These are the conversations that get me up from my bed ❤️‍🔥

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Nyabo, first finish sleeping.

@komupamela2330

Жыл бұрын

@@manuelap.mulondo wooowwww , thank you girls this was real awesome 🥰🥰

@winniemunyes9595

Жыл бұрын

@@manuelap.mulondo You're so beautiful

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

@@winniemunyes9595 awwwwwwww, making me shy

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

@@komupamela2330 thank you for watching

But ladies do you know how you have impacted our lives with this show? Honestly you deserve a medal

@gladisliesel2487

Жыл бұрын

Ikr Amazing souls just💖💖💖

@ABrenda

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the likes friends

@gladysgriffin9123

Жыл бұрын

So true, am currently in same situation like Rachel one leg is already out and just counting days to exit.

Kudos to the husbands who don't mind you discussing them. And to you ladies for not shying away from sharing your stories.

@Otto8507

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. No man will do this. Lol

@dianakambabazi4709

Жыл бұрын

Surely grateful that they have let us in their private space and shared real life experiences,, love you ladies

This conversation was phenomenal!! Thank you for tackling a hard topic. After 30 years of marriage we’ve reached our hardest moments!! My husband lost his job and cascaded into a deep depression. ( our marriage had been shaky for some time prior to that) He completely rejected me. I was a stay at home mom with our 6 children. I was not opposed to working but he wanted me home and at the same time making money. I had to do some deep inner work by the grace of God and give room for him to find his way. It’s been 4 years, all the children are out of high school. I’m happily working and doing what I love. I was counseled to leave by many but what held me is what one of the ladies said -“Did I know that he was the one for me from the beginning?” The answer is yes! Therefore I will stay no matter what. I am finding my happiness because it’s not dependent upon him. Slowly but surely he is finding his way again. We live in the same home but separate. I’m still believing that by Gods grace our marriage will be restored and that we will be “jubileed”( I think that’s the term you used). I just love your frank honest open conversations from an African perspective! I’m from the Caribbean and married to a Nigerian. My expectations were the story book, movie, eurochristian ones. I had to search the word of God and dig deep to discover that the real thing is very different. I have a promise in God’s word that says that “ love never fails” so my quest is to discover what that looks like as to how I’m to demonstrate that. How does one live 1 Cor. 13: 4-8 I love you all ladies! I wish to host conversations like these one day on my own channel. You’ve inspired me!! Blessings!

@patriciaamongin6662

Жыл бұрын

Wow, He is God Almighty and nothing is difficult with Him I pray God fully restores your marriage

@Fattahssesanga9747

Жыл бұрын

We bless God

@emmamunye2140

Жыл бұрын

Awesome

@graceskalyn8708

Жыл бұрын

Coming back for this comment after the xoxo bump love 💖💖💖

@akellolucy6007

11 ай бұрын

Not yet married but in my mind it's registered that it's forever not because of the excitement of having to be married but because I have see people who have kugumad and right now they're enjoying the fruits of their struggles and the ones that decided to leave are kinda finding it very hard to get back into that space that they had before. Girls ladies women as long as it's not life threatening please give it time.

"Old age needs a friend... everybody needs a gang" Great climax

"Old age needs a friend" That point was deep.

@morganwilly-jx4bc

Жыл бұрын

Very true

I love how these ladies put out real life for the young generation. We appreciate you👏🏾

Loving Manuelas emphasis of asking God before you settle down with a partner. I have always believed that God is the author of marriage but if you leave Him out at the start then you are doomed

Before I even finish watching, I soooooo appreciate the authenticity in the conversations you've held. Thank you dear ladies.

@Mukisawhite6740

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, there openness adding a lot value to the conversation

@basiimesusan201

Жыл бұрын

Soooooo authentic ,cheers ladies .

