In this video from the September 2019 Art of Fearless Intimacy Intensive at FlowSpace in Emeryville, CA, John and Kendra describe why it is so valuable for a masculine partner to slow down and be still with a feminine partner, even if he is feeling and expressing deep emotion.
You’ll learn:
- Your value as a masculine sexual partner is in the freedom of your consciousness expressed through your body, by becoming still, finding length in your spine, breathing deeply, and grounding your energy
- Your consciousness is not felt as free to the feminine if it is stuck in your head and bound by thought
- The yoga of taking your energy from your head, into your heart and your groin, and down into the earth, allows you to be felt by the feminine as grounded in consciousness
- In John’s first year doing this work, his voice dropped a couple of octaves because he opened his diaphragm and learned to breathe more deeply into his belly. He also had to learn how to speak slowly because if he didn’t, no one would trust him.
- If you slow down, the feminine nervous system will relax and they will feel more of your depth
- If you move fast with a highly feminine being, it’s like creating a nuclear reactor of energy, and your partner may find herself slowing down to find more ease in the moment
- By contrast, if you slow down, deepen and ground, your presence becomes like a soft caress to the feminine nervous system
- A masculine being who is slow and still in his body while expressing and feeling a deep emotion, like heartbreak, is sexy and desirable to the feminine
You can bring significant amounts of emotion, personality and expression through a grounded, still and deeply breathing masculine presence and this will not only relax your feminine partner, but it will also become highly valuable in your relating and your sex.
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