A Guide To Socializing For Nice Guys

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In this video we’ll go through 4 habits you can steal from Chris Evans that will help you to be charming in any conversation. And because Chris’s charisma is so nice, we’ll also go over a few nuances around flirting so you can create attraction as more than just a friend.
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0:00 - Intro.
0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile.
2:21 - #2: Own the space around you.
5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method.
7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.
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  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind9973 жыл бұрын

    I prefer this kind of charisma to the 'cool guy', it makes people around you feel better about themselves and it's just a more positive vibe.

  • @IsaacJoshi

    @IsaacJoshi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah definitely play your personality strengths if you are a warm person he warm. If you are chill be chill :)

  • @TakeBackYourMind997

    @TakeBackYourMind997

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@IsaacJoshi Totally agree. I think too many people try to force the wrong style for them

  • @disciplinado2190

    @disciplinado2190

    3 жыл бұрын

    Save the Uygur people. Byctt China! who is kllng them. Byctt France who banned religious freedom.

  • @Sifar_Secure

    @Sifar_Secure

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@disciplinado2190 I'm happy to donate some vowels if you're running short.

  • @disciplinado2190

    @disciplinado2190

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Sifar_Secure I'm happy to share some knowledge if you'll benefit.

  • @TheRealSpicke
    @TheRealSpicke3 жыл бұрын

    I think Gordon Ramsey could be a very interesting person to be analysed on this channel.

  • @light5891

    @light5891

    3 жыл бұрын

    No you donut

  • @kalpeshrawat418

    @kalpeshrawat418

    3 жыл бұрын

    Also that missing lamb sauce

  • @strawberrymilk2303

    @strawberrymilk2303

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kalpeshrawat418 He found the lamb sauce

  • @LDarlong

    @LDarlong

    3 жыл бұрын

    His Charisma is like Gandhi’s Flip Flops

  • @tonyoramos1

    @tonyoramos1

    3 жыл бұрын

    For being a bad person?

  • @anthonycooper6441
    @anthonycooper64413 жыл бұрын

    Video suggestion: how to never run out of social battery

  • @TreblePvP

    @TreblePvP

    3 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE. I can't tell you how much this is needed as an introvert

  • @watema3381

    @watema3381

    3 жыл бұрын

    People are exhausting. We could use this.

  • @whodatboi2567

    @whodatboi2567

    3 жыл бұрын

    I imagine you just have to not overextend yourself in social situations.

  • @vision4860

    @vision4860

    3 жыл бұрын

    Impossible.

  • @Endershock1678

    @Endershock1678

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm extroverted, but because I'm the very high energy animated kind of extrovert, people exhaust me after a while, so this would help a lot.

  • @papajupri1070
    @papajupri10703 жыл бұрын

    I was smiling the whole time while watching this. Chris Evans' smile is contagious for sure.

  • @Heywood.Jablome

    @Heywood.Jablome

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jeez. He's a 10. Of course he's perfect. Therefore not a good role model for the 90%

  • @neerajbaranwal7294

    @neerajbaranwal7294

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oops noticed after reading this

  • @sanasafeena2416
    @sanasafeena24163 жыл бұрын

    Him: the first tip is to smile Me in the middle of a pandemic: 😷😷😷 am I charming enough yet?

  • @sirkmar9756

    @sirkmar9756

    3 жыл бұрын

    Smile through your eyes. And oyeah listen with you ears

  • @fzfzfzfz499

    @fzfzfzfz499

    3 жыл бұрын

    Indian?

  • @sanasafeena2416

    @sanasafeena2416

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fzfzfzfz499 yeah

  • @TheGreektrojan

    @TheGreektrojan

    3 жыл бұрын

    As someone who works in retail, its trivially easy to smile through the mask.

  • @fzfzfzfz499

    @fzfzfzfz499

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sanasafeena2416 yeah feels terrible

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын

    *“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”* *―C. S. Lewis*

  • @christopherbucher7017

    @christopherbucher7017

    3 жыл бұрын

    My favorite author :) :) :)

  • @RealWolfmanDan

    @RealWolfmanDan

    3 жыл бұрын

    I liked this and wanted to share it, when I looked it up apparently there is no record of Mr. Lewis ever saying it, but there is a very similar quote from author James Sherman: "You can’t go back and make a new start, but you can start right now and make a brand new ending.”

  • @TheCpj1976

    @TheCpj1976

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not actually his quote. Misattributed.

