This is why you dis them and say bye bye birdie….Do not engage with an ex that has moved on…

Let go and trust the process. There are literally so many people in this world that you would be attracted to and they would like you too that you wouldn't have time to date them. It's going to be ok.

My ex went into a new relationship less than one month after our breakup. At first I didn’t know about that and we had been in contact the whole time (he even sent me intimate messages like selfies, and he did all of that while he was traveling with his new babe) when I found out he had got a new gf I immediately stopped contact. Then he would message me at every holiday wishing me well etc. after almost a year I finally told him wtf is wrong with him and that it’s inappropriate. His behavior just disgusts me 🤮

@surah5748

Жыл бұрын

Hoi ☺️ I hope you're doing well.

@siobhanmcgoldrick4549

6 ай бұрын

My ex was cheating on me for two years of the three years we where together with a girl and a one night stand and then after he had the one night stand he stayed with girl he's cheated on me with even after we broke up and about two month after breakup he got another girlfriend so right now he has two girlfriends and is sleeping with me a don't think he wants any of us they get good money to one is in a wheelchair one has a job so machine the amount of money there spending on him. A get a good bit of benifit money maybe am not good enough money wise but he still likes me he treated them nicer than me and all the bad things I asked him to change for me he didn't change them for me he changed them when he was in his new relashionships so he's changed lot of things I asked him to but with them and the only thing he didn't change was cheating he still is with two girls and sleeping with me sometimes we don't love each other anymore well at least I think he doesn't love me anymore he's confusing me the way he acts around me mixed signals I feel from him am scared I mite have a tiny bit something there but I will. Ait I do also hate him and can't trust him he lied to me for two years I had to find the cheating thing alone I acted like I wasn't interested but I was watching him like a hawk sitting with him listening to his conversations when he took his phone into the toilet and got in contact with his girlfriend to see if it was true what he was doing she said yes it's true

I think we are human and sometimes it’s inevitable to flirt with someone you love even when they are on a rebound.

I think an ex contact their last ex out of guilt. Especially if they moved on fast and they have dumped you. My Ex contacts me and I dont know why but I keep it cordial. We were doing bad during the pandemic and she left me before I can prepare to leave her.

I am free. My ex texts me daily for 4 mos went from saying i miss you i love you seeing me to not feeling anything for me but constantly texts me daily. She used me for emotional support and finanical and probably when she was bored or lonely. I know my faults at this it is clear and I am in therapy. 4 mos after she admitted she is dating and is with someone else. The moment she said that. I walked away. Told her to not talk to me anymore and should just live separate lives. I said goodbye. I was so done because felt I was used and she waa dishonest in a way to leave out the part that in those mos she was interested in someone new. If I hadn't asked she won't tell. Beware. You all deserve so much better.

Very good advice. Always keep your boundaries and value yourself.

Loved this video, thank you very much. My ex is in a rebound relationship, that I work with him and have to see him a lot he reached out all the time. Would love more videos on this

Coach Adrian is the best! His videos has helped me understand my separation with my ex boyfriend. We are reconnecting and rebuilding slowly. Everything he talks about is what is actually happening in my situation with my ex. It hurts so bad but I see his efforts.

Decisions are to be made yes. Was in that fear mode for asking where I stood prior to an eye opener but the answer came to me upfront in the face. #ldr

From an 8 yr relationship, We broke up almost 2 months now and he got into a rebound 2 weeks into the break up. we last saw each other a month now to finalize our property shares but since then he has been texting me with random questions and updates. Been liking and viewing all my IG posts, even if he is with her. Thank u for the insight coach Adrian!

He's pretty spot on

Needed this!!!!

coach Adrain is looking younger !!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

I was just gonna ask when you got to the part where you said, they don’t know that I know, that they’re with someone. She’s been hiding the fact that she’s been seeing anyone, even lying to herself that she’s “not in a new relationship”. So if she does reach out, I don’t want to just be the guy on the side. I wouldn’t want to do that to the other guy or myself.

God bless y'all

My ex is pregnant with my baby and took off with another guy and she is doing this and she makes no sense to me she knows she is not going to be able to have this child alone she's not allowed to have the others her mom has one and aunt has other I'm so hurt inside I thought she loved me she's been gaslighting me and ghosting me a month found out she left me 4 months pregnant to move on with somone ....when I reached out she sent me a pic of the too of them together.its was so cruel

@johnnybratto

6 ай бұрын

My story 💔 same happened to me except the picture part. Mine left me 4 months pregnant and was having sex with this guy then got a abortion. Cruel world

I cant find anything about my situation... bumped into an old girlfriend from high school,13 years have past. We have crossed paths at the dog park lol and now see each other everyday, even weekends. Her new boyfriend (dating almost a year) knows we have reconnected by seeing msg and doesn't like it, she told him we were friends. I told her she should be with me instead and that I care about her, expecting her to pull away but she hasn't?... now I have no idea what to do.

She's on dating sites now and called me when he left and wanted me to be there for her after she hurt me so bad

Its hurts so much but its true

Nice one.

Does this also apply on ex affair partners or just commited ex relationships?

Wish i found this 2 years ago!

In no contact after she decided to choose an ultimate loser over me & our children she is calling every few days texting me what is my problem. I ask if our baby is okay when I get a yes hang up & don’t reply to texts. I’m done now. She will notice soon wrong choice

My ex sent me a video of us randomly with the excuse I thought you wanted it before I deleted it then went back to 1 word responses so I then just said have a good night. I went back to no contact she is jealous when I post with other women friends

I posted I'm in a relationship the other day then she messaged me a hour later saying noone could love me and has no plans on being together and putting equal love and effort in this family she must not love me she's has cheated 3 times in 6 months

I broke up with a guy I really liked because of something I told him about. I thought he was going to fix the problem but he didn’t, now he’s supposedly getting married and the girl is completely ignoring him so we was talking off and on and I wasn’t aware of this girl till few months ago, I kinda feel played and hurt a bit.

