Why Do People Lie To You?: Ep 31: BK Shivani (English)

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Join BK Shivani who highlights our common tendency of placing our trust in people's actions rather than in people themselves. If we stop trusting someone for breaking a promise or not meeting expectations, we essentially withdraw love and respect from him, and not just reject his act. When we do not trust, we cannot love.
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  • @pratibhanath4879
    @pratibhanath48794 жыл бұрын

    People lie because they are coward , as it needs a lot of courage to tell the truth, daring people usually don’t lie

  • @sandeepgupta4696

    @sandeepgupta4696

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's not cowardness dear... It's all about reaction of other people or embarrassment who tell truth

  • @banuradha10
    @banuradha106 жыл бұрын

    Just lovely didi. Thanks for the new perspective on trust

  • @dalbirsingh2954
    @dalbirsingh29543 жыл бұрын

    Omshanti omshanti to All Divine Souls

  • @crisgaba5369
    @crisgaba5369 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for pure soul. I steel train myself on this. I can do it I believe.

  • @SoumyadeepDutta
    @SoumyadeepDutta6 жыл бұрын

    Hats off mam.. Om shanti.

  • @varshalatasunghuttee8848
    @varshalatasunghuttee88483 жыл бұрын

    Thank u for these wonderful words 🌹

  • @maxell008
    @maxell0083 жыл бұрын

    It’s really giving me clarity

  • @sangeetarathore3416
    @sangeetarathore3416 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you dii.. Every situation your videos are guiding me on the right path.. ❤☮️

  • @balbindarmann7331
    @balbindarmann73313 жыл бұрын

    It’s beautiful but very few people achieve that level of being with self and others

  • @manojtomar655
    @manojtomar6556 жыл бұрын

    Dear Sister OM SANTI.

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha69882 жыл бұрын

    Stable when sharing truth yess true.

  • @jahnvimakwana9613
    @jahnvimakwana96136 жыл бұрын

    Thank you didi for this video...

  • @sumabaiju101
    @sumabaiju1013 жыл бұрын

    Om santhi...... Thank you sister🙏🙏🙏

  • @mindtunessublimers8573
    @mindtunessublimers85732 жыл бұрын

    That wasss so smooth.....❤❤❤

  • @yamininunna7851
    @yamininunna78516 жыл бұрын

    thank uuu mam...om santhiii mam...love uuu mam...

  • @monarajput1226
    @monarajput12264 жыл бұрын

    Lovely!

  • @sehrishnaseem8104
    @sehrishnaseem81042 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 Жыл бұрын

    Ready to hear truth

  • @rajkumariputtoo736
    @rajkumariputtoo736 Жыл бұрын

    Very nice words respected shivani and surashjee God bless you both 🙏 😊

  • @zoyamadhavan3869
    @zoyamadhavan38693 жыл бұрын

    Very true sir I’m agree with ur. Thoughts

  • @banashrisaha7216
    @banashrisaha72166 жыл бұрын

    Om shanti didi.....😘

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha69882 жыл бұрын

    Excellent helpful tome thank you.

  • @meenalsawant3388
    @meenalsawant33886 жыл бұрын

    Very true om Shanti didi

  • @ruchiagrawal1378
    @ruchiagrawal1378 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @ajitkumardas7561
    @ajitkumardas75616 жыл бұрын

    Lie not love but poison of love. Trust is less everywhere so watch and trust.

  • @shefalidavar6714

    @shefalidavar6714

    6 жыл бұрын

    6

  • @shivashankar6218
    @shivashankar62186 жыл бұрын

    Om Shanti madam I am very thankful you because when I feeling some reason, I will get very good answer from your speech or conversations, great once more on Shanti.

  • @soniyasharma1846
    @soniyasharma18466 жыл бұрын

    om shanti...

  • @spiderweb9609
    @spiderweb96096 жыл бұрын

    Om Shanti Sister

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv48386 жыл бұрын

    omsathi .. i trust you

  • @pradesiparamita1274
    @pradesiparamita12744 жыл бұрын

    There is this one person that keeps sending anger to me, and its not easy to trust how she behaves but when i have constant doubt i feel it hurts me a lot.. she may be not getting it and has nice life but i am the one who has miserable life when i keep on doubting her... thank you for reminding me that all are good souls initially and there must be goodness in every person.. i have to forgive and heal myself 😊

  • @thembisaodendaal

    @thembisaodendaal

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know it's the hardest thing when you know you keep getting negative vibrations from this one person.But keep cancelling the karmic account because eventually you will win

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @parii88
    @parii883 жыл бұрын

    Om Shanti.🤍🙏

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit596 жыл бұрын

    Om shanti didi

  • @meghachalekar
    @meghachalekar2 жыл бұрын

    Om shanti🙏☺️

  • @user-wp9vf8kx1h
    @user-wp9vf8kx1h Жыл бұрын

    For example a married man betrays his wife, she accepts n leads a life with him BUT he Never changes!!!!! Constantly Flirting with other women. How to basically lead a life with such person????? We r not God!!!! Complicated Life 😢. Easy said than done:(.

