Why You Shouldn’t Have Sex Outside Of Marriage From A Non-Virgin And Virgin’s Perspective 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

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  • @Johnny_Colorado
    @Johnny_Colorado9 ай бұрын

    My sister has been diagnosed with lung cancer. She is young, and has two babies. Can you guys please pray for God to heal her?

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    yes Johny! I am so sorry you're going through this... keep praying over her and encouraging her in the Lord!

  • @crocodilestantv734

    @crocodilestantv734

    9 ай бұрын

    ✝️💯🙏Father God We Ask For A Miraculous Healing and Deliverance From this cancer that our Sister In Christ is suffering with In Jesus Name We Pray Amen and Amen 🙏 💯✝️

  • @Johnny_Colorado

    @Johnny_Colorado

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you! @@jackieVanTine_

  • @Johnny_Colorado

    @Johnny_Colorado

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you! @@crocodilestantv734

  • @cassagnolleonidasjr.461

    @cassagnolleonidasjr.461

    9 ай бұрын

    Father God in Heaven, Creator of all things, Holy Father of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, may Your healing Hands be on this sister battling cancer. May Your Strength uplift her in Jesus’ Name. Help us, dear Father, to be prayerful and trusting in Your Will, in the Name of Jesus Christ. Amen. Stay strong with His Strength.

  • @theghostofmrcow1985
    @theghostofmrcow19859 ай бұрын

    I lost my virginity when i was 27 years old. And was in a relationship for 6 years,from year 2013 tru 2019. Been single every since,never married and no children. Please pray for me that God will send me a wife that would seek first the kingdom of God with me.😊😊😊🙏🙏🙏

  • @soundcheck2k7

    @soundcheck2k7

    2 ай бұрын

    Are you preparing yourself to Biblically become the husband God wants you to be? Do you have issues with lust/porn? That can hold back the blessing

  • @chaithanyababbu6021
    @chaithanyababbu60219 ай бұрын

    While Jackie told about her past Lance was comforting her. The love between you two is good God bless you both..

  • @franciscocampana7187
    @franciscocampana71879 ай бұрын

    I am 25, and thanks to God I havent lost my virginity. But ironically as you say the world praises exactly the opposite, and we live in times where people dont even value saving oneself for marriage anymore. But even virgins struggle with temptations, so I pray I can remain celibate and marry one day with someone like me. Thank you for posting the video, I pray for you to have a great and Godly marriage.

  • @philemonrandy4572

    @philemonrandy4572

    9 ай бұрын

    Hi

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    If Matthew 19:10-11 applies too you can be one 144k male virgins.

  • @stephenhowe4107

    @stephenhowe4107

    2 ай бұрын

    So? I am 62 and I have not lost my virginity, God, so far, has not provided anyone.

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    @@stephenhowe4107 well if u do find someone make sure they don't believe in the Trinity or oneness doctrine

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    @@stephenhowe4107 and make sure the man never married b4

  • @likenl4508
    @likenl45083 ай бұрын

    As someone who has been married for 9 years, just another piece of advice. Please don't just marry anyone just to avoid fornication. You should love the person also and want to marry them. I know believers who have married not knowing each other very well and just hurried and got married and they end up resenting one another and divorced. The excitement of sex with a person goes away and if you marry for that reason and that's the only thing that was holding you both together, if that was the only foundation then that's gonna be one tough marriage that might end in divorce. Make sure you love the person

  • @pamm2652

    @pamm2652

    Ай бұрын

    They talked full about it in another video. They were already to a point of knowing they wanted to get married. So instead of a normal year engagement, they decide it would be easier to just get married.

  • @GEORGIOARCADE
    @GEORGIOARCADE9 ай бұрын

    It's weird, when I first tried to watch your video; I had no sound but 2 ads and now I can actually hear you 😄 I'm glad God allowed me to hear the good message you and your husband had to share. I always felt that I wanted a serious relationship before sex came in the picture. I always felt weird about having that without a genuine loving connection from a woman. I'm still a virgin by choice but I try to be careful not to fall into bad temptations but it's not easy. Thanks for encouraging us with your perspectives. God bless you 🙏🏼💫

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    Wow God bless you brother! Be proud of yourself for keeping yourself pure :) God sure is !!!!

  • @GEORGIOARCADE

    @GEORGIOARCADE

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jackieVanTine_ Thank you so much! I appreciate the kind encouraging words 😊🙏🏼💫

  • @Capybara2240
    @Capybara22409 ай бұрын

    5:30 that was wholesome when he comforted you for speaking about your childhood trauma. God bless y’all

  • @Mr-pn2eh
    @Mr-pn2eh9 ай бұрын

    Still a virgin and will be vigilant about abstinence until marriage. I pray that the lady that God brings to me is also a virgin.

  • @gabrielaj2066

    @gabrielaj2066

    9 ай бұрын

    Amen for her to also be a virgin for you!!

  • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

    @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

    9 ай бұрын

    Amen but as long as she a Christian is what really matters she could of been out there in the world before being a Christian but as long as she is with God everything will go on well

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    Even if she’s not, don’t discriminate brother :) the blood of Jesus washes her clean!

