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Right here Dr Phil is reinforcing what she said about having an OCD expert on the show. He clearly has no education on how to talk about OCD in a professional and healthy way.

@tempersflaire

3 жыл бұрын

All he knows is forensic psychology and deception detection. That is IT. That's the only thing hes ever told he has degrees in. This is something he doesnt need to be talking about t

@biggreenleaf7035

3 жыл бұрын

Well that's why he has an expert

@i._edixx9376

2 жыл бұрын

But then if she knew that then she should of just gone to an OCD expert instead. Why did she feel the need to go onto dr phil’s show?

OCD is completely awful and can take over completely. I was under the impression that OCD was about actions, like having to close a door so many times etc, until my son was diagnosed with OCD. He experienced ruminating thoughts about losing his memory, it doesn't sound that bad but it was dreadful, it was all he could think about every minute of the day and night, it didn't matter what I said to help him, he just couldn't get out of that cycle. I had to take time off work because he couldn't be alone, he was 17 and we even shared a bed through this because he literally couldn't be alone. He was put on Prozac and that helped him, along with seeing a psychologist. OCD isn't a joke, it can literally drive people crazy. I really hope this woman can get the help she needs. I don't particularly like dr Phil but I hope she gets more out of this then he does at least.

@squigglyline6488

3 жыл бұрын

I actually learned to control it.

If you are reading this: OCD is serious and you can get over it... this video is very informative and addresses what a horrible disorder OCD is (as someone who had OCD I should have addressed this better... you may not ever get over it... but you can live with i)

@ByeByeBelly

3 жыл бұрын

Yea I'll just get over my lifelong personality lol

@lilydenhartog4948

3 жыл бұрын

@@ByeByeBelly HAHAHAH I WISH IT WAS THAT EASY

@whatisupdawg

3 жыл бұрын

a better phrase is maybe “you can learn to cope with it” :)

@lilydenhartog4948

3 жыл бұрын

@@whatisupdawg we all can

@damianlopez7630

3 жыл бұрын

I suffer from O.C.D. It Can control every aspect of your Life. Not Good.

That's a real friend right there 🧡✨ if you're reading this Austin we need more people like you!

It doesn’t seem like she’s using the groups for help, she’s feeding into them to just let her know whats wrong but not a solution or plan to a solution

@kutestsnails7331

3 жыл бұрын

She acts proud of it.

@AD-wi4fq

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree. I think this is more of a case of someone with a personality disorder using another diagnosis to justify her bad behavior towards others and avoid accountability. It feels more like she keeps attending conferences or groups to become more knowledgeable and aware of how OCD works rather than using the support or knowledge to actually help herself. She seems proud of having OCD rather than perceiving it as actual painful struggle, which I feel someone with OCD actually display. She seems very attention-seeking, narcissistic, manipulative, and controlling. And Dr. Phil shut her down; I'm glad.

@lornatw

3 жыл бұрын

Hi, have you watched her other clips on this show, dr Phil is manipulative and condescending, if this woman was hosting the show there would be so much awareness and education going on.Dr Phil hasn't allowed that. She seems 'proud' by smiling because shes being so so patient and smiling awkwardly because shes realised what the show is really about. Regarding how she's using the groups sometimes it starts with actually trying to understand what's going on first, becoming comfortable and then finding solutions, it's a process. She doesn't know what her options are. Her family and Dr Phil need to also adapt and help and support. And no, Dr Phil, not everybody has a bit of OCD (d being 'disorder' therefore distress).

Saying everyone has a little ocd is so damaging to the stigma Dr Phil...this is like saying “everyones depressed!” or “everyone has adhd!” no, everyone can be anxious or particular yes, but having ocd is separate entirely, you dont have a little ocd you either have it or you dont and it is serious its not normal if you are worried if you have it seek a professional opinion :) I believe in you and you are strong.

@restingbitchface3775

3 жыл бұрын

True. And it's particularly harmful bc a lot of ppl think of their quirks as ocd :/

@Nissan370_z

2 жыл бұрын

No I'd say everyone has a but of ADHD . That's been known for awail. We are all humans and we all have ADHD or add some more than others. Same goes for depression. Who do u know that does not get depressed. Everyone on earth has depression some more than others . It's not just either you have it or you don't. Lol

@brooklynmoore9931

2 жыл бұрын

but if you listen, he doesn’t bring up everyone having OCD, he mentions that there are things people are OCD about in particular. like for example, i hate stepping on sidewalk cracks. that’s an OCD behavior, not the actual diagnosis. he after says “but here we are talking disrupting your life.”

