As a Protestant to Catholic convert, Father that first section is NOT boring. I love the idea that Protestants would come home to the Church however it worries me that they would bring that Protestant type of rebellion with them. We have to cease being our own "priests" and learn to be respectful and trusting of the institution of the Holy Church.

This is so, so good. I pray for the day Catholic men will stop looking to secular men’s groups, Protestant ideals, and their own wisdom to guide them on what a husband should be to their wives and simply look at a crucifix instead. Listen to this Priest, this is everything your really need to know!

@traddydad1997

5 ай бұрын

When women recapture modesty and prudence, I assure you this will come true.

@KatharineBernadette

5 ай бұрын

@@traddydad1997 Absolutely

@CitySlickerButtKicker

2 ай бұрын

​@traddydad1997 Even with modest women as men say they want, it doesnt assure just treatment of their woman. Maybe on your account, but you cannot speak for all the men because not all men are the same. You cannot rely on someone else to change for your own spiritual growth, thats not what God wants. You are responsible for your own charity towards others without contingency of reciprocation

I like this preist i love them all but i love how he talks so freely on a personal level to lift us up not worrying about what ppl think but cares about the souls i pray for you all preists no matter what the costs!

WOMEN SUBMISSION? Look no further than to OUR BLESSED MOTHER, MARY!! Period! .. Rest assured, feminist, liberal , angry women who want Women to be priests, don't bother to emulate the most humble woman in the History of human kind!

@marietav7342

6 жыл бұрын

SmithsnMoz Amen, brother!

@SmithsnMoz

6 жыл бұрын

Leonardo's Truth .. Well take it up with Our Blessed Mother, Mary who submitted herself to the will of God, humbled herself and was submissive to OUR LORDS HOLY foster father, Saint Joseph. Let me guess, your probably in favor of women's ordination to the priesthood..?

@SmithsnMoz

6 жыл бұрын

Leonardo's Truth .. "Power" is different than "Submission". If a husband wants "Power" over his wife for his own satisfaction and pleasures, this is wrong, But if the spiritual head of the household, who should be the Father of the home, sacrifices himself to do the will of God for his families sake of protection and provider of the needs of his family, a good and obedient wife would absolutely cherish and love that man, exactly the way our blessed mother did with Saint Joseph. I really don't know what your issue is??

@evaschroeder4020

2 жыл бұрын

I am a woman and I do not want women as a priest. I want men to stay priests and I am not a sexist.

Thank you so much, this has really been a bug bear of mine. My dad seemed to think my mam had to be obedient to his every whim. I avoided marriage as I didn't understand it and didn't want to be at the whim of my husband.

@hopefull61256

2 жыл бұрын

Yes abusive fathers not only hurt their wives but their children. This situation is further compounded when the man has control of the finances and knows they have no power.

@Gangari_the_Wanderer

2 жыл бұрын

How is your submission to Christ coming along? Just curious...

@traddydad1997

5 ай бұрын

🤔😂​@@Gangari_the_Wanderer

I wish Fr. Dave Nix was my spiritual director. From this homily, he would understand what I have been through and steer me where I need to be in my spiritual life.

Love one and other. Thank you Father, 3 Hail Mary's.

I've never heard a priest exhort his flock to obey him- so cool! Great homily!

Absolutely wonderful sermon! Thank you! Deo Gracias!

A priest that loves his flock. That's a good start.

thanks for this video father!