  • @StreetHierarchy

    @StreetHierarchy

    2 жыл бұрын

    I thought that was Annie Wilkes...🤔

  • @ReasonAboveEverything

    @ReasonAboveEverything

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheCpj1976 Yeah the first guy who said it lived 6000bc in Mesopotamia.

  • @fillpereira
    @fillpereira2 жыл бұрын

    As someone that used to be obese and recently got into the best shape of my life. Being comfortable in your own body is HUGE. It's a heck of a lot easier to "own the space around you" when you're not self-conscious about how you look or if your love handles are hanging out in a weird way.. Being in great shape boosts your confidence automatically. Once you do that, a lot of the tips being discussed here simply come naturally. That's my personal experience anyway.

  • @jacobstevens6633

    @jacobstevens6633

    2 жыл бұрын

    100% truth

  • @sludgerat666

    @sludgerat666

    2 жыл бұрын

    Legendary man 💪

  • @Lessk69

    @Lessk69

    2 жыл бұрын

    When you go from fat to fit and you see women looking at you that never would have before it's incredibly motivating and inspires a lot of confidence. That confidence just amplifies your attractiveness.

  • @k.5425

    @k.5425

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Was also overweight. Haven't gotten to my goal yet but I see the difference.

  • @brago1997

    @brago1997

    Жыл бұрын

    what if you're short?

  • @simranbansal9303
    @simranbansal93033 жыл бұрын

    1) Speak through a smile. smile through your eyes and be charming. laugh at your own words. do not smile 24/7 like, starting a story, start serious and it gets to the funnier part, you can start smiling and then start laughing. keep the smile genuine. try to guide the conversation to things that actually make you laugh. 2) own the space around you. use your hands when you speak, use gestures. and even when you're not speaking, you can take up space when you laugh. put yoir head back, pur your hand on their shoulder or knee. this way you can slowly make people more comfortable to your touch and so if you're interested in them, you will easily be able to kiss them. also, another way to know if they're really interested or not. take up the space around you. ALSO, do not laugh at everything the other person says, it's cringy 3. Bounce between a) teasing lightly b) complimenting kindly bounce back and forth between this. this is called as the push-pull technique. this makes you less predictable and makes gou moe interesting. they wanna know what you'll say. more likely to work on people who are used to JUST good compliments. they're more likely to be attracted to this. don't just tease and be a jerk or give compliments and be out in the friendzone. 4. don't hide your flaws. own the mistakes that you did. if they jab at you, take it and laugh at it. if you're scared, admit it. Admit being scared, embarrassed. be willing to laugh at your own mistakes and be willing to own them. this shows you're not afraid to be judged. the thing that would bother other people, you're comfortable with it.

  • @antalyalyaync1423

    @antalyalyaync1423

    2 жыл бұрын

    where is 5th i cant find in this fckng video

  • @damiansaucedo9951

    @damiansaucedo9951

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@antalyalyaync1423 is be yourself (:

  • @All_you_need_is_love2018

    @All_you_need_is_love2018

    2 жыл бұрын

    The 5th is to sign-up and pay for the course they’re offering.

  • @yaublediesa4448

    @yaublediesa4448

    2 жыл бұрын

    Goat

  • @pranjaldangwal1425

    @pranjaldangwal1425

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tbh, You deserve more likes..........

  • @velvetsteele
    @velvetsteele3 жыл бұрын

    Simple: just be a movie star. Works every time.

  • @riadheddine1838

    @riadheddine1838

    3 жыл бұрын

    At the end of the day this the rule number one 😂

  • @AxxLAfriku

    @AxxLAfriku

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a big... BIG... BIIIIGGGGG... muscles!!! HAHAHA!!! What did you think I was going for? That's so DIRTY of you! GAGAGAGA!!! I am the funniest KZreadr ever! Maybe that's the reason why I have TWO (!!!) HOT (!) GIRLFRIENDS. Thanks for being alive, dear val

  • @Priapus212

    @Priapus212

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AxxLAfriku big appetite, ego, head, nose

  • @WeAreAllOneNature

    @WeAreAllOneNature

    3 жыл бұрын

    Charisma on Command - ''The way to fake a genuine smile is to ....''

  • @twilamcintosh6032

    @twilamcintosh6032

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well I mean there is Brie Larson... 😳

  • @noelnunez1372
    @noelnunez13723 жыл бұрын

    Please Do a video of “how to talk to someone that we haven’t spoken or seen since the pandemic started?” I love your videos, great job

  • @MoonAtomic7

    @MoonAtomic7

    3 жыл бұрын

    What a great idea!!!

