If anyone was wondering what the big red T’s were on the screen at the beginning, that’s my editing software being dumb. Sorry lol. So annoying!

@eggybread69

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its alright!i didnt even notice

@isabellaevens8334

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Hi

@jessfidler2356

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It’s ok ❤we still love you

@Rosie-Posie124

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Don't worry about it :)

@isabellaevens8334

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It's fine!,

I love how open and honest you are in this, not trying to hide it all and pretend it isn't there. This shows REAL people with genuine lives, not one that's put on for the internet. This is no hate to anyone who doesn't share everything online, I don't expect anyone to, but this is a huge sign of trust that you feel comfortable to share it with us.

@paigedaine7115

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yea that is so true

@sarahlouisecupcake3392

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My room gets so messy and I always see clean rooms on yt but u guys are amazing ilysm

@rachelbranton4219

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@sailorarwen6101

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I appreciate it too. Even as an older person. I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like a failure or inadequate when we watch influencers that look like they have perfect happy lives

@jodil1209

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Absolutely true

Guys, I am 4 1/2 years into this parenting gig and my house still gets like this. Often. Working and parenting at the same time is f*cking hard. Let alone all the other stuff that has to be done - like housework. You’re both amazing and love how honest and open you are. Without people showing this, all people see is unrealistic/staged houses that set them up to feel like failures. Much love from Melbourne, Australia 😊❤

@Dreamkushh

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I'm 5 years and it truly is fucking hard lol.

@woodyismylife

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I haven’t even got kids and I find it so hard to keep my room clean. And I don’t even have a child or anyone else to entertain at the time. 😅

if it makes y’all feel any better, i do nothing but go to uni full time (no job, no children, no extracurriculars) and my room is always a wreck. y’all are doing great

I don’t know a mom who who doesn’t struggle with the house mess or guilt that comes with the mess. You are both great parents and it’s awesome that you let people see the good times the struggles and the mess of parenthood 💕

@rachelbrzoznowski4816

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I usually don't but when I do ughh it ain't fun

@lizcofano3000

Жыл бұрын

Right there with you. Vacuum then i can't walk for 3 days

Love how realistic and honest you are to your audience. This mess is very understandable and nothing to be ashamed about.

Honestly so refreshing to see this. I think this is so helpful for new parents especially cause I feel like new parents got a lot of guilt if things are not pristine and in order, be it from themselves or seeing the "picture perfect" scene all the time online/in media. You guys are literally making it feel quite relatable and create a really accepting space, for oneself and others, to share the experience of this crazy wonderful time in life.

Glad you guys are feeling pumped with your reboot! Don't feel bad if things get messy.

@gracieandmaggieschannel3797

Жыл бұрын

Yeah

Well, we became parents a week after you guys and I have smiled all the way through this video because of how normal you’ve just made me feel! Thank you!!! Xxx

@MomoKitten

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I became a parent the week before them lol, so fun watching them.

@erinmorris89

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congratultions! what did you have?

@void.-

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@@erinmorris89 a baby m8

@erinmorris89

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@@void.- funny, wasn’t even talking to you pal

@void.-

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@@erinmorris89 ik im sorry im joking, and congrats to them btw

Guys please don't be ashamed of your "mess". It's perfectly understandable, you have a baby. Things can be put on the back burner when you are adjusting to caring for a wee one, and even the best of us can get overwhelmed. Thank you for your honesty, it's one of the reasons I love you guys. Take care of you and Koazy, that's the most important thing, the house will be there when you have time to deal with it.

@bayleemitchell3018

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I'm due on the 22nd with our first baby (a baby girl🥰) and I am taking this advice for myself😅😁❤️

@Thatponycalledblaze

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Good luck with you little girl, hope all goes well! You are strong 💪 ❤

As a new mom of a 2 month old I appreciate the candid way you approach the transition form being child free to becoming parents. Ps. Don’t feel bad about the mess, I had to call my mom over to hold the baby so I could pick up the house.

