Why You Shouldn't Date (And Marry) A Kpop Idol?

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If after watching this video, you're still determined to be in a relationship with your idol, then you are a very, very brave person.
Life is not a Korean fictional love story. If you are in a relationship with an idol, you would probably soon realize it'd bring you nothing but emotional and physical breakdown with tons of serious consequences.
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  • @BeBossTV
    @BeBossTV3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys for watching! Let's comment down below which idol is your dream date! 😇❤️

  • @iwannabetheeggfelixfound3597

    @iwannabetheeggfelixfound3597

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jennie, Jungkook, Nayeon, Taeyeon, Mino, And Jisoo😃✋

  • @Liz-rf4qu

    @Liz-rf4qu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jungkook and Park Hyungsik

  • @matumunu

    @matumunu

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@iwannabetheeggfelixfound3597 Lol we have the same thinking

  • @Lizoutdid

    @Lizoutdid

    3 жыл бұрын

    Eric from The boyz

  • @hottie5413

    @hottie5413

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jhope I mean I don't want to date him but he's my ideal type of boyfriend/husband

  • @blackpinktreasurebtsskz5060
    @blackpinktreasurebtsskz50603 жыл бұрын

    Idols fall inlove too, they're also humans, there's nothing wrong

  • @chen4450

    @chen4450

    3 жыл бұрын

    If only everyone is like you...

  • @christianradam776

    @christianradam776

    3 жыл бұрын

    true

  • @cholayna

    @cholayna

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's sad that those who bring us love, happiness and joy are restricted like that. I would love to see them found the love of their lives

  • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

    @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree and even if they did date and marry a fan, it is their fate. I find nothing wrong with that. They are regular people just like us.

  • @Milo-nr9kc

    @Milo-nr9kc

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly i mean they cant be idols forever and they should really find some happinessin their lives. ik many wnat to be with them but what if they really wanna actuallywait for the right timing. let THEM find the love of their lives. im not really into kpop but my friends are and ALWAYS get jealouswhen their idols are talking to a different gender. i tell them that they can do whatever and its their lives but they still dont listen. i wish people would just let their idol be happy. im happy im not the only one who thinks this way for everyone ik are obsessed with their celeb crush

  • @umaramesh4301
    @umaramesh43013 жыл бұрын

    This is the weirdest industry I've ever seen like dating is scandal wtf

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @umaramesh4301

    @umaramesh4301

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@suyeesia7770 yeah

  • @AsiaInMyHeart

    @AsiaInMyHeart

    3 жыл бұрын

    they are selling tge idea of being the fans husband/bf you wont see it becoming a scandal when they are actors

  • @taengelina9601

    @taengelina9601

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right?!!! I mean, like for real. And the whole possessive 'Opppa culture'. Oooofff...

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AsiaInMyHeart yes

  • @oumilhairm.3657
    @oumilhairm.36573 жыл бұрын

    I'm patiently waiting for the moment when BTS will announce their partners so that ALL THE TOXIC FANS LEAVE THE FANDOM and we get more concert tickets and only love in the fandom :)

  • @kajalsingh1725

    @kajalsingh1725

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true hope that day will come soon❤

  • @wintertedibear4098

    @wintertedibear4098

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kajalsingh1725 same 💜

  • @aikafics3586

    @aikafics3586

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too waiting to see those girls or angels 😀😘💜 hope that day come sooonnnnnn 🤣

  • @xselita_

    @xselita_

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same, we true armies will love them and support them. We will see who are the true armies and fake armies.

  • @ok-sz3ey

    @ok-sz3ey

    2 жыл бұрын

    That would be risky since armies are crazy maybe members are already dating u never know

  • @riyu3087
    @riyu30873 жыл бұрын

    It's a shame, I don't know why people judge idols by whom they are dating. They are also humans, thay have also their private life and fans should not interfere there. I totally support the idols who date each other, there is nothing wrong in it.

  • @chrisbunka

    @chrisbunka

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree with everything you say. In addition, idols get lonely too and seek out partners with similar experiences and backgrounds.

  • @riyu3087

    @riyu3087

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisbunka yes

  • @user-vn7bz1bh6r

    @user-vn7bz1bh6r

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, like they humans too

  • @lisaanderson6920

    @lisaanderson6920

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have to Agree with You ! I just have Respect for the KPop idols and Super Stars Period.

  • @cheerup6926

    @cheerup6926

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly some fans are just too toxic It's not like they should remain single forever

  • @yeonjunjeon
    @yeonjunjeon3 жыл бұрын

    Dating shouldn't be taboo in Korea, and Idols should call out "fans" who attack their loved ones because they're dating. Periodt.

  • @mariak4311

    @mariak4311

    3 жыл бұрын

    Im not sure in korea, but in my country, each artist dating life can be very different. Some artists, they can dating freely, of course there will be hate, but only one or two. But some artists, once they dating, their career suddenly fall. Im not sure, why the differences exists.

  • @serenityeverett2002

    @serenityeverett2002

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mariak4311 it's called a double standard idk where ur from but I guessing the other celebrity was more popular and can openly date with no problem cause people favored them more, meanwhile the other celebrity faced backlash and criticism. Which is a double standard and it's sad

  • @Angelina-ri8sg

    @Angelina-ri8sg

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fans considered idols as their or lover. Idols don't say anything because they get benefit from those crazy fans who buys their albums or anything related to idols. This is basically a business. if they call out their fans they 'll lose popularity and their fans. Thats y idols calls their fan as a girlfriends. N didn't go against their fans.

  • @yeonjunjeon

    @yeonjunjeon

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Angelina-ri8sg It shouldn't be business, western artists like Jennifer Lopez she's back together with Ben Affleck and she's getting praised. I'm saying that idols deserve love freely too cause they're human too. It shouldn't affect their job. It never should've been that way.

  • @Angelina-ri8sg

    @Angelina-ri8sg

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yeonjunjeon I've understand your point. But it is a taboo in Korea tho. Even K pop idols call their fans as their girlfriends. And I think some young girls take them so seriously that's why they end up hurting their idols too..

  • @lovestay2609
    @lovestay26093 жыл бұрын

    honestly is that even a question ? like we all know , idols have a LOT of fans , if we date any of them , im sure there would be at least several of people attacking you for being in relationship with their favs , maybe some of it cuz of jealousy , and maybe some of it are just trolls or haters that wants to make ur fav looks bad so they took the opportunity and hating on you guys to cancel the idol .

  • @lalitathukrul8980

    @lalitathukrul8980

    3 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with your comment

  • @caddythanks6712

    @caddythanks6712

    3 жыл бұрын

    some obsessive fans even want them dead when they find out that the idols are dating . like WTF .

  • @yallneverknowmyname5777

    @yallneverknowmyname5777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not to mention it's impossible

  • @serenityeverett2002

    @serenityeverett2002

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@caddythanks6712 wtf that's so extreme

  • @Kindagloomy...

    @Kindagloomy...

    3 жыл бұрын

    Serenity Everett It's not i think

  • @winterbear7503
    @winterbear75033 жыл бұрын

    If u truly love ur Idol or bias then u should be happy in their happiness. Stopping them from dating or compelling them to dropout the group, seriously come on guys they deserve love and happiness too. It's not like if they separate we are gonna get them.

  • @chrisbunka

    @chrisbunka

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m happy for Jihyo of Twice.

  • @Crucial178

    @Crucial178

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy 😊 for my JENNIE ! God blessess them happy and joyful life 🙏 🙌 ❤ ♥ 😍 💖!

