picking a name for your child is so important, and some ppl don’t understand the magnitude of it when they pick one.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

THIS. THIS. THIS.

@sunmi2539

2 жыл бұрын

Right

@elishkalourenco5253

2 жыл бұрын

Right

@kylewyle4638

Жыл бұрын

I want to Create my own name because I hate the fact that my name doesn't speak for it self my name is Dry and my brain hurts whenever I repeat it Why would you name a Kid Kyle that's stuff is lame my body hurts so much it doesn't even make sense just because of my name

@_stenzk

Жыл бұрын

@@CharlottekwokNO ONE CAN READ MY FUCKING NAME ON PAPER ISTG!!! (Its just 2 syllables) Like i have to say it at least once twice or say it in private when no ones making noise in a loud environment, and also i think names are the most unfair and cruel concept ever created, knowing u could literally be named ANYTHING. Parents are clueless, and its just unnecessary for them to choose the name, if theyre gonna name it should be checked by the government to make sure ppl are able to read it and it doesnt fuck up the kids life growing up.

I changed my name last year I don’t regret it. It’s funny because none of my family support it or respects that I changed my name. My coworkers and friends respect it and have no problem with the adjustment. I totally understand letting go and restarting your life.

@matt4Tad

7 ай бұрын

Wondering from what name to what?

@Sweetlittlebun

7 ай бұрын

Was the process very long?

Honestly, I feel like you just read the pages of my diary out loud. My experience growing up was the same. I have considered changing my name for many years, and the greatest thing that's holding me back is imagining how my environment will react.

@Charlottekwok

3 жыл бұрын

I truly think you should do it! 8 months later I can 100% tell you I'm glad I did. It was hard at the beginning having to tell everyone and there's still some adjustments but if your friends/family care about you they will adapt for you.

I’m Nigerian, I changed my name to Jade when I was 22, for a multitude of reasons but one of them was the difficulty of the name. I totally relate to and understand your reasoning. I’m now 35 and don’t dread anyone reading my name off a list anymore.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! I feel the same and its a huge relief now.

@Fredricjohnson943

2 жыл бұрын

How many is still using your old name Najella 86?

@Naijella86

2 жыл бұрын

@@Fredricjohnson943 It actually came up a few days ago because I was at a family wedding and we were FaceTiming with people in Nigeria and And another person mentioned how she missed my old name and liked the meaning but when I explained my feelings everyone said well as long as you’re happy - but other than that it’s now changed legally and very rarely comes up

@Fredricjohnson943

2 жыл бұрын

@@Naijella86 How Did friends? Family? Work react?

@Naijella86

2 жыл бұрын

@@Fredricjohnson943 When I changed my name I stopped speaking to most people so friends and work was not a problem because I just finished university. So I had a fresh start and just used my new name. And family some of them were more accepting than others but almost everyone now calls me by my preferred name

I completely relate! my name has always caused me internal conflict and i have always been back and forth on changing it

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

I say do it!

I know exactly how you feel with regards to growing up and feeling "othered" during attendance :( And as an adult, feeling held back because of my name. I haven't done a KZread, social media, or even started a business because of my name. I tried but I was still hiding behind a nickname that is more of a masculine name I don't want. I'm filling out my name change forms tonight and feeling nervous but excited about the woman I will become + the endless possibilities

@Charlottekwok

3 жыл бұрын

wow thank you SO much for sharing your story with me. I hope that you'll feel comfortable doing the things you wanted to do once you get to use your new name!

This is a sign for me! The day you recorded this is my birthday. And I’m currently 25! Thank you! I have been seriously thinking hard about changing my name. Simply because I want to.

Love it Charlotte 💜💜💜 so proud of you for doing what you want to do. It’s YOUR decision and no one else’s.

I love your new name, it fits you. I have been dealing with the exact same thing for years with my name and I am finally in the process of changing my name. I wasn't laughing at your experience but I laughed because I felt the same way during attendance, graduations, and even at work as a nurse they always completely butcher my name. It is embarrassing as hell and it's like they don't even try. I am so mad my parents gave me a ghetto name, granted I am very successful in life for the most part but your name does play a part in your success. My brother has an easy name, Charles. I don't know why parents always try to get so creative with the girl's name and ruin it. I do feel judgement from my mom for wanting to change my name but I want to do this for myself. I want to feel a newfound confidence and become a new person. My old name is associated with so much trauma and bad mistakes. I just need a fresh start. It is a process and I am slowly starting to use my name such as new emails when I order things online and food etc; to get a feel for it. Thanks for posting my love!