  • @AnneGoggansQHHT

    @AnneGoggansQHHT

    3 жыл бұрын

    Give them an F-ing hug. 😁

  • @melonie_peppers

    @melonie_peppers

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so specific lol

  • @FireJach

    @FireJach

    3 жыл бұрын

    dude, i need it

  • @biffit9060

    @biffit9060

    3 жыл бұрын

    Be better than you were before, physically, mentally, socially. It will be SUPER noticible!

  • @johnnyprogress7498
    @johnnyprogress74983 жыл бұрын

    1) Speak through a smile; 2) Own the space around you; 3) Use the push-pull method; and 4) Be willing to laugh at yourself.

  • @FireJach

    @FireJach

    3 жыл бұрын

    you copied the list from the description

  • @uneekuh

    @uneekuh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@FireJach they summarized the video so people don’t have to sit thru lmao

  • @All_you_need_is_love2018

    @All_you_need_is_love2018

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @NeilCWCampbell

    @NeilCWCampbell

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ty dude these talks ramble with no decent summation

  • @raredreamfootage

    @raredreamfootage

    2 жыл бұрын

    And star in an all-time, record breaking, blockbuster movie.

  • @epiloguemetalogue
    @epiloguemetalogue3 жыл бұрын

    Don't forget to be physically gorgeous while you apply these techniques.

  • @connorbetancourt5605

    @connorbetancourt5605

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh I almost frogot ( Changes face shape)

  • @forgetfulstranger

    @forgetfulstranger

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@connorbetancourt5605 perfection.

  • @connorbetancourt5605

    @connorbetancourt5605

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@forgetfulstranger thank you😂😂😂

  • @trainerrrss

    @trainerrrss

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ofc

  • @cerenyldz2754

    @cerenyldz2754

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow genius who would have thought that

  • @ClarenceEwing
    @ClarenceEwing3 жыл бұрын

    Seems like a warning is appropriate: be VERY careful when touching other people in public, especially people you don't know. The two Chrises can do it because they're obviously friends and enjoy being around each other. But for those of us who aren't gorgeous Hollywood stars, it can be very easy to invade someone's physical space in an unpleasant way without meaning to. Read the room, always.

  • @starRushi
    @starRushi3 жыл бұрын

    Another thing to do is laugh at the jokes they really care about. It makes them feel like you understand them, and often promotes a feeling of empathy

  • @prepperjonpnw6482

    @prepperjonpnw6482

    2 жыл бұрын

    You need to come back and edit your comment please

  • @starRushi

    @starRushi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@prepperjonpnw6482 Haha, good catch, thank you

  • @pinkclouds5388
    @pinkclouds53883 жыл бұрын

    You can be confident and do almost anything and people won't question it

  • @Bilbus7

    @Bilbus7

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is true.

  • @gerdina5168

    @gerdina5168

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is so true lol

  • @anpatman
    @anpatman3 жыл бұрын

    I am a simple straight Woman, i see Chris Evans - i click

  • @BV-us9fw
    @BV-us9fw3 жыл бұрын

    Chris is naturally a cool, charming guy.

  • @unchained8491

    @unchained8491

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, Chris

  • @concernedcitizen6577
    @concernedcitizen65773 жыл бұрын

    My notes on this video... Step 1: Look like a Hollywood stud Step 2:

  • @AmbitionIsaMust115

    @AmbitionIsaMust115

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mission completed

  • @cltnthecultist

    @cltnthecultist

    3 жыл бұрын

    Have a giant member, too. I’m sure that helps in the confidence department

  • @BoissonMedia

    @BoissonMedia

    3 жыл бұрын

    Step 3: Profit

  • @artetconscience

    @artetconscience

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cltnthecultist No I'm afraid it doesn't.

  • @Jesusisyhwh

    @Jesusisyhwh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Step 2: be incredibly rich.

  • @prisonmike4991
    @prisonmike49912 жыл бұрын

    I Don't know man but watching Chris Evans laugh everytime I couldn't be able to stop my laugh either.

  • @garyglaser4998
    @garyglaser49983 жыл бұрын

    Plus, it always helps to be unbelievably fit and handsome.