  • @Crucial178

    @Crucial178

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ur right ! If YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WILL ACCEPT , SACRIFICE ANG GIVE UP MANY THINGS FOR THEM , BUT WHEN YOU LIKE SOMEONE YOU WILL TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OVER THEM , LITERALLY OVER THEIR PERSONAL LIFE AND SPACES TOOO ! IF FANS REALLY LOVE THEIR IDOL THEY SHOULD SACRIFICE, GIVE UP AND ACCEPT THE IDOLS DECISIONS , IF NOT IT MEANS U LIKE THEM SO MUCH ! THAT'S ALL !

  • @winterbear7503

    @winterbear7503

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Crucial178 Well said buddy

  • @jiwanjyoti9863

    @jiwanjyoti9863

    2 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @shradhamathur7554
    @shradhamathur75543 жыл бұрын

    Fans who dream of someday becoming partners of these idols needs to understand that these idols aren't superior or special than any other human being.. They are also just doing their jobs. They don't show their real selves to you in the public.. U never know what kind of person they are in real life then why to waste your time on them. It's completely fine in being their fan and loving their work.. Infact just crushing over them is not a bad thing either but thinking that you will be the one who will end up with them is completely delusional. Just think about it.. Maybe fate have different plans for u. Pay attention on yourself and your future and career.. You will definately find the one who is actually there for you.

  • @nialee8585

    @nialee8585

    3 жыл бұрын

    Super agree with you

  • @yallneverknowmyname5777

    @yallneverknowmyname5777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Soo truee

  • @anuradhapawar7912

    @anuradhapawar7912

    3 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with u yaar❤️

  • @soyeon.love14

    @soyeon.love14

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truee

  • @sruthinagarajan4419

    @sruthinagarajan4419

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Shradha Mathur Ohhh my god... U Mirrored my thoughts... Totally agree with u...

  • @AarushiSingh2005
    @AarushiSingh20053 жыл бұрын

    Hope idols get to date like hyuna and dawn without hates 🤧. They look so good together 🥺🥺🥺

  • @himeyui258

    @himeyui258

    3 жыл бұрын

    They got a lot of hate though

  • @AarushiSingh2005

    @AarushiSingh2005

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@himeyui258 Yeah but not that much as others idols get and are still together others like baekhyun and taeyon kai and jennie they got so much hate that they have to break up tho

  • @kaypounds9543

    @kaypounds9543

    3 жыл бұрын

    They got hate and they had to leave their agency. I think they look adorable together personally.

  • @kaypounds9543

    @kaypounds9543

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AarushiSingh2005 don't forget Kai and Krystal. The worst I've seen is Sungmin of Super Junior.

  • @AarushiSingh2005

    @AarushiSingh2005

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kaypounds9543 oh yes kai and krystal but sorry i don't have info about sungmin can you please tell me

  • @Liz-rf4qu
    @Liz-rf4qu3 жыл бұрын

    I don't have any desire to date a celebrity. It seems too much stress.

  • @frostscoop5288

    @frostscoop5288

    2 жыл бұрын

    Periodt 😌🤟

  • @isagi4875

    @isagi4875

    2 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @ayih7562

    @ayih7562

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree

  • @Anastasiabruno

    @Anastasiabruno

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh yess

  • @Krypton853
    @Krypton8533 жыл бұрын

    Just Imagine your the lucky one that dates a BTS member. You'll have many obstacle ahead. You'll be constantly watch by the Army's to see If your fit to date one of their boy's and Dispatch as well. You have to watch your back and front and your left and right as well for any Saesengs that will go at you. Most likely you'll be cyber bullied to. Also you have to understand that your BTS boyfriend would most likely will have a "BUSY" schedule.

  • @maryrose8478

    @maryrose8478

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don't think BTS will openly admit to being in a relationship with anyone until they're retired for all the reasons you said.

  • @shradhamathur7554

    @shradhamathur7554

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maryrose8478 i really don't think they will reveal it even after their retirement. Just see how much j hope's sister is being harassed just think how much their wives or partner will be.

  • @Krypton853

    @Krypton853

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shradhamathur7554 That's even worse remember how much people were harrassing that tattoo artist when they thought she was dating Jungkook. She even have to quit her job.

  • @hobissprite5632

    @hobissprite5632

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Krypton853 it's super sad i am 109% sure that she didn't even have feelings for him its done showed that atleast 3% of armys will attack her/armys will the leave the fandom.

  • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

    @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

    3 жыл бұрын

    First of all, they will not be on the top forever. Plus they will get old and all too. It is their fate too and who knows how many partners they will have on their lives? Even if they don’t openly admit it, the truth will come out sooner or later. I just hope they don’t need to lie through their teeth about it but it depends. But wish them the best as it is fate.

  • @prvthvmv
    @prvthvmv3 жыл бұрын

    I totally support jennie with g dragon.. When jennie dated kai I wasn't a blink and now I am and I will support her decision!

  • @Briaesthetic

    @Briaesthetic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me tooo! They look so good together, I’m so jealous but in a good way

  • @chrisbunka

    @chrisbunka

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m a blink but know that none of them will ever be my girlfriend, and I’m happy with that. I just want to continue to watch them sing and dance!

  • @shrinasen8723

    @shrinasen8723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hang on, the Jennie and gdragon rumour is true?!?!? Omg my friend was right

  • @Crucial178

    @Crucial178

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisbunka 😂😂😂😭😭😭

  • @aarna3625

    @aarna3625

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same sis I became a blink just 3 months after their dating news

  • @kaypounds9543
    @kaypounds95433 жыл бұрын

    Funnily enough, it's mostly idols dating other celebrities who typically get caught. I'm a creative person and sneaky, I should start an agency to help idols date in secret until they're ready to go public.

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @robby5607

    @robby5607

    3 жыл бұрын

    ok that's such a good idea, I want to join, can I join!?

  • @shradhamathur7554

    @shradhamathur7554

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's a really good idea.. I wanna join too. Idol matchmaker is a perfect job for me 😂.

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shradhamathur7554 yes

  • @yn4274

    @yn4274

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes you should

  • @riddhijain6807
    @riddhijain68073 жыл бұрын

    Bold of you to assume that an idol will ever, and I mean ever in their life wish for me to date them.

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @ezrahamed4492

    @ezrahamed4492

    3 жыл бұрын

    You shouldn’t speak of yourself in this way. It is not good for your self esteem. Idols are humans and so are you.

  • @loveyourself-ov2xy

    @loveyourself-ov2xy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ezrahamed4492 ya.👍

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ezrahamed4492 i will never ever meet them so they will never ever date me. ):

  • @ezrahamed4492

    @ezrahamed4492

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@suyeesia7770You don’t know that. You can’t tell the future. Also, we don’t even know these people and they most likely don’t know we exist. We don’t know what they are like behind the scenes and loving them so much is really unhealthy. Focus on the people in your life and strive to improve your situation. Being so rapped up about your favorite musician that lives so far away will only hurt you in the end.

  • @Crucial178
    @Crucial1783 жыл бұрын

    TO ALL THE FANS , REMEMBER ONE THING ALWAYS , If YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WILL ACCEPT , SACRIFICE ANG GIVE UP MANY THINGS FOR THEM , BUT WHEN YOU LIKE SOMEONE YOU WILL TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OVER THEM , LITERALLY OVER THEIR PERSONAL LIFE AND SPACES TOOO ! This called HUMAN BRAIN ! IF FANS REALLY LOVE THEIR IDOL THEY SHOULD SACRIFICE, GIVE UP AND ACCEPT THE IDOLS DECISIONS , IF NOT IT MEANS U LIKE THEM SO MUCH ! THAT'S ALL

  • @independentquebec3500

    @independentquebec3500

    3 жыл бұрын

    AAAAA WHY ARE WE SPEAKING IN CAPLOCKS

  • @lolitaapplewhite8128

    @lolitaapplewhite8128

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@independentquebec3500 🤣🤣🤣 TO BE MOOOOREEEE DRAMATIC !!!