I've been dealing with OCD for years, I'm an ocd cleaner, organizer and neat freak. Yes I was diagnosed with it it's exhauasting to deal with. I love being clean and organized but it doesn't just stop at that when you deal with it in the ocd issue it's exhausting

I feel for this woman, as a teenager my OCD was so bad I would bite my nails for hours by my back door

@honeybear9564

3 жыл бұрын

💜

@itielelpida

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you.

Great explanation doc, my son & I have ocd and it is definately anxiety driven. My son washes his hands so often they bleed and crack and it is awful but it's nice to feel understood, thank you

Obsessive-compulsive disorder is characterized by unreasonable thoughts and fears (obsessions) that lead to compulsive behaviors.

@EMeditz-nc8xg

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, so many people think it's just keeping everything tidy. It is apart of it but jot the main part

@GomezMedia1

3 жыл бұрын

@@EMeditz-nc8xg just said that in my last comment, white girls attacked me

@EMeditz-nc8xg

3 жыл бұрын

@@GomezMedia1 because they thought it was all about being tidy

@GomezMedia1

3 жыл бұрын

@Billie Jean um... ye-... yes?

@crystelb520

3 жыл бұрын

@@GomezMedia1 I’m not white lol

Everyone does not “have a little OCD in them” come on doc, you can word it Bette than that.

@misscordelia9327

3 жыл бұрын

I know right! It’s misinformation that gets regurgitated all the time and all it does is minimise the seriousness of what suffers go through 😭 I was honestly taken aback when he said that

@milliejay1451

3 жыл бұрын

I think he meant is similar to generalised anxiety disorder. Everyone experiences anxiety but it doesn’t become a disorder until it impacts your life

@ByeByeBelly

3 жыл бұрын

I guess we all have the capability of being anxious, of trying to control our environment/ourselves/others, of associating random things with more serious outcomes or concepts, of doing repetitive actions to attempt to ease anxiety. I have severe OCD but my compulsions became mostly mental as I got older. I never had what looked like classic OCD. I do things like drive home and make myself late to work to check the stove or the locks again, things like that. I also exhaust myself with cleaning and do a lot of hand washing but the hand washing is normal in my industry of work. But I'm more concerned with contamination, for good reason because people at work have made me very ill and caused long term damage to my body. But my physical compulsions don't consume hours a day. However I still have constant mental compulsions and rumination and severe anxiety. I also have a history of agoraphobia that went hand in hand with the OCD which I still struggle with in some ways and I now have PTSD later in life. So mine is like a ball of internal anxiety and ne reacting to it constantly but I can behave normally around people and they think I'm fine. But the problem is I end up having nervous breakdowns and being hospitalized etc as time goes on. Psychological treatment hasn't yet helped. I mean, I try to be positive but this level of anxiety ruins your life and my state of mind is a type of torture. But I still would agree that everyone has a hint of obsessive compulsive qualities, some more than others, because anxiety and repetition are human emotions and traits, we just have it to a heightened level where it's considered a disorder and really negatively impacts our lives. Well that's my opinion anyway

When I see this I can feel how Dr. Phil feels and learns from his patients. He listens, observes, reacts. But he knows. And what he doesn't know is acquired. He's the best.

The ocd and anxiety center of Utah is amazing. My daughter finished an 8 week course , intensive therapy and it helped her a lot

This makes me so sad. All she wants is like dr Phil said “non chaotic” life and when she started crying I could have cried myself. :(

She seems like such a lovely person. I hope she can recover.

@wotintheworld

3 жыл бұрын

Watch the other clips on this show, she is intensely manipulative and dr Phil adresses it beautifully. I've got OCD and i felt she feels really "special".

@missymani

3 жыл бұрын

Not really, she is very abusive towards the people around her. She is just playing nice for the show.

@brittanyanne936

3 жыл бұрын

Well if she gets help then she will be a lovely person

@Will-re8yx

3 жыл бұрын

@@brittanyanne936 won’t be a clean sweep

@brittanyanne936

3 жыл бұрын

@@Will-re8yx well I should of said she COULD not that she will lol. Trying to be more of an optimist

I feel bad for both of them. I have minor OCD. Fear of the #13 and I can only deal with radio/tv volumes at even numbers. The real victim is the guy. Stuck in the friend zone....FOREVER

@lexio4395

3 жыл бұрын

I can only do volumes/temps/numbers that end in 0,2,5,8, because they are even one the number line. I'm on medication that helps a lot with other rituals and such, this one still stresses me tho.

