Being UNMARRIED, and childless while shaming women for being unmarried and childfree is WILD.

@kellygoodman6167

Ай бұрын

She shames married women too .

@Cashhhhew

Ай бұрын

@@kellygoodman6167 she 100% demonizes all women in all demographics lol. She encourages men to insist on paternity tests in a solid marriage because she says women are inherently deceitful. These single podcasters really are out here trying to ruin marriages 😂

@tamiausten873

Ай бұрын

​@@kellygoodman6167 I'm not sure who she dislikes more: herself, her mother or her younger sister. Everything she says is bad about women is a characteristic of herself and some of her mother. She's chubby, works, not a virgin, almost 30😂😂 and puts zero effort to look good. And nobody wants her 😂😂

@Butterflier00

Ай бұрын

like at least abby shapiro is married while she's doing her pick me bs...

@lilscenechick1995

Ай бұрын

She was never proposed to, either. It’s embarrassing at this point. (Because of the narrative she pushes).

Conservative men say they want a "trad modest wife" yet be thirsting after women who are extremely liberal (both politically, fashion-wise). That one tiktok where the lady says men want someone they can break down and morph into this tradwife image is painfully accurate.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

YEP

@melchiorlise2466

Ай бұрын

Men like that don't actually want women, pick-mes or otherwise. They are thirsting after women's bodies and they want women to take care of them. But they do not want to be in a relationship with a woman because they hate and resent all of them. It's completely stupid of those men, and of the pick-me's, to believe that there could be a woman so perfect and unobjectionable they would love her despite despising her entire gender.

@kayleewilliams1232

Ай бұрын

They like exotic birds that they clearly can't care for and get mad at the bird when it loses its pretty colors

@Crisjola

Ай бұрын

@@kayleewilliams1232man, I dunno, they seem to lose their minds over non-exotic birds too. :/ if we wanna keep up with the animal analogy (I don’t care, and honestly it’s really fitting for my own purposes, XD), they’re also willing to freak out and be mad at the herding dog they got to do sheep herding and are angry that… it… you know… herds sheep. Aka: conservative men just _railing_ on about how tomboys just ‘want to be men’ and then bemoaning when women aren’t physically strong tomboys who know how to hunt or fix things and build stuff. At least liberal men will be superficially shallow about it and praise women for having muscles if they’re remotely into that. But they’re insufferable in their own way and many of them also believe any tomboy wants to be a man. And I don’t think there is a better description of why men are out of touch with women because they can’t seem to remotely grasp how wanting to know how to hang a picture frame doesn’t make you want to ‘become a man.’

@RDCFemmes

Ай бұрын

But when they break her down then she is not to par anymore and wants the next shinny thing

Imagine making fun of a girl who is so confidently and uniquely her own version of feminine that she looks radiantly happy and badass while holding a giant-ass catfish. I can’t believe people made fun of her - she’s cool af

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Facts that’s why the divine feminity stuff dosent make sense. She embraced her feminity her own way and it was awesome!

@aisnow5788

Ай бұрын

I agree. Eight away I was like, wow..she is so pretty and feminine and seems so cool! Effortless!

@abvhrulz

Ай бұрын

I completely agree with this! She looks so happy and her life looks hella fun.

@christina-od3cj

Ай бұрын

I think that she is beautiful as well. Why are other women trying to tear other beautiful women apart? This is not a competition. People need to stop thinking like that.

@Yanina-ls1gy

Ай бұрын

The foreign woman reffering to these farm ladies as "filth",as an attempt to get atention from passport men...i guess she must be desperate for the visa/green card ...hahahaha😅

Moral of the story: Be yourself, do what you like, find someone who respects you for who you are, and grow together as people.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Yep yep yep

@kadambarih.a9038

Ай бұрын

Thats how my parents met

@jayogee913

Ай бұрын

Right? If you want to be a tradwife, just be a tradwife and enjoy it instead of spending your time telling everyone else they should be tradwives, too.

@lazy-gyal0077

Ай бұрын

@@jayogee913 True. Some people aren't meant to be parents, some are not meant to be locked in the home all day or maybe even not in a permanent home at all (because they're adventurous and nomadic,) some are not meant to be or are not even interested in s *x and romance. However, society makes that everyone's goal and it has to look a certain way for both genders and demographics. Most people on the planet struggle to be something that's not natural to them because of external pressure, and it makes everyone insane.

@sreyanandhini3944

Ай бұрын

​@@jayogee913then she should quit having mobile phones and completely submissive

"I'd rather be a pick me than a skip me" I've said it once and I'll say it again, "Pearl, you are both". I think that Ferris Bueller said it best ". . . you can't respect somebody who kisses your ass. It just doesn't work."

The temptation to send this to the pick me girl who regularly annoys tf outta me

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Do it

@kaykay8855

Ай бұрын

Do it

@confetti3503

Ай бұрын

I double dog dare you to do it

@hanabakhouch8558

Ай бұрын

Do it

@trippyinsomniac3667

Ай бұрын

You’re all so toxic I love it 💅

“Her accent should be illegal” I just don’t understand the insults these people throw out, the most random nonissues that have nothing to do with anything 😭😭😂😂

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

They just love yapping!!

@Wallflowerz3356

Ай бұрын

Literally … how you goanna disrespect a country accent (or any accent) that’s so disrespectful and people can’t help how they speak

@mindyourbusinessxoxo

Ай бұрын

LMAO. I honestly chuckled at that bc I just find the country accent to be so ignorant sounding. Prejudicial, I know. I would certainly never say something so insane and unhinged to anyone, even if it makes me recoil. I'm from the west coast and a minority,for context.

@KEOSHAANEILIA

Ай бұрын

They are so immature and insecure. She had every opportunity to shut up and mind her own business. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@MedusssssaChristo

Ай бұрын

I bet that woman Isn’t picked 😂🤣 They don’t want you

Again commenting, pearl says women over the age of 25 will never have happy marriages. But statistically people who get married in their early 20s are way more likely to get divorced. And the sweet spot of getting married according to most experts is between 24-29 (varies opinion). Besides, she is 27. No man, no ring, no kids. I don't understand why doesn't she just gets with one of those alpha bros who she interviews in her podcasts. I am sure her simps will be happy to pick her but she is not picked.

@StarryWaters-gq1oj

Ай бұрын

Peal is not very attractive or feminine. She has rough skin, awkward mannerisms, and not good housekeeping skills. I don't think these dudes want her

@Ouranos369

Ай бұрын

She doesnt want a simp she wants to be "put in her place" 😂 i swear some of these people should just look into safe and consensual BDSM.

