I would never choose a man over my kids. My kids are my life. Plus, having a man is asking for drama and headache. I’d rather be single.

@amazinggrace8136

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I’m guessing you’re single lol

@cindichean

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@@amazinggrace8136lmao!! Nope. Married for 21 years. Hahahah.

@amazinggrace8136

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@@cindichean that’s odd you would give that answer then lol. I’m sorry your husband is a drama queen that gives you headaches to the point you’ll rather be single than with him 😅

@cindichean

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@@amazinggrace8136 It’s life. It is what it is.

@amazinggrace8136

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@@cindichean I’m sorry you feel that way.

It's a harsh lesson to learn. REMEMBER NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR CHILDREN OR YOUR LIFE. If he truly love you he'll be a good husband and stepfather. Unless he brings to the table 100% do not waste your time with him.

You can't have all. You either get one and lose the other. Why put yourself in craziness situation. I'd never choose a man like this kind of txiv neeg/dev. I'll choose my kids.

@xiameevang9131

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I choose my kid 200% over him.

I cried so hard… I know how it is looking at your child’s lifeless body😭😭😭mine did not pass away from an accident, but he died from respiratory arrest… when i got there even the nurse asked if I would be okay and to control myself… I knew I had to see him cause he was my only child😭 my heart shattered when I saw him lying there still warm but gone… I went and hugged him put my face on his and felt his warmth…how I miss him so very much,,, but he left 7 grand babies for me cause he knew I would be able to take care of him…all I have are them and i see him in all of them❤️❤️❤️RIP mivtub Vaam Meej💋😭

@niammeejvaj2980

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Nope, i would never choose a man like this.

Cas koj yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj es koj yuav xaiv txiv tso koj cov me nyuam na lod. Koj cov me nyuam yog koj li cas koj tsis nrog lawv nyob xwb. Tej tug txiv lim hiam zoo li koj tus no txhob yuav zoo dua.

Cas koj zaj story mas tus siab tshaj li os viv ncaus aw. Kuv mloog mas kuv nim quaj 2 nrog koj lub neej no thiab os. Vim kuv nim tso kuv 3 tug tseg thiab 😢os. Peb nim taug ib txoj kev os mog. Tiam sis kuv ho tau kuv tus txiv tshiab no nws ho nrog kuv hlub2 kuv cov me nyuam es kuv tsis nyuaj siab heev os. Tiam sis txoj kev nco yus tej me nyuam mas nco tshaj plaws li mog.

Sim me neej no cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os yus yog leej niam yus thiaj paub txoj kev hlub ntawm ib leej niam os

Ib tug txiv neej yog tsis pab yus hlub yus cov me nyuam ces the sooner you get rid of him is the better for you. You can replace your man but you can not replace your kids.

Sht muaj tej tug poj niam npwb npaum no thiab! Why you chose that little dck instead of your kids!!!!

@yl7495

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Niag poj hmoob no nqhis hot dog tshaj li nws hlub nws cov menyuam

I’m so sorry you lost ur son, a mother’s love is so strong and when tested it’s so painful. I know how much u loved him but also wanted a good life. We were raised to believe that a “man” can give us a good life, but ur learning slowly that it’s not true. It’s what we deem to be a good life that is a good life. Thanks for sharing and I pray you can learn to forgive urself for this incident for it truly was an accident that took him away. He knows how much you loved.. he does. 😊 May u find peace on ur path.

Vim ko vim. Vim txog kev zoo Nyob xwb os…the kids suffer cuz both parent are kids.

Lady I blame you too. How many times you are going back to him. You gave him so many chances. Just stay and don't complain anymore.

Tus txiv zoo li ko tso mus zoo dua tsis zoo rau kj ib qho li mog

My kids come first.

Why does this one have to be so damn sad… I was totally bawling my eyes out, not expecting the sad outcome at the end. Make me think of my sons and how blessed I am to have them still in my life.