  • @zoeydeutch6768
    @zoeydeutch67683 жыл бұрын

    I hate myself because I’m nervous in every conversation and in the middle of a sentence I forget what I’m talking about.

  • @DocPegLegRed

    @DocPegLegRed

    3 жыл бұрын

    You got this, Zoey! Keep putting yourself out there and tell yourself the truth, which is you don’t have to be anyone but yourself. Have fun

  • @OMGSHEENA

    @OMGSHEENA

    3 жыл бұрын

    Have you considered that you may have adhd? I do and one of the symptoms is that I forget what I'm talking about while I'm talking about it. This doesn't mean you can't go into the conversation with confidence though. Remind yourself that no matter how the convo goes, you'll be ok. Because you will. Then remember that if you mess up or forget you can laugh it off knowing you're human, we all make mistakes, and you will be ok. You've got this! 👍

  • @zoeydeutch6768

    @zoeydeutch6768

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@OMGSHEENA Thanks for the comment! :) yeah, I thought of that. I know that I have social phobia but I don't know if it's the cause or consequence of something else, maybe adhd. I'm still looking for the courage to go to therapy. Because of the communication problems I'm very afraid of it.

  • @katietremaine6359

    @katietremaine6359

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't worry hun! I have this problem too and it gets embarrassing at times but you have to just let it go and understand that you're only human 👍🏻😁

  • @OMGSHEENA

    @OMGSHEENA

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zoeydeutch6768 @Zoey Deutch Don't be afraid of therapy. A good therapist that is the right fit for you will listen to you and offer tools to cope with and/or overcome the obstacles that your brain is creating. Try online therapy if it's easier a lot of health insurance companies are starting to cover online therapy now. Your brain, like mine, may work differently from some, but that doesn't make it broken or bad. As simple as it sounds breathing is the best tool I've found for almost every issue I have and I have so many issues I offer subscriptions. But seriously, feeling anxious? Take a deep breath and let it out slowly counting backwards from ten. (Also if you have someone you trust near by, hold their hand. Skin to skin contact releases dopamine and other "feel good" hormones) Feeling angry? Take a deep breath, close your eyes, remember something that makes you feel calm (think of something ahead of time to be your go to so that you'll remember it when upset), smile and let the breath out slowly. Got the hiccups? Take a quick deep breath that expands your chest pulling shoulders back and hold it for 5 seconds and release slowly (gasping when scared or holding breath expands diaphragm which is what really helps hiccups), Can't stop crying, having IBS issues or experiencing pain? You guessed it .. slow deep breaths in, slow puckered breaths out (like you're blowing out candles slowly) Rapid short breaths when in pain or otherwise can cause hyperventilation so slow breathing can be vital. I had a boss that used to ask every new trainee what the number one rule in a knife fight is. Most would say bring a gun or don't forget the knife etc but the answer is to "remain calm" and I've found this to be true of almost any situation. The best way to remain calm, or atleast appear calm is to take slow deep breaths, in my experience. Even if someone is verbally attacking you, arguing etc just tune them out, hum if you have to (it helps tune out inner or outer noise, and take deep slow breaths until you're ready to continue. Obviously if you're in physical danger remove yourself from the situation if you can, breathing can't stop a knife or a fist or bullets but it can help you to think clearly and calm your body and mind. Also you'd be surprised how much standing with good posture, chin up, shoulders back etc., will influence your ability to feel confident. Good luck!

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance3 жыл бұрын

    the more you get rejected.. the less you care about it ....the less fear you have for it.... the better you perform

  • @randomdude79404

    @randomdude79404

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see you on every video bro 😂

  • @drewp2170

    @drewp2170

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't necessarily agree with that. You want to be successful, if you get rejected or fail that means you main a mental mistake or error, which is going against a competitive work environment that shuns errors. You want to feel confident and have a long history of successful experiences to draw from. If you keep getting rejected, you get numb and slowly turn into a loser.

  • @tameratupou4217
    @tameratupou42173 жыл бұрын

    I would love to see how these techniques work for an average looking non celebrity.

  • @Confidenceiatry
    @Confidenceiatry3 жыл бұрын

    Confident people love sharing a smile. It makes other people feel comfortable.

  • @karaokeforyou4
    @karaokeforyou43 жыл бұрын

    FINALLY a Chris evans Breakdown

  • @GarderN95
    @GarderN952 жыл бұрын

    Its easy to be charming when you're comfortable with the people around you, and you're already respected like Chris here. If you can be like Chris in a room with strangers and you're not a celebrity, then that's impressive.