@juliaboskamp9666

Ай бұрын

Rules for thee but not for me

@khloeknievel3874

Ай бұрын

The average age for a newlywed woman is now over 28 in the US and over 30 in the UK. It's a simple and indisputable fact that Pearl chooses to ignore because it shatters her whole grift.

@reneebush2399

Ай бұрын

Yeah, true statistics mean nothing to these people.

Bro, that tomboy girl is a traditional woman! Women would take care of entire freaking farms on their land. Even if she's not "traditional" her being entirely confident in who she is and what she likes is way more attractive than any pick me girl!

@cashwalk7253

28 күн бұрын

That’s what I was thinking too. Traditionally, the majority of women did EXTENSIVE manual labor. Historically the only women who didn’t have to deal with that lived in the upper classes.

@ngwatomosadi1531

13 күн бұрын

And she’s gorgeous

@Alltagundso

12 күн бұрын

For me, it's totally traditional. She literally does what the vast majority of women on the countryside did 100 years ago. Also, what does she think happened, when a farmer broke his leg?? Women always participated. They did nearly everything, if not everything the men did, the children were with them on the fields and they made breaks to breastfeed the babies and then went on with the work.

I encourage all “pick me’s” to decenter men. You will thrive and thank us for the advice ❤

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Yes decentering men is the key. I have decentered women and living my best life!🙏

@Sammy2phones

Ай бұрын

It’s the same advice you give incels. Don’t base your personality around attracting people and just treat everyone like a person. Pick me’s are just objectifying men by putting them on a pedestal and limiting them into a stereotype.

@leahp1765

Ай бұрын

@@JericoSerious but she forgets America is great because both men and women work. While Lebanon is poor because they believe in that trash.

@faidaimaidai

28 күн бұрын

Decentering women can also be a good to have a good life i guess

Conservative men chasing liberal women is also a big reason many women find centrists in dating to be a big red flag. Its how conservative men sugar coat their regressive beliefs to whatever unfortunate woman gives them a chance.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

This is a very good take unironically

@RandomSkyeRoses

8 күн бұрын

​@@JericoSerious As a disabled female, all i wanna do work part time and soend the rest of my time pursuing hobbies. All these dating and gender politics sound exhausting

Poor thing. Turned into a self professed spinster right in front of our eyes. 🤔

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

So sad!

@peachesandpoets

Ай бұрын

JustLonelyThings

@violenceandperfume

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

passport bros are just mini puff daddys lmao

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAO

@inurin1350

Ай бұрын

They want to party and you got to tell them no

@rickyspeople

Ай бұрын

@@leosunaquamoon don’t worry about them honey, people incapable of shame know how to have a good time. I come from AMWF parents and it has afforded me a different view into how power and privilege affect the dynamics of mixed-race couples and especially their future children. I totally understand the desire for upward class mobility and don’t belabour the women in these situations at all, but I’ve personally witnessed the complicated interpersonal dynamics that socioeconomic inequity that cross-cultural partnerships can create if the situation comes from both sides being motivated by something other than organic attraction and shared interests. I’m not even going to get started on the myriad of identity issues that children can end up saddled with when growing up as witnesses and biproducts of this dynamic but believe me, they exist.

Pearl is either learning or is going to learn that you can pander to the patriarchy's "ideal woman" and that still doesnt mean you'll get the "consolation" prize of being respected and looked at as something valuable. I see way too many women, especially in the older generation, who have ended up very bitter because they performed amd endured all the expectations that our society and men has for women and they still didn't end up being treated fairly or valued by men or society, just like they were told they would be if they played their "ideal" woman. Pearl says all the right things, you'd think men would be clamouring to get with her, but she is the pick me who is never picked because (one of the reasons) the men she's trying to appeal to prefer caging a woman they perceive as "free" and "independent" for their ego boost for making a woman submit, instead of a woman who already put herself in a cage, just like you said.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

I think she doesn’t care as long as she gets paid tbh. She’s a millionaire off pandering nothing else matters

@hmmm2564

Ай бұрын

​@@JericoSeriousI'm glad you understand the game. That woman is here to make money

@bunnyboo6295

Ай бұрын

She might be saying what they want. but she herself isn't like her saying a 15y old is hotter then 25 well she is already over the hill then. or the submissive in the kitchen she puts herself out there is strong independent

@LisaSoulLevelHealing

Ай бұрын

​@@JericoSeriousshe got demonitized. Who sponsors her- that claim of millions isn't backed up, is it?

one of the conjoined twins, abby hensel just got married and people are still perpetuating that "immodest" or "independent" etc women will never have a successful relationship. there's proof...literally everywhere that there's no rules in society

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Right

@CitySlickerButtKicker

Ай бұрын

I wish I was on a podcast with Pearl and be like, "The Conjoined twins got married, but why are you still a spinster, Pearl?!?!"

@RabiaSammy

Ай бұрын

@@CitySlickerButtKicker right literally any woman can get married, any man too, short, dad bod, whatever. these people dont go outside lmao

@vanessad.2625

Ай бұрын

LOL good for Abby. So if conjoined twin can get a ring on it, what is pearl doing or not doing? I guess just being her pick me self.

@CitySlickerButtKicker

Ай бұрын

@@vanessad.2625 That goes to tell ya, guys prefer women with twice the headache during sex than pick a Pick Me! 🤣

0:11 Listen, if a man only wants to date you if you’re under 25, that’s not a keeper, that’s not husband material. We all grow old, there’s nothing we can do about it. So don’t date guys that love you for you age, if you want a long term relationship.

The problem with Pearl is that she doesn't even believe what she says. She just says it for clout. That is what made her famous. She doesn't need money. She rich by inheritance. She needs fame and attention of others (no matter what).

@saintejeannedarc9460

Ай бұрын

That's interesting. I don't believe her crap, it's just too outrageous. There are other men's right advocates that I do totally believe, so it's not about what she stands for. Janice Fiamengo or Karen Straughn are totally credible, but they generally don't say the most outrageous red pill crap that Pearl is coming out w/. They are thoroughly respected by the men that listen to them (though I think Karen is out of it now).

@lhia0416

Ай бұрын

Nice. Who cares about dignity and self respect when you can get some virtual 👍 from total strangers. That's some nice family value you grow up with, Pearl. Her parents must be proud.