Ruam li koj ces tsim nyog kawg nkaus

Our children are the ones that will be there for us thru thick and thin. You shouldn't be so selfish and codependent on a man to love you. Be a good mother so you can reap the benefits

Such a sad story….thank you for sharing. My heart aches and I shed so many tears with you. Life is full of heartaches…

My ex husband left me and my kids for 11 years now...that time i was only 29 year old but i choose to raise all my kids by myself. I'm 40 year old now still single and happy with my kids and grandchildren 😊

My heart goes out to you. The death of your child is not his fault but you did allow this man to control your relationship with your children and now you are feeling guilty. Hope you will put your children first going forward. So very sorry for your loss. May God heal you.

Listening to so many of these stories are hurtful. I can't imagine breaking my kids hearts

You put your children through so much. That's why parents need to quit thinking about their selfish sexual needs and be parents. Stop getting divorced over stupid stuff.

@deldoe2398

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When you don’t wear someone‘s shoes and don’t go through the toxicity and abusive relationship, you don’t have the right to make that statement. No one wants to end up in a divorce at all, but unfortunate life is unforeseen.

@nalaher3022

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@deldoe2398 I don't mean to offend anyone. I'm not condoning the husband's actions.I'm referring to both parties taking their marriage roles seriously. In the end, the children are the true victims. All these bad marriage stories desensitized the public.

@beelor6422

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You don't wear their shoes or anyone's shoes. You will never understand. How can a marriage work when you both are out of love? Maybe you can do it??? Your marriage is good atm. So, you will never understand those who's aren't.

Txiv neej mas nyuam qhuav huam xwb cov neej lim hiam tshaj ncaws pov tseg xwb tus me viv Ncaus😭😭😭😭 txhob khuv xim li😭😭

This is y I'm not remarry ! Course I ❤ my children's sisters, you should have left long ago 😢

@xisvajvaj2380

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@xisvajvaj2380

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😊😊😊 9:46

Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj sib sau los ua neej ces yeej lwj siab li no ntag nawb lawv aw...

Being parents is hard, no one wants to buried their children. Sister your new husband is very selfish he only thought about himself and his own children. If you choose to be together, you need to love each other kids so life can go accordingly. Sorry for your lost sister. Live life and always love yourself and don't take life for granted.

Parents like this. Now regretting after the fact. Stop being the victim. I had parents like this. They didn’t truly love us, they love themselves and their spouse more. It’s too late. She kept using excuses after the fact she knew how bad her new husband was.

It’s sad how they don’t want to help you but want you to help em! It’s so sad 😞 I won’t let no one control what I want to do or think for my kids!! 😢 But, we when we with a man like this; who knew he was going to be such a big big Mr. Think, he can ask or do anything! Sometimes, we think its just relationship problems but what we failed to see is he’s always has a problem about always helping your kids and wants you to help his kids and him because he is jealous of you always there for your kids & not give him the attention & time!! His plan is to use you to help him and his kids only!! How rude, cruel & wicked!!! 😢❤😮

I always will choose my children over any man! Glad you learned. Thanks for sharing your story ❤😂

Sisters aws tus Txiv dev ko es cas koj yuav hmov nws ua luaj na yog yuav tau niag txiv es phem npaum ko ces muab dov kauj Vam kiag tsis tas yuav li os ; tab sis Yog u cov me mas yog tsis muaj lawv lawm u nrhiav tsis tau li os viv ncaus aws xum xiav u cov me nyuam xwb nawb .

Kuv nrog koj tu siab thiab nrog koj quaj2 mob tau hau tag li os me niam hluas aw hlub2 koj tus me tub kawg li os

Koj hai yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog

Kuv lub neej tu2 siab kuv nim tsis nrauj kiag li los nim ntshai2 me nyuam tau txoj kev no tiag😢😢😢.

