To whoever needs to hear this: You are 100% valid and loved ❤️

@inky_tea4186

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you❤. That was something I really needed today

My mom didn't accept me when I came out so this is my comfort song now

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

If your mom isn’t accepting you I’m your parent now. Take care if yourself and come downstairs, I made cookies for you. We can watch some movies together. Make sure you eat and stay healthy

@milkissses394

3 жыл бұрын

Both of my parents don’t accept me and there excuse for not using my order name and pronouns are because there my parents that’s there reasoning for not using them

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

@@milkissses394 I’m adopting you as well then. There are no valid reasons for your parents to not accept you. It also isn’t hard at all to respect pronouns. They always tell us that they’ll accept us no matter what but when we explain ourselves, they just ignore us and sometimes blame it on the hormones or something like that which is not okay. Please know that even though I might seem like a complete stranger I’m always free and will always listen to you. If you need me, I’m here and I want you to be happy. You are completely valid and I’m proud to have a child like you. You are amazing. If you need anything, please tell me. I’ll always be there for you

@milkissses394

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe thank you so much

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

Have a wonderful day, I love you

Don’t be afraid to show your true colors. It’ll be ok.

Thank you for this video I'm a trans boy and my family doesn't accept me I needed this.. Right now I feel alone

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

I’m really sorry. I know how hard it can be to not have an accepting family because mine never actually accepted me as non-binary. I just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone. There will always be people who will be there for you and if right now there’s no one there for you, then I’ll be the one to support you :) I love you and I really want you to be happy. You deserve better than this. You’re an amazing person. I don’t know you at all but I can tell that you’re an amazing guy ! If you ever want to talk or feel like everything’s not going so well, please tell me and I’ll be glad to give you my social media so that we can talk because I don’t want you to be alone.

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

@evil bee I love you more :) Take good care of yourself !

this song is like a hug 💗

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

I have a disease called Eczema and i live with my aunt and uncle but my mom left just three years ago. My dad does drugs and my Auntie is ready to give up on us. My grandma is old and she is getting sick. My Eczema covers my whole arm down to my wrist, its also in the back of my legs, and around my waist. I feel disgusting. This song is just my escape. Who ever made this should know that i LOVE them.

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

Please don’t feel disgusting, you’re an awesome human being ! Take care of yourself and I hope your life gets better soon ❤️ Love you !

@skullway4807

3 жыл бұрын

I also have eczema and no need to feel disgusting you are beautiful and perfect as long as you. are you.

@jxsslyy

Жыл бұрын

hope you’re doing good in life

The Agender in me is crying that you. My family isn’t that accepting on me and my little sibling (they/them) and honestly this makes me feel 10x better

Im very happy seeing that some people have supporting parents, I hope one day that I'll have some too.

Anyone ever just sad and need slowed music that helps you not wanna kys? I just found this song and it's helping me alot. My dad isn't directly homophobic but he will never call me my name or use my pronouns. It really hurts when I get called a girl. I wish my dad wasn't like that.

This is my comfort song so far bc I’m scared to come out as trans bc my cousin came out as trans and everyone talked of him behind his back and now I’m scared to come out :(

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

I’m really sorry that thus happened to your cousin :(. Is suggest you take your time and be patient with yourself. You don’t have to tell the whole world so start with the people you are the closest with. After that, you can tell your parents. It might be hard but I assure you that it will be okay after. There are plenty ways of coming for example you can write a letter (What I did) or you could express yourself and actually say it. If no one accepts you just know that I will always be there and accept you because you are valid and deserve respect. If you need any more tips you can tell me ^^