  • @gabrielaj2066

    @gabrielaj2066

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jackieVanTine_ don’t confuse discrimination with preference.

  • @tonyknoweverything1764

    @tonyknoweverything1764

    9 ай бұрын

    @@gabrielaj2066Truth

  • @gumdrop4869
    @gumdrop48699 ай бұрын

    Jackies face cracks me up during this all she is so expressive haha love this video thanks guys!!

  • @thelittlebeanbeanbean566
    @thelittlebeanbeanbean5664 ай бұрын

    i love how open and honest you both are. you are so relatable to people our age. thank you

  • @gregwatson2607
    @gregwatson26079 ай бұрын

    I've had my heart broken several times.. I knew better and was raised better, but rebelled against how I was brought up. None was ever the same after my first love, but I kept on having sex outside of marriage. Looking back I should have married her and done it all right, but hindsight is 20 20. Glad yall found each other, God has someone for me, but now I'm 41 years old and single and waiting on the right woman this time. I'd rather be alone than with the wrong one.

  • @thesciencekid3546
    @thesciencekid35469 ай бұрын

    You have made me realize, I have a purpose in life and to better mankind even in the smallest way just like you 2 are making a remarkably positive change. The vibration of my thoughts increase when I see your videos. Thank you! ❤❤

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    So glad that we could minister to you!! God bless you science kid 😊

  • @ddascola01
    @ddascola019 ай бұрын

    This is a fantastic video Jackie! Congratulations Lance on finding an amazing woman of God! And congratulations to you both and it makes me really choked up with joy to see the two of you together, and to know that you are glorifying the Lord as a married couple and that you are instructing others in the ways of righteousness! There's no question in my mind that the Lord has great plans for the two of you in Christian ministry and I am praying for you both even now!

  • @knightsatin
    @knightsatin9 ай бұрын

    Thank you Lance and Jackie for sharing your experiences. I have been on my own now for 4 years and by God's grace alone it's all good. May the Lord bless you both abundantly 🙏

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    God bless you too :) He loves your gratitude!!!

  • @elijahcarfa3022
    @elijahcarfa30229 ай бұрын

    You both have my utmost respect! I totally agree with everything you say and you motivate me to stay strong.

  • @paintotheworld8445
    @paintotheworld84459 ай бұрын

    Thank you guys so much for this advice guys I love how vulnerable you guys are I will definitely take your wise counsel and wait for marriage

  • @ismaelrojas5291
    @ismaelrojas52919 ай бұрын

    Blessings Lance and Jackie, you both work very well sharing honest and truthful realities most are not willing to confront head on, I appreciate you both❤️😊, continue reaching out to younger people who are struggling with such issues, God bless and keep in prayer🙏 everyone suffering in the Middle East conflict, may God deliver Israel from terrorist

  • @cassagnolleonidasjr.461
    @cassagnolleonidasjr.4619 ай бұрын

    Preach! I too, struggled with my porn and masturbation sins. 1 Cor. 13:11 This past weekend helped me understand during this season of singleness I’m working on making myself pure and training my flesh with the help of the Spirit for my future godly wife in Jesus’ Name. Thank you Lance and thank you Jackie for sharing your past experiences and teaching the consequences of following those sins while learning the rewards of remaining virtuous and diligent. God bless you both!

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    22 күн бұрын

    @@cassagnolleonidasjr.461 1 John 3 KJV.

  • @andrewg2355
    @andrewg23556 ай бұрын

    Jackie is on everyone of his words and sentences, lol. Those eyes, especially at 'you told me or it was in one of your videos' in the beginning. Great video.

  • @twuntsworth7203
    @twuntsworth72039 ай бұрын

    Hey! Love you both and God bless. Thank you for being so open. Im sure people will look down but like Jesus said, "let he who is without sin cast the first stone". Thank you for being so open. The only thing i'd add is that its also impulsiveness and inpatients (is that even a word, lol?) .. a lack of patience. People normally endup with somesort of "chance" to throw away their virginity and as its easy and they lack patience they go for it. But wide is the gate.. Its so incredibly easy to be fooled nowadays with so mamy snake oil salesmen around on the internet pushing their lies. And its very hard to hear an alternative because people like you two wont be pushed by the algorithm. But i respect what you do and i really appreciate you both talking about such a sensative topic because no one else does. People are all too "perfect" or "proodish" to talk about it. So its great to see videos like this because it means that people can see another side to life, honestly. They can find answers. And that is our job basically lol. To bare whitness to and share the truth. Not a subjective truth or sense of morality like so many people seem to cling to. Truth comes from our father and we share it. I love what you both do. God bless and keep up the great work. P.s.. sorry for the long message haha, sort of a thought train type of text. Anyways, God bless. (My autocorrect has decided to leave me.. lol)

  • @caribbeankpoplover
    @caribbeankpoplover3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m 27 turning 28 and sometimes feel a bit hopeless and weary. But hearing people’s testimonies helps so much 🙏🏾❤

  • @rmnpvlyk
    @rmnpvlyk9 ай бұрын

    Wow, I have the same situation with my lady. And I'm truly so happy for you two. Can't wait for babies

  • @kentower
    @kentower5 ай бұрын

    what you say about soul ties makes sense. Wish I had heard this earlier. You two are cool, bless you!

  • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin
    @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin9 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video it was great I am a 17 year old who is still a virgin and I pray God keep me a virgin until I get married can y’all pray for me cause y’all know it’s very hard to remain a virgin in these times especially how my family now will be pressuring me to get a girl have sex and everything and God told me I will go through a lot of temptations when it comes to girls but ik God got me and I won’t fold u til marriage this is an encouragement especially lance story keep it up

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    May the Lord keep you and draw you deep into His presence and keep you unspotted from the world. Keep reading His Word and meditating on it brother :)

  • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

    @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jackieVanTine_ amen thanks

  • @sol_di_14

    @sol_di_14

    2 ай бұрын

    I hope the best for you ❤ it's a wise decision you're making and it will probably be hard but worth it

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    @@ZxAMobile this happens because a lot of women don't submit to their husband how God ordained it. Genesis 3:16-17 King James Version 16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. 17 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    @@ZxAMobile tell me more about the pickup community what is it ?

  • @lorainyunus7998
    @lorainyunus79989 ай бұрын

    Thank you sister Jackie and brother Lance for such an important video I pray that this video reaches out to millions and that many are saved 🙏 God bless you both ❤ Love you sis Jackie and brother Lance ❤❤

  • @treverpettersson2082
    @treverpettersson20829 ай бұрын

    If someone would’ve explained to me what a soul tie was way before I went down the path that I went on, I would’ve stayed a virgin. However, I’m living in grace, currently enrolled in medical counseling, continuously reading the word, and each day is getting better than the last. There’s a lot that I’m going through, but God is walking with me.

  • @Servant44

    @Servant44

    9 ай бұрын

    A virgin is someone that does not have a husband, or a wife for a man ‭‭Leviticus‬ ‭21:3‬ ‭KJV‬‬ [3] and for his sister [a virgin,] that is nigh unto him, which [hath had no husband;] for her may he be defiled.

  • @justin-dr6sx
    @justin-dr6sx9 ай бұрын

    Excellent video you two! May God bless you forever.

  • @StaticBlaster
    @StaticBlaster2 ай бұрын

    Jackie, I’m deeply saddened to hear about your past experience. It’s truly heartbreaking that you had to endure such a thing. No one should ever have to go through that. Please know that justice has a way of prevailing, and those who do wrong will face their consequences. My thoughts are with you. I'm really glad you found Lance. He seems like a really nice, respectful guy. May you both share a life filled with happiness as you grow old together.

  • @Veera9999
    @Veera99999 ай бұрын

    You both inspire many people in the USA, God bless you abundantly, 🙏 .

  • @igboyaalale6145
    @igboyaalale61459 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU, VAN TINE COUPLE! I really appreciate how calmly and peacefully, Lance explains things! I wish you a very happy and long life together as a couple!

  • @lukemurphy6244
    @lukemurphy62449 ай бұрын

    Good for you guys. I hope you have a beautiful family. God Bless Your Union.

  • @liteswitvh
    @liteswitvh5 ай бұрын

    You two are so happy, and so cute together. 😢 Two beautiful Christians. Thank you for your ministry.

  • @chokmah3926
    @chokmah39269 ай бұрын

    Thanks for being vulnerable,❤ you guys teach me a lot

  • @EternalDestiny48
    @EternalDestiny483 ай бұрын

    Thank you both for your openness and vulnerability. May Christ bless and protect you both

  • @adambrooks6860
    @adambrooks68609 ай бұрын

    Good bless you both..I'm 39 and haven't had sex in a good while but I've decided I want to stay single..I don't want kids and I kinda feel that naturally you should only have sex if you are married and want to have kids..unless I find a woman that wants to abstain from sex then I will stay single

  • @adambrooks6860

    @adambrooks6860

    9 ай бұрын

    @@FoundSheep-AN thanks for the advice, much appreciated

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    That’s okay :)

  • @simon-pierreseppou5818
    @simon-pierreseppou58189 ай бұрын

    Thank you both for your testimonies, God bless you both abundantly🙏🏽🙏🏽 While listening on Lance's part, I could relate on so many things, and many questions came up in my mind- which I would like to ask him/the couple... I don't know if I should here in the comments section...

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    You can email me at miajacquelinda22@gmail.com and we can answer your questions through there! Blessings :)

  • @Worick_
    @Worick_9 ай бұрын

    I'm not a virgin but i'm stopping myself having anymore sex. I always feel a bit weird afterward

  • @anettetorres3716

    @anettetorres3716

    5 ай бұрын

    The bible says that even when we don't know Jesus the law Moses is written in our hearts, I believe that that weirdness is guilt knowing that you have sinned only because we decided to believe the lies of the enemy and be tempted by lust. Remember that by you're own willpower you won't be able to stop yourself from sinning and it's normal because we are in the flesh and we are humans, but remember to call onto the Lord and he will save you james 4:7 therefore submit yourselves to the Lord, resist the devil, and he shall flee, God bless you❤

