Why Parents should Listen to Kids | Anyue Sun | TEDxYouth@Xujiahui

Anyue Sun is a 10 years old Y5 primary school student. With a keen sense of the joy of life, she loves singing and got the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest. Had stayed in Malaysia for 2 years and been traveled to many countries which buildup an open mind, friendly but independent thinking girl. As school TV director, She loves work with people and making friends. In some ways, she is “a good girl in other people’s eyes”.
But after many times rejected by her best friend’s parents Not allow kids play together which almost killed the girls friendship. And as a teenager, she is also suffering on how to be herself and balance the parenting. She found that “NO” is a common things in kid-parenting. So she did research on different country parenting and kid psychology theory and proved that “Parents should listen to kids” and stop been as a “Snowplows parents” is good for kids. She want to share parents that 父母要孩子听话,请先听孩子说话.
2018港澳台儿童歌唱大赛总决赛英文独唱季军
校学生TV台导演
校合唱队主唱
the third place of “Mainland-HongKong-Taiwan” English singing final contest
school TV director
lead singer of the school choir This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @Sanriolover87
    @Sanriolover878 ай бұрын

    Not just is this an amazing example on why parents should listen to their kids it’s very true cause if parents always say no it will teach kids to not think for themselves and will always think about how their opinions don’t matter and always follow others cause they don’t think that what they say is right and teaching them to only rely on others.

  • @user-mq1uy3gt3f
    @user-mq1uy3gt3f10 ай бұрын

    Out standing debate❤voice of every children

  • @cosmicfelinesas5191
    @cosmicfelinesas51913 жыл бұрын

    How old is she exactly, she speaks more truth than adults do

  • @aymenhaq7775

    @aymenhaq7775

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's 10 in this video. But, she's about 12 years old now. Anyways I like seeing kids helping out in making the world a better place.

  • @zaramehak2256

    @zaramehak2256

    9 ай бұрын

  • @JoshuaBortnick

    @JoshuaBortnick

    7 ай бұрын

    Children only speak truths.

  • @ChoChallChall_Game
    @ChoChallChall_Game Жыл бұрын

    WOW she’s so good at english

  • @gracyjoshy9427
    @gracyjoshy94272 ай бұрын

    An excellent talk ,hats off .All parents should listen to that❤

  • @annabellesplaytalk
    @annabellesplaytalk2 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing Thank you for the little. I agree with you Sometimes parent should listen to kids

  • @bumblebeegamerreal
    @bumblebeegamerreal Жыл бұрын

    That confidence and her age makes me look like a joke

  • @softlife4700

    @softlife4700

    8 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 just couldn't help laughing

  • @nillythelich688
    @nillythelich6884 жыл бұрын

    im so confuse they have 24 mil subs yet they have so little views? 26 i meam

  • @Fwootgummi

    @Fwootgummi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Probably because adults don't want to listen to a kid's opinion on the way they're treated. Adults just assume they know best and can do no wrong toward a kid because they don't know any better. Kids are way smarter and observative than they're given credit for.

  • @subhraa6932

    @subhraa6932

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Fwootgummi just now My mom told that I need to learn from her It's wrong Even elders can learn from children And if l let her watch this vdo shebis gonna start giving lectures about arguing with her

  • @ellieandryaninwonderland2352

    @ellieandryaninwonderland2352

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Fwootgummi it's true

  • @egypt5845

    @egypt5845

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bruh i am 13 i don't need to hear form a kid

  • @queenfintan5798
    @queenfintan57982 жыл бұрын

    The kid learn things from their activities not from parents say about something. It is makes kid do not understand what their parents means.

  • @AbdulazizAlAzmi-pu7ns
    @AbdulazizAlAzmi-pu7ns3 ай бұрын

    Great video! Some key points were highlighted that I hadn't heard anyone else discuss. Thank you!