Txhob vam tej txiv txais nta yuav hlub tshaj nawb, yuam kev loj os, tos ib txhia poj niam lam uv nyob los dhau tus ib mus ces tsuas zoo li koj zaj dab neeg xwb tiag,

Nrog tu siab kawg li😢

Txiv neej hmoob tsis paub hlub me nyuam es tsis yog lawm li. Tus siab heev li os.

Viv ncaus aw kj lub neej thiab kv lub ces yuav luag zoo ib yam os tu siab tshaj ua rau kv nrog kj quaj 😢😢😢 SO SAD😢😢

Tu siab tshaj li os😭😭😭😭

Cas yuav mob kuv lub siab ua luaj li os! Kuv Tus tub tuag lawm es kuv nyab coj kuv Tus me xeeb ntxiv mus yuav txiv lawm es mob kuv siab tshaj plaws li os! Niaj hnub quaj kuv leej tub os!😭😭😭

Aww so sad 😢😢😢. Pab Koj tusiab kawg os sis. When a man/woman is tis cruel to your step children, leave them! It's not worth it! Always choose ur children first. Unless they are adults & can take care of themselves.

Real men will never ask you to choose. When a man ask you to choose, RUN as far/as fast as you can. So sad you realized it too late.

Viv ncaus aw ib tug txiv neej zoo li no tsis tsim nyog koj xaiv nws os...

Ntsaw txiv dhau heev lawm. Pab koj tusiab kawg.

Tos peb ib txhia niam tsev pheejnyob uv nws tus txiv niam nkauj txhav qaib es tsis nrauj los yog muaj minyuam coob2 es ntshai rwg txoj me kev uas txiv tshiab niam tshiab tsis hlub tej mentuam li no os cov video v ncaus. Such a sad story 😭

Lub neej nyob rau teb chaws vam meej yog nuj nqes thiab nyiaj khwv tau los. Yog ib nkawm niam txiv twg khwv nyiaj tau los tsis duav nkawv cov nuj nqes rau txhua lub hlis, teeb meem yuav tsum muaj rau nkawv vim tej teeb meem ntawv ua rau nkawv siab ntev thiab luv yooj yim heev.

vim txoj kev ntshaw txiv dhau tej me nyuam thiaj tu siab tag me nyuam thiaj muaj teeb meem mus ua luv fais sib nraus tag

Txiv dev ntawv ua kuv hlub tus minyuam ntawv heev kuv kua muag Los tus siab dhau lawm os

Cas Kuv cov ntshav tuav mus siab ua luaj rau zaj neej neeg no lauj!!!!

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koj hais yog lawm

Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas kuv hais rau koj os txhob tu siab os peb cov poj nrauj no ces muaj ib pab mes nyuam lawm ces ua xwb mas tsi txhob yuav thiaj sib hlub mas tus niam tsev

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Niag txiv dev txiv aub

Kuv li kuv lub neej tawg kuv yeej tsis yuav txiv li lawm as kuv nrog mi nyuam nyob lawm xwb

My message to this niam tsev: I have a baby that passes aways too. Doctor warm me about looking at my baby, but know i cannot let it goes if I do not see my baby for one last time. It does scare me at frist, but i have recovered. I know that I cannot ua ib siab if I don't look at her. The pain will always be there. Everytime someone mentioned about her I still cry. Every time, I think about her, i still cry. But, I hope you can heel from your pain soon. Children are the most important things in our lives. We offer go after money or a new spouse, but our children are our true happiness. We hurt when our children hurt. Sent love and hugs 🫂 to you. Stay strong. Good thing you divorced your second husband, now that your second husband is no longer in tour life, love your remaining children as much as you can.

Cas yuav pab nej nyuaj siab ua luaj li nas sister thov nyob twj ywm nrog cov me nyuam xwb zoo

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Kua muag los22li os ..😭😭

Poj hmoob aw cas koj twb paub tias nws yeej tsis hlub thuab tsis pab koj cov cas koj tseem pab bws thiab poj hmoob aw tsis tas hlub nws cov niag menyuam li os nyias hlub nyias cov xwb mas los nuab nws lawb kiag es nyob ib leeg es hlub koj cov menyuam xwb mas es txhob ua ib tus neeb tuam ob nkoj li os hiaj li nyuaj siab mas.