Roman Catechism of the Council of Trent The Duties of Married People The more easily to preserve the holy state (of marriage) from dissensions, the duties of husband and wife as inculcated by St. Paul and by the Prince of the Apostles must be explained. Duties Of A Husband It is the duty of the husband to treat his wife generously and honourably. It should not be forgotten that Eve was called by Adam his companion. The woman, he says, whom thou gavest me as a companion. Hence it was, according to the opinion of some of the holy Fathers, that she was formed not from the feet but from the side of man; as, on the other hand, she was not formed from his head, in order to give her to understand that it was not hers to command but to obey her husband. The husband should also be constantly occupied in some honest pursuit with a view to provide necessaries for the support of his family and to avoid idleness, the root of almost every vice. He is also to keep all his family in order, to correct their morals, and see that they faithfully discharge their duties. Duties Of A Wife On the other hand, the duties of a wife are thus summed up by the Prince of the Apostles: Let wives be subject to their husbands. that if any believe not the word, they may be won without the word by the conversation of the wives, considering your chaste conversation with fear. Let not their adorning be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the putting on of apparel: but the hidden man of the heart in the incorruptibility of a quiet and meek spirit, which is rich in the sight of God. For after this manner heretofore the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord. To train their children in the practice of virtue and to pay particular attention to their domestic concerns should also be especial objects of their attention. The wife should love to remain at home, unless compelled by necessity to go out; and she should never presume to leave home without her husband's consent. Again, and in this the conjugal union chiefly consists, let wives never forget that next to God they are to love their husbands, to esteem them above all others, yielding to them in all things not inconsistent with Christian piety, a willing and ready obedience. Ben Sira 26:1-3,16-19,24 [1]HAPPY is the husband of a good wife: for the number of his years is double. [2]A virtuous woman rejoiceth her husband: and shall fulfil the years of his life in peace. [3]A good wife is a good portion, she shall be given in the portion of them that fear God, to a man for his good deeds. [16]The grace of a diligent woman shall delight her husband, and shall fat his bones. [17]Her discipline is the gift of God. [18]Such is a wise and silent woman, and there is nothing so much worth as a well instructed soul. [19]A holy and shamefaced woman is grace upon grace. [24]As everlasting foundations upon a solid rock, so the commandments of God In the heart of a holy woman. 1 Timothy 2:9-14 [9]In like manner, women also in decent apparel: adorning themselves with modesty and sobriety, not with plaited hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly attire: [10]But, as it becometh women professing godliness, with good works. [11]Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. [12]But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to use authority over the man: but to be in silence. [13]Adam was first formed; then Eve. [14]And Adam was not seduced; but the woman, being seduced, was in the transgression. 1 Timothy 3:4-5,11 [4]One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity. [5]But if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God? [11]The women in like manner: chaste, not slanderers, but sober, faithful in all things. 1 Corinthians 11:3,7-9 [3]But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ: and the head of the woman is the man: and the head of Christ is God. [7]The man indeed ought not to cover his head: because he is the image and glory of God. But the woman is the glory of the man. [8]For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. [9]For the man was not created for the woman: but the woman for the man. Titus 2:3-5,9 [3]The aged women, in like manner, in holy attire, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teaching well: [4]That they may teach the young women to be wise, to love their husbands, to love their children. [5]To be discreet, chaste, sober, having a care of the house, gentle, obedient to their husbands: that the word of God be not blasphemed. [9]Exhort servants to be obedient to their masters: in all things pleasing, not gainsaying: 1 Peter 3:1-7 [1]In like manner also, let wives be subject to their husbands: that, if any believe not the word, they may be won without the word, by the conversation of the wives, [2]Considering your chaste conversation with fear. [3]Whose adorning, let it not be the outward plaiting of the hair, or the wearing of gold, or the putting on of apparel: [4]But the hidden man of the heart, in the incorruptibility of a quiet and a meek spirit which is rich in the sight of God. [5]For after this manner heretofore, the holy women also who trusted in God adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands: [6]As Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters you are, doing well and not fearing any disturbance. [7]Ye husbands, likewise dwelling with them according to knowledge, giving honour to the female as to the weaker vessel and as to the co-heirs of the grace of life: that your prayers be not hindered. Ephesians 5:22-24,33 [22]Let women be subject to their husbands, as to the Lord: [23]Because the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. He is the saviour of his body. [24]Therefore as the church is subject to Christ: so also let the wives be to their husbands in all things. [33]Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular love for his wife as himself: And let the wife fear her husband. Colossians 3:18-21 [18]Wives, be subject to your husbands, as it behoveth in the Lord. [19]Husbands, love your wives and be not bitter towards them. [20]Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing to the Lord. [21]Fathers, provoke not your children to indignation, lest they be discouraged.

@martinbogart

11 ай бұрын

Read the Council of Trent and the Church Fathers and ignore Modernists posing as Catholic clergy on this subject all together. If you have any other questions, ask Timothy Gordon.

