why is BOY and GIRL handwriting different from each other?

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"whats with messy boy handwriting and neat girl handwriting?" ppl ask me this all the time. here u have it.
disclaimer: handwriting doesn't indicate gender. this vid is just what I think about the "neat girl handwriting" and "messy boy handwriting" phenomenon.
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  • @oopsididitagain4885
    @oopsididitagain4885 Жыл бұрын

    Its super interesting, I once knew this guy in secondary who was classic rebel boy who wants attention, gets into fight, but his handwriting was typical "girls" handwriting, super round, emphasis on middle zone, very readable, etc. Oh, great vid, as always! :)

  • @fragiledate

    @fragiledate

    Жыл бұрын

    wow, he could've been really sweet to people close to him

  • @Poghuiro

    @Poghuiro

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fragiledate Or maybe his parents were really un-sweet to him regarding handwriting.

  • @fragiledate

    @fragiledate

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Poghuiro oh yeah that's definitely possible too!

  • @dontcomment3702

    @dontcomment3702

    Жыл бұрын

    The fact that this boy exist in my class too💀

  • @shaioni

    @shaioni

    Жыл бұрын

    i met someone like that this year, he was so obnoxious and rude to everyone but when i get to know him, he"s actually a total sweetheart 🥺💖

  • @dominiquepalmer2265
    @dominiquepalmer2265 Жыл бұрын

    One of my stick out memories from middle school is when this boy looked at my handwriting & said “I thought you you were a girl?” I said “I am??” And then he was like “but I thought girls were supposed to have good handwriting?”

  • @Mantras-and-Mystics

    @Mantras-and-Mystics

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh dear! 😂

  • @bedrock30_40
    @bedrock30_40 Жыл бұрын

    This is really interesting to see as a girl with "boy handwriting." Do you think you could do a video on how being left/right handed might change your analysis? I'm a leftie and I've always wondered how it might change things

  • @ugh.777

    @ugh.777

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, I'm ambidextrous hence I write with both of my hands and I've often found both my writing to be so different from each other, wonder if it has got anything to do with my hands.

  • @sparklefulpaladin

    @sparklefulpaladin

    Жыл бұрын

    Also ambidextrous/left-dominant here! I'd love to see a video on how writing analysis compares between righties and lefties (as well as within lefties).

  • @caity_strophic

    @caity_strophic

    Жыл бұрын

    ambidextrous here aswell!! (right hand dominant / left foot dominant) technically could be classified as cross dominant but can do numerous tasks equally well with both hands! i hav also noticed my handwriting is different depending on which hand i use. i mostly write with my right but do sometimes write with my left (its just quite slow and very angular)

  • @Twist_Ligma

    @Twist_Ligma

    Жыл бұрын

    Holy alot of ambidextrous im a left handed person and my words are more smaller then my right handed friends but the other left handed friend words are also small so im guessing it does effects your writting maybe

  • @caity_strophic

    @caity_strophic

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Twist_Ligma my dad is left handed and his writing is small aswell!!

  • @calimorales9880
    @calimorales9880 Жыл бұрын

    This may be partly because I was raised by my dad, who was mostly unconcerned with gender roles, but I never felt a strong need to behave feminine, nor dress in such a way (tho i usually look(minus the hoodie)/behave somewhat feminine). That shows in my handwriting, which much more closely matches that of a boys.

  • @trappedinmymind485
    @trappedinmymind485 Жыл бұрын

    Really good analysis, I have more info to add! In one of my classes (gender communication), we talked about how young boys and girls develop fine motor skills (like what would be used for writing) at different paces, specifically girls develop them faster than boys. However, this difference is most likely due to social conditioning; chores assigned to young girls and young girl’s play tend to require more fine motor skills than young boy’s chores and play. So, once they’re in school and learning how to write, young girls have better control of their hands and therefore writing, while boys struggle a bit more. Also, teachers often have an unconscious bias and will either be more critical of or spend more time working with young girls with poor handwriting compared to boys (I don’t have sources for this specifically, but teachers reinforcing stereotypes in this manner is a common theme throughout schooling). From this their muscle memory gets almost “stuck” in this time period, and all the gender conditioning gets stuck with it. Idk if any of that makes sense but still really good video!

  • @jeremiahgonzales4890

    @jeremiahgonzales4890

    Жыл бұрын

    Not at all...This is utterly and scientifically false. The brain structure differs between males and females. Boys mature physically and cognitively, later than girls because of the difference in sex. Maybe there are minor influences of social conditioning on this matter, however what you are learning in your class is extremely radical and not based in science.

  • @kiera6326

    @kiera6326

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jeremiahgonzales4890Bearing in mind we are talking about when kids first start school- i.e before either boys or girls have started puberty. There are no neurological differences between them at this time. Therefore, any differences in behaviour between them must be sociological. Remember that science is constantly updating and disproving itself, so contradicting information should be embraced and examined rather than rejected. However, none of this contradicts what we have currently settled on as tentative “fact.”

