Narcissism is the world's new pandemic.

@lindahyatt5154

11 ай бұрын

Yes it is.

@DR---

11 ай бұрын

The problem is people nowadays are immature and label everyone they don't like as a narcissist.

@Prometheuspredator

11 ай бұрын

I so agree. Happy to know it is finally being discussed in society. Narcs. are being unclothed and subjected to societal requiem. Mean, hateful, nasty, and rude with mood swings....yeap, your a narc.

@akotheffie8087

10 ай бұрын

​@@DR---You are lucky if you haven't encountered a real narcissist yet

@AGBVON992

10 ай бұрын

Narcissist started showing up around 2019

As an empath this new society breaks my heart 😢 and drains my energy

@terrymiddleton6077

11 ай бұрын

I absolutely agree with you. Empaths are suffering greatly, trying to understand the lack of compassion and the destruction being caused by the narcissists in society. I'm not a religious person, per say, but, I find myself living the teachings of Jesus to help keep my sanity and protect my soul and spirit every day.

@americandingo1109

7 ай бұрын

@@terrymiddleton6077 I’m in the same boat. I grew up adjacent to Christianity without ever formally taking its teachings on myself, though the ethical side has mostly stuck. I find myself wondering more and more these days - can I truly continue denying the logic behind Biblical prophecy, and the implications that stem from it? I’m increasingly skeptical of humanity’s ability to fairly and justly rule itself with any degree of competence.

@rahkeembattiste5854

4 ай бұрын

U can go no where there all over the world in hospital school airport s destinations that everywhere. It’s so crazy it’s like a big trap.

@kateashby3066

4 ай бұрын

Empaths are a breed of narcissist. Go follow HG Tudor- a psychopath/narc that tells on his own kind. Empaths are essentially a failed narcissist. We were raised by narcs or other empaths and so that codependency has been passed onto us. Sure we can feel empathy- to a point of total dysfunction. But all the other traits of the narc raise to the surface when we feel our needs aren’t being met. From common codependents to full blown borderlines- the empath is not a healthy person. Stop wearing it like a badge. It’s funny you guys haven’t stopped to wonder why there are ALSO so many empaths now. We are the children of the narcs. That’s why. We also want recognition for good deeds. We are the ones who post things to social media that make us look like martyrs. We will love you until we chase you away with our neediness, then when you abandon us and we eventually get over it, we will loathe you (that’s our narc wound surfacing). Welcome to the club. I’m an empath. A borderline.

Insecure attachments and trauma in childhood

@graceymiller6047

Жыл бұрын

These parents were traumatized and removed from families early sometimes in orphanages and became one or due to lack of connection raised them. Smoking while pregnant added ADHD to the mix and the 3rd generation of broken families without validation is destroying the wholeness of our country.

@JoeSanders-xk1xq

Жыл бұрын

yes, my cousin was abandoned by her parents and raised by our narcissist grandmother, I see she is now a narcissist herself. I loved her, but I can't be her friend anymore 😔

@janejohnson6912

Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@stevenkovler5133

Жыл бұрын

I think my soon to be ex wife ( I am Still trauma bonded and deeply in love with her). Had a traumatic child hood even though she tries to claim I did ( I did not). She became abusive and would either hit me when she got angry or take money from me.

@PassionateFlower

Жыл бұрын

Cut your losses ✂ and let her sink her own ship. 🛳

Narcissistic behavior used to be referenced by the man named Narcisus who was so beautiful who fell into the land staring at his reflection. Now they fall into their phones

@sydneysweat37

Жыл бұрын

🤯

@nancynoonan3997

Жыл бұрын

Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Please note that he fell in love with his reflection, not himself which emphasizes the unreality of his love. He failed to love himself and chose a reflection instead.

@deynwill123

Жыл бұрын

You said it bcuz God hold parents accountable & in this era no one wants to be accountable

@kerstinshaded8084

Жыл бұрын

Exactly😂

@Trpmanne

Жыл бұрын

You’re right. Narcissistic women hiding behind a false facade of righteousness are glue on their phones with dating apps to get all of their supplies… I was one of them.

