Why INFP Females Are So Unique: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eKWXqNqFYtCribg.html

@BubblingOnion

3 жыл бұрын

when you're a male intj...

@ventaliq

2 жыл бұрын

@@BubblingOnion lol

I do love being INTJ. But I never got why people think being honest is being rude or me enjoying my solitude is boring because I don't want to go out all the time.

@spannycat2

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like the world was not designed for INTJs. It seems like the world prefers female ISFJs and ENFJs.

@Liv-fx8uu

2 жыл бұрын

Same, that's why i don't have friends

@pbjt2396

2 жыл бұрын

That’s because they’re all too busy being boring flies on the wall following the rest of the crowd 🙄 there’s nothing more disappointing than knowing everyone else is content to follow the norms and never think for themselves. Ive seen and done what’s out there and decided it’s just not worth it for me. I love my solitude and I wouldn’t want to be anyone else. Cheers my fellow INTJs 🥂

@tomzeeb_

2 жыл бұрын

Because it's only good to be honest when you are asked for your opinion. Don't go out and tell the truth to people that dont ask for the truth but that's circumstantial. For example if they're clearly hurting themselves without knowing or being ignorant then its good to let them know the truth

@marquendra

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. People tend to love the brutal honesty until it's used on them.

I've made peace with the fact that I may die alone.

@nataliewantscookies

3 жыл бұрын

😅 same. When I tell people that I’ve considered that’s a possibility they think I’m being negative. Lol

@HisameArtwork

3 жыл бұрын

I thought that was my fate as well, so I got a cat. 6 months later I met my better half. 7 years happily married :) he's infj.

@laurie5346

3 жыл бұрын

@@HisameArtwork I got a dog, lol. Maybe there's hope for me too.

@molisha123

3 жыл бұрын

Hey dude I made that conclusion ages ago

@epistte

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not ready to accept that. There are guys that could be my lover, around but I just haven't met them.

As an intj female I feel like my personality and intentions are also misjudged and misunderstood, i often wish I were a man because I've met men with similar personalities and demeanor as me and no one ever questioned them.

@uyenvitran7403

3 жыл бұрын

I always wished I were a man with my personality. As a woman I am rejected by both genders, with women plainly rejecting me and men always trying to sensitize me...

@anna_1857

3 жыл бұрын

I really don’t understand why females are expected to be more e m o t i o n a l and s e n s i t i v e…

@SBecktacular

3 жыл бұрын

Uyen Tran EXACTLY! But I would never want to be a man-eww!

@nobodyhere4667

3 жыл бұрын

Trust me INTJ male isn't all that great. Put your personality in a 6'2 280lb frame, your "aloofness" becomes "intimidating" real fast. As you have probably experienced, you try to be honest, which is the most respectful you can be and you end up the bad guy, when I do that I'm a big mean bully. If I try to take the other road and be quiet, then I am "intimidating" or "hostile" and usually "cold". I can't win and I am a male nurse, 90% of my coworkers are womyn, I have two sisters and a very loud mother, I have spent a lifetime trying to find all the ways I can be flexible to adapt to other people. Nursing may not have been the best choice but I liked the science and I felt honored to be able to help those in the most need - aka young and stupid :p. When I have been in a management role, people would often call me "arrogant" because they felt I was over-confidant but to me I was neither confident or not, just logical. I know people like to think the grass is greener but I promise you, you would find a whole new set of problems with some familiar themes.

@redpsycho24

3 жыл бұрын

I totally can relate. 90% of my friends are males because they aren't as emotional as females and they can handle me being transparent and unexpressive with my emotions.

Yes! As an INTJ woman, i feel like most people do not understand me at all. They often took my honesty as a form of rudeness and independence as a form of arrogance.

@villainousextremity

Жыл бұрын

Yup same. People say often say I'm weird, too harsh, or "yikes you're a little rude" when I'm just being honest and direct. I enjoy my independence so much that I'm seen as a rebel from others.

INTJ female here. I’m a stay at home mom now, but at my last job all the female coworkers on my team hated me. All I did was keep to myself and mind my own business. I logically could not understand why prioritizing my privacy and solitude was an issue. When they spoke to me I was perfectly genuine and pleasant, I just wasn’t going to initiate conversation or start gushing about my life. 95% of people are too emotional for me especially women and if I can’t see logic in it I dismiss it. All of this is done silently of course. No need to divulge my thinking patterns.