  • @jeremiahgonzales4890

    @jeremiahgonzales4890

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kiera6326 Hi Kiera. Like I said, I do believe that there are aspects to gender that are socially conditioned...and there are always exceptions in both sexes in boys and girls! However, what you claimed that there are not neurological differences in the brain before puberty is not true. Where did you find this information? Remember that the embyro is affected by the influence of estrogen and testosterone and this determines how the body and brain will differ in the sexes. There are thousands of studies that prove the developmental differences between boys and girls, prepubesent. Learning styles in the school system tends to favor females and boys are generally not cognitively ready for certain learning goals, especially written language during the kindergarten grade for example. This has nothing to do with conditioning and is still seen time and time again even within 2023!

  • @kiera6326

    @kiera6326

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jeremiahgonzales4890 Let me rephrase that- the neurological differences between boys and girls prepubescence are shaped by society. The testosterone influx boys experience in infancy has drained by the time they start school, and won’t appear again until FSH and ICSH are secreted at the beginning of puberty. The purely biological differences are incredibly minor, the least of which being a difference in spatial awareness, which makes boys more active, yes, but not necessarily more hyper, and should technically give them an academic advantage.

  • @Subzearo

    @Subzearo

    Жыл бұрын

    This sounds like total nonsense. There are plenty of toys that boys can play with that can be very hands-on, like those that involve moving small pieces, and play dough. There's also hobbies that require fine motor skills like drawing and painting. I used to love drawing and painting as a boy.

  • @ReiShs
    @ReiShs Жыл бұрын

    My husband has "girl's" handwriting, I have typical "boy's" handwriting, neither of us are less man or woman (respectively) because of it. If anything I think we complement each others shortcomings well while also having some things in common.

  • @riverforest2997

    @riverforest2997

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly. Just because I was a tomboy as a child and sex non-conforming as an adult does not make me any less of a woman than the most high femme.

  • @sophiaisabelle0227
    @sophiaisabelle0227 Жыл бұрын

    We hope you're doing well, Leah. We appreciate how indepth this analysis is.

  • @lu-themadpillow2985
    @lu-themadpillow2985 Жыл бұрын

    My handwriting is always so different. Sometimes even on the same page, I start neatly, I end the page all messy. Or sometimes I start with a very simple handwriting and I end up with more embellished one. It always depends on the woman I'm trying to be/need to be/ that day. Also, when I use a pencil I write more neatly than with a pen. I've created different "personal fonts" throughout my life. I wonder what all this means.

  • @fairwind8344

    @fairwind8344

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, same with me!

  • @mirandacarrillo1654

    @mirandacarrillo1654

    Жыл бұрын

    This happens to me too! My handwriting varies even depending on my mood, and on what I'm writing about

  • @gristen
    @gristen Жыл бұрын

    i always thought that "girl" handwriting was more of a neurotypical thing than anything else. as a weird little girl with undiagnosed adhd i had an instinctual fear of people who wrote this way. i just knew there was something very fundamentally different between me and them also ironic that me with my debilitating social anxiety has more of the "aggressive" handwriting while my sister who has the "friendly" handwriting has litterally gotten arrested for hitting someone with a frying pan

  • @kme3894

    @kme3894

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally get what you are saying. I suspect I am an undiagnosed autistic and my handwriting is the "boyish hurried" kind. I also have always been painfully aware of the fact that "typical girly girls with neat handwriting" were almost a different species

  • @katheyy0078

    @katheyy0078

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kme3894 same

  • @rsunshine0777

    @rsunshine0777

    Жыл бұрын

    A common sister Rapunzel moment (I found this too funny to not reply with it)

  • @Mantras-and-Mystics

    @Mantras-and-Mystics

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rsunshine0777 Not sure if it's okay to laugh - but I laughed too! A funny story. 😅

  • @Azeriiall

    @Azeriiall

    Жыл бұрын

    RAPUNZEL????

  • @SKAlice236
    @SKAlice236 Жыл бұрын

    It was interesting to watch - in the last few years I changed a lot: from a girl that tried to fit in and was very unconspicuous to a self confident woman that js like "this is who I am, take it or leave", and my handwriting changed along with it. From hyper-round and careful to progressively more quick, a little more angular (energetically, not due to anger) and more slanted to the right. At some point I just stopped caring so much about how my handwriting looked 😅

  • @JehuMcSpooran

    @JehuMcSpooran

    Жыл бұрын

    I think when we are kids in school we are taught to be way neater and try to please the teacher so we have that rounded style until we get to the stage when we realise that it really doesn't matter. And that goes for men as well as women.