Sydney Sweeney is basically a modern day Marilyn Monroe. These women showcase their beauty through film and television, but it’s all fake. It’s an actor’s job to dress-up and play pretend. It’s different from a model because their job is to be seen and not heard. Whereas with socialites, it’s their true selves; it’s exactly who they are and how they want people to see them. And porn stars are completely irredeemable because they’re literally intimate with other men. At least that’s my half-baked theory on why Sydney is the new messiah for right-wing men.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Ty for sharing

@Rosemary46840

Ай бұрын

Lol sorry not sorry but modern day Marilyn is a huge stretch

@sm.9599

Ай бұрын

She isn't a modern day Marilyn and not even close. Just because she is blonde with large breasts doesn't make her a Marilyn.

@saintejeannedarc9460

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I'm not seeing it. She attractive, but no where near Marylin status.

@okok-uc8hi

Ай бұрын

@@Rosemary46840he’s not comparing her beauty, but comparing her ability to appeal to the male gaze. Norma Jean (Marilyn) had a very unfortunate life and just wanted attention.

Man these men are worse than I thought, why are they attracted to breaking others? What sick enjoyment do you get from breaking another person down to what you like, for them to only be with you, their only purpose being serving you.. this is some sick sick fantasy right from a dead dove: do not eat fanfic on ao3!

@ReigenPrim

Ай бұрын

But I’m guessing it goes back to wanting to b a conquer, having control and power over someone else.

@melchiorlise2466

Ай бұрын

Yeah the kind of fics I personally NEVER read even if it's all made up. To think there are some people who are as sick in real life...

@ReigenPrim

Ай бұрын

@@melchiorlise2466 it’s just so… why do you feel the need to take it out on real people? These men can’t even control their urges! Can’t you just.. idk write a fanfic instead of doing it to real people?? Or is it only a real person that is able to give you the feeling of being superior.. yuck

@TheMarihifenanna

Ай бұрын

Narcissism. Every misogynist hates their mother. Since they can’t go Ed Kemper on her, they pick other women to project their hate on, turn her into the mother image they want to destroy. My ex-husband is one of those men.

@pizzadogma

Ай бұрын

at least the dead dove:do not eat fanfics are well written

What’s funny is, as someone from the south, a lot of these men criticizing tomboys would be considered softies by a lot of men here. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, but I am saying men from big cities have a reputation I don’t think they’re aware of.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

I wanted to say that but I didn’t want to deal with the comments💀 southern men thinking northern men are weak and not manly is a common thing that never gets diccused in online spaces 💀(I disagree but still)

@Starsongzz

Ай бұрын

@@JericoSerious yeah I’m kinda sick of people acting like the north is the enlightened part of the US like they didn’t participate in our national atrocities as well.

@DB-xc5xd

Ай бұрын

Weak men try to ignore or avoid strong men because they know, if they go after strong ones there pretentious game will fall. Tomboys bring competition to the game, if she can do something which you aren't capable of then she won't be with you. Weak men hate competition because they are lazy hence the hate😂

@kimz8834

21 күн бұрын

So true. A lot of old school southern guys find their masculinity in doing what women are not physically capable of doing. Not random shit they arbitrarily decided was for "for boys" that allows them to perform masculinity without exerting themselves. I'm not saying they're a beacon of feminism, but they aren't half as offended by women with masculine traits as the sissy podcast bros.

Two things I've witnessed, growing up, when it comes to Pickmes: 1. Pickmes get cheated on, in relationships ( married or not). She's like the place holder while he goes out and has fun. 2. Pickmes are usually overworked in marriages. They take total care of the household (including the children), even when they work outside the home.

12:19 This is so unbelievably true and so brilliantly put. Men like this will always value appearance before everything else. They may do the song and dance of wanting a woman who trad even if she isnt traditionally attractive but if they had a choice they'd choose Sweeney any day no matter how much she reveals herself on camera over Pearl who claims to be the most modest and perfectly trad wife.

@crestfire8008

Ай бұрын

I have a relative who's Muslim and looking for a wife. He said he does not care about a woman's appearance and only wants them to be pious, uber religious. So the family send him a proposal of a girl who's very religious, wears Hijab, does not have social media, did not even finish school, and only wants to be a good wife and mother. He rejected her because she was not pretty enough. Now he changed his tune and says he wants a pretty girl who he will make pious after marriage. The girl he rejected is a pickmeisha. She is obviously devastated why men keep rejecting her even though she's exactly what these alpha males want. She also hates other women and think they are sluts for having social media.

@selrox879

Ай бұрын

Its always like this lol I dated a guy when i was 18 (and a pick me, sorry) 😂 he was always whinng about naked women on insta etc and i agreed with him, the moment he got a chance with the baddie, started to act shady and cheated on me with one😂 sorry for my english, not american

@kasia2750

Ай бұрын

Yea, and she promotes being submisive and giving full control to men like that. Sure, great idea, not at all recipe how to become single mother in your 40-50 without any career prospects.

I’ve always wondered why men don’t pick these so called pickmes 🤷‍♀️. We need a case study on this.

@pingu3984

Ай бұрын

Because low self esteem doesn’t attract healthy people who are emotionally and mentally stable.

@TragicHeroine-kd6uy

29 күн бұрын

Men and even low value men just don’t like women who don’t respect themselves

@HunterLvyiXIII

4 күн бұрын

​@@pingu3984 but the men that these pick mes want aren't mentally or emotionally stable and half the time aren't even financially stable

I don't understand why some people want to force others to live the way they live. Life your life and let other people live. I wish we could get along, is not hard.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

I agree carol!

Sydney Sweeny confuses me. I've never watched Euphoria and only heard about her through the grape vine. But I remember there was a time everyone was calling her ugly, saying she looks like a Muppet and she even cried on live about it. And now she's being called beautiful and the dream woman. I always thought she was absolutely stunning. She gives like horror movie final girl energy. But I wonder what caused this shift in how she's perceived????

@TwisterTornado

Ай бұрын

I still just see an average girl. 🤷

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

It goes to show how good PR is a key to beauty

@saintejeannedarc9460

Ай бұрын

I find her a bit offbeat looking and was a but puzzled about her being the ideal poster girl. Attractive enough yes, ideal? Meh.

@puffball4484

Ай бұрын

She started paying $20,000 a month for a publicist. She said this in an interview. Clearly since signing with that PR firm, her image online has changed. These firms will hire out bot farms to flood anything online pertaining to the client with positive comments. There was clearly an effort to change the narrative about her appearance, and it worked.

@roxassora2706

Ай бұрын

​@@JericoSeriousNot only that but it shows how our society is.