@motina2960

3 жыл бұрын

It is beacuse you are driven by logic, entellect( by your brain) than emotion. You are not open up about your life beacuse it involve emotion, you are feeling uncomfortable to talk about yourself and initiate a conversation. You prefer deep talk and about something important but not small talk or common conversations You are acting and response by your brain and not your heart. Your brain not let your emotion to come out. In short your mind control your emotion.

@2014kaydee

3 жыл бұрын

@@motina2960 exactly and for me interacting with people who judge me for being me is pointless. In order for me to be someone that would appeal to them I’d have to change who I am and I won’t do that. I refuse

@leelee2328

3 жыл бұрын

You are the exact me

@nataliegrayhandle

3 жыл бұрын

That's why I'm doing computer science

@BguidoA

3 жыл бұрын

The same issue but with male coworkers... 😒😒

No, men don't like dating us because we won't kowtow when they want to be right and we're too independent.

@RTSBone

3 жыл бұрын

It’s time to make a sandwich....

@sushilovermf

3 жыл бұрын

@@RTSBone nah

@RTSBone

3 жыл бұрын

@@alanaglaser7695 teach me

@SBecktacular

3 жыл бұрын

Radu Bogza blech

@SBecktacular

3 жыл бұрын

Consider yourself lucky

0:40 independence 1:20 solitude 1:52 non-stereotyped 2:24 friendship is precious 2:50 transparent and loyal 3:14 commitment 4:00 romance 4:34 rare company

@theweirdkidatyoschool3892

2 жыл бұрын

As a intj male I would definitely wanna have a partner with a same personality as me ( if I ever get one lol)

@kingclement5821

2 жыл бұрын

@@theweirdkidatyoschool3892 INTJ here...same...i want my girl to be INTJ too...

@theweirdkidatyoschool3892

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingclement5821 lol I'm an isfp now

@kingclement5821

2 жыл бұрын

@@theweirdkidatyoschool3892 that much change in a month lol..it might a error the first time

@theweirdkidatyoschool3892

2 жыл бұрын

@@kingclement5821 yeah it was lmao

Very true! Others don't get me at all.. but I'm okay with being a one woman show for the rest of my life..

@alteza8247

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god...im finding many of us here in the internet if only i could meet even once in my life

@nataliegrayhandle

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I'm never getting married for my own well being

@RTSBone

3 жыл бұрын

I get y’all

@susan5272

3 жыл бұрын

72 next week and I cherish my alone yet yearn for something/someone. I’ll know it when I feel it.

@dakilangraikage9988

3 жыл бұрын

I honestly just thought people hated me when I was younger (not that it mattered) I was fine being alone, it's comforting and familiar but when I'm with my friends I enjoy their company the same

Being INTJ aro/ace makes me feel like an alien sometimes ahaha

@ingridcamargo1499

3 жыл бұрын

samee

@wanmei836

3 жыл бұрын

Intj ace too 😂 we are ALIENS .

@mucho.

3 жыл бұрын

@@wanmei836 lmao at least we are aliens of the same species

@wanmei836

3 жыл бұрын

@@mucho. true ☺✨

@sarahursic1151

3 жыл бұрын

At this point i am wishing for aliens(kinda).

I love solitude, I love independence, but I'm also so lonely... I wish there was someone to understand me, lend me a shoulder when I am down, and come home to. There is this quote I love from little women. "Women have minds and they have souls as well as just hearts. They’ve got ambition and they’ve got talent as well as just beauty. I am so sick of people saying that love is just all a woman is fit for. I’m so sick of it! But-I am so lonely.”

@colleeneldracher5658

2 жыл бұрын

I love that quote too.

@supermcfly3103

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe you should do some voluntary work if you are academically and careerwise fulfilled. Voluntary work keeps me in touch with the most vulnerable of society and thus always gives me the more bigger picture of what life is really about.

@mailforveena

2 жыл бұрын

Make a few but good friends and travel more!! You might never find "the one" but you can have adventures!!

