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@mazenbahaj7549

Жыл бұрын

dear alexander grace .. when you say women love doing something there are billions of women on earth and they dont all think the same .. i think it is unfair and unrealistic .. i respect you alot and appreciate you .. please dont put all women in one basket ..god bless you and please keep uploading more videos i learn alot from you

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

Just reply by telling everyone how many vibr,ators she has broken from overuse.

@user-cw7ir7rf9w

4 ай бұрын

WOMEN ARE NOT THAT MUCH BETTER AT SOCIAL STUFF, THEY ARE JUST WEAKER AND HENCE THEY HAVE TO DO ANYTHING THEY CAN DO, ACTS BENEATH ME!

now I understand why stoicism is considered toxic masculinity, robbing them of their power is a big nono for them.

@Kunigunda897

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, not letting to be engaged with their emotions manipulation, tantrums

@AS_210

Жыл бұрын

"If there's not enough guilt in the world, we must create it. If we teach a man that it's evil to look at spring flowers and he believes us and then does it - we'll be able to do whatever we please with him. He won't defend himself. He won't feel he's worth it. He won't fight. But save us from the man who lives up to his own standards. Save us from the man of clean conscience. He's the man who'll beat us." - Ayn Rand As Alex said, fix and/or make peace with yourself gentlemen. Earn (and keep earning) your self-esteem/reputation/confidence, and you won't have to worry about low-quality women.

@gumdeo

Жыл бұрын

Total indifference is a superpower.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

Women need to earn access to a man's private feelings and emotions. If they ever break that trust, send them packing. Immediately.

@globalamoeba8910

Жыл бұрын

I think you need to listen to what the libs are actually saying, instead of speculating based off of what their supposed opinions are according to the right wing. Get out of your online bubble, and see that, with the exception of some radical feminists, “toxic masculinity” as much as it has become a buzzword, refers to societies dogmatic assertion that men have to be masculine, even if it is **harmful to men**. The repression and ignoring of men’s emotions, for instance, results from society saying that men have to be unemotional and stoic (apart from anger). But stoicism is not found through repression - before it leaks through in unconscious ways and aggressive outbursts - but through emotional introspection and understanding, such that they can be regulated. Men are MAKING THEMSELVES WEAKER through toxic masculinity. Bravery is a form of emotional regulation. As much as men naturally tend to be more solitary in terms of their emotions, you can’t use this descriptive claim as reason for the prescriptive claim that men HAVE to act like it. If we cared about naturalism, we’d allow men to be their natural selves. There is NOTHING inherently wrong with masculinity. Masculinity and femininity are tools that have worked evolutionarily in the circumstances that formed them. And some are social constructions (dresses are feminine, whereas they are more masculine in different times and culture). However humans naturally vary too in their masculinity/femininity, (and thus masculinity isn’t a strictly for-men thing) but also not all characteristics of masculinity nor femininity are admirable: “Toxic masculinity”: Aggression, callousness, selfishness, psychopathy, narcissism, overconfidence Toxic femininity: Weakness, manipulativeness, dramatising, passive aggressiveness, dependancy, easily offended Good masculinity: Confidence, bravery, strength, ambition, competence, innovativeness Good femininity: Humility, emotional awareness, nurturing, empathy, tactfulness, collaborative **SOMETIMES depending on the situation, the “toxic” traits can be useful, and the “good” traits can be harmful. But people would generally agree these are mostly helpful/unhelpful traits. I think it is silly, the idea that masculinity is inherently good no matter what impact it has on others nor yourself. A healthy, balanced person can wield either when the circumstances require it, and the best part about it is that you don’t have to become hyper feminine or hyper masculine in doing so. You can be masculine, and have the “masculine energy” you desire without subscribing to all the other toxic bullshit. And you don’t have to be more feminine while also adopting “weakness”. One might critique the libs for insulting masculinity, but the conservatives view exhibiting femininity as synonymous with weakness (as a side note, the gymgoers get it right when they say there is nothing wrong with being weak, but with staying weak). The fact this perception of yours has become so common just goes to show the left went too hard in alienating and demeaning men. And the right has had no difficult time alienating and demeaning women either it seems. I guess it’s not good to leave things on a negative note, so, I suppose I hope you can become the autonomous, stoic and masculine personality that you desire to be without having to suppress and lie to yourself.

As a man I used reputation destruction against a woman once. What else could I do? I couldn’t use violence. I had sold her my car but she was to pay me $1000 that she couldn’t afford at the time. She didn’t pay up and said that the car wasn’t worth it. That wasn’t the deal. So I messaged about 50 of her friends and family on FB telling them that this woman was a thief and couldn’t be trusted. A few replied to me and agreed. Within half an hour she pleaded for me to stop, and she paid what she owed me. I didn’t want to do it, but it worked.

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

Nice

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

You have to use women's trashy tactics against them

@cs8712

Жыл бұрын

Unfathomably based

@Tespri

Жыл бұрын

she could've just sued you for slander if you don't have evidence to prove that she didn't pay you. Your move could've easily backfire if the person is smart.

@blueyzblue6391

Жыл бұрын

​@@Tespri Not so easily done. She would need to be able to prove financial "damages" in order to have a case.

If she ever embarrasses you in front of others DUMP HER IMMEDIATELY and don't give her a second thought. Believe me, it will never get any better.

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

Just call her fat

@TheBazino

Жыл бұрын

This

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

If you take her back, accept her apology in any form, or fall for her fake tears, it's over. You lost.

