I’ve watched in over a decade, the residual feelings from the film float around with me for days afterwards. Simply stunning. This scene is life! So intelligent and real, so beautiful and poetic, full of nuances it’s amazing and takes me back to those delicate awkward feelings of first love

I love that everytime i randomly feel the need to search up this movie again i find new people love it as well. Once you enter the CMBYN portal there’s no getting out ever

@damnib4722

2 жыл бұрын

3 years later & im back again

@alexcarlson4344

Жыл бұрын

U still feel the same after armies accusations? I’m asking of genuine curiosity?

@damnib4722

Жыл бұрын

@@alexcarlson4344 no, tell me what what happened! (Genuinely asking about the accusations)

The most elaborate and subtle way to say I love you, I want you, please be mine...

This literally my favourite scene. I still can’t get over this movie 😞

One of the best 3 minutes on a cinema screen ever subtle but says everything you need to know

I will never get tired of this movie watched it a lot of times already

I love the use of music in this scene; it is faint and doesn't overwhelm the conversation. Too many movies use music as a crutch, or to generate emotion, but CMBYN understands that it is the characters and the dialogue that grabs us.

@solna7214

5 жыл бұрын

You only hear the music when they are separated!

This scene, is just so….ridiculously effortlessly perfect

This movie made me so completely empty inside at the end and sad at some point that i don't want to watch it again because i don't want to feel that way. In the past i had similar situation but i am straight so i just don't want to go back to it....the sadness and emptiness is killing me after watching this movie

One thing important to notice about this scene is that they’re talking on opposite sides of this event/memorial site of an intense war. They’re on opposite sides of a war; a war of love. Wondering whether to keep fighting their urges or surrender to each other. And they keep walking and walking around this war until they finally come together.

I love how poetic this scene was to take place in this monument depicting a battle. Love is a battlefield. And how Elio peeked at at the church afterwards.

"I thought you should know... " Indeed, he should have won the Oscar. He played coming of age - and coming to terms with being gay - so beautifully. What a wonderful performance.

This one of the best movies ever made. Each and every actor's performance is just out of the world. The little things between elio and Oliver. I even read the book and the movie is a perfect visualisation of Andrew Aciman's call me by my name. Whose waiting for the sequel find me? I AM ❤️

@thomasthompson6378

Жыл бұрын

The sequel has been canned, alas.

The whole atmosphere of this scene is just mesmerizing! While Elio leaves you can see Olivers internal struggle just before he jumps on his bike. And the beautiful music every time they are apart, so beautifully done! Can’t get enough of this movie, dammit.......

I love how the music just floats in and out of this scene. One of my favourites in this movie. Elio is such a sweet boy. He reminds me alot of myself when I was that age. If I was Oliver, I would take him in my arms and hug him forever.

I think I get obsessed with this movie, I watched for the first time in 2018 and still i can't get it out of my mind. I love everything in this film, music, photography, and the chemistry between Armie and Timothee is amazing.

To me, the beauty of this movie lies in the fact that I didn't understand it at all when I first watched it. I could not wrap my head around why, everyone else loved it so much. Now, being a little older and actually in love everything about this movie comes to me very clearly. Sometimes you just need to change your perspective...

Can everyone please realise that this is one single shot, no cuts, nothing. Those are about 5 minutes and that’s not at all typical for movies. Amazing acting and amazing directing! Also, I come here so often and I want to watch the movie again now but I also don’t want to cry?? Somebody help me ugh

What a beautifully choreographed scene. I love the quiet, the slow pace, the shifts of emotion and the way the music weaves in and out. You can feel the heat inside and outside.

@enricogiovani4185

4 жыл бұрын

You say it as it is.

I know these feelings. The attraction. The small touches. The little sexual jokes. But can't go further because of fear. Fear of society. Fear of family and the fear of rejection

Just watched this movie today for the first time ever and I feel like watching it 20 trillion more times

@giutas9916

4 жыл бұрын

It was just put on Netflix this month and I watched it for the 1st time on Timothée's birthday, without even knowing it... I couldn't watch it before because I did not have the opportunity. Plus when it was released, cinemas near me didn't have it (I live in a very bigoted area). To say that my soul is amazed and thunderstruck in the deep core is an understatement.

There’s so many little nuances in this scene. It’s truly masterful. There’s things I didn’t notice the first time I saw it, the delivery and body language of both actors is perfection.

words can’t describe how much i love this movie. it’s beautiful and amazing in so many ways

I remember watching this scene and wondering if all of this happened in one take, and I watched it again and found out that it was. The camera movement is so smooth and natural, I love it.