@kajagiddings

3 жыл бұрын

I need my volumes divisible by 5. So 5,10,15,20,25

@ericb.7354

3 жыл бұрын

Why is the number thirteen scary

@lauralynnwilliams2338

3 жыл бұрын

I can only eat/ do things in odd numbers, even if it causes me to over eat or be late

@bellerain381

3 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one who had an even number quirk!

I have mild OCD and have to have a lot of things done a certain way. If for whatever reason I can't do it that way or it doesn't happen that way it freaks me out. Like with making coffee. Milk then water. If it's done the other way I just freak out. I don't even know how to explain it 😂.

@PrincessA244

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY I feel you I have to tie my left shoes before my right lol Or eat my fruits before my main course

I do have ocd. Everytime I leave my house i have to check my stove so many times that sometimes I starred at it for at least 15 min or more just standing there. And checked my doorknob so many times if its locked.

@wolfgirleatsbaby

3 жыл бұрын

I have this checking problem as well, it’s really hard to not let it interrupt my daily life. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this!

@crisy9046

3 жыл бұрын

@@wolfgirleatsbaby told myself so many times to stop and fight it but If i don't it bothers me and end up going back home to checked. Had this since I had my first child and now his 35 yrs old.

@joydarling314

3 жыл бұрын

Try taking super B complex vitamins and inositol it has helped me.

@crisy9046

3 жыл бұрын

@@joydarling314 thank you.

@joydarling314

3 жыл бұрын

@@crisy9046 It really helps it may take a couple weeks but it can really helps. I Thank God for helping me.

Dr. Phil telling viewers that "everybody has a little OCD in them" is incredibly irresponsible. OCD is far from wanting to be organized or clean or to have things a certain way. Following that up by /barely/ emphasizing how disruptive the actions/anxieties of somebody with clinical OCD is to their lives does not reverse his previous improper representation of it.

@lexio4395

3 жыл бұрын

I think his point was to tell people all your minor compulsions you call ocd, isn't close to the extent of the actual disorder.

@mynineandi

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. As someone with clinical OCD, this actually shocked me. This is a very irresponsible thing to say.

@AuDHD99

3 жыл бұрын

He clearly made the point you made, and you clearly just wished it was more dramatic because you feel as though your validation is dependant on the reaction of others. It wasn't 'incredibly irresponsible' at all, you just want to be specialized as if other people having obsessive compulsive tendancies en mass would take away from the utter disruption and strife you feel. Hint: it wouldn't. Sharing a label doesn't hurt your narrative. He at the very most made a misnomer and you can get over it easily.

@anderledvina6860

3 жыл бұрын

@@lexio4395 Saying everybody has a little *insert debilitating mental illness here* in them does nothing but trivialize the struggles people with those illnesses actually go through. If he wanted to tell people that the habits or preferences they have that the mainstream compares to OCD were not at all like that, he should have make it explicitly clear that those are not traits of OCD at all. OCD is stereotyped as being the person who is extremely clean, or has strong preferences on organization, or a distaste for things like cupboard doors being closed. However, the truth is that those trivial desires for organization are in everybody and are NOT something that OCD suffers struggle with in the way we do. OCD is flipping a lightswitch on and off 100 times because you genuinely feel that if you don't your family will die. Or washing your hands with near scalding water for 30 minutes because you feel like you will actually be harmed if you don't. Its not "noo, I hate that those pencils aren't all the same length!!" or "my roommate never closes the bathroom cupboard". People who do not have OCD, or have not lived with somebody who does, can never understand how harmful it actually is.

@anderledvina6860

3 жыл бұрын

@@AuDHD99 A few things with this. First, I do not have OCD. However, I do have multiple diagnoses for a number of other mental illnesses. My twin sister, however, DOES have OCD. The irresponsibility of it is due to two things; the making of a blanket statement that is catchy for the sake of television and the trivialization of a condition he KNOWS is debilitating and serious to its sufferers. Regular people do not have "obsessive compulsive tendencies". They simply don't. People with OCD and OCPD do, because that is the nature of their disorder. Do people have habits? Preferences? Obsessions? Of course. Are some people more irked by things like lack of organization that others? Absolutely. Do people with those traits have OCD? No. That is not what OCD is. This is not just about misusing a label. This is about perpetuating widespread misunderstanding of a very serious mental condition. Everything somebody decides to say "omg, I *need* my pencils organized by color, I'm soooooo OCD" they are diminishing the actual weight the diagnosis holds for the people who actually have it. Mental disorders are not a fun quirk or buzzword or lable people can just slap on themselves to make themselves unique or for the laughs. These illnesses destroy lives. They kill people.

