12:28 I learned from one of my psych professors that it’s best to wait at least two hours before using social media or watching the news cause the emotions you experience in those first two hours after waking sets your disposition for the rest of the day. I like to read and cuddle my cats with a cup to tea or coffee, makes me more calm through the rest of the day

@user-ws5hv2ut4f

Жыл бұрын

А я по утрам нахожу в интернете хорошую музыку или красивые песни , включаю , и собираюсь на работу .

Me and my husband sleep in separate rooms too for the same reason: ) I wish this would become more normalized , you can still cuddle before bed and be close all day ! I just sleep SO much better alone (and with my own bathroom hah) love these vids!

@andreav83

2 жыл бұрын

Apparently, it was very normal to sleep in separate single beds in the same room during the 1970s...I may be a decade or so out. If I remember correctly, it showed you had wealth because you could afford two beds or something weird like that. I love the concept either way - I'm a very restless sleeper!

@TJ-kz1ul

2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I have slept in separate rooms for over 16 years now. It's nice to see we are not alone, as I have been so insecure about this in the past. We actually have a better marriage this way, because he snores so much. I do miss him in the night though, but sleep is just so important for mental health!

@LocalBogwitch666

2 жыл бұрын

i would love my own room, but ive settle for a bigger bed when we move.

@spinstercatlady

2 жыл бұрын

It used to be very normal! My Nan and Grandpa had separate bedrooms their whole married life (50+ years) bc he was a snorer lol. Like a lot of things,I can definitely see this coming back into "fashion" too haha!

@QueenAusetHeru

2 жыл бұрын

It doesn't have to be normalized. It's your normal and that's enough.

Instead of paper towels, may I suggest buying a whole stack of soft washcloths and use them to dry your face - you can use one side in the morning and the other side at night, then you can throw them straight in the wash and it’s way better for the environment!

@shaneyswift3127

2 жыл бұрын

Came here to say this! I have a large stack of towels in my bathroom specifically so I can change them daily.

@daniellerae4499

2 жыл бұрын

Or you can totally skip drying your face altogether. Just put your moisturizer on wet skin to really lock in the hydration .

@rekwa3860

2 жыл бұрын

@@daniellerae4499 only worth doing if you have good tap water. I don't, so I dry my face to have less residue on it after harsh water.

@allyssarea

2 жыл бұрын

I think they live in an apartment, idk if they have a washer and dryer

@BouncyBrown

2 жыл бұрын

@@allyssarea Yes but can't they wash the towels at the same place as wherever they wash their clothes, even if that's at a laundromat?

I'm a 71 year old bibliophile and for decades have always had several books going simultaneously . It feels soooo good to do that! I have stacks of books in my bedroom and it gives me such comfort. If I get close to the end of a book, I stop reading it and start reading another book to take it's place when it the current one is at it's end so my period of mourning over the loss of that book's story is truncated. Heading things off before the pass.

My fiance and I sleep in separate beds and love each other very much, but just can't sleep together. Thank you for normalizing sleeping separately!

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

🧡🧡🧡

@Tabatha437

2 жыл бұрын

It such a shame that it has become such an odd thing it was always normal in the past

@Malgorbia

Жыл бұрын

Yes. You can sleep together when you want and then don’t have to when you want to have your own space and sleep at different times etc. also it makes the together nights more special IMO. I don’t think it has anything to do with closeness it has to do with wanting your own space within the life you share with someone. It’s not for everyone but it’s completely 100% fine and normal.

I absolutely love love love that this isn't Christmas on crack video. I have also had to learn how to like the winter months. 40+ years in the great white north and I still don't LOVE the winter or snow. But I have learned to move through it and enjoy it for what it is. Comfort food, walking in the snow and listening to the crunchy sounds underfoot.

i always just feel really calm and happy after watching desi’s videos. just a blissful state of serenity

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

🥺🧡🧡🧡

Just started doing my spreads for December and got the notification. I couldn't have asked for better timing to get cosy.

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Aww yay! Have a wonderful time creating your spread! I bet it’ll be beautiful 🧡

I've been having some pretty difficult days at work with a lot of overtime so it feels really good to cozy up with my favourite tea and watch your videos. Thank you so much ♥️

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you’re taking care of yourself 🧡 And thank you 🥺

WHAT?!! I’m so excited, was not expecting this notification to come through today! 🥰😍 YAAAAY!!! 🤗🤍 🍁 ❄️ what a perfect way to finish November and welcome December! 📚 My tbr list is ridiculous and I can tell I’m going to be adding more now, love your book recommendations Desi! Thank you for all the positive, cozy vibes!!! 🇬🇧

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

😁 Surprise! I go 2 weeks without posting and other times I post less than a week between videos, I know no such thing as consistency 😂

@jeeny_jen

2 жыл бұрын

@@DarlingDesi that’s ok! I love surprises! And the anticipation of waiting for a new video… I literally started jumping around all excited with happiness and that’s all thanks to you and not having set posting days… so don’t ever change that 🤗 🫂 🤍❄️

Setting boundaries with my phone and news sources is literally one of the best things I've ever done for both my sleep and my mental health! 200/10 would recommend!!!