  • @CalledUntoHoliness

    @CalledUntoHoliness

    4 ай бұрын

    Amen. The Spirit of the Lord gives us ppwer over sin (Romans 8:3-14),(Galatians 5:16-23).@@anettetorres3716

  • @americantopgunner5102
    @americantopgunner51029 ай бұрын

    There are spiritual consequences to physical sin. After being healed and cleansed by God my ex came over to tempt me and we did not have sex but regardless we had a few seconds of intimate closeness and I heard a voice say stop. I kicked her out!! The next morning I woke up and seen two faces with lit up eyes saying theirs tryig to enter me I was being attacked spiritually!! My body and emotions were manipulated!! I had to declare my authority in Jesus Christ name!! I declared war on the demons! The sword of God will strike you down demons. I went thru warefare immediately after being healed and called by God. Keep ur eyes ears and mouth clean otherwise Lust will tempt you!!! She your healed if u sin u can open another doorway for demons to enter in u or tempt from the outside. I also can’t watch tv or listen to music I’m hyper sensitive in the spirit. Holy spirit let’s me know. It’s hits me in my chest I feel it in my spirit!

  • @smokeandmirrors-pk6ic
    @smokeandmirrors-pk6ic9 ай бұрын

    I’m still a virgin and I’m waiting for my wife 🙏Lords timing is always perfect ⏰

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes it is :) TRUST !

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    5 ай бұрын

    Study your king James bible God word in English and read it as is.

  • @sol_di_14

    @sol_di_14

    2 ай бұрын

    Congratulations!

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    Matthew 19:10-12 KJV. If that applies to you you can be Rev 14.

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    144k in Revelation are male virgins.

  • @EricHartung2
    @EricHartung29 ай бұрын

    Very true. I’ve got a lot of respect for you guys! God bless

  • @ahl8229
    @ahl82299 ай бұрын

    This was so special and held so much healing for so many people Jackie and Lance! Thank you for your openness and vulnerability, you guys are such a special anointed, Spirit filled couple and am so excited to see what the Lord is doing and is going to do and has planned for you both! God bless you guys and keep on pressing on toward the upward calling in Christ Jesus our Lord! Love and appreciate you both for your faithfulness in obeying Christ and speaking His Words of Truth even though its hard at times, a special blessing awaits you guys that you get a foretaste of now and will enjoy in its fullness together in Eternity! Hallelujah! Glory to The Lamb! and Amen!:-))❤️‍🔥 -stayten

  • @grace1672
    @grace16724 ай бұрын

    You guys are so sweet together this brought me to tears 😢❤ God bless your marriage in Jesus name🤍🙏🏽🥹

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    You can't remarry God word doesn't allow women to do that.

  • @OneWingedShark
    @OneWingedShark2 ай бұрын

    @LanceVanTine Thank you both for sharing your stories, they're really encouraging. I'm over 40, still a virgin, and sometimes it's really, really hard… besides the temptation, there's also the feeling of "Do you have anything for me, God?" and the (obviously incorrect) "Scripture says 'he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord'… I haven't 'found a wife', so God is showing disfavor." On the topic of pursuing, one thing that's been discouraging for me is encountering rejection over multiple, mutually exclusive things (e.g.) pursuing is "creepy", not pursuing is "passive", etc; this is especially irksome WRT integration into theological life-view: "God will bring someone into your life" is kind of passive, with pursuing coming off as not trusting God - in some real sense, it feels like I'm presented with a no-win, "[whatever you do,] you lose" situation -that's obviously incorrect, given the nature of love [1 Cor 13], but James 4:2 says "ye have not because ye ask not", implying that your own actions are part of the calculus, and that your prayers prayed/unprayed actually matter. There's a woman God brought into my life a while ago (she's out of state now), which I want and think I heard God say 'yes' to (the ability to "hear what I want" makes me cautious), but in order for _that_ to come about several miracles need to happen, which is OK because God is a God of miracles - I want so badly that (a) I should love her like Jesus, as per Eph 5:25, (b) that I should be able to show her off and say "Jesus is the God who hears prayers, and cares about our wants and desires; see, he gave me the woman I asked for by name!", and (c) she's backslidden right now, and was rather dismissive of prayer, and I want to be able to whisper in her ear "No, you are the answer to my prayers" when she gets into that make-themselves-unlovable funk that it seems women are prone to, (d) obviously after she turns back to Jesus. Please pray for me, but even more please pray for her: to return to Jesus… I want her saved even more than I want to be able to "win her heart". (Obviously the bible requires believers to have believing spouses, so it's prerequisite in that case.)

  • @AP86777
    @AP867777 күн бұрын

    Wow, Jackie, been through that also. God bless you. Looking for the right man of God. ❤

  • @BibleIsLife
    @BibleIsLife6 ай бұрын

    Woww I didn't know you're the wife of Lance. I've been listening to him for some time. You both are individually such great man and woman of God 🙏🏼

  • @user-vk9sj7ds1y
    @user-vk9sj7ds1y6 ай бұрын

    Hi dear am so glad to hear this n am in Africa with your brother,he also has the same kind of thinking he has changed to a good person.He told me how he was long ago n now he is different.