  • @iwasanMBTInerd
    @iwasanMBTInerd2 жыл бұрын

    One thing this channel taught me about charisma is that there is no one size fits all and you should not try to be someone you are not. For my personality, I have found something akin to Chris Evan's charm to be most natural to incorporating into my own social interactions.

  • @randomman9752

    @randomman9752

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah 👍

  • @AdityaPrasad007
    @AdityaPrasad0072 жыл бұрын

    This channel is basically game without the toxic parts of red pill. Love the work you do!

  • @barbarossa9591

    @barbarossa9591

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think toxic parts just come from the people who have problems in past

  • @wge621
    @wge6213 жыл бұрын

    Push pull is hard to pull off if you're socially awkward and especially with the opposite gender. I've seen so many clips of guys on dating shows who think it's cool to talk down to their date or constantly tease her, but then say the odd nice thing. I think if you are doing it, the ratio has to be 80/90% nice and 10-20% tease. Because humans trend to overestimate the mean comments so much more

  • @toddjohnson7572

    @toddjohnson7572

    2 жыл бұрын

    Push-pull requires you to do it with a friend of yours who is good at it, when in front of a girl. Takes two to tango. If he certainly isn't (he doesn't have to be great) -- it won't get you anywhere, and if you continue to keep trying, you'll look annoying to him as it'll make him more closed in. Trying to do that with a girl is only going to work if she's very sociable herself + banters well with you. It's something to employ with a girl After you get things rolling with her in some banter, to test out -- and to really roll with if it clicks with her.

  • @Frankie5Angels150

    @Frankie5Angels150

    2 жыл бұрын

    None of this works unless you are naturally charismatic to begin with. These people are movie stars because they had charisma to begin with. They did not learn it afterwards.

  • @wge621

    @wge621

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Frankie5Angels150 that's not true. Look at his video of the rock. Charisma is absolutely a skill you can develop, it's just that most people don't put the effort into learning and practicing

  • @midnightsun2085
    @midnightsun20853 жыл бұрын

    I'm a simple man. I see Chris Evans I click.

  • @lunarcat632
    @lunarcat6323 жыл бұрын

    No one can replicate the perfection of that man 😰

  • @cindylou3708
    @cindylou37082 жыл бұрын

    When I taught piano one thing I really loved about my Chinese students is how they would laugh at themselves when they messed something up (in one of their piano pieces) during the lesson. It was so charming and made things fun.

  • @nikaivanisevic8887
    @nikaivanisevic88873 жыл бұрын

    i love the video, can you make a video how to react in negative situations because most of these actors you cover are usually in a nice group of people and the energy is always lifted. how about a situation where you really feel uncomfortable? love your channel

  • @alw2839

    @alw2839

    3 жыл бұрын

    He has

  • @connorbetancourt5605

    @connorbetancourt5605

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alw2839 is their a link? Whats the title?

  • @alw2839

    @alw2839

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@connorbetancourt5605 Go to his profile and scroll through them. Apologies I don't have any links.

  • @connorbetancourt5605

    @connorbetancourt5605

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alw2839 oh your fine

  • @DeansLists

    @DeansLists

    2 жыл бұрын

    Check out his How To Command Respect During Conflict

  • @Scorbutics
    @Scorbutics3 жыл бұрын

    The important thing is self-awareness. With it you can realize what's funny in the current situation you are. You can start to see yourself as someone else and therefore distantiate your feelings from your thinking. That obviously requires some energy / attention span in each of your conversations.

  • @casedogLTD
    @casedogLTD2 жыл бұрын

    0:00 - Intro. 0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile. 2:21 - #2: Own the space around you. 5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method. 7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.

  • @youemayare
    @youemayare3 жыл бұрын

    Video suggestion: do a breakdown of the character "Jimmy McGill" from the show Better Call Saul.

  • @chocolate2514
    @chocolate25143 жыл бұрын

    Yes finally, I've been wanting a video on him! I'm personally inspired by the loving character he portrays as Captain America.

  • @Caspianm2
    @Caspianm23 жыл бұрын

    Just discovered your videos yesterday and I'm super excited to start testing all these tricks. Thanks for doing what you do to provide non-toxic advice.

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin3 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing! I remember when CoC was not even 1 million. Now you're close to 5 million subscribers!

