Worst date experiences, relationship red flags & exposing our ICKS about our spouse | Ep. 21
We asked you about the worst dates you've ever been on!
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Chapters/Stories:
00:00 - Episode 21
5:35 - Our Worst Date
9:44 - Don't kiss on the first date
12:11 - He texted someone else during our date
12:52 - He peed on the street
17:19 - He messaged me on HIS WEDDING
18:57 - He was a silverware thief
19:54 - He french kissed on the Ferris wheel
21:27 - His toilet stopped working
23:58 - He brought his mother on the date
25:49 - He dined and dashed leaving me with the bill
27:05 - He conspired with his friends to kiss me
30:17 - He hit on me in front of my partner
32:09 - He realized he was attracted to another girl
33:36 - My breastmilk showered over him while having sex
35:53 - He ghosted me
37:28 - He brought his girlfriend to our date
39:28 - He accused me of being posh
41:28 - HE PICKED HIS NOSE AND ATE IT IN FRONT OF ME
43:07 - He was convicted of assault
44:14 - I got my period blood on his family's dining chairs
47:30 - Having the sex talk with our kids
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I really prefer the episodes of just the two of you talking to each other. I like them all but I love the ones where you just talk about life.
@aaariguadalupe1
Жыл бұрын
Same here tbh! Love them.
@carmensamone
Жыл бұрын
Same! I agree! I like the ones with the guests, but I loveee the ones with just them because I feel like I'm learning more about them.
@kp782
Жыл бұрын
I agree - it feels so much more relaxing to listen
@shyannfries1122
10 ай бұрын
❤
@peaseofmind68
10 ай бұрын
Agreed
Sexual education with your children can start right from babyhood. Teaching them the proper names for their body parts is the perfect place to start. Start early and always keep the conversation going. This will help avoid an awkward “birds and the bees” conversation when they are preteens and educate them along the way.
@janidriggs6275
Жыл бұрын
This is what we did and we feel like it was very effective. We never had “the talk” but rather an on going conversation (age appropriate) from baby until the day before they were married.
@LivDB
Жыл бұрын
I wish I did this! I had my son at 18 years old & didn’t ever think about any of this & he’s 9.5 now & I’m like how do I even start this conversation 😩
@moderator7169
Жыл бұрын
teaching proper body part names isn't sexual education do you even know what Sexual education is
@moderator7169
Жыл бұрын
@@LivDB its part of life there's nothing awkward Its either you educate them based on their age and curiosity NOW....or peers and social media will do it
The guest podcasts are great but just you two are my favorite episodes. Y’all just flow so well together
@KKIvy
Жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!
@natashaschroeder5146
Жыл бұрын
Agree!!!
@godsgirl1031
Жыл бұрын
Agree
@realtaravlogs7223
Жыл бұрын
Yes agree
Abby talking about “cheating on current-me with pre-pregnancy me” is SO REAL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
4:46 What Matt says is parallel to Ross saying, "I grew up with Monica. If you didn't eat fast, YOU DIDNT EAT"
@jodil1209
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!!
@MicLilly
Жыл бұрын
I was waiting to find this!! Yessss!
I love your podcast! Married for 21 years here and my husband had to wipe me after I dislocated my left shoulder and it was in a sling, and my right wrist had just had surgery and had metal pins in it. Marriage is not for the faint of heart. Real life is not always pretty but boy is it a blessing to have someone who loves you enough to go through it with you.
Abby is glowing lately!
@tashaax1993xanimalloverx
Жыл бұрын
Pregnancy definitely suits some more than others! She looks amazing 👏 ❤
@Jamie-ry5ei
Жыл бұрын
Abby is glowing lately ❤❤❤❤❤pregnancy definitely suits some more than others she looks amazing 👏🏻❤ 3:17
@danbeedell1104
Жыл бұрын
I know
@nicoleonscreen
Жыл бұрын
@@Jamie-ry5ei You merged both of their comments into one 🤣
@defnoturmom1
Жыл бұрын
she’s always glowing, pregnant or not 🫶🏻
Love the episodes where it is just Matt&Abby together❤ such good chemistry!