@nate.rrrrrr

3 жыл бұрын

I know how you feel and im sorry

@MariaVitoria-gy7fx

3 жыл бұрын

Hey! Hey! Hey! Look at me! Look inside my eyes and breath for a minute. You're valid, you're awesome, you're important! You're perfect and we support you, don't matter what! And... Let them talk - i know, easier talk but harder do -. One day we are all die and i wish that all of you, guys or girls, has live your best life. One day we are not gonna nees to be afraid of WHO WE ARE! Just let the wind carry you. Well... I know that i am a strange in the internet and you may be asking: "You don't know how hard it is! Do you?"... Dude/girl... i really don't know. But i can fell you. I can fell how this hurted you and i can fell how your scared. Take a look in you past, you should be proud of who you are! Because you f****** AWESOME! YOU'RE JUST TOOOOOOOO PERFECT! If u need something, i am right here. U can talk with me. And sorry the mistakes. English is really hard, oh my...

@thespongebear1643

3 жыл бұрын

@@MariaVitoria-gy7fx omfg that was the nicest thing ive ever read😭 tysm❤️✨❤️✨ I hope u have and amazing day today💕💓💕💓💕💗💞💓

@janedoII

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe awwwwe….. you’re so kind :)

My mum doesn’t accept me, she told my dad and he flipped out telling me that I’m a girl and that I shouldn’t try to be something I’m not. The only person I have is my cousin who lives like on the other side of England from me. I’m starting to not care, I wanna just cut my hair and wear hoodies until my mum or dad notices because I am who I am, and I won’t let anyone take that away from me. Be you, and don’t be afraid, even if you aren’t accepted in your family which can be hard, just know me and several people in this world accept you. Be strong, I’m cutting my hair.

Happy pride month ♥️🏳️‍🌈

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

a child who is not embraced by the village burns it down to feel its warmth

this is my comfort song. my uncle, dad and my mother don’t accept me. and I’m scared to tell my nan because she’s old with short term memory loss. that’s why when someone asks if i came out to my family I hesitate to cry and hold the tears back

Hey! Hey! Hey! Look at me! Look inside my eyes and breath for a minute. You're valid, you're awesome, you're important! You're perfect and we support you, don't matter what! And... Let them talk - i know, easier talk but harder do -. One day we are all die and i wish that all of you, guys or girls, has live your beat life. One day we are not gonna nees to be afraid of WHO WE ARE! Just let the wind carry you. Well... I know that i am a strange in the internet and you may be asking: "You don't know how hard it is! Do you?"... Dude/girl... i really don't know. But i can fell you. I can fell how this hurted you and i can fell how your scared. Take a look in you past, you should be proud of who you are! Because you f****** AWESOME! YOU'RE JUST TOOOOOOOO PERFECT! If u need something, i am right here. U can talk with me. Sorry the mistakes, english is really hard, oh my!

I like to listen to this at 3 am, and softly sing upstairs in my room, while my gender identity is buried beneath dresses, bows, tank tops, frilly shirts and skirts... I wish I couldn't drown myself in these things because I feel like I'm suffocating. I feel like I get hit by arrows of shame, guilt, and dysphoria when I get called a "woman, girl, female, she, her, lady, ma'am" and so on. I am not a woman, I am not a man. I am... me. I am myself, and that's all I need to know for now. I am Non-Binary, and I prefer they/them pronouns. I like hoodies, baggy shirts, jeans and sweatpants. I hate my long hair, I want it cute and fluffy, but I can't since my hair is too thick. I wear my beanie with a high ponytail so I can flip the ponytail, wear the beanie and adjust my hair the way I like it, but in private. I wish my family knew so I wouldn't be chained to a "womanly" label. I wish that I could know I would be accepted, but my stupid mind tells me "no". I want to be me freely, but... Society among christians, and some family members mentally tell me... "I can't." Sorry for the vent/rant. It's been upsetting me...

@robsss2109

2 ай бұрын

Has it been getting for you?

Heyy to whoever needs to see this, it will be ok!