  • @loe3175
    @loe31753 жыл бұрын

    So many parts of communication can be very different for women than for men. Could you do more female focused breakdowns?

  • @dirtywill9796
    @dirtywill97962 жыл бұрын

    Hey CoC, I love your content! I actually didn't watch this video for the longest time because of the title, (I'm a happily married man). I'm glad I came around and watched this though, each video like this helps reinforce lessons from your other videos. Your videos have been a tremendous help in my personal and professional growth.

  • @maemagnolia
    @maemagnolia2 жыл бұрын

    I love this channel 🤟🏽 it’s helped so much with my social anxiety

  • @tsherman393
    @tsherman3933 жыл бұрын

    Competence and confidence, along with good looks and charisma. Good luck

  • @datboidominican
    @datboidominican3 жыл бұрын

    I like the touch of the success stories towards the end. Very interesting and empowering resource. Thank you for this video. Very encouraging.

  • @EvilWhiteMale63
    @EvilWhiteMale632 жыл бұрын

    Okay there's no way I can remember all the things you've discussed all over I do appreciate it.

  • @j-l6913
    @j-l69133 жыл бұрын

    MAKE A VIDEO ON PATRICE O NEAL ASAP. This cannot be a charisma channel without analyzing THE GOAT OF CHARM PATRICE.

  • @pascalscherr5206

    @pascalscherr5206

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think he's too controversial for a big channel like this to risk it haha but I hope they do

  • @denisostomo
    @denisostomo3 жыл бұрын

    Please do a video on how to be charming in online interactions (if you haven’t already). Love your videos!

  • @pythonxz
    @pythonxz2 жыл бұрын

    This channel is the most legit channel of this kind.

  • @jaegerkarina
    @jaegerkarina2 жыл бұрын

    been waiting for a chris evans character study from this channel for years but this isnt what i expected. maybe something around the lines of how to get around public speaking anxiety which evans has repeatedly admitted to having and seeing how he's grown out of it would be nice!

  • @joepesci2269
    @joepesci22693 жыл бұрын

    thank you very much! i watched this video and now im just as charming as this ultrahandsome popular celebrity!! WOW works like magic!!

  • @philippkarbaum
    @philippkarbaum3 жыл бұрын

    Gotta love Chris, such a likeable guy!

  • @LexyMe123
    @LexyMe1233 жыл бұрын

    He’s just perfect 😩❤️❤️❤️

  • @VihanDamaris
    @VihanDamaris3 жыл бұрын

    This was great. 😊

  • @anaelpatty17
    @anaelpatty173 жыл бұрын

    I've been waiting for a Chris Evans video from this channel for years. I have never clicked so fast!

  • @thejukeboxNEM
    @thejukeboxNEM3 жыл бұрын

    I love Chris and I love this channel!

  • @ryfreedman
    @ryfreedman3 жыл бұрын

    This gave me a few things to think about.

  • @atefifa7769
    @atefifa77693 жыл бұрын

    Be who you are.

  • @annamarczuk2030
    @annamarczuk20303 жыл бұрын

    I'd love to hear more about push-pull method because it didn't understand it entirely.

  • @pabooklas4628
    @pabooklas46282 жыл бұрын

    there is nothing like this anywhere. I never paid for any of their stuff but free stuff alone helped me a lot!!!

  • @searchfortruth6889
    @searchfortruth68892 жыл бұрын

    Com'on!! If someone is good looking and attractive, he automatically behaves in a manner which has a pullimg effect, ur body language during conversation comes from confidence, if someone is attractive he will not be looking much for approvals, so wat matters mostly is ur looks. If u r gifted with outstanding looks y would u feel insecure?? and it results in build up of comfidence.

  • @bbains963
    @bbains9633 жыл бұрын

    There is a reason why i love Chris Evans so much

  • @oftankoftan
    @oftankoftan3 жыл бұрын

    I think this channel is doing great things for people with social phobia and people on the autism spectrum.

  • @beasthaven1571
    @beasthaven15712 жыл бұрын

    A mentor is what sounds amazing

  • @cptmactavish3310
    @cptmactavish33102 жыл бұрын

    These videos really helping us dudes who grew up without dads

  • @yMeMoo
    @yMeMoo3 жыл бұрын

    Wish I had these video guides in the 2000's so I wasn't this socially awkward kid that got picked on. Learning to laugh at myself along with others taught me to accept my flaws and has changed me to the extrovert adult I am today.