I started watching pearl in 2022. She started making content since then. Back then I was 28 and single. Now in 2024, I am almost 30 and getting married. But she is still single with no man. And yeah I was not a virgin 😂

@MsElizaRae

Ай бұрын

Congratz on your marriage :)

@tropicalbluefish1196

Ай бұрын

@@MsElizaRae thanks. 🥰🥰

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Congrats on marrying bestie!🙏❤️

@tropicalbluefish1196

Ай бұрын

@@JericoSerious thanks Jerry. 🥰🥰

@fawnieee

Ай бұрын

Congrats on the marriage bestie!! Here's to an incredible and loving marriage with the love of your life ❤️❤️

Good lord, these pick-mes want a Handmaid’s Tale society SO BAD. 😓 Guess what, that ain’t happening chief!! 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Like, wtf is wrong with people nowadays?!

While I don’t agree with her views, even I have to admit that Pearl isn’t ugly. She’s just average. The men she caters to want someone who’s effortlessly sexy; a woman that men want and other women want to be. The only way she can achieve that is through lots of make-up or plastic surgery. And I doubt Pearl sees either as ideal since it’s “not natural”. And by lots of make-up, I mean make-up that makes her look bare faced. Conservatives love nude make-up because it makes them look naturally beautiful or like they barely need make-up to be attractive.

@pizzadogma

Ай бұрын

They want a megan fox in a handmaid's tale outfit

@therealgrimreaper68

Ай бұрын

She's average looking for a 40 year old.

@auemmjee

Ай бұрын

She's average and masculine in her demeanor

@Viviolau

Ай бұрын

She’s outside the narrow “feminine” ideal the men she preaches too want - agreed. The irony is if she didn’t reinforce publicly and in her own mind this narrow shallow version of feminine, she’d be able to embrace her unique looks into a form of beauty that fits her and her demeanor. But you have to believe beauty means more than just one thing for that and I don’t think she has that capacity right now

@Crisjola

Ай бұрын

If anyone ever wants proof that beauty really is in the eye of the beholder: I know I cannot do ‘effortlessly sexy,’ like, even if I remove the medical issues that make it so I hurt and have other issues going on (also society is so weird about women having scars of any size), but two days ago I was typing away at a story (day off, chose to do my hobby of ‘write for fun not work’) and my bf was _apparently_ standing in our bedroom doorway for… a _while_ watching me type, knowing I hadn’t even rolled out of bed, I’d just dragged a keyboard over and turned on the tablet, and he was enthralled and after at least three minutes, probably about five, he came over, asked if I wanted anything-he gets up at an ungodly hour and futzes around if we’re not out in the country where he’d be off checking snares-then joined me to read over my shoulder as I typed (I tend to skip breakfast because I’m busy shaking plot out of my ears after sleeping). I know what he thinks, that he thinks I’m able to take his breath away by just existing. And it’s so very odd to me, that that is the case because I don’t remotely think that as being a trait of my own. But then I also remember that I think he’s the most good looking person I’ve ever had the pleasure of watching, basically ever. And while the running tease back is “well, your opinion is _extremely_ biased, :P” it’s also a pretty darn factual one. To me. And I think these guys who have worked themselves into a corner of someone who is effortlessly sexy don’t understand that they would actually find that someone they _really_ care about as effortlessly sexy if they really care about them as a person. Like, I don’t think all of us, men or women, who prefer to date someone because of their brain/personality are going in with any concept of beauty standards other than ‘generalized healthy.’ Conflating that with other things is a completely separate issue, but I think it really is these alpha wanna bes watching movies their whole lives and missing the fact that every bit of it is acted and scripted and etc so they don’t even know that when it’s a real human that sure someone might have horrible bed head, but they also, especially if they are you SO are probably going to, most of the time, look very cute with their horrible bed head.

I follow a lot of Female feminist content creators Melanie Hamlett, BurbN'Bougie, Destiny Uteh and they are all married and often have been married for decades. While creating content and spaces for feminist thoughts, ideas and communities to strive. While fresh and fit and Andrew Tates of the world to my current knowledge aren't married or have never been just something to think about🤔🤔

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Oup

Im goth looking and definitely not conservative yet i keep attracting conservative men (especially military) Im exactly the opposite of the Trad wife I'm not even white or hyperfem

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Right 💀💀

@erenssister.5535

Ай бұрын

they would still argue "They only want your body but no one will put a ring on you"

@alexoceanmeow

Ай бұрын

Be careful of them bc they play breaking-people games. :(

@scorpieeeee

Ай бұрын

Wow, you are living proof of the manifistelle's thesis that these conservative men are actually attracted to women who are their exact opposite. to start controlling you and making you convenient for them

@lylemcdermott2566

Ай бұрын

Because you reeks of desperation, they can smell it, the piercings, tatoos, daddy issues,yep they gonna F you.

My husband and I have a partnership. We are a team. When crap comes up, we work through it _together._ We don't look at US as him against me or me against him and it works beautifully!! We laugh all the time, we build our dreams together, take care of the house together and there is so much love and acceptance!! Now, my first marriage? It was a Christian "traditional" marriage. It was *HELL on Earth.* I worked 60+ hours a week beside him, was never given any validation for helping him whilst he took all the credit. No sex (after first 4 years and even then he was incredibly selfish in bed, he didn't know where things were or what to do with them), no emotional intimacy, no sharing feelings, he saw it all as him against me or vice versa, we'd get home and I would work my 2nd shift doing everything in the house....oh, well, he took out the trash. Years later, _I took out the trash and left him._ 😊❤

Pearl even offered them land and money and she still hasn’t been picked, we are going through inflation .😅

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAAOO

I still think Pearl is just in her bag! Not because I believe it's impossible for her to be a pick me but because she never seems to actually believe what she's saying 😂

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

I agreed

@thems.harrisshow2160

Ай бұрын

Yea I think she just does it for money.

Even though different men/women/people want different things, i think there's one trait that's almost universally a turn-off, regardless of gender. That is appearing desperate. "Nice guys" were on blast for not realizing it for the last ten years or so, but now it's the pick-mes' turn. The only people who find desperation appealing are those who want to keep you feeling "less-than" so they can control you and keep you striving for their approval. Emotionally healthy people want someone who is secure in who they are, whether they love sewing and baking, or camping and fishing.

It’s always the loudest ones that have no ring on their finger There is nothing wrong with having a season of being single, but to shame other women for being alone is wild when none of those men are lining up to commit to you

Omg her voice is adorable!!! 3:34

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

We love it!

