Which man would you rather have? Join the conversation today with Godfrey Kuteesa and Andrew Kyamagero as we discuss traditional male roles from the men's point of view. Thank you gentlemen for gracing our show today! We'd like to hear your thoughts on how toxic masculinity has affected you in the comments below. SHOUT OUT TO OUR GLAM SQUADS: MANUELA'S GLAM; Wardrobe: Cadia Fashion House Make up: Tina Brows Hair: Zuri Uganda BARBARA'S GLAM; Wardrobe: David Kabenge Jewellery: The SN Store Hair: Zuri Uganda Make up: The Sununu Effect BEVERLEY'S GLAM; Wardrobe Arija Fashions Videography and Editing: Garage Group

@ugandankitchen.

8 күн бұрын

I wish you could bring us Mariam Nagujja to educate us as well about men cause I find her knowledgeable. Thanks for the show

@paulinemutumba9157

4 күн бұрын

Men detach

@judithsky2916

2 күн бұрын

Even on worst day Godfrey noo he is too much

@Beextina

Күн бұрын

I am 100% A. Kyamagero’s TYPE.❤😂

@basketballdiaries2846

Күн бұрын

Kyamagero comes out as abusive, a man who abandons his home is because hey cannot handle the strength of the woman they have. The man that stays simply makes a choice to.love that one man no matter the circumstances

First pause and we applaud Beverly for standing up for women's rights 👍👍😊

@MistyEE21

3 күн бұрын

I don't expect any less from her knowing her since University days. She's brilliant and reasonable.

@phatiezcooks

3 күн бұрын

@@MistyEE21 I can agree according to her words 💪💪💪

Caren here from Kenya, and a bump love follower, this is by far the worst episode i have watched on Bump Love, every time the men spoke, it was rubbish, as mum of boys, i am dumbfounded, i hope one day when i get a daughter, they never end up with men raised by these two, what nonsense is this, we need to be humane to both our wives and husbands, i only wanted to listen to Bev, please dont ever subject us to such foolishness, its really appalling and disgusting mindset

“It takes a lot of guts for a man to come back home.” But my why come home when you’re not happy. And that’s not me saying this lightly. I grew up with two parent and my dad loved coming home. Kyamagelo this self importance is appalling. Funny how you side stepped the fact that the partner in question works. If you’re the alpha and she has to do her deligence does it mean she doesn’t have to contribute towards the bills? Contrary to you thought Kyamagelo, I want to take this opportunity to send shouts out to my dad, He always came home early to play with us his kids. He LOVED cooking and feeding people. My Mom did too. He would contributed towards house chores all the while taking his place as the unmistaken ALPHA in his home. My Dad loved the ground his wife walked on and thus showed all my brothers that you did have to be misogynistic to be an Alpha.

@marionk7915

3 күн бұрын

That part didn't sit well with me either. I am all for men being the heads in their homes but he makes it sound like he is doing her a favour by returning home. Which leaves the question, where would he rather be?

@Beextina

Күн бұрын

My dad too ❤

Hands up for all those coming straight from Facebook after watching Kyamagero's clip.

@kenyanaracheal6900

3 күн бұрын

Not me I'm a bump lover Always here for every episode every Friday

@mashex9186

3 күн бұрын

@@kenyanaracheal6900 am a new subscriber

The truth is women should let men be men and accept leadership...whereas men should be respectful, responsible and accountable

@patriciaamongin6662

7 күн бұрын

True

@i.am.michellekirabo

7 күн бұрын

Exactly! Just accept leadership, for Christ's sake. The man needs his feet rubbed, RUUUUUUUUUUUB! Stop listening to the Kardashians and the devil. When you do, and divorced, shut your big empowered mouth.

@asiolydiaomiat7518

7 күн бұрын

Surely

@ayebarephillip

6 күн бұрын

A u married yet , you sound from my testament

@namutebimukasanissen9916

4 күн бұрын

Question is what is leadership? Lording it over others? No!

The scenario Kyamagero shared, where a woman asks her husband for permission on Wednesday to attend a wedding on Saturday, and he agrees but then drives her in a completely different direction on the day because she asked 'late'-three days in advance-constitutes emotional abuse.

@lifeofachom

4 күн бұрын

I also watched it and I felt bad for the wife

@hildamuwando6516

4 күн бұрын

True. If attending the wedding means a lot to the wife, why not let her be? Going to the farm can be postponed or he can go alone. The farm visit didn't sound like an emergency.

@pamelaatukunda2122

3 күн бұрын

But some people won't see this and they will support him.

@MistyEE21

3 күн бұрын

@Babirye, this is how we like to complicate each other's life with abuses etc then the marriage ends. I am already exhausted 😢😢

@marianabanks8886

3 күн бұрын

Hehehe men move around in Kampala with small egos 😅😅

"A man's love towards their son is to detouch".... Lord take the wheel. I just can't!!!

@enocksematimba9794

3 күн бұрын

It works actually. It's the only way to get your sons to grow independently

@kazibaeva8635

2 күн бұрын

It's called tough love, and it works

@Njoki-bw3vp

13 сағат бұрын

Then they say men raised by absentee dads are weak. These men in the panel need to seek psychiatric help. Something is doing them deep down.