Koj ces tuaj mus zoo dua os. Yus tes me nyuam yus tsis hlub es hos mus ntshaw tej niaj txiv dev li no. Tsis muaj txiv los yus yeej nyob tau nas.

😭😭😭 hlub2 koj heev li os niam laus a...kuv lub neeg zoo li koj lub kiag os Tu siab heev li os😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

Zoo li tus poj niam no mas ntshaw txiv heev

Tus viv ncaus cas zaj neeg zoo li kuv thaib os tu siab ua luaj 😢😢

Khaws luag qub khau rau ces khee luag qub mob li no ntag nawb lawv aw...

Your story from the beginning, you knew your husband does not support you or your kids. You divorced him but accept him back. WHY? It’s your fault by choosing this person. You should never marry a man who does not love your kids.

niam laus aw yus yog tus neeg nruab nrab mas nyuab tshaj li os

Ku mlog ces ku nim quaj quaj quaj nrog kj thiab xav lo rau ku pab me nyuam es peb txaug ib txoj kev lo txob tu siab mog yu tsij rau siab khwv kom yu pab tau yu tej me nyuam mentsis o es lawv thiaj tsi nyuam siab thaum yu laus ces yuav ntsaub me nyuam xw hnov kj hais kj tu tub tuag lub hnab kab paus tsi muaj nyiaj ku nim quaj quaj quaj nrog kjos yog kj nrog nyob ntshe kj yuav me nqa qhov nyiaj no mu yuav roj tseb lo yog yuav su noj o

Sister koj es Cas yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj na kuv xav mas Tim koj nawb vim koj twb hais tias nws phem22 rau koj Cas koj ho rov yuav nws dua na li ko ces yog Tim yus xwb tsi tas yuav muab hais rau peb mloog meem txom peb o

@gracexiong8181

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Yog lawm, tim tus niam xwb bim tsis hlub thiab tivthaiv nws cov menyuam...tsam tuag lawm ces tsis txhob seev vim lig dhau lawm os. Kuv

Yog muaj kev mob kev zoo siab es koj tus ntxijnkawm tsis yog ib tug neeg koj mus cawmsiav tsis yog tus neeg qhuas koj ces tsis tsimnyog nyob ua kev. Especially koj cov me nyuav nawb peb cov me pojniam hmoob ma ntxim hlub thiab ruag qauj tshajli

Niam Ntsuab Teev! Tus poj niam ko kuv paub tias tsis yog tim cov neej tsa niam Txiv, Tab sis tej zaum nws xav tias yeej tsis muaj ib tug neej li lawm xwb os nawb. Hais rau kom nws tsis tas quaj thiab hais kom neeg Zam txim rau xwb nawb.

I would never choose any man over my kids especially one who doesn’t even love me and cheats. If he doesn’t love and accept my kids, he’s not worth it.

Lub teb chaw meskas tsi muaj tu txiv los koj twb nyob tau koj ib leeg lo sav ca yuav cia tej me nyuam tu siab thiab txom nyem tuag kus li

Zov mi nyuam xwb zoo đua...nawb mog peb cov mi poj niam

Lub neej tu siab 😭😭😭😭😭

Tseem yog ntshai li ko es kuv thiaj tsis mus yuav txiv ntxiv Lawm thiaj ua ib siab Nyob nrog yus tej me nyuam Los Laus Li no ntag!