@CarySprite

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I had to stop looking at the news. It feels as though they are trying to instill unhappiness or even mass hysteria

@caoimhenimhuireadhaigh1303

2 жыл бұрын

I agree! I find it's a case of I'll find out the important stuff through word of mouth, and can then do my own research on it, but the daily influx of the horribleness going on in the world just makes me feel anxious

your dog is positively a bear! he's so precious.

A Desi video on my birthday?! A cherry on my day! 💜😍

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

OH MY GOODNESS HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I hope your day is full of magic and moments that will turn into cherished memories! ✨🎉

@shrj9859

2 жыл бұрын

@@DarlingDesi thank you!!! 💜

The joy you carry is so contagious! :D I have been waiting all year for your winter content😩

I recently found your channel and I love it so much. I had fallen out of love with reading since I have been burnt out because of the number of literature textbooks I read in college, but Desi, you've really energized my spirits and I am excited to read some of the selections you have recommended in previous videos such as Six Crimson Cranes and A Woman in the Polar Night.

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how I felt too. I never read books for a few years after university because I was so tired of reading. I’m so glad you’ve rediscovered books :) It’s such a beautiful, magical and personal thing to read for pure escapism and fun 😊🧡

Yaaaay it’s our little sunbeam of joy!

I wouldn’t miss a minute with my love. Holding hands as we drift off, giggling over the dog snoring, back rubs etc. for us it’s a sacred intimate experience ❤️🥰

I am so thankful for this video right now. I'm having the most stressful time because of all the tests in school right now and this video just feels so comforting. Thanks!

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry friend. I remember those stressful days and all nighters during the end of the semester. Sending you all the good vibes! You got this! ✨

@sherlock_foxy6050

11 ай бұрын

Ahhh, I just saw this now but thank you so much!! I really appreciate it!!

When you’re already watching one of her videos when you see this 😂✨💕 Yay!

When you’re having a boring day at work, and you’re fav KZreadr posts a new vid! Yay!

The aesthetic 🥺♥️ so dreamy. I’m in school, so burned out I can’t read for fun anymore rn. I used to love reading multiple books at a time ♥️♥️♥️

@acogedoralunadulce7066

2 жыл бұрын

I agree 🥺 I got so into reading again recently during the holidays but now it’s back to school I just not been able to

Love your videos so much! 🧡 I love how you are unapologetically you!!

When I get a notification that you have uploeded a video, my happy time begins 📸❣️🍊♥️🥳😘🥰🤩❤️...

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

Desi you bring so much joy to so many people, you are loved by more people than you even know. Thank you so much for your videos, they make me so happy 🥰🥰

Love that you're enjoying Hoa. It's a product of Vietnamese game developers. Being from Vietnam myself, I'm so proud my country is finally making an impact in creative fields beyond our borders. Seeing international players giving positive reviews of the game make me hopeful of the effort my generation is making in modernizing and bringing Vietnam's image to the world. Fun fact, Hoa means Flower in Vietnamese and it's pronounced Hwa :)

Desi! I was just looking at your channel this morning and wishing you had a new winter video out! Yayyy!

What you said about eating the same thing everyday for a few weeks and then switching to something else is so true!! These days I eat oatmeal all the time (with some cinnamon and maple syrup!) I was just binging your winter videos this morning so this video was such a pleasant surprise! Anyways great video as always love you 💚❤️💚❤️

1. If you wanna have more bird interactions and love in a apartment, I recommend getting a bird feeder! I like identifying the birds from my bird book. 2. If you have a switch, do you have Animal Crossing yet? I just know you would LOVE it!

So excited for the winter/Christmas videos to begin!!! ❄️☃️🎄

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

First official Christmas themed video will be coming next! ❄️😁

Had a pretty crummy morning and when I tell you this lifted my spirits so much, I mean it! Thank you for all the effort and love you put into your videos :-)

Once again a beautiful video that makes me feel like I'm watching a winter fairy 🧚🏽‍♀️ ✨ ❄☃️ Winter is both my favorite and least favorite season, seasonal depression gets to me as the days are shorter and it's dark by 4 pm, but I love the snow and the decorations and the smells. And of course your beautiful videos really help me love winter even more

Your content makes me feel so happy and joyful I love seeing your bright happy face

Hi Desi 💚 thank you for the delightful video!! I know the thing with the breakfast 😅 I always eat the same thing for breakfast for like two months (currently it is some plant based yogurt, apple, banana and nuts) and then I suddenly switch to something else I then eat for a while 🤣 I know a lot of people who want something else everyday, so I thought I was the only one doing it like this 😅 good to know I'm not!! Have a wonderful day 🤗

you should do a chirstmas decorating video or something close to it !! it's really hard to get into spirit this year especially because of covid, and some tips would really help :)

I love your videos! They bring my peace and joy

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for saying that 🥺🧡 That makes me so happy!