  • @ElenaSi

    @ElenaSi

    2 жыл бұрын

    I mean, how can fans LOVE an idol? They don't even know them😅

  • @plsnarayanan
    @plsnarayanan3 жыл бұрын

    Toxic exo-ls need to accept chen's marriage like how VIPs accepted Taeyang's marriage

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @rahim-baccussumayya2341

    @rahim-baccussumayya2341

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was so happy when chen announced he is married ahhhhh finally i will start to have junior exo 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @briannamalicay2237

    @briannamalicay2237

    2 жыл бұрын

    yeah i was actually so happy when he announced his marriage

  • @Danna-ek5hq

    @Danna-ek5hq

    2 жыл бұрын

    As an exol, I was very happy for Chen I supported him coz he is just like us and he is even my bias but even if he wasn't my bias I would still accept his relationship

  • @dhsf5937

    @dhsf5937

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's different,the public loved Min hyo Rin(I don't know if I'm writing her name right),Taeyang was honest with the public since the beginning,he didn't hide their relationship,Taeyang was not seen as desirable in comparation with other kpop artists,reason why G dragon relationships got a diffrent treatment from Taeyang,jealousy only works when the member is handsome,in Kpop industry is all about looks.

  • @TheSpringSnowCats
    @TheSpringSnowCats3 жыл бұрын

    I have to correct you on chen's issue. EXO's sales went down from 2018 bcus the compnay under produced the physical copies of obsession, adding to the fact that 2 members were in the military. jongdae getting married has nothing to do with exo sales. he got married in january 2020, 3 months after the release of the album. also, exo is on hiatus due to members enlisting, that's why they haven't released anything as a group since 2019. please get your facts straight.

  • @yasminchan7425

    @yasminchan7425

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad someone is clarifying, I actually didn't know this

  • @brandoncrenshaw5027

    @brandoncrenshaw5027

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes she needs to get her facts right

  • @TheSpringSnowCats

    @TheSpringSnowCats

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brandoncrenshaw5027 exo not having a cb or not selling as much as they do is more than just one member getting married and having a baby. the group is literally being manipulated by their company and to just put it all on chen is wrong, siding with the antis and brush everything that's happening with exo off as if it's just bcus someone got married.

  • @brandoncrenshaw5027

    @brandoncrenshaw5027

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheSpringSnowCats yes I don't know why people believe that it did EXO album sales are doing good as usual

  • @daewakilat1842

    @daewakilat1842

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. this channel hates SM artists so much.

  • @promiseada3540
    @promiseada35403 жыл бұрын

    I'm so shocked..... In my country its actually a beautiful thing for a celebrity to date,marry and have kids. Fans will support and they only get angry when you divorce or treat your girlfriend/wife unfairly. K-world is so weird. If you wanna cure your obsessions for kpop and kdrama you have to watch these videos .

  • @V_chan

    @V_chan

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well, I'm 9 months late to reply this but yeah it's the same in my country. It's very common for the celebs to date each other or marry someone who is not from entertainment industry. That's totally normal and the fans are very supportive. Moreover, if their ships sink (the couple break up or divorce), their fans will also hate the wrong one. It's also kinda same in Thailand. They don't even care about genders. Like I'm okay if my favourite actor dates a man either he is a celeb or not. Their personal life should not be our problem.

  • @teresascarlet

    @teresascarlet

    Жыл бұрын

    i love kpop because they have this kind of rules. and most people don't comment this way most are like you that wanted to change their industry. i think it's best for them to not date and focus on career

  • @scarlettjones9879
    @scarlettjones98793 жыл бұрын

    I still don't understand why the "fans" hate whom their favourite idols date? You are a fan! You LOVE them! That means you have to support their decisions too! You are a supporter, so support them. Let them have their own life. They are also humans. If you call yourself a TRUE fan, then do your duties as a fan too.

  • @AnnieIsaLau

    @AnnieIsaLau

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, if I see someone being happy in their relationship, why would I hate that? Unless it would look like a super toxic relationship. It's like Britney Spears right now ... so many fans hating on her fiancé, it's insane. Just be happy for her!

  • @scarlettjones9879

    @scarlettjones9879

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AnnieIsaLau exactly

  • @andyng1209

    @andyng1209

    Жыл бұрын

    Because they want the idols to exclusively belong to them

  • @teresascarlet

    @teresascarlet

    Жыл бұрын

    fan or not it's a natural reaction to be turn off. imagine they will buy photocards etc of these idols that already taken. so they will loose fans

  • @miakayuki1068

    @miakayuki1068

    Жыл бұрын

    They are Idols not simple celebrities! If you want idols to be free from this dating you can make your own company and rules. of course you don't have a company and will not make a company cause it's a lot of work right? so this companies invest to this idols but you don't, it's not the fans fault it's how the business work. it's natural that fans would not support them anymore cause they don't want to fantasize anymore that this man is one in a million, they like this idols because they are not like other guys who crave girlfriends etc. they sell themselves to fans that's why photocards, merchs exist. imagine that idol in a relationship and you buy photocards knowing it's already in relationship, since he's taken fans will not have crave to someone already in a relationship or see that merch because it's weird being happy to see that pic that is already taken. it's all about psychology. its just one of the example. it's better that idols stay that way if they want commited fanbase

  • @chelseaharridass4531
    @chelseaharridass45313 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes fans can be selfish but we as their fans need to understand that they can't be alone , they need someone to live their life with! They want to spend their life with someone they LOVE! And we need to respect their decision as their fans . We don't rule their lives , we can't tell them what to do . They are not puppets that you can control! They are human beings!!! A living , breathing human! Not an object you can do whatever you please to it . In every single fan base no matter if its Blinks , Armys , Ahgase , ReVeluv , Moas , EXO-L's etc...there will ALWAYS be a small group or few fans that have such a mentality that their idols can't date and their idols only belong to them but you don't own them! They own themselves . I know many are gonna be angry with me for saying this but it's the truth and it has to be said .

  • @chelseaharridass4531

    @chelseaharridass4531

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pearl Jimin oh Ahgase's are GOT7's fans .

  • @chelseaharridass4531

    @chelseaharridass4531

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pearl Jimin Sure thing 😊

  • @Krypton853

    @Krypton853

    3 жыл бұрын

    Their not fans I just call them Toxic.

  • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

    @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

    3 жыл бұрын

    Those fans are crazy and are not true fans.

  • @Kindagloomy...

    @Kindagloomy...

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pearl Jimin Igot7 and Ahgase are same things, Ahgase is just nickname i guess

  • @aguywholikesstopmotion
    @aguywholikesstopmotion3 жыл бұрын

    Kfans are the one who's toxic how they can say they're fan when they cant support their idol all the way especially in their lovelife coz they're expecting the idol gonna married them one day!?hahahaha.,Im also a bigfan of V from Bts and have a big crush to him but i know my limits that im a fan and forever be a fan that unconditionally loved and support him no matter what 😉

  • @tuhinadas8556

    @tuhinadas8556

    3 жыл бұрын

    Isn't it you who proving yourself toxic by saying kfans are toxic?? Like duh there are only a little amount of kfans and there comes huge quantity of international fans, so how come only blaming kfans??

  • @Kindagloomy...

    @Kindagloomy...