@mohsinAli-hq1nd

Ай бұрын

Yess she's so cuteee

Love the videos as always! To add to the discussion; I dont think pick mes are a monolith either! That tomboy vs tradfem discussion made me realize that growing up generally tomboy type of girls wouldve been considered pick mes "oh I'm not like the other girls I dont care about make up or if I break a nail Im tough like the boys, id rather hang out with guys cause girls are just so much drama" you even notice this in movies where the popular mean girl ("traditionally feminie") is the top of the totem pole and is already picked by everyone, and therefore doesnt have to be a pick me. And even further than that you have that friend that seems like a great friend, could talk some feminist shit, until someone a guy comes around and suddenly theyre making back handed comments to embarrass or put you down

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Oh this is a very good comment and insight. Thank you for sharing!

@ajjulien1812

Ай бұрын

1000 percent agree, it's an attitude not an aesthetic

@cameoh.1771

Ай бұрын

I agree I grew up around male cousins but also women. I do have tomboy tendencies but I’m very much a girly girl. I’m not trying to be a pick me I’m literally just being ME 😅 I dunno what else to do 😢

@AG-vh3lx

Ай бұрын

Oh honey I relate to this on a cellular level because that's exactly me as well !! I grew up with two older sibs (Boys) and their personality rubbed off on me that essentially whatever personality I have I owe it to them😂😂😂😭😭but yeah I thought I was just being me but the amount of times people have tried to box me into the tomboy category was (and still is) exhausting to me. I think the problem is with people in general is they try to box you into categories ( especially when you're just being yourself) if you are I don't know, a bit different or maybe 🤔 when they don't understand you because they are trying to appeal to a mindset or it's not even that sometimes , it's because they don't know how to, or haven't learned yet on how to think for themselves.

That country lady is so dope. My perspective on feminine embodiment is carrying yourself in a way that feels passionate and true to you. For some that going to be mud running and hanging with cows. I think that’s amazing It’s not necessarily about high heels and makeup. Women are suppose to have RANGE and various flavors to their personality. Those women who are stuffing themselves in a box are going to be miserable

If I remember correctly, the idolizing of Sydney Sweeny by conservative men didn't fully come out of nowhere. There was a twitter debacle (because isnt there always) where she posted pictures of one of her older relative's birthday parties. I think it was a cake decoration or something that was the political ideology give away. When people pointed it out, Sweeny got defensive and said she couldn't believe people were making such a big deal out of something so innocent. And that was about it.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

No, it happened recently where alt right conservative leaders said she was ending woke. That happened but it wasn’t the cause of the current fixation

@addaiboakye4324

Ай бұрын

@@JericoSeriousi can’t remember but a like last year she posted a picture of one of her family members birthday and they were wearing conservative clothing (I think it was either a blue lives matter or make America great again t-shirt or cap). She got cancelled on twitter and people were hating her in her comment section. She also spoke in a interview how she dreams of being a mother and having a family, these two incidents were picked up on by conservatives and the daily wire and since then she become the conservative it girl.

@Sunflowers_220

Ай бұрын

It was all of that. Make 60 great again caps. I believe one of her parents turned 60. And some guest wore the T-shrits and the cap. She also nevr got cancelled she just got slight backless.

I just don't get the psychology behind it, so they are basically saying all these things against women because they deep down want an independent woman? So happy to be out of the dating market, I don't remember getting this confused when I was first dating my now husband. It's weird out there. Wishing much luck to all.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

No they believe those terrible things they just like conquering women. They want a indepdent woman to break her down and to be the “alpha” wouldn’t say all men but 100% the red pill guys

@neitsytmaria6401

Ай бұрын

They wanna browbeat and shame some independent woman who's WAY out of their league to lower her standards so that they can get a chance and then if they get her into a relationship they enjoy applying psychological abuse in every form to break her down

That “tomboy” is so pretty…I see right through these bitter women who criticized her! 😂

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Right

When I was on Twitter I can’t tell you how many times conservatives and even MAGA nut jobs would DM me trying to flirt 🤣. One dude seriously got off on me humbling him and educating him. And this guy was like deep DEEEEEEEEEEEP south… I’m talking YEEHAW states… I think a lot these dudes just don’t wanna say quiet parts out loud because it doesn’t fit what the loudest and most ignorant of the population is going with.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAOAAOAO

@chorizoramen93

Ай бұрын

You can always tell those types. They like women being mean to them, they get off on the conflict

@veragatame

Ай бұрын

YeeHaw states got me 😂😂😂

@itzTeTe

Ай бұрын

@@chorizoramen93 For real 😩, it’s so weird when I’m in an argument with one of these MFers and then out of the blue they start flirting, I mean yes ima take the compliment but I WILL start CACKLING in their face 😂. They a bunch of lil freaky freaks! lol.

@itzTeTe

Ай бұрын

@@veragatame that’s what they are though 😭 🤣

This is so true I’m in a toxic relationship and when ever I am kind to him nice to him go the extra mile for him is when I’m treated the worst and when I ignore him tell him I’m busy working don’t cater to any of his emotional needs I’m treated like a princess (But it’s honestly messing with my head because it makes me feel like I need to be manipulative to have love)

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

I hope u leave him. U deserve better

@ipsitaonearth5132

Ай бұрын

That's the case with a lot of my relationships (incl friendships). It's weird. Very weird.

Guys want what they can’t have, they want a 10+ baddie

@selrox879

Ай бұрын

Yeeep

@anneliselim602

28 күн бұрын

A 10+ baddie that stays at home, takes care of all housechores, childcare, and him. Oh and if she doesn't pay the bills she's a golddigger.

A true American hero, thank you for the painstaking hours it took to edit this for our entertainment

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAOA welcome!!!

Personally? I don’t think pick-me’s are even gender specific. I think you can be a pick-me in anything. A pick-me gamer. A pick-me gay. A pick-me lesbian. A pick-me tomboy. A pick-me dude bro. A pick-me Taylor Swift fan. Etc As long as you’re putting down other people for something they are to highlight that you’re the opposite, that’s pick-me behavior

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Ohhh this is very good TAKE BESTIE!

Thanks for representing all of us normal dudes who don't think in extremes. Everyone likes different things, simple as that.

Being a pick me only attracts incels… 😢😂

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

😂😂🙏

@halloweenallyearround4889

27 күн бұрын

not even that. Incels would only be willing to seriously date wom3n who are almost out of this world pretty. And who would be their indentured servants, moms, s3x sl4v3s and punch bags.

13:14 an attraction to the destruction of others. It’s terrifying.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Right

That southern accent is attractive... The hell?

@pingu3984

Ай бұрын

It so is. I’m from England, for me it’s very unusual. I find it really sexy!

@danaso2567

27 күн бұрын

I think it is attractive, for women at least I find it cute and charming.

