“She doesn’t like people to know... so i don’t tell you” respect

@some1else688

3 жыл бұрын

Y E S

@eevieaaa759

3 жыл бұрын

She's a real one

@khaela9255

3 жыл бұрын

She'll have your back no matter what

@alisaintannandaputrigyza8059

3 жыл бұрын

F

@citysc4pes916

3 жыл бұрын

Justice for me whos crush always got leaked😭🤚

“A teacher” “A princess” You can see something in their answers

@PyroGothNerd

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, the Mom seems to be projecting what she wants her child to want

@jesusRamirez-xv7xp

3 жыл бұрын

@@PyroGothNerd Projecting is really bad its a form of sickening control. Control land order is important for children but not these stupid fantasies such as princess or astronaut. Lets be honest they aint opening astronaut positions every 15 days

@gnap6051

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesusRamirez-xv7xp damn you really felt the need to burst someone's bubble.

@jesusRamirez-xv7xp

3 жыл бұрын

@@gnap6051 Exactly people live in a little bubble and cant see things clearly. Bubble

@jkardi9803

3 жыл бұрын

That one didn't surprise me actually and I can see her saying both. Most young children have a dual image of themselves and what they want to be in the future. Typically one aspiration is responsible, well-regarded, and positively contributing to society (teacher, doctor, fireman) and the other unrealistic, fanciful, and without limits (unicorn, batman, fairy) Fun activity, ask any 5-year old what they want to be when they grow up and after they answer say, "or....?". Unless you have a child with unusual psychology, you tend to get at least one of each. 🥰

You know what's sadder? These nannies know more about these kids than their own children.

@nemoali2626

9 ай бұрын

Maybe they don’t have kids, that’s way they are with them 24/7

@Myra146av

3 ай бұрын

I think they do

@anastasiavoit409

3 ай бұрын

@@nemoali2626they have children, and sometimes these maids work with those families until children grow up, have their own children and maids take care of Their children as well , while maid’s own children receive only money from their mom and no attention or presence.

@ThinkerNinja

3 ай бұрын

Heartbreaking

@sheilaolayo2155

3 ай бұрын

So true, for most of them it's a sacrifice they have to make for their children, they're forced to pick between being present or providing.

“Shouldn’t we spend more time with our children?” Was such a powerful quote at the end of this video.

@WoozyCool

10 ай бұрын

firstly, the nannies go home and tada they don't know their kids' preferences JUST as these mothers who hired them don't secondly, the point was how the nannies are underpaid and overworked, which is nice, but, *why step on one to lift another?* mothers, especially in asia, go through enough sh*t as it is no one even thinks where the f*ck are the fathers, cuz not all these women are single mothers? *these mother forgot their kids' preferences, being busy making sure their kids won't have to toil like they do, to have a decent life* this video is VERY tone deaf to mothers. just cuz they wanted to do justice to maids, doesn't excuse being tone deaf to those mothers.

@ManiyaVinas

10 ай бұрын

And the maid doesn’t have children of her own?

@Maxi.Maverick

9 ай бұрын

@@ManiyaVinas probably not. Most travel from their home as soon as they become legal to escape poverty, then they work as nannies till the kids are old enough and them move back home to get married and perhaps start a family. Some don’t end up going back at all, and marries someone in the country they work in or just continue working.

@TheFakeyCakeMaker

8 ай бұрын

Everyone knows they should but it's a luxury to be able to do that.

@tamhuy10

8 ай бұрын

where's daddy ?

The one who said "she doesn't want anyone to know so I won't tell you" is very trustworthy wow

@lunablossom5354

3 жыл бұрын

I know I literally cried that is so wholesome

@tomsdolly7661

3 жыл бұрын

Yep.

@reemchan6880

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@amithyaanindita

3 жыл бұрын

Not my children needs her. I NEED HER 😩

@laura.the.explora

3 жыл бұрын

I know she’s showing the little girl so much respect that normally we don’t give to children

Take a moment to look how proud the last woman is when she says "She looks for me". Very sweet.

@peggingbatman

3 жыл бұрын

its sweet but sad, seems like the mother doesnt pay attention or hang out with their own kid 😔

@priam9376

3 жыл бұрын

Her smile... you can see how much she loves that child

@vivianareyes3671

3 жыл бұрын

@@priam9376 yes

@thewhisper8798

3 жыл бұрын

That part almost made me cry

@_Dreamay

3 жыл бұрын

They all look very proud

When I was a nanny, I was taking care of this girl (an only child). When I first came to her family, her parents constantly get a note from her school teacher of how poorly she behaved at school. She was a very emotional girl. She would even kick me or spit at her mom whenever she doesn’t get what she wants. Whenever I would put her to bed, she gets restless and anxious; she doesn’t want me to leave her room. I didn’t know how to deal with it so I would just tell her Bible stories to divert her mind, and pray for her. Later on, she would pray on her own. She also liked to ask me about God. Her parents were very busy so I was the one who would also help her with her homework most of the time. We played a lot and spend so much time together just having fun and be silly at times. I saw how she changed so much. She eventually became a role model in her classroom. Her mom cried when she first became a role model in her class. Eventually, I had to leave the family because I was to get married and had to move to another state. The girl told me that I was her mom. It really touched my heart but I had to explain to her that her parents loved her so much and that they were doing their best to give her a good life. I also told her that I was not her mom but I could be her sister from another mom. She told me to not forget her even when I become a mom myself. She said that she was my first child. I’m a mom of two now, and up to this day, I still think of her and pray for her. I hope she’s happy and well. Children just want to feel loved. They want to feel that their parents like them, want to be with them, and enjoy being with them.

