Social media ruined our lives in every way possible especially in the dateing game

@terrietoher4567

7 ай бұрын

Social media has also ruined our children’s mental health their outlook and their ability to think for themselves!

@billbelcher2592

6 ай бұрын

What about these podcast that you comment on.

@bobsag

5 ай бұрын

Maxim of Law: He who suffers a damage by his own fault, has no right to complain. The U.S. is a non-stop consuming Society. If anything blame yourselves for letting it happen. 😂

@Someone21985

5 ай бұрын

​@@bobsagthat's victim blaming

@mikefitzpatrick43

4 ай бұрын

Yes and culture and pop/rap music plays a big part too

Last generation: "I love you" This generation "How much are you worth?"

@codywarhawk7099

11 ай бұрын

*this generation of women

@cinknamloh1145

11 ай бұрын

@@codywarhawk7099 Mem are just as guilty

@candycane1744

11 ай бұрын

​@@cinknamloh1145oh yeah. Men treat women pass 20 like seniors

@moonlight.z

10 ай бұрын

@@codywarhawk7099 this generation of Misogynists

@user-dl3hu5rk7k

7 ай бұрын

It has to be six figures

Why would you enter a contract with a party who is rewarded for breaking it ?

@adoptmefand8054

3 күн бұрын

Reasons…I got bored…I’m not happy….I was lost, I was trying to find myself…and etc….takes all your hard work and sacrifice’s provided by the government aka the state.

College educated women leave 90% of the time! Wow!

@temporaryphase

8 күн бұрын

No. When there's a breakup, the college age women is typically the one breaking up . College age women/men still only divorce 20% of the time which is pretty low

@shacka95

6 күн бұрын

@@temporaryphaseyou both misunderstood that statistic dog

@The-olmec444

5 күн бұрын

That's why I don't do them... They are so illogical

@dfryman

4 күн бұрын

​@@temporaryphase These are made up stats

@user-hr7dz9ri7c

4 күн бұрын

Usually she makes up the facts that she bring

I love how pearl never lets them cut her off she just plows through🤣

@Opal5674

Жыл бұрын

Yes she spouts it out so fast because was trying to minimize the taste of the bullshite she's spewing out of her mouth

@ShaunHensley

Жыл бұрын

She’s getting way better at that.

@peterruane9220

Жыл бұрын

Mike control

@SuperTruthful

Жыл бұрын

and no man has wifed up pearl lol

@hattrick257

Жыл бұрын

She got that dawg in her

My ex wife destroyed our marriage, creating a toxic home for the kids and I. I started the divorce, 3 years ago. The kids and I are mentally and emotionally happier and healthier

@learnmore9485

Жыл бұрын

Good for you !!

@vannahtrrains9102

Жыл бұрын

I feel like a lot of people have this exact same story, but really it was toxic on both ends and both people had problems.

@likeitornot-cg1fy

Жыл бұрын

Good for you bro.

@jeffybezos9517

Жыл бұрын

Goat

@vanderumd11

Жыл бұрын

Never speak on how KIDS feel about not having their parents everyday

I as a man, have also ruined potential relationships

@MikeSmith-do5gu

5 ай бұрын

At least you can admit it...shows you have room to improve & you have good character

@bummpyhead1647

5 ай бұрын

I think you have missed the point

@MikeSmith-do5gu

5 ай бұрын

@@bummpyhead1647 nope you missed the point

@yhwhisking-dw2ie

4 ай бұрын

😂 You gotta be a bot or a homosexual

@FEHUBN_yuhn78

2 ай бұрын

@@MikeSmith-do5gu yeahhh:)

Women, leave abusers, addicts, and cheaters. Men expect women to stay through anything and we don’t have to anymore

@Leah.brooke47

Жыл бұрын

Women also pick abusers, addicts and cheaters.

@scottlaflame9857

8 ай бұрын

Shut up. You are who u attract

@ImaginaryAsh

8 ай бұрын

Look at the divorce rates between lesbian and gay couples. Lesbian couples are more than twice as likely to divorce than gay couples. So you blame men for women leaving, but when there are no men in the marriage the divorce rates go up, not down. In every country where same-sex marriage is legal. Highest divorce rate: woman + woman Lowest divorce rate: man + man. Stop blaming men for women leaving relationships.

@charlesnuel6780

7 ай бұрын

You're right

@Cmabry37

7 ай бұрын

@@Leah.brooke47rite lmao they like people that treat em like shit and ignore the nice guy so she need to cut it out with that foolish comment😂👆🏾

Loyalty is for people who treat you with respect

@OnoffUSA

Жыл бұрын

the average man treats his woman with respects lol, its usually the other way around.

@ddee5573

Жыл бұрын

@@OnoffUSA Having to be continually reminded to do or not do things is the opposite of respect There are plenty of men that have to be reminded to take out the trash when they can clearly see it, among other messes

@therealzodster686

Жыл бұрын

​@ddee5573 also alot of women who have to be reminded that their single friends are single for a reason and not to listen to them

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

​@@therealzodster686 I don't think their single friends are talking to them about garbage disposal.

@djjukeboxhero6491

Жыл бұрын

@@lizicadumitru9683 judging by your comments you love being a pain in the ass contrarian for team phagina. You just inspired me to buy stocks in cat food and dildos.

Women really don't understand how important loyalty is to most men.

@ilovmayo0238

Жыл бұрын

Ikr. How can they not understand this when it's equally important to them. The double standards 🙄

@ImBrockatron

Жыл бұрын

​@@ilovmayo0238 lol you hear these women say they're fine with their men fuckong other girls along as he provides for her... you won't hear a man say she can fuck other dudes...

@ImBrockatron

Жыл бұрын

​@@ilovmayo0238 and loyalty is not as biologically and mentally necessary for women as it is for men.

@vamp8903

Жыл бұрын

loyalty is top of my list ..both ways ...

@rebeccahughes7766

Жыл бұрын

Loyalty now aways to a man from a women's perspective. Run yourself to the ground till youbhave nothing left and me the super hero man is the one causing you to do so also do it with a smile or you have problems bc my love is the best. So loyalty is endure my abuse with a smile or else your a shit women...

Remember, this is coming from a woman who’s never been in a relationship since she came on the internet

@MyCatsChannel841

23 күн бұрын

This lmao l😂

@washedinhisblood.3906

23 күн бұрын

​@@MyCatsChannel841 Do you have to be in a relationship to quote statistics and make observations?

@RJ-mh3ox

22 күн бұрын

Everyone giving advice online is single not just her. People take this shit too serious like she’s omniscient 😂

@goten3965

22 күн бұрын

@@RJ-mh3oxbro it’s called statistics and reality you don’t have to have a job phd in airplane construction to realize what Boeing is doing is BAD and not safe same thing with this you don’t have to be in 100 relationships to realize most women prefer tall guys and to state statistics and studies done using divorce rate….. your clearly doing the same thing she’s doing but you don’t have ANY evidence to back your view that she’s wrong

@MS-ot2cz

22 күн бұрын

So you’re saying she’s in the 30% who hasn’t left the relationship…

Men should not leave relationships they should never get in them

A lot of men just live in quiet misery and I'm not really sure that's any better than leaving.

@ilovmayo0238

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. And plus, if you have a child who grows up seeing you being miserable with their other parent, god save the child. The guilt kills their heart.

@mrspeedtriple4948

Жыл бұрын

@@ilovmayo0238 that’s me

@mynameisntbobcullington3614

Жыл бұрын

Fear of losing his children. Men choose quiet misery over the thought of a spiteful x wife sabotaging his relationship with his children. After having to go through a expensive and skewed court system where he will likely only get to even see his kids every second weekend. The stats on divorce and custody show a hilarious catering to females.

@guygrimmett1764

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree! Men need to totally rethink the concept of marriage. Honestly, they have absolutely nothing to gain from it in this day and age.

@birdiedog5

Жыл бұрын

My parents have been married almost 67 years

The reason men don’t leave, is because we have no incentive to leave and everything to lose, if we do. Both in custodial time with our children and financially.

@Opal5674

Жыл бұрын

Yall are happy to try and hide a side chicknor two but don't want to deal with the consequences

@vanderumd11

Жыл бұрын

​@@Opal5674 MOST men are not attractive or players. Me on the other hand... Tall, attractive, ambitious, career driven... Not a chance I'd just have one if I make enough to support 3

@Opal5674

Жыл бұрын

@@vanderumd11 You mean there is no way you'd cin only one woman into thinking you'll support her if you can con an unlimited amount. Like How Tate brothers go to all these Eastern European countries to play off women's poverty only to leave the woman single moms.

@Opal5674

Жыл бұрын

@@vanderumd11 You mean there is no way you'd con only one woman into thinking you'll support her if you can con an unlimited amount. Like How Tate brothers go to all these Eastern European countries to play off women's poverty only to leave the woman single moms.