No accountability and/or consequences ❗🎯

@GT-ox3pe

Жыл бұрын

I will further your statement with a concrete example : I am a veteran teacher. Over the course of 20 years I watched less and less be demanded of children to the last point of the standards based grading system which allowed students to pass in work late up until the last day of the trimester without consequence. We all know that’s not how real life works because if we pay bills late we get bad credit…it’s a free for all in some public schools and when I passed out a test and the kid pushes it back and says I’m not ready to take this now I’ll do it later and it’s okay ? It’s really not okay in reality !!! This is how it’s working folks.

@Noname-hs5lx

Жыл бұрын

Trauma

@sunflowersnowleopard2035

Жыл бұрын

Gen Z and Millennials are shown to have the highest education and highest work productivity compared to any other generation in history. Boomers have the highest rates of narcissism when looking at actual evidence, and grew up with tons of government privileges younger generations will never know, like social security. But we're the ones not accountable with no consequences? Okay lol All this, while you Boomers are waiting for your kids to take care of you in old age, because most of you irresponsibly handled your finances and can't accept the consequences? But we're the problem 🙄

@Amazology

Жыл бұрын

Easy to say. Sadly too general to be of practical use. Narcissism is rife in Iran, India, Israel etc. It's found in every continent not just North America so the roots are deep which means a simple cry for accountability, while understandable, will not suffice as an adequate response IMO

@kirstenholmquist7074

Жыл бұрын

You are so right. Imagine being betrayed by one if those narisstsitc children for money . This showed up just as i read on Quora about adult daughters who are narcissistic. I learned rhat you vant divorce them as adukts, but that you arent responsible for their financial mess.,etc. Especially when the ex +😮other parent bought them off while you sufferded unnecessary financial burdens etc from the ex not obeying the court orders. You cant divorce your chikdeen but legal says you dont owe them for their excessive and srlfishe spending ,etc Thankful for dogs abd cats thst are loving and give more caring love than children that belittled and blame you for their bad choices. This is one of the best psychiatry speeches ecer. My mom saw problems ,partly because she had been a psychiatric nurse.

As someone with a (religious) narcissistic mother- spoiling, participation trophies, lack of religion, social media are NOT the source of narcissism. Nature vs nurture is at play, but the nurture contribution is almost always due to early childhood trauma. Narcissists are not spoiled, vain brats. They're traumatized and void of empathy. It's far worse.

"When you don't look to God, you look to man. That's why we have so many narcissists." THAT right there!

@andreah6379

Жыл бұрын

Religion, believing in God is no guarantee that that pastor or priest or Pope, reverend, etc...isn't a manipulative, self-absorbed lying narcissist!! Watch true crime stories. Like law enforcement, anybody who's religious can be a narcissist!!

@jenntinsley2607

Жыл бұрын

​@@andreah6379 There are wicked people in charge.

@Shelzam

Жыл бұрын

Man I really like your work, but dude the break down of the family and "taking God out of American life" mythology??? God isn't a safeguard against narcissism. Performance church-going (look at me I go to church constantly, look at me in the family pew, look at me voting against the teachings of Jesus, look at me quoting the OLD testament in an attempt to shame someone with less power, look at me applaud the minister who is preaching people should not be allowed dignity at church or in public, look at me perfunctorily praise God for my good fortune but not my opponent's), celebrity pastors, tyranny of legalistic church rules, blind access and trust in a church elder/deacon/youth pastor/etc, indeed religion is a playground of narcissism. If you require a fear of God to practice right from wrong, you are a narcissist at heart. If you have empathy and accountability, you will be safeguarded far far better. I think we could find agreement t that there is a breakdown in the family because parents are unsupported by bad public policies that do not protect the time, dignity, rest, and care for parent or child. You can not constantly reward exploitation in policy and dehumanize the individual citizen and think things arent going to fall apart. C.f. Religion isn't helping. God might be an ally but he can't just be the ally of one person or one church. Believing God ALWAYS wants what you want IS narcicissm.

