Anyone who's refusing or avoiding to marry you for any reason, they're literally refusing to marry you, you need no other reason to not be there. Simple as that. Don't have a child with someone who doesn't want to marry you. That's it.

@liorajimenez3085

11 ай бұрын

Don't have a child with anyone you're not married to - better yet, christians should not have sex with someone you're not married to.

@karitetube

11 ай бұрын

​ Nb:%‰

@rbreezyyy

11 ай бұрын

Yes, it’s so simple.

@jessejules2092

11 ай бұрын

Not really. The principle itself is straight forward. Working this out in one's life is not always so straight forward in my experience. It took me 20 plus years to learn how to treat myself with great respect and to give up my addiction to unhealthy relationships.

@ddnick

11 ай бұрын

She's a 304 , he knows about her past now he gonna play by his rules. He's smart guy. Divorce laws are biased af Don't blame the player blame the game

Bindi is just falling in love all over again - she is so proud of her husband :)

@fuzbcuz7613

11 ай бұрын

@ 15:15 she's looking at him like she's thinking she's glad she married him so she can take him to the bedroom after this video 😆

@ClaudetteDuPont7

11 ай бұрын

Lol exactly!!! So sweet

Cameron told you ladies straight up! If a man wants to marry you HE WILL! If he doesn’t waiting 10 years probably won’t help. My husband married me 6 months after he met me.

@krissyhall2838

11 ай бұрын

Preach!This guy kept saying can we be friends in Jesus after I asked where this was going after a 1year.

@BQ900

11 ай бұрын

@@krissyhall2838 one year is long enough to decide unless he’s only 18.

@Frugal637

11 ай бұрын

I thought this was common sense

@yasminekipasa38

11 ай бұрын

please help me sent this to everyone, my man is in trouble. Good evening sir I'am the woman you are talking about on youtube. You are talking about the wrong man stop it please. He didn't abuse me. They put him in someone else place please stop talking about him😭😭

@JourneyofLele

11 ай бұрын

@@Frugal637common sense is not so common

If you are in sin and you are a man of God you try to get out of sin not stay in sin.

Your husband is very wise. Was pleasantly surprised by his replies.

@Jenny-fl5cn

11 ай бұрын

Bindi is a wise woman. Like attracts like.

Nice to hear the male perspective on this as well. My heart goes out to this young woman.

My husband and I got married after 8 years together and 2 kids. We both had baggage, we both had difficultés. We've now turned our lives around and celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary in July. Because of past experiences and mistakes we both found it hard to commit but we got there. HOWEVER, I still absolutely agree with what Bindi and her husband are saying.

Amen! Thank you dear sister and brother. This is soooo true, I have 2 children out of wedlock I thought that this "believer" would marry me because we had 2 kids together. It took me 3 years to accept I was in open rebellion and to repent without going backwards in that I had to allow God to break that soul tie and heal that area in my life.

@kJ-wd9wk

11 ай бұрын

Same sis! Thank God for his restoration and healing power! Two children out if wedlock we were engaged for a year, God woke me up and brought me to my wilderness for deliverance and healing and even though it has been so hard I'm so thankful for my salvation and sake, but as well as for my young girls❤

@marketa4074

11 ай бұрын

Must have been hard ❤️‍🩹

@breontaeg.7248

11 ай бұрын

@@marketa4074 Absolutely but I knew and still know today that the Lord is my strength.

@breontaeg.7248

11 ай бұрын

@@kJ-wd9wk Amen! Amen sis. The Lord is good. He has a good and perfect plan for you and your girls.

@noxolondlela8843

11 ай бұрын

Same sis . I had to choose my salvation not my "supposed" family

This is good. I didn't understand all of this at first. Along my walk with God I started to understand. Nobody would never be perfect for marriage. It's about growing together. Walking with God together and becoming close to perfect as you can. And accomplishing God's mission together.

This is solid christian advice. Unwatered down and straight facts. We need more advice like this in our community and more people softening their hearts being willing to listen and implement it. Too many people dismiss this type of advice because it doesnt tickle their itching ears. We all need to hold ourselves up to a higher biblical standard and stop being so wishy-washy with our faith and lifestyles. Speaking from experience.

To add to the conversation. Sometimes, men will marry quickly because they are afraid to be alone! They DON'T want to do the introspective work and grow. Therefore, the next woman that comes along he will commit to because he knows that's what a lot of women want anyway. Don't be upset or disappointed when a man or women moves on quickly because that's a HUGE red flag!!! How are you going to waste years of your life along with someone else's then get married months later?! That's INSANE!! He or she didn't happen upon the love of their life and changed that quickly!! They intentionally chose that person to make it seem like it was possibly the other person's fault that they didn't marry them!! To each their own but I would definitely be cautious of someone that does that!!!