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think we international fans sometimes act to kfans rly bad, c'mon don't do this

  • @Sonnenanbeterin1991

    @Sonnenanbeterin1991

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dont agree with that you find toxic behaviour also with international fans.. but the difference is indeed the fanservice and how foreign fans and korean fans are used to it .. thats indeed a difference

  • @Sonnenanbeterin1991

    @Sonnenanbeterin1991

    2 жыл бұрын

    So what i wanna say is that western fans are used to see more of their stars dating etc

  • @shreya-xy8gh
    @shreya-xy8gh3 жыл бұрын

    They have their own life and they can do anything and I agree with them if any idol date with another it's nothing wrong and I will support them ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lalitathukrul8980

    @lalitathukrul8980

    3 жыл бұрын

    But not all are kind hearted like you

  • @user-lm9zp5mo7m
    @user-lm9zp5mo7m3 жыл бұрын

    There's nothing wrong on dating your idols, even in just your imagination, atleast you've made yourself happy although it's just a scenario, what's important is you love and support them. Trust them.

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @jiao-gv2lv

    @jiao-gv2lv

    2 жыл бұрын

    No it not good for you because in the end it will cause problems. It disgusting spending time thinking about a man who can your father.

  • @bee-fq6ko
    @bee-fq6ko3 жыл бұрын

    i still remember that time where mamamoo solar & moonbyul literally trolled dispatch lmao

  • @jb.i.love6v675

    @jb.i.love6v675

    3 жыл бұрын

    Taemin and kai too lol

  • @Danna-ek5hq

    @Danna-ek5hq

    2 жыл бұрын

    Baekhyun and Chanyeol too

  • @brandoncrenshaw5027
    @brandoncrenshaw50273 жыл бұрын

    The thing about EXO album declining is false that you SM didn't produce any new copies and refused to restock the obsession albums all EXO L knew that till this day they just now start to restock the album now. The album is close to a million copies now. EXO album sales are always on point and everything still the same EXO streaming sales are huge and getting bigger each day. Chen and chanyeol knows real EXO L will always support them and be here for them We're Not delusional kids like those so called fans are. We are one forever.

  • @daewakilat1842

    @daewakilat1842

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is the n-th time this channel use SM artists for a bad example and spreading false news so the artists look bad. I'm so done. Unsub already.

  • @radheradhe137

    @radheradhe137

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for saying that

  • @user-de8ww5iv6g

    @user-de8ww5iv6g

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's what i was going to say also DFTF sold 1 million copies😎

  • @byakuya98
    @byakuya983 жыл бұрын

    There's an old addage saying, "Never meet your heroes." For reality and dissapointment will set in and because one's idols or hero are humans as well.

  • @shrijitahalder
    @shrijitahalder3 жыл бұрын

    Are there any kdramas on this? Like commoners dating K-pop idols. I would be interested in watching them

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @piarsephone

    @piarsephone

    3 жыл бұрын

    There's one similar . It's called 'uncontrollably fond'. It's about a kpop idol who couldn't forget her ex in high school . I won't spoil the kdrama anymore but would surely recommend you to watch it👍👍👍

  • @DP-yn3jf

    @DP-yn3jf

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think there are American movies with the same concept maybe?

  • @EVL-xj5vc

    @EVL-xj5vc

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too I would definitely watch! It will be an interesting and relatable script 😊

  • @tonim1719

    @tonim1719

    3 жыл бұрын

    Touch your Heart by Lee Dong Wook and Yoon In Na is nearly similar with an actress dating a lawyer

  • @pinknailsworldseries367
    @pinknailsworldseries3673 жыл бұрын

    What are some “hard to swallow” facts about K-pop? The hardest facts that I have to swallow about K-pop are:- If you fall in love with your idol and their nature because you're gullible, naive or more trusting of others, you will always feel the need to meet your idol or fantazise them. But deep down, you know it's impossible and that you can never meet them more time than 5-10 minute direct contact only in fanmeetings. The idol you see on screen is fake. All thanks to fantasy K-pop sell, many don't know and their heart breaks more when they couldn't meet them or their dating news or some other scandal comes out. Now, let me break this down. My first point applies to many people, maximum people, to be honest. Many are gullible enough to fall for their idols and their personalities. But, in some cases, I find it rather disturbing and heart-breaking. Imagine there is a 18 year old who lives a lonely life. She has no friends, has bad childhood experience like bullying or an outcast, her family is ignorant of her emotional needs and her social life is non-existent. She is sensitive, understands and respects other people feelings, still doesn't want to hurt people like she got hurt and is quite positive in her life. But, she still needs someone with whom she can relate. She can't live alone all the time. Then she finds K-pop and find her first k-pop group who're nicest people in this world. They seem positive, friendly, doesn't judge, have strong bonding with each other, pursue their dream despite physically and mentally tired and malnutritioned with hardwork. What will she do? She's obviously going to get attach to them because first, she feels like home with them, despite seeing them on screen and second, she cares for them because she never felt like home. She'll feel dejected when her idols won't win and get mistreated by their company or get overly excited when something good happens to them. She might or might not be obsessive of them. But even if she's not obsessive, won't she want to meet them and get hurt anyways? Especially when she's using K-pop and her stan group a way to escape reality. When she thinks she can be the best buddy with her idols. These are not delusions but a simple dream of someone who gets obsessed with the fantasy K-pop sells. It's hard to swallow that K-pop idols are just like other celebrities and not the people you have around you. The first point is disturbing to me, in this case, because the person's obsession is not unhealthy. She is not wrong but still she's getting hurt. All she does is, she loves to see the V-lives, blogs, variety shows of her favourite idol group. Now, let's continue the story. Shall I? She realises if she can't meet them, she can still watch them and be satisfied. She still follows their activites, takes part in fan voting, if she can, she saves money to buy merchandises, gets happy even in small things like music wins. She even gets jealous sometimes, of other groups, if they beat her own favourite group. She can sometimes lost her mind and can engage in counter attacking other toxic fans too. She is living the life of a typical ‘Kpop' fan. Then, news breaks out that her one of the members of her favourite group has left the group due to some unknown reasons. She doesn't know why. She is hurt but she still respects his/her decision and believes in her own ‘One True 7 ‘or ‘One True 8’. However, sometimes she does think about the reasons why an idol who is non-blood related brother with others would ‘betray' his/her own group members. She has heard about all those dating scandals, boycott group protests, 7 year group curse, suicides and saesang stories but never paid any attention to it. She sympathise with those who has to go through it but she always wore the rosey glasses when she looks at her own favourite. But, now for the first time, she has to keep her glasses down when it was revealed that “Ex-member of bullying and racist rumours are confirmed. What will happen now?” Her illusion shattered. Her KZread newsfeed is filled with videos discussing and roasting her favourite group's ex-member. The heated discussion about idols being fake arised again and she watches videos about former idols sharing their idol life and experience. Her heart breaks again. She low-key knew but she still thought ‘her' group is ‘different'. She realises that:- Being an idol is just a job. No one cares about idols outside industry. Most popular groups are lucky enough to be famous and earn good while others will fade within 7 years or even within a year. Idols just show their good side. All of them have negative sides that you will never see because entertainment companies are controlling and regulating everything. Idols ain't pure virgins or innocent babies. They watch porn, smoke, vapes, do drugs and even have sex like other people. It's idol’s job to appear friendly, kind and perfect. They're practically taught to be like this by the company. So, they're just not showing how bad they can be in reality. All those V-lives and blogs are partially or mostly scripted or monitored. Idols might actually fight or dislike each other off-camera but appears as ‘true bromance couple' on-camera. Acting at it's finest. The idols she loved is not what they are. She doesn't know anymore. Her source of warmth and everything are not even real. Her world now shatters and she just look at them like regular people. Her affection is still there but it's somehow not true. It's shallow. P.S. This is how K-pop industry plays with your emotions by appealing your emotional side. We can't even blame the person that it's their fault to think K-pop is deep and everything is real when all those fan-services, V-lives, interviews, dating bans and other things ‘emphasising’ on the fact that idols are suppose to be ideal and perfect which is another thing that I find disturbing in K-pop. I hope I explained the best 😀❤️

  • @jenittabritto9134

    @jenittabritto9134

    3 жыл бұрын

    Finally I found someone who split facts

  • @andreinapereira552

    @andreinapereira552

    Жыл бұрын

    No.