I struggled with self hate ( because of reasons the song highlights) and depression for years and I'm getting slightly better. The thing is, I don't currently hate myself. If anything it's the complete opposite, I just hate the way people treat me for things I'm unable to control

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

I’m really happy that you’re getting better. Take good care of yourself. I know how it feels to be treated like shit by people who don’t understand what mental illness is and it extremely sucks. If there’s anything you want to talk about feel free to come to me I’m always available

@isabelrodriguez6054

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe Thank you, that means a lot

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

Have an amazing day and take good care of yourself. Remember that I’m always there to listen ^^

@isabelrodriguez6054

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe I'll remember that and same to you

Hey @Ukiyo noe, I just read all the comments and I wanted to say you are an amazing human being! And you always offered to be there for all of these strangers... Thank you for being supportive! You're a great role model and more parents should be like you

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

Hello ! You are very welcome ^^ I would always be there for anyone because I don’t want any one to suffer or to go through pain no matter what it is. Mental health and acceptance is really important to me and although my mental health isn’t okay at all, I want others to be okay and happy. I want everyone to take care of themselves and I want you to take care of yourself as well ! Stay healthy and know that I love you :) You are amazing ! I will always be there to listen to and help so if you ever have something you want to tell me, no matter what it is even if it’s a small thing, you can tell me. Have a beautiful day ❤️

@_T_T_T_T_

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe I just wish that everyone would think and feel like that. I'm non binary and when I told my mom she compared it to "being bi", and "that I just needed to decide whether I'm male or female. She tries to listen to me, but doesn't understands and forgets what I explained to her all the time. And thats why I agree with you totally: mental health is one of the most important things! So thank you again, for offering help to people. Should you ever need it, message me. Your health is important too, not just others! And stay amazing yourself! I love your music btw :) Stay positive and healty despite the pandemic

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

@@_T_T_T_T_ I find it unfair that people tell us to choose when we come out as non-binary. When I came out to non-binary as well people were telling me that I just made something up and that it was stupid. Don’t listen to them. My parents said that too but after a while they accepted it because they couldn’t change that about me. It’s who I am. It’s who we are. Someone shouldn’t have to choose because someone else told them to. I hope that your mom hopefully accepts who you are and you have a wonderful life :) Stay amazing and take care of yourself ! Also thank you very much for the support and for liking my videos ^^

@_T_T_T_T_

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe It's great to hear, that your parents accept you! And you're absolutely right. Gender is just a concept of society and some people are just too close minded to underszand. I too hope, that your life will be great and that you will always have people who support you. Stay great, continue making awesome edits please and be positive! And you're welcome

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

Have an amazing day ❤️

literally thank you so much for making this. the village is my main comfort song every time i feel so, so down and hearing this slowed down feels even more comforting af. i'm a non-binary panromantic, i want to come out to someone irl but my parents are huge conservatives and are against lgbtqia+ folks, if they probably find out that i'm queer they'd lose their shit lol. this is just wonderful. thank you so much.❤️

@Ukiyonoe

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome :)

This. Ive always been the different one in my family and in my small county full of conservatives. ever since I was small i was belittled for showing signs of mental disorders. when I was 13 i had a very bad self esteem and family issues٫ and when I was 14 i found out I was Asexual and Aromantic. i always feel different and i always got told that. until i learned about San Francisco. the epicenter for social change and the place where everyone can come together and be their true selves. I dont know much outside of my house so learning about it made me feel much less insecure. "Theres nothing wrong with you٫ its true٫ its true" is what I imagine the city telling me. i will be home soon❤🌁

I figured out I wasn’t cis about 3 years ago (I’m now 14) and I realized I’m trans and non-binary! My family won’t accept me but I’m glad I have accepting friends. I use he/they pronouns and my friend is going to give me a binder I think since I can’t get one from a family member.. I’m thankful for him so much Update! I got the binder and it’s great! It’s a little big on the bottom but I shouldn’t complain much. I want to get top surgery when I’m older I think. Also the line, “One page of the Bible isn’t worth a life” hits home for me. I’m forced to go to church and I tried to pray for my feelings of dysphoria to go away but it never did. Most Christians make it seem like a disease that can go away by prayer. Like it’s a bad thing to be trans or gay or whatever. The feelings never go away after prayer because they aren’t a bad thing.