@rosamundweedon7517

Жыл бұрын

There is a farcebook group for us that's very supportive and very kind to our sisters. Rare intj females we welcome you. I recommend you have a look

@anniegitchergun7216

Жыл бұрын

Farcebook, LOL! I have called it this myself. 😁 Farcebook, Fakebook, etc.

The biggest drawbacks in my life being an INTJ woman have been: yes- other's women's anxieties and insecurities become magnified around me; family & friends think I'm sick/depressed/boring simply because I'm home alone so much; manipulators cannot manipulate someone who is totally independent, so I make a lot of enemies; people think I'm heartless- but I'm just more logical and intellectual than stuck in feels

@crystal2693

Жыл бұрын

This is so TRUE

I’m an INTJ that’s happily married to an ENFJ man. I had no issue finding dates, but finding someone who would accept how unorthodox I am was the real challenge. Most of the time, people were attracted to my face, but when they got to know my personality, they didn’t know what to do.

@syazwanyw

Жыл бұрын

Lucky you I'm searching for enfj men too it tough out here 😅

As an INTJ, I've observed both men and women gossiping frequently . . .usually extroverted people do this to be the center of attention and it is a precursor to sociopathic behavior. Gossiping is a form of manipulation. They manipulate how others see a person. So, yeah, we don't trust extroverts . . it'll take us time to rule out any sociopathy.

@cosmic_galaxy2206

3 жыл бұрын

Agree sis

Once I feel comfortable with someone, I open up and can be very expressive, in private though.

if i had to discribe my life, especially my childhood, in one word, would be misunderstood. I’ve always felt like my family were total different and could not understand me. As a brazilian, it was really hard to me to be so warm, open and be cool with a lot of body contact and for my family i was too cold and heartless, when this is just not my way to express my feelings

@TriggerVisions

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😌

@northneedle

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more

@leticiasoares823

3 жыл бұрын

opa achei uma br aqui

@KeiKeizPlace

3 жыл бұрын

Same as an italian girl! Although i think I might be more infj but I felt the same way.. I am colder and I hate hugging and kissing people lol

@ingridcamargo1499

3 жыл бұрын

OMG FINALLY A BRAZILIAN LIKE ME😫

Everyone in the comments being an INTJ I relate a lot since i am a woman INTJ. Let's make a community of understanding, where we talk about our problems maybe we may understand each other at least.

intj here - i can relate to most of the things in the video, however i hate how he always refers to "all other women" as being "bubbly and emotional". kind of asking for some of your mentioned nonstereotyped opinion??

@JD-ku3xt

3 жыл бұрын

I agree . . there are also men who are expressively emotional and bubbly. Men also gossip a lot. Not sure why that was attributed to only women.

@AKouyaksu

3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you

@ninar.1956

3 жыл бұрын

@@JD-ku3xt yes, thank you! For women, being emotional and bubbly is mostly considered annoying and needy, while for men the exact same qualities are seen as passionate and fun

@supermcfly3103

2 жыл бұрын

​@@JD-ku3xt Totally agree, same observation. Gender is not the issue here. People are so stupid to attributing traits only to one gender and promoting sexism and toxic femininity/masculinity, because of course people of their own gender classify themselves a certain way.

The response's from this video have been a joy to read. Speaking respectfully as an INTJ male, the comment section of intelligent and open minded women is uplifting and a bit of a refreshment from the usual conforming comments. Make the world yours ladies.

Many people have told me that I'm a rude, stuck-up, emotionless snob when in reality, I just need some alone time because too much social interaction drains me out and I need some space to mentally "rejuvenate" (but sadly, many people don't understand that).

@edennis8578

2 жыл бұрын

Entroverts are never going to understand that because they operate in the opposite way. They are energized by socializing and drained by alone time. It's not your fault and you can't change it, but you'll get used to being yourself over time. I know it's difficult being misunderstood all the time.

@NB-qy7ku

2 жыл бұрын

It is perfectly ok to be the way you are. It does not matter the way others perceive you. They just need to accept you the way you are. Like you said understand you. Think in a way knowing yourself and loving yourself. Appreciating who you are. I think it would be worth getting to know and understand you. I would like to get to know an intj woman. Think they be pleasure to know.