I really loved this video. I'm changing my name from Breanna to Koda at the age of 24, mostly due to me not identifying with my gender. I've been going by Bree for years, but as I've discovered my nonbinary identity, I've felt more and more like the name Bree isn't quite right either. I chose to change my first and middle name to Koda Grey because of how gender neutral it feels. It just feels like the right name for me, and I couldn't care less what anybody else has to say about it! Now I just need to make the legal change :)

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

So proud of you! It'll take time to get used to but you're gonnna be so happy!

@doloreserin

2 ай бұрын

I love Koda it's neat and also has a musical reference. In music a coda can be an ending or a beginning. Dolores

@doloreserin

2 ай бұрын

I love Koda it's neat and also has a musical reference. In music a coda can be an ending or a beginning. Dolores

Thank you for sharing this video Charlotte. I’m 17 I decided on a new name I got tired of carrying on this identity that didn’t fit me. It feels so liberating not being held down by my name. Although now I struggle with old friends still attached to my old name. It’s funny though because when I introduce myself to others now they call me by name, something that almost never happened with my ethnic name.

I’m finally changing my name legally, after talking to myself so for years, to Victoria Megan Ofelia.That’s amazing

@Charlottekwok

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!! So happy for you!! it's worth it!!

Watching this in 2024 after finally having changed my name at 19. I can relate to every word you are saying about the old name holding you back and representing a version of you that you don’t relate to and don’t want to be. My parents are, understandably, angry at me for changing the name that they gave me and it feels a little strange to have to tell friends and family about it. However, as you said, it is something we do for ourselves and we should really do what makes US happy and live the life that WE want. Hope you are doing well❤️

@Happysoul_3

5 ай бұрын

Hey girl I am about to turn 23. I never liked my name. I want to change my name just worried about the peoples reaction. I want to keep it as a secret and feel that only new people whom I get connected with know about my name. Something is stopping me😢

Thank you for being so transparent and honest! So many people can relate!

Im sorry that you were bullied. You seem like such a sweet person. Im glad you are working toward happiness!!!!! God bless you!!!!

I relate to this video sooo much!!! I just feel like my current name no longer serves me, I will be changing it next month!! So excited for new beginnings 😊

My first name isn't horrible but I never felt like it fit me. I loved my middle name from when I was a child. I had always wished it was my first name. My mom and I never got along because she is a narcissist. I have removed myself from her. My relationship with my dad has always been good. When I asked for his blessing on legally changing my name he asked me "do you know who picked that name for you before you were born?" He told me he did. So he was more than happy with the change even though he felt bad that my name wouldn't be what it is now. But he is happy it'll be my middle name instead. I'm 48, wish I would've known I could change it sooner.

thank you a lot for sharing this story. I'm so grateful that I found this video I am on the journey of changing my name which I've been always believing that this is my fate in life, but now.. I no longer think this way because I am aware that I am the only one responsible for my future and my future does not have this old identity. my story is unique actually, I lived my whole 22 years by two names, one from my mother's side and the other from my dad's and there was a huge argument when I was born, and I have really been struggling in my childhood. this misery ENDS now.

fantastic video. Thank you! Your story really resonated with me and I appreciate your courage to share.

I'm changing my name next year. I told my parents about my decision and they said to sit on it, so for them, I will do that, but I don't think my decision is going to change. I have a simple yet pretty name in mind that I will be easier to pronounce and feels more like me. It will be a difficult process, but well worth it.

I can totally relate to your story :) I have a name that my Korean parents gave me but everybody goes with my "nickname" Layla, so I sometimes feel shame for myself for having two names and kinda hiding my own legal name. Especially when it comes to legal documents and school. However, I really like my name and I think changing my name could give me more confidence! Before I watched this video, I thought I was the only one who wanted to change my name, so thank you for making this video! It really helped me a lot :)

@omarshinwari7823

2 жыл бұрын

Layla is a popular name in my ethnic group. Lot of girls called it. used in romantic songs

@sirrykr1679

8 ай бұрын

You could consider aldingarðinum "Layla" as your first name, if that would help.

I feel you. You just gave me hope to make me change my name.