"No boyfriend for me! Only friends." WHY IS THAT SO CUTE

@MaxEuler-ds1ep

28 күн бұрын

ikr that girl won so many hearts today ❤

@temmie31

3 күн бұрын

It was a sweet line , but why does her mom think it's ok to have " crushes " at such young age AND exposing them to everyone watching ....

"She looks for me" "She doesnt like people to know, so I dont tell you" Sweet 💞

@Gone29364

3 жыл бұрын

Finally, people who don't spoil the kid's privacy

@ayeshcia8772

3 жыл бұрын

Aw-

@andriwahyudani1302

3 жыл бұрын

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@adrianasafiya1643

3 жыл бұрын

@@Gone29364 yes

@anonymousina9210

3 жыл бұрын

The "she looks for me" is kinda me, cause I remember having a nightmare and I ran into my maid instead of my mom...

“I am your parent, I know the most about you more than anyone in the world”......ok

@stillvisibletoallusers

3 жыл бұрын

For most parents this is probably true until they're teens at least. Parents with maids are a minority.

@user_508.

3 жыл бұрын

Ok

@tanigawaisamu

3 жыл бұрын

But isnt it supposed to be u knowing the most abt u?-

@icedmacchiatooo

3 жыл бұрын

@az_koala no lol i dont think they know im gay

@frootiloops1704

3 жыл бұрын

@@tanigawaisamu 👁️

I had a Vietnamese classmate in college. He was born in Vietnam and spoke English and Vietnamese, but I was surprised to learn that his first language was actually Spanish. His parents both had demanding full time jobs, so after they had him they left him with a maid for most of his childhood. The maid spoke Spanish to him everyday, so that was the language he naturally acquired. Whether this is a good thing is bad thing is hard to tell, and I think it’s a really hard balance to find. On one hand, his parents worked hard and earned plenty of money, so they never worried about finances. But in the process they let their son grow up with a someone else.

@graceysarah23

11 ай бұрын

thats a little sad but still he learned Spanish so its okay

@marimo66666

10 ай бұрын

​@@graceysarah23as someone who grew up under the care of my maid, once you miss the time spent with your children, it is never the same as trying to compensate by spending time later. i feel more gratitude than kinship towards my parents 30 years today

@naomix7738

10 ай бұрын

Its Kind of cool to speak another language like that

@Miracleofnight__

9 ай бұрын

​@@marimo66666honestly I think it finishes the love of children for thier parents a child develop love at the age of 1,2 till 7 after that they don't usually get attached specially at age of 13 and 14 they become rebellious and a children mindset never change after 12 what they learn before he age of 12 is what going on with thier life for almost forver

@pomodoro144

9 ай бұрын

that’s kind of sad but actually pretty cool

Mom's "she won't wake up but she'll scream and cry" vs their "she looks for me/I tell my auntie".. that one broke my heart.

The ending quote is "Let's give domestic workers their legal days off" This video is about domestic workers' rights and the fact that they have to spend more time with someone else's child more than their own.

@s0Shi

3 жыл бұрын

This.

@SomebodyWon

3 жыл бұрын

Thats susp AMONG US IS HERE 2

@otakumangastudios3617

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! There's in fact very much this kind of culture in america, and I can think of a few examples off the top of my head. The parents really think they're doing the best thing for their child, but I think our world has really gotten caught up in the materialistic idea of money is love, and I know these particular families were restricted on what they could and could not get, so they got financially gluttonous when they became adults themselves, and then so they perceived love of their children as having a job that takes away all their time from them to make enough money to buy them super expensive toys and such. I know that as a result, the oldest child has behavioral issues due to a sense of feeling unloved and unappreciated, although that was rarely addressed most of his childhood, and mostly treated as if he was purposely trying to be a little devil, which I know he was not, the middle sister is the most mature of all, warmer than her own brother, likely she developed that way because there is no one else mature enough to really be the head, and then there's the baby sister who is just shy in front of everyone in a way that seems, at least from my conversations with her, that she does not trust adults. She did not trust me at first, but after talking to her for a little bit very gently and kindly and openly, she opened up to me as well, and I saw a lot of pain in her heart. I feel bad for all three of them

@ASmith-jn7kf

3 жыл бұрын

Well that's because for some reason society is for maids and nannies having a job raising children but not their real parents.

@Lourdes-wf9hm

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, also another sad thing is that they get fired when they get too old to work, even if they feel more like a mother than the child's actual mother.