  • @srimathisamarakoon9106
    @srimathisamarakoon91062 жыл бұрын

    I love watching your videos & at least watch one everyday & try to understand our mind ..but still how can I trust a person who repeatedly doing the same mistake for the last 47 years .. Why can't they think of their wrong doing & stop their bad behaviors to keep the relationship smooth . Aren't there any videos for them to think & stop their betraying .

  • @bkritikapuresoul8912
    @bkritikapuresoul89123 жыл бұрын

    Om shanti🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha69882 жыл бұрын

    Different way of living. Om Shanti b stable n secured..

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha69882 жыл бұрын

    Heal of hhurt self.great trust completely ram kripa

  • @sacredweeds
    @sacredweeds2 жыл бұрын

    Om shanti. I keep hearing from you we are abused to complete our karma. 😔

  • @limeorange1657
    @limeorange16572 жыл бұрын

    Wat about people who keeps breaking trust and takes us for granted then we keep trusting them and gets self hurt.

  • @suchitramb8043
    @suchitramb80432 жыл бұрын

    Trusting or not trusting is one thing. Whom to trust among whom we want to trust is the big question 😂

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha69882 жыл бұрын

    Unconditional trust ram g

  • @rbrabingia3675
    @rbrabingia36752 жыл бұрын

    Good morning baba,Om Santi didi

  • @anilghorpade4372
    @anilghorpade43723 жыл бұрын

    Omshanti Good morning dadji

  • @archanajaiswal3778
    @archanajaiswal37783 жыл бұрын

    Om Shanti

  • @sant-osh
    @sant-osh6 жыл бұрын

    agar aap log ye video hindi me banate to ye bahut achha rahata . aapka bahut bahut dhanyavad....

  • @farizai7327
    @farizai73273 жыл бұрын

    Baat may wazan ha...

  • @priyarani1968
    @priyarani19682 жыл бұрын

    My boss manipulated truth and unfairly rated me as underperformer. It cost me my compensation despite my contributions towards a significant project. He didn't defend it because he failed in his other projects which he assigned to other team members who didn't do justice to their jobs. I trusted my boss despite several occasions when he kept manipulating facts. I got this. Now I am distancing myself from him and hope to never come across him. I still see he is a good human being but immensely incapable at this time to overcome his ego to do the right things. I can clearly foresee that he is sabotaging himself and all that he has accomplished so far.

  • @shaziamoughal9662
    @shaziamoughal96626 жыл бұрын

    Hi, it would be nice to shear the book name or references, you use/take the quotes from. Thanks

  • @dhirendraagarwal4612
    @dhirendraagarwal46126 жыл бұрын

    Sweet gud morng g🌹💕🙏

  • @blackrockz5807
    @blackrockz58075 жыл бұрын

    People will lie because they want to.

  • @farizai7327

    @farizai7327

    3 жыл бұрын

    No.. they r coward.

  • @MsDandiwal
    @MsDandiwal3 жыл бұрын

    How can you trust a partner who betrayed you again and again despite trusting them fully each time. Please help

  • @sacredweeds

    @sacredweeds

    2 жыл бұрын

    According to her episode Ctrl+Alt+Dlt it’s your karma and you need to forgive them. I can’t believe this means you have to stay with them. Forgive and forget and keep yourself safe through changing habits that send you into harm into habit that keep you healthy. I used to trust easily until I was repeatedly run over literally by a car as a pedestrian and figuratively. I trust thrives to steal. The hurt and fear of my husband would disappear for six months until he again beat me. I am now working on my habit of being a fixer to know I am worthy of better.

  • @ashish01997
    @ashish019973 жыл бұрын

    "hate the deed, not the person" dr zakir says that too 💚

  • @MrPreetvirdee

    @MrPreetvirdee

    3 жыл бұрын

    Try saying that to a child who has been the victim of sexual abuse.

  • @meenalkhemchandani4893
    @meenalkhemchandani48933 жыл бұрын

    I accept the fact that lying and hiding the truth are equivalent. But sometimes we tend to hide the truth from loved ones because we know that it would hurt them even more. Is this wrong?? If yes then how can this tendency be corrected??

  • @gaytrirami9496
    @gaytrirami94963 жыл бұрын

    My momma is like this

  • @RosasResources
    @RosasResources Жыл бұрын

    Sounds good on paper but a lier and a cheat will only do it again . its like say kill me again, i lived this and it kept happening again and again. You have to know when its time to love someone from a far

  • @sharletlobo2016
    @sharletlobo20163 жыл бұрын

    Sr. Could you please elaborate on the difference between trust and capability you touched on, in the story of the lady with the cheating husband..

  • @vandanachauhan4369
    @vandanachauhan4369 Жыл бұрын

    10:54 26:42 ❤️

  • @beingindian2746
    @beingindian27466 жыл бұрын

    💐💐💐

  • @calmdowngurl
    @calmdowngurl2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️🙏

  • @barnalidebbarma4379
    @barnalidebbarma43794 жыл бұрын

    😍

  • @aanchalgupta3610
    @aanchalgupta36104 жыл бұрын

    Buttt when people keep lying to u ? And u keep forgiving and forgetting them butt they still continue to do that ??