@vanderumd11

Жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 yes, that is a much better option than the typical outcome. If women have the nature to look for status and financial support then what the tates a Seem to do is absolutely correct. The rules are negotiable between the adults.

Single and happy.

@familystone773

4 күн бұрын

Absolutely, never underestimate your peace of mind 🙏🌞

@SamwiseGG

3 күн бұрын

Cope

@jalalrana

2 күн бұрын

You’re not happy as single - it’s against nature

Both genders can ruin a relationship

@Kamal_AL-Hinai

Ай бұрын

Talk in numbers.

@Blobfishkat

Ай бұрын

​@@Kamal_AL-HinaiDoesn't matter both are bad it's like saying all men are criminals just because men have the most crime rate.

@RJ-mh3ox

22 күн бұрын

@@Blobfishkat or “grapist” or almost all the worse shit humans do 😂.

@RJ-mh3ox

22 күн бұрын

@@Kamal_AL-Hinaitalk to humans. Almost every woman I’ve interacted with within the last 7 years has been beaten, SA’d, manipulated etc. men are definitely the bigger problem.

@Kamal_AL-Hinai

22 күн бұрын

@@RJ-mh3ox ask who they chose to be with. Convicts and inmates.

The one who actually makes the move to leave is not necessarily the one who ‘ruined the relationship’

@lisaspringer5394

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@madslasher18

Жыл бұрын

You both miss the point ; 70%

@DAce-vu5ct

Жыл бұрын

At that rate it probably is on the woman

@DAce-vu5ct

Жыл бұрын

It shows they won't put up with failure, mediocrity etc . No patience for them to improve, any mistake is met with divorce... No loyalty in women most of the time

@Emma-dt5tg

Жыл бұрын

@@DAce-vu5ct “any mistake is met with divorce” is a ridiculous thing to say and you haven’t got anything to back it up. You don’t know what life was like inside those marriages, nor for how long.

The moment a man or woman cheats, they've left the relationship.

@curtisjohnson6754

Жыл бұрын

Men don’t cheat, only women do….Men add to the team…..Strong teams win championships.

@hritviacharya8585

Жыл бұрын

​@@curtisjohnson6754 no🥰

@alissan69

Жыл бұрын

@@curtisjohnson6754 Statistically majority of men cheat more than women do.

@amirulnazreen1518

Жыл бұрын

Nope men cheat for fun, for our biological evolutionary

@passportpapi713

Жыл бұрын

@@curtisjohnson6754 absolutely , a man doesn't need or care to no most of these women's names when we smash, especially if I'm in a relationship, like just give me that pssy and be gone, or u can be apart of the rotation but I only love my girl type ish. Women get way too interested in a man she's cheating with which leads to her leaving the relationship, a man cheats to stay, bc he just needed that release and something new to make smashing his girl feel like new again. Ahhhhhhhh 😂😂

Tell this to all women raising their kids because a adult man wasn’t ready to be responsible

@rahulkumar-he3vu

Жыл бұрын

Or may be she just wanted the alimony and child support.. This happens more than what you are saying

@user-we6ls1fp2d

8 ай бұрын

Then why did she have a kid with him??

@marcalampi5036

8 ай бұрын

He didn't want you accept it

@dboot8886

8 ай бұрын

​@@rahulkumar-he3vu"I'm going to ignore what you said and say my own thing." Great job Einstein.

@dboot8886

8 ай бұрын

​@@user-we6ls1fp2d... you're a bit slow on the uptake aren't you?

What kills me about these conversations is that for every single mom in the world there's a single dad. But single dads are glorified and single moms are looked at as used goods.

@user-gq2yk6ko5m

Күн бұрын

because if he gets a chick without a child why would he chase single mom,who comes with a child that's not his

@rokthor7032

19 сағат бұрын

Didn't you pay attention? The difference is that women CHOOSE to be a single mom 70-90% of the time, which means the typical single father is only single because the WOMAN chose to give up or not even try to establish a stable relationship.

Women can leave and stay at the same time by literally putting nothing into the relationship.

@Metaghost-yl9li

Жыл бұрын

Argue over anything everything. Emotional strike. Sex strike.

@sherylrojas1

Жыл бұрын

😮

@plenaryverbalist

Жыл бұрын

@@sherylrojas1 the whore I wasted 15 years on had a list of “you need to…” shit. One day I asked her, “what are you doing to make this work?” “I’m here.” Her glorious presence was all that is required. Yeah. I’ll be single til I die after that. Because it’s typical for American women.

@instgtr5200

Жыл бұрын

omg exactly they didn't gave anything, and men are ok about it. Then they've decided to take everything, men started to felt pissed about over tolerance they were

@adrianaramirez5217

Жыл бұрын

men can too, your point is?

"A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands." Proverbs 14:1

@fatyle4380

Жыл бұрын

yea

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

Very true but this doesn't speak of the other side of what makes a the home.

@buffuniballer

Жыл бұрын

@@lizicadumitru9683 the wise man builds his home on a rock. The foolish man on sand. Matthew 7:24-27 Sometimes, we choose the wrong woman, we choose the foolish woman who turns out to be sand instead of a rock. Yes, we bear some responsibility, we chose to build a life with her.

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

@@buffuniballer Can we teach young adults to vet their prospective SO better as to avoid the foolish/wrong person? And if they choose the wrong person is it wrong to leave after sufficient effort has been put into trying to reconcile?

@buffuniballer

Жыл бұрын

@@lizicadumitru9683 - perhaps they can. The problem is people can fake it for a while. Or you don't see how they operate when under pressure. Life before and after kids are born can be quite different. Regarding choosing the wrong person. Again, perhaps. I'm not against someone leaving if (and it's a big IF) an unbiased third party says they are not good together. But on the word of your girls wine circle or your guys beer drinking gang, nope. I'd say one thing that would help would be to reform no fault divorce. No one should ever be forced to remain in a marriage where they are miserable. So they are always free to leave. However, it doesn't mean they take the house, the kids, half the money, etc. Unless they can PROVE marital misconduct, or in your case, a professional stating both parties were putting in the effort, they are just too far apart to get along, the one who wants to break the vows packs a suitcase and goes. He or she gets a bill for any child support and a visitation schedule. Giving up on your marriage and spouse without putting in the work should make being the primary custodian of the children and keeping most marital assets a difficult road for the walk-away spouse. Always free to leave. However, not free to just take everything because you are unhappy. Gotta do the work. Otherwise, you have to prove adultery, abandonment or abuse to keep it while unilaterally ending the marriage.

I can almost agree. I say almost because I heard a powerful quote I’ll never forget which is “How can you expect to have a good woman if you aren’t willing to be a good man” Now I’m not saying that it’s always the man’s fault or that there’s no good men in the world but i know of many instances where the man isn’t providing, protecting, saving, etc. and the woman is left to deal with all of the crap in their lives. Many women don’t want to be in a relationship where they are the only ones putting any effort into it, and it’s easier for them to leave them and continue doing what they’re doing without worrying about pleasing anyone else. Now, I’m no feminist and I believe in traditional values when it comes to relationships, but both people need to be putting in equal effort in their relationship and unfortunately that’s not always the case whether it’s the man or the woman, it goes both ways 🤷🏼‍♀️

@truehunger108

9 күн бұрын

Yeah, nah. They could get the man they want and still walk, Ask Ricardo Kaka, Brazilian footballer, best in the world at one point, handsome, tall, rich, and a Catholic, his ex wife left him because "he was too good a man". Make it make sense.

@christiancastano743

5 күн бұрын

Most men are willing to do their part, don't take a small amount of us to represent us all.

@rachaelbrugmans4309

3 күн бұрын

​​@@christiancastano743 Many women also put massive effort into the relationship. That expectation SHOULD go both ways. Theres always one person putting more into the relationship, but as long as both parties do their actual best, no excuses, there shouldn't be any relationship destroying issues.

@hannahkinnear7701

2 күн бұрын

100%, well said. I worked ft and did everything else, providing for him while he sat in his butt. I kicked him out vecause i didnt choose to parent an adult. Ive never looked back.

@christiancastano743

2 күн бұрын

@@rachaelbrugmans4309 the reality is that even though there are some women willing to do their part the vast majority aren't. While men are the opposite just a few aren't willing to do their part but the great majority want to.

Stay single my kings. It will save you a world of pain.

@charlesnuel6780

7 ай бұрын

That's not right everyone deserves to love and be loved

@HispanicApachemiwok777

7 ай бұрын

@@charlesnuel6780 that doesn't mean getting a partner is the best way to fulfill that, and many times, it's not.

@mal_3157

5 ай бұрын

Or date men, simple as 😎

@JimJones-kk8pb

4 ай бұрын

@@mal_3157 Enjoy tossing that salad 🥗

@deandredavis5264

4 ай бұрын

Definitely don’t do that. Just find a good one. And communicate

Leaving a relationship is not the same as ruining a relationship... People leave relationships because they have already been ruined.