The one maid that said "she doesn't like other people to know" has my respect.

@meowlinae1480

3 жыл бұрын

Right!! Finally someone said it She really cared about the kid's feeling and respect than the mom

@gargi4330

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@Devi_Seona

3 жыл бұрын

Same, I almost got emotional with this one, pure love, while the mom gave the name without thinking about it.

@ZC-hi8ir

3 жыл бұрын

The maid kept her secret 😔

@dayakwarfighter7477

3 жыл бұрын

Yep total loyalty , Alfred pennyworth level

The “she doesn’t like people to know” maid seems lovely. You can tell she loves the girl

I was born in Malaysia but grew up in Singapore. My father was a surgeon and was out of the house for most of the day until late into the evening. My mother didn't work but she spent most of her day at cafes and tennis clubs. My nanny was called Alma, and she was from Laos. When she began working in our home I was 3 and called her Ah-Ah, but she never corrected me so the name stuck. She would cook for me, took me to school and to the park, and would often sing to me when she put me to bed. When she came to live and work in our home I began to see my mother less and less, and only at breakfast. I called Ah-Ah "Mama" once by accident, but she began to cry so I was careful never to do it again. She raised me until I turned 13, then she got sick and went back to Laos and I never saw her again. I cried every day for a month after she left. I didn't shed a single tear at my mother's funeral.

@user-kk9hp6sf3t

3 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear this. Every child deserves to be loved and cared for by their parents. I hope you’re doing okay now though ❤

What is also ironic is that a lot of domestic workers cannot take care of their OWN children, because they are busy taking care of other people's kids in order to raise their families :'(

@janemagsayo3997

3 жыл бұрын

It's a sad reality. I just hope these domestic workers get paid reasonably.

@loveyourself814

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly truee

@loliberryyydeadaccount8735

3 жыл бұрын

@Stella Li (li_1502) it's not strange, it's just normal, like how your mom works and gets money to support your needs too. Maids work normally too, just far from their own children

@joyuri7155

3 жыл бұрын

Why do you have break my heart like that.... I miss my mom

@amanekaze

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! It had been 10 years I've been treated as a domestic violence victim in my family. All of them never get along each other. I always tell myself, why did my dad marry a narcissistic jerk woman? Probably the looks? Yeah I guess. In the end, he doesn't know that the reason why I'm so quiet and mute already was part of my mother fault. I got fed up so bad and i wish if i could do the hand signal as a sign of victimized in family. I was an abused and bullied child. I was born with social anxiety ever since I reach my child age. All thanks to my mom, i feel mute now 🤭

Got teary eyed when the nanny protected her little girl's secret. Too precious.

@Milky_mans

3 жыл бұрын

When?

@Sol-fo2zu

3 жыл бұрын

LOL

@Milky_mans

3 жыл бұрын

@Nic Bai thanks

@introusas

3 жыл бұрын

@@Milky_mans the video is less than 2 mins long...

@rrrreeeeeeEEEEEeEeEeeEeEeeeee

3 жыл бұрын

@@introusas attention spans are no longer existent

“A teacher.” “A princess.” There is such a big change between those two answers.

I was raised by maids and I feel like comfortable openly talking with her than my mom. It’s not like I hate my mom or anything, it’s just that she feels like a safest place I can openly talk to and share my interest without any worries

@Ezra-o666

Жыл бұрын

Funny how you don't even think of blaming your dad just because he doesn't have ovaries.

@chiluxr250

11 ай бұрын

@@Ezra-o666 wtf was that for.. lol

@DGHeina

10 ай бұрын

@@Ezra-o666 they said nothing that implies blame, only that they feel safer with someone else then their mom. Also, this is a video about maids and mothers, of course there will be more comments about mothers. They could've omitted their dad for any number of reasons, maybe he's dead or something. And if not, not mentioning him implies that they definitely don't feel as safe with him anyway. You don't know. Your comment implies a lot of assumptions.

@agustdrip1960

4 ай бұрын

Yeah maybe because maid doesn't judge you and always listen to you ..

The fact that the one mom doesn’t even think her kid is waking up when in reality she does and immediately looks to the maid for comfort....

@TheGayestMushroom

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@diogenesofsinope7465

3 жыл бұрын

You don’t get a maid when you have enough time to spend with your kid

@dontmindme9046

3 жыл бұрын

@@diogenesofsinope7465 People shouldn't have kids they don't have time for.

@diogenesofsinope7465

3 жыл бұрын

@@dontmindme9046 that’s a progressive belief, these people don’t have the same values as some other countries, they only want to see their child succeed (usually) you shouldn’t tell someone how to parent if it doesn’t really do much harm. They still have someone taking care of them and have someone to look up to so why care?

@yoongi7854

3 жыл бұрын

dont mind me i’ll say it depends an example is like a divorce and the. the mother has to work full time to make enough money and arent able to spend time with there children

“She likes the boy Darius” “She doesn’t want people to know so I won’t say” idk I found that really sweet of the maid to respect the kid even if they’re super young

@noel6133

3 жыл бұрын

When the impostor is sus!!!!!!!!!!!