  • @onlyshayy
    @onlyshayy Жыл бұрын

    Ive seen most of the guys in my class with super neat handwriting, and ive seen girls with the most illegible shit ive ever seen

  • @fragiledate

    @fragiledate

    Жыл бұрын

    the world is healing! girls, WRITE LIKE SHIT! boys, PUT HEARTS ON YOUR I'S

  • @cevothy
    @cevothy Жыл бұрын

    This actually makes so much sense for me personally. I have always had a more "boyish" look to my handwriting (more angular, not focusing much on form etc) in the past but when I got into the fifth grade and saw that my handwriting was different from almost all of the girls I, over the time, tried to change the look of my handwriting since it looked "so much prettier". When trying to read off my writing at first alot of girls and other people said it was unintelligible & not pretty and I naturally compared myself to their handwriting. Or when you needed to show the whole class your worksheet I was often emberassed by how my handwriting looked and would try to look up on youtube how to write pretty and neat (the handwriting you would see with alot of girls around me). With time my handwriting shifted to the examples in your video (which was how every girls handwriting looked in school). Now with time away from school it shifted back to how it was back when I didn't care if it didn't look girly and dont care about the social norms of "what a girl should look/be like". Thank you for this video! Made me realise something about myself today (hope my comment is understandable lol)

  • @k4ferta
    @k4ferta Жыл бұрын

    I feel like as a trans boy my handwriting actually like had a phase where it was more "girly" but as soon as I realised that I am trans my handwriting changed and now looks more like the "boyish" handwriting. It's just kind of interesting to hear you talk about this

  • @phoenix2965

    @phoenix2965

    Жыл бұрын

    omg i have that same experience as a trans guy! it’s incredibly interesting!

  • @OneWithManyNames

    @OneWithManyNames

    Жыл бұрын

    Actually, there was a study done showing that trans people’s brains shift into the form of the gender they identify as.

  • @k4ferta

    @k4ferta

    Жыл бұрын

    YEAH ! it is really interesting how we even subconciuosly (I cant spell :D) changed things to appear more masc

  • @Achilles_heal

    @Achilles_heal

    Жыл бұрын

    I think that's the cool thing about handwriting you can see people change and progress through the writing!

  • @alexberg9265

    @alexberg9265

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah me too! I feel like mine has gotten more "messy" over the past 2 years, where one of them I have been out

  • @bodyofhope
    @bodyofhope Жыл бұрын

    Very interesting. I've always been told I have "terrible handwriting." And I've always been envious of other girl's pretty handwriting.... but I’ve never been a super feminine girl. I've always considered myself a tomboy. When you show the "writing for quickness" examples-- that's my style. Even when I'm writing as nice as possible, my writing looks more like a guy's than a woman's lol. I was diagnosed with a few neurological conditions, so they could've effected how I write from a young age. Either way, it's very interesting bc I've definitely noticed the more feminine the girl, the more flowery her handwriting is.

  • @Whimsy3692

    @Whimsy3692

    Жыл бұрын

    Just remember, the prettier and more uniform their handwriting is, the more unhealthy it is. 🙃

  • @alfierat9548
    @alfierat9548 Жыл бұрын

    I love all Leah's videos! They are so well edited and I love how she explains it. She looks so kind and I hope she keeps posting videos.

  • @sablex0724
    @sablex0724 Жыл бұрын

    I really like how you see gender, that's how I've been interpreting it until now and I'm very happy to see a person that thinks like me on this topic (plus, I've discovered your channel not so long ago but I've watched most of your videos in a day or two, this is very interesting and I really like your personality ^^)

  • @Avion1776
    @Avion1776 Жыл бұрын

    I had a teacher who was talking about handwriting and how some people needed to take more time to make it more legible. He started to name the girls with the handwriting that looks like some of those tiktokers who make aesthetic notes, but he eventually made it around to name every single girl in the class. Not a single guy was named. I am a girl, but let it be known that this was when I was an intense perfectionist, and even then I was at the very end of the list. Now I happen to have a lot more masculine interests like wars, planes, math, engineering, guns, etc. and my handwriting is objectively worse. Edit: I also have actual friends now and know, or am learning with progress, how to assert myself. Ik right? Im so late in developing bc my parents don't listen to concerns! :D how exciting!

  • @gimygaming8655

    @gimygaming8655

    Жыл бұрын

    The "how exciting" part made me laugh. I am so sorry

  • @v.xien.

    @v.xien.

    Жыл бұрын

    I would call the teacher out lol

  • @Avion1776

    @Avion1776

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gimygaming8655 no hard feelings. I laugh at it everyday just bc of how ridiculous it is that they failed to notice the obvious red flags. I'm out of that situation now, which is all I need to be happy

  • @Avion1776

    @Avion1776

    Жыл бұрын

    @@v.xien. yea, he was always strange. He taught at public schools for 30 years before I had him in private school. He couldn't teach for the life of him. It was funny. He was the kind of teacher where after the 6th time you corrected him, you just gave up. He seemed like a nice guy though. Just a few rough edges and rotting from the inside is all.

  • @ranzavb9273
    @ranzavb9273 Жыл бұрын

    I was always condsiderd a girly girl, I always wear pink in a like cottagecore/sofgirl way. People are always so suprised when they look at my handwriting: i write very fast, it's chaotic, my zones are unbalanced and it's a mixture of an angular and thready rhytmn.