@IForgetWhatISay

Жыл бұрын

Also only takes into account that the ppl who can leave relationships are women who can support themselves… most women don’t leave because they depend on the man being the breadwinner even if he’s a shitty person. Pearl has some nice points but sometimes I feel she just says things to target her audience. I REFUSE to believe ppl are this dense. Can’t even look at half the picture when talking about things.

@angelake7006

Жыл бұрын

Pearl just hates herself and the fact that she’s not a man herself.

@IForgetWhatISay

Жыл бұрын

@@angelake7006 hahahahaha she hates the fact that she’s a woman hahahaha

@Provocateurofendtimes

Жыл бұрын

​@@angelake7006hits a little too close to home for you?

@nonyabuisness1000

Жыл бұрын

Nobody, ever, faults a woman for leaving when they're abused, truly neglected, just in a bad relationship. People blame women for leaving when things can be worked out, when they get a small sniff of a man they vainly consider 'better' when they have a good relationship and just get bored. Also be careful when judging bad relationships, yeah some men are just horrible people but contrary to what television and people's one sided recalls will have you believe. Women, who are in control of the dating market, pick the men they're with. When they pick bad men, while it doesn't excuse the men for being bad, they choose the bed they lay on more often than not. There's always signs if you didn't see them you jumped on too fast and that's on you as well.

So glad my mom left my abusive cheating father, she left after graduating Beaty school and starting her own business. Me and my younger siblings were miserable watching him beat her, cheat on her and treat her like dirt. Peace out !! I got my masters degree, my brother and sister opened their own business. We are all killin it and in good relationships. Please talk about WHY women leave.

@adrianaramirez5217

Жыл бұрын

exactly! this woman just talks out her ass. she thinks she is saying something that makes women look bad. Like if men staying in marriage has everything to do about commitment

@JanieBgrand

Жыл бұрын

Good going!

@peoplearedumbasf3956

Жыл бұрын

Sorry that happened to you and your mother but the MAJORITY of men AREN’T ABUSIVE. You’re talking about a much smaller percentage of relationships where the women leaves because the man’s abusive , like okay that’s fine and all but she’s talking about relationships where there is no abuse/ all relationships in general that 70-90% of the time the woman is the one to leave. And the “educated” women leave more because they are so much more disagreeable, it’s impossible to have a civil conversation when you hold a different viewpoint from them. I swear man it’s like you guys have no common sense or critical thinking skills. Lotta y’all just hear things and react it’s like there’s no thought process i just don’t get it

@valsankumar1657

Жыл бұрын

Your mum was just as much a whore no matter how much you try to deny. Men are not monogamous, high time everyone accept that.

@adrianaramirez5217

Жыл бұрын

@@valsankumar1657 such a insecure, loveless and shameful comment. Go work on yourself, must be sad living your life hating and being so angry with anyone

I can tell Pearl has never been in an abusive relationship where the man cheats, lies, physically and mentally abused her for years. Allot of women walk away once they can't take it anymore.

@JohnDunn-ic5gd

7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤ Hello

@pfftwhut7638

5 ай бұрын

this is how goofy girls are, they stay in those relationships for YEARS smh

@Waffles2009

5 ай бұрын

And some don't. 😢

@trickdaddyaz03

3 ай бұрын

Yea she’s obviously not talking to those women. Don’t hijack the conversation

@Moonotter1

3 ай бұрын

​@pfftwhut7638 yeah because narrsasistic men like to manipulate women into staying with them or threaten them turing their families against them, they are good liars to, make everything seem like their the victim.

If women ruin things....then stop hooking up, marrying, talking, stalking, dating women. Leave women alone.

@risevision1080

7 ай бұрын

Men are, 70% of all men under their 30a are single/sexless/virgins and aren't getting married and are choosing to stay single.

@adyingtribunal6034

17 күн бұрын

We are. Look at some stats regarding young male loneliness and virginity. They’re horrified

@HospitalForSouls.X

15 күн бұрын

@@adyingtribunal6034we’re waving men goodbye! We won’t miss the abuse

@adyingtribunal6034

14 күн бұрын

@@HospitalForSouls.X your little gender war game has gone from protecting yourself from scumbags seeking to harm you to fear mongering that has caused an entire generation of young men and boys to accept that the only way they will ever find love is if love approaches them first which is a fantasy. Boys and men we both know for the most part are very much against the creepy and straight up shitty things women have to deal with/be cautious of. Men scared to approach first is why pretty much the only men who are attracting the high majority of women are the small minority of the most attractive guys out there, which leads these dudes to be scummy and unfaithful from all the attention they get, which leads these women to having their hearts broken and once again proclaiming all men are something horrible that only applies to a small group of men that most men also hate ourselves

@adyingtribunal6034

14 күн бұрын

@@HospitalForSouls.X your little gender war went from bringing awareness towards the shitty and unfair things women deal with to fear mongering an entire gender to the point where young men and boys are too scared to look at or speak to them out of fear of being seen as creepy or insulted by some chick who’s been gaslighted into seeing it as a power move. So many dudes have accepted their only chance to find love is if love approaches them first which is a complete fantasy that will never happen for most. It’s gotten so bad that the only men attracting the vast majority of women are the small minority of the most attractive guys out there who are either confident enough in their looks to approach first, or are approached by women first. When you have a small group of men being sought after by most women, these men are going to be scummy and unfaithful, unfortunately leading these girls to be cheated on, which leads these girls to walk out of the relationship preaching “men are liars and cheaters” based on experience that’s limited to the scumbags you girls always get yourselves involved with, making it even harder for the 85% of men like myself who are disgusted by the habits of these men and horrified by what women are forced to be cautious of on the daily. I know you won’t do this, but I highly suggest looking up the young male loneliness pandemic and reading an article about it

In west Los Angeles , married women age 40-45 leave solid guys making 200k, great husbands and dads…..because they are not happy. They never consider that happiness comes from within

@tallflguy

Жыл бұрын

Making $200k in LA is nothing to brag about.

@mrkoolio4475

Жыл бұрын

@@tallflguy well it puts you in the top 5% of earners worldwide and provides a nice lifestyle for a family. It is a lot nicer life than those earning 50k to 100k, which is the vast majority of Los angeleans. What % of people do you think make over 200k every year? My point was….these guys made enough money so their family could live in an upper class home, private schools, maid, etc. And wifey could do yoga etc from 8-3 every day without a care in the world. From what I have seem, the people that make substantially more that 250k….they aren’t much happier than everybody else… And sometimes the money increases the problems…..UNLESS you are a single guy…..then, life is a cocktail party.

@slaughterhouse8769

Жыл бұрын

​@@mrkoolio4475

@SuperTruthful

Жыл бұрын

explain to me why a woman or any person should remain in relationship when they aren't happy. make that make sense

@SuperTruthful

Жыл бұрын

a bad environment can kill that happiness from within

I stayed 17 years married to a narcissist. All because I was taught you stay married no matter what. Why I left ? My children needed one sane parent and their father wasn't sane. I escaped for my children. We were much happier without him. I was working full time, struggling with four children to feed and clothe but we weren't being tortured everyday. Guess what there were other men who wanted us.

@adrianaramirez5217

Жыл бұрын

dont explain, men need to say whatever it takes to boost their ego and compensate for their lack of competence

@flaggov6949

Жыл бұрын

Me too. It took medication to get me to the point I could leave. He cashed out our retirement to pay off his spending without so a word. It's a community property state, so I got to pay half of the debt he racked up while we were separated and waiting for the trial, as well as give him half of my modest pension. It sucked especially as I make 1/5th of what he does, but at least the days of enduring physically threatening behavior when I try to talk him out of adding more debt are over.

@paulmcfeeters5554

Жыл бұрын

My only question is why did you pick him in the first place? Didn't your dad, uncle, brothers warn you about what he is? Men know how to see throw men's lies, women can't see through their fronts.

@abhinavkumarsingh12c18

Жыл бұрын

@@paulmcfeeters5554 she probably didn't i am young but I have seen so many women making bad choices blinded by love but when they get whats happening to them they leave

@Sindi63084

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!

Who the hell wants a single mom🤣

@hannahkinnear7701

2 күн бұрын

Why not?

@charlesnagy1122

2 күн бұрын

I married a single mother 18years ago and I feel like the luckiest man on the planet everyday day of my life. She had a one year old boy when we met and then we had two more kids of our own, I love my family, life is awesome

@9Mountains9

2 күн бұрын

Some women were in abusive relationships or abandoned and deserve the love of any man that’s looking for family and love from a woman who’s willing to give it.

@grantdickerson7749

Күн бұрын

@@hannahkinnear7701 Because they have responsibilities of being a parent that I'm not interested in.