Not you guys cute together 😂. I love the banter. And bindi 's expression when he drops bars😅

‘Doesn’t have the ability to be convicted’ ….yes!!! I think this is how you can quickly identify who’s actually for God,

Man.... like Bindi said, "ooo chile!" Your husband wasted no time. He was calling this out. This was an encouragement for me to wait to the man God has for me and not settle. This was so good that I need to watch it again. Please keep these up Bindi. The man's perspective is so valuable.

Jesus thank you for creating a platform where we can witness such a beautiful marriage here that honors and exalts your perfect Word! Amen

"God is not mocked"

A lot of struggling believers haven’t had the revelation that God does the washing. The wife is hilarious omg 🤣 I love her reactions 🤣🤣🤣 I genuinely am Glad God blessed us with men. They are so wise.

The funny thing is I shared with my husband what this women went through and the entire scenario and my husband actually said the very thing your husband said. Like every point he made my husband touched on that. Men really know men.

The first minute is ALL lots of women need to listen to TODAY

AWESOME! PLEASE CONTINUE THESE TYPE OF DISCUSSIONS! PLEASE CONTINUE TO ALLOW PEOPLE TO PRESENT THEIR SITUATION FOR BIBLICAL ANALYSIS AND BIBLICAL ADVISE! I capitalized because this video is worthy of all caps!

@szim5551

11 ай бұрын

I absolutely agree!

Wow! ❤ Your first video was So good! But your husband added such a great perspective from a true godly man’s view point.

You did such a wonderful job responding to her question. I didn’t think it could get better BUT what your husband said was biblical sound and wonderfully put! You two are so wonderful and the love for the Lord you both have is so amazing!!! Kingdom marriage!!! Yesss!!! I really adore you guys❤❤❤❤. God bless.

@ARareGEM2890

11 ай бұрын

I agree. Grateful to God as a result of praying over my phone, divine guidance over what I engage over the Internet, www and the few social media/ influencers that I currently engage: I appreciate Bindi channeled blessings including the lovely dress I purchased.

My favourite Christian couple❤❤❤❤I love you guys so much

@overcome76

11 ай бұрын

Mine too!

This was awesome! Cameron(sp?) brought much-needed wisdom and insight from a Christ-centered man’s perspective. I got chills listening to him. Bravo!

Bindi, I absolutely love you’re channel and content. You’re a very no nonsense person and I love that your husband takes it to another level. You didn’t even get 10 seconds into the question and he already knew what the deal was. Seeing things for what they are right away is needed in our society today so we can stop wasting each others time, playing house, “testing out the waters” and dragging people along in these relationships that aren’t leading to marriage. As your sister in Christ, I appreciate your honesty and straightforwardness to help your sisters in Christ rise to the standards of the Lord instead of trying to make the Bible fit into our ever changing world

BARS!! Watching this after Bindi's perspective was the cherry on top! And to think there's a continuation... My mind is blown

You guys brought it! My heart goes out to the young lady. I hope she is receptive to the wisdom. The truth brought in love can only heal.

Hype your man, Sis!!!! Cause the first 5 mins, he taught up in here. He opened my mind to something i never thought of

I normally don’t watch stuff like this, but as I’m getting back into my faith walk, I’m also applying it to my dating life. This is great information & insight. ❤️

This was excellent but the best part was watching Bindi's reaction to her husband's "bars". 🤣 My grandmother told me, "when a person shows you who they are - believe them". Best advice ever.

Lord bless the wisdom of this young man! Cam, you are truly a man of God!! I love both of your honesty and hearts for God. May He continue to bless you! 🙏

A thought just occurred to me: When the LW says that her boyfriend has been teaching her to not take out her trauma with other men on him, I bet that what he's calling "taking it out on him" is her expressing boundaries and expectations. Like she says "no, I don't want to have sex with you, this isn't right", and he responds "that's just your trauma talking, don't punish my by withholding sex because of what happened in your past". I just feel like this is a first class manipulator and it makes me really sick. He's using not just her past abuse, but also weaponizing her religion against her by using faith to keep her with him (promising future marriage and a "godly household", etc). He intentionally sought out someone with a lot of trauma and mental health issues, because he knows that a woman from a strong family with a strong sense of self wouldn't put up with this crap. He knows she's in a weak position, desperate for affection after being cut off from her parents, and can be made to doubt herself.

The problem here is she had a child by him. That makes it so VERY HARD to walk away. But, yes it’s an unbeliever and it will likely be a VERY HARD marriage. Pick your hard.