I just paused to first comment, You can't talk masculinity in Uganda without Mr. Godfrey Kutesa. Thank you BumpLove for hosting this great man🎉

@kusiimajovia6930

3 күн бұрын

Well stated 🎉🎉

@kariisaalanamara7311

3 күн бұрын

I see ya.....

@maurynkugonza2105

3 күн бұрын

🎉

The moment you stop seeing this as an argument btn men and women...that's where you start enjoying this conversation 😂😂😂😂

@maurynkugonza2105

3 күн бұрын

I agree with you😊and i have really enjoyed it and learnt to

@anitakomukama

3 күн бұрын

Bingo Jacky! Bingooooo😂🎉

@jackynambatya

2 күн бұрын

@@anitakomukama 🤣😂hi hi

@Beextina

Күн бұрын

You’re very smart Nambatya. 🔝

@jackynambatya

Күн бұрын

@@Beextina ohh🤗🤗🤭🤭what a comment,thank you for your kind compliment Beextina.

Beverley thanks for standing up for women today. I think men are lost today and the guests were proof of this. Men are not ready to acknowledge that tables have turned and they have to adapt to the reality of the day. Women have adapted, they are providing in homes while still doing wifely duties while men are also providing but not realising they have to meet the women halfway. I say men are going to continue being disillusioned until they wake up to the facts of the day. I also agree with Mr. Kuteesa that we need to stop coddling men...it's why we have so many losers and drunks in our society.

@Nambozobev

7 күн бұрын

thanks for watching. so much to learn

I want to hug Beverly these guys want to say that its okay for a woman to suffer and she has to endure but for men its supposed to be smooth all through.

@Nambozobev

8 күн бұрын

Time for us to speak up. Thank you

@ConquererAnita-ns7qu

8 күн бұрын

Nambooze u r something else. U know how to use space ,baby gal!

@SA-vw4ny

8 күн бұрын

​@@Nambozobev how can one reach you regarding public speaking please? Thank you ❤

@namiirojose6824

7 күн бұрын

Yes Bev has represented us so well

@namubirujoan2015

6 күн бұрын

@@thechristianperspective me too, she really outspoke the men and all her reasoning was valid. She respresented us very well🤝🤝 thank you madam Beverly

Clip 30:48- Andrew said “It takes a lot of guts for a man to decide everyday to come back to you” …. This statement is loaded. I can not even imagine why men like Andrew think this kind of perception and mindset is ok. Does this man have a daughter??? SMH. I have a lot to say but let me restrain myself on this issue. Andrew stooooooooop stooooooop bashing single moms. I was raised well by a single mom- (orphaned). I am a sole parent raising a daughter (she is an orphan). She is going to be a great human being. Toxic parenting that causes childhood traumas is not synonymous with single parenting. Emotional and all sorts of Abuse especially those perpetrated by “cultures” continues to have a influence on why the society is raising humans that have little or no emotional intelligence to be able to manage and foster healthy relationships and marriages❗️

@puritykemunto5752

7 күн бұрын

I caught that statement too and was disheartened. All they did was give excuses to justify their terrible actions. I miss pumla ❤

@akamukundajulian8847

7 күн бұрын

You girl me am raging why does that particular tribe continue to disrespect women and there women are so dump they keep settling for trashy men with rubbish mindsets.

@namubirujoan2015

6 күн бұрын

@@olivia-kim-abba thank you. People have been raised by single parents and they’ve come out as responsible adults, we’ve seen people who were raised by both parents and giving the Society headache

@namubirujoan2015

6 күн бұрын

@@puritykemunto5752 🤝🤝🤝🤝I don’t think I can handle any of those two!! Ehh

@KarungiPeluce

6 күн бұрын

On the issue of parenting has no manual I was raised by a single mum but the truth is segayirira musajja I have seen my mum provide and I have a mentality if she I can also do in that I can never settle where I don't feel well just because they can provide

I don’t understand the thinking of the choice of guests today considering their known misogyny. Why are they continuously being given a platform (by women I believe are smarter) to spew harmful narratives? Is it for engagement? This platform I think is better than this extreme madness and continuous blatant display of misogynistic views.

@lindaaine824

4 күн бұрын

Was dumb founded the whole time

@kisakyejulianna9026

4 күн бұрын

Why indeed???! I was disappointed that these two were platformed. They dont deserve it. Their individual platforms are doing enough harm as it is.

@glorianamaalwa3238

3 күн бұрын

I felt the exact same way! Are we clout chasing bump love? Is that what we are doing now?

@joantumuhairwe3505

2 күн бұрын

The choice of the guests is for popularity, likes and comments. So far it’s the only thing that has been achieved in this episode plus we’ve been reminded that Mr Kyamagero actually cooks for his wife unlike what he is saying here.

I knew I’d get angry I don’t know why I played 😂. So much half truth from the men. We need Jesus 🙏🏽. He is the true definition of true masculinity! Men leave for a lack of commitment, self control, and selfishness!!! Is Godfrey married?

@natashakimberly2131

7 күн бұрын

Ate...divorced..the last I heard

@DignaK

7 күн бұрын

Thank you Lisa. These men live in bubbles. I hear “We are African. We are not in Europe.” Anything to justify their behavior.