@olivialayla6916
Жыл бұрын
Yep! Aside from Matt asking for podcast reviews every minute. I counted 4 in this podcast alone 😭 ppl will review and know that if you’re in the charts sponsors will give more $ but you could be more lowkey about your greed Matt. ppl are more likely to do it without the excessive asks! actually makes me want to do it less lol you interrupting the actual content to remind me how to rate the podcast like your fans are dumb and have forgotten since you last begged them for a review a couple of minutes ago is embarrassing🥱Just be self aware
@jennifermcnutt0530
Жыл бұрын
Yes, these are my favorite as well
Definitely always tell ur kids at an age appropriate level that no one should touch you in certain areas, often when kids are to young to understand they don't know how to protect themselves or even think to tell someone. Never to early to teach them safety
My 6 month old and I are finally catching up! Your voices soothe him so much because I watched so many of your TikToks while pregnant with him! We are huge fans!
With how society is these days it’s such a breath of fresh air to watch these two have such a healthy marriage; thank you guys ♥️
@MrsCarrieSnyder
5 ай бұрын
That’s exactly how I feel! 🥹 Brings me joy
5 stars! Matt and Abby are truly such a real life, go with the flow couple. Your podcast is my favorite part of the week, and I always feel like the topics you guys cover are so relevant to what’s happening in the world! Love this podcast, and so happy that you guys decided to start making these episodes!❤
I love how you guys can talk about anything and everything and still look back on the funny and embarrassing moments. I seriously enjoy watching you guys. I don't even skip ahead because every part of your videos is worth watching and relatible and so fun to watch. You two are such an amazing couple, seriously my fave.❤
Y’all are completely honest with each other…very admirable!
@UnplannedPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Honesty is the best policy!
One of my favorite episodes yet! You guys are the best! Keep on being yourselves and share your life openly and authentically. Sending love from Sweden!
thanks for the reminder to like the video! it’s so easy to get caught up in the good conversation points that i forget! 🙌🏼😄 much appreciated
I've been with you guys since the small apartment pre- Hawaii and hearing you talk about the gourmet restaurant was amazing 😂 Hearing Abby describe spitting out the food into the fireplace is totally you and hilarious. You are the best and so authentic. Great episode! Eating pretzels on my couch with the episode on my TV. It's like I'm with my homie Midwest folk
Watching the latest episode! Love seeing you guys do life together, the ups downs and in betweens. Keep it up, the juice is worth the squeeze!
I really enjoy listening to you guys. I love that Abby;s parents are moving in to help with the kids. Great family!
i NEVER miss your podcasts!! all of them are great, but personally my fav podcasts are the ones where it's just you two!
It's so funny and the stories crack me up thinking do weird people like this even exist when going on a date?! And its also nice to hear embarrassing dates that went well !! Great video Abby and Matt !! ❤❤❤
My favorite episodes are just with u too. Then the ones with ur family or friends we've seen in vlogs and are invested in. Just because ppl are famous doesn't really mean ppl care about then especially ur fans. We wanna see u guys
I love the conversations that emerge with you guys!!
Consent does not always have to be vocal, it's also given or not given through body language. For instance, when you start to lean in for a kiss and start to pucker your lips, keep your eyes open to see if the other person also leans in and does the same, that's giving consent. If the other person pulls away or doesn't lean in, then they are clearly saying no and not giving consent to a kiss. Body language is everything, you don't always have to ask, "may I kiss you?" You are welcome to ask to kiss someone if you are not sure
Love the Matt & Abby only episodes!