The most honest conversation ever. This show is so under rated, you need a full hour show on TV. Good job ladies

What Aggie said just reminder me of my late step dad. This gental man came into our lives when I was 12yrs. But he had been single for a very long time. But when he got my mom all he wanted was a friend. So when Aggie says old age needs a friend. To the both of them their friendship was more than any thing. He died so happy. To point when he did I felt so bad for my mom because she had lost her friend

We’re getting a little personal today and throwing the question back to you: what situation would absolutely make you leave your marriage? And are the children enough reason to stay? Sound off in the comments below! Loved this episode? Share the link with a friend! Leave us a like and please subscribe to our channel 😘 #bumplove #motherhood #marriage

@nangobirukaiya1911

Жыл бұрын

Am one of your silent followers.. Am 9 months married but Alhamdulillah, we always promise each other to take our Marriage in Jannatul Firdaus twerage omuhabbati bubi nyo.... Alhamdulillah we haven't had any fight and personally I think I got a soulmate. So mature in mind and most importantly he loves me beyond repairs.. with Allah. Our Marriage will be for life time Bi ithni Rahman

@evemukoya1291

Жыл бұрын

A constantly cheating man.

@pamelabasemera4970

Жыл бұрын

We need the male version of the same 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@jdm3762

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your honesty! I believe it comes at a cost and I'm grateful you all were willing to share regardless, just so you help out others. Yall are such a gift to us!

@nakalembejalia9482

Жыл бұрын

@@pamelabasemera4970 exactly

This was very emotional to watch but good. Thanks ladies. We need a part 2 to also show the good things about marriage, those situations you feel you wouldn't have made through without your husband. Tell the good stories too ...why we love these men even if they hurt us in one way or the other. Let's hear someone talk about staying for the man even before staying for the children. I think we need to celebrate such men too.

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

We'll definitely have this side of the conversation. P

@nabasituclaire

Жыл бұрын

Woow, waitg

Wow. Thanks Ladies for allowing yourselves to be vulnerable for our sake. I have indeed learnt alot.

Life is too short to be unhappy!! I am on Pumula’s side. Leave. My parents stayed for the kids (and societal image) but sleep in separate rooms for the past 15 years and counting of a 40 year marriage 🤷🏾‍♀️ I just got married and me and my husband talked about our “no’s” that are an automatic divorce during our courtship. No questions asked. Divorce. I’ve seen happy divorces

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

Oh WOW! Thanks for sharing. Banange - sleeping in separate rooms? Why not just seek happiness elsewhere and in other things? P

It was a nice conversation. Adding on what Angie said, one of the partners has to lead the way and hold fort and fortunately, it encourages the other partner to work on themselves. I am speaking from a place of having seen my mother do it and my Dad with time realized he didn't want to be left behind. So unless it's life threatening, then try to preserve your marriage. Even after you have left , the next person you get, there will be work to be done. And more so prayer works, include the big man up there and He will reward you with beautiful things.

This conversation was something. The authenticity is applaudable. I have been married 10 years, together for 13 and I saw myself in all of you at the very different stages of my relationship. I'll just say different people have different thresholds, personality, needs etc This is very key on whether you can stay or not. Thanks for sharing ladies.

after watching this, i can strongly conclude no marriage is perfect gal child is going thru a lot thanks for sharing ladies at least have learnt something in relation to my marriage

These detailed 1 hour heart to heart conversations are the best, especially when the topic is as delicate as this one. I like the honesty. I know girls and women who have not had the privelege of loving mother figures speak wisdom into their lives are learning a thing or two. Thank you ladies.

I left after 26years because the man was so abusive and no discussions ever resulted into good out come. So that's why it's good to get married at a young age now I am 48. And it's so great after the healing process I got another husband who had also divorced his first wife so we are together and I am so grateful. Amen

@kisakyejaquiline259

Жыл бұрын

Whaooo amazing

Don't you love how candid they are about their marriage lives?? Thank you ladies. I'm always looking forward to the next episode. And yes, marriage is about compromise.