@DignaK

7 күн бұрын

Andrew, not having a microwave in your home doesn’t make you a strong African man. It makes you a man that loves to see his wife suffer because apparently he went out to look for money. Lol. That’s laughable.

@DignaK

7 күн бұрын

This episode should be deleted from youtube and everywhere. All these men are saying is “I can do whatever I want and a woman should take it. However, I can leave at the slightest inconvenience from the same woman.” Very toxic and selfish if you ask me.

@iraenhe286

6 күн бұрын

​Worst episode so far. Only Bev tried to stand up. Yes we're not equal but we're also human

Days when Pumla is really missed 😢

@evelynivymatovu3958

Күн бұрын

Am telling you, coz what in the bogas 😢

@nakalisasophie6490

Күн бұрын

U knw

@mariont2961

Күн бұрын

trueeee

@phyby9651

20 сағат бұрын

Am telling u😢

'could you please rub my feet' is being humane. Being polite to our loved ones has nothing to do with gender equality. Asking Vs Demanding

Because I got used to a bigger group, i feel like this episode is so lively, it brings the previous season's vibes.

@nababiaminah318

8 күн бұрын

Same here

@jamiekhlo1302

7 күн бұрын

I thought it was only mi

@gift2362

7 күн бұрын

Mwana

@lateefahniwagaba6026

7 күн бұрын

@@jamiekhlo1302 you are not alone 😢

@kahindodoreen4228

7 күн бұрын

Definitely

This episode will definitely get bumplove more eyeballs, but will attract a completely different audience than most loyal viewers. Nze nga nze this will be the last one I watch. I can’t continue to subscribe to a show “for women” that provides a platform to views like this, and does not challenge them. Would have been good to have another man providing some rebuttals to what was spewed here, or atleast the co-hosts not laughing through most of it. It’s a serious conversation with potential ramifications like normalizing emotional abuse of women, but the opinions were just left to air. Maybe that’s the new audience Bump Love wants and it might be an even bigger one. I wish them the best but this direction is not it! Thanks!

@MistyEE21

3 күн бұрын

I felt your pain and I could relate. It was very toxic and painful to watch.

@BBonietor1

2 күн бұрын

You are absolutely correct, there needs to be an edit may be a part 2 for some one to refute all these toxicity

@akamukundajulian8847

2 күн бұрын

Disturbing conversations with those two male psychos totally contradicts the purpose for the show.the fact that these dump women kept laughing is soo disgusting.

@nakitendenaomi152

Күн бұрын

As toxic as it feels, its a show showing wat happens with some men in our country...be open minded n dont take it personal ....bump love is still a good show...

@janelleshetty

Күн бұрын

@@nakitendenaomi152 good shows are balanced. This one isn’t. The danger is young men and women will think this is the only way of thinking and yet it’s not. The goal of the moderators should be to provide a balanced view, a real debate not just an ignorant expression of opinions. Anyway for those that enjoy this type of content, like I said, let them enjoy & stick around.

This talk is both enlightening and disheartening. Bev, thanks for holding the 'no disrespect/abuse' forte for women. Kuteesa, makes sense. Men should listen to him more. I worry that for as long as men do not own up to their contribution to broken homes, it will continue. Women CANNOT be better alone. Also, we need to stay away from examples and miss the principle. Simple minds hold onto examples and miss the principle. Massaging feet is simply an example of care-giving. Women can show care in innumerable ways. Men, provide.

@julie.e.namyalo9278

7 күн бұрын

Well stated, Thank you

Why would a supposed sober man like Andrew say "It takes a lot of guts for a man for a man to decide every day to come back to you"? I am completely dissapointed in the type of mindset bump love is propagating to boys/men with such takes from a married man who by virtue of experience should know better.

@brianbenson9469

3 күн бұрын

Instead of being disappointed in what he said ask yourself why he said that ?

@aysherbuzu

3 күн бұрын

@@brianbenson9469 it's like asking a rapist why they raped a child. There is absolutely no justification for the dung he said. Rubbish is rubbish regardless of why it is said.

@mosesmagezi2419

3 күн бұрын

​@@brianbenson9469women lack comprehension. Every one is red headed but no comprehension whatsoever. This episode actually has finally helped this show gain some credibility.women enjoy delusional useless shimmy jazz were they say hogwash ad all are happy but reality ad accountability is there biggest cryptonyt.

@NyakaisikiCharlene

3 күн бұрын

​@@mosesmagezi2419I don't think you know what comprehension and accountability mean!!!!!

@nagindajudith1441

23 сағат бұрын

And then went on kasuku and back tracked on everything 😂😂😂

Personally I feel that for the bigger part of this conversation the men were making excuses and giving justifications for their behavior blaming everything on the women.. They blamed women for being the cause of men leaving their homes.. which is not entirely true, because some women do all that is required and the men still leave Then they spoke about the women not bringing father figures after the men have left the marriages.. and there I still see an element of lack of responsibility.. because yes the marriage has ended, but what happened to co- parenting.. the father can still be present in the children's lives and the woman doesn't have to get blamed for not bringing a father figure.