@ahoj132_at_azet_sk

Жыл бұрын

​@@andreah6379 That's true and basic teaching in christianity. They are called hypocrites and Pharisees. Acting religious but not changed by Gid from inside.

@feckless7989

Жыл бұрын

They never have a problem with taking the Goddess out, though.

Amen, pride comes before the fall. When the world celebrates pride, narcissists thrive

@daughteroftherisenking3165

Жыл бұрын

Amen to that

@Richard-vq7ud

Жыл бұрын

Most gays actually are not part of "pride"

@bogami2126

Жыл бұрын

O

@curlyb4c95

Жыл бұрын

No “pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18 KJV

@mysanityizgone4576

Жыл бұрын

Also, the Bible stated that in the days of Noah, men were lovers of self. Jesus is coming soon!

Absolutely. Narcissism is so prevalent nowadays that it is easy to consistently see in your environment.

As a retired teacher, I agree 💯!

@prismonthethehorizon5793

Жыл бұрын

Yes old style teaching worked far better than this new system! We had a really great headmistress when my first two children were very small but then the system changed, two schools merged to form an academy and a new style of teaching was brought in and there was less authority for the teachers, at least that was my experience of it since I used to be called into school to get my child from under the table or out of the cupboard because he couldn't be handled by a teacher ( I was breast feeding my newborn at the the time too). They looked at me gone out when I put him in the naughty corner at school because he was running me ragged whilst in school. Mrs O'Brien was old school and you just didn't push boundaries with her! My second born son was very much a boundary pusher and got off on sensationalism, my older son was very good he had 3 monitor jobs. Personally the teachers should of had the authority to get him out from under the table rather than having to call us in to do it for them. That would have never happened under Mrs O'Brien's watch! I think schools are also under alot of stress with governing bodies like Ofstead that it focuses more on the red tape and takes away from teaching!

@lydiadoyle1163

Жыл бұрын

And there are is right

@Richard-vq7ud

Жыл бұрын

Me too. Dont get me started!!!

@Morgan-yl3ou

Жыл бұрын

​@@prismonthethehorizon5793gree with you. Im an ex teacher . You are right. Also ofsted has ruined teaching, by creating mountains of paperwork . It ends up being less teaching and more admin work. Even report writing is all done by computers , not the teachers ... ( we just punched in numbers, almost like coding , most reports are copies, not personal at all, except for elder students ). ..making everything feel artificial and without feeling . Many senior teachers have left early, and now theres a shortage of teachers . Its no longer a desirable job. I left early thank god. Like you say we have no control, and too much red tape. I fear for pupils now...how much it damages them. Im old school too, i was lucky to start before the rise of internet changed everything for worst. Yes, they may learn more from it, but without proper discipline and order ..many students are losing their direction. Like Dr Clarke says ... narcisism is on a sharp rise and many people have a god complex. Its a danger to all mankind, earth, animals and wildlife. I cant bare to watch.

@naajiyahjess7694

11 ай бұрын

You guys are literally Correctional Officer's working for a corrupt government, indoctrinating students and teaching them nothing they'll truly need to know to be successful in this world. Don't get me started! You all have no room to come for anyone.

Narcissists accuse more people of being narcissists than anyone else does

@TallGlass-fh8qf

8 ай бұрын

but nowadays it isn't false anymore

@dididisun

4 ай бұрын

This is Not true

@bluecollarlit

3 ай бұрын

Narcissist trying to silence people who are learning about the disorder.

The two abusive narcissists I know were/are both physically attractive people and people catered to their good looks. It's how they got what they wanted including constant attention. To this day, they cannot stand anyone else but them getting attention. They seek to hurt anyone they're jealous of and anyone who stops paying attention to them.

Children learn what they see within the environment that which they are raised in. The things you say to your children become their inner voice..... Be very mindful of how you speak to your children along with the dialogue with your partner

We need more men like yourself

Bad mothers breed narcissism, not a lack of faith.