  • @whereismypozolewithchile2228
    @whereismypozolewithchile22283 жыл бұрын

    I saw a comment that suggested how to never run out social battery and I totally support that idea

  • @ExposureNinja
    @ExposureNinja3 жыл бұрын

    Confidence is key!

  • @Matt_Nor
    @Matt_Nor3 жыл бұрын

    It's been a long time Charisma, where have you guys been?

  • @shadowr2d2
    @shadowr2d22 жыл бұрын

    Dam.. This is very insightful, & useful as well. You sir have a new subscriber. Keep up the great work 💪..

  • @nathanherren6708
    @nathanherren67083 жыл бұрын

    The funny thing is when you have a whole bunch of money, these things just come naturally

  • @timo4022

    @timo4022

    3 жыл бұрын

    How come

  • @my_family_journal

    @my_family_journal

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mark Zuckerberg looking like a lizard: 🤐

  • @Jack_Mehoff

    @Jack_Mehoff

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cap

  • @spiritgaming1442

    @spiritgaming1442

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its more of the opposite effect, these traits are what make people successful, for actors and celebrities charisma is what gets them to success as an actor. Entrepreneurs like mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs don't need as much charisma because their strength lies within there respective work, though the ability of public speaking is extremely helpful for big company owners.

  • @misterspino9646

    @misterspino9646

    3 жыл бұрын

    nah

  • @AubreeGames
    @AubreeGames3 жыл бұрын

    I would really appreciate more details on implementing the push-pull method. It sounds like something I do to a small extent naturally. But I think I could improve in both finding appropriate opportunities to tease and delivering complements in non-cheesy ways.

  • @atthecore4560
    @atthecore45602 жыл бұрын

    People shouldn't worry about how they're perceived when they interact with someone they're attracted to. When you put on a mask to increase you ability to be perceived as attractive, you'll only gain the attention of those who are attracted to the act you create, not the true, inner you. It's campy and it's corny, but never underestimate the power of just being yourself. Being sexy means that you believe in yourself. Best of luck to you all as you discover this. Just remember; if you can't love yourself, how can you expect to love anyone else?

  • @OMGSHEENA
    @OMGSHEENA3 жыл бұрын

    You should do a video on how to recognize if you are being manipulative without meaning to be. And alternative ways to communicate or respond that aren't manipulative.

  • @SteamPunkLinken7
    @SteamPunkLinken73 жыл бұрын

    I just watched one of your videos from 5 years ago!!! Dude your voice has change! 🤣

  • @247tubefan
    @247tubefan3 жыл бұрын

    Being Captain America is such a cheat code.

  • @silasnew15
    @silasnew152 жыл бұрын

    these videos are so interesting to watch. we'll see if I can actually apply the principles 😅

  • @dancingram79
    @dancingram793 жыл бұрын

    Im just here to watch Chris Evans being chsrming 🥰

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting3 жыл бұрын

    Answering the questions you gave too much pride to ask.

  • @yoavhanuka2772
    @yoavhanuka27723 жыл бұрын

    Great one!

  • @sobhan7785
    @sobhan77853 жыл бұрын

    so basically just be yourself thats the ultimate method

  • @the21stsergeant
    @the21stsergeant2 жыл бұрын

    Such excellent advice.

  • @duncanator9307
    @duncanator93073 жыл бұрын

    Wow I notice that I do most of this right but sometimes I do put my self in the box when I get in my head.

  • @yanguskhan8513
    @yanguskhan85132 жыл бұрын

    i miss craig ferguson. his late night show was one of my favorites.

  • @theblazer3665
    @theblazer36653 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos man, gotta say I've been a fan for a while!!

  • @davidportej
    @davidportej2 жыл бұрын

    as a drummer I can confirm, the push pull technique is really effective.

  • @alexisbernadac2099
    @alexisbernadac20993 жыл бұрын

    Well what a perfect opportunity for the needy people it will feel like family there's a lot of help (:

  • @doctoralla2067
    @doctoralla20673 жыл бұрын

    You and I both love Game of Thrones, and I just thought it'd be cool if you analyzed Varys since he's very similar to Littlefinger. Love your channel by the way.

  • @tristanhenry6689
    @tristanhenry66893 жыл бұрын

    Love the breakdown. I know that it’s been proposed in a video before that Tony Stark and Robert Downey Jr. are "cooler" than Steve Rogers and Chris Evans respectively because of the former’s sarcastic personalities, but I feel like Rogers and Evans don’t need sarcasm to be charismatic because they’re kind and kindness *is* cool.