@lyshamay5951

8 күн бұрын

Of all men, they had to pick those two,like WTF

@Zladok

8 күн бұрын

Which 1 of them is supposed to represent the modern man,they both sound toxic 😅

@lyshamay5951

8 күн бұрын

@@Zladok not even morden men, real men

@Nene..93

7 күн бұрын

​@@lyshamay5951how are they fake?

@lyshamay5951

7 күн бұрын

@@Nene..93 dint say they are fake,i said it would have been great seeing some real men on the show , my real came out in a context of sage and gentlemen,

Politeness has nothing to do with equality! It’s just good manners, speaks respect and love plus intimacy👌🏽. Thank you Manuela

@glorialak

3 күн бұрын

I dont know how to shout "thank you" louder...I wish we had sounding emojiz, wd give you the loudest traditional ululation. 🤝

The entitlement of Kuteesa and Kyamagero on this episode. Eh, are they just ignorant or blatantly misogynistic? I am so baffled and confused. Also, Manuela, i must applaud you for your choice of guests. You have not just debated toxic masculinity. You have shown it to us, in all its glory. These two men are the embodiment of toxic masculinity 😢

@life_with_drnalongo

2 күн бұрын

You know this episode was actually a display of toxicity itself.

@mariont2961

Күн бұрын

I agree! So toxic!

@EleneLC

Күн бұрын

You couldn’t have said it any better !! These men are the true definition of toxic masculinity!!!!

Very interesting conversation. Kyamagero spoke like an Alpha male (crass, egotistic) and the truth is as much as the modern woman wants a strong man, when it is served to us in full it gets very uncomfortable. Mr. Kutesa actually made his case less brutally but still the same case. Its serious food for thought for us. We must get used to these uncomfortable conversations to get to a good place for our generation. The conversation needs to continue. Thanks bump love

@gladys.k.1050

4 күн бұрын

The modern woman wants a Sigma male …Not an insecure block of Alpha muscle. Nothing in full /excess is ever good.Men should regulate their strength as we so the same to regulate our emotions.

Women submits to love, when u love your woman you can't fail to treat her right and once you treat her right she can never fail to respect you. You just don't expect kingship treatment yet to serve a commoners behavior. Just because you were taught to be a man doesn't mean you should be mannerless. And before you blame those single mothers for not being able to give their children there father figure upbringing,I think you should blame those men that left and never thought of their children's no matter the circumstances. Otherwise let's all opt to be better parents,if we fail as lovers or partners at least let's not fail as parents coz at the end of the day it's us that brought these children to this world and whatever happens between us shouldn't be their burdens to Carry,so we are both accountable for their future. Thank u so much ladies and Gentlemen 👏👏👏👏👏

I missed Pumla like 1000 times in this episode 😌

@kasaijaemmy-gc7wq

Күн бұрын

She needs to be here

@kirundazuena9219

20 сағат бұрын

I always miss her

@phyby9651

20 сағат бұрын

U miss her small 😂 I miss her sooooo much she would b the one to stand these 2 men.

I struggled watching this episode because the men who were chosen are as toxic as a topic. Lets accept that there are men who are bad regardless of the environment at home. Not all men are responsible and its dangerous that men like these are given airtime to talk to communities. This is only going to perpecuate the situations that are already happening in the communities. We all go through alot but being emotionally, financially and physically present is also a choice that men have to take on.

@arafatbarigye5301

4 күн бұрын

Truth is always hard to hear and if it wasn't them then which men did u want them to bring the ones that correspondes with ur mentality with all due respect 😊

@aishahussein2122

4 күн бұрын

These are real men not simps.

@lindaaine824

4 күн бұрын

Me I couldn't even go past the intros

@Zladok

4 күн бұрын

Meanwhile kyamagero hosts man cave on TV which means he's influencening young men Kuteesa runs an NGO for young boys basically the problem continues for our daughters.

@atuhairwemary.immaculate4380

4 күн бұрын

@@aishahussein2122 a man blaming women for their misfortune doesnt make them real men

It's not in the act of washing the feet It's in the expectation even when she doesn't want to. Just because your father did it doesn't make it right! ...even fools have children, even fools grow old.

Wives align men and husbands align families. I love that.

Manuela is right too about generalizing things. Very many people have grown up in single parenthood homes, where fathers and mothers are abusive but after seeing all those things they make a decision to change the dynamic they grew up seeing

Bev was the only one who held these two men accountable & tried to call them out when they used excuses to blame women for poor behaviors displayed by certain men. Their way of thinking was super archaic & they still believe that the woman place is still in the kitchen in 21st century. Bev held fire under their feet sometimes. Barbara pretty much checked out & didn't challenge them. Manuella didn't show up today & played a passive role. I understand that they're guests on the show but the 3 hostesses should always try to have control of the discussion. Bev definitely did her part & tried more than enough to be respectful while defending her viewpoints.

@Nambozobev

7 күн бұрын

Thanks for your comment. We certainly need follow up discussions in other spaces as well, so that there is time for more views to be aired articulately.