LOVED the episode with Shawn and Andrew! Love the East fam and y’all! Keep up the good work! Praying for y’all for a safe delivery and smooth transition to 2!
always loving the podcasts! i know this probably won’t be seen, but it would be SO awesome if the entire video has subtitles like the beginning segments. this may just be a personal preference, but it is just more helpful to follow along. very glad you’re both doing well :)
Another thing with forbidding any exposure at all to social media is that it creates a strong and potentially dangerous curiosity. Now the kid is going to be wandering why it's so bad and what he isn't allowed to see. So when he inevitably gets access somehow (whether through friends, devices at school, etc...) he will be more inclined to look at bad stuff on the web. Kind of like a forbidden fruit kind of deal. I have no experience raising children of my own, but that's how I was as a kid.
@jennifermcnutt0530
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Just because you don’t want them to have something doesn’t mean they won’t find a way. They can create accounts using computers or friends devices & you’d never know.
@sylviareimers7075
Жыл бұрын
One thing though, they say that not having a smartphone until 18 is wrong because no exposure for the kid to the internet BUUUUT as a 17 year old who only got a flip phone when I turned 16 and I’ll get a smart phone in a few months… I still am on the internet! ( obviously lol ) and just because I don’t have a smart phone doesn’t mean I can’t have social media! Like I have instagram and KZread on my computer and it works fantastic! I think it was perfect for my siblings and I! Also I do understand that every family is different but I am so glad my parents implemented this. I mean, I’m scared that once I get a smartphone, I’m going to be addicted to it like a lot of other teens 😬 but I do have awareness of that so hopefully I’m ok 😂😂 alrighty thanks for letting me rant 😂😂😂😂
I LIVE FOR YALLS PODCAST!!! I have an 18 and 15 year old and JUST HAD A BABY...my 3 month old and I watch these together now!!
Happy to see you guys back in your normal podcast setting!
I really prefer the episodes when it’s just the two of y’all! The flow is better & so much more entertaining
@chyeahh1098
Жыл бұрын
Saaaame
love y’all so much!! y’all’s videos always bring me some comfort at the ends of my days. thank you for being you! i pray everything goes smoothly with the parents moving in and with baby boy #2 being on the way!♥️
@UnplannedPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! Appreciate it!
I went on a first date...where we met at the restaurant. There was a long wait, so in conversation I asked him when his last date was. (We had been talking for about 6 weeks.) Turns out, he just broke up with his FIANCE 3 weeks before our date. I asked if he was really ready to date...he assured me he was. He was checking out the waitress's behind every time she walked past. It wasn't even close to covert. He had two sleeve tattoos on his arms so I asked what they were for. He rolls his arms over, and they were covered in swastikas!! He said he got them in prison for attempting to murder a friend after getting drunk. 😮 Needless to say, I left. I even drove to a whole other side of town in vase he tried to follow me home. Lol
@keepcalmanddanceon9128
Жыл бұрын
Omg 😮 glad you got away!
@beckyklepper315
Жыл бұрын
@@keepcalmanddanceon9128 I had already called a friend to check on me in 10 minutes if I didn't call her back. Lol
What Matt said about hand sanitizer is true! Most sanitizers also have harmful chemicals in them. They’re meant to be a back up for “in need” situations. Not daily use. When you’re in an area with water and soap it’s always best to wash your hands. Friction goes a long way. And we do have helpful bacteria on our skin 😊
@kp782
Жыл бұрын
Yes this very true. Good bacteria is very healthy and helps your immunsystem. Also you are less likely to get any allergies or autoimmunes diseases
Almost halfway through and y’all got me cracking up in this episode🤣 So glad I decided to watch y’all’s channel! God bless you and your sweet little fam!🤍🕊️
I love you guys so much you guys are just very comforting and make me feel like I’m not alone because my parents both have a full-time job I’m 10 and I stay home and I’ll listen to everyone of your podcasts and you guys are just so positive and I just love how you guys are!
