"Why Do We Still Sleep Together?" | Fran & Diags: Eating With My Ex Celebrity Special

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After getting some advice from best chum Arg, can TOWIE’s Diags keep his composure as he comes face to face with his fiery ex, Fran Parman?
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Пікірлер: 338

  • @Cupcake4me
    @Cupcake4me4 жыл бұрын

    She still loves him. Hoping that sleeping with him will make him come back or get into a relationship with her. Bless her heart ❤️

  • @jblasutavario9549

    @jblasutavario9549

    4 жыл бұрын

    If she gives good head, he might just stay in bed.

  • @robertsawney7901

    @robertsawney7901

    4 жыл бұрын

    JBL Asutavario bro I’m dead😂😂

  • @jblasutavario9549

    @jblasutavario9549

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@robertsawney7901 thanks for adding to the rhyme with what you said: head, bed, dead, said

  • @cryptonomous888

    @cryptonomous888

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol 😂

  • @brownmonkey86

    @brownmonkey86

    4 жыл бұрын

    That shit never works!! Women and men don’t think the same when it comes to sleeping with each other x

  • @marinaweaver330
    @marinaweaver3304 жыл бұрын

    I wish this lady could see how beautiful she is and that she deserves happiness with someone new.

  • @waynesworldizm

    @waynesworldizm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Marina Weaver I agree and hindsight is a wonderful thing. Now I know that because I am older but trust me I wore that t- shirt (both sides) quite a few times. It was like that with me and my ex, took me a long time to get over her but when you finally reach the end of tunnel and you open your heart to new people, the possibilities are endless and life is short so you just have to live your life. I tell people this all the time. If your heart isn’t in, move on.

  • @iceman9646

    @iceman9646

    4 жыл бұрын

    She’s a loony

  • @dealerofgame

    @dealerofgame

    4 жыл бұрын

    Like me

  • @nicholasikwueme8590

    @nicholasikwueme8590

    3 жыл бұрын

    Of course you would say that

  • @shemiibrahim817
    @shemiibrahim8174 жыл бұрын

    They use the word celebrity too damn loosely in the UK

  • @hughiemaughan

    @hughiemaughan

    3 жыл бұрын

    They both will be very well known especially him to a certain age group, from 18,19 to about 40 in the UK and Ireland will know the show towie inside out and remember her very well and he is still on it

  • @tillyclarke5595

    @tillyclarke5595

    3 жыл бұрын

    90% of uk or Ireland know of towie and the people on the show, idk what u think makes a celebrity

  • @bae3500

    @bae3500

    3 жыл бұрын

    girly so many people know who they are

  • @kaoshi_kutie

    @kaoshi_kutie

    3 жыл бұрын

    She means they are not proper celebrity's

  • @ta-tanyshadavid5539

    @ta-tanyshadavid5539

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just said the same thing...lol

  • @TheBeast-ub9jo
    @TheBeast-ub9jo4 жыл бұрын

    He doesn’t really understand what he had until he sees her happy with someone else and by then he won’t even cross her mind while it will eat him up inside

  • @kcooke00

    @kcooke00

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omar AR He won’t care. He doesn’t want her. She offered sex and he didn’t turn it down because of testosterone.

  • @izzy6810
    @izzy68104 жыл бұрын

    So sad she can’t see she’s better off.

  • @loverace3785

    @loverace3785

    4 жыл бұрын

    She ended it

  • @marlo8456

    @marlo8456

    3 жыл бұрын

    She admitted in this video that she used to cheat on him 🤣

  • @sophielarner-fillis6343
    @sophielarner-fillis63434 жыл бұрын

    God I love fran! It takes a lot to be that real about a situation as heartbreaking like that & she laid all her cards on the table

  • @jucento
    @jucento4 жыл бұрын

    Anyone who didn't watch TOWIE should keep their opinion to themselves as you don't know the context, she treated him like garbage for years and then SHE ended it

  • @samlove3239

    @samlove3239

    4 жыл бұрын

    She really did!!