@andriwahyudani1302

3 жыл бұрын

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@aicerg

3 жыл бұрын

That's a basic idea that, believe it or not, many adults don't understand: children are people, not pets. They deserve respect.

@ihavenoidea2805

3 жыл бұрын

And also that's a kid, it's kinda weird when the mom said "she likes a boy" when the kid is like 10 and herself said she just wants friends

@pianohelper8873

3 жыл бұрын

"She likes the boy Darius" And that is how the rebelling phase started.

This happens everywhere. My mother has no idea what my degree is in, and she would tell people she didn't believe in my school instead of saying she didn't believe in me. The janitor woman at work knew what classes I was taking, and she was so encouraging! Shout out to Julie!

Used to know a nanny (in the UK, she was English) and she talked about how 'distant' the parents were from their kids. The parents will get a nanny when the kids are small, then send them off to Boarding School when they are old enough, then wonder why there is a lack of close emotional relationships within the family.

And the cruel thing is, some of peoples still treat a nanny just like a slave even when that woman loves their kids like their own

@miylx8396

3 жыл бұрын

Yea and it’s really sad people think that way cause I have a nanny and I see her as kinda like my second mom

@jottamartins

3 жыл бұрын

It's been more than 20 years and I can still remember vividly when my mom told that a lady was coming to work for us. She was going to clean, cook, and take care of me and my sister, but above all to care for our grandparents that lived with us. "She is going to care of our home and our family, and that makes her very important person. I don't even want to hear about you being rude or disrespectful to her!". A decade passed, grandparents passed away, we grew up, and my parents decided to move to another city.....how my mom and her cried holding each other. My mom had no illusions of the role she played in her daughter's lives over the years.

@bandungaye-aye758

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah its hurt me. At restaurant in family dinner. They just make a nany or house keeper sat on the other table just to hold their litle baby and dont even treated them meals. The family just make them wait and watch the family having a good times enjoy the food. Rich peoples!

@rocky-jy5nx

3 жыл бұрын

what about grand parents? ur parents dont live with em?

@tee3835

3 жыл бұрын

@Patronus what a horrible thing to say about these lovely women in the video

The saddest thing is that the maid's kids probably miss their mom so much while she's working to be able to feed them

@keacarter8392

3 жыл бұрын

I know right? I mean spending some times with your child should be normal but I understand those mothers that have to work. So seeing people in the comment section saying they're not good mothers or that they should not be mothers is saddening. Like, they can't judge them on a 1 minute video

@marianabarros6565

3 жыл бұрын

@@keacarter8392 Yes!! It's a loop that is difficult to be broken

@dontmatterrr

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. So very true.

@nicolaablett7790

3 жыл бұрын

grand parents parent it happens all over from Singapore to Beirut and Lagos Whole generations parented by their grandparents and the same the generation before You don't parent your own you parent your children's So they can have education MESSED UP WORKD WE HAVE CREATED

@b2st836

3 жыл бұрын

@@f.b.8700 but I think that would lower the maid’s salary income

I grew up with an abusive mother who would hit me call names and scream at me. But I always have my nanny and this video made me cry so so much thank you. I love her so so so so so so much she is my real mom

Same when I was a kid. The lady who looked after me called me “my child” and I did chores with her all day and had no memories of ever seeing my mum.

“She wakes up and asks me to sleep beside her” really speaks a lot

@skyazullopez6726

3 жыл бұрын

If I am the mother, I'd feel a little hurt. Reality bites...

@_how_arethey1official818

2 жыл бұрын

@@skyazullopez6726 i can tell that kid doesn't trust her mother, so she asked the "maid" Instead.

@divrasyabros6150

2 жыл бұрын

@@skyazullopez6726 i mean, why did the child said that because her mom probably didn't give her much attention, so the mom shouldn't feel sad, i mean its her fault tho

@borki7469

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Definitely her fault.

@marianavarro4704

2 жыл бұрын

😭🫂🥺

Low-key feels like the moms are answering what THEY want their kids to be rather than what the kids really want themselves to be.

@marinettedupaincheng4749

3 жыл бұрын

Yea true

@chompchump1739

3 жыл бұрын

true •́ ‿ ,•̀

@nelliedawnmccarley4220

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@goobigi

3 жыл бұрын

the teacher one, the boyfriend one espically.

@Kiki15578

3 жыл бұрын

At least one of them said that her son's mind is not set yet which is quite nice since it indicates that she's open with her son's decision to pursue in any career Edit: Just to make it clear, my comment is referring to the original comment about parents projecting their children to pursue in their desire career, not about neglecting their children, which the video talks about.

My mom is a full time babyssiter and it's incredible how much kids bond with her rather than their parents. Thing is most parents won't even take the time to know their child..is sad

@HeartTouchingFilms.

Жыл бұрын

It's wonderful to hear that your mom is able to create such strong bonds with the children she cares for. Even if it's just spending a few minutes each day to talk, read a book together, or play a game, those small moments can make a big difference in a child's life. It's never too late to start building that bond, and I encourage all parents to make the effort to do so.