  • @jamesmichaelwalker683
    @jamesmichaelwalker683Ай бұрын

    The adults always believe that they more know more than the kids and they know what is best for them even when they don't. This is another reason why currently as well our kids are facing significant ATTENTION DISORDER OR WHY THEY ARE ADDICTED TO SCREEN. Learning by doing is good for kids... Giving to them oppportunity to play, connect with their relatives and friends is also good. One reason why I call for the increase of Urban Green Space per see is to send kids in smart and connected urban green space where they can play, enjoy and dreams.

  • @Phantombecool69
    @Phantombecool69 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome kid! I also agree that parents should listen to kids.

  • @mercedesastorga1877

    @mercedesastorga1877

    8 ай бұрын

    I have to disagree. If you tell a kid that fire is dangerous and the kids don’t understand and still hurt themselves they do it. If parents are actually logic and let them play too then kids would trust the decisions and information parents say specially when it’s about fire

  • @phlavee
    @phlavee2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you anuye, whish more people were like you

  • @yayopriyowibowo
    @yayopriyowibowo2 жыл бұрын

    I like how your speaking and telling i hope i can be just like you😄

  • @sangphungdr
    @sangphungdr2 жыл бұрын

    She is realy great

  • @kiaravalentinaherediabernu4846
    @kiaravalentinaherediabernu48463 жыл бұрын

    This video is very interesting and thoughtful.

  • @cy-taku3952
    @cy-taku39522 жыл бұрын

    That was great her points for for real great and she doesn't stuter that much presenting this

  • @randomshit3427
    @randomshit34273 жыл бұрын

    My teacher but this on one of my assignment

  • @HydraticJaz

    @HydraticJaz

    Жыл бұрын

    same this is the reason why I watched this my teacher gave me this assignment

  • @ranjanmakwana880
    @ranjanmakwana88011 ай бұрын

    We are learning speeches in class and we used her as an example. Eva

  • @thuhuong5885
    @thuhuong58857 ай бұрын

    i also agree that parents need to lisen

  • @HydraticJaz
    @HydraticJaz Жыл бұрын

    go girl you rule we love you😍😍😍

  • @Raji_makeover
    @Raji_makeover3 ай бұрын

    This child says truth

  • @oduwoleabimbola6126
    @oduwoleabimbola6126Ай бұрын

    Her language at the end❤

  • @Parthamitra2264
    @Parthamitra22643 жыл бұрын

    i like this girl because she is not shy i am very shy

  • @nguyenngocanhthu_ellie5151
    @nguyenngocanhthu_ellie51512 жыл бұрын

    she so good 💖💞💓💟💕

  • @Ummusalmakm
    @Ummusalmakm3 ай бұрын

    Outstanding 👏🏻👏🏻🤝🏻

  • @annguyenphuc2155
    @annguyenphuc21552 жыл бұрын

    she so good

  • @lightplaysyt9971
    @lightplaysyt9971 Жыл бұрын

    when mom say no to go to the studio and speak to audience💀

  • @gabriellafabiyi7399
    @gabriellafabiyi73992 жыл бұрын

    I was told to watch ted talk and here I am watching this video

  • @oduwoleabimbola6126
    @oduwoleabimbola6126Ай бұрын

    I loveee this🎉💙

  • @agatestringfam2740
    @agatestringfam27409 ай бұрын

    Outstanding job.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😎🔥🎆🔥🎆🔥👍

  • @zaramehak2256
    @zaramehak22569 ай бұрын

    Her pro ❤❤ she is so good

  • @ilysm.0_
    @ilysm.0_ Жыл бұрын

    great video i hope my dad changes after watching this

  • @gervaswiratama8428
    @gervaswiratama84284 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @sentongopaul9038
    @sentongopaul9038 Жыл бұрын

    Good job

  • @pigpig4961
    @pigpig49614 ай бұрын

    wish more parents see this video

  • @ayoooyahforever5332
    @ayoooyahforever53328 ай бұрын

    So coool🎉😂😊

  • @nbashir561
    @nbashir5616 ай бұрын

    An amazing kid

  • @egypt5845
    @egypt58452 жыл бұрын

    Exacally but now i am 13

  • @smitadeshmukh5252
    @smitadeshmukh52527 ай бұрын

  • @matothi1193
    @matothi1193 Жыл бұрын

    Pretty good

  • @SqeeG
    @SqeeG2 жыл бұрын

    She definitely has Asian parents 😂 . And I bet they STILL say "no" to her and control her life to this day 🙁 .