@CG-no7js

8 ай бұрын

Weak or absent fathers, are also part of the problem too!

@luluadapa5222

8 ай бұрын

@CG-no7js It is actually the primary caregiver that the baby must individuate from. The secondary caregiver helps to socialise the child, once they are no longer enmeshed with the primary. Try Doctor Professor Sam Vaknin, to learn more about how Cluster B personality disorders actually occur

@fanofmansbestfriend

Сағат бұрын

@@luluadapa5222 that guy has narcissism himself...why listen to him?

Social media and no boundaries.... Pure chaos!!

He is sooooo, on point.

@NickyM_0

Жыл бұрын

I know, right?!

@robertolivavidal5898

11 ай бұрын

He is soooo not.

Man will become lovers of themselves...truth2power!!! Thank you sir 4 affirming the truth!!!

@frebrd78

Жыл бұрын

All about self rather than helping each other out... Neighbors don't talk to each other anymore... I took my roommates pug for a walk and he houdini-E.D. out of his harness. I'm running back and forth trying to catch him and I hear/see the neighbor's just laughing. Yes, it was comical but even a "do you need help" would have been nice.

@erickagilpatrick2347

Жыл бұрын

I am a nanny💯💯💯true 0 accountability!

@madelinebigio7565

Жыл бұрын

Yessss I tried to tell all of my family members this and a lot of friends and since I wasn’t perfect 👍 being a young teenage parent but I see how they are the reason why I’m there kids are narcissists and is coming back to bite them in the you know what I didn’t spoiled her because we was struggling but she appreciated the little things we did as a family! These days these kids are spoiled rotten!

@sunflowersnowleopard2035

Жыл бұрын

​@@erickagilpatrick2347 Really? How so? Can you give examples that are different from when you were younger?

The breakdown of the family is the foundation of all trauma.

What about the "old" (over 50) narcissists? There are plenty of those too

@cyndigooch1162

Жыл бұрын

Monica J NYC That's exactly right and it seemed like most adults were highly narcissistic, or much worse, when I was growing up in NZ in the 60s and 70s! 🙁

Correctly and almost breathlessly said. Romans 1:18-32, 2 Timothy 3:1-5. "When you don't look to God, you look to man, and that breeds narcissism, and everyone becomes his own god. " IDOLATRY and LOVERS OF SELF.

Thank you. They're everywhere!

@bogami2126

Жыл бұрын

O

My husband and I put my son on a pedestal and spoiled him!! Now he seems to have a attitude

@jessieschatz9611

Жыл бұрын

My ex in a nutshell. Parents who gave him God-like status and it's sick how he relishes in the notion of how he can get away with just about anything because everyone thinks he's so "perfect". It's incredibly damaging when their public persona falls off.

@r_ns7150

3 ай бұрын

The parents are responsible and set the childs path that way. Look at your own doings

Amen! God is Truth and when you look to God you are humbled and come to the end of self.

The main thing is that people are waking up to it.

I REALLY appreciate the fact that you're honest about this... I feel like I'm surrounded by Narcissists, but others act like The Emperor is wearing New Clothes. It's maddening.

"When you don't look to God You look to man And that breeds narcissism And everyone becomes his own god" Thank you

Well said sir. Some of the main roots of the problem. Childhood trauma (legit) is another major root.

Why so many? Answer: Because they are not in prison being held accountable for their actions

@tranquility9325

10 ай бұрын

Many inmates are narcissists.

Hi there my name is Bill and I've been dealing with a terrible narcissistic wife for 4 years. I never even heard the word narcissist until I was 61 years old and my ex-wife was 42 and I just fell absolutely Head over heels in love with her love at first sight. And what a terrible tragedy it is brought to my life and the relationship with the two most important people in my life and that's my two children. We have rekindled our relationship and I am so glad that I left her before she took everything from me and ruined my life. I didn't leave for a long time because I thought that she would change I thought that I could change her I thought that she would see what a good man I was but I found out the hard way that she was incapable of loving me I found out the hard way that in order for a narcissist to love they have to love themselves first and I guess that's impossible it's great to see a new face are you a new face to me in this ongoing disgusting issue with the life-changing and destroying narcissist thank you

@reginaarnone4845

Жыл бұрын

you should kiss the ground that you made it out alive.