  • @murphy5582

    @murphy5582

    Жыл бұрын

    Everyone vote this up ..i want people to read this ..please put on more likes ...she/he really explained the scenario so damn well

  • @keksiyoko4296

    @keksiyoko4296

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't know why but reading this made me so sad because it's the truth...do you know how you can stop to behave like this?do you have any tips for me?

  • @bloodyraven1347

    @bloodyraven1347

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! Exactly! That's the truth..I know it hurts but it's better to know the bitter truth than the sweet lie

  • @ssgsnsgs3181
    @ssgsnsgs31813 жыл бұрын

    I think we shawols are the only fandom who actually wish for our boys to date and get married... although we are not yet fully ready for taemin dating we would happily support him in any ways he decides to take

  • @Anonymous-pp8fc

    @Anonymous-pp8fc

    3 жыл бұрын

    Isn’t teamin 27 and hasn’t he already been on wgm?

  • @ssgsnsgs3181

    @ssgsnsgs3181

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Anonymous-pp8fc he was in wgm at the age of 20 hes personality is so much different now and you cant call that show dating sm send him to wgm in order for him to change his cute innocence makne image to more of a manly one so that he can solo debut the coming year after the show The thing that make it hard for us is that he acts so boyfriend material like he literally tell us we are for him and we shouldn't cheat on him 😂😂he have even proposed to all the fandom(obviously a joke)and we have this kinda joke among us and him that we are his wives 😂😂😂 He can't continue these jokes if he date someone and that's the reason why we are kinda still not ready and will miss his jokes but at the end we respect his choice

  • @MiaThorsteinsson

    @MiaThorsteinsson

    3 жыл бұрын

    we ELF are also begging SJ to start dating comfortably.. Leader Leeteuk is 40 soon. At least, Heechul is comfortably dating Momo, Ryowook is dating, too.. Sungmin should be forgiven for his marriage, already!

  • @caddythanks6712

    @caddythanks6712

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MiaThorsteinsson that is quite F*CKED UP about super junior . i think they should retire in 2022 or 2023 and then get married . i hope heechul continues dating momo .

  • @user-de8ww5iv6g

    @user-de8ww5iv6g

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@caddythanks6712 hmmm but heechul & momo broke up🤷‍♀️😔

  • @pennyb2153
    @pennyb21533 жыл бұрын

    Excuse me? Obsession was released months before Chen announced his marriage. first week sales has nothing to do with it. Also, comparing an ot6 comeback sales with a previous ot9 comeback sales is not fair.

  • @daewakilat1842

    @daewakilat1842

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr. This channel hates EXO and keep spreading false info smh.

  • @user-de8ww5iv6g

    @user-de8ww5iv6g

    2 жыл бұрын

    This foolish channel hates EXO...but tell this stupid channel that EXO sold 1 million copies for DON'T FIGHT THE FEELING 😌

  • @yangyangziko2820
    @yangyangziko28202 жыл бұрын

    But idols are also humans who also deserve loyal and loving partners.Cause one day they will be retired from limelight and they will need real family.I don't want them to be lonely.🥺

  • @iamjoonsbae9401
    @iamjoonsbae94012 жыл бұрын

    They are literally adults, why should they be restricted from dating 😕

  • @maynardvizcarra3982
    @maynardvizcarra39823 жыл бұрын

    This is what scares me for TWICE's Chaeyoung since she has said that if she were to date, she's most likely to date someone who's not an idol

  • @nialee8585

    @nialee8585

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same with bts

  • @vijaysanise3241
    @vijaysanise32412 жыл бұрын

    in india actors marry and fans loves theie wifes and their childrens thank god indian industry is not like korian industry

  • @jihaanhaji3467

    @jihaanhaji3467

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes exactly like heaven

  • @siyajha6969
    @siyajha69693 жыл бұрын

    I'LL SHAVE YOUR EYEBROWS IF YOU EVER HATE ON ANY INDIVIDUAL FOR THEIR OWN DATING CHOICES, WHAT THEY DO WITH THEIR LIFE. hah ! ( rest of you, I pray you get lots of free food )

  • @Briaesthetic

    @Briaesthetic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Free food?yesssss

  • @ceciliayandesfaustine5017

    @ceciliayandesfaustine5017

    3 жыл бұрын

    Free food for meeee

  • @siyajha6969

    @siyajha6969

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Briaesthetic yes momos for you 😉

  • @siyajha6969

    @siyajha6969

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ceciliayandesfaustine5017 pizzas for you 💫

  • @ceciliayandesfaustine5017

    @ceciliayandesfaustine5017

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@siyajha6969 how do you know I like pizza?

  • @sukanyadobhal8344
    @sukanyadobhal83443 жыл бұрын

    Just imagine if someone say you to break your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend....what you will think that who is that person to tell us what we have to do.....just like that who are fans to tell the idols what they should do or not😒😒😒😒😒

  • @Danna-ek5hq

    @Danna-ek5hq

    2 жыл бұрын

    They're not their hearts

  • @sindujaramanathan1540
    @sindujaramanathan15403 жыл бұрын

    I wish the kpop industry would turn into something healthier for the idols in all aspects .. mental and physical

  • @arunjaiswal3489
    @arunjaiswal34893 жыл бұрын

    I also don't know why dating is such an issue for kpop idols As I just went on through some videos and people were saying that Jennie's choice in boys are not as good as in her fashion say were saying that gd is not good for her rather than Jennie and V are best Seriously I love Jennie I support her and gd

  • @pinatialesanaahleong2235
    @pinatialesanaahleong22352 жыл бұрын

    This is where that saying comes in, 'if you love something, you've got to learn to let it go'.

  • @trollinyoutube4629
    @trollinyoutube46293 жыл бұрын

    50% of the trouble comes from fans being selfish not wanting their idols or bias to date anyone. Boycotting because your idol is dating? Fans can be selfish AF, alot is the fans fault

  • @saffyesperas2278
    @saffyesperas22783 жыл бұрын

    I did not want a relationship with the idols, but friendship is welcomed.

  • @amandab8433
    @amandab84333 жыл бұрын

    It's extremely concerning that some fans are so delusional. Seriously do fans really think that some day an Idol would come sweep them off their feet with declarations of love? Let these performers be, they are doing their job, and as adults should be able to live their lives as any "normal" person. That would include let letting them date, and have real relationships. Trying to end Idols careers for some fantasy is just cruel and disgusting.

  • @nezukochan2033

    @nezukochan2033

    3 жыл бұрын

    Side effects of reading Wattpad stories 😂😂

  • @anjanaupadhyay3919

    @anjanaupadhyay3919

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bruh idols and companies are responsible for these things as well.

  • @jiao-gv2lv

    @jiao-gv2lv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Their job isn't even job it a cult to make teenagers to be obsessed with them.

  • @monokaiser9088
    @monokaiser90883 жыл бұрын

    never in my whole life im dreaming to date my faves.. i love EXO as an entertainer and i really want them to be happy.. fans need to realize that, u love them for their image, dance, singing, the entertainment that they give when on variety show - thats it..! its 2021, we should normalize idols dating or married and still can be active as an idol.. coz they are human too.. fans can date and marry, why not the idol..?