I don't understand why i can't make friends/ can't keep a friendship. I've only ever had friendship with girls and so far, I've only remained close to 1. And even so, we contact like once every 2 months. Most of the time I'm just alone. During quarantine i stayed home for 3 months straight, never seen the grass outside of my house and i honestly felt fine lol.

@amalnash3730

2 жыл бұрын

Saaaaaaaaame 😲😲😲😲😲😲 I stayed a whole school year in my house i go out like once every month to treat myself in a restaurant and that's all. But I am pretty fine with that.

@coollovely1257

2 жыл бұрын

lol

other women usually hate me because i don’t fit in their box once i left corporate and started my own business, things changed in a very positive way

@raquelramlochan184

2 жыл бұрын

What your business

as an INTJ i gotta say, I have the hardest time finding and enjoying relationships w most females. I like guy stuff and having guy friends and fortunately my husband completely gets that. i agree w most of this stuff and i've come to terms with my differences from almost everyone else xd

@cosmic_galaxy2206

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@gravetiger9333

2 жыл бұрын

Yup. I have very few female friends and generally get along with men much easier

@tlex4524

2 жыл бұрын

🗿 this was a very unfortunate comment you decided to write and then post

@chaerihwi5117

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@sarahfanning4536

2 жыл бұрын

YES!

The INTJ woman cartoon is portrayed as geeky with specs and a bit emo, plays into the stereotype that they are not attractive, I am unusual looking but blonde, glamorous and an ex model, and an INTJ.

@shepardcommander5174

3 жыл бұрын

Same tho i am 100% a geek but i get told often that i dont look like one

@sal4538

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, I'm a model and an owner of a few businesses

@AvalynGirl

3 жыл бұрын

I laugh because the INTJ cartoon girl actually looks like me for once, and most INTJ women I know... it’s nice to be represented. I’ve done photoshoots and cosplay modeling but I’m not a fan of it; I just like the creative process of making the look, and I only pose for pictures to have a record of it. My default is long dark hair, and sometimes glasses, with a comfy gamer geek style. I think INTJs often wear glasses because we don’t care about being seen as intellectual (we take pride in being smart) and glasses are often more efficient than contacts. I don’t bother with my contacts unless I plan to go somewhere and anticipate I will need to wear sunglasses or a face mask.

@JD-ku3xt

3 жыл бұрын

To smart people, nerdy is attractive. Also, not everyone likes models or blondes. Blondes are not more or less attractive than brunettes. I just think they were emphasizing that she is different and doesn't care to look exactly like everyone else. I think you have stereotyped people with that comment (accidentally).

@auntuhnani29

3 жыл бұрын

I am geek nerd looking with specs but am not a nerd. People tell me i look like one but i am not;)

Every woman out there is amazing ! Lovely .I am an INTJ but I know how toxic femenity work. I think , we as INTJ persons ,we are different and unique .Not just because of being women but having an amazing personality as human beings

I've been misunderstood my whole life, even by my parents, till I decided to start learning how to be "more social", and still have some issues, what a frustration, anyways I already gave up and accepted my life, and I think that's what all of us should do to !

As an INTJ woman, These are the problems that I face :- 1. I suck at relationship because I hate face-time, phone calls and everything else cuz' I feel like it's a waste of time. 2. I suck at friendship because whenever my friends call me out to party or have fun, I feel like it's a waste of time...lemme just focus on my goals and my future. Work hard now, Party later is my motto. 3. I keep myself isolated. I haven't contacted any of my classmates/friends because again, I feel like it's a waste of time talking to them. 4. I stopped using Instagram and every other social media except KZread because why should I waste time watching cringy reels and tiktok. I've got better thing to do in life. 5. I'm stressed out and I've already planned how my life will be till 2027. SOMEONE HELPPP ME 😭

@janicemascarenhas7230

2 жыл бұрын

we are twins!!

@ummizahraazman7956

2 жыл бұрын

I used to think like that when I was younger. But as I grew older, I learn to accept myself as it is. I tried to mend friendships that I cut abruptly just because I feel immature back then. I love being alone but knowing someone loves to spend time with me just because it's comfortable makes me feel a bit human. I use social media for things I like, If I don't like things I don't bother to understand. I used to be someone who stressed out with life just by keep thinking about the future but we as INTJ need to learn not to be so harsh to ourselves.