I love this podcast 😭 I literally listen to it EVERY DAY! Y'all are amazing. And Griffin is literally the cutest!🫶🏻 Love y'all so much 🫶🏻🫶🏻
I only like the podcasts of the two of them together. With guests, its always just them complimenting each other and talking about the same exact topics.
I love watching/listening to you guys is my favorite thing to do on Wednesdays!! I wish Spotify's comment section was longer because I could comment all day! You guys are so true and genuine. You always brighten my day. So funny 😂 love yall❤
It's hard to find lighthearted but interesting content like yours! Thanks for all the cool videos 💙
I love hearing about how y’all already, and will, parent and monitor social media for your kids, especially because that is yalls job!!
Matt and Abby I absolutely love your podcast and can’t wait to watch it every Wednesday when I get off of work! ❤
@UnplannedPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
I'm a young stay at home Mom of two little boys ages 2 and 4 and I just wanted to say how much I have loved your podcasts. I listen to guys while cleaning, making meals or while out walking solo when my husband gets off of work. My husband and I got married young and had kiddos early as well so It's nice to have something so wholesome and real to listen to that I can relate to. Thank you very much for sharing your lives with us. You're a bright light in today's world and make such a difference in my life. 🩷 Keeping you guys in my prayers as Abby's delivery date gets closer. 🙏🏼 P.s. Abby's due date is on my birthday 🥳
My absolute favorite podcast! I love u guys! I listen in the car usually & it helps to pass the time & feels like u guys are right here with me. I love the episodes where it's just you two but I do also enjoy when you have guest! Keep doing what you love & making great content for us to enjoy ❤
This episode was hilarious! Thank you for making this so funny! 😂❤
Guys this one was amazing I could listen to you two talk to each other all day haha
Your pod cast is always great.
Great episode, guys!
I love your podcast!! It‘s the only podcast I hear and I enjoy it very much!!🥰🥳🙌🏽
I love it both ways. I love hearing directly from you and you interviewing others. ❤
I really excited for the new podcast episode
I honestly like your solo episodes better!
It would be amazing to have the Bucketlist Family on here! Been loving the episodes
Absolutely my favorite podcast/ show, you two remind me of my husband and I, high school sweethearts and married my best friend ❤.
I love this podcast!! ❤
Oh my gosh! The guy bringing his mom is like the guy who had his mom call me to ask me out for him 🤣!! I felt so much sympathy for that situation
Absolutely love you guys look forward every week for you podcast ❤️❤️❤️
@UnplannedPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
I just realized this morning watching this podcast on our TV my 4 month old reacts to you both it's the sweetest thing 🥰 Keep doing what you guys do best No longer a silent follower 😂
I love the podcasts! Keep up the good work! ❤
@UnplannedPodcast
Жыл бұрын
Yay, thank you!
Always fun watching you guys!
I absolutely love this podcast!!!
Love you're podcast , You both make me laugh ❤ Thanks for you're time !!
YOOOOO NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY! Love these videos! 20 weeks today we are so excited!
I am super excited I found your channel. I haven't found many videos keeping my attention lately until... KZread recommended your channel. What a breath of fresh air. You guys are the sweetest couple and Abby is such a great mommy/human. I relate to the crying over every thing. 😂😢 I love the videos with just the two of you. Yall make the perfect duo and are unstoppable. Excited to see everything to come.☀️
I barely started watching you guys a few months and I ready I love your KZread channel and u too
I usually don't listen to podcast, but I really enjoy listen to yours. Thank you guys.
Love you guys! And loved this episode!
My husband and I have both had talks with our girls. Both together, and separately. I want all of our kids, boys, and girls, to be able to visit with either of us about anything. Starting talking with them about periods and intimacy at an appropriate age is the best decision I feel like.