@martinbogart

11 ай бұрын

God bless you for telling the truth!

@traddydad1997

5 ай бұрын

THANK YOU!!! Where was this in the talk???

Wow. This is the best homily I've heard in a long time.

@greypupofficial

2 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed. It is very refreshing because many prolific priest make the husband and wife dynamic appear more like parent/child and overlook Jesus's love for the church. Jesus wasnt bossy, he won over the church by inspiration not force.

@greypupofficial

8 ай бұрын

This... even Fr. Ripperger doesnt understand it at this level like Fr. Nix. And I binge watch Ripperger, dont get me wrong. But this homily made so much sense biblically and even in a Catholic example. Jesus loved the church more than the church loved him, even if the church is at fault, he still made sacrifices for Her. When a man can emulate this, the women will naturally be inspired by his tenderness and the man does not need to recite and demand submission. A real leader doesnt boss around, a real leader understands the higher the position you are in, the more you have to serve those you have headship over by making sacrifices.

A wonderful sermon 🤗 very balanced and holy

Thanks be to God! Thank you for this Wisdom!

21:41 YES, THIS. We need to hear this more often

I wanna go live in the woods ... but I won’t do it , I have to soldier on and when times get hard offer my pain to the souls in purgatory... Pray for me .. and I’ll pray for you...

@evaschroeder4020

2 жыл бұрын

Brother praying for you because I went to that place!

@Gangari_the_Wanderer

2 жыл бұрын

Actually, depending on HOW you go about it and what you DO there, going of into the woods to live a monastic life may be the finest way TO fight.

Forced submission is futile. A woman must be free to submit freely, for love cannot exist with force.

@MGTOWPsyche

6 жыл бұрын

Christianity is gynocentric, but the difference is more male authority, especially in the spiritual leadership sphere. Black widow Gynocentrism where ungrateful women chew up men is atheistic feminism.

@AM-os4ty

6 жыл бұрын

@EB - Shorter: Everyone acknowledges authority to please God and that in turn makes everything work well. When it works as it's supposed to, it doesn't look like anyone but Christ is in charge. Nice response. :)

@ChicagoIL50

4 жыл бұрын

When she knows God then she will understand her role there won't be a question of force

@JPX7NGD

4 жыл бұрын

But you do not seem to know what Love is. It is to will the Good of the other as other, and you fools are just concerned with "forced" and "power" all the way to the pit.

@JPX7NGD

4 жыл бұрын

@Fred Flintstone you are describing a demonic oppression, not Marriage.

One of the greatest homilies I've ever heard, bar none

Beautiful talk, thank you.

Damaged women can't respect a good man coming into their lives ! They've been so used to being told how useless they are that they don't know how to react when a true caring man comes into thier life !!!

@TheShamuraja

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. So how would you go about teaching them? I mean it as a serious question. And I suppose it is not always damaged but guarded. Just living life makes a person like that sometimes.

@greypupofficial

2 жыл бұрын

I'm as damaged as a woman can be, of men and of life, but when one believes and truly believes in God... love and obedience is easier when done in charity to God. That means you could love someone without necessarily liking them.

Fr. Dave Nix is incredible.

Thanks for such a wonderful sermon.

I'm proud he keeps mentioning Louisiana

Where is Louisiana is Father speaking? Or is he from Louisiana?

Read the Council of Trent and the Church Fathers and ignore Modernists posing as Catholic clergy on this subject all together. If you have any other questions, ask Timothy Gordon.

Dear Lord, give us the needed graces that will help us to do Your Will in everything we do. Amen!

Love! ♥️

Love sensus fidelium

What podcast does he talk on?

@hummingbirdee9389

3 жыл бұрын

@@inco601 yes. It does sound like Fr Nix.

I am so inspired by this and so thankful that the priest is so loving. I hope and pray Catholic men will take his advice and become like Christ to their wives.

Just like my other relationships, my relationship w God has been completely one sided.

🙏

Does obedience to your priest include if he forbids you to receive kneeling and on the tongue? Or if he requires you to wear PPE to attend Mass? Or if he insists that only those who have synthetic immunity may enter his church?