@elijahwilson1422

Жыл бұрын

A guy I was once friends with was over at one of his sister in laws homes and a gay friend of theirs kept hitting on him even though he's married and has two daughters and he isn't gay. All of them including his wife laughed at him, his wife and daughters also walk all over him. When I was looking at being homeless back in February he had a sudden idea about letting me stay in their basement and paying rent and helping them out until I could get a place of my own or at least asking his parents. His wife used the fact I have a dog and the fact they have one as an excuse to act iffy about it and when February was almost over he hadn't even got around to asking his mom and dad. Take it from me, when your buddy says "let me ask my wife", it almost always means no and it certainly almost always means he'll leave you high anf dry in your hour of need. He should quit drinking and he never should have spent the last 17 years letting her boss him around. Rant done

@mikes4286

Жыл бұрын

I confirm this message. It will keep getting worse and painful to the man.

In college, I was late to meet my GF and she was obviously irritated. When we met up with our friends, she immediately hugged all the guys, something she had never done before. She was trying to embarrass me. I didn't say a word. I turned around and headed back home and went to the gym. I ghosted her. Have pride men. Set boundaries.

@realprimeart

8 ай бұрын

Did you dump her?

@ComputersAndLife

5 ай бұрын

​@@realprimeart I think that's what he means by ghosting her. He cut all ties and moved on.

@gavin1391

5 ай бұрын

@@realprimeartGhosting is when you just stop seeing/talking to someone and don’t tell them why

My ex tried to embarrass me at a party so I left. She tried to stop me so I moved her without every pushing her. She told people I hit her.

@Alexis.784

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that's another thing a women would do, like you can be the most real dude out there, but if a women want you humiliated, she would do everything, even lying, so this whole video is pretty much dumb in a way.

@madhatter8508

Жыл бұрын

@@Alexis.784 Yeah he makes it sound like a woman will stop at the truth, which is untrue. She'll get desperate and tell any lie she needs to "win"

@billyin4c514

Жыл бұрын

You should have given her the real deal if you were going to be stuck with the reputation.

Literally found this out a couple days ago, I invited my female friend (my last hope in women) to meet my brother. She proceeded to tell my brother something I truly trusted her to keep a secret, then she twisted it to make it sound worse.

@peanutnutter1

Жыл бұрын

Low quality woman

@jackhhun2698

Жыл бұрын

yep happened to me with my aunt I had expected her to be my god mother never talked to here since

@jackhhun2698

Жыл бұрын

@@peanutnutter1 yep

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

Women are two faced by their very nature and have little to no integrity. This is an important thing to keep in mind

@oxide9717

Жыл бұрын

Lol rookie mistake, never trust a woman with a secret they'll always tell , it can be your mom, you sister, your gf or wife keep it to yourself only tell the boys they'll understand

Not being bothered helps a lot. I would stare into their eye and slightly tilt my head. You can easily tell how indifferent I was. Even a look of boredom can go a long way. Let it be awkward for them. Then a well placed "are you done?" or walking away can be devastating to their ego. ProTip: don't share sensitive details with someone within the first 9 months. You enable them by over sharing. Talk to men that understand your situation instead

@impudentdomain

Жыл бұрын

That's very good advice, remain aloof until you really get to know them. then you have to make the decision to keep her or dump her. But it takes time.

@strikingitrich7630

Жыл бұрын

Don’t EVER share intimate details.

@jackhhun2698

Жыл бұрын

we've been raised as feminists we were all taught to share as much as possible we all thought women needed help we were lied to

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

Never show vulnerability or weakness in front of a woman. They will always use it against you. They are cowardly and two-faced by nature. Share your problems with male friends first.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

@@immersivedesign6759 Male friends only.

When a man is being embarrassed by his woman in public and especially if she is flirting with other men, believe me, its over.

@AlexanderJoneshttps

Жыл бұрын

Damn my ex did that when at the time we was dating

@beavisbuttgoblin

10 ай бұрын

Yeah mine ran off into the night with 2 of my 'friends' and did things because I didn't Introduce her to everyone as my girlfriend. We'd been seeing eachother 1 month prior. Ofcourse it was all my fault 😂

My ex-wife did some 48 laws of power tactics. She told me lies about our friends and told lies to our friends about me and pinned us against each other. It is only once we talked that we both figured out what she did to us.

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

Wow. This stuff just never occurs to me and I continue to be amazed by how low someone would stoop. Appalling behaviour.

@davidkuhn3695

Жыл бұрын

They call that flying monkeys.

Oh, there are some women who do physically lash out at men out of anger and rage, craziness, or because nowadays no one ever taught them that generally speaking men are easily physically stronger than women.

@inconnu4961

Жыл бұрын

They believe they can get away with it because men are not supposed to fight back! But you are right; women are more brazen than ever before with physical attacks.

@keonkla

Жыл бұрын

Honestly and lets be honest their are to many weak men who are to cowardly to stand up to women at all. Ultimately men who get abused by other women should feel ashamed, because they make these sows more confident to do it to others,which ruins it. If you don't pop her in the mouth when she trys to abuse and you. You are to weak to be in the dating pool.

@Neworldisordered

Жыл бұрын

..and "some" women are taller than the average man

@cheezinhoweree

Жыл бұрын

And some of them attack the wrong guy .theirs videos on KZread called "when men hit back "

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

I know more physically abusive women spouses and girlfriends than male. It just gets ignored because men are the victims and women are the perpetrators

Got married. 20 years later, she gets bored and takes half my stuff. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

Out of envy, jealousy or spite they center their behavior around 1.Gossip, 2.Innuendo and 3.Reputation Destruction

@mizum3458

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. The modern whamins is destructive.

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

Cowards by nature essentially

2:14 I love how you described them as low quality women, because that's what they are. Utter human waste. I've dealt with this recently at work, when everyone eventually saw she was a terrible person and got fired for being lazy, everyone changed their tune and tried to be friends with me again but it was past the point of no return

I had this once, I had some friendly banter with a girl with some light filtration and it was all cool. Then suddenly she switched and took what i said out of context to publicly shame me online. It was really horrible like real malevolence. I had never encountered that before, intentional psychological cruelty, no guy would ever do that.