  • @brandoncrenshaw5027

    @brandoncrenshaw5027

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why did she mention EXO album sales their album sales are still good that year 2019 SM under-produced Obsession album and did not give proper link to pre-order his married had nothing to do with it . He was married in 2020

  • @daewakilat1842

    @daewakilat1842

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brandoncrenshaw5027 this channel is dumb and hates SM artists

  • @craftyhomeswithhari8351
    @craftyhomeswithhari8351 Жыл бұрын

    Meanwhile me : thinking why will my bias even marry me...😂😂😂

  • @tinathetina8137
    @tinathetina81373 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I would never date an idol (unless if its both mutual but that's pretty unlikely) because of course, its not the best circumstances to be under and I'm not that idealistic that everything would be perfect. Also, with everyone's opinion on their idol, finding out that idol's secret sides and personality may change your view on them if it ever happened. Staying realistic and reminding yourself that everyone is human is best for everyone so you don't end up looking like a crazed fan.

  • @acegabrielcruz3687
    @acegabrielcruz36872 жыл бұрын

    If a Kpop Idol dates a random person they met please let them it's their lives

  • @waitaminutewhoareyou8604
    @waitaminutewhoareyou86042 жыл бұрын

    I would love if you made video about this topic Unpopular opinion: I blame KPOP industry for the fact that many young girls dream to date or marry idols. 1. Flirting, fake affection. Constant, non-stopping flirting has serious effect on our psychology. In real life, when we see person flirting with us, we think right away that they like us. In KPOP, they flirt so much: on fan-meetings, concerts, vlives and ect. they touch fans and make eye-contact. They keep saying that they love us and we are their girlfriends and BFFs. They might be very thankful, but of course they are NOT in love with us. Falling in love is so so easy. Psychologically woman tend to fall for funny guys. And these idols are not just funny, but handsome, wealthy (mostly), funny, respectful, supportive, understanding, they say they would date foreigners and fans, they love us and most importantly we are their GF/BFF ( as they say). who wouldn't fall for such guys. They also signed NO DATING contract so ,,I seem to have chances with him". They make eye-contact with us in concerts and fan-meetings. Now, add up all the things I mentioned and say wouldn't you fall for him. If your answer is NO, then you are not a human being. 2.Psychological impact KPOP fandom is mostly based on underaged people. This is time when people go through - hormonal changes, depression, stress, misunderstandings. They think that they are not loved and understood. They want someone who meets their needs during this period. And here are idols convincing and brainwashing fans and telling fans that they are their boyfriends/best friends, they love them so much and they understand them, when most of idols don't even like their fans. Idols just want to make the money and bigger fanbase , but playing on somebody's' feelings is not right! This is the reason why many K-stans think that KPOP/Idol saved their lives. Imagine doing all these insane things that fans do for their idols , such is streaming like crazy, buying their merch and all albumes, even if they don't like them that much, going to all their concert, showing them endless love ( obsessive funs and sasaengs are not included). And in the end they come up and say that they want to date, someone who is not them. Of course, buying albumes or going to concert is normal thing, but still. Imagine loving someone so so much. He has been with you for a long time, when he needed you and now when you gave him all of you, he tells you to not look at him like a lover and he wants to date someone, because he never looked at you or ,,loved" you that way. Wouldn't you be heartbroken? Almost similar thing happens between fans and idols as well. It would make you feel used and very heartbroken. 3. Fans are too spoiled. Fans don't get these kind of treatment form pop singers. Pop is all about making money and everyone know it. Pop is just a music a music genre, when KPOP is much more than just music. It's even called ,,KPOP CULTURE". KPOP should not be compared to pop. Pop is more relaxed. There is not this unrealistic standards. They are mostly real and it's obvious that Pop is all about making money. They don't brainwash people as much as KPOP does. KPOP industry is INSANE. Fan are also so demanding: ,,They shouldn't date!", ,,my oppa only loves me, he is mine". Idols should change their hairstyle, personality and lifestyle, because fans want them to do so. They allow fans to decide, so fans see themselves as rulers of idols' lives. ,, I don't want you to date, so you won't!". 4. Idols started it first Goodnight wishes, Flying kisses ( except Jin's), cringy acting like they are our partners ( when they record these weird video of giving us gifts, or tying our shoelaces). Telling us to call them boyfriend if someone disturbs us. Trust me this all seem just a simple things, but that's what make us fall in love. To attract fans of course they need to do these, but as time goes by, it becomes normal. Idols do not have independence. They have to do what company tells them no matter what it is, they HAVE TO do it. They don't enjoy doing all these things, they want to live like normal people do, but they also chose to enter KPOP toxic world, so now they have to follow everything, without single complain. They were aware of it through contract, but they still signed it. So, most of the fans do not think it's problematic to dig into idols lives. Small fire warms you up, but big fire burns you down. This it what Idols are facing now. All these things added up in immature fans minds and they ended up falling in love or getting obsessed over them. Idols are also humans, but these people misunderstand them with real idols/gods and start worshiping them. That's right that idols fall in love too, but they started it first, they made these fake illusions, gave fans unrealistic fantasies and standards. If KPOP works in same way as POP does, Non of the Idol groups would be successful. AND AFTER ALL OF THESE THEY EXPECT FANS TO NOT FALL FOR THEM ROMANTICLY. ARE THEY FOOL? (English is not my firs

  • @KM07920
    @KM079202 жыл бұрын

    R u saying they should be single forever!!? I feel so bad for idols when it comes to their love life, they can't love who they want, can't be with who they want it's just so sad....

  • @ncxymj8182
    @ncxymj81823 жыл бұрын

    I don’t care Iran idol is dating anyone Why some of y’all actually convinced you’ll get a chance with them💀

  • @chrisbunka

    @chrisbunka

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s hard for many people to give up fantasies if they don’t have many dating options in their daily lives.

  • @ncxymj8182

    @ncxymj8182

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisbunka yea I understand

  • @kaypounds9543

    @kaypounds9543

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think we all get crushes on celebrities, but if you truly care you'll support them on most things, unless they actually do illegal activities. I personally feel so bad that they can't date who they want to appease their "fans."

  • @chrisbunka

    @chrisbunka

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nothing with our having crushes on Kpop idols. That makes following them enjoyable. It’s when fans make unrealistic demands on the idols that bothers me.

  • @ncxymj8182

    @ncxymj8182

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisbunka yep

  • @veronicaelsegood5175
    @veronicaelsegood51752 жыл бұрын

    I think that anyone embarking on such a relationship would need to be very strong, have a great sense of self worth and be truly self reliant. Add a good sense of humour, lack of jealousy and the ability to keep the secret and a calm nature and total belief in yourselves as a couple and it's a huge ask for one person, especially in any society where fans can't accept dating of their idols . Really sad .

  • @gemmymercado1941
    @gemmymercado19413 жыл бұрын

    This didn't changed my mind hehe if you really love someone, it isn't easy to stop loving the person you really love.

  • @miniemoonie1123
    @miniemoonie11232 жыл бұрын

    I want all the idols to start dating .. maybe then all the toxic fans will leave their fandoms and only + fans will be left to support them .

  • @melody1551
    @melody1551 Жыл бұрын

    "When Oppa says I love you he means thanks for supporting me, not I'll marry you"

  • @ladybirdlee3058
    @ladybirdlee30582 жыл бұрын

    I don't understand how it reached this point. Idols can't even be seen talking with women their own age now without some rumor circulating. Or actually even liking an instagram post can be seen as taboo. I don't understand the strict gender segregation. It wasn't always like this. I feel like the labels and idols need to take a stand against toxic fans. These guys are grown men who deserve to have a real life.