In America a lot of kids with nanny’s first language ends up being the language their nanny speaks. One of my friends is fluent in mandarin because his nanny was from China and she spent 12 years with him and mostly spoke to him in mandarin. She spent more time with him then his own parents. Apparently he knew mandarin before he knew English 😂

@talkingbirb2808

19 күн бұрын

I don't quite understand why would they hire a nanny that doesn't speak English. It's cheaper, I guess?

@AriMon05

19 күн бұрын

​@@talkingbirb2808 Yeah

@AriMon05

19 күн бұрын

​@@talkingbirb2808 But some do it so their child will learn another language

@talkingbirb2808

19 күн бұрын

@@AriMon05 then they need to spend enough time with children themselves I guess

@AriMon05

19 күн бұрын

@@talkingbirb2808 It's pretty obvious, yeah

Nanny: she doesnt like people knowing, so I won't tell Mum: Darius. lol

@taslimaaktershathi7561

3 жыл бұрын

Mothers often don't care about your secrets 😒 they just say it without even thinking sometimes 🤦🏻‍♀️

@baguette4607

3 жыл бұрын

@@taslimaaktershathi7561 yep

@idontfeelbonita

3 жыл бұрын

@@taslimaaktershathi7561 so true😑

@gma904

3 жыл бұрын

😭😩

@Virtual.punk77

3 жыл бұрын

@sousou alger so did I 😭

She seriously thought her kid just didn’t wake up when she had nightmares because her daughter went to her aunt(maid) for help. That, just wow.

@_Lyzzy_

2 жыл бұрын

She said her daughter would cry and scream so why didn’t she go check on her and comfort her??? Terrible mother and terrible person. No wonder the daughter looked for the maid instead! That’s so sad it makes me angry

@monicapetitebonita218

2 жыл бұрын

@@_Lyzzy_ bet the mom angry at her for waking her up 😂 that's why the child went to her maid

@maricruzavila2747

2 жыл бұрын

This just makes my hurt 😢 it's just like wow😥

@lovewins1072

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@han-eh7ih

2 жыл бұрын

i did that too when i was younger. the contract for the nanny that worked with my family has ended so she has returned to her home :( seeing this made me miss her more

That "No boyfriend for me. Just friends." Was precious. Omg. ❤

Growing up as a 'nanny kid' as well, this hits really hard. I still feel safer around them even as an adult..

“She doesn’t like people to know... so I don’t tell you.” That woman’s got your back

@chocolattefeverdreams4228

3 жыл бұрын

You find few trustworthy people like that.

@ava_.staticc

3 жыл бұрын

@@chocolattefeverdreams4228 Yea! When I find people like that they are always so nice :D

@some1else688

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@TheGayestMushroom

3 жыл бұрын

@Hun Bun yes

@kjones3748

3 жыл бұрын

My mom would tell the whole world my business which is exactly I don't say shit to her no more😐

Most of the parent's answers are what they want their children to be rather than what children want themselves....

@knitwitchpgh

3 жыл бұрын

Yea the one mom said "it should be English" very telling

@hinaansari302

3 жыл бұрын

Yes...

@kylaaakarii6694

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@AddBowIfGirl

3 жыл бұрын

Rahul Ghatkar Well maybe the dads should work harder so the moms can afford to stay home with the babies then. Tf? Of course working parents won’t be as close to the kids as the live-in nannies at these young ages. What I’m not seeing though is the fathers being held accountable in any way. I wonder why they didn’t test any of the dad’s’ knowledge of their kid against the nannies’. 🤔

@coleyhead9242

3 жыл бұрын

@@AddBowIfGirl They are probably toobusy working.

I grew up being closer to my maids than my mother. The fact they kept getting fired meant i had several different "moms" that came and went. My own mother never learned how to be a mother. This video hit hard. I miss them.

Mom used to be the breadwinner of my family. She was a banker, highly respected by her subordinates and coworkers due to her integrity and achievements in her work, even climbed the corporate ladders. But it always amaze me how me and my two siblings are really close to her, despite of the most part of our childhood was taken care by nannies (we each got one nannies, they took care of our school needs, laundries, cooking, housekeeping, etc). I witnessed her commitment for her family, all I remember is that she is always present in my childhood memories. She drew the clear barrier that nannies are not family. She changed our nannies every 3 years, or if she found out redflags. These kinds of videos set as a reminder that she's the best mother I could have had. I love her and misses her so much everyday and now that I am also a banker and a wife, how I wish she's still here to advise me how to be like her.

@jendubay3782

2 ай бұрын

Wow, what a shitty parent. You fire someone so they can't form an emotional bond with someone they spend most of their time with. The fact you don't see how fucked up that is, shocks me.