@Thmyris

Жыл бұрын

guys do worse lol

@sergiofonseca2285

Жыл бұрын

​@@Thmyris tell me you're a feminist without telling me you're a feminist

@BatmanBeyondBelief

Жыл бұрын

@@sergiofonseca2285 he’s not technically wrong since the j’s who run the media, business, and politics are men that use women’s complete lack or forethought to ruin the rest of us. It’s just a very small amount of men

@Wingedmagician

Жыл бұрын

No guy? I mean bad women are horrible but bad men will leave holes in you

@sidonioferreira1483

Жыл бұрын

​@@Thmyris they don't. Women are known to speak gossip and do reputation destruction, not men.

Can't lose the game if you don't play.

@totobibi507

Жыл бұрын

You can't win it either....

@totobibi507

Жыл бұрын

Like saying do not try to become rich. So you won't be disappointed when you fails. Same logic...

@marsjokes

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. Can't try something if you don't believe in the possibility of success.

@totobibi507

Жыл бұрын

All truly depends on the "cost vs potential gain" ratio. Some wars are not worth the pain. Some yes. Knowing that knowledge can lower the cost.

@SpiritOfParadox

Жыл бұрын

​@toto bibi I see what you mean but you over reached, what you're saying is right but there are moments where you've got to think is it worth the investment before attempting.

Sorry, but you're only half right on this one. Yes, they are much more adept at social manipulation and unimaginably brutal, but simply ignoring their attacks will not protect you no matter who you are. They can set all the pieces in place to destroy your life without giving the slightest indication, and the really sick part is that they love every minute of it.

@curtishand6180

Жыл бұрын

They really aren't this level of Godly-type-smart. Accusation doesn't equal belief

@firstlast9916

11 ай бұрын

Ignoring it works if you are capable of ignoring it. The difficulty is making believe in your mind that you aren’t embarrassed by any of her Oscar worthy victimization of herself and humiliating you in the process. I haven’t been successful at it 100% by the way. Because I know that my inadequacies are true and convincing myself that they are not real is extremely difficult. Example: Leo DiCaprio doesn’t have be embarrassed by anything and doesn’t need to fake any confidence ever.

@gabeo9474

11 ай бұрын

@@firstlast9916 Not if she pulls out the false a c c usa t i o n. It's the ultimate trump card, and they all carry it in their back pocket at all times.

@firstlast9916

11 ай бұрын

@@gabeo9474 double down on the accusations. Examples: Her: you watch porn You: damn right. Hot naked girls for free on the internet. No brainer Her: you don’t wash dishes or cook You: I better not. I have a penis. If i start washing dishes that means I have already cut it off.

Yup that's exactly the tactic I employed and developed when this low quality woman(my boss) was trying to shame me in front of everyone. Keep your cool. Keep your integrity, honesty and stay true to yourself. In the end she end up looking like the fool. The more she screamed and tried to make me look like the bad guy, the worst she ended up looking like(she destroyed her own reputation in the process). So yeah keep bearing her calmly until you're able to get out ...

@gumdeo

Жыл бұрын

Stoicism for the win.

@alexandrusilva9266

Жыл бұрын

Dude...she's your boss. That's what most bosses do, regardless of their gender 😂 You all are being way to pathetic, this comment section is crazy. I'm finding species of men I never even knew existed and I'm a guy

@agoogleuseranonymous2658

Жыл бұрын

@@alexandrusilva9266 That's exactly what a shitty boss is. My current is the complete opposite. But I have seen a trend whenever I had a female boss, she used her emotions to lead rather than logic and it was such a disaster ...

@alexandrusilva9266

Жыл бұрын

@@agoogleuseranonymous2658 I have been working as a nurse for the past 5 years on a neurosurgery team. Trust me when I tell you this, the leading neurosurgeons have changed a few times but the female ones I had the honor to work with were the most capable, most calculated, best prepared ones. Very ferm and demanding, but at the end of day, the ones who had the most successful cases. All reaserch shows that despite female surgeons being more likely to be given high-risk patient cases, the results show the same rates of mortality and complications. So even if they usually work the most difficult cases, they still manage to succeed. None of them ever used their "emotions" as you said and most women I met don't have the tendency to do that. I have been lucky enough to have also met many amazing women in my life who have inspired me with their kindness, intelligence and way of living their lives.I understand you have your share of negative experience with women, but you must understand all people come with different qualities and flaws and it has nothing to do with their gender, race or anything like that. At some point in our lives we must also realize that we mostly attract the people we resemble. So please have the dignity to respect others.

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

@@alexandrusilva9266 I'm glad you have had the experiences you have and it would be an honour to have worked with those women - cudo's to them as they sound exceptional people. This is a video about social norms - seems your experience is not normative so there is that. I appreciate you have been inspired but what would you do in my shoes when my ex tried desperately to publicly embarrass me with a weak story from 5 years before? She did it on purpose and was happy to burn the house down socially amongst my close friends and family. And she framed it with her being the helpless victim. Meanwhile she forgot to mention she had physically attacked me in fits of rage multiple times sometimes brandishing a knife - and no, I never lifted a finger to her. Oh yeah, now about those Nurses...

If women were truly great at social stuff and sniffing out men, they wouldn't choose bad men for themselves all the time. All the time you hear how a woman complains how a man turned out to be completely something else than she thought he was, and how shocked the woman is to find out the man wasn't something that she dreamt up in her head.

@olisk-jy9rz

Жыл бұрын

Correct. Also they need to hear other people's positive opinion on someone to be REALLY attracted to him. They wouldn't be so easily influenced if they were able to judge characters on their own.