@canelareina3795

11 ай бұрын

Why is he an unbeliever and she a Christian? They both are fornicating, and she is mentally ill, has issues and is disrespectful.

Oh thank God for this video! I wish so much I had seen this before I got married. I am one of those that got with a man who wasn't a believer... all I can say is that the tears are never far. Its hard y'all. Look to God and actually obey. God actually told me not to do it, but I married him anyways because I wanted to help him. Now I know that is not a reason to get married. Marriage is serious, lets not be foolish.

@daughterofenoch677

11 ай бұрын

Never heard anything so strange. You married a man out of God's will to "help him" ?

@daughterofenoch677

11 ай бұрын

Oh ? Was he illegal ?

Wow!! What a wonderful video! Cam is dead on! I really pray that he is disciplining other young men in your local church. His very practical and straightforward mindset is what our young men in our churches need. This is absolutely golden! God bless you guys!

Heavy sigh with hugs to all the Sista's who don't know their worth. Been there BUT (Drumroll) God speaks to how valuable you are to Him, through His love letter the bible. Discover your worth, remember your worth, add tax! You are NOT a placeholder.♥

Words cannot express how much I appreciate seeing two godly and sound people speak TRUTH in LOVE. My prayers go out to the woman who sent that email. May you use wisdom (and not emotions) and discernment in your decisions and may you ultimately find healing in our Lord.

It is refreshing to hear a young couple think the way you guys think. you are doing a great service to us. May God bless your Channel.

Literally my favorite couple on YT. They speaks the truth . Especially The 💯"flewed out" 📹 = 😭 😂 🃏

Wonderful video! What’s more amazing, my husband had already watched it when I went to show it to him.

Wooow. They both give so much insight!

Thank you so much Cameron for the words of wisdom...Thank you so much Bindi for the platform of learning.😊💜💜

This is awesome! Praise the Lord! But seriously, the look on Bindi's face when Cam went in, was priceless! God bless both of you

It’s so sweet how Bindi hypes up her husband. Also, completely agree with everything you guys said!

I'm enjoying these videos with the two of you sharing your perspectives. It is a good example for young women (and possibly young men watching too) of what a Christian marriage should look like. Thank you for sharing.

Thank you Bindi :) Your husband is very wise, just as you are, and your chemistry is so elegant and beautiful with him. He also has a wonderful sweet sense of humour that is so precious :) What a beautiful picture God has put you two together. A lot of gems from both of you and the personalities that you guys bounce off each other!

So good! ❤ truth!! May the people have ears to hear!!

Yessss! I love the Bars you both dropped on part 1 and 2

Thank God for your ministry Bindi and Cam.

Such great man points! Wow! I love how he views things. You got yourself a winner lady! You guys are the best! Dang, this is such a good reminder!!! Wow

Love the way you two bounce off of each other and the way you hype him up when he brings up a good point🤣 You two gave sound advice, I know your viewer is grateful for it!

Mr Bindi Marc is poppin off. This is much appreciated.

"However...dass da Holy Spirit" lol truer words have never been spoken. You can't change people, you can only invite Holy Spirit in and hope they do the same

You both are amazing! Thank you for speaking the TRUTH 💥

You two are adorable when you’re backing each other’s bars up!

Love all your videos, they are so inspiring! I would love to see a video of your husband speaking of general Christian characteristics that a husband should display for his wife/family..... something I could pass over to my husband and say "hey let's watch this together!" My husband is great... but we all have soooooo much room to grow and you guys are so much more spiritually mature.

I needed this! Thank you ❤

"Which the bible calls it a concubine" wow "...is even less than a concubine" double wow

I love the Way she honours and supports what he says. Meeen she is patterned for marriage 😂❤😊. Though without a doubt Cam is full of wisdom. You both are such a blessing ❤❤

Bindi’s facials make this Word ten times better 😊😊

I don't normal like marriage content but I love your . It's so real

Ooouuu man so much wisdom to take in. Love this discussion

Wow this was really good. Especially the part about “a wolf in sheep’s clothing.” I was so blinded to this. Everything seemed good and portrayed like he was leading me to Christ, but wasn’t.

This was amazing!

You two are absolutely beautiful. ❤ Wow. Another *fantastic* video from the best married couple on KZread.

This is soo good!!!

Woow I'm mind blown. The mindset of this guy Cameron is transforming. Please do this kinda duo more often. Much lv Bindi love ur show. I've heard things I've never heard and I'm not that young 😅. It's the way bible knowledge is applied in real life that's just mind blowing. Kudos guys #Solid Christian Advice #Unwatered Down Truth #Straight Facts

This was so good!