  • @saniyakauser006
    @saniyakauser0062 жыл бұрын

    Idol can date and can do anything because it is their life. They have full rights take any decision which is good for their future. IDOLS ARE ALSO HUMANS. PLEASE DON'T HATE THEM BECAUSE OF THEIR PERSONAL LIFE . 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @girlwithluv4028
    @girlwithluv40282 жыл бұрын

    It's not fair, they can also have there personal life. I am ot7 army & and Jungkook hard Stan but I support iukook and I am following her on insta. So every idol should get to live there own personal life with out any hate .

  • @pangwawanem2966
    @pangwawanem29662 жыл бұрын

    Fans says they will die for there idol but when it come to this things fans are like they become rival to their idol. Just support them they are also human it breaks their heart when their fans are not supporting them but going against them. You want your idols to be happy so please dont do this to them.

  • @acegabrielcruz3687
    @acegabrielcruz36872 жыл бұрын

    Kpop Idols are humans with emotions too not some objects that fans can control so if any fan or regular person gets lucky on dating a Kpop Idol congratulations to that person

  • @breakhart
    @breakhart2 жыл бұрын

    what you mention about "fans" still can happen to anyone even if that person not an idol, why? because fans can be replaced with families, friends, nor relatives. so everything is depend how you see each other, will you still see him or her as an idol or simply as a partner in your life, and vice versa. the point is don't get relationship with the idol but the person itself

  • @fufu-jh
    @fufu-jh2 жыл бұрын

    Some idols And actors have happy relationships, i wish all of them had it instead of all the drama tears pain And etc....

  • @corastevens779
    @corastevens7792 жыл бұрын

    I am so late to watching this, but I have to say this… as I see there are many things to think about when dating an idol, this isn’t just about other people. This is about personal happiness. Idols will hide relationships and busy themselves so that way they don’t have to think about the aspect of having someone they love in that way nonexistent or barely even there. The idol themselves has things to think about and the partner should think about it as well… however, the partner also has a life. I personally think whoever the idol ends up with will have a life of their own and they won’t just sit and let the idol take advantage of them, instead they will find out a compromise that works for them. Knowing the potential risks of a relationship with a celebrity is good to know, but ultimately no one really knows the type of risk they would take in that moment with everything into perspective. If you truly are happy with a person, and are happy with yourself, then everyone should be able to find a balance sometime in their life. I would date an idol… I would date one knowing what the fans would do, but I think I personally would be okay with the secrecy of the relationship because putting things into perspective, you would have time with them… you just wouldn’t have the time you dream of… and for me that’s okay because I am also a very career oriented person… everyone should view the idols as role models, but also normal human beings and recognize that their self worth is also at that level. You are strong. You are beautiful and powerful. Bring light into the world your own way. Whatever you do will be beneficial in someway. I would date a BTS member… not gonna say who my bias is, but I think I would date them if the circumstances were doable and the compromise between the two of us was a reasonable one… don’t ever think you can’t do something just because it seems impossible. In reality, it is very possible, just unlikely. So everyone keep the hope in whatever you want to achieve because even if it doesn’t turn out the way you expect, you probably won’t be disappointed in the end ;)

  • @thesteakkimseokjinloves7676
    @thesteakkimseokjinloves76763 жыл бұрын

    I have no problem with idols dating but people create situations so awkward after idols confirm their status. Media plays a part in this too and that part is always negative

  • @ballisticbohemian7136
    @ballisticbohemian71363 жыл бұрын

    Great job explaining multiple points of view regarding how a relationship with an idol would be difficult. 👍

  • @asp11177
    @asp111773 жыл бұрын

    Damn !! Not even once it has crossed my mind to date an idol. I only desire to save enough money and attend the concert of the artist that I support. They make music for us and that’s what we should be concerned about as fans ! Let the idols date whoever they want to. The entitlement of these few fans who think they own the idol’s lives literally boils my blood.

  • @joelvoon5145
    @joelvoon51453 жыл бұрын

    Before chanyeol news im a exo big fan... after chaneol news im still exo big fan.... dear exoLs.. b a rational fan.. they r not our boyfriend

  • @krupashinde5303
    @krupashinde53032 жыл бұрын

    I myself is huge fan of Cha Enu Woo not just because he is an idol or rich or handsome but him as a human being even I dream of dating him one day even after i sometimes realise it's next to impossible but still I wish one day not only Eun Woo but every idol maary the person they no matter who he or ahe is how popular she or he is or how rich or poor she or he is but the only matter is their love.I hope one day I can complete my dream🥺

  • @homura_chan_
    @homura_chan_ Жыл бұрын

    it's not like we had a chance in the first place...

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @mizzdeegrannde
    @mizzdeegrannde3 жыл бұрын

    It takes a lot of patience and understanding if you really like and love the person.... Let him or her be an idol to fans.. Surely, Let him or her miss you as a partner.. Again you have to have a lot of understanding and patience😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊Real love have no boundaries.. I have no love life but I still admire the idea of real love😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @trii101
    @trii1012 жыл бұрын

    waiting for the day when toxic fans will realise that their idols are normal human beings and not monks

  • @aditypandoh2201
    @aditypandoh22012 жыл бұрын

    Well recently I saw an interview where host asked them to say we are yours(in a healthy way , she talked). But many fans we will feel that now they belong to them only . In my view she should have changed it into we all love all our fans (same thing but the way they say is different ) . I hope wat I am trying to say is well delivered .

  • @Cut_Throat_Girl
    @Cut_Throat_Girl2 жыл бұрын

    These people who feel entitled who the idols should share their heart with? I didn't know that by signing the contract you also got your heart snatched or something...my goodness

  • @ICTmylife
    @ICTmylife2 жыл бұрын

    If you are true fan you'll always support them no matter what :)

  • @afrobeatsislife1677
    @afrobeatsislife16773 жыл бұрын

    Anyone who thinks they are going to marry or date their idols are simply delusional if you come across this comment please wake up from that dream right now. And seriously sending hate to idols for dating human beings sure have gotten very stupid.

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Reva Sawant where

  • @afrobeatsislife1677

    @afrobeatsislife1677

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Reva Sawant people are really scary

  • @kiruthiyaa_24
    @kiruthiyaa_242 жыл бұрын

    I'm not that kind of dumb army who prays they should not date anyone I pray that armys should not curse or attack that woman who marries my idols I can say they're mine as an idol but as a person.... no they're not mine Bangtan belongs to army but Kim namjoon Kim seokjin Min yoongi Jung hoseok Park jimin Kim taehyung Jeon jungkook Are not mine...... they belong to their family, their future wives......

  • @TheEarthRealm
    @TheEarthRealm Жыл бұрын

    1:03 - 1. If they take off their makeup, and cover up their hair with a beanie- they will look like every other Korean guy around. 2. You could go on a trip outside of the country (separate flights, of course) and act as normal of a couple as you want upon arrival at your destination. No one will know.

  • @lycopersicisusceptibility0526
    @lycopersicisusceptibility05263 жыл бұрын

    I am a fan, and I know where to put myself. Yes, maybe I dream of marrying or dating my idol *sometimes* lol, but that's just me daydreaming. Most importantly, I become a fan because I love their music, uniqueness, choreographies, and personalities AND I DON'T CARE IF THEY'RE DATING OR NOT. I'D LIKE NOT TO CROSS THE LINE BETWEEN OUR RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS ONLY A *FAN-IDOL RELATIONSHIP* , so yep.

  • @suhani8270
    @suhani82703 жыл бұрын

    I m a part of ARMY so I will speak from what I have seen in our fandom We are really chill about them dating anyone they want we will support them in everything 🙂

  • @user-wx5mj5dl7b

    @user-wx5mj5dl7b

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was an army (I left the fandom because of toxic stans) and don’t get me wrong the good fans support, but the toxic army are very much against it. They aren’t real fans but there’s a lot of toxicity that goes on the fandom. Also...to anyone who’s thinking about joining Stan Twitter. Don’t.