@jacobcaeli

3 ай бұрын

Priests are there to save souls. I am fairly certain that they can’t morally force you to wear or do those things when you also have the right to not poison your body or suffocate yourself. You don’t obey in something sinful. I the catechism even says you need to be free to make medical decisions like that. If your priest commanded you to get chemo, you don’t have to since there are risks from doing so and you can decline medical intervention if it’s a hardship, I think.

Must she submit if the husband insists on modest dress? Or something in defense of her dignity, even if she doesn't agree.

@wolfthequarrelsome504

4 жыл бұрын

Modest dress is dignity. There are Catholic channels on KZread on Catholic fashion.

@traddydad1997

5 ай бұрын

Yes! That is one of the instances where a husband's authority definitely applies.

What does it men though?

Mans love and sacrifice for the household outweighs the wife's? That is hot nonsense.

@liviagracie1443

9 ай бұрын

That came from St John Chrysostom, early Church Father :)

@veddermn8

9 ай бұрын

@@liviagracie1443 everyone makes mistakes I guess

@liviagracie1443

9 ай бұрын

@@veddermn8 that’s why the priest asked, if the man is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church, who loved more? Who sacrificed more? Jesus or the Church? The answer is obvious. :)

@veddermn8

9 ай бұрын

@@liviagracie1443 Yea its obvious that its completely and utterly BS. In generations past, sex often killed women in childbirth... what is more sacrificial than that. The arrogance of this thought is mind boggling.

@liviagracie1443

9 ай бұрын

@@veddermn8 i think you’re misunderstanding his point. There are certainly women who have died for their families and household, we have even canonized some! St Gianna Molla comes to mind. What he’s talking about there is that men are called by Christ to love like He did. they are called every day to prioritize their families needs over their own in every possible circumstance, even to the point of death. Since men represent Christ in the analogy St Paul uses in Scripture, they are called to love and sacrifice as He did. That doesn’t mean women don’t ever make sacrifices or that there aren’t women who love more than their husbands. But that husbands are called to have the same sacrificial love Jesus had towards the Church for their families!

Wow! I wish I could give this 1,000 thumbs up.

How to we respond to social media influencers like Casey Zander who instruct men that to get women to submit men must be heartless?

@jamesmccloud7535

11 күн бұрын

Not follow their advice

Word.

Didn't you upload this already?

@MeEdMetal

6 жыл бұрын

Definitely, I clearly remember that most comments in the older upload were against the general message of this sermon.

@greypupofficial

2 жыл бұрын

@@MeEdMetal I love that picture you have of Ron Paul, I met and took a picture with him 5 years ago. Anyway, I can imagine how angry the comments were for this homily. Its the superior complex those husbands feel over their wives. They skim through scripture and select only what they want to apply to their lives and wives, like many do when grocery shopping and end up buying wrong items. 😅

Wait.....the dude is afraid of lady bugs? They bite? Our lady? What is going on???????

@WhiteChocolate74

6 ай бұрын

They got some mean lady bugs down there in Louisiana

@FortisEquus

5 ай бұрын

Yes, he's "terrified" of ladybugs and telling the 21st century, testosterone-deficient Western men to stop being so aggressive... Lol. He didn't do his homily any favors with that one.

WHO IS THIS PRIEST? 👏

@hornatham1487

4 жыл бұрын

Christopher Prieto :Father Dave Nix.

@justmejimijo2810

4 жыл бұрын

What podcast does he have that’s what I’m wondering

@_Gaby_950

3 жыл бұрын

@@justmejimijo2810 It's called Padre Peregrino

1:48

Father ripperger he's an exorcist

@greypupofficial

2 жыл бұрын

what does father ripperger have to do with this homily

@evaschroeder4020

2 жыл бұрын

@@greypupofficial well he was talking about posession and I simply remembered he was an exorcist

@greypupofficial

2 жыл бұрын

@@evaschroeder4020 I know who he is and what he does, but where in the homily in this video was there mentions about possession or a need for an exorcist?

@evaschroeder4020

2 жыл бұрын

@@greypupofficial about how it's adams job to judge Eve so your wife doesn't become posessed.