This is one of my comfort songs now

I relate to this alot. I came out, and my mom, step dad, my step dad's family, my grandparents, brother, and sister don't accept me. My grandparents said "you're not trans, you're a girl". My sister said "It's probably just a phase". And my brother said "You're my sister not my brother. I will never see you as a guy". People ALWAYS argue and say im not trans and being trans is wrong. I literally got called a freak the other day by someone for being trans. Why CAN'T I just be myself? Is that to much to ask...!? At least my best friend and girlfriend accept me tho. I love them both very much, and if they left me or something idk what I would do without them.

I’m so jealous. I can’t help it anymore. My friend came out to her family and they support her so much, she even showed me a video of her mom telling my friend how she can be herself ❤️‍🩹 and I’m just sitting her crying because before I could even HINT to my mom that I was Pan she told me being part of the “gay community” she calls it, is stupid.

I love this song🙃🏳️‍🌈

this song gives me chills and i used to cry listening to it. I just cut my hair my mom is mad but i could care less. I’m not anywhere fully transitioned but it feels good to see myself look more like a boy now.

I’m a non binary lesbian and my pronouns are they /them but no one uses me and it’s so uncomfortable and it makes my dysphoria worse. I’m also questioning if my pronouns are he/they... I feel so confused and lost. My parents are transphobic and I can’t buy a binder so it makes my dysphoria worse

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry that your parents are transphobic and that no one uses your pronouns...have you tried telling them about it ? Also I have something for you ! In my first years of coming out I found an organism called “point of pride” that were giving out binders for free for people who needed them but weren’t able to buy them :) You just have to fill out a form and they will message you a few weeks later I think to tell you if they can provide a binder for you. The shipping might be delayed due to Covid-19 but I can tell you that it might be something to consider if you want a binder and are not able to get one. I searched and you can also choose how you want the package to be delivered and there is full discretion to not make your surroundings too curious about the item that you bought. I am myself really happy with the one I received and I can tell you that it’s really comfortable ! If you’d like to know more about it or have any questions please feel free to talk to me ^^ Have a wonderful day !

@underrated5682

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe omg thank you so much!! I was honestly looking for ways to get a free binder and I couldn’t!! And no I haven’t never tried to talk to them about it bc they have threatened to beat up a trans person if they ever saw one.. so I kinda just stay silent.

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

@@underrated5682 I’m happy I was able to help you ^^ That’s just horrible that they said that they would beat up a trans person. Silencing yourself won’t really help you though...I recommend you to try to maybe talk to someone or if you have no one I’m always here :) Please take care of yourself !

@underrated5682

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe I just have one little question about the “point of pride”. Do you know exactly how long it took to ship/get your binder?

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

So at first when I applied to get my binder, we weren’t all in quarantine yet so the shipping wasn’t that much delayed. It then took some weeks before they answered but then they emailed me saying that I would get it soon ! Also please remember that they receive lots of requests per months so it may take a long time before you receive yours (maybe a month). To me it took 3 weeks or so and I was really happy ! The shipping really depends on your country though. Do you have any more questions ? ^^

im not lgbt but ive suffered a lot of religious trauma in my life (including being raped by a priest) and i live in a family of catholics who just cant accept me for being an atheist and this song comforts me

im confined trappedd , im scared to leave the place , its apparently called the closet, its like if i leave ill die its torture but im finding a way fully out

"Thank God you are not a man. Mom wants you to be proud that you are a woman." "People with pronouns are restricting themselves to labels." Words from both of my parents. I am a man and a woman with a strong connection with androgyny and versatility. It feels like they don't love me anymore. 💔

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pls like this if even though i was a girly girl when i was young, i can still be non binary and not just want to "be apart of an online group", and I’m not “just attention seeking” im trying to show my mom something

@insertnamewithmaybepunhere8235

3 жыл бұрын

... I understand

I'm transgender (ftm) and my best friend is queer (she doesn't like to label her sexuality) and I just started testosterone today. I also just found out her parents are sending her to conversion therapy and we don't know what to do. If anybody has advice please tell me.