My first thought after hearing her story is that she may be a Jehovah's witness. However I hope she really considers what you guys are saying and not dismiss. This is so serious. He sounds like a narcissist. They will literally mess you up mentally. They also love dealing with women with negative self- image of themselves. They love playing the knight in shining armor and at the same time make you feel unworthy. Forgive him and let him go before he lets you go. Do not warn or manipulate him, just go. You are in a harmful situation. Stop codepending on this guy. You already have mental struggles and living in sin is one of your present struggles. Let's say y'all decide to get married tomorrow? If he hasn't repented before God and man you will have problems being married. Leave baby while you can. When he leaves you for someone else, it could do you a great harm you are not able to handle. Shacking is an open door for someone to get out of a relationship with no responsibility towards you I. don't care how many children a woman has. Child, get out! Love God first, then yourself and your child. Get true help and true happiness. Stop telling yourself his lies. God has someone that's going to love you with bipolar and all. But you got to seek Him first. Love you child. I'll be praying God give you what's needed to do his will. The devil is a liar.

@Leeshalom

11 ай бұрын

Wow me too on the Jehovah witness part. I really felt that

Love pt 1 and pt 2. I love seeing both perspectives. Take heed ladies especially us single ladies

Love is NOT self seeking. Let them go. ❤

Great video as usual!! I love these the best, don't get me wrong, Bindi you do GREAT videos all on your own with the Holy spirit, but i do love these the best when you and your husband are together, truth really be flowing lol and it reminds me of the morning edifying talks my husband and I have with coffee 😂❤

My favorite part of this is Bindi's reactions haha

1st time here nd I've just subscribed...i love it here 😍

You are both wise beyond your years 💕 Holy Spirit is at work in your hearts, it is evident

This was beyond good 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 I am definitely watching this again

Bindi, I think you could write a great book about biblical womanhood. I'd buy it for sure.

Stop identifying with illness and allow the God that made you to tell you what is wrong with you, if there even is anything wrong besides intense emotional healing that needs to be done. Eventually be strong enough to leave the man that did not love you.

It’s not feminism fault, your resentment for men is a natural response to abuse

@quandraadams7583

11 ай бұрын

#BARS! 😂 That lady has been listening to someone who is scapegoating feminism to justify degenerate behavior. Your comment is spot on.

Perfect timing 🙏❤

Great video!

I'm loving Bindi's reaction to her husbands #Bars. ☺

Powerful, so much truth Thanks

OMG this is so Good!!! I need to talk to yall.

I think he definitely deserves a seat on this channel because I love how discerning he is. He is a very well discerner and I just love how he mentioned where is the fruit because many of us won’t be deceived. If we look at the fruit, the Bible says you know them by their fruits. And also, I just wanted to say there’s a difference between a believer and a person who is in Christ this man could have been a believer very well, because to believe is to know that God is, even Satan is a believer, but whoever is in Christ is a man or woman who has denied them selves picked up their cross to follow, Jesus. Meaning that their flesh has died in order for the spirit man to live. A man or woman in Christ Holy Ghost filled they are not living carnal lives They are not perfect, but they are not practicing sin. it’s a difference between a believer and a man or woman who is in Christ I had to learn the difference. Think about this, the people in the days of Noah, watch the ark being built for years until the wrath of God came. it’s a difference between being in the ark, versus knowing that there is a ark because if you’re not in the ark, it doesn’t matter if you know that there is an ark

This is blessed words of wisdom .....

I love how u love ur husband. I love how you hype him up

Daaaannnnnggggg!!! Go Cam!

BARS 👏🏾

I clicked on this so fast

This is good stuff. Your facial expressions took me up outta here 😂

I love the way your husband shook his head when you read out 'he is a man of God'...hilarious!!

18:26 Bindi's reactions to Cam's #Bars 😂 I love it!

Let the church say AMEN. @Bindimarc, I hope you got a fan and fan down your husband (when the video ended) because he was like on fire 🔥. All throughout the conversation, the Holy Ghost was using him. Listen, this was lit lit (by the Holy Ghost fire). I bless GOD ❣️💓. Many blessings @Bindimarc, keep following the leading of the HOLY SPIRIT - as HE continues to transform you into that Titus 2 woman. Because trust me, Genzers like me, GOT TO HEAR THIS‼️

Oh he came witttt ittttt 🔥🔥🔥

The way she leaned at 15:09😂 😂 had me leaning. That lean remained for the whole video😂😂. He was giving too many #bars

3:52 So Truthful !

Wow your husband is incredible. Both of you are!

His face and head shaking while she was reading😂. He knew what was up from the very first sentence

Amen! I STILL...TRUST GOD AND BELIEVE GOD. PROVERBS 3: 5🤺