THE CAMERA WORK IS INSPIRED!!!!

The first winter vlog 😍

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Now it just needs to snow ❄️✨

So excited to see a new upload today! 🥰🥰🥰

This video is just what I needed! I’ve been trying to create a morning routine and now I have one that I can do! Plus it feels good to start the day knowing I’m doing the same things my favorite KZreadr is doing everyday! Thanks for another wonderful video Desi!

You are such a joy to watch!

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥺

Hubby and I sleep separately too. We’re so much happier that way. My fav part of your vid was seeing you walking to your beautiful library building with the mountains in the background! So beautiful! Thanks for taking us along on your morning routine. Excited for your winter content! Keep shining.

I did not anticipate this video, but what a treat! Your morning is so sweet and cozy. I love it! Thank you for your hard work.

Desi!! I cannot express the joy and peace you bring to me. Whenever I sit down to watch your videos it feels like I'm spending a beautiful day with a dear friend. Thank you kindred spirit!!!

I feel cozy everytime i watch your videos. I just made my bed winter festive! I wanted to do something different because you inspired me to treat myself like a main character to do something different. Thank you so much!

Desi you are so adorable and totally my inspiration for trying to romanticize winter this year. I just moved from a coastal area to the mountains and it is so much colder here with so much snow already. I was feeling overwhelmed for the months to come and then was like NO... channel your inner Desi!! haha. So thanks for existing and for always curating your experiences around the seasons!

Just what I needed! You really are a beautiful soul! You made my day!🎄🧣😃

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Ahhh thank you friend!! 🧡🧡🧡

The breakfast looks so good! I need to pick up some marmalade and yogurt toppings soon. I find it easy to romanticize winter now, but I won’t feel so much joy about the snow in February.

@amadapittaluga1487

2 жыл бұрын

I dread the whole month of February ;/

Just came here to say thank you for your wholesome and inspring videos. Currently I am suffering from a bad mental health with many depressive episodes and panic attacks - the last two years have not been easy and I now feel that I have reached or even exceeded my limits. And your videos are so warm and have such a beautiful vibe... They really do help me a lot right now. Thank you for your content! Have a wonderful Christmas season and stay healthy :)

So very cosy and so very beautiful!

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you friend!!🧡🧡✨

You always make me feel better And I love how listening to 'Red' became part of our daily routine 😅. You looked so cute dancing to 'The Very First Night' Love you

Oh my gosh Desi! I was going to wait patiently till Wednesday- thank you so much for making my day much better:)

Loved seeing your cozy morning routine 😊 and I’m beyond excited for your upcoming December videos ❄️🎄❤️

You are just adorable! I love people who want to make the world a more beautiful place! The hair color and lipstick look great on you! Aww, your dog!❤

OMG YES YES YES A NEW VIDEO YOU MADE MY EVENING SO MUCH BETTER😭😍😍 Ahhh I am so exctied for watching❤️❤️❤️

12:18 THIS. I know this channel is often full of really useful life advice, but I've gotta commend you for this one. Once I started being off my phone first thing in the morning and deciding to get to it later on once I'm less vulnerable, mentally, it has changed my life. Love your channel

You always brighten my day when you post a video! 💚😊. Can't wait to see you Decorate for Christmas 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄!!!!

Thank you so much for brightening my day with your videos!❤️

I love you videos, make me feel possitive and cozy. It helps me to wake in the morning and not feeling anxious and with a bad mood. Thanks for these beautiful videos.

It's December 1st... I'm having my breakfast with my morning coffee and watching your video🤍🤍 I recently found your Chanel and I fall in love with it . I'm so happy that I discovered it this time of the year, your videos are giving me all the cozy vibes that I need and you really remind me of Anne of Green Gables🥺Thank you so much for bringing me this amount of coziness and love 🤍

Your dog is just the cutest!! The buildings in your town look lovely!

Stardew Valley is my go-to game when life gets stressful. SO GOOD. Beautiful video btw! I loved all your outfits too 🍂🧡

Absolutely what I needed on my OWN cozy morning . I made a cuppa ginger cappuccino with eggnog oat milk foam and I'm dyinnn it's so good ! I'm going to watch this whilst I drink it 🥰

I love watching your videos! Your videos inspired me to drink more tea and read books. I have always loved to read but you inspired me to want to read more!