@genericchannel126

Жыл бұрын

I used to think this way - but i now found that balance is important. I used to feel so lonely and depressed because i wanted nothing to do with anyone, so i realised i needed to go out with friends from time to time. My future isnt going anywhere (it will come inevitably) and it isnt a race either.

@genericchannel126

Жыл бұрын

It feels so comforting and healing to finally be understood and accepted for all the flaws you have.

@mooistejamilah

10 ай бұрын

Whatever you have as your strengths, give it to the public to add value, be useful for yourself and others. Give love, hopefully you get love, give kindness, hopefully you also get kindness, give things, hopefully it will also return to yourself, to achieve abundance, be abundant. Accept ourselves as we are as we like to be accepted by everyone on this earth. Thank you

All this talk about "dying alone." Do this, make it your mission to find a partner. Be upfront about what you want. If you want a family, say that. Do several first dates and see if they lead to a second. Be civil and honest. I met someone after my first spouse died. We were both older, not in our twenties anymore. He was ready to settle down but had a lot going on with his career and did not want a lot of frills. Works out great. You can do it.

@JD-ku3xt

3 жыл бұрын

People shouldn't say whether they want a family or not. People aren't breeding cows / cattle. It should n't be about breeding. It should be about love. Otherwise, people end up divorced with kids.

@mailforveena

3 жыл бұрын

True, with a LOT of effort we can "make it happen"!! But some of us just don't want it bad enough!! 😊

@taramartinez3193

2 жыл бұрын

@@JD-ku3xt Agreed JD

@edennis8578

2 жыл бұрын

@@JD-ku3xt Wrong. You absolutely should be upfront that you want children, because otherwise you could end up with someone who doesn't, or someone who already got snipped. My major professor was married twice and was upfront about NOT wanting children. It's an important thing to know, basic! If you think that wanting children makes a you a breed cow, then please don't have children. Human beings are meant to breed; if we didn't, there wouldn't be any people. I'm perfectly fine with people who don't want children, but in general it's a natural and very strong drive.

Imagine being 5 foot nothing and being told your confidence is ‘intimidating’ lol yeah lord forbid so I keep to myself unless someone proves to be worth a deeper relationship

Well I am an intj with social anxiety....so people don't like me not because i am rude but because i look rude

@ventaliq

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@edennis8578

2 жыл бұрын

Practice a resting face of a very slight smile. It's a habit, so it takes practice. I was scaring people so I decided to change my resting face. I didn't know it was going on until I was talking to a couple of people and I smiled; the relief on their faces shocked me. I had no idea until then that my normal expression was so scary.

I am INTJ female and it’s lonely in this world...and romantically I’m useless but well versed in science behind it. Safety and security its a big thing to me but in moments of doubt I am self-reliant to my fault sometimes.

I've seen some INTJ women on here say that they're more comfortable having friendships with men than women, but I'd rather find a like-minded female friend than male friends, because friendships with people of the opposite sex seem to end up with one person crushing on the other, and things get complicated.

INTJs female is damn !! I was always attacked, Im INTJ. Why people consider us as villains !!

@moniquefleming3738

3 жыл бұрын

Because INTJ females are totally honest. Lol

@annesmith1491

3 жыл бұрын

yes. we are too honest. New York may like us but Claifornia doesnt. best just keep my mouth shut. thats all.

@moniquefleming3738

3 жыл бұрын

@@annesmith1491 Hahahaha I am a new yorker living in Oregon. Your words are truer than true. West coast is not a place for the INTJ truth teller. Many a feeling has been bruised by my comments.