  • @mols4299

    @mols4299

    4 жыл бұрын

    FACTS

  • @omram566

    @omram566

    4 жыл бұрын

    Anyone who does watch TOWIE should have no opinion on anything , ever

  • @till3

    @till3

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @stinameaner

    @stinameaner

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@omram566 savage but true 😂

  • @desmondbrown3776
    @desmondbrown37764 жыл бұрын

    Diags get it sorted mate she a good girl and you will regret it when she meets someone else. Which she eventually will.

  • @sansadrake4133

    @sansadrake4133

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't think he will. It doesn't take someone that long to realise they want someone surely.

  • @kieranfootball999

    @kieranfootball999

    4 жыл бұрын

    Liam Palmer did you ever watch towie when she was in it? Treated him like shit

  • @saffatkabir3999

    @saffatkabir3999

    4 жыл бұрын

    Desmond Brown if you don’t like someone then don’t force it with them. You can’t force yourself to be with someone just bc people think they’re a good person

  • @satanette8562
    @satanette85624 жыл бұрын

    This is so sad my heart hurts for Fran 🥺

  • @briggyb
    @briggyb4 жыл бұрын

    I love Diags. He's my favorite on TOWIE.

  • @hannahduku
    @hannahduku4 жыл бұрын

    This is sad! They are ex’s and should not even be in contact let alone sleeping with eachother. She is deeply in love with him, but he wants one thing only. That can turn very toxic. I loved them on towie but like fran said they were young! Wish them the best x

  • @waynesworldizm

    @waynesworldizm

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hannah May went through the exact same thing with my ex. We split up and did that for at least a year and a bit. It’s so hard to move on after that because I was just like her for a good while. She just needs to open her heart to others and let them in but I get it. When you still love someone, everyone you meet you compare them to them so it’s takes longer to move on. She’s still young so she will learn in time.

  • @chloex2714

    @chloex2714

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stupid comment

  • @scottp4547

    @scottp4547

    4 жыл бұрын

    They gettin paid for this tho

  • @haughsinead

    @haughsinead

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ex’s can stay in contact

  • @noneyourbusiness341

    @noneyourbusiness341

    4 жыл бұрын

    S H just screams attachment issues

  • @xoCLO1D
    @xoCLO1D4 жыл бұрын

    They were one of the best suited couples on TOWIE, can’t believe they’ve still been part of each other’s lives for this long. Sad ❤️

  • @nathanhodgson8384
    @nathanhodgson83844 жыл бұрын

    She’s stunning I was baffled when they got together but shows some girls aren’t always going for looks

  • @lclayton7075

    @lclayton7075

    4 жыл бұрын

    cheers for that info Nathan lol

  • @nathanhodgson8384

    @nathanhodgson8384

    4 жыл бұрын

    BillionaireGucci you are welcome Gucci lol

  • @lclayton7075

    @lclayton7075

    4 жыл бұрын

    Have-a- Cigar english?

  • @nathanhodgson8384

    @nathanhodgson8384

    4 жыл бұрын

    BillionaireGucci basically calling me soft lol

  • @nathanhodgson8384

    @nathanhodgson8384

    4 жыл бұрын

    BillionaireGucci basically calling me soft lol

  • @chloemacnamara1763
    @chloemacnamara17634 жыл бұрын

    It’s so clear to see how much they still love each other , wrote person , wrong time .. how very sad 💔

  • @antoncannon8307
    @antoncannon83074 жыл бұрын

    That was some bi polar energy that Tense

  • @mawulilandgrafe3099
    @mawulilandgrafe30994 жыл бұрын

    She really love him

  • @jackyjacobs3890
    @jackyjacobs38904 жыл бұрын

    She was horrible to him on towie and he was so nice to her 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sansadrake4133

    @sansadrake4133

    4 жыл бұрын

    Probably why he wants out

  • @georgia8592

    @georgia8592

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is a total loon stay clear

  • @calm1578

    @calm1578

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is a loon aye, smashes drugs and everything

  • @munchioes6074

    @munchioes6074

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@calm1578 How do you know

  • @HabA-qn1nv

    @HabA-qn1nv

    4 жыл бұрын

    Editing mate

  • @kmb2195
    @kmb21954 жыл бұрын

    Wowww she glowed up if you remember Fran no make up glasses baggy clothes

  • @kellyblondie8415
    @kellyblondie84154 жыл бұрын

    Loved them as a couple, gutted they couldn’t work things out!!