Dr Phil is very misinformed and pleas take these videos with a grain of salt, he does not actually know what he’s talking about and I’ve lost all respect for him

@diane9812

3 жыл бұрын

You aren’t wrong. Hoarding is related to ocpd, which is different than ocd.

I wish he would do more people with "regular" mental illness. A lot of people he has on are just train wrecks for view. Would love to hear about practical advice for people with things like anxiety and depression

@rustyshackleford6789

3 жыл бұрын

It's not as entertaining. Which is exactly what you're saying.

This almost seems like an Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder, not just OCD.

@wil3630

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the exact same thing. OCPD is ego-syntonic, meaning the person believes their way of thinking is correct and everyone else should abide by their beliefs. People with OCPD are usually controlling and manipulative , whereas someone with OCD just want really clean hands haha!

@restingbitchface3775

3 жыл бұрын

I thought that too. The two are very different but are unfortunately thought of as the same thing sometimes :/

@wil3630

3 жыл бұрын

@@restingbitchface3775 what I don’t understand is how “dr” Phil can’t see that

@restingbitchface3775

3 жыл бұрын

@@wil3630 i know right. I was so shocked and disappointed

Dr. Phil doesn’t get OCD

I had OCD "until" I broke my back. The pain took all my thoughts, but when I got it fixed I didnt know how to handle it. Causs I had to wait from the age of 12-16 to get it fixed. So yeah walking around writhing in pain, cuz I can't sit down or feel my legs for a long. Can literally take your mind off stuff. But then your still stuck with it afterwards. It almost feels worse then the physical pain I had to go through.

@MaddHeather

3 жыл бұрын

*Until🤷‍♀️ (Had to cause it was kinda hard to read starting off lol)

Your house is a perfect picture of your state of mind.

My mother had OCD. BUT she was cleaner. She cleaned everything every day all day. It never ended until she crashed from exhaustion. Finally she started taking diet pills so she could stay up to clean for days. She lived for cleaning. I never thought I'd be better off that she had OCD that had to do with cleaning until seeing that ocd can mean hoarding too 👌

My ex had OCD... She use to clean so good you can eat off the floor,😂😂😂

@daniburke9452

3 жыл бұрын

Was it that or the meth jk jk😊🤣

@RUTHLESSambition5

3 жыл бұрын

@@daniburke9452 It was the OCD😂 EVERYTHING had to be in place or neat. When I wasn't smoking kush she drove me insane

Living with OCD people sucks. It’s hard to feel sorry for people who cuss you out over petty things. I’d rather just leave people like that. It’s not my job to be their punching bag.

Her voice...dear god, the voice!

Okay it is SO shitty of Dr Phil to say that everyone has a little bit of ocd. Everyone does NOT have ocd. By definition, ocd is ocd because it disrupts your life and you are controlled by your obsessions and compulsions. Everyone does not have ocd. I’m unsubscribing because of this. An alleged psychologist should not be perpetuating stigma and spreading disinformation.

Hi Dr.Phil!!

Dr. Phil is so very pog

Tell me why i have diagnosed OCD and i’m gluten free due to celiac. This freaked me out a bit but our OcDs are very different

@nachtegaelw5389

3 жыл бұрын

Neither OCD nor Celiac disease are particularly uncommon. It’s probably just a case of random correlation :)

@savannahharris3139

3 жыл бұрын

@@nachtegaelw5389 i’m not worried it just took me off guard you never want a ton of similarities with a guest on these shows haha

@nachtegaelw5389

3 жыл бұрын

@@savannahharris3139 gotcha :)

This sounds like OCPD not OCD

All he needs is the baby blue cardigan.

Im so glad the end blurb has changed, the previous was really long, loud and annoying

Poor woman..

Just because there's other people doesn't mean you're not insane lady

Pro tip: when Dr. Phil says "what are you willing to do to accomplish XYZ?" Your only answer should be "Anything and Everything. I know I haven't been taking the necessary steps before but I'm tired of living like this. I need to change and I may not be ready to change... but I'm going to start today."

I thought she was like 18

This isn’t all what ocd It’s not just hoarding It could be turning the light switch on and off Obsessing over calories Organizing books in a certain order Washing hands til they’re red Depends on the person

To the Early Squad Reading This: Sending Virtual hugs to everyone who needs it. Always stay safe,read my name btw🌊

@BeckBeckGo

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god this is desperate... Have some dignity.