Mine contact me says HI i responded after few days informal way . I am confuse why i asked why he reached out to me and say he just want to know how i am doing . We were LDR he rebounded . I thought he contacts me because they have now issues with the rebound as she deleted their photo profile .

Is telling my ex that i dont want her to speak to me bad. She became a foot fetish model behind my back and then when i found out she took off with another guy. She then came back a week later crying and said she is sorry and that she is done doing that stuff. She messaged me everyday how much she loves me and wants to work on rebuilding my trust. A few days later she started the foot fetish stuff again and said she is single and needs money. Its crossing my boundry. I dont want that in my life so i told her not to contact me unless she is done with that stuff.

Mine is confusing. I have kids me and him are together for 3 1/2 years they’re his kids as well. He got into a rebound after two months is still with her she still contacts me for things that have nothing to do with the kids but he’s in this rebound relationship and he’s living with her. I’m confused and I really don’t know where to go from here I was doing fine and I feel like I’m getting insecure thinking a lot about what he’s doing with her and I don’t like it so I’m not sure if I should step back and do no contact again if I should to show him that I’m good.

Great content

@LoveAdviceTVCommunity

5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Can't be a one way street to heart break over and over now a baby is involved

It's my first kid I wanted to be excited

My Ex of 14yrs left 4 months ago, got into a rebound basically the next day and moved in and all. She's been reaching out alot more lately, but she'll only reply or contact me when her new flings not around.

@ADayInTheLifeOfJames

8 ай бұрын

That’s sick 🤢 cut contact

It's been happening to me since last 1.5 months. She reaches out every 3rd day even when she monkey branched into another guy. She is adamant that she will never come back but is only concerned. Am clueless coz it's difficult for me to get over the breakup and move on. She pokes and I end up reacting negatively despite everything. She makes me feel the pain by intentionally talking about her new BF and how my actions or words have hurt him etc. Am so confused coz I know we can't be together after all this but am not able to detach from her. Today she tells me that she had broken up with me 1 year ago when she refused to work on making the relationship better although as per me it was 1.5 month ago she actually said so 😢😢😢

Thank u🥰

@LoveAdviceTVCommunity

23 күн бұрын

You're welcome!

Have you ever had someone block you from calling and texting them but not on social media at all? What could that mean?

@surah5748

Жыл бұрын

Hiii good day

My ex had contacted me and chatted casually but I am in a relationship. Well I still chatted casually too thinking all of it was long ago but he was showing signs that he feels sad about our breakup or I could see him trying to flirt so I told him that I do have a boyfriend and he paused for a while and then we exchanged byes. Was I bad for that? I also now think that even though he was casual with me, I shouldn't have been casual with him and now I feel guilty.

@fatz1410

8 ай бұрын

No guilt. You're in a relationship now. You had to let it be known so he knows there's a line. You have respect for your new partner. That's good on you.

Hi, I have a question... my ex was dating someone but due to some reasons she left him (someone her close relative had secretly informed me about this) & then the process of no- contact works on me that she wants to coming back in my life and wants to have a meeting with me. Do I ask her about her last date, is it safe to do this... thanks

@bobaygaming1978

2 жыл бұрын

No! Don’t ask them about any past or present love interests. Just focus on yourself and your possible relationship with them. It’ll show them you aren’t threatened by the possibility of there being someone else. Show confidence!

What does it mean when your ex avoids you because he cant control himself when he is around you.

@fatz1410

8 ай бұрын

Context on "control himself"

She would only call me to see if I could take the trash out for her, but like you said, she is in a relationship. I do want my ex back but I don’t feel it’s right doing it like this. Am I wrong?

@Kirra713

9 ай бұрын

Don’t have self respect

My husband is with someone else,he wants to come back to us ,he's just booked us a holiday, but we have to wait 5 weeks for him to leave her ,what dose this mean

@smjhvv950

Жыл бұрын

Don’t fall for the trap. What makes you think he’s going to change? You are his security blanket and will always run back to when no one wants him or when he F up. Don’t open the door to bad habits.

Hellou couch..i date this woman like year..we broke 2months ago..i go in no contact..she reach out to mee..we get intimate again..she says how she miss me..her eyes man oh that shine in that eyes when she look at me...we kiss..have sex again..i didnt mention relationship nothing..we fade away again..i think i go to fast she says she is not ready and dont wanna hurt me..i feel patetic..go in no contact again..yestrday i see her with someone..she cross my way..i say hey to her and this guy...my face was maybe sad idk i was tired from work..today she text me..this hurt me so much..she says..im just text you to see that you have some problem you dont seem well..how patetic..what shee want im confused..what to do next im in no contact im gonna stay..i solve my problems alone i dont need shoulder to cry i dont wanna that impression in her eyes about me..give me some clues please

I agree

Ex boyfriend back to me dont love him no more he said to me give me another chance said no because new boyfriend am happy new boyfriend

Ex boyfriend Relationship happy

if I broke up 5 months ago, then got back together for a night 5 month later and there was intense feelings. is it a rebound if after that one night my ex is with someone new within one month ?

Thank you🤍

Why her new boyfriend stalking my insta stories do u have any idea

@LoveAdviceTVCommunity

5 ай бұрын

Maybe she's using his account to stalk you but it's difficult to give you the exact answer.

Make the dessision for them I get that ....

He has a gf but I'm dating and we're talking as friends..

Should I tell her new mans she be hitting me up