  • @Melissaonbesties
    @Melissaonbesties7 күн бұрын

    I agree

  • @lightplaysyt9971
    @lightplaysyt9971 Жыл бұрын

    3:14 = i thought it was an ad💀

  • @Melissaonbesties
    @Melissaonbesties7 күн бұрын

    I'm showing this video to my mum😂😂😂

  • @PhucLe-xc2nq
    @PhucLe-xc2nq6 күн бұрын

    cool

  • @mel16156166
    @mel1615616610 ай бұрын

    Hold on Since when did barbed wire turn strong and lose spikes

  • @Ally45949
    @Ally45949 Жыл бұрын

    I AGREEEEEEEEEEEEÈ!!!!!!!

  • @LIMJIAXIN-iw8ss
    @LIMJIAXIN-iw8ss2 ай бұрын

    My mon dosent listen to me:(

  • @user-vh4pe1ti1s
    @user-vh4pe1ti1s7 ай бұрын

    ❤ Why the police should listen to innocent victims

  • @ellieandryaninwonderland2352
    @ellieandryaninwonderland23522 жыл бұрын

    I'm a parent

  • @RebeNeuf

    @RebeNeuf

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @marlissonlopesdasilva6369
    @marlissonlopesdasilva63694 жыл бұрын

    good girl

  • @blackdragone
    @blackdragone9 ай бұрын

    Anyone else felt called out? 👀

  • @Gigochadturbo
    @Gigochadturbo Жыл бұрын

    Ой типа умная нашлась

  • @GetALifeStudios123
    @GetALifeStudios1233 ай бұрын

    Who’s here for the performance task ? This sucks I failed lmao

  • @glowinqshine

    @glowinqshine

    3 ай бұрын

    Me

  • @MrSAFE-gh9tu

    @MrSAFE-gh9tu

    3 ай бұрын

    Me

  • @jackiecharlie8798
    @jackiecharlie87982 жыл бұрын

    Some kids are just demons 😈 I know a 5 year old that thinks like a teenager.

  • @JessicaRosei
    @JessicaRosei Жыл бұрын

    okay who also thinks her parents hired a writer to write her this script just for the glory and fame of the family

  • @parveenpinjari3230

    @parveenpinjari3230

    Жыл бұрын

    Focus on the way she speaks and expresses her emotions rather than finding for the scrip writer

  • @EmberLynn-ee2kn

    @EmberLynn-ee2kn

    Жыл бұрын

    omg use ur brain and watch that again💀

  • @HelpingtheFuture

    @HelpingtheFuture

    4 ай бұрын

    Ya she’s so good. Love her!❤

  • @thadicalyt
    @thadicalyt Жыл бұрын

    kocak

  • @nikkychang8811
    @nikkychang88112 жыл бұрын

    growing up in an asian family I bet her parents wrote her script lol

  • @vsgayatri2k
    @vsgayatri2k2 ай бұрын

    I

  • @LUNA_CH_CB
    @LUNA_CH_CB2 жыл бұрын

    Hey be my lol

  • @labakanurzidil2464
    @labakanurzidil24645 ай бұрын

    to taste their medicine?

  • @wiliamhendershot5229
    @wiliamhendershot5229 Жыл бұрын

    stop kidding me

  • @julietayip297
    @julietayip297 Жыл бұрын

    批評中國式教育

  • @Vio_the_7th
    @Vio_the_7th5 ай бұрын

    That was beautiful❤‍🩹❤‍🩹

  • @BawiliMwajuma
    @BawiliMwajuma2 ай бұрын

    HI LOVE

  • @aydamkram8810
    @aydamkram88104 ай бұрын

    Wow