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

Always lying

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

@@olisk-jy9rz Yeah, women are allergic to thinking on their own

@immersivedesign6759

Жыл бұрын

Nay they're aware these men are bad. It's just that they sense he has some status over them and women will choose status over anything else

@hotlucky5622

Жыл бұрын

And you believed that? Let me share a little nugget of wisdom: A woman's ex is always in the wrong no matter how great he was. And she's always the hapless little victim that did no wrong.

My X couldn't help herself to draw attention to our "disagreements" while in public. Letting everyone in listening distance know our business. Oh, then there was the false allegations.. NEVER again!

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

Are you still dating your ex?

@jackthehat9558

11 ай бұрын

​@@protorhinocerator142ex

Arthur Schopenhauer: "The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the elephant with tusks, the wild boar with fangs, the bull with horns and the cuttlefish with ink, so it has equipped woman with the power of dissimulation as her means of attack and defence, and has transformed into this gift all the strength it has bestowed on man in the form of physical strength and the power of reasoning. Dissimulation is thus inborn in her and consequently to be found in the stupid vvoman almost as often as in the clever one. To make use of it at every opportunity is as natural to her as it is for an animal to employ its means of defence whenever it is attacked, and when she does so she feels that to some extent she is only exercising her rights. A completely truthful woman who does not practice dissimulation is perhaps an impossibility, which is why women see through the dissimulation of others so easily it is inadvisable to attempt it with them. - But this fundamental defect which I have said they possess, together with all that is associated with it, gives rise to falsity, unfaithfulness, treachery, ingratitude, etc. Women are guilty of perjury far more often than men. It is questionable whether they ought to be allowed to take an oath at all."

@peterkoch3777

Жыл бұрын

Good ol' Arthur was so right... a true mysgonist🤣 He had the p¡mp mindset... 200 years ago!

@broughty0807

8 ай бұрын

The quote is probably from Schopenhauer's essay "On Women". Highly recommended reading.

Can totally relate. Recently a good friend (female) shamed me in front of another girl. Out of the blue she started trash talking about the disease causing my hair loss. I wasn't prepared at all, lost my control and left. Few days later I told her that it was very malicious and I'm ending the relationship.

When this happened to me i immediately removed that person from my life.

Never lose frame. I haven't heard about this in awhile and I think needs more deep diving.

@CountChokcula

Жыл бұрын

It's just being congruent in personality.

@superdupertyson

Жыл бұрын

Flattery and humiliation are two sides of the same coin. If you don't react to either you can easily maintain frame. Godspeed

I'm over 70 and not really in the dating market, but I love your videos, which give me insight about the relationship problems I have had in the past. Right now, I'm on prostate meds, which makes it harder to achieve an erection, so I could easily be humiliated on that account. Of course, I would walk away from anyone who made this a topic on gossip. I didn't have to share this, but you're all strangers, so I don't worry about sharing anything.

...and then they complain that male coworkers are avoiding them.

I made a video on how women objectify men and: Essentially, they derive validation/status by proxy; however, they also may resort to damaging him-something akin to kicking a car when it malfunctions-when he's not performing to her liking. This, of course, results in a cycle wherein she is the cause of a diminished sense of validation, and likely to end the relationship. You can only hit a new car so many times before the paint is damaged.

@wolfstyle8945

Жыл бұрын

link?

@RPMentorTokyoChannel

Жыл бұрын

@@wolfstyle8945 links usually get deleted, but the video is called How Women Objectify Men.

When we were having a fight, my ex girlfriend opened the window and started yelling to all neighbors of the building that I was impotent and she knew I was having sex with other men, which is all bulshit. She also called the police to tell them I was beating her, which never happened. Women are only nice when they are happy with you.

In my culture, sisters and female cousins are your 'sword' (that's what we call it) when it comes to any woman you're dealing with. If any woman tries to embarrass, back bite, gossip or do any female covert actions your sisters (I have 4 plus many cousins) will put her through the window of your lunch room OR worse (another story for another time) The problem is, men now a days don't know this strategy and don't know how to utilize it. I bring up my sisters in a subtle way during the first date 'are you guys close'? VERY CLOSE! I know the impact this has on the rest of interaction. I even had many many women say 'I fear men with many sisters' lol voila! Let's reverse the roles. If your sister was being disrespected or humiliated some dude, wouldn't you step in? Maybe not you westerners but we're built different and your sisters, female cousins are there for a reason. Everyone has a role in this ecosystem.

@DigitalAsshat

Жыл бұрын

Where are you from?

@someone-ji2zb

Жыл бұрын

Issue is that many families are fragmented. Why would women who believe in feminism side with a man who condemns it? That is where we are at in general. It is an all out culture war to see what morality is and what the foundation will be moving forward.

@peterkoch3777

Жыл бұрын

This reminds me of that scene in "Married with children" where a girl that messed with Budd got nailed to the lockers by Kelly🤣 "you don't mess with a Bundy"😈

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

Genius!

@maslav4241

Жыл бұрын

i support female on female violence

The problem with that tactic is that once you're aware of it and why it's employed it loses practically all of its effectiveness. From then on every woman attempting to shame a man in public looks suspect and malicious.