  • @eithnaankhan677
    @eithnaankhan6774 жыл бұрын

    Would love to see these to guys back together.

  • @ST-mi5bh
    @ST-mi5bh4 жыл бұрын

    I miss them being together 😢

  • @rebeccahollander1735
    @rebeccahollander17354 жыл бұрын

    Fran! Time to move on! In all honesty you can do ALOT better and when you let this go other people will come into your life and you’ll wonder why you spent so many years chasing him

  • @mykelrocks2378
    @mykelrocks23782 жыл бұрын

    That 'All the best' contained a lot of feelings💔💔

  • @jackanne176
    @jackanne1764 жыл бұрын

    Fran deserves a lot better seriously. 🥺🥺

  • @paulholmes1734

    @paulholmes1734

    4 жыл бұрын

    No he does

  • @pooja_aggarwal

    @pooja_aggarwal

    6 ай бұрын

    @@paulholmes1734u can relate to a chubby loser huh

  • @lizquigley2042
    @lizquigley20424 жыл бұрын

    Awh I love them as a couple.

  • @Joshualacruz
    @Joshualacruz4 жыл бұрын

    Important conversation. Well done. 👌 You two did it way better then I did once upon a time, only for me the genders were switched. Hope both of ya learn from this and get to a better place.

  • @sojo290
    @sojo2904 жыл бұрын

    She looked devastated saying goodbye!

  • @youknow4237
    @youknow42374 жыл бұрын

    0:33 uhhh dude thisss pimpleee squeezzz ittt

  • @haughsinead

    @haughsinead

    4 жыл бұрын

    YOU KNOW he had cystic acne leave him alone

  • @youknow4237

    @youknow4237

    4 жыл бұрын

    S H did someone ask u

  • @anabanana1261
    @anabanana12614 жыл бұрын

    Fran was crazy and a manipulator never forget

  • @sansadrake4133

    @sansadrake4133

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agree. But I think a lot of it was to do with him. And her intense feelings

  • @georgia8592

    @georgia8592

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @James-lm6wt
    @James-lm6wt4 жыл бұрын

    She to good for him

  • @James-lm6wt

    @James-lm6wt

    4 жыл бұрын

    d b why not

  • @ajlang1447

    @ajlang1447

    4 жыл бұрын

    @d b look at him

  • @James-lm6wt

    @James-lm6wt

    4 жыл бұрын

    d bI have watched the video his face looks like he stuck in a wind tunnel

  • @James-lm6wt

    @James-lm6wt

    4 жыл бұрын

    d b proper jealous lol

  • @ajlang1447

    @ajlang1447

    4 жыл бұрын

    @d b and he's fuckin butters his personality ain't all that either

  • @Manos-de-Piedra
    @Manos-de-Piedra4 жыл бұрын

    He looks like Quasimodo's long lost brother this lad 😆

  • @welshlad6427
    @welshlad64274 жыл бұрын

    She’s got issues and needs to love herself first before going into another relationship ❤️

  • @Themedusatouch89
    @Themedusatouch894 жыл бұрын

    That shot kicked in quick

  • @SineadMaria211
    @SineadMaria2114 жыл бұрын

    I love Fran!

  • @SophieBracken90
    @SophieBracken904 жыл бұрын

    3:54 you just laughed🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @carlandrews6337

    @carlandrews6337

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 the voice crack.