@greypupofficial

2 жыл бұрын

@@evaschroeder4020 You are so vague! Still didnt answer my question. You don't elaborate on who said that, just rambling.

Is this a straw man argument? I’ve listened to and read a LOT of present-day Trad stuff and I haven’t seen any talk about men speaking unkindly to their wives as a positive attribute. It seems like he’s talking against a certain Family apostolate in Louisiana but I’ve never seen them put forth anything contrary or lacking, compared to what Father is preaching. Pretty standard fare, isn’t it?

@CKSLAFE

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I have the same opinion I completely disagree with the tone of the priest.. he could have said the same without bashing men. And what he said of our Lady was at best controversial.

@thomasmaddox8688

3 жыл бұрын

@@CKSLAFE If you think this was bashing men, I think you have issues with being insecure

@CKSLAFE

3 жыл бұрын

@@thomasmaddox8688 You have to discredit the idea not the person. In a discussion we have to care about the veracity of the statements involved in it not about who said them. You are falling in the same problem Katie was pointing: "A straw man is a form of argument and an informal fallacy of having the impression of refuting an argument, meanwhile the proper idea of argument under discussion was not addressed or properly refuted". If I say the sky is blue, the veracity of that statement is independent of whether or not I'm insecure, unless you don't believe in objective truth.

@CKSLAFE

3 жыл бұрын

@@thomasmaddox8688 What you said is a guess to the answer to the question of; why I said that statement, but not about whether the statement is true or not.

@CKSLAFE

3 жыл бұрын

Excuse my English btw

I have heard the teaching of how women should submit to their husband, and how men should lead their wife (like this video), and I think I've gained a better understanding why the gender war is the way that it is right now. When the video is about the how women should submit to their husband, there are a lot of comments arguing against the teaching "What about the abusive husband? What about the deadbeat husband? What about my dignity? Why is it that I only hear about women's submission?...." And when it comes to this video, "What about the wife who does not want to submit? What about feminism? What about men's problem? Why is it always the men fault?". The war will not end unless one has to give in first. And of course whoever that is will have a bigger cross to carry. It is not about how fair or unfair it is, but it is about following Christ and his teaching. But then again, how many people can actually do that?

Where is the corresponding homily for women on women's submission? I ask, because if this priest HONESTLY believes we are currently struggling MORE with men who are TOO aggressive, assertive, etc. and women who are TOO submissive--in modern day western nations--he is living in a VERY small bubble. Now, if he understands the problem is FAR AND BEYOND the other direction, then I can get on board with this sermon. It just seems ill-timed. Like preaching on the importance of fasting to an anorexic. MOST men today are FAR more likely to cuck to overly-aggressive wives demanding FAR more than their due. That's the situation in MOST PLACES--even among Catholics--in the modern western world.

@annew6275

2 жыл бұрын

You are completely missing his point. Men are called to lead - and by lead he doesn’t mean just have the final say on decisions or give orders since that is not leadership. True leadership is being a person someone will follow. If you be the husband your wife will follow there will never be a need to even bring up submission. Too many people both men and women are so confused by this. They want to, as he puts it, put the weight on the wife to submit even if the husband is being someone she can’t follow. And too many husbands then, also as he puts it put the weight on the woman, invoke some exaggerated sense of power and authority to demand or just expect her to submit and do as he says. What this priest is saying to husbands is if your wife isn’t following you it’s your responsibility to find out why and do something about it. This will require him to learn what her strengths and weaknesses are and how to shape things in a way that works for everyone. And the man, as the initiator of things, needs to love her first and this is what creates the possibility of her submission as the response to his love. You will not get a good result putting the weight on the wife to submit if the love from her husband is lacking. But to address your point, we do have a crisis with men who don’t know how to lead in a balanced way. We have men who are just bums and then we have men who want to do the right thing and lead but maybe don’t have good examples or know how. Too many think leadership is being ‘in charge’ or being the boss. Hence the impoverished protestant view that give one party in the marriage a permanent upper hand and puts the weight on the wife.