That's absolutely absurd! Women don't aspire to LEAVE relationships if there's no legitimate reason to leave. Shiiiiid some women STAY and ruin their children and themselves.

@pureheathen1720

5 ай бұрын

lol, yea facts don’t care about your feelings. Sorry.

@Waffles2009

5 ай бұрын

True, I think that there are definitely people from both genders who ruin relationships, also I'm unsure about the presentiges.. 😅 Pearl (from the small clips I have seen) isn't someone to do research, so I don't really have a reason to believe those are accurate.

@twenty1stpilot

4 ай бұрын

Going to quite my female friends, "women are always looking for something better". Apparently even if it means wreckless abandon, not all women can get themself out of toxic situations but they'll even leave if it's not toxic and move right onto the next. You could be the nicest most committed person but they'll still leave you if there's but just 1 problem that's resolvable but they just peace out without wanting to try to fix it, communication is foreign nowadays.

I'm going to say college educated women leave more than those who didn't attend college because in my opinion I'm going to say those educated women are more likely to leave because they are less likely to be financially dependent on their spouse

@msdeetteelaine5893

Жыл бұрын

These red pill people talk like they’re aren’t men out here manipulating, gaslighting, cheating and beating. Women do not just wake up one day and say, “Hmm. I feel like breaking up my family.” Some men actually believe that a qualifier of “wife material” is “how much of my sh*t can this woman take without complaining or withholding?” Women who aren’t educated may not have the financial independence to leave. So they have to stay in situations where they’re being cheated on and abused. Educated women are more financially stable without the men so they know they don’t have to tolerate abuse.

@stevejamieson8468

Жыл бұрын

Many times it is not so much dependency as it is they feel they can do better than their current partner/spouse.

@msdeetteelaine5893

Жыл бұрын

@@stevejamieson8468 If ‘better’ means no more abuse than isn’t that a good thing? But if she’s just leaving because he breathed the wrong way then that’s a bad thing 🤣

@stevejamieson8468

Жыл бұрын

@@msdeetteelaine5893 I am not talking about physical, mental, or emotional abuse here. But that would be a legit reason for anyone to leave.

@oatandhoney5338

Жыл бұрын

​@@stevejamieson8468 we'll according to the study that pearl is quoting. The women left because they were unsatisfied and the marriage wasn't working. They felt like the husband stopped trying and what not. I think i can find the link to the study.

Pearl: women are the problem. Women: it’s the men’s fault that we’re the problem

@naturalie2425

Жыл бұрын

Haha yep, that's all they got.

@stfa9553

Жыл бұрын

Jajajaja

@definitelynotedgar

Жыл бұрын

In some sort of way yes, it's our fault that we have empowered wamen.

@MuthaTucker-ss1ee

Жыл бұрын

the fact that MEN committee 98% of violence against women kinda points to men as the problem. so you can sit down.

@definitelynotedgar

Жыл бұрын

@@MuthaTucker-ss1ee the fact that WOMEN initiate divorces and destroy their families 80% of the times kinda points women as the problem. So you can sit down.

It's so crazy the amount of people who argue with facts😮‍💨

@KristyWillams

7 ай бұрын

Yeah 👍...... You looking so beautiful 🤩❤️ to ke here and I'll love to meet you if you can reply me back here ❤

@urmom6688-w4k

Ай бұрын

The FitnessGram™ Pacer Test is a multistage aerobic capacity test that progressively gets more difficult as it continues. The 20 meter pacer test will begin in 30 seconds. Line up at the start. The running speed starts slowly, but gets faster each minute after you hear this signal. [beep] A single lap should be completed each time you hear this sound. [ding] Remember to run in a straight line, and run as long as possible. The second time you fail to complete a lap before the sound, your test is over. The test will begin on the word start. On your mark, get ready, start.

That's why education is so important. Higher education equals higher pay. No need to stay in an unhappy marriage. Women need to be self sufficient

@yot330

Жыл бұрын

Then they should stay single.

@backatitagain20

Жыл бұрын

Let education be your man that way you can’t disturb a man’s peace

@shubhechyasarkar

9 ай бұрын

​@@backatitagain20great idea more women should hear this!

My first wife destroyed our family and a good part of our kid's stability and future prospects because she felt like she had "missed out on partying in her 20's" and wanted to make up for it. So she divorced me, split the home, and broke the family for her own selfishness.

@joskeyo4877

Жыл бұрын

Yet you married again? Do you love misery, buddy?

@ogrehaslayers605

Жыл бұрын

@@joskeyo4877 I'm a slow learner 😢

@ELIRAXPRT

Жыл бұрын

That’s so sad but I’ve heard stories like that before. I wonder if she will ever realize how selfish she was

@yvettegg1806

Жыл бұрын

Although selfish, If you're going to be depressed and not happy, You should leave

@ogrehaslayers605

Жыл бұрын

@@yvettegg1806 she should have tried being an adult. She was willing to ruin her own children's future.

Why is this statistic about women leaving marriages brought up, but never the statistics about “ why” they are leaving. That would seem to be a better way to give a complete picture and to form a more informed opinion on the matter. Seems like the research just stopped at 70% of women initiate divorce. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@joshtep6784

Жыл бұрын

Because the why is subjective and it can't be measured. Statistics based on actions and not sentiments point to a blunt and cold reality. Actions speak louder than words and it points to the problem at hand. Rising divorce rates and failing families is due to the changing reality of how women view marriage and maternity in America. Marriages were sacred at one point, safeguarded by family pressure, religion, institutions, and gender roles/expectations. In many countries, women are held accountable to their children and family. In America, women are selfish and don't prioritize their family over themselves (unless they come from multinational backgrounds). A society proliferating with woman with multiple children from multiple men or where women divorce men to financially ruin them is a broken society. The statistics back this claim.

@NighDarke

Жыл бұрын

​@@joshtep6784 You mean women were taught to be submissive little house slaves and put up with whatever crap their husband threw at them no matter what. That has changed. We're not putting up with your shit anymore.

@ginny3599

Жыл бұрын

That's because she's a pick me, so details don't really matter here. There will never be a proper discussion with her.

@blueflame3531

Жыл бұрын

Because they're terrible wives. They're amazing husband's. They lack qualities of a woman. Feminism has destroyed so much of your families and women will pay the price for it later down the line.

@Cbd_7ohm

18 күн бұрын

There is already plenty of research on that, bozo. Most women aren't leaving for no good reason. You just want an excuse.

I agree. I ruined my 14 year marriage and I regret it everyday.

She is so wrong. Women stuck to an unhappy marriage for the kids. Women don't just choose to leave the marriage if it wasn't too abusive to her. Most men are abusive by nature and sleep with other women outside marriage.

@franksanc

4 ай бұрын

You’re assuming that 50% of women are abused and unhappy. That is roughly the divorce rate. What percentage is “unhappy” and abused? Accountability is a woman’s kryptonite.

@Voodookick

3 ай бұрын

1/3 gay couples divorce, 1/2 of straight couples divorce, and 70-80% of lesbians divorce. this is because women are categorically difficult to manage a commitment with and more things disturb them for no good reason than it is worth dealing with eg. a woman will see you get hit by a car and turned off if your body flies this way instead of that the major challenge in modern relationships is that women blame-shift and refuse to acknowledge that they are part of an equation where both sides affect one another. instead they expect good treatment without regard for the happiness of their partners

@TheLadyDelirium

3 ай бұрын

I don't necessarily agree with Pearl, she says a lot of things that aren't backed up by research but you are doing the same. You are using a lot of generalisations about both men and women which statistically are not true.

@Yyyyyy123ssss

3 ай бұрын

​@@franksanc no of course not all of them , there are different reasons for divorce! What she said is true and happens and what you said also is true

@ian9toes

3 ай бұрын

You are completely wrong, it is well known that domestic violence is much more prevalent in lesbian relationships than in gay relationships. Women are the ones who are controlled by their emotions not men. It is also a known fact that a child is more often abused by their biological mother than their biological father, men are protectors by nature not abusers.

That "ok" came so quick...it clearly shows that she didn't give a fuck what pearl is saying..she's just waiting to respond...and not to understand what's being said.

@roninzanoni849

Жыл бұрын

When they argue with research and statistics all while only using opinionated exaggerations and wishful thinking. DayEmmm! Accept the facts and let it sinknin already.

@GetOverHereMK

Жыл бұрын

Listening to interrupt/or respond is the most disingenuous thing these guests do. It shows them to be incurious and utterly committed to their narratives that are refuted either by empirical facts or statistics.

So basically the smarter women get the dumber they get.

@JustMe54328

3 ай бұрын

Cmon! The Asian and Indian women in CA - most of them r smart n have good jobs, but there’s less divorce n less crime rate in their ethnicity. How many Asian and Indian female doctors or Tech employee women are divorced?