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

Tell them, "Get a job as a vibratiorn mechanic"

Single mothers will do that to their own sons if they aren't on board with their mother's aganda. When a woman is the sole authority in a family, she's a tyrant, who will attempt to mould her son to serve her for the rest of her life. My mother always tried to tell me I had to take care of her in her old age. Never mind my sisters, or my stepfather. That would be my duty, and I had to do what she wanted me to do. When I kept refusing to take care of her or to study and do anything she wanted me to do, she sabotaged me and liked to mock me. I knew I would never stand for the rule of a woman. But I wasn't able to ditch her, when authorities kept capturing me and returning me home as a child. She was always telling me what I had to do, while she urged my sisters to do anything, even giving them houses and cars, while she gave me nothing, and said a man had to make his own way in life. She actually told me the measure of a man was his ability to take abuse from a woman and keep providing for her. She told me that women had no responsibilities, and men were responsible for everything. As I saw it, I needed a father to protect me from my mother.

@timothykuring3016

Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed the Adventures of Fafred and Grey mouser by Fritz Lieber when I was a kid. Fafred was a barbarian from a freezing northern tribe that was ruled by a brutal matriarchy, where the women would gather and discuss the control of men and cast spells on rebellious men. It reminded me of the way I overheard women talking amongst themselves about controlling men, and getting any troublesome single man under the control of some woman in their circle.

Women also seem to put you down if they think you're far beneath them. My friend introduced me to a girl right before an exam, and I said yeah I think we were in the same high school (graduated same yr). Out of all the responses she could give, like just a polite "Hi", she chose to say "Oh I don't remember you." with a smirk and dismissive tone, and they had a laugh. It's not like I had intentions or was being a creep, I was just talking about the exams with my friend, not even talking to her until that point. At the time I was slightly embarrassed and confused why anyone would disrespect someone they just met. But it all makes sense now through the blackpill lens. She was attractive and I was ugly and short. It's about looks and height, and women showing they're selective in who they even acknowledge is proof of their own quality and social hierarchy.

@hidum5779

Жыл бұрын

I feel you man. Happened to me too. There were new admissions in 2nd year of my college. A couple of folks had become good friends with me (they still are). For a short time when these people were new they'd hang out together, guys and girls together. But my buddies called me to have lunch with them, I accepted. I wasn't talking to anyone else, just those two guys I was very good friends with. And one of them was asking if I know any accomodations to stay (since he was new to the area and didn't know much about it) and this girl pops in and tells him not to trust me there. I told her my recommendations aren't bad and she just bluntly said - "judging by your face it doesn't seem so". I wasn't even talking to her, it was me and my buddy discussing things. She just came in between our convo and insulted me for no reason. Later she tried to talk to me and I just didn't respond.

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..

@juanderuano8969

Жыл бұрын

@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@juanderuano8969

Жыл бұрын

@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

I have a female coworker who constantly tries to embarrass me in front of the guys. It's always directed at me, only when the other males are around. I can't remember the last time she succeeded but it's still slightly irritating and confusing as to why she targets me like that.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

Set her up for failure. Make little accusations that require no proof, or minor insults with no comeback. "Oh that reminds me. I still owe you 3 farts from earlier today when you crop dusted the office." Women HATE being associated with farts. Or if she's wearing a plaid outfit, "I like your outfit. That reminds me I need to get the couch re-upholstered." Women's identities are directly tied to fashion. Another one. You point in her general direction, but your finger is pointing all over the place. Wait for it. "1996 just called. They said you can keep it." Do this especially when other women are around. And get in a good belly laugh every time. If she cries and leaves, make sure to say, "I thought she was more emotionally mature..." This will hit her where she lives.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

@@tetedur377 Score!

@alexandrusilva9266

Жыл бұрын

​@@protorhinocerator142 Those are literally jokes for kids in second grade, bro....everyone is so pathetic on this channel, as a guy, I can't believe some of us are becoming like this

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

@@alexandrusilva9266 And that is why they will all hit the mark. You can destroy a woman with 2nd grade jokes. Tear her to shreds. The stupider the joke that destroys her, the better. She will know that you sunk her battleship with a blow dart.

@hareeba5879

Жыл бұрын

@@tetedur377 Gold.

"...they can sniff out fraud..." Really?

@gravy1770

Жыл бұрын

Right, I wouldn't give them too much credit after the Tinder Swindler. Or Ted Bundy

@Martyn_Wolf

Жыл бұрын

Apparently women are AMAZING at knowing if a man's a cheater from his face... That clearly explains why they keep going to those type of men then 😂

@jasonBGI

Жыл бұрын

They're great at sniffing out fraud in UNATTRACTIVE men. Chad doesn't deal with any such scrutiny.

@whenpigsfly8178

Жыл бұрын

They probably can, unless they're tempted to be greedy.

@BB-te8tc

Жыл бұрын

"I will be the one to change him!"

Exchange embarrass with humiliate and you've got it right.

They like to embarrass men they can control or atleast would like to control This is what I call the "downgrade guy". A woman gets tired of chasing the best looking guy she has the confidence to chase. When she gets tired of his games, she settles for, a guy, not as good looking as Chad, not rich, just a slightly above age guy. Like shopping at Target if Nordstroms gets too expensive. She will then try to use embarrassment as a tactic to get him to act a certain way. She cannot magically make his face look better or suddenly go from a 7 to a 10 in looks, but she can try to get a provider out of him. Women do not just clap eyes on some average guy at age 18 and think "yep, he will do" no, women spend years dating men (shopping around for the better deal). I suspect when you see an average guy who is married, he is the "downgrade guy"....... not the first choice, but has a personality that can be molded through shame tactics

@DevelopedFetus

2 ай бұрын

This is very funny to observe in day to day life, but also very sad when you think about it. I'm so happy to be aware of this now so I can avoid it.

Where does one find a high value woman? Because I’ve never met one.

@patienceobongo

Жыл бұрын

Because you dont go to Church

@dboc2000

Жыл бұрын

I will say while church does have sinners in it, (we all are) women with authentic faith, can and do operate on a higher level.

@TheBazino

Жыл бұрын

It's like trying to understand women. If you do, you will be the richest man to ever live, because it's impossible.

