This is gonna save a lot of young marriages. As someone early in mine-4 years-it’s refreshing to hear honesty, challenges, and a commitment to covenant. Y’all don’t have to, but thanks for sharing and being transparent.

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

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NELLLL!!!! This is good!!! I’m single, 38, and a Christian woman…and I feel like I’m seeing marriage for real for the first time. Watching this really opened my eyes to the fact that I still have a fairy tale perspective of it. I need to be equipped.

Thank y'all for the transparency! Y'all didn't have to, but y'all did and I respect it 100%! As a young woman that's married, this is totally relatable in so many ways like wow! This is soooo good! I'm sure this right here will open people's eyes to fully understand that you don't know until you're in it! Period!

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

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This is going to help a lot of couples. Even seeing this as a single it's helping me. I was in tears because this type of conversation needs to be had. This perspective of the process is needed to be seen. Thank you for this, I'm anticipating the next part

When I say I can relate! Oh my goodness! The loveless marriage. And my husband’s refusal to divorce me. 🙏🏾God had a different plan. He wanted us to work through our issues and HEAL! We are happier and healthier than ever. It was hard in the beginning but so worth it to fight and stay committed to our marriage.

I love your swag, honesty, and your relationship with Cory. As a young married couple I love to see marriage in a positive light ❤

This is soooooo good! You have brought a new level of transparency to the internet!!

Girrrrl God blessed me..I had no contractions no morning or pregnancy sickness ...no refining until LABOR but had no natural birth either; c section mom ❤️ My baby is Sanai and shes 13 now and will always be my baby 🍼💕

That was incredible!!! I've been married for 12 years and I felt every word. I appreciate your honesty and letting us in.

My partner is out watching Tobe in the London show - i couldn't make it and was feeling sad 😢 I love yall so I went to check your page and this popped up. Now I'm here getting this good teaching instead. I'm divorced - I will say yall on track to have a life long marriage because you understand the labour of love that comes with marriage. Its some very very dark moments. But long as you STICK TOGETHER take divorce out your vocabulary and keep working on it I believe that yall are the real deal and will last AND be content. Much love and thsnkyou for being so transparent ❤️❤️❤️

Man you out here changing lives Nell&Cory!!!!! #WeFamily Family!!! Oou!! Keep doing the in person version I will totally make one! 🥲🫶🏽🔥

YO!!!!! I literally cried through this whole thing. Nell & Corey thank you for just being you and letting God use you two. If I had people like you in my corner I definitely would be 22 years in a marriage. You live and learn, but I definitely have God in my corner.

@p.d.6888

Жыл бұрын

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This level of transparency & dialogue is what the village needs. Thank you!

Oh yes this is great Nell & Cory!!!!! I love the transparency with each video. Y'all are out here helping so many people with The Process. #BlackLove #Htown

Marriage is top tier tool for refinement, I was watching this and thinking about how these conversations are so necessary. When you talked about having to be something you've never been before, as a Wife and even a mother mannnnnnnnnnn. I didn't grow up seeing married love and life in functional ways, neither did my husband, i'm glad that those coming after us will have these gems to pull on.

Oh wow! The honesty and transparency is much respected. I love how this series paints a real picture of marriage and not the cookie cutter picture of that many of us have about marriage.

I clicked on this expecting something else, but it was exactly what I needed to hear.

@producedbynell

11 ай бұрын

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I’m not even 5 mins in and this is already amazing!

When you get in that way, they don’t want you there‼️ Whew preach🙌

Y’all just blessed me 🙏🏽

Whewwww!!!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!

I know she didn't say, "It's refining!" 😂😂😂😂

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 listen!! I was searching for palatable words!!

I really enjoy y’all so much

This right here!!! wheww! Thank you guys for sharing. ❤

Thank you for sharing your story!

So transparent, loved it. Great to see you two pushed through to the other side.

the transparency is much appreciated cant wait till tm

Listen the beauty in all this is the "Each one teach one" approach that you both are taking.. me and my husband have 7 years in and I wish we had peers like you both when we were starting out! This is a true blessing 🙌🏾 🙏🏾 💐

I love this couple.

So deep. I have so much to say, yet I'm lost for words. Wow!

All of this Nell! I’m 4 years in and this was what I needed to hear. Thank you for keeping it 💯

This is so sincere and encouraging. I love you guys.

This helped me so much, thank you 🙏🏽 ❤️

This was soooooo good you both are so smart and articulate and relatable

Dang thanks for the insight, diggin the series.

Thank you both for your transparency and sharing your story with the world. A lot of people will be helped by this. ❤️

I appreciate the transparency. You are so necessary.

this is so good 💛

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very good yal!!! thank you for your courage to give a glimpse of you alls relationship with the imtent to help others. We appreciated. Thank You!!!!

This is GOOD STUFF!!! People never get this deep and create the visual So Vividly. I have been there and this is the part where I jump off. I refuse to be "alone" inside of what's supposed to be a union. I'm excited about how you both are showing what owning your own stuff looks like and how you each individually had to recommit to doing YOUR WORK toward walking out of the darkness together.