  • @huntercoleman460

    @huntercoleman460

    Жыл бұрын

    I think this whole video is ludicrous. I’m a guy and I think men and women can write both equally as good. Unless you write your name, a random person can’t tell the gender of the person who wrote it from your handwriting. Say I’m your secret admirer, you assume I’m a guy but, there may be a slight chance a girl wrote you that, you wouldn’t tell the gender from handwriting.

  • @teetotee

    @teetotee

    Жыл бұрын

    @@huntercoleman460 wow you make me tired of replying to comments.

  • @vs-ej1qc

    @vs-ej1qc

    Жыл бұрын

    @@huntercoleman460 patterns are a thing

  • @kevilarz
    @kevilarz Жыл бұрын

    As a boy, my handwriting in the past was awful that you can't even understand it. I was jealous of of my classmates handwriting because it was understandable and beautiful ,but in the present, I actually improved my handwriting a by writing one-by-one ,but I do have some issue of writing it properly because my handwriting is unbalanced

  • @ThatGayBLAndKpopLover
    @ThatGayBLAndKpopLover Жыл бұрын

    It's interesting because I'm a trans guy and while I was/am treated as a "girl" in most places, my mom had made sure to raise my brother and myself without any forced gender roles. As soon as we were old enough to have likes and dislikes we got to choose our hair styles, clothes, toys, etc. Like I had a baby doll when I was little and my brother asked for one too because he wanted to be like me. I had a barbie dress up set and my brother loved wearing the sparkly pink heels and neon pink feather boa scarf around the house (we are 26 snd 23 now and he's a straight, cis-gender male) but we were raised to be who we were. And learning graphology from you, I've noticed that my handwriting falls pretty much in the middle (a bit more towards the "boy" handwriting) because I got to grow up with my handwriting not being influenced by anything except myself.

  • @Krzysiek9521
    @Krzysiek9521 Жыл бұрын

    I mostly agree, but... First of all, "aggression" is bad wording, I think, it's an entirely negative characteristic. I'd change it to "assertivness". Second of all, I wouldn't agree that the characteristics mentioned are a result of social conditioning (at least not on the most part). Looking at averages, of course, masculine and feminine traits come mostly from biological differences. Being a highschool guy myself, I can say that masculine traits, like assertivness and innovative thinking (i.e. coming to a different conclusion than you're taught) are actively suppressed, if not outright punished, far from promoted or taught.

  • @johnwalker1058
    @johnwalker1058 Жыл бұрын

    Then there's me who has the handwriting of a doctor writing you a prescription. Part of the reason I often struggled with study in school was that I could hardly read my own notes as the teachers would often fly through their presentations, so I had to just scramble to get down on paper as much of the lecture info as I could. Then I would sometimes have to take extra time to go through and re-write my own notes in slower time to improve their legibility (somewhat anyway).

  • @oldgraybeard3659
    @oldgraybeard3659 Жыл бұрын

    So, a female army colonel told me, "Men think in hierarchies, women think collaboratively." As a student of both sociology and cognitive science, most of that difference is due to the biology of brain structure, not socialization.

  • @femkewensink
    @femkewensink Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been watching you for around a year now, and last few months I’ve been diving into grapholgy and I just wanted to say thank you for making these videos and getting me interested in this. You inspire me so much, ily ily 💓💓

  • @none_of_yourbusiness
    @none_of_yourbusiness Жыл бұрын

    I have both 💀 It really just comes down to how much ‘form conscious’ I am. Usually in places such a school where I have to use my brain a lot I prioritise getting the information down. When I’m alone and have time I like to prioritise form for aesthetic purposes. I’m not sure which one is my ‘natural’ handwriting, however the one people see the most is the messy, hieroglyphics I write down.

  • @arturorochoa9359
    @arturorochoa9359 Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad a channel like this exist. It feeds the niche and peaks the curiosity and is insightful to what goes on in an individuals handwriting. I thank you

  • @dragoness777
    @dragoness777 Жыл бұрын

    I was actually told my handwriting couldn't possibly be mind because I had "boy handwriting", and it couldn't possibly have been the writing of a girl because "they have neat handwriting". My print is a bit sloppier and inconsistent because I was taught to write in cursive first, but was forced to stop doing that when I transferred out of homeschool into public school, and this was about two months after I had that transition forced on my because my teacher literally couldn't read cursive and therefore couldn't grade my assignment (he was nearing retirement age too, so it wasn't like this teacher was so young as to not know how cursive works). I'm dyslexic too so it was kind of like learning not only new muscle memory, but learning a different picture for familiar words since letters don't feel like anything except pictures to me. It was only useful ironically when I had to take the SAT test, where you had to write out the vow of academic integrity in cursive, and the people who couldn't write in cursive had to fake it according to the proctor's instructions. It also helped a little bit in learning how to write Arabic since all Arabic is like half-cursive, but that's a different discussion. For those wondering, the reason I was taught to write in cursive is because my mother thought that seeing an entire word would help me more than chopping it up into little letters because of my reading issues, but ironically I started reading better when I learned how to read print because understanding how the blocks worked helped me understand sound more, and that's something that helped me learn English and other languages. I can still write in cursive but I don't do it often unless it's a signature or artistic choice.