@HenrySimmons1225

3 ай бұрын

Bs

@SmokeNGunsBBQ

2 ай бұрын

Honestly most of you are wagee scrubs so I don't blame the girls. Sincerely - the guy who chicks were cheating on the bfs with.

@colonelturmeric558

Ай бұрын

No, not smarter. College/university is TRAINING, not Education. Semantics really, but intelligence and training are not the same. Going to college/university doesnt make one intelligent, just conditioned to a certain Field

@urmom6688-w4k

Ай бұрын

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There are 2 people in families and marriages no one is perfect...so we cannot blame one person for an outcome...grow up everyone

@jaimhaas5170

Жыл бұрын

then why do women leave 70 to 90 percent of the time. Stats don't lie. Women are quitters.

@kliciousone4706

Жыл бұрын

@@jaimhaas5170 well that depends...are you supporting your wife are you expecting her to work and still do all the household chores? are you emotionally there for her are you in a true partnership?and vice versa for men?...I'm not negating the stats you have but they are what they are for a reason and I don't think it's one genders fault

@jaimhaas5170

Жыл бұрын

@@kliciousone4706 of course it's one genders fault. Only if you can't understand math would that FACT escape you.

@kliciousone4706

Жыл бұрын

@@jaimhaas5170 No it's not... grow up

@jaimhaas5170

Жыл бұрын

@@kliciousone4706 typical female debate tactic. Can't win on facts so try to use emotion. Fail.

I prefer the term agreeable, rather than submissive. I think men are looking for a woman that does not fight them over every little thing. That is more agreeable. We are not necessarily looking for a doormat, the word submissive really leaves a bad taste in the mouth for both genders. Agreeable makes much more sense and it really means the same thing. Willing to work with you and support you rather than fight you get to prove she’s right.

@MJ-hg1mk

Жыл бұрын

That is b/c you have the wrong definition, of submissive, in your head. Submissiveness in a woman - man relationship is more complex & nuanced than agreeableness. Agreeable is A piece of it.

@markwillhite9200

Жыл бұрын

It is in the bible over 25 times that women are to be submissive.

@michaelshmaruk7485

Жыл бұрын

Semantics mean nothing

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

​@@MJ-hg1mk May I ask, in your opinion, what the other pieces of submissiveness in a married relationship is?

@nollitahmaboe

Жыл бұрын

@@markwillhite9200 a Bible written by men and people who colonised countries. It's not surprising to find it like that

There are reasons for a woman leaving. It's not all on the woman

That random guy in the background doing doing adlibs though.😂💀

I fell in love with a beautiful smart women who was 27 when I was 24. She had 4 children which I accepted and I'm still with her today and I'm now 46. She gave me stability in my life and saved me from who I was. I love her and still see in her what I fell in love with and she's 50 this year. Her ex was the one that ruined their relationship by cheating and got caught. I love the fact that she's strong minded and tells me when to shut up if I'm wrong.

@brownpleasure9320

11 ай бұрын

thats good but thats basicly a unicorn. a 1 in 5000

@darrellrussell789

11 ай бұрын

Could be you are the last choice, most likely she saw the wall and didn't want to handle her issues by herself the rest of her life. (Choices)

@brychristian3395

10 ай бұрын

@@darrellrussell789it was probably bc he’s likely a good man and not a weird Cheeto fingered incel who spends too much time online watching rage bait like this lol

@nudaveritas8195

10 ай бұрын

Beta...

@keldel4363

9 ай бұрын

​@@brychristian3395S.I.G.N....no serious childless single man takes up with a woman with 4 kids....😂 for crying out loud.

That's a really upsetting thought to think that a mother who lost her husband to war or illness is considered damaged goods and undesirable now. She could have had the perfect family and is exactly wife material, but because she is single now with kids, she's low value.

@Pro3110

Жыл бұрын

I'm hoping and praying that widows are the unspoken exception to this sentiment.

@cg5704

5 ай бұрын

that’s just a weird view. Sadly this is what society wants everyone to think or this new gen whatever it is but it’s sad the way things are viewed this day and age. We wonder why love is lost, everyone is required to be perfect in order to date someone anymore it’s insane.

@cg5704

5 ай бұрын

Everyone’s just jumping on bandwagon to make it this way also.

Not all women ruin things. Some women also know their value and know who to marry, and who to reject. It’s called knowing your God given value.

@mr.snapdazzle5416

28 күн бұрын

Hence the 70% of women

@richardgonzalez6583

27 күн бұрын

lol did you fail math 70 percent is not a 100 percent but those numbers no man should ever enter with those odds. Absolutely delusional you don’t give yourself value men dictate your value.

They don't like that women leave the most stat, because then it comes to oh he was cheating, he beat on her or molested a child I'm like WTF and y'all have always been the angles in relationships

@davidhorst9203

Жыл бұрын

They say generic BS like toxic or mentally abusive

@DB-sy6xc

Жыл бұрын

@@davidhorst9203 because what do you want them to say? The exact words they said or the exact tactics they used? It’s the internet. Anyone would just summarize it with the umbrella term. Look up types of abuse if you want to know what was going on.

@freudianslip2192

Жыл бұрын

I always bring up that women cheat at roughly the same rate. 24% vs 27% So the “men are all cheaters” reason is B.S.

@TheUnplannedLove

Жыл бұрын

@@DB-sy6xc what were you trying to bring to the table here? What did you add? I’ll tell you; nothing of substance. Maybe next time wait to comment until you have something worthwhile.

@DB-sy6xc

Жыл бұрын

@@TheUnplannedLove I’m talking to the David guy not op. It feels generic because it’s a umbrella of many actions.

i love how she automatically equates a woman leaving to ruining a relationship. never taking into account what made her leave in the first place 🙄

@peterruane9220

Жыл бұрын

Agree. Pearl getting lots of attention repeating the same superficial information that’s she doesn’t even attempt to analyze.

@whocares9413

Жыл бұрын

@@peterruane9220 she’s ridiculous. she preaches about how women don’t take accountability but never once holds a man accountable.

@tamarjonelle9746

Жыл бұрын

It's called, "pick me" energy. Truth is, it's never all one person's fault. She's doing this for attention, plain and simple.

@TheAchilles26

Жыл бұрын

Pretty sure getting paid for life for leaving isn't a noble or justified reason to leave

@whocares9413

Жыл бұрын

@@TheAchilles26 what

Look...it's because women get to a point where they are emotionally neglected and MOST men do not want to put in any work to meet her needs but still want his needs met. It's why on most marriage help videos you see a lot of very depressed women in the comments wishing their husbands would put in even a fraction of their time to learning what their wife's emotional needs are instead of expecting women to be like men. Life is too short to stay in a marriage where you feel unloved, undesired, invisible, and unimportant to your partner....especially when they won't even do the work that is required for a healthy marriage for BOTH partners. I don't even like divorce and don't believe it should be done without exhausting ALL options first...but even I can understand that women in older generations had to be silent about their husband's ignorance of their needs and HAD to stay in a marriage where she wasn't seen as the woman she is but as a glorified roommate. Nowadays women have a voice...and its speaking loudly that men are still very behind on understanding what their wife needs. It isnt money, it isnt height, it isnt material items....it's affection, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy. Without these things a wife doesn't feel emotionally safety which is extremely important in a healthy marriage.

@user-bc2kc9qz7l

14 күн бұрын

Lol, yeah ok! Woman are grimmy...period!

@Hakar17

12 күн бұрын

Why is it that the man needs to learn how she communicates and not the other way around? This is a legitimate question not some hot ya or whatever

@mysticmama_3692

12 күн бұрын

@Hakar17 men are straightforward when they communicate...women are not. The way we communicate is very different and even the way we feel emotions is a good bit different from men. It's just not that difficult to figure out what a man is trying to say...but women by nature tend to over think and over explain to where it is difficult to understand what the root problem is.

@Hakar17

12 күн бұрын

@@mysticmama_3692 Sure I understand that but I don't understand why it must be the man who adjusts the way he communicates. It seems to me that both parties should make an effort to understand the other's communication style. Yet for whatever reason it's seems to always be the assumption that the man must adjust.

@mysticmama_3692

12 күн бұрын

@Hakar17 I didn't say that women shouldn't communicate more effectively to their husbands or understand them as well. I was commenting on a problem common with a lot of husbands...which is why I didn't really get what you were saying the first time. Of course women need to put In the same amount of effort to understand their husbands and meet their needs too. A marriage is a partnership...which requires both to learn how each other communicates and how each other feels most loved. My comment was specifically about how women feel emotionally neglected more often than not in a marriage...I could write an entire article if I had addressed both sides of it.

Pearl be tripping hard. She clearly hasn’t experienced an abusive relationship so she can sit and run her mouth all she wants

@lucianacardona5250

11 күн бұрын

What the fuck. She is speakin in general.

@rayhan69420

10 күн бұрын

Women generally pick the abusers and not the nice guys So who's at fault ?