Yoooo, thank you for this!!! Transparency is what is missing today and this is the truth. I got a glimpse of who I am thru this and what I need to be aware of in a relationship/marriage. Thank you, thank you, thank you! 🔥🔥🔥

One of the most authentic and honest things I've heard. This is necessary.

This is so real! I love watching you guys on IG and I am more and more becoming such a fan of you Nell. It's real out here in marriage land and I appreciate you guys honest and realness. This is what people need to hear, the real process of making a marriage work 💪🏾💕. You are inspiring me in what I want to share with the world as I go forth in my purpose 💕

This is amazing content. Literally gold. As a 20 sum about to explore this journey, thank you.

I'm not even through the whole vid yet and already this is so good, so necessary. God's work! Let's go! Let's talk about it! Appreciate you and Cory for this, truly. Been a long time since I had a solid conversation about marriage; use to all the time when we had friends that were closer to us in location. But it's nice to hear and hold conversation about very real things with people that are very real in their feelings about those things.

woaaahmygawd this has helped me tremendously. Newly married. Can’t thank you enough for the rawness & transparency

Thank you for your transparency

Y’all this was so good. So relatable. Watching it for the second time. Thank you for your vulnerability.

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

Wow! My husband and I have been married almost 10 years and I distinctly remember that transitional phase in the beginning. Man that was rough! It takes so much prayer and work to get through it! Thanks for using your platform to let people know your marriage can survive this!

Wow!!!! Just wow. This is about to change some households

Nell… ma’am this is so raw. I thank God for using y’all as a platform for marriage. This is so needed.

I love the way you both love each other. Yes it’s hard, but you made it through and continue to do amazing things. One of my favorite videos you both talk about is how aggressively Nell loves on Cory. I feel like I love aggressively and no one understands.

I love this!

thank you for this.

Now THIS is some deep stuff. When people say marriage is hard, u don’t know what they are talking about until you get in it. But this is a great example of it.

This was good stuff !!! 👏

Very powerful conversation

YOOOOOOOOOO 🤦🏾‍♀️ this was deep!

Maaaaaaaannnnnnnnn sayyyyyyyyyy I love Y’all’s realness……. sending blessing from North Texas

This is beautiful, real, and rare. Having someone that won’t give up on you despite life’s circumstances. If I ever find this I’ll never let it go. I hate the streets 🥺

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

I wanna laugh at that last part.. but I know you serious. Stay strong out here sis!

Y’all letting us have it!

This is good.

This!!!!

Refinement ❤

🗣️My Cousins are soooo DOPE!!!

Can y'all go deeper into the desire (need) to be loved with intention?..this is so important and you two as a couple illustrate it over and over again.

Thank you for sharing. A lot of marriages are ended because people enter into marriage with a dating mentality, not don't understand that marriage takes commitment, communication, & the willingness to change on both sides to operate as one.

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

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It’s like looking at a reflection of my marriage

Yeah Nell!! Yeah Cory!!! (Screaming from the stands) yall out here doing God's work!! This was lightweight scary to watch...the amount of vulnerability AND accountability in this video is a testament to y'all's ship!! Yall are dope individuals that create even more DOPEness in unison...I look forward to these.. imma stop commenting tho... I'm starting to look real fangirlish 😆... I mean I'm a fan frfr but dang...we gotta stop meeting like this

I was trying to kick the door down, if my husbands heart!!!! Dammit!!!! This tewwww much😂😂😂 I’m too agressive 😩😩😩😩😩

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

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Low key I see how you're trying to make me write in a journal LOL I JUST told my bestie yesterday I hate journals because 1. They aren't safe (private) and 2. I always feel disgusted with myself lol. It always sounds so weak and whiny OR so full of anger. I told her the fact that I'm so against it likely means it's the thing I should do but I'm gonna color instead LMAO!!!! Now here you go...showing how productive it really can be! I'm still not ready though lol

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

😂😂 not coloring!!!

@emiolaomotayo7497

Жыл бұрын

LOL Ya girl colors like a pro! My gel pen game is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

No one heard Nell say ' I'm pregnant'? Or was this taped before Cori -Rae? ( Hope I spelt it right)

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

Lol pre Cori Rae

@godsent113

Жыл бұрын

@@producedbynell Right! Right! 😊

So is this Nell’s journal she had when she first got married?

Man. I'm 6 years in my marriage and we're lost. Just... divided but not willing to give up.

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

“And the two became one” … that is God’s intention. So the enemy’s plan is for us to remain divided. FIGHT for your oneness!!

Ain’t the marriage itself the permission?

@producedbynell

Жыл бұрын

Yes! And No… like technically it should, but if you don’t have the right tools and posture, it won’t work.

(@Monee_121 here) WHEW. This was deep. Thank you both for the vulnerability and HONESTY!! We need more of this to help marriages today because it isn't all fairy tales, it gets hard, and sometimes you look in the mirror and say "I don't think I want to stay married." My husband and I are in the best place ever right now, but it's only because we remained committed to each other in the worst of times. As much as those times hurt, it molded us into how we are now and like you said I'm thankful. God gets the glory! Love y'all man.