  • @teetotee
    @teetotee Жыл бұрын

    your nails... *mwah* on fleek! Also this is definitely an interesting topic, I was soooo excited when i saw this video!

  • @moonfruito5960
    @moonfruito5960 Жыл бұрын

    put into words perfectly :)) great video leah!!

  • @planetsejeong
    @planetsejeong Жыл бұрын

    ur editing gets better each video omg

  • @LeahEckardt

    @LeahEckardt

    Жыл бұрын

    thank you so much omg :,)

  • @FROGGGER.DRAGONSLAYER
    @FROGGGER.DRAGONSLAYER Жыл бұрын

    as a afab non binary person when i look at my older handwriting i actually noticed a lot of these traits the roundness and form consciousness specifically and it's interesting to me that since i've come out almost a year and a half ago my handwriting has changed pretty drastically. i'm less form conscious and more upper zone dominant compared to my old handwriting i also notice it's slightly more angular and the middle zone is really small now.

  • @Qrp_international
    @Qrp_international Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely awesome approach. You do a great job being diplomatic yet assertive and clear with your stance, research, and conclusions! Thanks for sharing this with us!!!

  • @linmonPIE
    @linmonPIE Жыл бұрын

    I noticed that a lot of girls had that type of handwriting and I remember wanting to stay away from shaping my letters that way. I didn’t want to be like everyone else. I know, cringe. I think mine is a cross between the two styles which fits me because I was a Tom boy growing up. I still kinda am.

  • @Achilles_heal
    @Achilles_heal Жыл бұрын

    This makes so much sense with the whole gender roles!! Can't believe I've never thought about it before

  • @emimoondust
    @emimoondust Жыл бұрын

    i remember my teacher pulled me aside in 3rd grade bc i had writing that was too messy to read and over the years i think i put a lot of effort into neat writing 😭

  • @whenlifegivesyoulemons661
    @whenlifegivesyoulemons661 Жыл бұрын

    I always love these insightful videos. Thanks for sharing the knowledge, and it really made me realise a lot of things about my handwriting in comparison to my brother's

  • @valeriefrench518
    @valeriefrench518 Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with your opinion that differences in handwriting are result of the societal conditioning. In my country girls are ofter chastised for having untidy and "boyish" handwriting, while boys are almost expected to have illegible handwriting. In the worst cases girls can even get a lover mark if their handwriting not neat enough.

  • @violetstellanova4470
    @violetstellanova4470 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a woman on the autism spectrum, and I’ve read that autistic women have more “masculine brains”, ie thinking more logically than emotionally/socially, so it would make sense for that to also manifest in handwriting. I have always had a hard time writing neatly, and if I try to it’s really agonizing and slow. Through school and college, I learned to write quickly and efficiently because I prioritized getting as much information down as quickly as possible as opposed to aesthetic.

  • @p1xelware

    @p1xelware

    Жыл бұрын

    ooohh that's actually interesting, I'm a trans dude also in the spectrum and it's agonizing to write "masculine" for me personally lol, my priority is more like aesthetic>efficiency

  • @ichtozavuzovsky8370

    @ichtozavuzovsky8370

    Жыл бұрын

    It is at least 75% biological and 25% social conditioning

  • @---pu7ke

    @---pu7ke

    Жыл бұрын

    Writing faster and messier isnt necessarily more logical or less emotional. I write neater so when rereading the notes they can be read easier and faster. Also writing slightly slower and neater engrains the information better rather than mindlessly, so you learn more when you write. Or at least that’s the logic I follow.

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza Жыл бұрын

    So close to 100k Leah!!!! ❤ also love your nails!

  • @mendyviola
    @mendyviola Жыл бұрын

    I’m all,over the board depending on the conditions. If time allows I’m more rounded, if there is no speed need, jts more angular. . It’s not gender but conditional/situational.

  • @masteryoflife5133
    @masteryoflife5133 Жыл бұрын

    For some odd reason, even though my handwriting is extremely angular, I don’t have an aggressive bone in my body. I just have a lot of energy.

  • @wokerobot3183
    @wokerobot3183 Жыл бұрын

    Easily put: guys just don't care. Girls do. Guys know that it's important to look good. Guys know that it's okay to cry. We just don't care.

