Yep it's only a problem if your household is fucked up and people in that household want you to be incapable and even straight up forbidden to focus on yourself.

Yo this is true though. My last relationship was a year ago with this really socialite business man (it was not a healthy relationship on either part)… but he had a million friends. And he was lonelier than I am.

Birds of a feather flock together if that toxic person has a lot of friends , i'm guessing their friends must be toxic too

That's actually some top tier advice. People are so preoccupied trying to get more friends when being alone is sometimes just as lonely. Work on yourself: your mindset and your health and so on, before you work on meeting new people. Be efficient. You'll be able to choose those rare friends that actually fill a bit of loneliness inside u

Toxic people also tend to have equally toxic friends. So, they might have more friends, but the quality of the people is less than what you have (or could potentially have and deserve to have.)

@specialtwice4975

12 күн бұрын

This. Also, my sociopath ex had many "friends" but they were shallow. Like, she'd be like "oh yeah i'm going to Joe's party this weekend. He totally loves me and we are besties." But then 3 hours into the party nobody would hold her hair back when she got sick, or drive her home. She then complained to me "ugh, he is such a bad friend." And later when you talked to Joe, he will be like, "Who? oh yeah...We're not that close. Sorry about *YOUR* friend."

The advice all teens need

Its because alcohol dependency releases neuro chemicals that shy people use to socialize and function but then they become dependent as the body tricks it into thinking its the source of the luck. I highly reccommend "Limitless"

Wisdom of a fifty-year-old. You gonna B just fine brother.

I agree. Genuine real friends (of any gender) are hard to come by. I am alone and so far, I like it this way. Even if I do have a small circle of friends, it would only be 4 people and no more. People cling to the toxic people for several reasons. A) They are afraid of being bullied themselves, so they do as they are told by the toxic person, B) they are as toxic as the toxic person in question and C) people are shallow and only want superficial relationships.

@butterfly1401

15 күн бұрын

Same ❤

@yuppers1

14 күн бұрын

Yup. Or they were raised by toxic people so that toxic behavior feels familiar like home. When you've been hurting long enough you don't know what pain-free feels like.

Plus, you don't wanna hang out with sheeple. Every once in a while you'll find someone else who doesn't buy the toxic person's BS. Treasure these people, because they're rare.

Yes. Always bullied and targeted by attention seekers and they always had lots of people hyping them up. Lots of shallow people there who get charmed by appearance and popularity. I always on my best energy when I am alone because stupid people can't match the energy anyway. Nowadays lots of us are speaking up and finding each other. Thanks for the quick video. We are in the same boat in this 😊

You are one smart young man, and give me hope for a younger generation of future leaders. Being comfortable alone is a sign of maturity, self confidence, and wisdom. It is better to have a few close friends, than many false friends who cause you grief. Better yet, be a friend to yourself first. 🇨🇦

It changes when you get older. Adults have less patience for immature, obnoxious, toxic behavior. Finding friends as an adult is harder, so you have to put yourself out there and talk to people about their interests and your interests and see who you get along with and start hanging out.

A sane and level headed person exists, thank you 🙏🏽

Yep, knowledge beyond your years! 👍

Wise words young man wise words this is an old guy who can agree totally with what you say seen it in life in work colleagues all sticking together and the one toxic guy the ring leader you can see through him he knows you can but he gets the stupid people to side with him , I stay on my own don’t get to close to anyone I’m polite I’m friendly I can go a restaurant and be nice to everyone but I don’t get close I don’t confide in anyone

🌟 TRUTH

Very wise words. ❤

good shit dude, great energy

It's all about looks, check out studies on cognitive bias. When you understand it, it's liberating knowing where you'll actually stand with people. Also I recommend finding a girl from a non-western country.

I'm so glad that now I can see a lot of people who think like this. Bless all of you guys, stay healthy and happy ☀️💓🫶🏻

Thank you🎉🎉

bro i had my kindergarden friend who was my friend at 5 when i got reunited with him after 5 years he is toxic and he is bullying on me with few guys thanks for your advice

Where have you been all my life?

Thank you bro. Advice certified 🎉

Needed to hear that last part fr

You‘re so cute and charming lovely video! ❤️

Idk what this video about but by the title even, “supposed” “lonely” people who call themselves that have more friends then me wtttfff 😭 I’m trying, I’m making new besties though 🤩🤩🤭🤭😔

heck ya bro

100th like

real

Dont point that finger at me boy

Maybe those toxic people have work that most of you, people pleaser and ‘bunch of losers hanging around together’ commonly known as friends, do not have.