  • @kaykay36
    @kaykay364 жыл бұрын

    This conversation is great according to elders

  • @Commonscent
    @Commonscent4 жыл бұрын

    He looks like Thomas from the apprentice and she reminds me of jemalin

  • @melm1354

    @melm1354

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mike T Thomas 100%😂😂😂😂

  • @barber65brentbrook17

    @barber65brentbrook17

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do you mean he looks like The Thomas a tank engine? When he said it was horrible feeling simultaneously he laughed sarcastically with pride. He has no respect towards her. In order to lose him she needs to meet someone.

  • @hashimnasser9967
    @hashimnasser99673 жыл бұрын

    LOL why did i find this so hilarious.

  • @user-tn6fg2du6v
    @user-tn6fg2du6v4 жыл бұрын

    Aww diags is a good guy . I think frans a bit hard on him tbh

  • @rw6391
    @rw63913 жыл бұрын

    Remember when they got together, lovely couple

  • @tonybutcher8399
    @tonybutcher83993 жыл бұрын

    Everyone loves fran 😉

  • @theartfuldodger6500
    @theartfuldodger65004 жыл бұрын

    Was punching way above his weight. Good sort that Fran.

  • @analuvzya7
    @analuvzya74 жыл бұрын

    Poor girl :(

  • @shaidabunyat9357
    @shaidabunyat93574 жыл бұрын

    Did she ever get with anyone else!? Is she happy now!!?? I need to know :(

  • @nickelleraffaelle3529
    @nickelleraffaelle35294 жыл бұрын

    They probably went back home together 🤣🤥

  • @stander2625
    @stander26254 жыл бұрын

    Fran looks unreal in this video. Bang tidy.

  • @Niloolooloo
    @Niloolooloo4 жыл бұрын

    I don’t think she’s good for him, but she’s good for somebody and she needs to believe that. I just love Diags so I hope he finds happiness. Until then, he has the Sims ladies to adore him!

  • @KiranThandi03
    @KiranThandi034 жыл бұрын

    I’m from Essex and I literally have never heard anyone speak like her 😂😂😂

  • @fitzroy7054

    @fitzroy7054

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well I'm from Essex and I hear people speaking like this all the time 😏

  • @Kandgoods

    @Kandgoods

    4 жыл бұрын

    They literally all speak like that. I live there.

  • @KiranThandi03

    @KiranThandi03

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kandgoods idk what part you’re in but not where I am

  • @KiranThandi03

    @KiranThandi03

    4 жыл бұрын

    Marcus ew not my side luckily 😕

  • @fitzroy7054

    @fitzroy7054

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kiran Thandi you must be in posh Essex they all speak like that were I live

  • @shaidabunyat9357
    @shaidabunyat93574 жыл бұрын

    I never even watched towie but I feel sorry for her man :(

  • @aran2091
    @aran20914 жыл бұрын

    He's punching hard lmao

  • @castzen9203
    @castzen92034 жыл бұрын

    Yar laughin li a diced

  • @octobass9072
    @octobass90723 жыл бұрын

    She’s hard work

  • @BM-tl3dq
    @BM-tl3dq3 жыл бұрын

    Like he said he never asked her to wait. I dont think anyone should wait for anyone if its ment to be its ment to be and it will happen in its own time.. If anyone sits back in waits there a good chance they are wasting there own time and losing the chance off happiness and possibly finding love.. sitting back being depressed bored looking at your phone hoping every txt or call is from that 1 person it will just drive you mentally sick. Think your own wellbeing and health always make yourself come first

  • @rea9085
    @rea90853 жыл бұрын

    We all know that wasn't the last goodbye

  • @CSmith-qp2pb
    @CSmith-qp2pb3 жыл бұрын

    Diags has the looks only a mother could love

  • @mydude9838
    @mydude98384 жыл бұрын

    He’s punching this bloke! He isn’t attractive at all

  • @827ella

    @827ella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steven Irizarry no one was making judgements lol, all that was said was that he is punching

  • @827ella

    @827ella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Steven Irizarry do you know what is meant when “punching” is said, punching is when she is better looking than him