@LR-yu3mx

Жыл бұрын

Same happened to my dad. He did everything in his ability to keep her happy.The children had to install their radar to detect.her mood.

@deewilson446

Жыл бұрын

It isn’t that you made a mistake, Sir. You were beguiled by a Jezebel spirit. You couldn’t have known it prior. Thank God you have removed her & reconciled with your children!

@fifilafleur5555

11 ай бұрын

I wish my dad was as smart & wise as you. He did the same thing. Married a woman much younger than him. She has isolated him in his old age and put horrible things in his head about his children from previous marriages. He believes everything she tells him. She’s a good manipulator. It’s been a heartbreaking & devastating experience to see how he treats us now. My relationship with him is over. He left his other kids out of his will and we weren’t even invited to his 70th birthday party. He also stopped acknowledging my birthday. When my younger sister died I had to plead with him just to see her one last time. His own daughter! This wicked woman (who he worships) has caused problems within the family and even between him and his brother. Of course, there’s wealth this woman is after for herself. She didn’t marry for love. I wish my dad loved his kids like you love yours.

Most of the 'narcissist' I know personally we're born between 1915 & 1985

@royalkatherine

Жыл бұрын

I totally believe Satan released a legion during that time and those demons latched onto the souls who incarnated on earth, rejected God, and consented to their influence. They wreak havoc on the children of God who remain faithful to Him.

@Luckypeach237

Жыл бұрын

​@@royalkatherine can u tell me what is havoc?

This is the first credible explanation I have heard of why narcissists exist, and in larger numbers.

You nailed it

Very well said 👏. Worrisome times ahead🙏🏻

Perfectly said. Thank you.

Thank you. I totally agree with you.

Amen! Very true and without God we are our own God's.

@We_shall_overcom

7 ай бұрын

*gods

OMG this is so true. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

RIGHT ON!!!! Amen & amen. 🙏

I agree with you on all points. I also think the internet and texting as a means of communicating with no real human connection. It creates a coldness. People don’t even realize it, mostly because a lot of the younger generation hasn’t ever experienced connection like we had before technology.

In the end times men will be lovers of themselves= narcissism.

@daynapeterson9033

Жыл бұрын

The Book of Revelation is playing out before our eyes.

Right on! My dad always used to say, "it all started when they threw the switch out". What I say is, "the reason they threw the switch out, is because they threw the Bible out first". “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.” Proverbs 13:34 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.” Proverbs 22:15 “Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.” “Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.” Proverbs 23:13&14 “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.” (Proverbs 29:15, KJV)

Thank you Dr! It's everywhere....i'm from Italy!

@bluecollarlit

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your perspective on this subject. I was just wondering, is the epidemic of narcissism just in America, or is it all over the world...? Thanks again.

This needs to be herd across the whole world 💯 thank you for the truth

Glad u did this video I actually said this today.....Why are there so many narcissist?

This is so true my child refuses to pray he rebels against it.

SPOILED KIDS and NO FAILURE POLICY. Yep.

This is a FACT...

Lmao the “break down of the family” I grew up in a traditional family religious and father being the head of household and bread winner. All of his children with the exception of maybe 2 are super covert narcissists.

This man spoke so much statistical facts 💯 👏🏽

This is sooooo ✅️ RIGHT.

Very well explained

All true....thank you!!

Agreed, 100%. Thank you, Dr. David! Love it! ..transparency, so very important +++

My nephew, a math teacher told me this one student told him.." You can't talk to me that way! My dad's a lawyer!".