@lightbeing8174

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBazino I hear women understand women.

@TheBazino

Жыл бұрын

@@lightbeing8174 Really? Why is the divorce rate of lesbian couples the highest then? :p

A woman's only weapon is her words. Become immune to her words and she has 0 power over you. I only discovered this recently (I'm in my 30s) but it's already been a game changer.

@Kain_R_Heinlein

Жыл бұрын

Even better don't give her any attention and validation and they have zero power over men and society and they know that they would be knocking on our doors in the middle of the cold rain saying how may I serve you sir if they had to survive on their own

@goododays1812

Жыл бұрын

Just need to deal with the weak men in powwa n simpoids.

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

tell that to the judge who is most likely a woman lol

@mb4312

Жыл бұрын

It's your super power bro

@victorcroker2765

Жыл бұрын

"Words", yes you're right, but Words come in 2nd to what's between her legs. That's #1, and the major reason why men fall.

My girlfriend has the right to do that....... ONCE! Then she has the right to be single. Did that before and haven't regretted it

If a woman insults you or demeans you in public then you have chosen the wrong woman.Once she starts disrespecting you it will never stop.....Collects your things ,leave anything behind she gave you and block her contact

I listen to your vids fairly regularly and today what hit me, as you explained today's subject, borrowing from the movie War Games. In dealing with relationships with women, "What a strange game. the only winning move is not to play".

I'm reminded of this video clip of this gender reveal party. The guy pretends to lose the balloon that contains the gender of his baby. Before it's demonstrated that it's a joke, his wife immediately loses her cool, gets angry, and starts saying things to her family like, "Didn't I tell you he was dumb", like all she does he disrespect him when he's not around. Women are experts at insecurity because they experience it their whole life.

Thank you so much bro.... 7:32 your example used is one my most embarrassing insecurity. Your wise words makes sense and difference.😊

If they are so great at judging a character, how come are they so bad at choosing a partner? Definitely not a "bad luck"..

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

Because their attraction is their attraction. And they want to mould the men they choose. And they fail. Again, And Again and...

@caryg4638

11 ай бұрын

Here is an analogy: Most men know which cars are the best/fastest and most refined. However, not all of us can afford such cars, just because we are attracted to them. So, what do we do? We settle for one that looks good and that goes fast, or that is semi-luxurious, but that is also less expensive. Most of us, if we were smart and didn't have the money for the nice car, would settle for the most reliable cars (i.e. Toyota corolla etc.), but, if given the choice and a few more means, most of us would bypass that car for ones that are more entertaining and look better. This is not a perfect analogy, but it aligns somewhat, and especially when you consider that quality and reliability are things that people only tend to look for if they have been raised right and guided, or if they have been hurt by the unreliable ones first.

Well, its a good way to test her. Make up something slightly embarrassing and only tell her. If you hear it from anyone else, she is for the streets.

As soon as you are trying to reverse things by shaming her for obvious reasons, and she feels like she is losing out, She will either cry, call other SIMPS for help, or simply blames you for harassment. Best practice with these is recording what they say and how they said it.

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

I have a friend who did this. The ex was truly exposed and judge was disgusted by her. Didn't change the custody order though.

This video was great. Going to do some work on solidifying some parts of my personality that dont feel quite genuine to be better protected against this.

And men's counter weapon is to ignore them completely that hurts woman far more

2:24 Throughout most of my college career I had the same gf. After a few years of dating, there came a particular evening when I was playing cards with her and her family at her parents house. That's when my gf exposed a small but ignoble thing I had done near the beginning of our relationship. That info _should_ have stayed private, just between us. I was *ultra embarrassed* and ended up mumbling incoherently in a forlorn attempt to deflect the comment. More so I felt *betrayed* 🗡bc I instantly "lost face" (i.e. respect) with her family. (Later on, I would discover that she had been gradually cheating on me--socially, emotionally, etc.--with another guy.) To this day, I'm 100% convinced that she *humiliated* me at the table, in front of all those people, ON PURPOSE. 💔💀 That terrible moment happened about EIGHTEEN YEARS ago, and is still burned in my memory. 🧠📖

When it comes to younger guys who are shamed by women, take it from a random big brother who's 30; they're women. Who cares what they think? They don't care about works in progress by the large, they care about the finish line you cross. Their opinions are immaterial to your life. That said, improve thyself. Money is not the goal but the means to an end. Goint from $100 a month for food to $1300 on average per month of pure surplus is very nice. It allows you to do far more with a far more clear head and lighter heart.

Public embarrassment and betrayal of insecurities is why I don't care to date women even go against my deepest desires for marriage. It is insightful to understand why they may feel betrayed by a man's incompetence, but exposing confidential insecurities us never serving justice rather it's retaliation and breaks a man's spirit to care.

Wow! Now I know why my mother would embarrass my brothers and I in public while she hated being, as she saw it, embarrassed even in slightest.

I disliked my ex-wife criticizing me in public not so much because I wanted to keep things hidden from the people but because of her nerve. I don't care what others think of me but I care about my wife being loyal and her trying to embarrass me in public is clearly not being loyal to me and I get pissed off at being in a relationship with a low quality woman.

@Thefutureofsuccessbootygang

Жыл бұрын

That’s your fault for choosing a low quality woman and getting her pregnant

@maxavail

Жыл бұрын

@@Thefutureofsuccessbootygang no doubt about it

@Thefutureofsuccessbootygang

Жыл бұрын

@@maxavail you’ll find a better woman tho so don’t stress it

@maxavail

Жыл бұрын

@@Thefutureofsuccessbootygang perhaps, but I'm not sure I want one anymore.

@livingstoner6250

11 ай бұрын

I have to ask, when you married her did you see these things and ignore it or did she just reveal her true colors later?