I clicked so fast!!!! Lol but tbh pearl is the last person you should be taking relationship advice from because I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years engaged and let me tell you whatever she says does not apply because as long as you meet someone that loves you and understands you and is willing to put all their effort into you as well as you are ...none of this red pill stuff nonsense makes sense lol 🤣

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Yesss like I said in the video we all have different taste. Any woman saying red pill stuff will be ghosted by me in a second💀. Hope u enjoyed the video

@dalia5474

Ай бұрын

I did!! 🫶 Love your content sending you blessings!

These videos are so important bc for some odd reason I get an insane amount of read wives who follow me while I am in a traditional relationship I’m also not and I would never advocate for that lifestyle. I stay at home but I have a couple of side hustles and I keep all money to myself. I do “submit” but not like he controls anything he always talks to me and my opinion is always respected. I made sure to stay in college despite being a SAHM so I have a degree if needed. Sad to see how crazy dating is today 😭😭😭😭

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Tyyy

@sreyanandhini3944

Ай бұрын

Lol why u need to submit to him this is why I hate trad relationship lol

It can be fun to get on with the gals I watch and make some quick jabs at guys because of the loud, few bad ones, but it is always nice to see a guy set the record straight and say “nah, it really isn’t all men, here’s my examples.” People are not a monolith, everyone wants different things.

The funniest thing about the guys who choose the pick me girl(Pearl Davis) is when I tell them about what she thinks about 16 year old girls compared to 26 year old women. I also like to bring up about her being in a relationship with a married man with kids. They would try every way to defend her for it and I just watch them crumble over it.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Oup

I admire women who are themselves so so much! That lady who hunts, fishes, lives on a farm is the exact opposite of me. I am super happy to look at her though. She's the epitome of being yourself and enjoying life. And she looks super feminine to me. People will always trash what is different from them because they're insecure about their own choices.

@Rs4intz

Ай бұрын

100%!! People think femininity is about makeup and wearing skirts. Feminity is about how you carry yourself, being in your body, living life, doing what you love, indulging your senses (to a degree), kindness, acceptance. Yes certain hobbies can make you appear more feminine but a woman enjoying her hobbies, smiling, loving life and nature is more feminine than a woman who bashes others aggressively on Twitter. The woman bashing the country girl can act feminine all she wants, her aggressive and rude Twitter account says otherwise.

My definition of a "pick-me": A woman who justifies bad behaviour from men. I think I found my posterchild...

I don’t know if you‘ll ever see this but I want you to know regardless: Your video just healed a part in me. Hi, I‘m a Tomboy. Where I live, Tomboy‘s aren’t really liked (in a romantic way), so I did grow up constantly worrying if I would ever find a Boyfriend or not (I‘m 20 and completely experience-less). Just hearing not just from you but from the other examples you used in the video kind of allowed me to take in a deep breath and relax a bit, that if I uphold myself to good values and standards, some guy will tag along. I think I‘ll be able to sleep a bit better tonight. Thank you, truly.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Ur welcome and never change urself ur good the way u are

@ettiquartz

Ай бұрын

@@xejelah Thank you! Can’t lie, that lifted my mood up even more

This is why I push to college or trade. You never know what will happen and you need to support yourself.

I understand that being a pick me can be a survival method (I think it’s a form of fawning), especially when you don’t have the means to escape, but I don’t think that justifies endangering other people. This is why I have such a disdain for tradwives. Those people aren’t dumb.

Pearl is not married, she has no children, and she works outside of the home...😅. Why isn't she practicing what she is preaching?

14:26 I completely agree. I’ve noticed that I tend to attract these kinds of men a lot, and I think it’s because I am initially quite meek and shy, which makes it seem like I have no personality and am easily moldable and unwilling to stand up for myself. That is actually very far from the truth though 😂

To be a pick me is not impossible. Any woman who says "women should/should not do xyz or she's going to be single" is a pick me. We don't exist for men.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Obviously not what I meant but ok

A solid analysis without demonizing any group. Respect

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Ty❤️🙏

13:05 - she's got everything exactly on the money but she also left the kicker: Once they turn her into a pick me, they act all dazed and confused why she's not the person who she use to be that made them attracted to her in the first place or they just got bored now that they've 'caught' their 'prey'. You'd hope that would cause some self reflection but instead like a spoiled toddler, they throw them away and try it again with a new shiny toy.

Really enjoyed the video. I often said that men that desire traditional wives have a willing pool of participants (pickme(s)). But both groups fail to interact. Some men have no idea of what they truly want and often rage (but yet are intrigued) by a challenge. Its sorta like that gazelle wondering free and unattainable. He just has to have it. No matter if the gazelle has to be taken down in the long run. Remain blessed

Pretty on point. Conservative (especially red pill) men tend to see most things as a competition to be won. But if someone willingly submits to you, that is not a victory. Also, people who think in strict hierarchies tend to view others below them with disdain, not respect.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

W

@fangal12

Ай бұрын

Cy😅

I think there is also a second meaning, no one likes "traitors" . Pearl, even though she is a woman, she talks so badly about other women, she is a "traitor to women", so you subconsciously don't like her because maybe if you become part of her circle, she will betray you, no one will risk that his wife or girlfriend will talk such nonsense about him, even after a breakup.

@kogo8107

Ай бұрын

This is why the traitor character that will always go to the “winning side” gets taken out. It’s disgust.

Jeez Pearl , I wasn’t a pick me and I got married when I was 28. You’ll be 28 in November. Hurry!

Wait... People unsubscribe or unfollow you anytime you bring up Taylor Swift? 😂 That's wild. I don't care for Taylor Swift mainly because the media tries to force her down my throat. But she does have some nice songs, and I'm pretty sure she's a decent person.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Yes it’s so funny. Someone said I was doing “white feminism” when I did a video about her ai deepfakes are increasing and used Taylor as the thumbnail. It’s just deeply silly

@TwisterTornado

Ай бұрын

​@@JericoSerious Lol...wut? I don't think that mentioning that a famous person exists, or that something is happening to them, has ever counted as co-signing onto everything they have ever said or thought. Weird.

During quarantine, I got Tinder Gold out of boredom and curiosity to see what types of people I attracted. Besides some really weird recurring things (guys who called themselves Smoke, couples who ignored my bio, etc), I noticed a really weird trend of conservative types who enjoyed hunting and whatnot. (I’m not saying all people who enjoy hunting are conservative but. There are connecting points.) My final straw was when a Mexican Tr*mp supporter super liked me. And I couldn’t for the life of me understand why I, as a black queer woman who expressed some liberal views, seemed to attract these types. At first, I thought it was like a guilty pleasure thing but the idea of them wanting to break a liberal-minded afab makes a weird amount of sense...