  • @lclayton7075
    @lclayton70754 жыл бұрын

    i would

  • @eamcbmsc
    @eamcbmsc4 жыл бұрын

    The only way is up for you and me now

  • @aimee4727
    @aimee47274 жыл бұрын

    Diags is bloody hilarious

  • @zombypuppy
    @zombypuppy3 жыл бұрын

    she was beautiful and is beautiful I don’t know why she sticks around with HIM

  • @_______unknown_______

    @_______unknown_______

    3 жыл бұрын

    If u watched towie u would of seen she treated him like shit and ended it

  • @championwade6172
    @championwade61724 жыл бұрын

    She’s so cut

  • @g100xx6
    @g100xx62 жыл бұрын

    I love diagz

  • @freddielaker3494
    @freddielaker34944 жыл бұрын

    Bird is batshit crazy

  • @jblack5323
    @jblack53234 жыл бұрын

    She’s cute, so what does she see in this woolly mammoth. I’m assuming this is Jeremy Beadles son?

  • @Sylvie98
    @Sylvie984 жыл бұрын

    She tried to cry and it failed

  • @klyeson4832
    @klyeson48324 жыл бұрын

    Her earring's being wrong on one side really annoyed my OCD 😂

  • @_atinsy

    @_atinsy

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's not OCD... It doesn't affect you mentally or mess up your thoughts everyday does it Smh

  • @klyeson4832

    @klyeson4832

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@_atinsy OCD isn't always like what you see in films, you can have OCD where things just annoy you, you don't have to get all depressed and suicidal because something isn't perfect 🤦‍♂️😂

  • @pinkbunny7254

    @pinkbunny7254

    4 жыл бұрын

    Klyeson that....kinda goes against what OCD is. Are you actually diagnosed

  • @zombypuppy

    @zombypuppy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@_atinsy ocd runs different for a lot of people anik smh

  • @joelhall5124
    @joelhall51244 жыл бұрын

    I have no idea who these people are, what the point of it is, nor why I even watched half of it.

  • @collins.8683

    @collins.8683

    4 жыл бұрын

    Finally, something I can relate to.

  • @leonardellerbesnose7922

    @leonardellerbesnose7922

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joel Hall Its pointless you commenting then.. you should of not clicked and just carried on with your business. Just saying.

  • @ttp436

    @ttp436

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joel Hall Sort mate

  • @joelhall5124

    @joelhall5124

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@leonardellerbesnose7922 even more pointless of you to reply 😂

  • @leonardellerbesnose7922

    @leonardellerbesnose7922

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joel Hall 🙄

  • @VinylSamuraisMusic
    @VinylSamuraisMusic4 жыл бұрын

    Girls a psycho. You only need to see the madness on that show. Acting or not you can see the amount of grief he got. Scary

  • @sansadrake4133
    @sansadrake41334 жыл бұрын

    Whaaaaat, I thought they split and went their separate ways years ago. I'm confused as to why they're still in contact lol.

  • @Invnce

    @Invnce

    4 жыл бұрын

    Some people still love each other years after being together ..

  • @KryptonitetoallBS
    @KryptonitetoallBS4 жыл бұрын

    They both seem like decent people. Without tv perhaps they would be together as Diags can now pull better looking birds simply because he'll get Towie groupies. Tbh neither are lookers but they seem to have personality and Diags will probably miss her when she's moved on and he's left with some blonde shallow bimbo!

  • @motorwouter
    @motorwouter3 жыл бұрын

    She is still in love with him

  • @mray9305
    @mray93054 жыл бұрын

    Fran is nice. Diags is punching

  • @michelleknapper
    @michelleknapper4 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad though they were a great couple 💔

  • @realitate666
    @realitate6664 жыл бұрын

    Who is a celebrity in there?

  • @thelimey351
    @thelimey3513 жыл бұрын

    I didn't watch their show but she's really nice, I think he's a fool but if he's not really interested it's for the best.