Love the new name of Charlotte ❤️❤️❤️

GO CHAR ♥️♥️♥️ love you!

Awww I'm so happy for you!!!

Dear Charlotte, thank you so much for this video. I have been struggling with the same thing and the way you speak really touched me and made me cry. You said so many wise things that completely shifted my mindset from "what will people think of me" to "I need to do this for MYSELF". I wanted to ask you whether you had any sources to recommend, like books you read to make up your mind or shift your mindset or something like that. I would be very grateful. Thank you!

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much for your kind comment and I'm really happy this resonated with you! I don't know if there was a certain book that convinced me.. but if my video and me doing it sends any message at all.. it's that you CAN do it and everything will be okay!

Thank you for giving me courage to do the same. Autonomy is so powerful, and learning about your change is amazing. Many blessings to you!! Thank you x 1mil!!

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

You got this!

Charlotte, I love your name! it's so pretty and beautiful. I have always felt my name doesn't fit ever since I was 5. My given name isn't hard to pronounce, but everyone always calls me Melissa instead. I've been going by Dolores since 2019 and want to make it official by legally changing it. My family absolutely hates it, which is why I haven't changed it so far. I feel so happy every time I introduce myself as Dolores, I've even been told it's pretty. Thank you for giving me the courage to revisit this again. Dolores

This speaks to my soul. I’m in the process of changing my name, I’m Jamaican and refuse to even say what my mom named me... I thought I was the only one, thank you for sharing your story. I’m more confident than ever before moving forward with the process!❤

@Naijella86

Жыл бұрын

Good luck to you. I’m Nigerian and changed my name

@Tee.Tee11

Жыл бұрын

I’m Jamaican too and I’ve been thinking about changing my name because all my life when people see my name it’s always “how do you pronounce it?” “Why did your mother give you that name” and honestly my parents never ever use it it only comes up when it’s legal stuff or when I was in school. Everyone uses my nickname. It’s unique and some say the like it but I don’t know when people ask for my full name I sometimes feel embarrassed but I also feel kinda scared to change it because I don’t want my family to look at me weird and feel like they would still use my old nickname..and also I don’t know what name would suit me since I’m so used to my current I mean that may be an unimportant reason… but I’m glad to know there’s other people especially from the same culture as me doing it too!!

@doloreserin

2 ай бұрын

I've always felt my name never fit me, ever since I had to introduce myself in school, I tried on lots of names before I found Dolores. I love The Cranberries and their lead singer was named Dolores. I'd suggest trying on names and use them and see which one fits you best. I've used Dolores since 2019, just have to find the courage to change it. My family hates it and makes fun of me for it. They refuse to use it and call me by my childhood nickname. Good luck on your path. Dolores

Thankyou Charlotte for your inspiring story. I am inspired to go ahead with changing my name and risk others rejection. After all it's my life. Blessings to you.

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

You wont regret it. 3 years later and this was one of the best decisions i made. Live for your own happiness!

True to yourself well done x Edit. Wow you have really inspired me.

You so look like a Charlotte! ☀️

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

thank you love!

@bobbyallen4555

Ай бұрын

yeah she looks very European

Well done on good video. I am here a bit late but still a good video. As a teenager I considered to add a second name, as I only have one, but never went through it. But good for you to move on forward, new name and all. Congrats.

Amazing video! I am starting the name changing process now and your story definitely inspired me to keep going. 🙏🏼❤️

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

You are so beautiful! And you look like a Charlotte. 💝💝💖💖💖🥰🥰🥰 Everyone should take control of their life. 👏👏👏

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you for making this, i also have a old name that serves no purpose, timid, a terrible past, you are a blessing c:

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

Do the right thing for yourself and dont worry about what others think. You wont regret it.

Yes yes yes!!!!!! I’m changing my name too! This was affirming!!

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

Happy for you!!

Yessss Charlotte!

Second and your gorgeous by the way and I like Bokei I studied Chinese in high school so I hope you know you have a fan yay lol good video Charlotte

👏👏👏 Congratulations Charlotte! I will have my neutralization with an full name changed next week. I really scared how people will feel weird about it especially at work. I need to find how to deal with it and make them respect to my choice.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Don't be scared. Remember that we cannot control other peoples' reactions, neither should we let their reactions influence our decisions. It's your life! Good luck!

@sonofmercury8310

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for support. I have a question how should I reply those people that I try to influenced me.