@MufasanoodlesFfds123

7 күн бұрын

@@rayhan69420 but that’s the thing right? Women don’t actively pick abusers as partners unless they are mentally ill or have low self esteem. Abusers reveal their their character every time a major milestone is crossed or commitment is created such as engagement, marriage and bearing children. By this phase, it’s hard for emotionally and financially invested people (male or female) to leave because the cost is high and fall into the sunk cost fallacy. It’s not a matter of picking ‘nice’ guys because at the true core, it’s compatibility and shared values that matter, not about how “nice” a person is. Anyone can be nice with ulterior motives, and be the wrong person to marry.

Women leave because after years of begging him to understand he doesn't care and she let's go.

@justinmohansingh635

Жыл бұрын

Well Shell, the majority of western woman goes for 20-25% of men, the men who already have a full line of women, but western women love to be side chicks, while the good men gets treated poorly. It’s 82% of divorces that are doing the divorces, not men. Everything a man worked hard for goes to a woman, the kids, house, apartment, car etc goes to a woman. The man has to start over again, let’s not forget child support.

@shellstewart6712

Жыл бұрын

@@justinmohansingh635 first off I think many of you all are delusional. NO WOMAN I know wants to be a damn side chick. Most women want a happy and productive marriage. There may be some that are happy being single and promiscuous but majority want a good man. Men tend to take that for granted and this usually starts the divorce process.

@justinmohansingh635

Жыл бұрын

@@shellstewart6712 First off I’m not the 20-25% of men you went after that broke your heart because you didn’t want a good man. I have a great American woman in my life, I work hard, cook, clean, volunteer for New York City cares, take care my family, my woman, and my friends, I’m Christian, so I practice what you preach because I am traditional. Like I said there’s good and bad woman and men out there, you have to be careful of who you look for, 78% of men are good men but women friend zone them for the 20-25% of men who’s well established or have a lot of women already, so he makes the women his side chick. Majority of western women today has a high body count, very masculine, aggressive, and argumentative. Again It’s 82% of divorces by women that are doing the divorces, not men. Everything a man worked hard for goes to a woman, the kids, house, apartment, car etc goes to a woman. The man has to start over again, let’s not forget child support. I have a four questions for you, are you single, do you have kids, are you over the age of 30, and are you a traditional woman

@shellstewart6712

Жыл бұрын

@@justinmohansingh635 so basically you wrote a novel to tell me I am the problem bc 82% of women initiate divorces. When I specifically told you divorces happen because women aren't being heard, appreciated, loved..... now you men will tell a woman she is aggressive, masculine combative because she is telling you where you fail and that's a problem. At the end of the day, if 78% of you are good men you wouldn't have a problem finding women to get with AND stay with. We know that's a lie. You're really upset that the type of women you go after isn't interested then you call them promiscuous....but they never slept with you. Make it make sense. Anyway I married and yes I will divorce it husband refuses to get it right.

@justinmohansingh635

Жыл бұрын

@@shellstewart6712 I already told you but you are not listening, I’m not angry at all, I’m in a happy relationship, you’re the one that’s pouring out your emotions. Everything I told you is a fact, I’m talking out of a place of logics, truth, and the whole picture. You’re talking out of your emotions, which is what you been through because you go for the 20-25% of men who already is well established, famous, or players with a lot of women. Western woman never goes for the good men, they would always choose the 20-25% of toxic men over a good man. It’s easier to find a man for a woman and it’s harder to find a man to find a woman. Plus you just proved my point, you’re getting a divorce, not him, so how is that a lie, you sound delusional as hell. Look it up and see for yourself, or Better yet, I’ll send it to you.www.divorcemag.com/blog/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men aninjusticemag.com/5-reasons-why-women-go-dont-go-for-nice-guys-78985037c169

No. Some men would rather stay in the marriage and be able to keep his side fling. Some men would prefer to be taken care of by their wife, as if she's his mother. Some men like having the ability to have sex whenever they want, without really having to try or go out and look all the time. There are SO many reasons people decide to leave a relationship. Can't blame it all on one side or the other.

@JoseDiaz-rd9fh

Жыл бұрын

Yes you can and the problem is society has conditioned women to not take accountability. And when they are held accountable it's a pittance compared to what a man would get. Men have mostly stayed the same women are the ones who have changed far more.

@claing17

Жыл бұрын

Yes you can when it's women leaving 70-90%. That's just caled being logical. It's a foreign concept I know.

@angelgreen7677

Жыл бұрын

Women have been oppressed for a long time, bro. I think they're just less willing to tolerate bullshit these days.

@ExquisiteTouch.M.M.P

Жыл бұрын

Well no not all, just a major majority as exactly what is being said here! Wake up. It is the reality of the world we live in. Is why I stay single and only allow myself to be around those that are exceptions to exactly what's being said here. Hmmm I wonder why I only have maybe 2-3 women in my circle compared to double that in males. Is because exactly what is being said here. The majority of modern females these days are good only for perhaps a one night stand if that and there is birth control being used!!!! Can't wait till us men have a pill we can take. But I think they know it would stop babies being born almost altogether .

@DB-sy6xc

Жыл бұрын

@@claing17 Then why aren’t y’all blaming the men? Do you think all these women are divorcing for no reason?

It's not ruining if it was already ruined imagine the amount of woman having to leave because a guy that can be abusive controlling manipulating disrespectful will not want to leave because they want to keep doing it Most woman leave because the man won't for that reason I don't believe in saying a woman ruined it if it was already ruined before the separation alot of times seprations are needed to be safe for your kids to be safe and woman do it from experience theirs only so much stress a woman , a mother and children can be under before too much is too much if the mother provides for her children and do whats right and isn't a horrible person I'm not going to downgrade her for her choices at the end of the day she is human and doesn't have to be committed to a man not even if their married because you can divorce but also because everyone has the freedom to change their life all the time that's just common sense it effects others but regardless if the woman was bad for a man and she left that would be good for the man if a man was bad for a woman and she left its good for the woman judgement on separations Is way to inconvenient theirs no reason people should be so fixated on it anyways

Yeah she is right mostly this happen

Pearl gets excited when she knows she's about to destroy someone's pink world 😂😂 I like when she states reality as it is

@SuperTruthful

Жыл бұрын

pearl is a pickmeisha that hasn't been picked she's a joke.

@bluebutterfly4308

Жыл бұрын

@SuperTruthful you think? Nah she does have lots of options cause she got values unlike women these days 😌

@label1877

Жыл бұрын

@@SuperTruthful Pearl has a large following. What exactly do you disagree with her about?

@SuperTruthful

Жыл бұрын

@@label1877 all the pandering to men.

@label1877

Жыл бұрын

@@SuperTruthful Yes, her target audience is men. However, I feel she is fair. I have seen her put men in their place when they say outlandish things.

She actually thinks that the relationship was ruined when the woman finally leaves. Leaving is the final solution Pearl

@Supreme36074

Жыл бұрын

You obviously have missed the point

@trashieaguillory7740

Жыл бұрын

The relationship was ruined before she left

@bryancoverson1333

Жыл бұрын

Leaving should not be classified as a solution

@trashieaguillory7740

Жыл бұрын

@@bryancoverson1333 it’s definitely a solution in a certain aspect. Leaving is sometimes the only solution. Can we agree on that?

@treycollins4918

Жыл бұрын

You obviously didnt watch the whole debate. The number 1 reason women leave men is because they want to find someone who makes more money than them.

I agree my ex ruined my life, I stayed home and raised our daughters and she climbed her cooperate ladder.

RIP short broke guys. I feel you. It’s not easy for us tall guys either.

A lot of woman are step up type chics . They see something better and they leave without a care even if kids are involved

@peterthethird7132

Жыл бұрын

Yea they hypergamous. Alot nowadays are narcissistic they'll happily ruin a dudes life to make their own better.

@gabrielamartiniuc6322

Жыл бұрын

Yep! I’ve seen women do this ! Destroying their children so THEY can have their selfishness fulfilled!!

@-Ordinary-Average-Guy

Жыл бұрын

My wife's friend did exactly that. After the romance sizzled with the new guy, she wanted her old life back. By then, her ex had already moved on. He is happily remarried.

@benanders4412

Жыл бұрын

A woman's marriage vows are only good until the man says, "I do".

@Vern180

Жыл бұрын

100% women always looking the BBD Bigger Better Deal... funny thing is, it almost always backfires on them!

I've become aware that it's the women's friends that are the ones to watch to get a feel of her personal preferences.

@karlmason6145

Жыл бұрын

Yep your bang on there dude, when my ex wife and I separated she hung with the slimy dishonest chick's not our mutual friends

@atilathesonofdanubius4277

Жыл бұрын

That's very true, however, that's supposed to be done before you even date them.

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

If she can't take their words and weigh them on "good scales" but takes them without any scrutiny...pass

All I heard was clever women leave when they make a mistake.