  • @onataka2506
    @onataka25063 жыл бұрын

    She loves him 😥

  • @pimpslayer4963
    @pimpslayer49634 жыл бұрын

    Because nobody else will have them

  • @MrSpud900
    @MrSpud900 Жыл бұрын

    Who doesn’t still sleep with their ex, I’ve been split with mine for five years and I do the same. We’re both still single so ain’t doing nothing wrong plus we was together for 7 years so it doesn’t seem wrong

  • @pooja_aggarwal

    @pooja_aggarwal

    6 ай бұрын

    Why dont u get back together

  • @domgee6014
    @domgee60144 жыл бұрын

    Diags has been PUNCHIINNNNG. Sad she can't see her own worth tbh 😔💔

  • @scottp4547
    @scottp45474 жыл бұрын

    Think diags thinks he’s good lookin which he ain’t U not gonna get no better then that son

  • @alleykatt6110
    @alleykatt61103 жыл бұрын

    You still sleep together because you allow it and make it easy! You’re now just a friend with benefits sis!

  • @alleykatt6110

    @alleykatt6110

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ali nura I’m not your friend, but if it took somebody helping you to get a man, so be it….. Sad!

  • @grahamwatts8836
    @grahamwatts88364 жыл бұрын

    Fran still loves him, need to talk, be honest, are you really into her? They fight like close friends, he needs to move on so does she.

  • @simonhodgett7790
    @simonhodgett7790 Жыл бұрын

    Because he had a "diagonal smile" really ? Can't believe people watch stuff like this! Thank god for smaller channels ! Can you imagine this on ITV Saturday nights ,primetime ?

  • @princessnosa2438
    @princessnosa24384 жыл бұрын

    Move on Fran he doesn’t care about you anymore....You’re pretty and deserve better...He’s not even attractive 🤮

  • @brandonhalliday2029
    @brandonhalliday20294 жыл бұрын

    She's sadly broken and he needs to grow up.

  • @priestmorrison6564
    @priestmorrison65644 жыл бұрын

    I REALLY didnt wanna like her, And then? she turned out ta be a'Top Notch Sheila!!' ...mah bad

  • @rODIUMuk
    @rODIUMuk3 жыл бұрын

    He’s clearly seeing someone

  • @missdavis5142
    @missdavis51422 жыл бұрын

    Chloe b was saying how good lucking diags are u joking look at his teeth

  • @linapesz313
    @linapesz3134 жыл бұрын

    Who are they?

  • @thomasbarnes1498

    @thomasbarnes1498

    4 жыл бұрын

    Diags and Fran..

  • @danielchambers1775

    @danielchambers1775

    4 жыл бұрын

    Friags

  • @boozy8659
    @boozy86594 жыл бұрын

    They rnt celebs

  • @1x403

    @1x403

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha thinking the same

  • @ow8792

    @ow8792

    4 жыл бұрын

    Who r they

  • @unknownjimmyy
    @unknownjimmyy4 жыл бұрын

    This guy got baited

  • @kitkatkitten1338
    @kitkatkitten13384 жыл бұрын

    Can everyone shut about his looks! It's disgusting and really rude. He's a nice looking guy with an amazing personality. Obviously she still loves him and sees all those things in him.

  • @cherdebuse436
    @cherdebuse4363 жыл бұрын

    Hes a minger

  • @juventus1056
    @juventus10564 жыл бұрын

    She is cute

  • @leannelee7231
    @leannelee7231 Жыл бұрын

    I think diags is missin out on a good thing here.

  • @Rosieposie648
    @Rosieposie6484 жыл бұрын

    💔💔

  • @shaunallingham1863
    @shaunallingham18633 жыл бұрын

    How did he land her :/ jesus, she can do better

  • @omram566
    @omram5664 жыл бұрын

    Why’s she sad, can’t she just find another builder looking dude somewhere else?

  • @Itsme-vd3dx

    @Itsme-vd3dx

    4 жыл бұрын

    Om Ram its not allways about looks!

  • @ralvi-yy2qs
    @ralvi-yy2qs2 жыл бұрын

    She's still hopeful.... How can't he even realized?

  • @dandylionriver
    @dandylionriver4 жыл бұрын

    I don't like to be around crying drunks.. :(

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