@crashmisel

2 ай бұрын

@@jendubay3782 nope, we moved across the country every 3 years, so most of the time it's because the dont want to move with us 😭💀🤣 They were saying that nannies are paid to take care of laundries, cooking, and cleaning, and not people to reach out when you need emotional support or any sort of that.. so I always come to mom and dad if I have difficulties or to share things that makes us happy 💕 and I'm glad I dont end up like the kids in this video hehe

@crashmisel

2 ай бұрын

@@jendubay3782 we also still kept in touch with our nannies and they are still as kind as I remembered. I'm so sorry if my family story hurt you btw, seeing you can judge people without knowing the full story :)

@kingdomakaqueen6624

2 ай бұрын

I get you. I'm sorry you lost your mentor and mother. It's awesome that you understood what she was trying to do. ❤

@catm.9276

2 ай бұрын

@@jendubay3782 wow way to assume negative things

"She doesnt like other people to know" Ma'am i think you dropped this 👑

@camilaalmiron5588

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@nezuko-chan824

Жыл бұрын

Fr

@vals.cup1d

11 ай бұрын

@@lokifrostpaw2976I hate that guy

@pratiksharay685

11 ай бұрын

exactly This may not be true but since I have seen some like that i say this theory :- While the mother was occupied with winning that she knows everything about her thus saying what she shouldn't, the maid more cared about the child's feelings and it literally breaks my hearts when these nanny's are first doubted for anything bad happening to child but that's how it goes.

@indybruggeman1293

10 ай бұрын

Absolutely

Parent: She wants to be a teacher Nanny: She wants to be a princess that says so much-

@RacingPepe

3 жыл бұрын

Feels like the mom was mostly speaking her own preferences and not the child's.

@multi_stanp1699

3 жыл бұрын

@@RacingPepe yeah!

@zaxriyah_edits2828

3 жыл бұрын

@@multi_stanp1699 Engene-?

@multi_stanp1699

3 жыл бұрын

@@zaxriyah_edits2828 YESSSSS

@cheyennelandgraf5081

3 жыл бұрын

Yea even that one mom “what’s his fav subject?” mom- “oh it SHOULD be English” the kid- “Chinese”

I saw this video years ago and it made an impact in my life. I made sure to get to know my child and spend more time together despite my busy schedule. She is 10 and thinks of me as her “bestest friend” and i thank this video for our wonderful mommy-daughter relationship. ❤

Even as a teacher in public school I know a lot about my kids than the parents know and I know A LOT about the parents that they don’t know I know 😂 I got the tea on the entire family.

@uptdb

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@gildatheplant

6 ай бұрын

Little kids don't have a filter...you'll learn stuff about the family that you don't want to know. Or they'll say weird stuff like "I'm gonna grow arm hair like my Dad!" completely out of nowhere.

This is wake up call to all parents that your kids need quality time.

@clod8

3 жыл бұрын

@Cassie K And covering everything with plastic.

@ningen6392

3 жыл бұрын

People think that making money would give the kids a good life and it’s true but also sometimes kids just want to spend time with their family 😭.

@florm4193

3 жыл бұрын

Well, it’s not that easy as it sounds. Especially in poor countries. My mom had me and my 2 brothers. My dad left us and gave us very little money per month for the 3 of us. There were times that my mom had to work 15 hours daily. She worked in a school, from 07:00 to 22:00. She had to left us with a neighbor while she was working. In my country is not that expensive to pay for a “maid” or a “nanny”, because they are not working “”legally””, they are not registered most of the times, especially 15 years ago. During our childhood she didn’t spend that much time with us. Maybe she didn’t know who was my best friend or that kind of silly stuffs but she worked her ass off for the 3 of us. I’m not saying this is the case of these moms, but non of us know. It’s 2 minutes long video, you can’t judge, specially if it is a culture so different than yours.

@tinybubbles1673

3 жыл бұрын

@@florm4193 MAD RESPECT FOR YOUR PARENTS. AND YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING

@florm4193

3 жыл бұрын

@@tinybubbles1673 Thank you so much! But just my mom. My dad didn’t even ask if we need new shoes for school. My mom is the only hero. I don’t remember exactly how I felt when I was little, I have some memories of me crying when she had to go to work but that’s all. But now that I’m an adult I understand everything and I’m so grateful.

The last one, with the nightmares, broke my heart. The fact that she runs to “Auntie” when she’s scared is very telling.

@judithsauchsecanell34

3 жыл бұрын

And the mother doesn't even notice which tells me she probably doesn't go check on her child when she is screaming and crying :/

@Kalani_Saiko

3 жыл бұрын

I mean my youngest brother runs to me but that has more to do with the fact that as a seven year old I didn't know what a baby was despite having 3 other younger siblings (born consecutive years except for mentioned youngest brother and my second youngest bro) so I watched him sleep

@tracik1277

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I had had an auntie to run to when I had nightmares, it could have stopped me getting beaten for it.

@brzana4689

3 жыл бұрын

Why somone would beat you because you had a night mare? Thats terrible!

@dit3731

3 жыл бұрын

I remember doing the exact same thing when I was a child. My parents' room was closer but I'd walk down the stairs and encounter some bugs walking to the maid's room rather than going to my parents' room. Probably because I knew that my parents would be cranky and sent me back to my room while my maid would let me stay there until I'm sleepy again. I'm still grateful for my parents for hiring a maid and not leaving me alone, though.