Such a sad story. This is due to the fault of all the adults involved. As a mother, I will love my children over any man.😢😢😢😢

Niam ntsuab Teev, koj pheej hais tias 1 sab khau no es yog muaj 1 sab kotaw xwb los yog 2 sab kotaw na !!!! Yog 1 sab khau no mas 1 sab kotaw tu lawm mas thiaj li hais li koj pob !!! Koj yuav tsum hais 1 nkawm khau no thiaj yog ov….

cov niam tsev es pheej ntshaw2 txiv tshiab na zoo li co tiag txhawb tsis tau tej me nyuam na xum mus txhawb txiv tshiab ces txhob tu siab os

kuv tsi to taub tia yog tsi muaj tu txiv ko es koj nyob tsi tau li lo yog ua ca koj txhob hai tia koj hlub koj cov me nyuam no os koj yeej tsi hlua yog koj hlub koj cov me nyuam tiag ce koj yeej xaiv koj cov me nyuam lawm koj yeej tso niag txiv dev qab choj ko lawm os koj txhob muab kiam rau koj cov neej tsa lawv txawm yuav hai npaum li ca lo lawv tsi yog tu nrog nw nyob lawv tsi paub nw li koj paub naj koj tia no ce no koj tia yes ce yes xwb nav koj ma lam khiav mu koj yeej tseem khuv xim nw heev koj yeej to tsi tau nw tuaj lav ib nyuag lo ce koj twb yuav rawm nrog nw lo lua mua kuv yeej ntseeg koj tsi ta os

Honestly some women need to put your children first! Why would you ever choose a man over your children!! If you can’t love your children, why would you beg him to stay! There’s the door Bye! I don’t blame anyone but her.

Ohhh nooo I wouldn’t not pick a man over my kids! Cas koj niag txiv liam yuav ua ua es koj tus menyuam cia tu siab dhau lawm os. So sad!!!

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Tus me niam hluas aw cas koj yuav ruamua luaj li kuv yog koj cas kuv twb muab nrauj thaum koj yuav txais khau rau es koj tus txiv cem koj tus me nyuam es nws quaj2 ntawv lawm es koj tus me nyuam twb tsis tuag os kuv mas hlub tus me heev li

Niag txiv siab phem li ntawv ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo os

If I married a man can't except my kids will never married him, even how handsome he is, my kids comes first

Tus txiv zoo li ko ces tsis need to give him that many chance. No one can force you to do what you don’t want too!

Goddamn

Tsimnyog koj nrauj thaum ntxov es koj tus tub tsis tau tuag txhob tsim teebmeem ntau2 rau tej menyuam nyuaj2 siab txog qhov tuag kua

As a mother, you cannot replace your children but a husband is responsible.

So sad 😭😭😭😭

Only you would choose a man over your own children.

Koj ntxov muab niag txiv dev ntawd tseg ces ntshe koj twb hlub tau koj tus me tub ib ntus ua ntej nws yuav tso koj tseg os tus Viv ncaus aw cov txiv dev zoo li no mas kuv ntxub tshaj plaws li os

Nrog hlub thiab khuv xim koj tus me tub os. Nws xav ua neeg zoo kawg li. Mam ntxov khuv xim ces lig zog lawm os. What I don’t understand is that why you divorced your husband now that your son has already dead? Yog yuav nrauj ua cas ho tsis nrauj thaum u tus menyuam tseem nyob es nws txom2 nyem nws need2 u kev pab? Why you and your ex got divorced? Yog koj uv koj tus qub txiv npaum li koj uv koj tus txiv toxic no ces koj cov menyuam twb tsis txom nyem thiab koj tus tub twb tsis tuag. U cov menyuam yog u lub neej txoj sia thiab u lub future. Tus txiv koj yuav hloov tsawg tus los yog txiv tiam sis u tus/cov menyuam tiam neej no tsis muaj leej twg yuav los hloov tau. I’ll never choose a toxic husband over my children including my children dad if he’s this toxic. Peb cov poj niam tsis txhob ntshaw2 txiv thiab. Focus on our children at the time they need us the most. We have to protect our children.

Kj ts tsim nyog ua lawv niam

This husband is a txiv dev. Siab me me. Mus tuag zoo dua koj nas.

Koj cov me nyuam zoo ua luaj CAs koj yuav thab tej niag txiv mob hlwb ko

So sad 😢

Vg