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Dude that’s so messed UP

@pingu3984

Ай бұрын

I’m white and living in England so my experiences have definitely not been the same as yours but I have witnessed this statement to be absolutely true. Red pill = misogyny. These men do not want someone already ready to submit. They want a hot girl they can break. It was never about the submission, it was always about the enjoyment of psychologically breaking a woman.

I'm half way through this podcast and I love it!!! You are very sensible and make the most sense out of so many men and women who give relationship advice.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Wow, thank you!

it's so sad seeing such a beautiful young woman get shamed by insecure pickmes. honestly, a man who can't appreciate an american woman probably can't appreciate any woman even if he was staring a goddess in the face. american women are raised to step up and do what needs to be done when it needs to be done, even traditionally manly things. she's brave and resourceful and can't be told no she can't do it. she's escaped the boxes society has tried to trap her mother and grandmother in and her spirit is free and unrestrained. If she chooses a man, he needs to be the kind of man who can preserve this free spirit and allow it to flourish. He can't be taking her flame and putting it under a bowl. she's an inspiration! but for insecure men and women, she's the devil, she's misguided, and she needs to be stoned or something. I sometimes see this in men other men call "simps" but are actually just good men who are in touch with their emotions and are capable of tapping into their empathy. They know how to make their women feel cherished and don't need her for her labor. He enjoys her company, not just what she can do for him. She isn't a substitute for his mom and he's not with her just to have someone to change his diaper when he's old. He knows he can't find a replacement for her and knows that no amount of money and no ring will bring her back into his life if he takes her for granted and she chooses to leave him. To him, she is one-of-a-kind. He is careful with her, respects her, and knows there are lines he should never cross with her. He takes her seriously and considers her feelings because he cares about her. He is her partner, not just her man. I'd really like to see a video about the men that men love to dump on. All the nice guys hate him because he's what they pretend to be, along with chad and tyrone, but unlike chad and tyrone, the "simp" is just a normal guy who treats his woman well. He is real and we all know a few of them. He's not an imaginary rival that nice guys claim all women flock to. He's being picked by smart women who want partners. A lot of times, nice guys will exaggerate what he does for his woman, calling it over-the-top and excessive. Insecure men will try to gaslight him into seeing the "truth" about how he's being taken advantage of by a selfish woman, but he knows how he's treating her is the right way. He doesn't care when other men tease and belittle him, because his wife is happy and tells him how blessed she is to have him and that's all that matters to him. He's the guy men should be told to try to be instead of attack and shame. He's the one with the ring on his finger and a smile on his wife's face.

Its because regardless of what men say about liberal women, they are visual beings. Its not about how good you are or how “pick me” you are to men, they will most likely always go for looks and women who go against the status quo. My advice to women, do you!

@selrox879

Ай бұрын

I learned this the hard way. It was heartbreaking but now im starting to love and accept myself the way i am, no more comparasion and no males lol😂🎉

As a black apolitical person but is more liberal, I can tell you that you that a lot of dudes I attracted where the ones that had conservative opinions and where culturally ignorant asf, why? Cause they crave for challenge, what’s different from them and the people that are repelled by these type of men, but they’re smart tho, they will only search for the naive and younger ones so they can have a manipulative « conservative eacher teaches leftist student to be more dependent » type of relationship. I was naive enough to have some conversations with them and being humble enough to understand but so glad we never got in a relationship 😭😭

Jerico, you got some really cool insights about man for me in this video... I'm not so good with words to explain it, but I truly feel grateful and hopeful! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. And I wish you all the best!

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Ty Hanna 🙏❤️ have a great day

Thank you! Men like to cage free birds. Sydney Sweeney is a free bird. They want to say they tamed and changed her as a flex, not because they love her for who she is.

To that southern lady: 💍🧎🏻‍♀️

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

😂

I empathize with these pick me girls because they do it because they’ve never felt true love, not family, not friends, so I get that. I do feel sad about that. Everyone deserves to be loved at least by their parents.

The thing about the subset of men that don't care about personality, there was an older guy being interviewed who realized, ten years into marriage, that his wife was a human being with thoughts, ideas and feelings..... He picked her on looks, goodness only knows what she saw in him.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAO

I think the southern woman is very feminine and has a cute accent. I respect that she could take care of herself if 💩 ever hit the fan.

Trophy wife =/= tradwife. In real life, many tradwives are pretty boring looking because they are busy with kids, animals, cooking, cleaning, baking, fermenting, sewing, church life.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Wrong. Ur job as a trad wife is to look good and take care of the home. If not ur husband will leave and find someone who can. This has routinely happened throughout history

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

There are some religions that literally say if u don’t stay hot after giving birth that ur failing ur husband LOL. Why do u guys keep lying?

@lanajohnson8424

Ай бұрын

Sir, I know a quite a few women who would fall under the category of "tradwife" although they don't use that term since it is pretty new and they've been married for years. Homeschooling is a great place to meet them. These are women who homeschool, cook from scratch, have animals and make their own pet food and grow their own animal feed, make their own dairy products, mend clothes, make clothes, are heavily involved in their church, etc. They don't wear make up or get their nails done. They can quote scripture on how to be a good wife (usually Proverbs 31 but also Ephesians, Corinthians, etc). They are not "hot" although some are pretty. Makeup isn't "godly" to them because it is vain. They are upholding the traditional values of their religion, not just upholding standards of 1950s propaganda. I'm not saying men don't leave their wives for younger women. I am well aware that happens. Trophy wives often do no labor. It messes up their hair and makeup. They have no time for labor because they are working out, getting massages, manis, pedis, skin treatments, hair treatments. They tend to have "help" that does all the labor. Did you interview anyone who falls under the tradwife or trophywife category for this? How many people in your life fall under either category?@@JericoSerious

@teresamagnusson

Ай бұрын

​@@JericoSeriousTrad wife is not trophy wife.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

@@teresamagnusson it is sorry

Hey jerico, what's your opinion on the 4B movement?

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

I’m doing a video on it so commenting would spoil 👀🤪

@fawnieee

Ай бұрын

​@@JericoSerious oh man I'm so excited to see it! I've seen plenty of videos and none of them approach the subject with the perspective you have. Many are just like "oh women are crazy for doing this!"

@BrianSmithy-wu8bs

Ай бұрын

If the 4B mvt is about women uniting and like an oil cartel, withhold physical intimacy until there is a ring, (or better a marriage) so that men level up (which they would be forced to do) and grant the commitment that women want, then the 4B makes sense. Men are highly motivated by the possibility of physical intimacy with a woman they love. But if 4B is about just giving up on men entirely and a desire to burn everything to the ground, then this is ultimately self-defeating and demonic. Everyone loses.