  • @georgewilde671
    @georgewilde671 Жыл бұрын

    Your analysis is always so interesting and informative

  • @dervla_
    @dervla_ Жыл бұрын

    im a girl and my handwriting is very angular and small much like 'boy handwriting' but i also usually take care in its form

  • @marinetter.8423
    @marinetter.8423 Жыл бұрын

    Girl you should talk more about this shit, it's good to hear

  • @ievalibeka8171
    @ievalibeka8171 Жыл бұрын

    I've met a few guys who were struggling to read their own handwriting if they had forgotten what kind of information the note's supposed to contain XD My "natural" handwriting was not neat at all, and over the years I've put in a lot of effort for improved legibility when I want to convey information to somebody else, plus learned a few decorative frills for my personal notes :)

  • @martinaverna7818
    @martinaverna7818 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! On point! Thank you Lea, I really enjoy your videos and persona :) ❤

  • @rowanjoy419
    @rowanjoy419 Жыл бұрын

    Men dream of women, women dream of themselves being dreamed of. Men look at women, women watch themselves being looked at - John Berger

  • @que4.20
    @que4.20 Жыл бұрын

    so excited for you to hit 100k!!!! it already went 1k subs up since you edited this video!

  • @bunniiac
    @bunniiac Жыл бұрын

    this explains why my handwriting was never "girly" despite being a girl. It looked much closer to "boyish" handwriting. I think it's definitely because I didn't care much about how I appeared to others, and feminine gender conditioning wasn't pushed very much on me. I believe it also has to do with how autism impacted my motor skills as a kid (I had a very hard time making my handwriting look legible)

  • @lizukaa5456
    @lizukaa5456 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Leah! I can't use instagram rn, so I'll comment something unrelated to the video here😭 I binged your videos couple months ago, and I come back to your channel every now and then. I find your way of explaining things about handwriting and psychology so cool and easy to understand! Which is something that I'm always looking for, and especially now that I'm a teacher - you are an inspiration! Sometimes i look at my 7 year old students' handwriting (they are kids so i don't make any assumptions) and really see how much it correlates with their personalities and their mood. Today a new single by Niall Horan called "Meltdown" came out, and he posted a handwritten note dedicated to the song. And I noticed some details that would never cross my mind if i haven't watched hours of your content. It brings me so much joy, because I'm a big fan of Niall, I feel like I have a new perspective on his work. (Also it would be cool to hear your opinion on his handwriting, if you're interested in making another celebrity analysis video) I'm so happy I stumbled upon your videos! Thank you🌷❤️ have a nice day

  • @kristyandesouza5980
    @kristyandesouza5980 Жыл бұрын

    "Genders is a social construct" And i skidaddle out of this video and channel forever, thanks

  • @anunusualaceofspades
    @anunusualaceofspades Жыл бұрын

    This video is very interesting to me. As someone with a complicated relationship with the concept of social performance and the way gender plays into that, along with the fact my handwriting looks like shit (aka not pretty), this sort of helps me understand a few parts of myself better. Got a teacher that absolutely hates my handwriting and calls it "lazy" handwriting (not even gonna get into how that is an excuse to make people with mental/physical health issues feel bad), but it sort of makes me have no motivation during that teacher's classes lmfao Yet this video confirms some of my suspicions as to why my handwriting looks like that. I was *raised to* perform in a feminine role, in theory, but somehow ended up raising myself somewhere in between. Nowadays it's a mix and match of both sides of the social spectrum, but somehow my handwriting mimicks my performance lmfao

  • @Bibliomaniac69
    @Bibliomaniac69 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos! They are totally addicting.

  • @Drain.X
    @Drain.X Жыл бұрын

    in india (and mayhaps other asian countries) they force you to learn cursive and its part of grading for any class is the handwriting, so i think this might be more of a western thing idk tho

  • @cpeugh123ad
    @cpeugh123ad Жыл бұрын

    the way that im a girl and i write quick, connected, and angular tho 😭

  • @GooseBucket-hr1go
    @GooseBucket-hr1go Жыл бұрын

    Wow, because you've never brought it up in your videos before the idea of gender has never been present in my mind while analysing handwriting! That was a whole factor that I never really thought about :0

  • @TomarBoroDada
    @TomarBoroDada Жыл бұрын

    another amazing video 💖

  • @joeychin451
    @joeychin451 Жыл бұрын

    Fascinating insight. Curious as to why "girl" handwriting tends to conform to a standard form and why "boy" handwriting tends to be more individualized.

  • @hallwayoatmeal
    @hallwayoatmeal Жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel and this is so interesting! I was wondering if you still analyze your subscribers handwriting? You’ve got me so curious lol!

  • @siennablack4690
    @siennablack4690 Жыл бұрын

    It would be so cool to see you analyse people's exam handwriting! I don't know nearly as much as you about handwriting - but I am always so surprised by how drastically my everyday handwriting changes when I am in exam conditions, or even when I am doing things like taking lecture notes! anyways, just thought it would be a fun video :))

  • @greyskiesartify
    @greyskiesartify Жыл бұрын

    As a woman with horrid handwriting my teacher at school were always so mad about how irregular my handwriting was and it didn't matter how much effort i put it still didn't improved 😂

  • @greyskiesartify

    @greyskiesartify

    Жыл бұрын

    Tho my handwriting is rounded like a typical 'fem' handwriting just horrid form

  • @poppymc1ntosh
    @poppymc1ntosh Жыл бұрын

    really great video, love u and your content!! i'm very new to graphology and you really sparked my interest in it. kind of unrelated but your nails are really pretty :))

  • @humanbeing7922
    @humanbeing7922 Жыл бұрын

    Does anyone here know what lower-zone s’ and h’s can indicate? It’s in right-slanted handwriting but usually the drops go really left first before looping back over themselves and ending in a flick just over the middle part of the letter’s width. (Or to the next letter, sometimes.) I can’t find anything on line by going through lower-zone specific pages or letter specific pages.