I am from Indonesia and it's very common to have at least 1 maid in a house. Some families have 2 or more to take care multiple children. I moved to Australia 17 years ago. My little boy was born 2 years ago, my wife and I struggled really hard to raise him especially when he was still a newborn. Our parents couldn't visit us due to covid so we were under pressure since we are new parents. My wife had a post natal depression so it added an extra pressure for our family but yet we're happy that we give all of our time for little Kenny. I help changing his nappy, bathing him every night, feeding him, etc and this bond is irreplacable. Parents, take care of your kids while you can otherwise you'll regret for not spending time with them when they grow up.

Now I think I'm blessed to have a mum who always nag me for every single thing😢

1:01 "She doesn't like people to know, so I don't tell you." Ya'll someone give this queen an award cause' she deserves it

@murrkii

2 жыл бұрын

@Hello Bruh u cant be serious right now OMGPSJFOS

@StrongestLibrafluidAlive

2 жыл бұрын

@Hello Bruh same difference

@PoemFromAnAngel

2 жыл бұрын

@Hello Bruh girl bye 💀

@Twelve_Thirteen1213

2 жыл бұрын

@Hello Bruh grab a snickers dude

@Moya3003

2 жыл бұрын

@@StrongestLibrafluidAlive If one's financial balance decides one's position in this society of 2021 then I'm sorry but you seem like someone from 1396

The sad thing is, some of the maids probably have their own son/daughters but didnt know much about their own children

@animelovergirl8461

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

@sameverglade5854

3 жыл бұрын

@biny8 The video mentions the maids barely getting time off.

@SodikinGross

3 жыл бұрын

That really sad

@izukumidoriya4269

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, it's usually like that with people in the lower working class. It's really sad, but they don't get the opportunity to do anything about it. :/

@UsapUsapUniversity

3 жыл бұрын

You freakin' got it.

The maid not sharing the child's crush because the child didn't want her to is amazing. That child will come to her with everything and be able to be guided, because she knows she can trust her.

This is why I homeschool my kids. Your time is more valuable than anything this world can offer.

The fact that the daughter wants the maid to be with her after her nightmares instead of her mom... that says a lot.

@grey984

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that the mom thought she would just wake up, cry and go back to sleep without cheking on her or asking her about it later Pretty much the only way she could have not known she looked to the maid for confort

@deliciousnoodles5505

3 жыл бұрын

In Singapore working hours are among the longest in the world so parents have a hard time having ample time with their kids, esp if they can afford a maid = more time spent in office. That's why maids spent the most time with kids.

@jakandaxter1

3 жыл бұрын

@@deliciousnoodles5505 why are the hours so long

@sisterspot111

3 жыл бұрын

@@jakandaxter1 Unfortunately that's just how things roll in Singapore. Like how 44 hr weeks are normal in some areas. 55+ are normal in others

@nathaliehaaksema9697

3 жыл бұрын

@@sisterspot111 wow 55+ In my country the work weeks are 32-40 hours.

At least these kids got good care takers who love them and understood them.. Not worst ones.. glad

@vLogPhase

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@nuzhasajjad8112

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah True,not every Child is Lucky enough to have a good caretaker!

@Srisky

3 жыл бұрын

yeah thats true

@sumaiyyahmahaaz191

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes I have to agree with you.

@Af-le3pd

3 жыл бұрын

@@nuzhasajjad8112 Yes. B4 is was even born my mum hired a type of person like that. At that time she would just cook for the family and I had another person to take care of me.she was nice and all but she got married when I was 2. So the women who cooked for us started taking care of me and my sister. She wouldn't hit my sister but hit me "specifically" and blackmail my sister that if she told our mom she'd get spanked too. My mom worked as a doctor. I told my mom many times, but she never did anything as she had no proof. She believed the maid more than me as she said that I was lying and would leave my mom was desperate for someone to look after us as no one was there to. I still hate the maid for the time she somehow managed to put a cockroach in my water bottle. I opened the bottle in school and I fucking hated it. She did tell me she'd put a cockroach in my water bottle tho- but I thought of it as a joke. I was in playgroup that time and I was thirsty for 5 hours. When I was in nursery she hit me in the shower so hard that I slipped and my back started hurting really bad. She got scared once Someone told her that she might get caught as my mom is a doctor and might figure it out. So many stories- I am happy it's all over with 🙂

I grew up with a nanny too. Both parents worked. From my perspective, while I liked my nanny, it was very clear who was family and who was not. My parents loved too and were doing all they can and working hard and I appreciated that. You shouldn’t forget that these nanny’s also leave their children behind to care for someone else’s child. Many parents have to make these decisions. Showing parents as neglectful and less loving is stupid!