NOTHING is more powerfull then simply walking away without any comment at all.

Once I have a "girlfriend", who start to told me "you need to get out of the closet" in my publications from a false account. She was in a relation, I was in a relation, so, at the 3rd or 4th time she was doing that, I say: "OK you are right, I will post some pics of my forbiden relation...".

Problem is that this behaviour goes also into regimes of character destruction where it doesn’t even help to be confident in the aspect at hand. The moment you would start to argue, you are lost. It’s toxic - you may respond but not react. I guess in such moments it’s rather calling it out for what it is right on he spot. And maybe even dump her in front of everybody.

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

Yeah call it for what it is. A petty attempt at character destruction your standards don't allow for.

I fully agree with Alex on this. And the worst of the worst is when this woman is your boss and she does this at work. This is her way of beating you up. This is why me in the workplace I am extremely reluctant in giving this power to a woman(be my boss). Every time I have been in this position she has never been able to show proper responsibility. So yeah maybe it is just my experience, but yeah it's a major red flag for me accepting a new job.

@protorhinocerator142

Жыл бұрын

I had one female boss who wasn't like this. She was awesome. The rest were all petty and looking for opportunities to belittle me.

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

Please accept some un-asked for career advice. Look for a good boss. Hitch your wagon to theirs and ascend with them. Take responsibility for your results and work out how to be the best at your job - don't ever be lazy. Work hard to make your boss look good to their boss and enjoy the ride. When you have a bad boss, time to look within or outside of your company or if you are too invested, ride it out until they burn themselves up.

@agoogleuseranonymous2658

Жыл бұрын

@@aaaces01 Yup this is what I did and I got now a much better boss. He is one of the best I ever had so far. But I have had multiple bosses over time and this is a trend I have seen. That women lead with their emotions and men usually with logics. The former is a disaster for leadership/management positions and it's so "against the current". Like everybody has to bear unbearable pressure and work so hard to make it work. Again I would like to believe that great female bosses do exist. But yeah so far I have never been able to meet one. They have always fallen into the toxic micromanagers who end up with episodes of rage due to pressure. It seems that every women I had for boss passively expected to receive emotionally(when it should be the other way around when you have this boss-employee relationship). And it makes sense. By primal instincts women work with their emotions. Yeah in a nutshell, this is why a female boss is a major red flag overall. It's like a female psychologist giving me dating/life advise in my man shoes. It's not a good fit for me usually I have found.

@mb4312

Жыл бұрын

@@aaaces01 Some are being enabled and validated for bad behaviour, they burn slowly and redouble their efforts everytime you swat away the feaces they throw to your face. You only choice is to walk away.

@aaaces01

Жыл бұрын

@@mb4312 Hey buddy I get you and it's a pain. I've been a "good boss" for decades and know how to spot a bad boss from miles away. They use deplorable tactics to mask their lack of competence. To be fair, men do this in the workplace a lot too - they humiliate, embarrass, denigrate. Best advice. Find a "good boss" of either sex pronto and work hard to elevate them. They'll take you along on their ride

It would be really embarrassing if people knew I touch the water sometimes when I sit on the toilet.

Stoicism is your best weapon and shield against this mess.

Yeah this makes sense. I've noticed even off-hand comments which are just cringingly awkward, that I assumed were due to stupidity. But now think were more deliberate.

The starting commercial I got with this video was women belittling a man talking behind his back. Somehow this is supposed to sell cars.

The fact a woman who is in a relationship with a man would publicly embarrass him makes me feel ill, men will NEVER do that unless they act genuinely appallingly.

Some will weaponize your love for them against you .i would say always know in the back of your mind you're probably just taking your turn on her its ok to let her go at anytime. She loses value as her body count rises so its a bad check mark on her

my ex wife was like that. She always knew what would make me look utterly stupid and then when a situation like that came up, she always used it.

"If there's not enough guilt in the world, we must create it. If we teach a man that it's evil to look at spring flowers and he believes us and then does it - we'll be able to do whatever we please with him. He won't defend himself. He won't feel he's worth it. He won't fight. But save us from the man who lives up to his own standards. Save us from the man of clean conscience. He's the man who'll beat us." - Ayn Rand As Alex said, fix and/or make peace with yourselves gentlemen. Earn (and keep earning) your self-esteem/reputation/confidence, and you won't have to worry (much) about low-quality women. Good luck 👍

Men who have figured out their fitness, livelihood and priorities, or in the process of, have nothing to be embarrassed about. When I was much younger, I would just ignore such attempts at emotional bullying. Nowadays I just set boundaries and walk away.

Thanks for these videos... Thank Alex.

This trait is understandable if the guy does some serious mistake. But it is certainly excessive/immoral/unethical in most cases where a guy expresses romantic interest in a certain girl and she goes around spreading rumours/gossip about him and uses simps to insult him, displays DM screenshots all over social media. In no way this dark behaviour can be justified when she can just indicate a clear no. Women use the embarrassment weapon unjustly and disproportionately.

That's why women just come across as conniving and manipulative.

Absolutely right. Women's currency is attention or validation or both. Women's weapons are their mouths or behavior or both. (Manipulation deception, misdirection, half-truths, insults, shaming, guilt trips/gaslighting, and always trying to win, be right, have the last word.)

The snort and stink-eye are two of my favorites.

Oh, how true this is, how true this is!

MENTAL gymnastics.... .....They get the Gold Medal, everytime. 😎😈🤘

If a woman has no respect for you, you gotta put the fear of God in her.