@Leticia-gj6zn

Жыл бұрын

​@@annew6275 such a solid response. Most men today want the privilege of "being the authority" without submitting themselves to the great effort that it implies.

@GoodGod2512

8 ай бұрын

Totally agree and in contravention of Ephesians 5:22. Would a pious lady scroll through KZread shorts while praying at the Church or reciting the rosary. If so would she be the same with her husband while he is besides her.

@FortisEquus

7 ай бұрын

Right. Men have been getting mixed messages for some decades now, but it's only gotten worse since the inception of social media... if someone's not complaining that we're too aggressive and assertive, and twisting St. Paul's words to say we ought to be submitting to our wives, then it's someone else complaining that we're too passive and uninvolved, and need to step up as leaders. Repeat ad nauseam until you have six Catholic men leaving the Church for every one man that converts, and what we're left with are American churches that are largely devoid of young men (with the exception of TLMs). I'm inclined to think that many modern Catholic women are only seeing us for our more superficial traits, such as income, rather than the heart. I wonder if they believe St. Joseph was a very well-off carpenter who submitted to Mary on every issue, rather than being a meek and humble leader?

@traddydad1997

5 ай бұрын

​@@annew6275that's the problem...women aren't following. What's a man to do then??? And what is a woman to do if she's married to an effeminate man???

God bless you Father Nix, but this homily missed the mark. If this was about a husband’s rightful duty towards his wife then you hit the bullseye but to have a talk on a women’s submission but all the while focus on men is ridiculous. It’s like going to confession but not confessing my sin but just complaining about where my spouse fell short. Instead of telling men to treat their wives like St Joseph would to the Blessed Mother, you should have flipped that to have women treat there husbands like the Blessed Mother did to hers. This was a golden opportunity to illustrate how she was above him in grace and yet submitted to him. St Thomas Aquinas says one of yhe main results of original sin is that women want to dominate men because God ordered women to submit yet you did not address that. We live in a day where we are overrun with effeminacy and feminism and you addressed this with saying maybe the husband should serve his wife instead of asking of her. Here in the real world there a ton of women who run their husbands and refuse to do anything they are told to do, I wish you would have addressed that. All the while you hammered a mans rightful duty in being a steward of his authority you never said what a women’s role was if he failed. Meaning even if a man expects a maid it is still her obligation to carry her cross. This homily only fed feminist and those brainwashed by the feminist the ammo they needed to shoot back at their husbands to say “it’s your responsibility to do more around the house, speak to me better, etc etc”

@TheShamuraja

2 жыл бұрын

Some more practical tipps can be seen for example on the channel of Elliott Hulse.

@mathieuconklin3146

2 жыл бұрын

Even trad priests are apparently scared to offend feminists. Why can't men just say the truth. Women, be submissive to your husbands. Period. Pretty simple. Then when giving a talk about men, go into the men's role. Every talk I have heard that was SUPPOSED to be about women's roles, they talk about the men's role to avoid offending closet feminists.

@Leticia-gj6zn

Жыл бұрын

St. Thomas Aquinas was not infallible, and his thoughts on women were informed by the very ridiculous Aristotelian theories on the nature of women, which considered women inferior, flawed, even a mistake of nature, all based on some crazy biological speculations. Citing him on issues relating to "the feminine" does not help your cause.

@patrickdunn8749

8 ай бұрын

Agree, this was a huge miss.

@greypupofficial

8 ай бұрын

I think you also missed the mark. Again, you're putting the weight on the women when God clearly puts husbands as the head. Putting all the expectations on women, then you're saying women should lead the family. If thats not how you see a Godly household, then the responsibility falls much more heavily on the Man of the house as he pointed out. This homily may have the title of womens submission, but this is geared towards the men in order to further understand the healthy Godly aspect of what that submission means so men dont asser the tyrannical attitude for the sake of headship, but done out of love. There are enough homilys and videos for women about submission, but not as much as for men to understand the proper way to lead by Gods design. Fr. Nix doesnt want men to do the bare minimum, he wants to make exceptional saints out of Catholic men. I honestly dont see a problem with this, especially once judgment comes, God will judge every husband and father on every mark theyve missed and failed over their family, even Fr. Ripperger stated this himself.