Your reboot/reset day was the motivation I needed to get my cleaning/decluttering done today! As always, thank you for being real with us ❤ lots of love from NFLD 😊

I love how realistic and honest you guys are in your videos. It’s okay that life get’s messy sometimes, I have to be honest I am guilty of not keeping up with cleaning around the house, but then I have the refesh days and I get back on track. Life happens. I love this video. ❤

you guys are doing so great as parents and as people

I love how honest and open you two are about things being hard and not always perfect. I dont have kids and I still have a really hard time with staying on top of things like this. It's honestly really motivating to see you guys tackling all of this. It's good motivation

It is soooo normal! My partner and I struggled with this. We got the mess out of the way by giving everything a place. Something that helped us hugely was excepting the dump places. The places where stuff gets dumped to later be cleaned up. We got trays out and now we dump our stuff in those places but on the tray. So it's more deliberate. Once the tray is full or messy it needs sorting out. And it's so much easier! It was a life saver for us

my children are 16&18 and i still struggling and find house work so overwhelming, just keep doing what ur doing you are all amazing xx

I’m sure every parent goes through the stage where their house is messy and they feel like they don’t have their life together but I am so so sure that everything will work out in the end for you all, love you guyss x

I know it's not the same as having a child, but I've been working at getting into secondary school and I've been really stressed, and my room is an absolute mess. You guys are taking care of little Koazy, editing videos, and filming videos, you guys are doing absolutely amazing with Koazy!!

I love that you guys are so open and honest with us. And yes, feeling overwhelmed and/or unable to figure out where to start is Completely Normal!! The fact that you do Everything from your home and it’s not a total disaster is, quite frankly, impressive! I’m not a mum (yet), but I have worked as a nanny and I understand that overwhelmed feeling. Sometimes, you have a list of things you want to get done but the little one decides that nope, not going to happen lol You guys are doing great and Koazy is just adorable 🥰

It’s always hard, don’t worry, your doing amazing! The realness of the house is so good, people need to agree it’s hard to always do what you need, with a baby or without a baby. Keep going your doing amazing!! ❤

You said it so well there is a fine line between clean and messy. I suffer with ADHD and anxiety and I’ve always struggled with staying ontop of the mess also. It’s a struggle. If you can acknowledge it it’s half the battle!!

i’m doing my own reset when watching this. I’ve had a major depressive episode because i had an ectopic pregnancy and it took a toll on my mental health. my room was a mess and today i decided that even though i’ve been going through a rough patch i can’t put life on hold forever. So i’m right there with you guys on the reset. I love you both so much and thank you for being you. You’ve both really helped me during this time so thank you.

I was doing my own clear out reset thingy while watching this and it was so nice to have you guys as company! We all need to do this kind of thing now and again, it’s just part of being human. Also I have to shout out how much I love that your outtro music is a Christmas song already ❤

You two are definitely not alone. Every parent goes through this. I just appreciate that you don't perpetuate the BS about "everything is perfect, nothing to see here" mentality that is so prevalent on social media today. Real life is not perfect, it's messy and frustrating sometimes, but allowing yourselves to be that and accept that it's ok that everything is not perfect is very healthy. Great and difficult times ebb and flow, but knowing that is half the battle. You've got this! Koazy is getting soooo big already. He's adorable!

I love how real you guys are. Most of us struggle with everyday things, and that's okay not to be perfect. You guys are doing great so don't feel guilty. My son is 8, and I'm a single mom. I went through a divorce that really messed me up. I suffer from depression so some days are better than others. I also have an auto immune disease which I live with 24/7, but I do my very best. Hugs from Canada 🇨🇦 🤗 ❤️

Thank you for showing your life and your house exactly how it is. You guys are so much more relatable for me because of it. When Liana was talking at the beginning about being overwhelmed I swear she nailed exact how I feel daily. Love you guys!