Thank you so much for sharing this! I am a guy literally in the same situation as you right now. I am 25 years old and also have a very asian name. I noticed that as we get older, people are less open to make new friends. When it comes to online dating, I noticed a huge difference when I used the exact same pictures with a different name. I would instead use part of my name which kind of looks more western and I would feel guilty as I am kind of lying to a potential future partner. I find it really unfair on how I am being judged just because of a name and I have been debating to change it for a while now. My fears are how will my facebook, instagram friends and linkedin connections react. Suddenly one day I just magically become a John or Eric and also I still have one year of university left so its kind of a hassle to change my name. I'm really thinking of moving to a new city, change my name and start fresh. I want to thank you again for sharing this as now I know I am not the only one struggling with our name identities.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story, and I completely empathize with you. I never felt connected to my old name because I was more aligned with the western culture and i felt it held me back socially. If you feel convicted to change it, DO IT! You won't regret it!

@willowsrot

Жыл бұрын

literally my exact situation, especially with dating. ive felt bad 'lying' to ex partners about my name and having to explain to them the situation of it. i recently changed my name and it just feels like weight lifted off of my shoulders. i didnt change it to run away from a lie, but more so because ive resonated with the preferred name for years beforehand. but nonetheless i cant be happier than i am now.

I am sooooo prod of you. I understand everything you were saying necause this is has been my story. I am in the process of my name change. Thank you a Million for sharing this it is so meaniful to me.

this is just on everyone. If they like theyres name then ok keep it but if ur not comfortable with it then theres nothing wrong wirh changing it

I feel you my name is Hali, and everyone has always pronounced it wrong. I'm finally changing it to HAILEE

im a new subscriber, thank you so much for sharing your story. made me feel seen

I have a similar problem with my own name, and a few months back something happened to me that drove me over the edge a bit to the point that I feel I need a complete life overhaul as part of my own self improvement. Changing my name has become a goal of my own.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Do it for YOU!

@theydontcallmedemocrewforn9457

6 ай бұрын

Same but it’s way more difficult over here

Love your journey of triumph. Sincerely, new subby

Currently my surname is legally "Elbadawi" 🤢🤢💔 I never liked it, I'm 21. I would like to change it to "Silva" , socially some of my friends know about my name change ,I want to do it but it's an expensive process so I have to wait until I have the money for it. I would have to get a new passport, bank card and some other things. I was born into a Muslim family unfortunately and I don't identify with Islam, it's not me so by keeping my surname i feel trapped , it doesn't feel like me. I want to be my own person, i want to have a fresh start, I want to be reborn with a name that will make me feel good, I don't want to be associated with Islam.

@Catitalaratoncita

2 жыл бұрын

Oh mine is Silva, however I like my second surname Leal better.

Thank you for this video. Reading the comments with so many ppl in similar circumstances makes me feel more normal now because I always hated my given name which was Margaret. I just always hated it and felt like somethings not right about being referred to as that. I changed my name when I was about 23 to Sapling cuz I felt like it resonated with me. My whole family makes fun of it and always tell me to love Margaret lol…which I can’t. I’m turning 28 next month and I’m considering changing it again. Was thinking Alison. Alison was one of the name choices for me but wasn’t chosen so that’s high on my list. And this time I won’t answer to my given name. I read comments on a blog post about family not accepting your new name and that u should just keep reminding them and to never respond to your old name and eventually they’ll have to accept it. Sorry to anyone who always felt like they hated their name, it’s not something that ppl are able to fathom but it’s been a huge part of my mental activity my whole life and very stressful to go through

@Happysoul_3

3 ай бұрын

Did you changed your name again?

I have the same experience with my name, not necessarily the pronunciation, but because people most times assume I am female before seeing me, a few times people even address me as Miss… so like you I am seriously thinking of legally changing my name.

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

Life is too short to not live happily and comfortable in your own skin.. it's a transition to change it but i can say it was truly worth it

Girl, same...I'm in school and don't even respond to my name during registration.....I'm mentally drained on it right now and I have to go back to school tomorrow.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear love. Know that you can always change it!

Charlotte is a beautiful name, it fits you. You also look like a Summer.