  • @JenViva288

    @JenViva288

    3 жыл бұрын

    i am an army too, and no.. a lot of army aren´t chilled at all. many of them are really strict and toxic about that. especially asians.

  • @suhani8270

    @suhani8270

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JenViva288 Ayo! I am asian And let's see positivity it is stronger than negativity 😁

  • @Kindagloomy...

    @Kindagloomy...

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jimins nonexistent jams Same i was an ARMY too and that was one of the reasons why i left the fandom

  • @mkammran1348

    @mkammran1348

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes we will support them because we are armys

  • @niakrasimirova9775
    @niakrasimirova97752 жыл бұрын

    i don’t think the idols are selfish but the fans instead

  • @sitrus0107
    @sitrus01072 жыл бұрын

    I want idols to reveal their relationship...and then we true fans will definitely love and protect them...and those toxics...well you are definitely welcome to get out of this fandom

  • @speccothy
    @speccothy3 жыл бұрын

    We need to normalize idols having relationships.

  • @booshoo9996
    @booshoo99963 жыл бұрын

    Everything is beautiful at a distance. Idols usually are trained years to build a public image. They are trained to behave certain way and have a certain character. You really don't know them personally and their real likes and dislikes. Even, if you marry one of them, 24*7 lack of privacy would drive you crazy meaning you can't even go to a near by convenient store to get a candy bar. Listen to their music, go to their concerts, support them but never be delusional and ruin your life.

  • @chelseaharridass4531
    @chelseaharridass45313 жыл бұрын

    I saw my two King's and Queen's picture in the caption so I clicked even before it premiered lol 😂💜

  • @ashxoxoerii

    @ashxoxoerii

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 Same . EXOPINK

  • @everaveracruz447
    @everaveracruz447 Жыл бұрын

    I think before being idols they are human too and they deserve to be happy just as they make others happy, no matter who they choose as partners as long as they are happy. They are not robots they have feelings

  • @pinkvanillakitten
    @pinkvanillakitten3 жыл бұрын

    Just as some people are born to be famous, there are some people born to stand by their side and still choose them, for better and for worse... I just wish the world was kind enough to not make it hell for these soulmates.

  • @promiseada3540
    @promiseada35403 жыл бұрын

    Maybe a reality show or an agency should be created to help these young men and women find happiness. I recently watched a video where Chen said he wants to fall in love and marry and it was so sad to see that it was just a wish that might not come through. I really pity these idols because they are like products used constantly, worn out and thrown away when they age.......I mean , they won't be young forever! How would they live after their limelight?

  • @iwannabetheeggfelixfound3597
    @iwannabetheeggfelixfound35973 жыл бұрын

    If you love a person you love them but if they love someone else, you should support them wherever they are happy support your idols if you love them

  • @exolive2429
    @exolive24293 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully at the right time my idols would find their Wendy 💗 Thank you, Chen for being so brave 💗 I'm so proud of him ❤️

  • @himaririku9254
    @himaririku92543 жыл бұрын

    G DRAGON AND JENNIE ARE TRUES ARTISTS LEGENDS OF KPOP FOREVER LOVE LOVE TRUE JENDRAGON

  • @preciouskane4727
    @preciouskane47272 жыл бұрын

    It is so sad that they can't date or love someone without consequences

  • @emacarvalho7889
    @emacarvalho78892 жыл бұрын

    It’s so easy to fantasize about being with an idol for the rest of your life simply because you don’t have any challenges to overcome. In fantasy, everything is easy. But when really hits you in the face , you realizes you have tons of challenges to overcome. So dating an idol is not for everyone. There are sacrifices to be made. You have to be really secretive not only to protect yourself but your partner too. You have to be super patient and strong and I mean really, really, reeeeeeeaaaaaaally strong. And you have to ask yourself if you really love the person and not the idea of “ dating an idol” Dating an idol is hard but not impossible. It really depends on how strong you are because the path is a bit rocky. Even if you love him/her, you have to think twice or million times about whether it’s worth it or not because having an idol as your partner is no fairytale.

  • @niteangel27
    @niteangel272 жыл бұрын

    That’s terrible😕, clearly those people are not true fans if they don’t want their idols to be happy.

  • @karunamirajkar2961
    @karunamirajkar29613 жыл бұрын

    Blinks let's support Gd and Jennie

  • @vikrantspatil530

    @vikrantspatil530

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am fully supporting them. They also need personal life.

  • @user-vq4sc9lr7j

    @user-vq4sc9lr7j

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are they dating? If they dating i will fully support them! Sorry im a blink that lives under a rock..

  • @vikrantspatil530

    @vikrantspatil530

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-vq4sc9lr7j yep they are dating

  • @lucyn3771

    @lucyn3771

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-vq4sc9lr7j it's not confirmed, gd doesn't confirm or deny relationships. However even if they are not dating we should support them. Also the evidence is faulty at best

  • @gretagschwindt9387
    @gretagschwindt93872 жыл бұрын

    I think they should date the person that they want to date. And they also can have Girlfriends or Boyfriends. That would be fair

  • @Vydiastar
    @Vydiastar3 жыл бұрын

    to quote the Ne-yo song. For a fan to ever get the attention or go as. far as a relationship is...ONE IN A MILLION I may b a fan but im a realstic fan at that. Ill stick to my fanfics on wattpad, asianfanfics and youtube. Too much mess on that sceneario

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @pvsindhu131
    @pvsindhu1312 жыл бұрын

    Thing is at the end of the day each and every idol has to marry someone obviously... this video is absolutly right..i wanna add is that we should not rush for these things to happen..every thing has to take time and patience.... this is a wonderful video which actually is a eye opener for the fans who are only obsessed (not all) and just drool over their idols and dont think of consequences... ❤

  • @brandoncrenshaw5027
    @brandoncrenshaw50273 жыл бұрын

    The chanyeol thing is fake we all know those pictures are old and we seen those pictures before you can clearly tell in one picture he's holding a guitar. And that person that made the story up mysteriously disappeared what happened to the person it was all lies just like it always is with EXO they get so much hate and lies and rumors being made about them all the time. We real EXO L believe in them not haters

  • @daewakilat1842

    @daewakilat1842

    3 жыл бұрын

    this channel is so fu*king bias

  • @brandoncrenshaw5027

    @brandoncrenshaw5027

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@daewakilat1842 yes and you know who she biased for

  • @daewakilat1842

    @daewakilat1842

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@brandoncrenshaw5027 definitely

  • @Anime-qq3wd

    @Anime-qq3wd

    2 жыл бұрын

    Who is the channel biased for?..let me know please.

  • @sonakshi_69
    @sonakshi_692 жыл бұрын

    i am still determined to date an idol even if it brings me physical and mental breakdown and consequences . you can like who u like its no big deal . even if no body supports me i am still going to do whatever i want . i am a very brave person mentally and physically

  • @janeharris3814
    @janeharris38143 жыл бұрын

    For me, if I had the chance to date my idol, I would go for it. First, we live in different countries, so no paparazzi will know about us n no crazy stupid fans will mad at them for dating. We can go on date by traveling, it's safe n fun. Second, I personally understand their job as idol n I'm not jealous type Third, I don't mind if their fans buy gift that I can't afford. It helps me save my money for future of both of us Fourth, they can't stay idol until they get old. Most got disbanded, only some stay like Lee hyori. So if we got married one day, we can live peacefully at my country since people here are not judgemental like Korean

  • @suyeesia7770

    @suyeesia7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @hotpickskdrama
    @hotpickskdrama2 жыл бұрын

    its only a problem isf your are an active idols.. but if you are disband..i dont think theres a problem

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