Truly exactly everything being said is exactly right. Once you take God out of the equation, then everyone's opinion becomes their own law. And unfortunately we're really at a point of no return. Right now. We need God to step in and fix this. Not only for people here in this country but for all countries

@tristanmctarsney

3 ай бұрын

there are a lot of religious narcissists so I don’t know why we blame a person for not indoctrinating their kids into being mindless slaves who only do the right thing because they are told to people should be for goodness sake not to go to heaven and do things out of fear instead teach your child to do good for goodness sake not for themselves not for god but because it is the right thing to do.

Boy is this the truth, every word!!!!!

Amen 🙏💯 absolutely correct.and look at the people in this world today .

True. I believe also that since the beginning of time the "norm" was to have several other siblings. Having other siblings (brothers/sisters) teaches people so many things, i.e. how to share with others (i.e., the attention of parents- material things - learning proper conversations and interactions with those of our age, and that the "universe does not revolve around us" - and it goes on and on. m

As someone that found out a few years ago that what I am is called a narcissist, that took this information and try to fight off my narcissistic tendencies, you got me dead wrong. It's not always mommy and daddy got money and spoiled baby. Very easy description which makes me question your credentials. Sometimes, for people like me, who grew up how I grew up, it's the opposite. Sometimes it boils down to severe punishments so you become slippery to avoid trouble. Sometimes it's about just feeling like people like you, even if you're aware that they only really like the puppet you made of yourself for them. I went almost 30 years having no idea that the way my brain works has a name and that it's a bad name. So I try to be "genuine" but even that feels fake. Like I'm playing along to some nonsensical rules that nobody made up yet everyone follows.

@LauraHalvar

Жыл бұрын

💯 . I admire that you are trying to keep from using and hurting others. I know narcs can also be biologically predisposed because of some cluster B genetics. There is no one reason for narcissism.

@yo_fbi_agent

Жыл бұрын

@@LauraHalvar another thing about it is that a lot of the time when I'm hurting people with my narcissism, I genuinely do not mean to hurt you and I genuinely do not realize I'm hurting you. Almost every time I've caused someone emotional pain from my narcissism, I didn't even know I hurt them until after the fact when you tell me flat out that I hurt you (always emotional, I don't inflict physical pain onto my loved ones) so I also have to ruminate on the entire situation leading up to the point that you said my actions hurt you and I have to really really concentrate and sift through my thoughts at the time to try to figure out how and/or why I hurt you. Sometimes I see it quickly, sometimes it takes much longer, sometimes I still don't see it. I'm not sure what it is that causes the mental block but I'll tell you it's kinda annoying

@LauraHalvar

Жыл бұрын

@@yo_fbi_agent Thank you for helping me understand. Has antisocial personality disorder been ruled out?

@tovenrvik6336

Жыл бұрын

​@@LauraHalvar Look to the channel Narc Survivor, Quora Digest etc. ‼️🎯

@RitaG4404

Жыл бұрын

@@LauraHalvar Your statement doesn’t make sense. There is always a reason for how a person acts.

Individualistic culture (which we don't actually have) while having no accountability like how narcissists are regularly rewarded with positions of power, money, etc. Culture also encourages bragging so image is so much more important

I got annoyed when he blamed God being removed, until he explained why. I totally agree and it never occurred to me the benefit of encouraging others to believe in a higher power outside of themselves. Without this, people internalize these things and as he said "become their own God". WOW! That's so powerful. 🤯

You are absolutely so correct! thank you for the obvious truth. can't deny it.

Good question!! Wondering that too.🤔.they have increased!!🚩...unfortunately if one parent is narcissist or worse two parents one or more of their children will become a narcissist too..really hurts when a sibling become a narcissist as the father for example...also very much because of social media as you say..never been into social media except YT...felt from the start that it was scary with a lot of strangers..🧐

The worst narcissists I know are in their 50’s and above. Not affected by these environmental factors you describe. Think it is more than that.

SADNESS OF A CHILD MISSING A PARENT AND CRYING PERFUSIVLY.... BEING LEFT AT DAYCARE OR BABYSITTER FOR EXAMPLE ......TIME AND TIME AGAIN UNTIL THE CHILD IS EMOTIONALLY BROKEN.