Nice vid Charlotte! My birth name is Oliver. I don’t want to have a common name for I want to be unique. I’m son of Bolivian indigenous parents living in Sweden. And whenever I meet Swedish or British people named Oliver it pains me knowing we have the same name when we are completely different people. Also my ancestors were slaughtered and enslaved by Europeans and I change my name to honor my people and me. Most Bolivians use colonial Spanish name and with my name change I would even be unique in my motherland. But I will keep my second name Davíd to honor and always remember my parents. It would feel wrong to completely erase this connection. I’m in the process of changing my name to the indigenous name Mallku(Mayku) and i have never felt more convinced and relieved.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

That's amazing! All the best.

I listen to your Story as I’m 42 and thinking about it too I was bullied and hate my name! Because it doesn’t fit my ethnicity or culture. So I’m leaning to changing it.

@Charlottekwok

Жыл бұрын

I thought about whether I want to be unhappy for the rest of my life, or stick with my old name just because it was comfortable. I'm so glad i changed it at the end.

Hey Charlotte, just came across to see your video, coz i have been looking for videos that talks about the name change, I m in the process of getting my name change, I hope the authority will let me change it legally... I m touched about what you said, especially the past you want to let go...

This is so relatable. I love my name but we cant fight the reality of white supremacy we can only live with it. Changing your name isn't a sign of weakness or shame its adapting to survive & thrive. People will look at your name and instantly skip it because its an inconvience to try and pronounce it. They will treat you as lesser compared to your peers. I love the name your parents gave you and think it is great but I totally understand why you felt the need to change it.

What a nice honest video! Why don't you upload a video on how to change your name in Ontario? like the steps and paper works? I'm sure there are plenty of people who will find that helpful.

This is so relatable, I felt like you described my life. I want a less ethnic name and also one that isn't religious as I'm an Atheist.

Your Chinese name is so cute. I totally get why you would want to use a Westernized name to make things easier though. I’m in the process of adding a Yoruba name to my name, to honor my ancestors. My ancestors didn’t have a choice, their African names were stripped from them. Awesome for you though! Charlotte is such a beautiful name.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Naijella86

2 жыл бұрын

I commented earlier, it’s funny you feel this way because I had a completely Yoruba name and I just absolutely loathed it, everyone is so different in the world

@-kappa-

Жыл бұрын

@@Naijella86 yeah i also have an african hate that i completely hate lol

@jadesingleton4110

Жыл бұрын

Changing mine too an Igbo name for the same reason. We were given enslaved names and I hate it.

I am going through the same thing, I am changing my name by this Monday

For me it’s so interesting because my problem with my name is that it’s just always been too common. Always wanted a name that I didn’t need to share with 5 other people, so I was thinking about adding my middle name to my first. I understand why my mom wanted a common name though, since my mom has a less common name. However I also remember having issues with my name in childhood because I was briefly “big Megan” due to being older & taller, or having everyone be Megan h., Megan s., Megan a.. I guess I can thank the other Megan (same last name) that my apartment application ended up mixed up with for making me realize that

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

appreciate you sharing your experience! I definitely think there are both sides of the coin and when I was choosing a name for myself I did consider avoiding names that were too common too. Your idea of adding your middle name is a great one!

Hey Charlotte, I def love ur name, I'll be changing mine as well, trouble is now what will be my last name hahaha!

Omgggg i feel everything you said😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I also want to change my name and live my life!!!!!! Leave my past behind me!!! 💜🤍✨

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

You can do it! There is always place for a fresh start!

Man i thought iam only had this problem. What you said exactly described my experience. When teacher calling your name during attendance that felt like hell. Iam turning 25 i dont i want change my even though i hate. Nobody in world know i hate my name even my parents, slibling.

@Happysoul_3

5 ай бұрын

I am about to turn 23. Want to change my name as I really dont like it since childhood. Hope i get guts and strength to change. I was just chance an alphabet to my name until now for numerology purpose.

Awsome content.. thanks for sharing. How did you narrow down you go about name searching and narrowing down your options? Thank you. Also Great choice it fits you and sounds friendly and likable.

I can definitely relate to your story. I’ve been debating doing the same. My mother gave me an African name but the female spelling of it. However, since everyone (even family) has pronounced my name incorrectly my entire life, I go by my nickname

@joharidouglas3848

9 ай бұрын

Same, I was given an African name that is very masculine and not well accepted in Jamaica but my middle name is much worst than my first and even has a negative meaning in an African language.