@erenssister.5535

Ай бұрын

@@BrianSmithy-wu8bs I don't see how women loses by not associating with men romantically when it is keeping them safe

@isa-morena

Ай бұрын

​@@BrianSmithy-wu8bs I'd say the darkest periods in my life just so happened after associating with awful men. For a lot of women 4b is just self preservation.

Bro I love your channel- you are so incredibly well spoken!

@JericoSerious

16 күн бұрын

I appreciate that!

If Pearl is going to be Queen Pick Me, she really needs a new hairstyle. I have fine, thin hair too. I can't do much with it, but I don't care. Pearl says I should care so...why she doesn't do anything with her own hair?? Like..she looks like it air dried after she got out of the shower. Weird. Pick Meishas normally go for the opposite look, the done-up look. This Pick Meisha looks like she's been camping.

@TwisterTornado

Ай бұрын

White pick-me's are homely. They hate women who dress up. Class and race are HUGE in this, so it is NOT a "one to one" scenario. White girls are still hating on "Cool Girls", thinking they are faking it, and not noticing that Megan Fox, Jennifer Lawrence and Dolly Parton all came from a similar area. In THEIR case, their makeup was rebellious, not a sign of caving into the wishes of men. But outside of Appalachia, and that heavy religious influence, the reasons for it get obscured.

@TwisterTornado

Ай бұрын

I still don't understand how anyone can think that it is "feminist" to say that women can't fix cars and wear makeup, at the same time...? And at the same time, I can also see that all of those women that I named, are more plastic than I would ever want to be. You simply cannot argue that they invented this form of "glamour", and that's why it seems suspicious. Like bowing to some other, Hollywood man, instead of the rural, country men, and calling this "freedom". It's misguided, but also, obvious, if a woman doesn't start from the position of de-centering men, entirely.

@TwisterTornado

Ай бұрын

Wow...that other girl...hates that Country girl? 😂 WHY DOES EVERYONE HATE APPALACHIAN WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT WE DO? 😅 Wear makeup / don't wear makeup. Manual labor, or like...sit around and pretend that there isn't work to be done??? 😅

@inspektorsx683

Ай бұрын

Finally someone got it! Pearl's only problem is her looks, If she looksmaxx men will be throwing at her

Ladies, if your “man” demands complete submission, he’s not ready to be in a relationship. Ideologically.

This is a thing of beauty thank you ❤

Can there be a video done about accepting solitude? For folks that are no-ones type and can never get anything romantic or sexual there needs to be conversation about teaching people who are in such situations that they may never find someone and thats fine. Im tired of seeing shit where people say "Youll find someone, its okay", and all that other bullshit. Its physically impossible for EVERYONE to find love. Not everyone is gonna find "the one" and there will be people that will find no one, and they need to be taught that they gotta live with that and that theyll be fine. If you lived most of your life alone youll probably be fine for the rest of it. Sure itll suck that you cant experience what so many other can/have but you cant get everything you want in life.

Single life is so underrated 😭

Thank you bestie. I have ✨the best✨ husband and he is so chronically offline it’s silly. If he sends me a meme then either one of his siblings sent it to him or he saw it on ifunny 😂

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAOAOAOA we love those types of men! Glad u have a good one!

I love your analysis ❤

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

Tyyy🙏❤️

Historically speaking, it was pretty traditional for women to hunt. The gender roles of the last few thousand years weren't the gender roles of prehistory. We have quite a lot of evidence that all able bodied members of a group hunted and gathered, regardless of sex or gender. We also know rhat, biologically speaking, the female body is actually better suited to traditional endurance hunting than the male body is. Sooo when they say "traditional" they are just picking and choosing from a very specific time period and not the lifestyle that has encapsulated most of our species' history

Sounds like conservative men have a Taming the Shrew complex.

@teresamagnusson

Ай бұрын

They do. They want a conquest. A challenge. They don't want a meek wife.

It’s always a good day when Jerico posts

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

THANK U

Why do people ignore statistics on the average age ranges women actually get engaged then married? All the stats say these people are lying. I got married late summer last year at 28 years old and 28 in 2013 is the average age women in my state (NY) get engaged. I’m my husbands dream woman. I love to pamper, serve and cater to because it’s an enjoyable expression of my love and affection. I always take my husbands advice because he has so much more life experience he’s essentially never wrong so I trust him to make certain decision since he’s seen more in his years - he was a whole ass teenager when I was born after all. But I’m also an autistic Death Metal/Black Metal/Gothic Metal chick and doesn’t believe in God. People are nuanced whole beings

@leahp1765

Ай бұрын

Honey you are not very bright . Age means nothing when it to wisdom. Go watch some gumballs or hey Arnold's and realize adults can make mistakes and are not all knowing and that's okay.

@nestorsifuentesaguirre2722

11 күн бұрын

@@leahp1765 My hunch is that she means LET PEOPLE BE PEOPLE. If you are one of these catholic hypocritical bitches I SWEAR TO GOD...........................

They get picked, they just also get divorced, like Candace Owens… 😂😂😂 I didn’t look it up to see if that’s true.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

It’s not

@jazlaflor

Ай бұрын

@@JericoSerious Thanks! I didn't have time to look it up... wasn't even supposed to be on my phone at that time.

@JericoSerious

Ай бұрын

LMAO. It’s not but we can pretend it is

@sunmoonstars0369

Ай бұрын

Candace Owens is an example of a high value Trophy wife. Not my type of woman but I admire her intelligence and chic conservative style. She married into a wealthy conservative British family where her outward qualities are considered very attractive with an added exoticism of being a beautiful African American.

I recently saw the stepford wives movie, really great for this topic. Very different than don't worry darling but both are verr good to explain the anerican trad wife idea

holy fuck this just blew my mind about the conservative guys ive dated, this explains so much, thank you :((

I think pearl should use her money to go to a stylist and embrace femininity and the women around her than appealing to the men that don't want her. People are visual first, she wants to be picked invest in it. Then they get to learn personality and character of eachother. This is all relationships before they fit into the roles because all relationships have their own dynamic roles.

"tomboys don't exist much on the Internet anymore, I'm not sure why." *Me looking at a certain five letter mafia*

I’ve been called a pick me for being a tomboy and minding my own business. Since when is femininity defined by pink, glitter and shopping? I thought those grifters said that femininity is biological, anything else is optional? The irony. lol

@JericoSerious

29 күн бұрын

Facts