@consolateayoo1734

5 күн бұрын

Surely these men are very chauvinistic 😢😢

I cant thank you enough for bringing Andrew and Godfrey, this generation is blessed to have you

@annenasubo4890

7 күн бұрын

Totally agree

Thanks for the show. The discussion was somewhat one-sided and egoistic whenever the men spoke. I'm shocked at some of "Mr. Kyamagero's" utterances. He comes off as a bully rather than the alpha male he's trying to portray

@kanisakisakyewanyama459

7 күн бұрын

Am shocked aswell

@zubedahmayanja9713

6 күн бұрын

Yeah i was thinking that too its not really giving Alpha male its like he is trying to convince himself that he deserves that rather than be that.

@consolateayoo1734

5 күн бұрын

No alpha males here. They're are chauvinistic pigs. Pardon my language 😅

@gladys.k.1050

4 күн бұрын

Yes…A HUGE NARCISSISTIC BULLLY …I know one when I see one

Toxic masculinity is the topic but the men whose masculinity is the most toxic were chosen

@ronaldkayizzi8459

8 күн бұрын

Watch your tongue, you risk sounding obscene.

@qxy7440

7 күн бұрын

Interesting point of view. Just started watching. Will let you know my opinion on this.

@chipod6254

7 күн бұрын

I'm also watching now let's meet just now

@aidahal1482

7 күн бұрын

Your view is just narrow, stop being a people pleaser and do the right thing

@jdm3762

7 күн бұрын

Nkugambye... both singing the same old song and Kyamagero with his misplaced english words ... I can't 😞 Bev tried though.

Wanted to watch this to the end but i am from Kenya and we are going through enough emotions distress with our president. 😂😂😂 so am gonna leave it at min 21:00. Something is missing from this conversation. And i do think Men and women are equal, roles may be different but no one is lesser than than the other.

It’s quite depressing to see the lens in which some men view women and masculinity itself

See, i got my favorite is Bev. Flowers for you Lady.

@Nambozobev

7 күн бұрын

Thanks. I receive the flowers.🤩

Watching from Kenya... I built up some anger while listening to this conversation. Especially on the matter of massaging the feet. Thankyou Beverly for standing up for the women. We should realize that the generations are changing and the manner of handling things is different. The manual for marriage is the Bible, Act like Christ does to the church. I 99%DISAGREE with everything said by these men.

@paulmukasa9505

3 күн бұрын

You’re just delusional

@mosesmagezi2419

3 күн бұрын

No body cares wether you agree or not . Just find your man ad make him into a docile you want .but men will be men. If you say everything has changed in modern era then why use jesus as he loved the tch ad bible a manual yet you claimed to have moved like the modern era .

@maurynkugonza2105

3 күн бұрын

If you say the manual for marriage is the Bible and still say you 99% disagree with these men, then clearly you are prolly reading a different Bible and hence contradicting yourself

@nyagahcecilia3404

22 сағат бұрын

​@@maurynkugonza2105John 3.16 that is the kind of love. Sacrificial on both sides. That is the bible

From the comments I have read, I will sit this one out. I don't want to get triggered.

@Jeremiah0809

4 күн бұрын

Thanks!! Me too

@lucyisoke5894

3 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂 some of us are braving it out on the catchup till our "meeme ntono" caves from some of the opinions 😂😂😂😂

@thoughtsofgertrude8163

3 күн бұрын

@@lucyisoke5894 i really want to naye naa 😅

@motivatedqueen7804

20 сағат бұрын

Same here

One thing ive realised about such conversations is the men fight tooth and nail to gate keep the old ways and their toxic traits while in the same breath ALWAYS demanding that the women SHOULD bear the burden of having to morph around them. Like why is the 21st century man acting like women have not evolved and they are sitted ryt next to them but wont acknowledge them.

This background is so nostalgic I felt Pumla and colleagues in the room. Now this is bump love.

Thanks Ladies for this table shaking Conversation, its been bitter-sweet listening to the submissions of y'all!

Beverly is my new Pumla. Very strong opinionated. Love you lady❤❤

Flowers for Beverly for insisting on defending the woman. Mubutufu why wouldn't the man kuguma yet women are expected to do the same. These egoist conservative men brought up during war also!

@Nambozobev

8 күн бұрын

I receive the flowers. 🎉

@aidahal1482

7 күн бұрын

I hate such opinions, keep it for you,

@sandrahtusingwire6227

7 күн бұрын

@aidah hate it if you like, everyones opinions matters¡ besides am just echoing and questioning what the gentlemen admit to; if you are keen enough to listen before you throw your toxicity here!

@SwaimahCerlyx

6 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

For me I have vowed to give my husband peace as much as I humanly can. I know that the world out there is tough on men, and unfortunately, men don't have avenues like women do to share emotions. I want to be the avenue for my man to share and face the World boldly knowing the one woman in his life respects, hears, and hopes in him.

@ayebarephillip

6 күн бұрын

Thanks for standing ur ground

@iraenhe286

6 күн бұрын

This is sweet ☺️

@tkzeewendy

5 күн бұрын

That’s all nice and well but truthfully the world is hard on women ie; professions, religions, society, family and this is exactly the topic of discussion bse men are not held accountable for the things they do while women are held on high standards even lack of children now if my husband is this shallow not to understand that it’s hard for women than men, then I don’t want him. Have you heard of a saying that men love bitches? Men actually love women who love themselves more bse they challenge them to a higher standard same as gold diggers. Men are just trained not to talk abt their emotions bse they don’t want to show weakness but there are so many avenues for them to address their issues/emotions just like it was years ago. Some men today as you claim have no venues to address their emotions is bse they were abandoned from childhood they broken homes and the genesis of the probably started way back from his great grand father and no matter what you the wife today can do 4 this man, it will never be enough until his address the original sin.