I just came across this conversation, with so many incredible minds. Their vulnerability is teaching and healing beyond measures. Thank you. For sure a new sub 🥰

I can't count the number of times I have watched this episode! And it gets better everytime I watch it. Thanks ladies, this is one of the best really. Very personal and yet so relatable (simanyi oba luzungu lutuufu🤣🤣)

I agree being honest with yourself because sometimes compromise doesn’t work, an unhappy parent doesn’t raise a happy child! That’s the truth!

Loved the conversation. I decided to take marriage as a journey , and since I know not what to always expect, I decided to take with me the one who holds the keys to All unknown and I am glad I did today is my wedding anniversary. Been doing life with my man for 17 years. Work towards thriving and not surviving. That has been and is my goal. Just like we work at many things we need to work at our marriages. And Angie said it well, Old age needs a partner.

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

"Work towards thriving". Well said! P

@vivianlaket4696

Жыл бұрын

These habits we do see happening now the fact is they must have given a warning before but we really tend to ignore just because we are in love. And if you kept ignoring up to the state of not having option then you will continue leaving in a hurt and you will term it perseverance. We need to sort out issues when they come. Let's say first time you forgive, second time, you forgive third time you forgive, the fourth round it's already become a habit so it's upon you to decide whether to continue and persevere and accept him the way he is or not. But as you are persevering those habits shouldn't be the reason of your annoyance in the marriage. I do personally bet this so called okuguma is living an unhappy life in marriage for the sake of the children. Tell me when this man will think of sharing love with you having come back at 2 or 4am. This is a total separation indirectly.

This by far is the best episode ever bse it came at a point when I needed it the most. Thank you for being authentic ladies. Thank you very much. I hope you know there are some of us that really look forward to your new episodes and learn a lot. This was WISDOM!

Great topic Bump Love. I really love all your raw and honest opinions on this sensitive topic. You couldn’t have said it any better. I just got a lot of knowledge and insight from you lovely ladies.

Such Wise YOUNG Women. This is indeed a Program/Show that Young Unmarried Persons should be attentive of.

I am a huge advocate of happiness. Harm and life-threatening situations aside, if in my deepest of hearts i do not feel happy being with you and i do not see change in the near future, i will still choose me and my happiness and walk away. I do not think God intended for marriage to be miserable.

Angie, sorry for that very painful experience losing your babies. You are such a strong person. You somehow manage to come off both as soft and delicate whilst sharing very strong opinions, holding your own and all round bad-ass! Oba okikola otya!?

My best episode yet, i laughed, learnt, empathised, related. Thanks for being more than candid ladies. Loved it💜

Well done ladies and thank you all for sharing! Whoever thought marriage was a bed of roses? For me it’s been more about compromise and the realisation that we’re all different individuals forging a union. Looking forward to your next show 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

thank u so much for being authentic , sharing yo stories, may they edify and bringout the best in us in the name of Jesus. Amen

I find myself repeatedly drawn to watching this specific episode for some reason.Your authenticity and honesty shine through,making it incredibly relatable.It's striking how the issues that trigger conflicts in relationships and or marriage seem to remain consistent overtime..Personally ,i dentify most with Angie's "Love dovey" personality. It's effortless for me to be swayed back if there's sincere apology accompanied by positive actions and genuine remorse.

Such a welcome conversation. Thank you ladies for being vulnerable. Such conversations are needed in a society that tends to make women choke down their feelings and emotions.

i loved Angiez mature opinions and the authenticity of everyones sharing. Rossette isbusually not so talkative but i enjoyed her sharing. i love the lady likeness in her

This has been my best show ever on Bump love.......I clearly agree that the devil is here to destroy our marriages bacause God works through them.Thats yy as ladies we have to stick on prayer for it's the only way we can win... Thanks to you guys for sharing..

God bless you ladies, wonderful conversations you hold,am binge watching all your videos and so far ive enjoyed all of them and learned a lot

The way I enjoyed this show. You ladies are amazing in every way. Thank you for always pouring yourselves out.