@voiceofexperience

Жыл бұрын

For men these days, marriage IS the mistake.

@sicilianr1

6 ай бұрын

🤣😂 we have different definitions of clever

@awoogaaah8597

6 ай бұрын

A clever woman who’s never been in a relationship talking about relationships

@Mrscheesecake1

6 ай бұрын

I meant the clever women leave when they find out they made a mistake.

We can be both men and women at the same time. No matter how hard it gets for a new experience we face, the hell with it...

This conversation sounds like women leave relationships just because. I left my first husband for a good reason. I had to. The things he was doing and saying to me made it impossible to stay. I know a few women who hanged on for years trying to work out problems that had no ending (men cheating constantly and verbally abusing them and their kids). From my experience some men are too cowardly to file for divorce and many of them don’t want to initiate the possibility of paying child support. I’ve known a few men who didn’t bother filing simply because they felt the child support obligation was too much. Just because the woman files most of the time doesn’t mean they’re the home wreckers. Many times it’s a choice they make because they are living in a nightmare that needs to end.

@brandondrew4914

Жыл бұрын

it's not just because though. women have incentive to leave and are paid to break the contract of marriage. the minute the marriage doesn't fit what they thought why not leave? and for men there's little advantage to getting married in the first place with the current social status quo.

@brandondrew4914

Жыл бұрын

it does mean they are the homewreckers though when you take a vow and don't uphold it. this is also where people should be thinking about whether they should marry in the first place. divorce should only be a legal option where one side isn't upholding. it shouldn't even be offered.

@brandondrew4914

Жыл бұрын

this is why men have such a problem with the lack of accountability women take. women do t see marriage as a lifelong commitment for better or worse. cowardly???? cowardly is leaving the marriage you've sworn your life and expecting that somehow the person who your breaking that vow to still has to uphold their end and pay for your things as well as your child's that you can't support while in your own care. at what point should a woman take responsibility for her own choices?

@brandondrew4914

Жыл бұрын

I actually remember your comments on here and said you were an 8 or something but your attitude ruins it for yourself.

@nataliaroos1493

Жыл бұрын

@@brandondrew4914 Agree with this (about 90%) It’s a cycle (on both) sides. It’s like the chicken and egg.

Precisely my own personal experience .. she left coz i fell on hard times.

@neyenice

Жыл бұрын

So sorry bro...yeah chicks marry nowadays for the comfort it brings,not for the responsibilities.

@apollo4556

Жыл бұрын

Thanks buddy ..

@gregorymarin6329

Жыл бұрын

I hope blessings and prosperity rain upon your life.

@Man_in_a_Gucci_Suit

Жыл бұрын

@@apollo4556 do you know where she lives now adays? Just Un-alive her

@allseeingotto2912

Жыл бұрын

It’s not your wife it’s just your turn .

Yes, a woman made her married husband go create a family down the street. Yes she ruined the family by not allow him to waste her time. Shame on her

@louisfriedli6876

3 күн бұрын

Once you have kids, it’s not about you anymore at all. This might sound cruel but it’s best to deal with the toxicity if you’re relatively safe

When your Guaranteed 50% of everything whether he earned with or without you ,why stay

@gloriamccoygl

Жыл бұрын

I got 100 percent. He cheated for years.

@johnsmithers8913

Жыл бұрын

​@@gloriamccoygl Interesting. Never heard of a man getting 100% if his wife cheated. Another double standard of the court system?

@divergentthg7925

Жыл бұрын

Yep no sense of being serious with somebody who's going to get praised for doing something wrong

@divergentthg7925

Жыл бұрын

​@@gloriamccoygl you mean you let him cheat for years. You still show no accountability

@johnbuckner2200

Жыл бұрын

Why bother in the first place.

I met my ex and she was still in college making 15 dollars an hour. I have a bachelors, make low 100k a year and my ex has graduated her master and she started making a little over me. she broke up with me because she wanted somebody more at her level….

@Tamer55361

Жыл бұрын

Trust me you didn't loose anything. Stay strong champ, you really got lucky there

@zeon_trl1326

Жыл бұрын

What a joke lmao! Forget her then you're better off

And of those men leaving relationships, almost all of them are the small percentage of men who can already get into relationships on a whim. A lot of men don't even get to have one in the first place.

I’m so down and depressed. I really hate my situation. The mother of our daughter and I split up. After 5 years of ups and downs, she realizes that she hates my personality to the point that we needed to break up. We’re coparenting in the same house and I’ll be moving from Texas to Florida to live with my parents as soon as our daughter learns to speak and communicate properly, that way she can hire a babysitter in confidence. I have no friends, my parents are the only people I talk to and they’re in their late 60’s early 70’s. I’m lonely, and I always feel alone. I feel hopeless and alone want to break away from the negative thoughts and energy.

This girl needs to join the #justthink movement because women don’t leave good relationships…Women leave disrespectful, soul destroying relationships (where the man is cheating and lying and has sometimes given her an STD)….If women did to men what they dish to women, the divorce rate would go up from 50 to 75% or more.

@Rowlph8888

Жыл бұрын

Such a ridiculous comment.90% FFS, and you still come out with this Crap

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

Seams good is subjective ...

@desleyrosas117

Жыл бұрын

Yeah no good woman leaves a good man period......

@hoyay850

Жыл бұрын

naw....women make half the problem, the guy makes the other half. Men want to fix, women want to bail and start over. Women aren't loyal.

@kimybarahona579

Жыл бұрын

Thats not even the point... she clearly said women RUIN relationships. Ofc people wont leave good relationships but even there are some people who do leave good relationships because maybe for them it wasnt good enough.

As a single father, I would tend to lean towards a single mother as she is more likely to understand that my kids come first.

@bbkr7910

Жыл бұрын

That doesn't happen and you are setting yourself up for failure. Even Abraham's wife wasn't down with the step-son situation.

@GORILLA_PIMP

Жыл бұрын

Playin with fire bro....big time

@killamrbxb1151

Жыл бұрын

Screw that, most of the time they're is a reason why she's a single mother 🤷‍♂️. Unless her baby dad died or was an abusive ass you can bet she's trouble.

@TheAchilles26

Жыл бұрын

She's actually LESS likely to understand that your kids come first, because she'll believe that you should be putting HER kids first

@coarsethread7581

Жыл бұрын

They always think their kids matter more than you and yours. Stay single and rock on

To my short bros. Don’t let that bring you down. I got a short homie that dances good, puts effort into looking good, can talk.. gets the nanni every time. You can do it too.

My physician wife started seeing other people then wanted to leave me 4 years into her career… trying to upgrade

@xxyyzzplants131

Ай бұрын

its a thing women working in hospitals are getting it on.

@joe7665

Ай бұрын

@@xxyyzzplants131 100% I watch surgeons in Milwaukee, Wisconsin get divorced for having affairs with residents, then he got fired for trying to sleep with med students. I know wives that made their surgical husbands take jobs in other states to get them to stop sleeping with all the females residents in that one hospital lol. nurses cheat, doctors especially surgeons, are just out of control males and females... doctors go to conferences, I don't know why they're called conferences anymore... they should be called sex parties lol those female Dr's are wild son. 90% are divorced for a reason

"Short broke guy" that hits me hard 😆🤣

@Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829

Жыл бұрын

Yea bcz she's like a 6 foot amazon

@SmokeNGunsBBQ

2 ай бұрын

Short ER. I've pulled plenty of pretty girls. Just don't be shortER. I wouldn't date a taller woman anyway so it doesn't matter.

I dont want anything to do with men if i get 1 goddamn heartbreak again im so done

She shut their Heat down like the New York Knicks!!!😂😂😂

@TheEarlThePearl1

Ай бұрын

Incel alert 🚨🚨🚨🚨

I want to highlight few things that i have realised through my own personal experience, as I was divorced after 10 years of struggling in my marrige Preventive steps should be considered as follows: - Marraige is not the destination its a journey to live together and compromising attitude should be from both partners - Communication is the key to hold everything together - Councelling goes a long way, there are lots of topics or concerns one cant share with anyone so go for councelling - Last but not the least spend quality time with your partner with or without kids - Stay away from social media, please dont share your fights with your social circle as people are only interested in entermainment

@lanaranger7339

Жыл бұрын

the failure to spend time with the spouseand children I find is a big thing. finance, reliability, communication also. they're not leaving because they're happy.

@mrjones4249

Жыл бұрын

How does a person "struggle" in their marriage.

@Wedding-creativesteps

Жыл бұрын

@@mrjones4249 as there was no respect, mind games, he used to ill treat me in front of his friends family. He was in love with another person but he was forcefully married for the sake of society, his family etc

Pearl knows, her father raised her right

@AguyR1401

Жыл бұрын

She's revealed certain decisions about her dating life that would indicate her father was absent during her upbringing.