I'm so excited for winter. It's my favorite seaon of the year. ❄⛄

I friggin' love you! You are such a comfort to watch and your aesthetic in your videos are 👌Muah! *chefs kiss*

I really really recommend zelda breath of the wild, bc you‘re into genshin impact. Genshin impact was actually inspired by botw and the atmosphere is also really comforting and everything is just so beautiful, including the storyline and the characters :D

I left a comment on your last video asking if you’d do a morning routine video and here it is! So excited to watch!

Absolutely your channel is one of my go to calm after chaos channels when everyone has left the office and I'm alone I sit watch/listen, as I work can't tell you how it helps me

I'm so happy when I see you have another video out. Now I can't wait for your Christmas decor video :)

You make me happy ! Love your dog. So cute

I know December is gonna be good when I started it with your cozy video♥️✨🥨

me, a librarian, hearing her say "a bit overdue": instant anxiety :D nah but seriously, i love this video so much ♥

Just finished watching your last Read With Me live and as soon as it was finished I got the notification for your new video! Yay!

What beautiful mountains 😍 🏔 Can’t wait for your Christmas video!

Thank you so much for these videos. Sometimes you are the only reason I can deal with my stress filled life. I just ordered the Christmas Chronicles. I love your book recommendations I have bought several.

Aw yay! Such a great way to start Tuesday!

OK, just to start, this is the third person's video that starts off with Beauty in the Mundane (which I had never heard before). The problem is that this song gets stuck in my head for weeks afterwards. I'm not surprised that it's in your video. Even though it's already April, I ordered Nigel's Christmas Chronicles so I don't forget. I love all Christmas books. Even though you can't hear the birds, I do love that you can walk to the library or get a coffee. Here in my development you can't get anywhere without a car.

Your videos are so comforting 🥰🥰🥰 this was a lovely surprise

The type of mornings I want😍

thank you so much for putting in the time and effort to make these videos!!

You are so good at what you do! Keep it up!

your channel is just so underrated I adore it! ❤️ I’m not lying when I say that it brings me such a sense of comfort and peace after I watch a new video. I try to romanticize almost every thing but some days it’s hard to, but your videos instantly help me with that

when im feeling low i love watching your videos love you desi 🤍❤

u have quickly become my favorite content creator! ur videos just bring me so much peace

@bobinagebobinage2052

2 жыл бұрын

good morning how are you🌷

日本人です！ 雰囲気が大好きで、最近ずっと観ています！ 英語がとても聴き取りやすく、英語の勉強にもなるので最高のチャンネルです！

Fun fun fun!!

Just found you and love your videos. You are really relaxing and enjoyable to listen to. The joy you share is contagious and I do thank you so much, as that is just what I need right now. Greetings from Australia

Yay! A new video! I always love seeing an update from you! Don't worry. You're not the only one that is bad about being late in returning library books. Also, I am jealous of that library. It is beautiful! I also have a game recommendation for you because thinking of the games you've talked about and have enjoyed, I think you would love a game called Hungry Hearts Diner: A Tale of Star-Crossed Souls. It's such a charming game with amazing characters who each have their own story. It's slow-paced, relaxing, and heartwarming. I hope you have a magical wintry day!

YESS I WAS WAITING FOR A NEW VIDEOO

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

😁😁😁

Yay, love a cozy video from you to watch while I work!😄❄️also so excited for you, getting those sponsorships! Woohoo!

I love the inclusion of your skincare/makeup routine! Your videos always make me feel so calm

Thank you, I am doing the same! 3 drinks for breakfast is so important 😁

Loving your videos so much. Sending you much love from Chilly England. Xx

I love your videos sooo much!You are like a breath of fresh air!

The Holiday is my favorite Christmas movie!

Hey Desi-my girls and I are hard core Swifties too ❤️

Whenever I watch your videos I get such a vintage cozy Happy vibe, I cannot watch enough of your blogs you are amazing and you have helped me smile so much!! I LOVE you desi

Loved the cosy video! Always a highlight to my day when you upload

2:16 I will definitely put this on my reading list. I didn't like winter until I started skiing. Going into the mountains and being warm because of skiing. And look at the snowy landscape.

Omg yay!!! New video to watch when I go to bed after a little while. It has been an exhausting day for me, because of school and everything. It brings me so much comfort to watch your videos and I am so happy! Thanks for the video!💕✨

@DarlingDesi

2 жыл бұрын

Aww hang in there! This busy time will pass and you’ll feel so relieved after! 💪🏻 You got this!!

@teodoradoncheva5556

2 жыл бұрын

@@DarlingDesi thanks so much for the kind words!!🥰