@LindaAber

5 күн бұрын

And women ain't getting it😢

@kmymarie7265

5 күн бұрын

Bravo

This issue of not giving the boy child affection I think is the main issue causing depression and mental breakdown in men

The topic of toxic masculinity is happening in Asia too. I’m in China and it’s all over Chinese media and the women are speaking out on their experiences. Just because you haven’t heard something, doesn’t mean it’s not happening.

@aishahussein2122

4 күн бұрын

Toxic is across the globe .

Thank you Bumplove for hosting these two toxic men that are causing so much damage to the family institution! I hope this show helps to expose the danger of entrusting our children to a person like Mr Kuteesa! Other than projecting and propagating very damaging ego, what other productive advise can one get from those two? Sad that the hosts can even laugh about such pathetic submissions!

@joantumuhairwe3505

2 күн бұрын

Well said…Dr( I hope) 😊😉 We can’t be laughing at this toxicity. I thought Mr. Kutesa was born again. I don’t seem to hear anything godly and his tongue and descriptions are harsh but that’s how he had decided to build his brand. Mr Kyamagero,,no words. You are trending alright. Be truthful. If it’s for likes, and comments the show has got them.

Manuela, I like your submission on each gender being mindful and conscious of the extremes. Naye Banange men don't want to listen when we air out what we feel as women, Kaweddemu.

@manuelap.mulondo

7 күн бұрын

Yes we do need to be mindful for sure.

This episode has me triggered on all levels!!!!! Ahhhh🤨🤨🤨🤨 these men refuse to take responsibility of the their roles in how men and women turn out in adulthood. They are busy stereotyping women that were raised by single moms. What about men that were raised by single moms. Both of them are saying they didn’t get attention and affection from their fathers. That is not okay. They need therapy. There’s a lot from their childhood that needs to be addressed. “A man love towards his son is actually to detach.” Now that’s toxic. Boys growing up without love from their fathers has created men like these. No no. Unacceptable. Women were not created to follow. Society has made it that way. That doesn’t make it okay. You men need to know better and do better. And why is the lady is yellow quiet? Honestly it’s giving “Pick me. I am not like other girls.” 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@marianabanks8886

6 күн бұрын

Well said!!!! These men have grown up with harmful beliefs that they have perpetuated into adulthoood with so sign of progression. They need therapy!!!

@namutebimukasanissen9916

4 күн бұрын

Totally agree with this comment. Let’s also be careful how we mix culture and religion. If using the Bible as a standard we should not pick and choose. Jesus is King of Kings and yet he washed his disciples’ feet. Where are the servant leaders here?

@haryetta

3 күн бұрын

Hmmmmm… religion has its own culture that has nothing to do with other cultures. The culture in this discussion is very very different from the culture that was before so I don’t really understand what they are talking about as far as culture is concerned

This conversation is just giving a platform to archaic thinking. This is 2024, feminism aside we are in a world that requires men and women to both step up to keep the home running. As for single moms, I’m not sure why women are always blamed yet they stayed and stepped up. The reason for a man leaving a union is non of our concern, your decision to have children is above and greater than all else. Men should take responsibility and step up to father their children whether or not their mom was toxic. Stop outsourcing fatherhood to communities when the biological father is alive and well. We are tired of men casting blame on women and their personal relationships with the moms and then later blaming kids for turning out how they did coz their moms were single moms. Having children isn’t a game. Put your feelings aside and parent your kids whether with their mom or not!

I live in the comment section. Mwami Kuteesa asimbudde. I really love these guys they always have a lot to share. Mwami Kyamagero will represent us who love soft love 😅.

@nakityoroseddumba6911

7 күн бұрын

The Combination is Mwaaaaaaa👌👌👌👌 son of Namukasa yabuzeewo Kasuku

@gladys.k.1050

3 күн бұрын

He so did not 😂

This topic has brought fire on social media 😂😂😂😂😂as bump lovers, we are happy we are getting more views, we could get new commers too😂😂😂

@annahnabalayi1090

Күн бұрын

Okitegera 😂😂as bump lover the presence of these 2 Alpha males has injected the fire using petrol😂

Today's discussion 🙌 I believe we should reconsider the balance between traditional roles and modern expectations. It's challenging to achieve everything simultaneously and finding a sustainable balance is essential.

Seeing the men on set I just prepared myself to get annoyed😂😂 I love Bev and her submissions always🥰

@tendowinny1102

5 күн бұрын

😂😂

ho!!!!!! these two definitely subscribe to the same world. Very conservative men!

I know of a very grate man who stayed even when the wife didn't submit coz yah she grew up with a tough childhood and once God redeemed her she learned submission which she still struggles with ,but this man couldn't leave coz he had promised God before his marriage that he was in to stay. There are women who are better leaders than men

@bernadettemutuzo729

6 күн бұрын

Amen to that!