This scene is a true masterpiece...all is perfect!

I just finished watching it and now! I AM IN TRAUMA AND CANT GET OVER HOW THIS MOVIE WOUNDED ME IN ALL POSSIBLE WAYS

@ultron374

2 жыл бұрын

Same. I felt extremely empty and hurt at the end

really in love with the soundtrack of this movie. the ravel in the background just makes this even more enchanting

this scene was written by a genius. i mean, the way they both try to tell eachother their feeling but without saying anything 🤍

I love how the music starts playing Everytime Oliver leaves or when they're apart in this scene

The awkward filming angles here that show the back of elio and oliver set back was intentional to show just how awkward and vulnerable that piece of their story was. They're both so distant yet so close, so in love but still afraid of confrontation. I find it beautiful

No other film has affected me as much as this film did. 😢 It makes you want to be part of the world they’re living in. I love Elio’s character so much. Tbh, I would love to see a continuation of their love story. I would love to see an older and more mature Timothée play Elio again.

I freakin love when oliver is out the song starts and when he is in the song stops. It's like I see elio's dream

Fun fact: I didn’t know what things , I was so confused lol

@sofiehansen1382

4 жыл бұрын

I was like you know pretty sure at first but now i am reconsidering it

@jadem7301

4 жыл бұрын

Elio's confessing his feelings for Oliver but he can't outright say it because homosexuality was not a thing back in 1983

@mathis20737

4 жыл бұрын

I don't understand it !! help !!

@RosidinAli

4 жыл бұрын

It's love i guess

@ss-hc7tb

3 жыл бұрын

@@jadem7301 normalised thing* it definitely existed lmaoo it isn’t a social construct

The power of this scene lies in the fact that we are ALL so captivated by the exchanges between Elio and Oliver that we don't notice the distance between them would actually have required both of them to RAISE THEIR VOICES instead of speaking so gently

“are you saying what i think you’re saying?” and then the way elio SWAYS at that oh my gosh...the body language is immaculate

When Elio says "you know what things..." at 1:53 ... my heart swoons every time.

my oliver...Gosh. He was so perfect to me, I truly loved him. I'll never get over him. Imagine if Elio only saw Oliver in fleeting moments after these 6 weeks. That's how it is for me. It will always hurt me, rip me into shreds that I'll never be able to pick up again. I get physical pain whenever I see him once every three months for events me and his daughter share. He truly breaks my heart everytime.

God this scene is an absolute masterpiece. I love how raw everything feels. Like an awkward conversation one might have in real life, with words you want to say outloud but couldn't. Speaking carefully with your heart as pilot, and fear as the co-pilot. Talking slowly, gauging the others response. Watching, waiting, talking going back and forth. Treading on eggshells or broken glass, but still going forward with the intention of seeing this through.Not fully getting where you want to be. But getting somewhere perhaps. For leaving things unsaid and staying at a standstill with the restraints of time working against you would kill you slower than you could bear. You are left with no choice but to say something. Anything. Like a balloon much too full of air, you begin to deflate for fear that you will expolde unbeknownst at the worst of times. Unevitable, as are most things in life. Whether it is said now or later, the truth is, taking a chance at some point is better than wondering for an eternity and having taking no chance and not saying anything at all.

@ultron374

2 жыл бұрын

I don't know if taking a chance is better if doing anything at all. I had similar situation to this one in the movie and i was the one who had to go back ☹ is it worth feeling empty and hurt at the end? I don't know... but i don't regret it

@SignedWhatever

2 жыл бұрын

@@ultron374 I guess it depends on person to person. But I am one for closure. Even if im hurt at least I can move on and cherish the memories fondly as I grow older. Sitting there chuckling to myself maybe a tear or two escapes as I recall the past. But there I am at peace. No 'what ifs' just recalling the little happy moments and the feelings they stirred.

For me, the saddest part in this movie is at the end when Oliver calls to say he's getting married and Elio says "you never said anything". You can hear the disappointment in his voice because he thought he knew Oliver and there weren't any secrets between them.

@dinem4624

2 жыл бұрын

no. He didn't think he knew Oliver at all. Eliot is not dense. He even guessed that Oliver was getting married.

@laken1804

Жыл бұрын

And when Oliver said it was an on and off thing that's been going onbfor 3 years. My heart broke for Elio.

3:43 Elios laugh... so cute!!!!