  • @AD-ui6sk
    @AD-ui6sk3 жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah I hate when people start teasing me about less enjoyed MOVIES I starred in 😂

  • @madderz8737
    @madderz87373 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your videos, youve upped my game immensly and now so many women chase me and i love the game hahahahaha, i feel like joe for YOU

  • @anthonysanville2841
    @anthonysanville28412 жыл бұрын

    This is a good video the only flaw is that your examples are all based off of someone that is already center of attention. That already gives you the confidence and social power over others

  • @user-sw7pi8cy5c
    @user-sw7pi8cy5c3 жыл бұрын

    Make a video on Draco Malfoy (Harry Potter-movie version). He is a really interesting character but what makes such a huge number of people like him ???!!!!

  • @williamseric7691
    @williamseric76913 жыл бұрын

    Reason why everyone should have a profitable investment.people need money

  • @michaeljohn3328

    @michaeljohn3328

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're right Investment is the key to surviving during times like this when the government decided to mess with people.

  • @ruthfrank9873

    @ruthfrank9873

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah what type of Investment y'all are into .the stock market has been crashing lately.

  • @zackyo370

    @zackyo370

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bitcoin investment is the best when you're on a profit based platform especially with the current rise.

  • @Veronica-kp6sd

    @Veronica-kp6sd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Investing in cryptocurrency and gold which is better?

  • @jameswalk7958

    @jameswalk7958

    3 жыл бұрын

    I must say I haven't seen a relatable investment, my wife pushed me to start looking into stock and crypto some time before the pandemic because we were looking for other sources of

  • @DiceNinja
    @DiceNinja3 жыл бұрын

    Quick question: throwing my head back and laughing like that is something I really WANT to do, but I feel like as a girl it gives off a different impression than when a guy does it. Is that just a false perception on my part or is there something else I should do instead?

  • @peckishcloud

    @peckishcloud

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just because it gives a different impression, doesn't mean it gives a bad impression. Some people will like it and other's won't, so it's a great way to differentiate between people you should spend your time around. But like they always say, do callibrate it to the people and the situation. A general rule is to just keep your energy at 1 level above everyone else (in group settings.)

  • @D00Rb3LL

    @D00Rb3LL

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@peckishcloud My problem is that leaning back and laughing is just so unnatural to me. I’m worried it’s going to come across as fake or excessive. I am a man btw.

  • @peckishcloud

    @peckishcloud

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@D00Rb3LL That kind of excessive laughter isn't a necessary thing, but just like any skill you have to develop it. Most situations don't call for it, so I would focus more on laughing deep in the belly, making it feel more natural, and training your mind to focus on the funny to make laughter more common. These things take time, but making it habitual is what will make it feel natural.

  • @CarlosFernandez-df7mi

    @CarlosFernandez-df7mi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Some charming girls I’ve met move their head sideways and use hand/arm expressions when laughing. It’s more subtle but it might be easier for you to adapt yourself and personalize it if you feel like leaning is too much.

  • @RusticVisuals

    @RusticVisuals

    2 жыл бұрын

    Late to this question but my girlfriend has a really drastic laugh when i tell a good one. Head back and a very loud HA that quiets down into more normal hahahas, but I always just go "yeah! I really got her that time" its what I always thought since the beginning

  • @MajorKoenig
    @MajorKoenig2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yes, and don't forget to look like Chris as well!

  • @DanielRandB
    @DanielRandB3 жыл бұрын

    NEAL CAFFERY FROM THE SHOW "WHITE COLLAR" CHARISMA BREAKDOWN Please And Thank You

  • @tannerstettler7300

    @tannerstettler7300

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes we need this

  • @wendywendy8157
    @wendywendy81573 жыл бұрын

    So what about adding some more examples with women to your videos? I'd recommend looking at the cast of Ocean's 8 - those ladies are so fun to watch, their chemistry with each other is pulpable and each one of them has great sense of humour.

  • @kelleynele
    @kelleynele3 жыл бұрын

    the part on building up to certain types of touch is NB 👌🏽

  • @Mexican_Jedi
    @Mexican_Jedi2 жыл бұрын

    Chris Evans has a contagious laugh.

  • @TheGuitologist
    @TheGuitologist2 жыл бұрын

    If these celebrities see themselves picked apart on these videos, I bet they come away with a serious complex.

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