This so far has been my best episode. It’s the honesty and the vulnerability for me . Thanks for helping us learn by bringing such engaging conversations

I have watched this episode more than twice...thank you ladies for opening up.

This episode was very amazing 😍 thank y'all for being so real and open 👏

Very revealing. One of the best shows. Also glad that you have ventured outside the topic of raising kids and are now broadening your discussion scope. I had a good laugh 😂😂😂.

Wow! Best episode ever! Love the truths in it. Love you ladies.

One of the best episodes hands down with so much to relate to, thank you ladies.

Thanks for these honest conversations. This takes honesty but thanks for opening up your lives to impact the lives of other women. God 🙌 bless you all

This is more than soul food ,by listening if u wanted to cry u couldn't pure laughter

My appreciation goes to you ladies. You have impacted my life alot. The level of transparency in your discussions makes us who are still in stage one of marriage learn how to handle. God bless you and your husbands.

Lovely episode. Thanks for sharing ladies. We have got to know you better. It really hits home. So much hard work in marriages these days.

the way Pumpla rolls her eyes 😂😂😂 thank you ladies for the show,I loved it

your experiences, our lessons. thank you ladies for sharing.

Thanks, ladies for such a great episode. The conversation was authentic and very interesting. I am definitely with the “Kuguma” team. Marriage is not easy; that is why it requires commitment and staying to keep the family unit intact is worth it, but it calls for selflessness because you have to put yourself last. As Rachel said, looking inward to focus on what you can do to improve your situation before looking at what you expect your partner to do for you is an excellent place to start.

@kabubiprossy3431

Жыл бұрын

☺️☺️☺️☺️

@rosesengo4704

Жыл бұрын

And after the children grow, leave home and don't need you any more, what are you kugumaring for any more? And how about you have bettered yourself to the limit that you possibly can within your limitations and cannot rise any higher under the unchanging situation?

@jhackyarihumuza

Жыл бұрын

That's why men take us for granted because they know we can't leave our children behind..so you have to kuguma nebakunyiga and then you pray for the marriage as if yo the only one who wants it to work..hhmm.

This was a candid, insightful conversation. Thank you ladies.

You ladies are the best. Thank you for doing this podcast. It was really eye-opening.

Thanks sooo much ladies for being eye openers to us.May God keep you for us

Thank you ladies for always putting things together for us, especially making it as personal as possible, i have learnt a lot and i always look forward to watching you always.

Love love this, you all made me laugh thanks ladies.

Angie thank you so much for always being able to express ur experiences.i personally really appreciate

You ladies really raised the conversation, this is important especially for young newly weds

I don’t know how many times i have laughed throughout this episode, one of my realest n favorite. All your stories were hilarious but alot to learn from.

I love Pumla. I feel like we have so much in common. I really look up to her

Thank you ladies for bringing this to table, we have been able to relate.

What a vulnerable episode this is!! 🎉🎉. Thanks ladies 🙏🏾. Watching you from Algiers.

Would love to know the daddy version opinions wn daddy's come around,we needed this info marriage hehehe,loved this

I have enjoyed the conversation. So many lessons to learn from you ladies.

This episode is sooo juicy 👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾. Thank you all for being so transparent. Very educative and encouraging 💕🤗🤗🤗.

Thx u lovely ladies for this show, we need more of these episodes pure truth.

This was a good conversation. Thank you ladies.

Good topic,Watching you all the way from London. It would be wise to bring men on the show to discuss about this same issue as I believe a lot of men too go through so much to contain certain women too.

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Alice. Yes...we do have the men lined up for a future show. P

@kayeangella8220

Жыл бұрын

I agree

Love these ladies 💞 thanks for sharing

This particular conversation is what i have always wanted from you ladies, thank you🥰

I love the duration of this one....long enough for me to learn.....thanks ladies....

Beautiful vulnerable conversations! Thank you so much ladies for your honesty in sharing personal lives.