I havent watched naye the mere fact Mwami kuteesa ayambadde ekitengi....i can imagine what he is going to say...hoooooo

@ugandankitchen.

8 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂 You know him well

@dearwoman783

8 күн бұрын

Me just seeing him there, I can't watch. Let me wait for next Friday.

@thechristianperspective

8 күн бұрын

​@@dearwoman783i have watched today but i feel that he has relaxed a little, the last time i saw him on ride with the mulondos i watched for a few minutes and didnot watch the rest because i felt that he was being entitled.....i saw him on kasuku live and i disregarded the video immediately, however from todays show, i think 70% 0f what he says is bibilical and good but his 30 is a mixture of people that havent undertood love

@namiirojose6824

8 күн бұрын

​@@dearwoman783😂😂 please watch, there seems to be a romantic side of him

@anonnona6433

7 күн бұрын

​@@namiirojose6824😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it's just his mode of delivery. He has holy anger. Men are becoming toooo soft these days. The ancestors are speaking through him 😂😂

“wives align husbands and husbands align homes”

@joantumuhairwe3505

2 күн бұрын

We need God in our homes. We need to first get aligned with him. No one has the power to change a grown adult.

This is hot. Men that actually don't fear to say it and can actually hold a conversation yet stay polite, confident and sure of themselves. Respect gentlemen. Ladies thank you this is very educative and informative

Honestly i cant believe these men have such mindsets 🙌🙌🙌🙌 anyway exposure and environments play a very important role on who we are or become 😊

Such a toxic conversation! Manuela, if your intention is to build families; which I believe it is, such people should be locked out because their perspectives are terribly damaging! It’s very sad!

@faithamaro5134

2 күн бұрын

I completely agree. The submissions were a mix of lame excuses, entitlement, and blatant ignorance. It is unfortunate this episode even aired. I hope the hosts reconsider their choice of guests in the future.

@moses500

2 күн бұрын

Starts from the Western philosophy actually is showing so many divorces compared to India, China and other African Culture that groom the values discussed by Kyamagero,

Thank you ladies and gentlemen for this show! Well first of all it has got us talking and that’s good for the new season. Secondly, I think people will run to jump into their feelings over a singled out phrase without context, but if you watch the entire episode with an open mind to learn, you will find that it was an interesting discussion and awakening. As a mother of boys, I have learnt a lot. Thanks Ladies

Our society gives men toooooo many excuses…. Andrew and Godfrey have just confirmed

@anonnona6433

7 күн бұрын

May be it's not society but it's innate 😂😂😂🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️.

@Twine256-nx1pl

7 күн бұрын

The bar is so low … it’s in the basement 😂

@iraenhe286

6 күн бұрын

​@@Twine256-nx1plhell if you ask me 😂😂

@tkzeewendy

3 күн бұрын

@@Twine256-nx1plthe bar is in hell

so Kyamagero introduced an analogy that he had little information on 😂

@augandanbabe1702

3 күн бұрын

Can you imagine? 😂

Hello ladies, thanks for the good work. Am a big fan. Well, here's my view: I recommend Miss. Bev for representing us (women) so well. I picked out a few important points from both sides, however, I kinda felt disappointed by some submissions from men- they were ego-centric. Even not letting Bev speak her mind was toxic enough. Leave alone how Mr. Kuteesa kept on addressing her as "mwe abolozungu"..... what was that supposed to mean?! The men refusing to take responsibility broke my soul. Miss. Barbra choosing not to say anything! In a nutshell, this topic wasn't done justice enough.....

@gladys.k.1050

4 күн бұрын

Mwe aboluzungu was meant to shake her confidence as a bullying tactic

@nakafeerosusan8813

3 күн бұрын

@@gladys.k.1050 sadly! And my gal stood her ground. Bravo Bev

Love how much these men share❤ we are glad they are here🔥

Thank you Mrs. Mulondo for rescuing us from broken families and single mothers, Indeed just because we did not see our fathers growing up does not mean that we aspire to have broken home. In fact we have been empowered to want more and better.

while i appreciate the submission by Mr. Kuteesa on men stepping up, am not pro negating the soft skills required by the man and he seems to recommend that that part is killed. This in itself is what breeds masculine toxicity.

I have enjoyed this episode. It has given me all the fills from eagerness, ecstasy, anxiety to mention but a few. Also evocative of self reflection. I have also confirm that men would rather climb a mountain than accept to take accountability for their part in failing a home. But ladies thank you for the show.

But parents s that take their sons to Mr. Kuteesa for mentorship should discontinue because our daughters ain't ready for them

It's episodes like these that make me miss Pumla. She would have brought the feminist perspective wellll. Well done Bev 🎉🎉

@herbertkwikirizacollines4913

4 күн бұрын

toxic feminism

@ritaariho921

2 күн бұрын

@@herbertkwikirizacollines4913 😀😃

@kamarizajovanis3729

2 күн бұрын

Exactly my thought 🎉🎉

@kamarizajovanis3729

2 күн бұрын

​@@herbertkwikirizacollines4913 remember what's see as toxic might not be toxic to others

@phyby9651

19 сағат бұрын

Exactly 💯

Beverly looking royal in purple❤❤❤

@Nambozobev

8 күн бұрын

Thank you. Purple has become a new favourite

@JaneFrancesApila

8 күн бұрын

@@Nambozobev Same here, That's why only lavender air freshner catches my eye at supermarkets🤣🤣

We are missing the queen Pumla on this platform 🎉🎉🎉 come back please

@prossymugagga300

2 күн бұрын

Pumla is the reason why I’m not watching this program

@prossymugagga300

2 күн бұрын

We’re are you pumla 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

@apofiagrace5508

2 күн бұрын

I know right

Wabula Beverley thank you. Let's speak practicality and not theory!