Hi! Not a parent but seeing your true selves is so helpful and validating. I’m going through a depressive/anxiety episode and this made me feel so seen and not so alone. You guys motivated me to get a shower in and cook something. I’m the same as Liana too, even just having to many choices for dinner can shut me down completely. Keep on Sharing your truth ❤

love you guys 🫶🏼 you don’t know how much you have both helped me through my life and made a smile on my face ❤

@mollyjackson1906

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Same. I wish you the best hunny 🧡

Aw bless them I know it’s so difficult to juggle cleaning and looking after a new baby I’m so happy they are deep cleaning I also find these videos so satisfying and it’s gonna be such a relief to have a clean environment ❤❤❤

You guys are so cool! I started watching your videos about a year ago, and now I can’t stop! You’re so fun and Koazy is growing so fast! He so big! But honestly you don’t have to worry about your house, because you are the ones that have to feel comfortable so it doesnt matter if it’s messy or clean. Love you guys❤❤❤

Liana just like you I have said this all my life a home feels like a home when it's a little messy. That shows someone actually lives there. You can't keep thing spotless clean all the time with the baby. Ur already shooting, editing , "SHOWERING" with hair wash. You have no idea how much of good time management skills you have. Anyway the only reasons I come here is to see you guys show us the reality and still have goofy fun. It's so much relatable. You are doing great - just have fun with it. The more fun and go with the flow, the more enjoyable ride it will be for koazy too.

Love it! I’m sure getting through the process of restarting, refreshing whatever, and seeing it afterwards makes it so much more enjoyable. When I clean, and then sit back and admire like “look what I did” it’s such a great feeling! But you guys are doing so good! It’s hard to believe how quick Koazy is changing. I love his little face and sounds he gives out when y’all record. He’s tracking so well too! I noticed last video how well he sat at starred at the camera. So precious!

You guys always make my day, love you ❤

I loooove your Christmas room. When I was a baby I was addicted to the Christmas lights. I would just stare at the tree and all the decorations, so my parents would put the tree ( we have a plastic one for that reason) up really early and leave it for way to long. That experience had a huge impact on me and is probably the reason why Christmas is still my favorite holiday ( even my birthday can’t compete). By the way I’m still fascinated by the Christmas lights and tree.

Thank you guys so much for inspiring me to also take a reset. I just started middle school recently and it was a huge change. Now I don’t really feel like myself and want to start becoming healthier and more organized. Thank you so much for helping me through everything that’s been going on in my life lately!

you two are amazing parents. koazy is so lucky!! connors energy is everything😅love you both!!

We all go through this. Do not be hard on yourself. You both are amazing.

I kinda do restarts every Saturday. Catching up on chores, cleaning and tidying up. doing it every Saturday has helped me keep the mess to a couple of ours of work for that day. 30 minutes here 20 there and everything is much more manageable. Also gives me that extra push to do some creative project like putting up new shelves where I need them, pointing a door or a window. Planing on housework (choosing places where tiles need to bi installed fixing stuff). Or plant and yard work. I produced a bunch of tomatoes, basil, spinach, lettuce and potatoes due to the good time management.

You guys are doing amazing! The things I'm starting to learn is to have themed days and small routines. Picking an outfit the night before for the next day. Mental health / Miscellaneous Mondays, Tidy up Tuesdays etc. Also prepping smoothie bags and keeping them in the freezer. Pop into your bottle blender with milk if choice and blend. Good for food on the go and multitasking with Koazy

You guys brighten up my day whether it's koazy smiling or you saying your honest opinion all of us will love you guys either way

I love how you guys have your Christmas decor up so early lol, I love Christmas so much and Koazy is soo cute!! Love your guys’ channel!!❤️❤️

This is kinda inspiring especially on Liana's bit about working out. Thank you and wish you well!

Watching your journey into parenthood and growing as a couple and individuals is precious. You are killing it

Thank you for being so open and honest about your life. It's nice to feel like we're not alone in this. And you're not. There are plenty of parents out there struggling with keeping the house maintained on top of everything else the world throws at us on a daily basis.

Good on you both for wanting to set a good and healthy example for Koazy and actually doing something about it . Very proud of you guys for that . It's not going to be easy , but if you set realistic daily goals it will be much easier to achieve . We all love you and you have our full support . ❤️

Y'all are so amazing...I was a lot of liana as far as long labor then emergency C-section, almost lost me and baby and y'all are crushing it...y'all just keep doing what is right for your little family main thing I had to teach mine was you can do everything right and be the nicest, most considerate person in the world but someone is gonna have a problem with you can't please em all...Koazy is absolutely adorable!!! Love to y'all!!!