@CanadianBakin42O

3 жыл бұрын

LMFAO get a life.

@Koolkid736

3 жыл бұрын

serious question, what's the point of making accounts like this? do you actually find it fun? lol

Daum MID 30's I mean obviously thats not old but daang I thought she was in her 20's fr !! Also I hope she gets help. She seems awesome:/

She’s so gross.

I felt sorry for this girl. She was reaching out & clearly her laughter was a coping mechanism & not because she found her situation comical... Dr Phil said that he wouldn't enable her controlling tendencies by controlling the situation himself! That doesn't help resolve the situation it just shifts blame. Not the most professional episode I've watched. Dr Phil gave her advice about living in the present and taking baby steps. Though in my opinion with such a massive life limiting illness of that magnitude a more intense (coping skills & mental health plan) is needed. Dr Phil should have put his ego to one side & offered her some professional help & a support group.

So ocd is literally: you're in secure, don't know what for

@kasualbeauty309

3 жыл бұрын

incorrect. it has nothing to do with self esteem or self image.

@mynineandi

3 жыл бұрын

Not at all.

@hmalik2498

3 жыл бұрын

for me, yes

@BeckBeckGo

3 жыл бұрын

What? Where did you get that idea?

@aires8470

3 жыл бұрын

for those of you with ocd : are you also turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or? /j

I can 100% relate

This is the last video on the dr Phil channel can’t go any further then here. Only 1 year ago videos I was trying to find 2020-2015 ect

I thought I knew what OCD was, I didn't know there were sub classifications such as hoarding. This is exactly what I struggle with, I have struggled with it my entire life since I was very young until now into my adulthood and have never been able to get it under control. I am fully aware that it's my responsibility to make the necessary changes and turn my life around but for some reason (or several reasons) I just can't seem to do it. I have other health issues that are preventing me from making changes to my life but this video was enlightening because I never thought I could have OCD since I'm not super organized and and super tidy.

I’m confused because at one point her mother said something about how she forces people to wear their masks and things of that sort, but she is on here without a mask. i understand they more than likely quarantine before coming on the show and they sit far apart, but it just doesn’t completely make sense to me to be super weary with people not wearing them, but she’s on here without it.

@selenakc

3 жыл бұрын

im pretty sure they sit very far apart now

She looks like Tulsi Gabbard, in the thumbnail.

@GomezMedia1

3 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing! just chubbier

Mans permanently stuck in the friendzone

One of the first comments on a dr Phil video!?! What is this.

To the ranch!

It sounds like she's using the group to justify her OCD... that it's ok and that there are others like her. She seems very proud of her OCD and doesn't look like she truly wants to change. I think it's a big identity for her, she wouldn't have anything 'special' if she doesn't have it.

Looks like she died her hair for a 30 second to Mars concert back in 2007 and never cut it again.

never been this early

She’s intensely unlikable

@letternclnovi7116

3 жыл бұрын

Does it even matter?

Here early weird that's its not 4am

@katelynwarren8784

3 жыл бұрын

I know he’s changed his upload schedule and how much he uploads

Vocal fry is on full volume 😐

There’s conferences for OCD, 😑😬

If you keep your baby I will buy it

انا الصحون اذا غسلتها لازم تكون مرتبة من الصحون الصغيرة للكبيرة و الشوك والملاعق كمان لازم تكون ورى بعض بس غرفتي ابد مهي مرتبة ابداَ

Actually its C.D.O in alphabetical order as all things should be.

Im sorry, I cant stand the shape of her face it kind of concerns me

@squigglyline6488

3 жыл бұрын

that's your small amount of ocd you don't like her face shape

Oop-

3 things I am OCD about is people not using a butter knife (which leaves lines in the butter), Putting used butter back into the tub ie scraping the butter off toast and then putting it back into the tub, My wardrobe has to go from white on the left to black on the right.

@xsarahelisa

3 жыл бұрын

That's not OCD. Those are just things that annoy you.

@rhodaleader6824

3 жыл бұрын

It causes high anxiety levels and meltdowns so much so that if I'm at someone's home I will go hungry if I'm unable to make my own sandwich but only after I have inspected their butter tub. I'm not trying to belittle or upset anyone, it's just my quirk.

hi

10th

As a nail biter and an inner lip biter, I can kind of empathize with this chick. Like I get infected hangnails a couple of times a year. I know it's terribly unhealthy to do. I can't stop doing it. I've even put on creams that smell and taste revolting, and it doesn't even slow it down. So I can understand how it's hard to stop a super bad habit loop.

oof

Nm lol

Wonp