I always said that. When we don't focus on G-d we focus on ourselves. This breeds narcissism.

@eigelgregossweisse9563

10 ай бұрын

God is an excuse for narcissists. I know this because my father is that. Just made him worse.

I wouldn't use a teacher as an example because they are no longer teachers they are groomers of a society we don't need

We don’t acknowledge God, we did not remove Him , He turn us over to ourselves He just step back to let us see who and what we really are 😢

@bernitacenteno1326

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes this is right on. God is not allowed in many arenas. 😑 😐 😶 😏 🤐 🤨 It's 🤑 not🙏🏼 which is the ideology that narcissists have. " ❤ one another as I have loved you ", Jesus Christ said.

@NickyM_0

Жыл бұрын

No, God gave us free will and choice. Many of us made the 'choice' to turn our backs on him and his Word. Many of us discredited the TRUTH contained in the Bible. Instead 'hated' on TRUE Christians whilst talking about 'love'. Many of us rejected God's Word and guidance and said I want to do it my way according to my interpretation! These are false people (pretending to believe in God) obsessed with SELF = deluded narcissists. 2 CORINTHIANS 11:12-14 (v.12) “But what I do, I will also continue to do, that I may cut off the opportunity from those who desire an opportunity to be regarded just as we are in the things of which they boast. (v.13) For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into apostles of Christ. (v.14) And no wonder! For Satan himself transforms himself into an angel of light.” ‭‭II Corinthians‬ ‭11‬:‭12‬-‭14‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

Brilliant! I totally agree with you! Especially… social media… Ooo LOOK AT ME!!! Errr doing nothing! Ooo LOOK at all my pictures… of myself! Ooo LOOK at my… fake hair… fake nails… Stop showing off… nothing! Get real! Love ❤️ this guy ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Amen.

Preach Sir!!! You just got a new subscriber! Thanks for speaking truth!

There have always been lots of narcissistic people in the past the reason why we notice them more now is because people especially women aren’t willing to hide and put up with it. Women especially would have to endure their narcissistic husbands cause they had no where to go and divorce was frowned upon.

@TallGlass-fh8qf

8 ай бұрын

there are just as many female narcissists, they're just given a pass

@Mr_Mistah

3 ай бұрын

There's more women that are narcissistic than men

@Mr_Mistah

3 ай бұрын

There's narcissistic females too. A lot of them.

@Mr_Mistah

3 ай бұрын

​@@TallGlass-fh8qf Exactly

It’s scary! Sir you are correct! No God! No accountability! No responsibility! You Pass You Win 🏆 NO Matter what you do! It’s sad!!! 😢

Well said…..Perfectly! 🙏🏻❤️

Yes!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌

I remember once in like the first or second grade, I looked at my neighbor's paper during a test. My teacher yanked me out of my seat and whaled away on me. I never tried to cheat again.

@merin5230

Жыл бұрын

And did you really appreciate that feeling? I suppose you beat your own children because you think you turned out alright? Well you didn't. A child is powerless and you approve of a grown, strong adult beating a small child like that? You think that won't affect them as an adult? You're a sick man. If an adult male "whaled the hell" out of another adult male, he'd be jailed for grievous bodily harm. So why is it ok in your mind to assault and deliver permanent injury to a small child? That's sick, man. You need therapy. And if you do beat your children, don't be surprised if they fail at school ,at work,at life. Because they have childhood trauma and parents who should be safe turn out to be the greatest threat. I'm glad I don't know you and that you're not in front of me. I was emotionally abused by both my parents and I was born in 1963. And my father raped me. And I wasn't believed. It was me being a liar. There are many good people who are good despite forced indoctrination. And man, how conceited is this post? What the hell makes you think it's only america? Grow up and open your eyes. And if you beat your kids into submission, I hope you rot in your hell.

@leahweinberger583

Жыл бұрын

Terrible story

@fifilafleur5555

11 ай бұрын

Yea, a little harsh to handle a child that way. She could have asked you to step outside the classroom and had a talk with you... but I’m glad you learned your lesson.