  • @deathclaws5946
    @deathclaws59469 ай бұрын

    Thank God,for Jackie from the day that she spoke about the topic of lust because I've seen it in past when I met with the wrong people.

  • @nerizehenning
    @nerizehenning8 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @SingleDadCoach
    @SingleDadCoach9 ай бұрын

    Thank you both for sharing! I never been married I turn 40 in 1 month from today and I been single for 2 years after an abusive relationship. I slept with over 80 women in my past which I’m disgusted by but by the help of the Holy Spirit I haven’t touched a women in 2 years and I’m waiting until I’m married to my Godly wife God sends me. I trust in God and I obey him. God is so Good! I have times I’m lonely and would love to have my wife now but I know and trust God is aligning it up at the perfect time cause his timing is perfect! God bless you guys so happy to see GOD joining Godly couples! ✝️❤️🙏

  • @SingleDadCoach

    @SingleDadCoach

    9 ай бұрын

    @@danilaroche1156 2 years later i still am a little salty even after praying for her. I think I’m salty cause she’s done remarried and I truly thought God sent her to me to be my wife and somehow I’m still healing from being with a narcissist. I got Jesus so all good just wanted to share that! If you could pray for me to be able to completely move on and find my godly wife I’d appreciate it! I’ve healed so much just can’t get completely over how I got done been trying. The trauma and soul tie is/was real. Thanks again! Trust me I’ve prayed so much in this! I’m tired of not being able to get her out of my head.

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    Your supposed to lead the woman so just make sure she'll listen to God word. And cover her hair

  • @Tangy_Horizon
    @Tangy_Horizon9 ай бұрын

    Havent been to this channel in a while but congrats on your marriage!

  • @happydog4929
    @happydog49299 ай бұрын

    God is love. Thank you for the work you do.

  • @valentinadallas
    @valentinadallas6 ай бұрын

    You guys are so inspirational, when i feel Like giving up from all the wrongful persecution by my own family , the isolation and the evil thrown my way for speaking truth and refusing to sell my soul as a nurse and push wicked perverse agendas on innocent kids , when I feel like my FAith is shaking n hope is lost and the loneliness eats me up , i Turn u Guys on and I feel Holy Spirit moving through you , May god continue to bless u guys , all glory praise and honor to the most high speaking through you both , u guys have most amazing inspiring testimony

  • @randyellison602
    @randyellison6022 ай бұрын

    This is a great topic thank you both for sharing this. I will wait on the Lord for a Godly partner. Blessings to both of you.

  • @NROhvac
    @NROhvac9 ай бұрын

    God bless you two thank you for this

  • @resoluton
    @resoluton9 ай бұрын

    Lance is righteous, thats why eve ate the apple. God is the way.

  • @JackTheRipper-nw6wk
    @JackTheRipper-nw6wk9 ай бұрын

    Great video, what is Lances day job? I really like his style.

  • @nathanthedisciple
    @nathanthedisciple9 ай бұрын

    GOD BLESS YOU BOTH! 🫶🏾

  • @selohcin
    @selohcin9 ай бұрын

    I am very worried that I keep seeing this non-biblical concept of "Soul Ties" repeatedly being proclaimed by so-called Christian influencers. There is absolutely nothing in the Bible that suggests this. This is a New Age concept that has been artificially brought over into Christianity. Please!! If you're going to preach or teach others, teach only what is in the Bible!

  • @84themosthigh

    @84themosthigh

    3 ай бұрын

    You is lame for that yo😂

  • @random88667
    @random886674 ай бұрын

    you can see how her husband's deeply in love with her. He seems pretty chill too i wish i had a friend like him.

  • @enriquebaena8222

    @enriquebaena8222

    4 ай бұрын

    O well, you 'llfind some one 💗🤠💐🎄🆗💟😜

  • @MetaMurse

    @MetaMurse

    28 күн бұрын

    Do you think it looks reciprocated back?

  • @cletodavid4875
    @cletodavid48759 ай бұрын

    War ongoing... My heart broken.. Pray for peace 😢

  • @Tribal_Christian
    @Tribal_Christian9 ай бұрын

    Amen🙏. God Bless You.

  • @SonN-PAml
    @SonN-PAml8 ай бұрын

    I am glad that you both are loving and care for each other by the love of God that's in you both. True love is not an easily way to get or see, sometime true loving sitting right Infront of you. But you are completely blind or not knowing. Wish you both having a last long lovely couple.

  • @bibleprophecyEzekiel33
    @bibleprophecyEzekiel33Ай бұрын

    Thank you Father for these two wonderful preachers. I thanked God during prayer earlier for connecting me with sister (in Christ) Jackie and receiving the prayers from her through their deliverance but I'm glad I now have the opportunity to also Thank You Both Online. You are such an AMAZING couple! You're right Jackie, "God knows your type more than you know your type." Glory Only in the Lord ✨ "For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called. But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty; and the base things of the world and the things which are despised God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, that no flesh should glory in His presence. But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God-and righteousness and sanctification and redemption- that, as it is written, “He who glories, let him glory in the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 18:26-31.