True,women admire a man who can make decisions and lead

These men are talking and refering everything to their culture not knowing that some elements of cultures are also toxic

I will come back to watch.❤❤❤ finish with the work then 🤓🤓

I personally feel that there is nothing wrong with a wife washing the husband's feet if there is mutual agreement it is something the wife enjoys to do. It becomes toxic if the wife is taken for granted and the man feels entitled regardless of the wife's feelings and imposes that on her. That is toxic masculinity. Everything done to satisfy one's ego and yet without mutual understanding and agreement is not done in love and it leaves the other person un happy and overtime it kills something in that person. Love is not selfish and not proud

@jothamkamuhanda8706

3 күн бұрын

Well said Pat 😊

Wow...okay...ammmm...yeah...today was fire. Let me just say that. Thanks to the gentlemen for your perspective it is very much needed in this day and age, thanks Ladies as well for your wisdom in this. Naye nga. Eeh.

The gents are being biased on the reasons as to why father's leave😢😢

Bev is the real deal 🤝😊😊😊❤❤❤💃💃💃 Proud of you girl This episode is 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Well done ladies ❤

@Nambozobev

7 күн бұрын

Appreciation.

This is an insightful conversation into how men think....katufumbire abasajja baffe....the tone and choice of words is my take home today.

Its funny how a man has to give an example of japan geishas who were gal children that wea sexually exploited from childhood to please men en he goes ahead to reffer to those speaking out on the toxic masculinity en entitlement as fools,this breaks my hrt, him saying there are no such topics in Asian countries have u had of the 4B movement, i think it originates from Korea wc i believe is located in Asia, correct me if am wrong, then the first speaker, you are not a commander you being the head or leader of the family doesn't make u a commander, a leader is a servant, u being a man doesn't make u rude, rudeness is different from masculinity, his marriages happened in way back wen women were still taken in as properties, now its about love, y command wen u can ask

Bravery,I love you... May you grow more in wisdom and understanding

@gift2362

7 күн бұрын

❤❤❤

Hi Bump Love Is it possible to invite their wives or partners? Both sides of the story would be nice

Hey ladies.. ready for this episode❤

Bump love knows how to put us in line , reminding us of important things like ssebo, and serving hot tea. Ehhh I love u ba dia. The guests have said it all as well. Dress code for all of u. Wuuhhhh ❤❤❤❤❤cutest group dat I ever followed and I have never regretted! Love u, blessings.

Thanks for bringing Andrew kyamagero and Godfrey kuteesa. These men speak sense to me.

Hello bump love. I've been here for 3years now and I'm a Kenyan so i don't understand your language kindly speak in English or put for us subtitles. You began well but stopped at some point. Thank you for the good job you're doing, we are always inspired. Love from Kenya

@JescaMug

6 күн бұрын

They put subtitles please rewatch

I ENJOYED this episode and laughed throughout. That is when you separate the argumentS and their personalities. It was hilarious.

This show should be re-broadcasted again with Ruth Kalibala Bwanika ❤ it's so interesting. Thanks Godfrey Kutesa and Mr Kyamzzzzz

Bev blows my mind every time she speaks. You give me energy energy lady!

@herbertkwikirizacollines4913

4 күн бұрын

she was just laughing the entire episode

@mugumebenice3388

3 күн бұрын

​@@herbertkwikirizacollines4913u must b talking about Barbara.. Bev is the lady in purple.

@herbertkwikirizacollines4913

3 күн бұрын

@@mugumebenice3388 she didn't speak much either. The men dominated the discussion

@mugumebenice3388

3 күн бұрын

@@herbertkwikirizacollines4913she tried

@acandaritah9670

23 сағат бұрын

@@herbertkwikirizacollines4913 do you really know who Bev is among those ladies?

Worth listening to...well done team

(Kano kabadde ka bagezimuko wabula), this was for those who think critically well without judgement but you pick the lesson that fits you and your life. Thank you Bump love for bringing these men here. There a lot of things we women do and think they are ok yet we are affecting and pushing away our men. All in all, we were made to be cared for, to be loved, to be given and in return our submission comes naturally without being forced.

The combination of the set today!!!! I see fire. Mr. Kuteesa, Beve, Uncle Kyams, banange. Now let me watch.

Banange Mrs Manuela,🥰 y'all are glowing.

@namugerwajuliet4633

2 күн бұрын

Thought its me alone❤the lady’s elegance wow❤

Jarring conversation perfectly illustrates the disrespect towards women.

Thank you thank u👏👏👏👏I enjoyed...tinyoling through out😂😂