I totally agree with every word that you said! It is time that common sense comes to the forefront!

You are the best of all the lecturers on psychology that I came across by now BECAUSE YOU DONT IGNORE THE PLACE THAT GID HAS IN OUR LIVES.

This is so true , took God away 🙏

That’s why I will be single till I fully know the man

@sadist8902

Жыл бұрын

He’ll play you until he has you or he gets tired of you and moves on. He doesn’t even need to be narcissistic to be tired, a narcissist can go on for years before showing themselves so a healthy man isn’t going to wait on that.

@lorimata-rodriguez1350

Жыл бұрын

Isn't that being a narcissist yourself? "That's why I will be single till I fully know the man" Know him to be... what? Did you create your own standard? You know GOD commanded HIS prophet Hosea to marry a prostitute. Pick up your cross and follow the LORD and seek first the kingdom of GOD

@abizarrebazaar3814

11 ай бұрын

be careful, saying fully know a man in this room.

@tea-chip-cookies

10 ай бұрын

Yeah there are so many of us who are single in our 30's. Many of us are getting married and having kids later in life now

We don't need more people like him, we need to be MORE like him! When you say you need more people like him, you're saying that you're gonna see this and your not going to try to make a change in yourself or other people and your just gonna hope that more people like him suddenly pop up out of nowhere. I'm not saying be exactly like him but try to see him as an example to change.

Absolutely brilliant assessment. Lack of civility. Lack of care for one’s fellow man. I live for the material mentality.

Ok, i hear you in all of this. And i agree. However the woman who gave birth to me is 78 years old and stark raving mad. She believes in God. But she is cruel to her husband (this is her 2nd husband, my father died when I was 5) and she is cruel to my sister and I. My sister and I have been reading up and reasearching narcissism for the last 6 months and we both have concluded that the woman who gave birth to us is a covert narcissist. I was the golden child. My poor sister was not. Each of us has severe trauma.

I don't give out likes easily. You got a like :)

I "LOVE YOU", SIR.💙

You are right on the spot brother !

Can we talk? OH LORD TELL IT. I feel guilty did I create a monster??? If I at fault HELP IM READY

Amen, true, true, true!

Great breakdown. 👏 Thank you. ✨

BRILLIANT!! Agree 100%

Truth; sadly it’s too late to fix the problem. It will become the legendary perpetual motion machine; cranking out narcissists until it’s just a contest to see who is worse….which will eventually be seen as a good thing.

@velma3797

Жыл бұрын

And that would be the end of the world

@Richard-vq7ud

Жыл бұрын

They say the only thing to fix all this now is the Second Coming of Christ.

@laurabenske8381

Жыл бұрын

Not true . If every person in America would simply say the Lord's prayer one time a day. Everyday diligently. Everything would be better I promise. God told me so. Im now telling all of you and invitng you to pray with me. Less than 10 seconds a day per person. We could heal America and all our families. I love you

@pannellclara

Жыл бұрын

@@laurabenske8381 it’s in my heart❣️

@ania4683

Жыл бұрын

Parents have to become more aware of how they raise their children. It all starts at home.

I love when you said, social media is the main driver. It is like a catalog, look at me...over kill. No one cares!!! You are so right about taking God out of our culture. We are in a different time. I like the 60's, 70's, 80's. Even music are way better.

Amen 🙏🏿 🙏🏿

Instead of looking around to see who they can help, people look around to see who looks/acts/says/does something weird or crazy so they can record it & put it on THEIR social media in hopes of going viral😡. People who genuinely care, are compassionate, kind & sympathetic are gold! Cherish them🫂

GOD have mercy on All of us 🙏 Well said thanks

Sin in people's life Yes, all these points are accurate

You don't need religion or a "belief" in any God to be a good person.

I totally agree with you!!!! Our adult married children and their spouses treat us disrespectfully.

This is THE BEST explanation ever and I agree with you whole heartedly!