@annesmith1491

3 жыл бұрын

what movie was that? you want truth, you cant handle the truth. eek

@cosmic_galaxy2206

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah as an INTJ, i've mostly have my RBF on and people are already scared of me 🤣

My bff calls me "special"😂 It feels alone sometimes cause i am not understood, too different etc, but its ok cause i am loved either way

@shepardcommander5174

3 жыл бұрын

@krewjin 100% at least i think we do. I have seen others judging me when i reacted differently to a situation. They often expect an emotional reaction from me, but instead get a clear, level headed one. This is considered very "masculine" from me. But i dont care about being or looking feminine to fit in, i have always done things in a stubborn way and my confidence is pretty high. Its not only how we react, its things like, i love going for a walk at night, when its quiet and i am totally alone, just thinking and watching the stars when the night sky is clear. My bff thinks this is weird, but i think this is what introverts like to do...we like the quiet, we like to think

Ase an INTJ girl, I wonder how people hate us and usually call as cold and rude because we're honest

I once realized that i was an INTJ and come understand that whyd many male colleagues was comfortably with me and really loved to watching movies, shopping even eating in the public alone. Wufft...thanks for shared...

INTP female here, And I damn respect you INTJ females

I have been single since I was born.. 30 years ago. And I don’t mind it. I only want a smart, knowledgeable, responsible person as my partner who shares the same ideology with me and the world . Or I would rather live alone for my rest of my life.

Here I am! I used to be called as "a freak" by female colleagues.

Well now I know the reason why I doesn't have friends, its okay though. I am proud to be an INTJ😌😌😌

I just take the test now again for the second time and still intj, its literally me, they often say's I'm kinda intimidated but it's just I find more peace when I'm alone and also I'm not into gossip I tend to observe people I may judge them secretly but that is for me to know if I could be comfortable or friend with that person. Just being alone is great.

Nice video! I like this content about Intj females. Makes me understand myself more..

I'm an INTJ and spent my childhood in a convent school and my group of friends secretly hated me, i had a bestfriend and one close friend. I couldn't understand why people didn't like me at first but now i get it , i try not be so forward with people as it might hurt their feelings. I guess life is about realising and sometimes you have to do things out of your comfort zone and its ok

I’m a proud INTJ for sure but there times when I feel insecure cause I just can’t blend in with my peers unless it’s my close friends ,people think I’m a bitch ,arrogant etc even if I don’t say anything ...once one of my good friend confessed that she was scared of me the initial few months lol and once I got into a debate with a guy I was talking to and I stood my ground till the end and our relationship soured from then sigh I guess I’ll be single for the rest of my life but that’s better though lol

@amalnash3730

2 жыл бұрын

I tooooooootally relate, I had the same problem when arguing with my professors at school. Again, my female friends only come to me when they need rational advices or solution to their problems but they will NEVER share their feelings about a person or talk about a romantic partner in front of me bcz they always get scared of my honest remarks. Not to forget the part of looking scary to people; no guy ever tried to come at me they feel like I will beat them up while I was only staring into NOTHING, the air actually. Hhhhhhhh nobody understands us but it is really fine, i started years ago to make peace with myself.

@novili7436

2 жыл бұрын

@@amalnash3730 😂😂high five to that ,but that’s what makes us unique we are better for ourselves and can thrive on our own we don’t need huge group to show people we don’t need validation 😌

One more INTJ who has been misunderstood whole life. Also, I often come across serious negativity and hostile behaviour from the people I hardly even notice. My only intention is to mind my own business and to find rational and fair solutions for misunderstandings. But it doesn't work well.

I've always been curious about my personality type and as a young woman with body and identity dismorphia its really great to know that all this time I've spent being different is just who I am. I've never had serious relationships and only have 2 close friends with who I only ever contact in school or online. They know I'm bi but don't know I've been considering being ace/aro. Now I know at being different is fine. To every other woman like me out there, this is who you are! Xxx

I got real confused at 2:00 with the call out of "female-related activities" - feels like some AI wrote that part

@TriggerVisions

3 жыл бұрын

Thank You for your feedback i will check and i will contact our script writer.

@LooneyTiksCrap

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I noticed that too... in the non-stereotyped section, no less. Pretty sure the activities I enjoy the most are not largely considered "female-related". lol

@nikkishana201

3 жыл бұрын

@@TriggerVisions lol, funny…

thank you for this video helping me to understand myself!

I'm intj and i hate relationships, waste of time.