@SoulTouchathePoet

9 ай бұрын

@@joharidouglas3848 Oh wow. So how have you dealt with it personally all your life. My name has only been an issue because of it being difficult for some to pronounce. But since most people call me by my nickname it's no big deal. I recently had an African guy in my military unit mention it to me and he jokes me about it but it's all in fun.

I went through and am still going through a similar experience. I finally decided to go through the name change process with an attorney bc of how complicated my state makes it. If u don’t mind me asking , when you changed ur name did u also change ur birth certificate? With people born in the US, apparently it’s optional and they can just get it amended instead of a new one, but when ur foreign born it’s so difficult Bc it’s a completely different process and much more complicated.

@Charlottekwok

2 жыл бұрын

I haven't changed it legally yet, only professionally and personally

You are beautiful!!!

I also want to change my name. Grew up hating my name especially in elementary and high school. What I find interesting is I am also 25 there is something about the age of 25, quarter life crisis maybe? Great video tho.

I have the same problem only difference is i am still having problems with it in university a professor messed up saying my name and got the entire lecture laughing at me

Thank you ❤️

I so wanna change my name as I'm tired of being ignored or forgotten... I have a nice and unique name. But the only benefit I have gotten out of it, is occasional compliments. But other than that, I have only had disadvantages. Always forgotten, despite my efforts. I don't know what to do...

@doloreserin

2 ай бұрын

Maybe you can try on different names and see which one fits you. I hate my given name, it's why I'm Dolores everywhere I can be. Having chosen my name, I feel a lot more confident, I hope that helps.

Man, my story was just like yours... For me though, I'm changing my name legally as soon as I cut my mom out of my life lol. My friends already call me the name I like which is Mae

Beautiful soul ❤

i have the name that i really like in my ethnic language. but that is not common in environment that i live. and people dont even prounounce it right and struggling to adapt my name. its a kinda weired for that environment and i am feeling so ashamed and depressed over it. and when i decided to change it i really feel bad because i think that my dad will feel sad

This is me but with my last name. My first name is foreign but never really had any problems with it. But my last name made me scared to get my name announced in school and stuff

Thoughtful.

Waiting to change my name at 18 for a big personal reason. Still waiting at 17 just to legally change it which will take a while. I feel like I'm becoming a new person.

@user-uw6kw4vv7e

Жыл бұрын

same. what name are u changing to

@kvzxn4131

Жыл бұрын

@@user-uw6kw4vv7e damn its been 7 months already. My birthday is next month and i actually decided to keep my name -.- i wouldn't feel the same without my original name lol was going to change it to noah but now im not..

@kvzxn4131

Жыл бұрын

@@user-uw6kw4vv7e my name is kazana but i thought of changing it to kizana

A submission from Virginia, U.S. says the name Boki means "Blessings" and is of Korean origin. Says google. Blessings to the blessing.

I don’t like my name because it just never fit me in my opinion I’ll be changing my name next year but from this day on I’ll be going by Dyani. It also matches with my Native American heritage that I’m trying to reconnect with.

@OliBolivia

2 жыл бұрын

Nice hearing other brothers and sister are changing their names to unite with their heritage. I’m changing to Mallku, a name based in Aymara and Quechua culture, SA.

@blazeofficial6292

Жыл бұрын

Did you change it yet?

I changed my name when i was adopted after my parent's death 8 years ago My initial name was "mohamed" and i changed it mostly because it was a religious name And now my name is aiden

Thanks for sharing this

May I know that if I change my name will it effect on me from getting my job ( bcz in all of my certificates there would be my old name!) plz I need to know!!!

Never seen such relatable comment section. I started changing my name today because i really hate my official name which is Dorcas😭😱 to Dorah. It has held me back so long and I hate it so much. I wish all goes well.

@dorahmulinge3800

7 ай бұрын

Update. I changed my name finally. Waiting for my new ID

@theydontcallmedemocrewforn9457

6 ай бұрын

@@dorahmulinge3800congratulations i am happy its that easy for u

@Happysoul_3

5 ай бұрын

Did you changed on linkedin and other and other social platforms?

@dorahmulinge3800

5 ай бұрын

@@Happysoul_3 yes, I changed my name on LinkedIn, my other social media handles I don't use my real name. Also, my new ID will be out in 10 days. The journey was totally worth it

@dorahmulinge3800

5 ай бұрын

@@Happysoul_3 yes I did on LinkedIn Other social media platforms I use my nicknames, I didn't change

I want to change my name at 18 im 17 since im going to be a realestate agent and realestate is connection based and people knowing eachoter i figure its best to change it before I know anyone so they will all know me as my new name from Steven Hunter I go by Hunter to Wyatt , Grayson , Parker

Where did you get the necklace? Pretty.