  • @nehajain6542

    @nehajain6542

    4 жыл бұрын

    That is bcoz there is a past karmic account they ll keep sending those black ball of cheating that they have earlier received by u may b in costume or previous costume.. Ur work here is to sending white ball once nd keep closing past karmic account in meditation Soon they ll stop sending black ball nd start receiving ur white Have patience law of karma is there One day u ll feel amazing that u trusted them no matter what nd then they ll really become trustworthy Stop sending negative thoughts keep a check on them Do morning meditation for them Check ur thoughts Sooner or later chnge will gonna arise Om shanti ☺

  • @faaizavawda9966

    @faaizavawda9966

    4 жыл бұрын

    Neha Jain hey how to do this meditation? How to overcome this negativity of spouse lying again and again...

  • @shubhrapashine2668

    @shubhrapashine2668

    2 жыл бұрын

    Walk away from liars.

  • @swaminiwalawalkar6635
    @swaminiwalawalkar66352 жыл бұрын

    😇🙏

  • @nabanitasarkar8080
    @nabanitasarkar80806 жыл бұрын

    ওমঃ শান্তি

  • @ashishnirghude5494
    @ashishnirghude54942 жыл бұрын

    My partner breaking my trust even after promisingv she wont do it again Now i have proof she is still breaking trust i have not told it to her How can i still continue trust and maintain relation ?

  • @happysoul8263
    @happysoul82634 жыл бұрын

    i have one genuine question what to do when we have lied someday and the thing is of nature which just can't be told to that person otherwise it will hurt person badly. relationship, guilt, love, trust all will come again but it will be knot in their heart life time. what to do ?

  • @aditisharma842

    @aditisharma842

    3 жыл бұрын

    Confess it tell them the truth .... Becoz if once lied it will make u vulnerable to lie many a times.... And it will come to a stage that u can't even tolerate there hurting nature and u will say I did so much for u why r u getting hurt and there will be a loss of understanding especially from your side .... Clean Stains from your heart your side .... It will surely help them to do so .... It is not even good for your mental health and there's too .... They will become comfortable from your so called trustable lover side That even a small matter can destroy there whole relationship

  • @singaporevirtualtours1101
    @singaporevirtualtours11013 жыл бұрын

    If only i had watched this video earlier, if only i had heard about Sister Shivani earlier, but it is better to be late than never😀

  • @Marcolino5467
    @Marcolino54676 жыл бұрын

    I love you BKShivani

  • @kirtitomar2407
    @kirtitomar2407 Жыл бұрын

    Om shanti didi... bt if someone lie to u in their 1st meeting nd stick to tat lie until u scold nd ask them to tell the truth. Wt does tat suppose to mean ????

  • @shambhavisingh2484
    @shambhavisingh24843 жыл бұрын

    Is it a sin when you lie out of insecurity that people will judge you or laugh at you?

  • @EliShanti
    @EliShanti9 ай бұрын

    She might be right but for how long should a person allow abuse to change someone? I am giving up after more than 30 years. I trust the process not the people. I'm sorry if this is not spiritual. To me is life or death litterally

  • @dollydolly628
    @dollydolly6282 жыл бұрын

    Maa kya hume sawal karna chahiye ki apne juth kiu bola.. par yeh sab puchne se ek relationship anger, hatred ke sath khatam hoti he, mai anger ke sath unko hate karke relation nhi todna chahti.. toh iske sath kaise deal kare.. hum unko pucche ya na? Nhi puchne se andar dabi rehti he, puchne se v shanti nhi hoga jo outcomes niklega..

  • @souravhalder5086
    @souravhalder50863 жыл бұрын

    Why people say lie Hindi language please please uplode

  • @mallikaj3240
    @mallikaj32403 жыл бұрын

    Their wish

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 Жыл бұрын

    Stop telling us true because of stability.

  • @kusumsharma1032
    @kusumsharma10326 жыл бұрын

    Om shanti shivani ji Please video hindi main jada banaye first of all matra bhsha mai kahi bat jada deeply prabhavit karti hai ras nishpati jada achhe se hoti hai me samajati hun apke video pooriduniya main deke jate hai esliye international language b jaruri hai par kyunki mera adhyan adhyapan ka visha hindi raha hai esliye sulabhta se hindi main samj pati hun

  • @ektayadav3083
    @ektayadav30836 жыл бұрын

    didi pliz hindi me bolo

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit596 жыл бұрын

    Didi plz video Hindi m banao

  • @aatamjeetsinghahluvaliya7812

    @aatamjeetsinghahluvaliya7812

    6 жыл бұрын

    Good thought, I like

  • @suspenserealitykatha
    @suspenserealitykatha3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry i am not agree

  • @nehapanwar9044
    @nehapanwar90446 жыл бұрын

    hlo mam plz can i talk to personally????

  • @reemas8128

    @reemas8128

    6 жыл бұрын

    Neha Panwar you can mail them up or call them up.. There's a channel called peace of mind, which provides all this info 's 😇

  • @rakshithas3734

    @rakshithas3734

    6 жыл бұрын

    Reema S can u say email Id r number

  • @ruchiagrawal1378
    @ruchiagrawal1378 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

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