@kirsten1509

2 жыл бұрын

As a female INTJ I agree. Because of that, I'm beggining to accept that I'll die alone. 😂😂

As an INTJ male I feel like I'm only attracted to these qualities. Sucks that I may never meet one. And if I do they're probably taken or I won't know if they aren't 🤣

@kd1306

3 жыл бұрын

Usually there the quiet ones minding there own business and seem bitchy even tho they ain’t they are nice, they just hate small talk tho

@JD-ku3xt

3 жыл бұрын

I am a female INTJ and have never met anyone else ( male or female) who was INTJ and I live in a so called "smart" nerd city. I think it's a gossipy, overly religious / judgmental city. I assume other INTJ are likely on the spectrum. This makes it difficult to connect and understand if people even like us when they do.

Spot on!

this comment section makes me feel so seen 🥺

I don’t fully believe in astrology but I’m a female INTJ Capricorn. Lmao just IMAGINE

@cosmic_galaxy2206

3 жыл бұрын

Were the same I'm an INTJ Cap too

@wynstansmom829

3 жыл бұрын

@@cosmic_galaxy2206 Gemini Sun, Aquarius Moon, Libra rising the Air signs and so yes, @KimStar28 and @bad_bitch_supremacy In Vedic astrology which is 22 degrees different from Western Tropical astrology, I am a Capricorn Moon. Dhanishta

@natilee1912

2 жыл бұрын

Im an intj gemini :( couldnt be more complicated

@wynstansmom829

2 жыл бұрын

@@natilee1912 lol, I always say 'It is never not complicated'.

@cristianamocanu6412

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, lmao

I actually like being kind of misinderstood and being seen as an independed and outstanding person. It find it interesting that many people find me intimidating by just looking at me. I just know what i want and know what i believe in and getting in a argument with me can get heated while im just being all relaxed in interested in their pov. I really like to have an argument with an less likeminded person since it makes me understand others more and more about the subject while i know what they believe in is not true. It can be frustrating as facts lay right on front of them. When will they learn?

I make all my friends do the mbti at some point (out of fun but really I am trying to analyze them, but I obviously know it's not really science). My three female friends are literally all INFJs. They are the most rare type I believe so it's really amusing but also makes sense that I pick these people as my friends. Also got two ENTJs as guy friends. I just can't really get along with sensing types, lol

@edennis8578

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with the sensing types. To me, they're whole way of looking at the world is different, at how the world should be run, and we'll never agree. It blows my mind that any IN could ever wonder if they're an IS or vice versa.

bisexual intj woman honestly i think it’s an issue with men lol women have always found my intelligence attractive

This is so weridly mysoginistic?

this just described me exactly.

This so accurate and true

This video was very informative. But I’m sorry every time you said females I physically recoiled.🤣🤣

Im proud to be an INTJ 😎

@taramartinez3193

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. 🙂

This is so me :) , being an intj I totally agree to everything said in here.

This is so relatable.

After three official tests, my INTJ personality has got me thinking. Bening watching every KZread video I can lay my hands on to understand this personality, hence me. Explains a lot..a whole lot

This is right on the money for most of your points. I would rather be on my own that be with some who talks about trivial things. It impossible to be something I'm not, there is no pretending, besides, what's the point in pretending?

I'm the only one who's an intj in my class. I dont interact much or gossip about others unnecessarily. Most of the girls in my class are esfps (which is the total opposite of my mbti). Boys are usually estp or intp. I dont talk much with anyone in my class except a few students and recently a girl who's an isfj seemed to get along with me very well. The only problem is that although I wish to have a lot of people who understand me, it's just hard cuz of the fact my personality is so different from others.

Independent to the point where I don't need anyone

I'm intj female and i don't have a lot of friends like other females have, and my family judging me about that.

describes me perfectly

Honestly, I wanna make a friend with someone but, at the same time, i feel bored if someone else near me for a long time.

INTJ-T woman here!!!

@peacefulleopard8016

2 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@cherrycolagames3187

2 жыл бұрын

Same here 🙋‍♀️

Perfect

#6 and 7 are on point oh my hahaha.

I only met one INTJ female and she ended up hating me. I won’t assume it would always end up the same, especially since before the fall we got along amazingly.

Super accurate for me :))))

Yes I just have friends that would really be by my side when I need them, I hate boring and stupid people.