@sharonthompson6838

Жыл бұрын

Is she single? Lol

@JediJide2

Жыл бұрын

​@RobertRobinson - that, and I think she genuinely knows men, not from reading from books or anything like that, she must have brothers, many siblings that are male. Not a lot of women have the depths of understanding she has unless they grew up with many successful make siblings

Hell no that ain't my kid

There's a huge deceiptful lie/question going around that makes people hurt other people. That lie/question is, "What do YOU want"? Not, "what do others want", not "what will others feel if you do what you want", etc..., but the only question asked is, "what do you want"? In other words, if you want to be in a better marriage, leave the one you're in. If you'll be happier without your spouse, get a support system and then leave. It doesn't matter who the spouse will be in 10, 20, 30 years. It doesn't matter what the spouse and/or kids want, what matters is what YOU want. It doesn't matter that perhaps there's a reason that God placed you exactly where you are for HIS purposes. All that matters is what YOU (your self-made god) wants. Ugh. I was told this recently and it sounded great upfront, but now it's just leaving a sour taste in my mouth. How could I up and leave the family with a young child? The lies also include, "is this the type of man you want your daughter to marry?" If not, then leave. Take her with you. You don't have to tell him where you're going. Play dirty. That's wrong on so many levels. Women, don't fall for the lies.

A lot of men don’t understand that women with careers and degrees are just bad for business. Harvey Weinstein and Kiki Palmer’s husband taught us that much.

Most men don't leave because... drum roll... they understand the word women value most: commitment.

@georgealvarez1195

Жыл бұрын

"Women leave relationships 70% of the time and it's 90% of their college education" *This absolute dumb brainlet*: "...they understand the word women value most: commitment" What a dummy. How do you hear that statistic and then say that nonsense.

@So_IndiVisual

Жыл бұрын

One's mere presence in a relationship is not commitment. Which leads me to believe that men don't understand women What women value at all.

@leannhoward7306

Жыл бұрын

Um, no. Men don't leave because why would they ? If she'll put up with the cheating and still cook his dinner and do his laundry that's a win - win!

@TheCrow2483

Жыл бұрын

​​​@leannhoward7306o Bold of you to assume I have a girlfriend/wife to cheat on I'm single and have been for 4 years and I'm not wanting a relationship and bold of you to assume IM the cheater in a relationship when I'm the one getting cheated on and mind games played on me my first serious relationship was in college all I wanted to do was see myself grow old with her she seemed to enjoy playing mind games and cheat on me I was 17 and the way it made me feel back then still sticks with me I'm nearly 40 now

@adrianaramirez5217

Жыл бұрын

most men dont leave because its cheaper to keep her no? isnt that the saying?

As an older guy, the one thing I have learned is that if a relationship isn’t working 100% of the women will try and get it back on course, and will say things to their significant other many many times before she gives up on the relationship and the guy doesn’t listen and does not pay attention. When the women has finally had enough and has emotionally already moved on from the relationship is when she hopefully leave, or worse starts seeing other guys. In either case, when she leaves it is total shock to the guy since for him he had no idea whereas the women tried and has already moved on.

@user-wn3gw7pe5t

Жыл бұрын

But you missed mentioning that she triee to change the man for a couple of stupid reasons while the man is performing perfectly in other areas. Many women have a negative didatic personality and they'll take a couple of flaws and make those the whole reason to leave a man. Haven't you heard them saying "He is a good man but.....". Everyone has flaws but women will take those two and make them a big issue.

@dmark2319

9 ай бұрын

Not true all the time

@ndhtyu

7 ай бұрын

Are you for real? Women monkey branch, educate yourself old man

@charlesthompson8917

3 ай бұрын

Not true

@jamie30701

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely wrong son I was married 14 years they do not always try to get it back on course. I was the only one that held my marriage together and she never tried to make it better. I served her with papers in 2020 best choice of my life.

Just a reminder that’s she’s only ever had 1 actual boyfriend because men don’t like her

Correction: women initiate 80% of all divorces in the United States. In a divorce situation, if the woman is college-educated, it raises to 90% that she initiated it.

@manda_musings8459

2 ай бұрын

Source, oh wise one?

Women are Ariel from The Little Mermaid. No matter how much they have and how good they have it, they always want more.

And many grown ups will tell you they wished their toxic parents would have parted ways!

@dawidszuleka4207

Жыл бұрын

they might think that and most of them might be really, really wrong - having two parents living togather, despite the lack of love is still better than living between two fighting for money and childrens parents, who will makes each other live a hell

@alexconfidence2354

Жыл бұрын

I am yet to see anybody who said that, they will rather wish their parents sorted their issue and are never toxic but they never wished for a broken home.

@lifebysanasaqib

Жыл бұрын

@@alexconfidence2354 Funny, I am one of those and I dont think like that at all. If anything, I think my mom would have found her own worth if she had parted ways. But 30 years later, she has become toxic herself. And I no longer talk to my parents. We need strong adults who can part ways amicably. Divorce is not the problem. NO ONE ever said you have to spend your lifetime with one person. What makes it bad for kids is adults not acting like adults, rather acting like kids and throwing tantrums even after separation. And wanting their kids to be part of the soap opera! Resentment and hatred takes everyone down, divorce or no divorce!

@alexconfidence2354

Жыл бұрын

@@lifebysanasaqib and you should be trying to be what they are not, not what they are because are we right to say you are or will be a replica of them, because you not talking to your parents already seems like a red flag to any partner. And I am sure you will have zero tolerance to any challenges in marriage or relationship as you will be jumping out even before the marriage starts. Well toxicity and abuse in marriages are wrong and leaving or divorce seems to be the only coping or survival mechanism but no one first prays that a marriage or relationship doesn't work. Your parents need therapy and it's so bad adults are so selfish with their petty wants than their children's mental health. Hope you get the necessary help needed both for you and your parents. 💡 & ❤️

@lifebysanasaqib

Жыл бұрын

@@alexconfidence2354 i started my work of not being them in my teens. My patience and my emotional regulation surpasses that of my husband. I am married with 2 amazing kids, who have the autonomy to live their life with morals and ethics. All my conversations with my kids are 2 sided, with logic and respect for both views. I didn't stop talking to my parents coz im full of resentment, but because I gave them lots of chances and I saw they wldn't mind making me a sacrificial lamb to satisfy their ego.

I love how she ignores any possible factors

Social Media and these ridiculous podcasts and influencers ruin relationships.

If men would respect the woman he is with then there wouldn’t be a reason to leave.

@G00gleY0utubecansukmyleftnut

7 ай бұрын

That goes both ways .

I’m college educated and tried to work it out with ex husband who is college educated but I will say… Once a cheater always a cheater in any manner. Point blank why I divorced after 12 years. Now I’m in a healthy relationship. ❤❤

@JohnDunn-ic5gd

7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤ Hello

@animangafan342

3 ай бұрын

Ya. I love that stat they always bring up that "women initiate divorce 70% of the time". Its amazing how they don't ask, "for what reasons?" Some attorney stats from certain firms have indicated "infidelity" is their top cause for divorce. Typically, it is the person who got cheated on who would initiate that break up because they are the victim & want justice. Also they are more likely to get something.

I know my family got ruined. I was working a 100 hours a week or more and she was cheating on me. And what did I get for my hard work was child support and no family.

By Pearl's logic: If the husband cheats, the woman leaves, the woman ruined the marriage

@kevinmaas9537

7 ай бұрын

No, not quite all that.

@Yyyyyy123ssss

4 ай бұрын

​@@kevinmaas9537in the video she used statistics and if you believe in statistics you can search and you'll find that statistics show that men cheat more than women and that married men are more happier than married women

There are many nasty vindictive women out there as well as many men who have no problem looking for the younger replacement or walking away from their families as well. It's very hard to find a good life partner these days.

@kerrymillar1267

Жыл бұрын

Exactly keep it balanced.

@111JenA

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@RobinXlone

Жыл бұрын

But there aren’t as many men tho. That’s the thing. Men divorce women 20% of them meaning that they stick around longer. Most breakups are initiated by women. Men are more okay with going thru rough patches in relationships.

@scale...3d

Жыл бұрын

No, it's hard finding a good woman. Good men are all over the place, just that women don't want them. They want a millionaire and a billionaire or someone who's rich atleast, that's what they are after.

@lizicadumitru9683

Жыл бұрын

@@RobinXlone Maybe men are just more stoic and are willing to deal with the difficulties then have to start all over.

Yea that is exactly what that number means. Very intelligent 🧐 most people leave relationships because the relationship is already ruined, it doesn’t happen after.

@masterdevoe2519

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I thought someone would make this the man's fault.

It's called therapy and counseling. Women just aren't honest. About what they want and who they want to be. Womens emotions constantly changes. Never get with a woman that doesn't have a clue about herself and what she wants.

She's obviously not married.