I’ve struggled with messiness since I had kids and recently got rid of so much stuff that I felt like I didn’t like or need (clothes, decor, toys, etc). It really changed everything!

I can’t believe how much you two have grown in the last couple of years! especially with being new parents. Koazy is so cute and i can’t wait to see him start crawling!!! sorry if any of this sounded creepy

It’s been hard but you guys can power through this journey!! don’t worry you have us , all of us !! Love you guys so much hope you guys are gonna have an amazing time with Koazy!!! ❤❤❤

If I lived nearby I would love to help you tidy! It's so satisfying to me! What has helped me managed is decluttering and minimalism. When there's less stuff and everything has a home then it's much easier to tidy. It has done wonders for my mental health!

I needed this, you just don’t even know how bad I needed this! Everything you are experiencing and feeling is exactly where I am at in my life. You have motivated me to get with it! ❤️

Can we just appreciate how they go thru such a hard time and still make videos for us ... I love u so much Connor and liana thank u for always making me smile your little family is so cute 🤍💕❤️

I am about to be a first-time Mom and this is so reassuring to me. It's okay if things get messy and if I get messy ♡.

I love how authentic you two are. Thank you. You are helping a lot of people. ❤

I love that your so real and raw to us that's why I love watching you guys so much,you just bring so much happiness and joy when I watch your videos,love you crazy family ❤️❤️

Don't be hard on yourselves guys! The most important thing is your family and the love you have

I love how you guys don’t hide away the truth. You are so open to us and we get to see the real you. Some family Channels only show the best parts of life and you guys show us real life. If you get what I mean 😂

Thanks guys for keeping it so real. Our LO is 2 months and I thought we were the only ones having those feelings. So refreshing seeing this instead of spotless houses and full make-up and fancy cloths on moms...

I am honestly so thankful for y'all keeping it REAL! My flat is "a cluttered mess." Well, I do need to do the laundry so I can see my floors to vacuum and mop. But having been a mom to 2 children - 6 years apart - I felt like I was finally getting things under control - but then I'd had to pause projects because baby #2! As long as you are decent and your baby is healthy, happy, and loved - you are doing FINE! Y'all will find new groves (with Koazy incorporated 😉) and life will get better.

❤who else thinks Connor and Liana are so inspiring to others and me to be honest keep it up❤Koazy is adorable!

To be honest, my room is a absolute tip half the time. You are doing way better than me, and I don't have a baby or any responsibilities. Well done. You definitely shouldn't be afraid of sharing what is going on.

Honestly, I’m so glad I can watch something that I relate too. I’m not a parent… but suffer with mental health to the point where my home does get a lot out of control! You do get that feeling of wow when did this happen and why!! I usually spend 1 night at the end of a week doing a quick refresh to make myself feel better, You do realise leaving a few things here and there does pile up and become out of control and it does happen quickly 🤷🏻‍♀️ A bit of untidiness is understandable but I do know that feeling of not being yourself anymore and wanting to do something about it! Lovely to watch a good growing honest family! Lovely to watch your journey 💗

i just love the normality of your videos, my house is constantly like that but with such busy lives, it happens!! your doing a grand job 👏

Hey guys I don’t know how helpful it is or if you would have time but late night drives have always sounded relaxing, to me at least, and if koazy likes being in the car then it might help put him to sleep as well as letting you reflect a bit on your day and relax for a little :-)

Koazy is so cute and screw the comments it's your house I'm proud of you guys

I love how honest you are ❤ It’s understandable that it gets messy sometimes. You did a very good job!

I had my son around the same time and I'm in the same recover phase It's so nice to see people I admire also struggle with this and makes me feel soooooo much less alone Thank you guys for being so vulnerable 💕 It's truly touched me and now I'm going to go start clearing some of the clutter while babe naps!

It's just me and my two dogs and I struggle with clutter on the daily. I can only imagine if I had a baby to keep up with as well. Give yourselves credit, you're keeping a tiny human alive and that's amazing ❤️

I was earlier than Connor and liana were putting their Christmas decorations up 😂

You are inspirational being a couple who doesn't hide that you aren't perfect but you also are aware of areas in your life that could improve and hope to reach improvements. Where I live there's dirty vs clean, which is different from messy vs tidy. YOU are clean but not necessarily tidy. I'm a messy but am always happier when things are tidy. I love watching others face their messy tendencies and tidy up, it makes me want to tidy up too! Any-time you want to share more clean-up/organize vids I will enjoy them.