I never feel like I belong…I’d like to make friends but I feel like I’m on such a different wavelength than everyone else… I don’t do small talk, it’s irritating at best. I’m not just going to spend time with people just so I won’t be lonely… no thanks, I’m far better company for myself. I think differently and I make no apologies… I need no one else’s validation as I’m already valid. People seem intrigued by my personality… but at the same time, they don’t know what to do with it.😂

If I acted like an INTJ growing up I would not have gotten away with it. I would have been beaten by my parents or shunned by my peers. I have no clue how some female INTJs exist.

As INTJ female who prefers a relationship with women, it's even harder

wow i was told i am an intj however i didnt believe it untill i listened to this

Absolutely true! I am an INTJ

I'm an Intj ace female with anxiety....in my senior year of highschool and dealing with colleges. Life's not fun right now but at least I know who I am

I always get the archichect INTJ-T personality. I feel very unique.

NGL, as someone who has tested INTJ repeatedly over many years, I hated this video. It honestly made me feel like INTJs are some sort of try hard pick-me girl who gets along with men because it's "easier". I agree with most of the unbiased points but boy were they playing hard into the social stereotypes of what it's like to be a woman.

Omg im 23 and can't take anyone seriously and being is a relationship is like a luxury to me , ironically when i tell this to other people they don't believe me 😅😅

Since I can’t find a man at my age I’m just going to study until I get my career dream job that allows me to travel. Maybe then I’ll find someone since I’ll at least get out of the house more often.

Reading the comments... I can't really think of a way of being "sensitive" while saying this, and we're mostly INTJs here so I think you'll all understand that I say this not for "boasting" purposes, so I'll just say it ouright: I'm really, really glad the first young man I ever dated ended up being my lifelong partner. Honestly, finding people to simply have an **actual** friendship with is hard enough. I can't imagine myself trying to find another person to fall in love with. God knows I've never met anyone else that I had even a vague interest in, and I'm not exactly young anymore.

I'm an INTJ and my fiance is the only one that I actually show my emotional side to. When it comes to romance I'm only dependent on him emotionally since only in that aspect am I " more clingy " but everything else I do by myself unless it's heavy lifting sadly 😅 I don't have actual friends just acquaintances, I don't understand emotions and am currently working on that and my goal is to work as either a manger/boss or have my own business some day if I play my cards right 💁🏻‍♀️

@taramartinez3193

2 жыл бұрын

That's me to a T except I have a few friends and I am studying to be a counselor. I understand emotions and don't have a problem with them. I do however have a problem with the way most people wield their emotions. Especially when they think with their hearts. Ummm brain is for thinking heart is for feeling. Intuition does not count as feelings. Intuition is pattern recognition.

@lejlakoch

2 жыл бұрын

@@taramartinez3193 yeeessss!!

I'm an INTJ-A girl 🥰

As a girl intj I find it easier to be friends with males because females usually find me cold and/or rude ( mostly because of my bland facial expressions or my honesty)

It upsets my female friends that I don’t act advice they give. But that’s their view point because we all the same, no one likes being suggested what to do. Some pretend to be happy to receive and weight it, I hear it out and don’t take it in unless it is something to ponder-but even then it just makes me to analyse the topic/field in general myself and see anything useful, enjoying the analysis, rather than doing anything else 😄 Advice is subjective. They are them, I am me. As are articles about people’s things. If there are actions I do that don’t work towards needed outcome, then I hear out and consider it as an point and again, analyse. At work setting of course I apply what is told-only adjust if is not efficient.

“You can do anything” is certainly not an INTJ mantra if you can apply it to any given person.

I guess all the INTJ females r here😂

I’m an INTJ cancer female but INTJ and cancer contrast to each other so god damn much

@gerrysharman7614

Жыл бұрын

Same here...

It's so relatable....

There are more of me out there???? *shook*

4 one is so true for me

Stop stereotyping females

Talking about feelings means that people will give you feedback/opinion on those (because most listen to reply, not to understand). Feedback that is possibly stressful, or that comes from people whose thoughts you don't care much to begin with. Allowing ourselves to open with our emotional doubts and fears uses energy by itself... Repeatedly doing that with random people would make me want to go back home and straight to sleep. Why would I talk about my feelings with anyone but people I actually trust and that bring out the best in me?

As an INTJ Female i feel tooo solid too talk on yhe net

@alterashwell3698

2 жыл бұрын

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