  • @valerielinares2068
    @valerielinares2068 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 40 now, but back when I was in high school, I noticed a lot of girls had a lot of the similar, rounded handwriting. I did not, but, I wondered why that was. But, after discovering your channel just yesterday and the way you explain things - I've seen a good handful of your videos before this one - it all made sense. And knowing me and my personality, it makes sense why I did not have the same rounded handwriting as the other girls around me.

  • @nightingalexx5623
    @nightingalexx5623 Жыл бұрын

    This may be my favourite video from you so far ! I love discussions about gender roles and handwriting analysis and having both at once is so exciting ^^ I thoroughly agree with you on everything you brought up. I live in Asia, and the social conditioning for girls here is particularly crazy. A LOT of girls tend to have that ‘typical handwriting’ brought up in the video. Not sure if you’ll see this comment but I wanted to ask - is there any significance to the change in a person’s writing when they are explicitly aware of handwriting analysis? Love the vid !

  • @mapl3mage
    @mapl3mage Жыл бұрын

    In the Japanese language, the round and cute hiragana script was historically used by mostly women and, according to an online encyclopedia, it was even known as women's hand back then. Men, on the other hand, used mostly katakana and kanji characters, which has a sharp look. Interesting that this fits with the stereotypical girls handwriting vs boys.

  • @yachitamehta288
    @yachitamehta288 Жыл бұрын

    Yayy!! Never been this early!

  • @kara.drawss126

    @kara.drawss126

    Жыл бұрын

    YAYY

  • @ragatmikadeo7988
    @ragatmikadeo7988 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Leah, my handwriting kinda leans towards the left and it got really messy since I started my Masters. Would you please let me know what it means?

  • @veisnthere9
    @veisnthere9 Жыл бұрын

    this was such an interesting video i learnt a lot! the angular forms thing was especially interesting thankuuu

  • @Totallyfine29_
    @Totallyfine29_ Жыл бұрын

    I have a question, is it normal to have different handwriting depending on the color / type of the pen that I use, cuz when I write with different (pens, pencils,markers ,fountain pens etc..) I have different handwriting :)

  • @raphlvlogs271
    @raphlvlogs271 Жыл бұрын

    I've heard about this a lot of times but I have never been able to tell that difference before.

  • @Fr0gandT0ad
    @Fr0gandT0ad Жыл бұрын

    Most people at my school are OBSESSED with my handwriting because it's super "Neat" and "Bubbly", or "round" and it is very VERY VEEEEEEERYYYYYYY middle zone bound, like all in the middle zone, and I do pay attention to my form. But I do have a femenine energy, and I am.. fruity.. (I have also been a subscriber for 6 months, love your videos!

  • @solareclipse1468
    @solareclipse1468 Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes my T bar is so low it like floats below the line XD and sometimes it’s in a good high place, but usually it’s low middle .,.

  • @violetstellanova4470

    @violetstellanova4470

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. Non existent self-esteem

  • @vincentgoupil180
    @vincentgoupil180 Жыл бұрын

    Mentioning social conditioning for female and male handwriting emphasizes the first idea that people are taught how to write rather than their individual nervous or subconscious influences. So, what range or proportion of social conditioning compared to nervous/subconscious influences do you go by in analyzing handwriting ? Do you start with the former and notice deviations for the latter ? *Thanks* for da video

  • @user-yt7qy7sg1q
    @user-yt7qy7sg1q Жыл бұрын

    Really interesting I actually didn't realize there were that many differences. I just wanted to ask a question Has learning about handwriting changed your handwriting in any way?

  • @noodledance09
    @noodledance09 Жыл бұрын

    😮oh, God. I really enjoyed listening to your theory. very thoughtful one

  • @p1xelware
    @p1xelware Жыл бұрын

    ohh I always wondered why my handwriting as a trans guy is actually neat and girly, it always was tbh makes sense to think that it's a social conditioning thing!

  • @isidromolina8174
    @isidromolina8174 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a boy with “girly” handwriting and I’ve been wandering forever about this

  • @zetametallic
    @zetametallic Жыл бұрын

    My handwrting has changed from rounded at about 9 years old onwards to my 30's when it became quite angular; i put a lot of effort into writing and enjoy it. I had to go into the bank to have my signature witnessed because they thought it was a fraud due to the massive sweeps 😂.