Loved this podcast! I always love the conversation ones between you guys and love that it included stories from other people. Maybe you could do pregnancy and family topics with stories from others or even gym/workout or travel type topics too? One thing I was thinking about recently was how cool would it be if you did an episode with Gabe and Jess!? Would be awesome - my two fav KZread couples in this age bracket :-)
My husband and I have agreed that our children will not have social media until they're adults, and probably won't have their own phone until they have a job to pay for it. There's so much danger on the internet and kids don't need to be anywhere around it.
@MegaQueenSerenity
Жыл бұрын
We’re in the same boat.. social media is so predatory for kids and teens
@jennifermcnutt0530
Жыл бұрын
Just realize if they have friends with devices they will have access & their friends will let them use their devices. Also schools are very device heavy now & they can use those devices as well. Kids are also buying phones off of each other at school & just using them with internet access so be mindful of that as well. These are just things I’ve seen as a teacher & parent so wanted to throw it out there.
@jordankapral
Жыл бұрын
@@jennifermcnutt0530 I appreciate the input! We're homeschooling so that takes a big worry out of it for us, and we hope to find like minded friends. But certainly a good word of warning for those who won't homeschool.
@jennifermcnutt0530
Жыл бұрын
@@jordankapral I honestly feel like that’s the best way to protect your kids.
Y’all seem to have a really healthy and uplifting relationship, so I just love “hanging out” with y’all as I work. It’s a good influence as a parent and wife 🥰🙏🏼☺️ Keep doing what your doing.
I loved this episode!
Love this! ❤
I loved this kind of podcast! Thanks for the great video. It feels like we are just hanging out and I love it!!
@UnplannedPodcast
Жыл бұрын
YAY! Glad you enjoyed it!
Love the podcast keep doing it
You guys should have Connor and Liana on a podcast episode in the future!
@yvonne8786
Жыл бұрын
Yes! I love them!!
Mat and Abby are the best podcast people in the world
Love these episode i sit there laughing out loud they are so funny and full of energy not like any other podcast 😂😂🎉🎉
Matt I agree with you about the learning aspect. My daughter is an artist and she has been learning and building things. She made her own claw machine by an idea. She got off KZread when she was seven or eight and it completely worked and looked totally real. Gave prices and everything. She also had her own variety of slime and slime business lol. There are good things but also bad you just have to find balance and also Supervision my daughter was very inquisitive and she still is and like you she love to learn and build things. She used it more in an artistic way, but I would not want to take that away from her in any way she loved her iPad in those ways and luckily we never had any problems.
I love how honest you guys are and how energetic and fun thank you so much I can't wait to see agie and I know that you guys are going to be so good with 2 babys I just want to say thank you for making my life interesting I love the episodes and abby is so strong and brave for how she is pregnant two times its so amazing thank you
I love your podcast.
Love episodes like this
“I’m regular “ Lol, you guys are so cute! Love the podcast.
This episode make me so thankful I didn’t date a bunch, and I found my hubby so young 🙏 We just celebrated 20 years together ❤️
so early and so excited to watch my comfort podcast
I love you guys sooooo much. Keep it up ❤
Awe Matt is so kind and supportive of Abby 😊
I’m making breakfast for my two babies who are 13 months apart watching your podcast! Lol love you guys!!!!! I can agree with your guy’s comment…. My first baby is calm and my second is the wild one😅 ❤
Love this episode …..so interesting .
I LOVE your videos! Your the best couples ever!!!
I loved your stories please tell us more ❤
I love your podcast so much!!!!❤❤❤
Love you guys!!💗
Eeeeee love you guys!!!! Y’all are so funny!!!!😂❤️
Love the podcast 💗
I enjoy the podcasts with guests but not nearly as much as just you two together! I do really like the guests that are your family versus other youtubers :-)
Yes yeS It’s a good day whenever you’re guys post a new podcast 🙏🏼🤩🥳
Matt, the "I touched the butt" joke is great! 😂
Im with matt on this one, “he touched the butt” is hilarious 🙌
Love you guys!!!😊