Tips for tidying, from someome with a messy husband. 1) get rid of things you don't use, because they take up space, make you feel stressed and overwhelmed, and gqthers dust (you can always feel how it's easier to breathe when there are less things) 2) get enough storage, and it needs to be max 70% full (i cluding the refrigirator), because if there isn't enough space to take things out and put them back in easily, it's going to get messy really fast 3) if a room takes more than 5 minutes to tidy, something has to be evaluated (see 1 and 2) 4) place storage where things naturally tend to end up, as it takes extra effort to carey them other places and tidying is about creating a system that requires minimal effort 5) sometimes people get mesay when there's not enough to look at in the room otherwise, so investing in some curtains, rugs, hanging up some pictures, etc. can also help

I love that you guys shared this! You have a lovely home and a beautiful family!

Im so happy for you guys. U do a great job with koazy and u deserve this reset. I hope u start to feel alot better soon❤

Thank you guys so much for sharing this! I am nearly 6 months pregnant and have been feeling so down and guilty about things I struggle to stay on top of like the washing and not always having nice and tidy rooms everywhere! Its so good to see you guys share this as I look up to you both as parents and I feel so much better knowing its not just me! So much love to all 3 of you🥰 ♥

You guys are doing awesome - I’m impressed that you managed a big reset and tidy up with a new baby! My husband and I got totally overwhelmed by mess while I’ve been in the last year of my PhD and the only reason we got a reset is because my mum helped me. Literally wouldn’t have managed it without her. That you managed together with a baby is amazing ❤ good job 👏🏻

Thank you for being so real and honest. I also have a first-born son, he's 11 weeks old. Our house is looking pretty similar. My partner works overtime on 3rd shift and I'm pretty much on baby duty 24/7 including demanded contact naps. Our family insists on coming over every Sunday after Mass and ALWAYS criticises how our place needs to be cleaner for the baby despite our obsessive deep cleans every week.

I relate to you so much!! From the little messes to the phineas reference! Hahah you’ve kept me hooked from the beginning 😊 your family reminds me so much of mine it’s comforting knowing I’m not alone. My little guy, Cooper, just turned 5 and started his first year of school ❤️

i struggle also with the same chaos in my Apartment . This Video helps me sooo much. Thank you for showing All of that

hey liana, since you’re struggling keeping the clothes in your dresser clean/organized i might suggest you look into the „SKUBB“ organizing boxes also from IKEA. comes in a pack of 6, i have them in all my big drawers = game changer. ☺️

I was looking for the rest of the video. I thought I'd skipped some! The time flew by so fast. Love the videos 💜

I feel this but in the opposite direction. I have an intense need to have everything tidy at all times and if it's not, I really struggle to focus and feel overwhelmed. It's very difficult to maintain a tidy home with 3 kids though so I'm really learning to let go and enjoy life a bit more. I've been tidying and cleaning after my youngest goes to bed and that helps set me up for the next day. It's tough but you've got this!

Your Christmas decorations look so good actually, you guys did a killer job, I'm so proud of you guys

I’m having my first baby in January and watching you guys has honestly been so relaxing because you guys are so honest and i think that’s amazing. Anyways love your channel ❤

I'm also dealing with it now and it's hard, but your video encouraged me a lot, thank you

This is one of the most real and refreshing videos! Thank you so much for sharing! I’m RIGHT THERE WITH YOU BOTH! you’re not alone!

The way you handle things is amazing I’ve never seen such a strong couple stay happy and strong for so long ❤ your amazing the way you are and you don’t need to change anything

You guys are doing great! My sisters house was a wreck until her kiddo was like a year and a half..and even now it catches up to her. I currently haven’t been able to have kids yet, but I know when I get sick (which is often) I get super behind on the house and myself aswell. Some tips I found useful: Food prep what I can when I can. If I’m having chicken in four different meals in the week cook it all at once and portion it, you can always add the extra seasoning when you put it together and it cuts down so much time. Same with rice, pizza dough etc. Get an app that helps you. I know it’s silly. But having those reminders to reroute me back onto ADLs (activities for daily living aka shower, brushing teeth, eating) are vitally important. My favorite is called Finch. It makes it feel like a game and is basically a tamagotchi. Also taking 3-5 min to write a to do list physically has helped me a ton aswell. You guys got this!