  • @elyshajoymorrison5280
    @elyshajoymorrison5280 Жыл бұрын

    Could you make a video on books and resources you used to help learn alongside formal learning? Or maybe a video about your journey learning about handwriting analysis? I'm so interested in the science of graphology but I have no idea where to start! Thanks Leah! (If you actually end up reading this lol)

  • @Tamannaaa3608
    @Tamannaaa3608 Жыл бұрын

    ur nails look prettyyyyy

  • @EhM-xt7pl
    @EhM-xt7pl Жыл бұрын

    Great video! I've always had the feeling that calligraphy tells something about you.

  • @AlexVinder
    @AlexVinder Жыл бұрын

    In looking back I could notice a shift in my handwriting. Before my architecture study and subsequent work in the field it was more gentle and rounded. Now it's very fast, angular and more narrow. People often tell me it looks like a man's. I very much attribute it to my work environment, the fact that I had to learn to be assertive and the fact that I was mostly surrounded by men (esp. on the construction site). Technical drawing and writing might have influenced it as well. But I think you're very rigth about the socialization and the influence on gender roles.

  • @__sui3783
    @__sui3783 Жыл бұрын

    recently, I was told that my pen grip was wrong, so I questioned myself: does the way you hold the pen affect the way your real handwriting should look? Interesting video. I love the passion you show in each video for graphology

  • @PickledPixiePie
    @PickledPixiePie Жыл бұрын

    Is it normal to shift between handwriting styles?

  • @trisswein5856
    @trisswein5856 Жыл бұрын

    I have a rather unrelated question - How come my handwriting changes from day to day or week to week? I've noticed that on one day I may write like a "boy" so super fast, ignoring the form, quite angular etc and the next day it would be a very cursive version of what you describe as "girl handwriting" in this video (mz dominant, round, well spaced etc". I also figured that it's not necessarily linked to my mood. I think many people get this? Just wanted to know your thoughts regarding this matter and maybe even whether it's a normal thing to happen or not.

  • @isaacionescu3559
    @isaacionescu355923 күн бұрын

    it's been a while since i was last able to stumble upon a captivating niche that someone does a fine art of presenting. here i was going "i know this, i've been taught about that, i heard that already", and then one evening it hits me to search about this exact subject and you're the first channel that shows up. gg

  • @norielplaza3314
    @norielplaza3314 Жыл бұрын

    How can i have my handwriting analyzed?

  • @caerphoto
    @caerphoto4 ай бұрын

    Do you know if this applies in cultures/countries where the writing system is entirely different, e.g. using Arabic or Chinese?

  • @aslam1681
    @aslam1681 Жыл бұрын

    I am 40 yo, but you inspire me! There's a lot to learn from you.

  • @rayanwolf9319
    @rayanwolf9319 Жыл бұрын

    You’re so right

  • @CatBat14
    @CatBat14 Жыл бұрын

    My handwriting is always sharp, looks partially like cursive, and I write incredibly fast. I’m pretty sure I have arthritis though, so it hurts to write and my eyesight is bad. Maybe that effects it more than other traits??

  • @saraiacosta6608
    @saraiacosta6608 Жыл бұрын

    That’s funny you drew the opposite conclusion that I did with the gender thing. I thought this was another biological example of differences between girls and boys, not about social conditioning. You notice the differences between boy and girl handwriting as soon as they begin writing at 4 years old.

  • @potatok2604

    @potatok2604

    Жыл бұрын

    further evidence that social conditioning starts from the moment you were born...

  • @uo.2103
    @uo.2103 Жыл бұрын

    Lol my family always teases me about my slightly messy handwriting because I focus on speed rather than form, but I've never heard about girl or boy handwriting. I've only ever seen such repeated rounded writing in (North) America and I think giving it a name and attention has perpetuated something as odd as gender differences in handwriting

  • @soilv5169
    @soilv5169 Жыл бұрын

    Your content quality↗️

  • @boo5274
    @boo5274 Жыл бұрын

    I used to have a typical boys handwriting. It was unreadable. I actively decided to change it so it was actually legible. I moved to all caps, the form was and is never round more than it has edges, but it's neat and readable. I also write into the midzone, mostly so I'm not touching the lines above and there's a zone between the lines again so it's more readable. But then again my handwriting is very intentional in its form so I can look back at my notes and not be confused.

  • @pihumalviya8689
    @pihumalviya8689 Жыл бұрын

    Before lockdown I had "girl" handwriting I used to write very slowly I was more concerned about how I came across but now I learnt how taking care of myself without caring about what others think about me now I tend to write faster even tho it might not be pleasing to look at but it is atleast understandable.

  • @ARDEN33.3
    @ARDEN33.3 Жыл бұрын

    Started as an analysis and ended into a therapy session / a lesson for society ❤😂

  • @Whimsy3692
    @Whimsy3692 Жыл бұрын

    This is a very interesting video. It makes me wonder if this rule still applies back in past centuries or if you can still see the "bubbliness" in on older letters from female writers... or a more angular, aggressive form from male writers.

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