  • @nini.123
    @nini.1239 ай бұрын

    God bless you my brother and sister in Christ! The Lord mightily uses us, His children in spite of our regrets, past sins and mistakes for his greater glory. Praise be to our Father, our Redeemer, our Living God in Christ Jesus, may the Lord surround you with his abounding grace and favor. The Lord loves you and I love you both!🤍

  • @city_by_the_bay7769
    @city_by_the_bay77699 ай бұрын

    I disagree about women being more emotional when it comes to sex. I know and seen plenty of women who will have sex with other men like its nothing without any kind of attachment. If anything, the roles have been reserved. Men seek relationship while women are on to the next like it's nothing.

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    Like I said, it’s case by case, I’m just speaking in general :)

  • @jeffwhatley2634

    @jeffwhatley2634

    9 ай бұрын

    The Bible is correct. All is vanity. Mirror, mirror, on the wall... ...who is fairest of them all? Eve. The most beautiful creation that God ever made. An absolute stunner. A temptation that could not be resisted. Seeing is believing. In the 21st century, Eve is showing us everything. The women i've encountered go through men faster than a pack of smokes. My ex hung me out to dry. Took all my money...and my son. And I have many male friends who have had similar experiences. These are men who believe in a Higher Power. They believe in LOVE. They may not seek God at all times...but they seek love...genuine love. But the Eve's of this world have made it into their playground. Eve forgot God completely, she now only believes in money and pricey real-estate. Where did all these women get the idea that they could OWN the planet? I thought God owned the planet. Am I misinformed? The world has always been Eve's vanity project. It's about time the Truth gets told. Hang in there, Jackie. There is always more to the picture than meets the eye. Vaya con Dios. @@jackieVanTine_

  • @lucasshill8780

    @lucasshill8780

    9 ай бұрын

    Generally women DO need an emotional connection to have sex with someone. I would have to completely disagree with you here 😭

  • @boazadventures

    @boazadventures

    9 ай бұрын

    I know what you are saying, but that is when they are allready broken. Imagene you put tape on a object, you pull it off and you put it on another object. You repeat that again and again and again... but after 8 times the tape doesn't stick anymore. Thats what happend to those women. They got heartbroken by the first couple of guys but continued having sex with diferend guys and now their ability to bond with someone is damaged. Those are the kind of women who end up divorced. What Jackie said is true in general.

  • @jeffwhatley2634

    @jeffwhatley2634

    9 ай бұрын

    Perhaps... It is a case by case basis. It is strange though... All these men (and women) looking for love. Not God...love. Jesus went into the desert looking for God. He wasn't seeking a relationship. So if God IS Love, what did Jesus find? Not just for himself, but for everybody? Wasn't it the Love of God? He rejected the world, Satan, in the desert. He threw away any chance at romance. Jesus...dies a virgin. ...he gave it all back to God...and still... ...no girlfriend. It's a pity. It really is. God is Love. ...Jesus can be a tough act to follow. Can we just let Jesus do Jesus? Jesus loves only God, I get it. ...but didn't it start with a man and a woman? Must all the men live like monks? Did that really work for the Catholics? Anyway, ignore me. I am on a fool's errand. Men should keep their hands to themselves. This must be what God wants. For years on end...touch no one. At all. Ever. Jesus dies at thirty-three. Celibacy is easy for Jesus. I guess the path is extremely narrow. Don't expect any female companionship. i quit expecting that years ago. Vaya con Dios. @@boazadventures

  • @user-hp1mt9du6t
    @user-hp1mt9du6t6 ай бұрын

    You look great together and you fit each other. I wouldn't be brave enough to talk about sex and my intimacy openly in public. Anyways, it's smart what you're saying. Amen!

  • @tbrg1965
    @tbrg19658 ай бұрын

    I agree. I was not saved until I was 31, even though I was raised in a Christian home. I did not save myself, and lived recklessly in this area up until I was saved in 2010. I have been waiting on the Lord ever since, but in hindsight, I wish I hadn't done the things I did. It makes the war of the mind a constant battle. Anyone who still has the chance to avoid heartache and spiritual struggles, is well advised to wait and be blessed.

  • @verccety1
    @verccety19 ай бұрын

    Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the man whose sin the LORD does not count against him, in whose spirit there is no deceit.

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    That's pslam 32

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    2 ай бұрын

    That pslam 32 get baptized Acts 2 38.

  • @PhillDrakeEntertainment
    @PhillDrakeEntertainment5 ай бұрын

    Wonderful video, I practice abstinency from porn and masturbation to be able to meet a proper woman one day and get married. You both are so at ease very enjoying to listen to you both.

  • @carolineawada9556
    @carolineawada95563 ай бұрын

    Jackieee!! My beautiful sister in Christ! If I don't meet you here on earth, I can't wait to meet you in Heaven!!:D you're such a beautiful soul and a beautiful friend of Jesus🥰 and God bless you both abundantly!!! Praise God 🙏✝️💪

  • @StaticBlaster

    @StaticBlaster

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen!!!