I want to change my name. Can you guide me the process or any agent who can help me with that. Thank you.

Hello how does it feel now to change your name

How much cost of each letter??

your original name is beautiful. BOKA does have meaning.

Awesome How many people do still use your old name?

@Charlottekwok

3 жыл бұрын

None of them!

I also want to do that 😢

Thanks very much for sharing your journey. I was wondering how you get others who have known you as your old name to start using or accept your new name. I have wanted to change my name for a few years now but I'm wondering how I can deal with that in the work place. My boss, my coworkers, my friends. If you have any pointers it would be much appreciated. Thanks

@Naijella86

5 ай бұрын

I know you didn’t ask me but I changed my name almost 16 years ago now and within a month I got people to start calling me by my preferred name - all you have to do is just refuse to answer to your former name and they will soon get bored of using it especially when no one responds

@dreamfighter3254

5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing that. That's a good strategy, straight forward, to the point.@@Naijella86

So.... I agree with you and all, but, let me put you in my situation. Imagine being named after your father/mother. My parents didn't even think of a name for me and my dad literally just named me after himself without putting any thought into it. This has seriously been an issue for me my whole life because I don't feel unique or myself at any instance. I'm always feeling as if he expects me to follow onto his footsteps and its always been so irritating having the same name, whenever my mom calls my name sometimes I don't even know if he's calling me or my dad. Like at least add an abbreviation like Jr. or something... smh. Also my name is long and its so common. I know it's pretty popular but that's just the thing, having a very common name is boring quite literally. I'm 100% sure people named Alejandro/Alex or Alejandra/Alexa or Alexander/Alexandra or any similar name would agree with me. Cuz that's my situation. There's just so many people named like this. This one time I was ordering food at Cane's they asked me for the name of the order and I said Alex and they were like.."another one really?, We GOt AnotHeR ALeX ComINg uP". That's frustrating. I mean ya'll get the point. I'm sure there are any other common names out there. I just wish I had a different name.

@Charlottekwok

Ай бұрын

You won't regret changing it. I assure you, 4 years later

Are you still making more videos

Where are you from? Its difficult in my country

Im ethnic with an extremely ghetto name. I hate it. And my sister has the most basic name. I'm definitely changing mines. I'm In my 30s now.

@Naijella86

Жыл бұрын

Did you ever ask your parents why they gave you such a name?

my real name is justine, I am an girl so I hate it so much. Can I change it?

I was thinking today to maybe try and change my name and was talking with my mom about it, she asked me why cuz my name is so beautiful : Sardar. But this name I have nothin against this "name" although it's more like a title, and it's used as a title of nobility and royalty and it's of Persian origin. I do not see my personality fitting this name, I have no such leadership qualities, I don't think I deserve it, besides it's very unusual for my part of the world. And everyone being suprised by my name like "Wow Sardar what a name" and blah blah. Also mispronouncing and butchering it, and I'm tired of explaining it. I was thinking to go by the name Joseph, because I personally like this name, besides it has a corelation with a biblical person, who was loyal to God, and I want to try to be like that, besides in 2021 I had some depressive states and like in late 2021 early 2022 I started to try to reset my life and to change my habits although I still need to work on it, and I don't want anything to remind me of my past, including my name. I am still thinking of it not to make such a rush decision cuz it's also involves legal action you know, changing the name of my documents and etc. Yeah maybe it's not about the name and more like my actions that define my personality, but still, I am just kind of done with it, just because people always ask me, "what's the origin?" "where you from?" "it's very unusual like you ain't from here" - a teacher thought I am a foreign student lol . I want a more subtle name, I am done with being in the center of attention I don't want to be highlighted with such a name. Maybe it's just how I feel now and I shouldn't make a decision based on emotions- I will think about it- but still, this name reminds me of my past and only bad memories. It might be hard for my parents to get used to it hah, cuz my current name links many memories for them. I am not sure so I just take my time and think about it before making this decision.

I want to change my name because I want to shed my European name and change it to an African name

@ANONYMOUS-zy3cd

2 жыл бұрын

Where in Africa?