Aww I love that yall looked so much happier by the end of the video! Being new parents, its so hard to find a routine! You'll get the hang of it! I think yall are doing a fantastic job! Just make sure yall both take care of yourselves, that's all that matters!

Thank you for this! It gave me the motivation to finally pick up our home. We’re first time parents as well and learning how to balance everything is definitely a struggle 😂

It's so nice seeing conner and liana doing what I was doing when I saw this I was so happy because I was cleaning my messy room and everyone else i saw was so realistic ❤️❤️

Liana, I’m going through the same thing as of getting overwhelmed looking at all I need to do in my home. I’m better than I was a couple of years ago… when my daddy passed away, I changed.. I’ve always had the very very clean house and now… not so much.. I inherited so much and February will be 10 years that my daddy passed but I find it hard to go through my back room.. it is massive!!!! I’ll start on it here or there and see some of his things and I am out the door!!!!!! High anxiety and panic attacks… I learned years ago that one of the top main things that cause panic attacks is being abandoned.. in any way shape or form and I’ve experienced it at such a young age. I’m very much way older, 56 and I still feel like a daddy’s girl.. Anyway… I learned to take one room and clean it.. I usually start with the bathroom… depending on how I feel after work.. but getting one room cleaned makes me feel good.. accomplishment, I guess. I wait another day and do some in another room… We do not have to have it all done at once .. when we feel we HAVE to do it then it causes anxiety.. When we feel we SHOULD do this or that,,,,,, As my friend told me, Debbie, quit shoulding on yourself 🤣😂 Funny but I’ve said that now for years… You are a great mommy !!! Connor is a great daddy!!! And y’all have a great baby boy!!!! God Bless y’all much!! Till your cup runneth over 🙏🏼🍃🌸✝️💙💝💙

Y’all are doing better than I am. Our due dates were only a few days apart but my son Kyrie came two weeks early and Koazy was late so I’m about a month ahead and I have yet to muster up the strength to even start planning my great reset. This is also my third rodeo but all my kids are 7.5 years apart I know I’m a lunatic for that but hey it’s fine. You two have 100% given me the courage to at least make a game plan and maybe I’ll start Monday . Love you guys so much! Keep up the fantastic job!

This whole video is simply adorable and I'm in love with it. You guys are doing your absolute best and that's the best thing you can do. I love you all so much!

OMGosh I thought I was the only one who said a “messy house is a lived in house” I actually felt so “alone” for thinking this! Liana you are so right just because it’s messy doesn’t mean it’s dirty! You guys are doing so wonderful as parents! I love your Christmas room! I love the lighted garland/greenery arch over the window/doors (I can’t remember which it was) it’s absolutely gorgeous and your tree is beautiful! I so need a reset day/week at my home! You two have inspired me! My kids are grown now and it’s just me so I don’t have as much help as I used to and my work schedule is crazy, I never know when I will have time off as my boss only puts out the schedule on Fridays and rarely schedules anyone two days off at the same time so I might have to just ask to schedule some consecutive days/time off to get anything accomplished but it is so necessary!

I love how real and humble you guys are, abit of mess doesn't hurt anyone and your time is invested in working hard to become the success you've both become and to achieve what you both have, on top of being amazing parents! Be easy on yourselves! If it feels like it's getting too much then maybe you could consider getting in a cleaner to help? Either way keep doing what you're both doing, you guys have got this 💪🏼 Also love the editing! ❤

You guys are doing an amazing job! You are both great parents and the Christmas room looks wonderful!

I love watching your video. They are so consciously relatable

You guys are doing so great with your new role as parents! It's obvi that Koazy is a very loved and happy baby 💜 I LOVE your Christmas deco!!! So pretty!! Thank you for sharing!

Mine are 17 and 21 and I'm still figuring out life. You guys are doing great! Keep up the great work