  • @jonathanquinlan999
    @jonathanquinlan9992 ай бұрын

    I wish I saw this video sooner than later. I wasted my virginity on someone I thought I was going TO marry, I wish I lost it after marriage. I realized how much God was protecting me from that, despite my porn addiction I had and insecurities since I didn’t have sex at the time. Because of the unfortunate experience, God is now working me slowly. I will be one year porn free after 10+ years in July and I’m now over two months not masturbating. God is so good!!! Put Him above your own needs, and He will do the rest!

  • @theblissfulbeliever
    @theblissfulbeliever9 ай бұрын

    He’s a good man and you’re an amazing woman Jackie! Love this content. I needed this video as I recently met someone I’m crazy about. Thanks 🙏🏻

  • @yungali760
    @yungali7604 ай бұрын

    thank you so much my brother and sister. ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥.

  • @Just_in_Christ7
    @Just_in_Christ73 ай бұрын

    Great example brother

  • @ProdSangreNueva
    @ProdSangreNueva6 ай бұрын

    Powerful testimony

  • @user-ly6nl4qh5t
    @user-ly6nl4qh5t8 ай бұрын

    This is a wonderful video about saving oneself for marriage. Its beautiful to do that, in Jesus Christ!❤

  • @NA-xg7lf
    @NA-xg7lf2 ай бұрын

    Pray for me that the fear of God becomes stronger in me. I have the blessing of intense love for Jesus, but am lacking in the fear of God. I know this is wrong, so please pray for me.

  • @iamthehumblemofongo89
    @iamthehumblemofongo899 ай бұрын

    Incredible video

  • @arcaneknight9799
    @arcaneknight97999 ай бұрын

    Likelihood of divorce becomes much higher as sexual partners before marriage become higher than 0 or 1.

  • @MikoRuizKing
    @MikoRuizKing9 ай бұрын

    I carry my Wife on my hip! When my enemies approach I load my clip!!

  • @pastoral4297
    @pastoral42979 ай бұрын

    Good job with this video😊

  • @michaelwiebe4282
    @michaelwiebe42829 ай бұрын

    Great video, I'm waiting till marriage

  • @kopronko

    @kopronko

    9 ай бұрын

    Don't be blindly-Naive , to think, that in the marriage there can not be a fornication !!! ! !!! Because, Toooo Many Times it gets even Much Worse than in some Very Blessed Realtionships where The True Marriage Is In The Spouses's Hearts , and even if it is Not written onto some material paper !!! ! !!! Peace with you.

  • @victoriaedejor5405

    @victoriaedejor5405

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@kopronko and don't be blindly naive to think that someone who is obedient with God in the waiting, will also be obedient in respecting their marriage!

  • @WoziduranJahemter

    @WoziduranJahemter

    9 ай бұрын

    @@kopronko awesomely said!

  • @mathewsjohn5934
    @mathewsjohn59346 ай бұрын

    I'm 32 this year and still a virgin and single !

  • @plmelody1276
    @plmelody12769 ай бұрын

    Ps, what do u think of 1 Corinth 1:1-16?.. Woman needing to be covered before the Lord, for the Man is their “Head” and Christ is “Man’s Head” and God is “Christ’s Head” Jews still wear head caps for reasons… but this says the woman should wear it? (Her hair is long for it is her cover), but a man’s hair is short for it reveals his glory to God! Also 1 Corinth 14:34-39… Woman should remain silent in church and ask their husband if not understood the Word of God?… after talking of gifts of tongues and prophecy and that it is for building church. Why does nobody talk about these verses?…

  • @tbrg1965

    @tbrg1965

    8 ай бұрын

    You are speaking about the truth of headship; which most churches have left by the side, claiming it was simply a cultural aspect of the times when Paul wrote the epistles. That in itself is largely connected to why divorce is so prevalent in the churches of North America. Studying it carefully with intention to seek out the truth will revel that the truth of headship indicates the man is submitted to God, and accountable for his family. The wife is also submitted to God, but as a result of this submission, the wife submits to here husband to honor the Lord. The head covering is a physical representation of this, that is in the context of the local gathering of the church before the Lord. The verse that has led to much interpretation is 1st Corinthians 11:16. In the King James you will read this following the summation about head coverings: "But if any man be contentious, we have no such custom, neither do the churches of God." This has led many to believe it is an optional aspect of being obedient in church worship and gathering. When you read the New Living Translation, as well as some other more recent translations from the original rtexts, you will find this: "But if anyone wants to argue about this, I simply say that we have no OTHER custom than this, and neither do God's other churches. (NLT.) This shows that following this in obedience is a requiremnt of a "Church of God." which leaves me to believe that many churches are simply churches of men, and thier own practices.