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

First of all I am really sorry for you. I can’t believe her parents are sending her to conversion therapy. I have not been there myself but I know some people who have been and it’s just worse than awful. It just leaves an awful scar in your heart. It hurts psychologically and I hate that it exists. Are the parents of your best friend aware of how much this can impact her life ? For tips to help I don’t have much but I suggest that you go research for some organizations. I know there are some that help with things like conversion therapy like the Trevor Project or OutRight Action. You should know that conversion therapy IS human rights abuse. I hope this helped and if you need anything else please contact me. Stay safe and I hope your best friend can live in a better situation

@nate.rrrrrr

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe Me and my friends are trying to figure out a solution. The place is super remote so we can't reach out to any authorities about it. Thank you for the info about OutRight and the Trevor Project, I'll look into it. I appreciate it

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

@@nate.rrrrrr You are very welcome oh and take care of yourself as well !

I'm very sure that I am Bisexual but my family is Christian and a lot of my friends are Christians(one of them is affirming though) I am trying to recover from religious trauma and maybe leave Christianity. I just get this guilt however, like I am letting everyone down and I have this fear of hell.

I got my binder in June on the last week of Pride Month and now my mom feels some type of way about it. She thinks that I don’t need It because my boobs are small (which is not the point I still hate them) she thinks that I’m being delusional and that being non-binary is a phase she doesn’t use my pronouns and it’s getting hard to stay positive. I want to get top surgery and go on a low dose of t but I’m scared to tell her.

I'm a young trans-masc and pansexual(older than 12) yet my father doesn't support and he doesn't support at all and he said my mother and sisters "brain washed" me since my mom is bi and my sister is bi and my other sister is poly. But I know they didn't cause I've never been interested in girly stuff since I was 3 and I still never have and I've always liked all genders since about 10 yet my dad doesn't understand that and he still calls me his "daughter or little girl" and always uses she/her pronouns when he knows my pronouns are he/they

How do I my parents i'm trans and bi? :( I also want to ask them for therapy but I'm scared, they yelled at me when I came out as lesbian one year ago, I made a video on tik tok about 2 weeks ago but it got only one view I also tried to ask my best friend but she didn't knew how to help me and she also keeps missgendering me and tells me to stop talking like I'm a boy because it makes her uncomfortable. Please at least tell me how to make them take me to the therapy without telling them what's wrong, i REALLY need it. Please someone help me :(((

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

Hey there :) It’ll take time for sure. I suggest you take baby steps. You should be patient with yourself and that is something that is very important. I also want you to know that you are the one and only person who has a say on your gender. Not your friends,parents or anyone else. It’s you. Your mom has no reasons to find this uncomfortable and I am sorry that this is happening to you. Some ways I found that actually helped to come out were writing it in a later, writing a song or just being honest. Before coming out to them you should always make sure that you already have a great support. To first try seeking for a therapist, I suggest to go see the school counselor or talk to a help line. I know that they’re always available 24/7. Also try explaining to them that the way you are won’t change. You identify as trans and bi because that is who you are. If you need more tips, feel free to tell me :)

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

AND REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE 100% SUPER FREAKING VALID I LOVE YOUUU

@glazelily7788

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ukiyonoe TY IDK U BUT ILYSM

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

AHHH I LOVE YOU TOO HAVE AN AMAZING DAYYYY

@Ukiyonoe

3 жыл бұрын

IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE I’M ALWAYS HEREEEE

dysphoria sucks

being trans distroyed my whole life

I’m not attention seeking ... I think... Am I? I’m sorry... I wish I was happy as a girl... Instead of wanting to be non binary

I can't do this anymore.