Thank you Ladies for being so vulnerable.

you guys have really helped open ma mind and see things with an open eye thank you

Eeeee Ugandan women are beautiful! lots of love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪

It’s clear that the discussion is opening our minds and hearts to creating a narrative that speaks to our evolving journey of our relationships from one generation to the next. I love the complimentary stories each women used to make their points. Thank You all’

This is by far my best episode of bump love..thank you for sharing ladies♥️♥️

Long and nice, could watch some more. Kept repeating. Well done ladies.👏👏

Wow wow wow what a conversation?????????? I wasn't expecting this. I LOVE YOU GALS, BECAUSE YOU ARE IMPACTING LIVES. THESE ARE THE REALLY TALKS WE NEED!!!

No to a bad marriage for anything or anybody because my children are a compliment to me not a hindrance of my freedom and happiness!

@jacquelinembulaiteye3369

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree

I like the realness. Thank you for being vulnerable and open

Am glad i have had to listen to this...it warmly sunk, it's such breathtaking

😂😂😂😂😂 my ribs u pple...Aggies stories...who remembers wen their mum made them club for a week 😂😂😂😂

Whoah! A high 5 and hugs ladies Kuddos!! You've indeed spoken my mind, I am literally Just tied a note to my hubby this very year's march with whom I dated for 12 years and a lot of what you've talked about in all the conversation has been appliances. Well; According to my experience so far I can say, marriage is a school of series without expectations You've really built me both physically, emotionally and spiritually. Thanks loads you guys for sharing. God bless you for me.

Lovely Lovely show ladies. I'm always looking forward to your episodes as well. Thank you for your honesty and sharing bits of you with the public. God bless you ladies.

If I could like this gazillion times I wud have!!!!! Wow wow wow, it was such a great educative conversation!!’I like the openness u pple display without sugar coating reality. I’ve loved and loved it. It was encouraging for those who have been facing challenges in their marriages and thought they were alone. Thank you for being real and tackling real life issues with openness. I personally have been healed and blessed. I’m in agreement with Rosette’s point of praying about the marriage. Thank you thank you

Ladies, standing ovation! 'Drops mic'

I just celebrated our 15th anniversary and like Angie I married young write from campus. I have kunobad in my heart times without number, but after the emotions of the tough conversations and arguments with my hubby have come down, am like it wasn't worth my kunoba thoughts. Thank you ladies for making this talk too real and honestly. Truth is if we went through school there were tough times at school,cantab and all but netulemerako mpaka degree, same applies to marriage. Love you ladies

Some great conversations giving insight about the different stages in marriage and the theirs challenges. I have learned something, thanks.

This has been my best episode ever, so authentic

We feel you and love you bump love...your doing a great job ladies 💓

Thank you so much ladies, i love the kuguma so much but you might choose too but still your partner in the old age leaves you and takes all the things you worked for together, eg spending the resources to care for the current partner( building them houses, buying cars etc) leaving you with nothing, I’ve seen some old women left alone. So i advise as you kuguma you be doing some personnel savings for the old age to avoid disappointment.

@truth6143

Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree 101% our mother energy is rendered useless at the time they cannot work any more. Nga bakadiye...

My beautiful hun buns..😍thanks for the interesting talk and allowing your selves to be alittle vulnerable..funny and hilarious moments there 😄

This was refreshing! Thank you ladies

I've been watching for years without subscribing but after this show! I subscribed. Thanks for the great content

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

Newest subscriber! Yaaaaaayyyyy! P

This is real life time stories , I need more of this its so real !!!!

Oh I love these beautiful ladies. I am amazed by the kind of wisdom that you guys possess. God bless you, subscriber from South Africa

Candid conversations, thank you ladies.

Another very interesting, informative episode. I love that you guys share honest bits about your experiences with us. I agree with you all hence my leaving the man who gave me a ring and became a different person altogether. Rather single and happy than in a marriage miserable.