  • @plmelody1276
    @plmelody12769 ай бұрын

    Haven’t watched yet, but I’ve learned something important recently. Agape: Love of God, unconditional, self-sacrificing, etc. (Also a love we can have; a Godly love for fellow Christians AND sinners for whom your heart desires to find Christ!) Eros: desires of the sexual, flesh etc.seeking the fulfillment of the heart, only feeling at peace when having physical contact with other gender… Also arousal even when simply tingling someone’s back, even if for a small moment, it’s not okay! One should actively deny this! If you let it happen, you allow it… thus you sin already… “For it is better for a man not to touch a woman” And ofc the verse you guys had “it is better to marry if you can’t keep your hands off eachother” This actually includes any kind of sexual contact as I’ve learned recently… At marriage u say: “U may kiss the Bride.” That’s when Eros is awakened for the first time ever if done accordingly to the Law of God! ~

  • @rppersaud8714
    @rppersaud87146 ай бұрын

    God bless you guys. Stay happy 😎👍❤

  • @justustrurainboe6304
    @justustrurainboe63049 ай бұрын

    Thanks, God bless all, amen

  • @themistics6954
    @themistics69547 ай бұрын

    I'm 18. I don't loose virginity. But many people from my place and country already had loose it before me I came to jesus at 15, but i could loose virginity at 12-13 if my ex crush let me. But that never happend.

  • @nathanmccumber8965

    @nathanmccumber8965

    5 ай бұрын

    Good keep it up. Study king James bible God word in English

  • @crisp8364
    @crisp83642 ай бұрын

    Even before watching the video and not knowing anything about this girl I automatically knew Jackie was the non virgin and the guy was the virgin

  • @ronhanish
    @ronhanish9 ай бұрын

    ❤the John 3:5 plan from Jesus breaks those things off as well❤Acts 2:38 was this first implemented in NT, . The Joel 2 prophecy. Hope this helps ❤❤

  • @vUngbay510
    @vUngbay5105 ай бұрын

    You couple are so match and adorable 😁

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    5 ай бұрын

    You are so kind thank you :)

  • @LiveByChrist0
    @LiveByChrist08 ай бұрын

    Trust God Always!!!

  • @kopronko
    @kopronko9 ай бұрын

    Maybe you Should Also Do a Video, Why we Should Not have a Fornication Inside the marriage , as it Is Mostly happenning in These Endtimes !!! ! !!! Peace with you.

  • @Mr-pn2eh

    @Mr-pn2eh

    9 ай бұрын

    What do you mean by that?

  • @kopronko

    @kopronko

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Mr-pn2eh I mean, that Also in the marriage today there is happening A Lot of the Evilness at the fornications on this planet . Peace with you.

  • @Juan-hd8lh
    @Juan-hd8lh9 ай бұрын

    A wedding is not a marriage, nor does it imply one. And a marriage is formed among others, by sexual relations.

  • @MF175mp

    @MF175mp

    3 ай бұрын

    I think a marriage is primarily a contract between the spouses and God. The church don't play much of a role and the least of all does the state.

  • @junjunsay93
    @junjunsay939 ай бұрын

    I'm really trying to reconnect with God, but I'm just way broken right know. Wife living with another man, had a baby with him, and still married to me. I had sex with other woman's just to not feel the pain. I wasn't a good husband, because i didn't give her the attention she deserved, and can't forgive myself. Im just in a hole without exit

  • @Mr-pn2eh

    @Mr-pn2eh

    9 ай бұрын

    Pray and Ask God to forgive you. Confess your sins to God and he shall forgive you. Ask him to grant you the ability to repent. Pray that your wife returns to you.

  • @DsLmaNiaC

    @DsLmaNiaC

    9 ай бұрын

    That is not solely on you though. She has her part as being responsible for what happened. And the way of dealing with things is not the optimal from what you are saying. Everyday we can be better. Try to do that and learn from your mistakes and you can cure yourself and meet someone that will be just better for you.

  • @Mr-pn2eh

    @Mr-pn2eh

    9 ай бұрын

    ​​@@DsLmaNiaCthat's why I told him to pray for his wife. It's a sin to get remarried if his wife is still alive. Now if his wife died, then he can get remarried. I'm in no way saying that he should kill his wife, but if his wife doesn't come back to him, he needs to wait until his wife dies.

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    Seek the Lord brother…. God cares about your pain… trust in Him. And give yourself in prayer pour out your complaint before Him!

  • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

    @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin

    9 ай бұрын

    Hallelujah repent of your sins and may God bless you amen

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm4 ай бұрын

    Even though you became a Christian thank goodness for people who give us a second chance. A virgin man or woman could say he or she doesn't want to marry a non-virgin because he or she had sex outside of marriage even before becoming a Christian. I'm sure a Christian virgin can easily find another Christian virgin. Sometimes it's nice to bend the rules a little to make it right for our own circumstances. It's fine because people change and become better and deserve a second chance.

  • @AKASERIAL1
    @AKASERIAL19 ай бұрын

    This video is awesome

  • @tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.2841
    @tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.28419 ай бұрын

    Honestly am African, but I love this marriage I mean am enviously 😢.

  • @DangeistYT
    @DangeistYT9 ай бұрын

    Whats the point , life is pointless anyway.

  • @jackieVanTine_

    @jackieVanTine_

    9 ай бұрын

    Don’t say that Dan…. Your life is IMPORTANT you’re here For a REASON. Jesus loves you! He was single all His life… He understands your struggle

  • @Idkjustyet
    @Idkjustyet5 ай бұрын

    Her husband is blessed to have been a virgin 🙏🏽 Even though he committed sexual sin it could of been worse like the majority of us honestly