I would probably suggest don't share with woman something you would be devastated if it gets leaked. Even if that woman was good in relationships and respected your secrets (she probably told at least some of them to her best friend or two), break ups happen. So, go to therapist, not girlfriend to tell your deepest secrets. Tell her secrets that you will survive if they get out. If she is sleeping with you - it doesn't mean you can trust her your whole life. I was not talking about deep secrets , very deep insecurities probably too. Not about some shallow stuff. Yeah, it's better to try to overcome it or make peace with it as Alex suggested. I agree with it.

@mikes4286

Жыл бұрын

Learned this over the years. Never share any important secrets about your life with women, even your wife. Don't reveal your k!nks with her, just do them as part of the act if you can. Sharing secrets with women will always backfire.

When that kind of thing happens, I never gets embarrassed, because I am at ease with myself : but I get angry, to see a close person smoothly betraying my trust thinking she might go unnoticed

Yeah a guy told me how shitty I look after I said I was sick. It’s also the other way around ladies believe me….. men love to embarrass too

@masterpain7742

Жыл бұрын

Well u obviously looked sick wtf is wrong with u

@st0a

Жыл бұрын

In general, narcs enjoy humiliating others, they're broken subhuman creatures who can't cope with the fact that they are neither special nor superior to anyone at all.

This video was great, thank you

I guess I just don't get embarrassed. Just not the type. I've had awful lies said about me sure, but anyone I care about know me and knew it wasn't true. I'm just gonna like what I like, do what I do, and be honest and unapologetic about it.

Oh yeah, exactly this. A woman, not so or gf, did this in public. In subsequent social groups, I refused to acknowledge her existence. I'm not sure it's connected, but within a couple of months, she moved away, left the country. I doubt a man had ever done that to her before

Smile and laugh, drives them batshit

THank you alexander , keep going hero

This is why women love a-hols and cocky guys. Because those guys can shake off embarrassment and usually shoot it right back. Nice guys let it embarrass them. If you can say something snarky back, you gain a lot of respect with women. Nice guys think it would be disrespectful to stick yp for yourself a call those guys "a tough guy" and toxic masculinity. That's why i hate simps, they make the situation more difficult and dont understand what is going on.

My ex gf leaked our text messages to her friends and some dudes who kept constantly bullying me in highschool. It embarassed me so much that for the last 2 years of my highschool life, i was rather...ignored by many.

Yep. My sister made me a social outcast my entire childhood.

Question: I've had the scenario a couple of times where a girl tried to publicly embarrass me in front of others. To name one: It was a mixed crowd setting, and we were talking about sexual preferences. She tried to shame me for not thinking that guys go after the not-so-intelligent girls. I, in all seriousness felt no shame at all, but all the other people looked at me shell-shocked, which kind of left an impact on my perception of things. Is this normal? What can be done against it? If more detail is needed, I'd be happy to provide more of it down the line, for brevity's sake I'll keep this short

I’ve never been publicly embarrassed by women, but I can totally imagine such possibility. I always try to be nice to women, especially to the LOW value women. I don’t want to be an enemy of them.

When someone is authentic there is no enemy because the word, "I" does not exist.

You’re only embarrassed if your behaviour is embarrassing. If she lies to embarrass you then you can ride it out and disprove it. If it’s true then you played yourself. The women that embarrass men display this behaviour long before they do it to you. Don’t be with this type of woman. They are usually bitchy about others and laugh at things that a person shouldn’t really be laughing about. Most women, especially those in the public eye, tend to attack men for their bedroom performance and size. It doesn’t matter if it’s true. Once it’s out there, it’s out there. It’s a strategy they repeat time and again. Women on TikTok often say they lie when they split or divorce. They tell the children, family & friends lies about their partner to embarrass, hurt or just turn people against them. Every person has weak points and embarrassing things. This is why men should never open up to a woman. Never do it. It can’t be repeated too often. Do not open up to a woman. It’s giving ammunition that she will use and all women use it when push comes to shove. Women don’t say I’m glad you told me that. They are thinking that’s one thing I can use in the future because that’s his weak point. They have an amazing ability to store these things and never forget. You’re naive if you think otherwise. Women are far more brutal than men at this kind of thing. Shaming and embarrassing another person is no effort to them. They gain pleasure from it. It’s one way to make them feel superior. Women hate equality, so belittling another person is perfectly acceptable and the added bonus is it’s enjoyable to them. Sharing embarrassing things with their peers and putting others down is one of their favourite pastimes. Wise up about their true natures.

@thelonelystankmuncher8879

Жыл бұрын

That's like a text book example of a succubus

@impudentdomain

Жыл бұрын

the thing is, every person has something that they could be attacked on because none of us are perfect. If you are with a woman who does that, just one time. Then it is all over and you have to just dump her because she does not respect you and will never love you.

@marshfilm

Жыл бұрын

Women only understand being dominant or submissive... they DO hate equality.

Amazing video.

I don't even know what are the things I'm faking and what is real .

This is very important for men to learn young. Women do not feel comfortable in a superior position to a man, and that is where they will try to expose his weaknesses, as if he was trying to fool her.

true and theyll do it in subtle ways like if youve ever spilled your drink, theyll bring it up around other people "oh one time OP spilled his drink and xyz xyz." or theyll show to a venue with you and then take a seat where there's only one available instead of getting two, forcing you to then wander around like an idiot in search of another chair.

Low quality "women" usually cheat too at the same time.

I never had lot of girl friends, I mostly had guys as friends because I am one. All of the stuff and more you said have been done to me by guys who I thought were my friends and some of them beat me up on top of the embarrassment.

… I just laugh at them!

My wife did this until I iced her. She panicked with silent treatment. Of course, she tried to spin it. Nope.

Yes, any woman who airs her greavances out to another man will do the same to her next husband. Ditto for cheaters. Those women are not relationship material.

This is why it is so dangerous to open up and show yourself vulnerable in front of women.