The maids have big hearts, you see clearly how kind they are when they speak about the kid

Ok.. So the lady who said "she dosent like people to know" has my respect... She literally is so concerned for the kids privacy she wont say anything

@aerybirb8748

3 жыл бұрын

@疲れたレズビアン kinda contradictory, people on the internet also exist in real life

@bluiessa2022

3 жыл бұрын

yes and actually treating her like a person w secrets

@bluiessa2022

3 жыл бұрын

@@aerybirb8748 they mean they havent met anyone like that irl. most people show off a different persona irl than the internet

@aerybirb8748

3 жыл бұрын

@@bluiessa2022 eh, fair enough

@zee.chiaramonte09

3 жыл бұрын

I know right

“She doesn’t want anyone to know so I won’t tell you” HUGE RESPECT RIGHT THERE!

@sanisura6997

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssssssssss agree

@saranghaeyobts5231

3 жыл бұрын

@One of eight billion yea😭

@amarisrosalette3694

3 жыл бұрын

YES

@miri4963

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao bkg's soft side 💀 wish to see it even more

@yourtypicalfeminist1621

3 жыл бұрын

yea huge respect for that lady

When I was young, I hardly recognized my mother's face because she was always a busy woman, but now I spend most of my time with my mother.

full on respect to the maid that wouldn’t tell us her crush

"she doesn't like other people to know, So I won't tell you" Seriously everybody need someone like her in they're life

@Helloknight

3 жыл бұрын

Some parents can’t fathom not showing their kid off to the world and this maid has enough common sense not to talk about it

@peach8079

3 жыл бұрын

that is so deep

@ujjwalraisolidakiba9737

3 жыл бұрын

I really respect that.

@razberrymist9475

3 жыл бұрын

The amount of respect that this maid gives this child is so admirable.

@islarichard2851

3 жыл бұрын

Not to be that person, but to be that person- it’s THEIR

Something that I find really interesting is a couple of the moms were really unsure with their answers, while the maids all had little to no hesitation.

@xsargantxshaftx7997

3 жыл бұрын

It shows who truly is involved in the kids life :/

@cockichioumaigod2805

3 жыл бұрын

I hereby give you the award of having the audacity to comment two comments in one video and have both of them blow up. (This ain't sarcasm, seriously, congrats lmao)

@esmeray9704

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it does show

@hekr0029

3 жыл бұрын

almost like the maids were coached and were told the right answers to make a point mmmmm

@anncabras3961

3 жыл бұрын

Well they especially hired them for that

Bless them all “aunties.” You rock!

I used to be one of these children. I barely knew my parents until I was around 5, when my Nanny went back to her home in the Philippines. We shared some great memories together.

I started to get teary eyed when the women said “she doesn’t like people to know, so I don’t tell you.” she got her back, we should all have each other’s backs

@recnews2003

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@starfruitiger

3 жыл бұрын

🥺 omg i completely agree, and this comment is so wholesome, i dont even know you but i got your back, we should all do this, we must, please people ✌🏽💜

@sunandflowerpots9931

3 жыл бұрын

Auntie passed the vibe check and we're all sobbing😭😭😭

@AddBowIfGirl

3 жыл бұрын

*woman

@TheSereneCat1000

3 жыл бұрын

i started crying too when she said that

it is sad that the maid's children problably don't have mother or maid in their side to listen their stories :(

@arunav2361

3 жыл бұрын

True..this didn't strike me. The maid is a working mom too for her kid.

@sabibarahman7278

3 жыл бұрын

Apparently their children's well being does not matter cause they're poor. I honestly don't understand what is video is trying to prove.

@shslsomething8195

3 жыл бұрын

@@sabibarahman7278 at the very end it says " lets give workers their legal days off"so pretty obvious.

@shortstamil6030

3 жыл бұрын

My mom left me (11yrs old) and my brother(7) to Malaysia because of poverty we met her after 9yrs.. currently working as domestic worker in Singapore for 5yrs. it's true they r a mom to other mom's child but for their own children only Hope remains... My mom shared funny things kids said she even cared about their pet too. Entire childhood I had to be mature enough to handle everything alone. We can't blame her. her kindness to those children indirectly we got from other people. Wherever we are someone treat as their children. Luckily my husband pamper me treat me like a baby whenever possible 🙂I am getting mother love from him. My mom's love to other kids comes to me finally😍

@kinawa2845

3 жыл бұрын

Right... It's an ending cycle huh?

I was a nanny's kid too. I dont blame my mom for it, tho. She was trying her best to keep our family afloat in tough times.

And here’s another reason I’m a stay at home mom. My kids deserve to have their actual mother know them

@jagritikumari4012

Жыл бұрын

I think motherhood is a universal feeling ....... So real mother or motherly figures shouldn't be a thing . BTW what's the other reasons for you to become an SHAM ?

@mansfieldfamily5389

Жыл бұрын

@@jagritikumari4012 To answer your other question (or both questions, really) I am happier pouring my soul into what matters most to me, and that's my children and husband and God.

@mansfieldfamily5389

Жыл бұрын

@@jagritikumari4012 You know, my mother was murdered two years ago, in a carjacking-gone-worse. She matters to me more than most people just for having given birth to me and taking care of me. So saying that motherly figures shouldn't be a thing, you can live that way, but I believe that families are central to God's plan for his children. I'm sorry if your mother wasn't around or didn't care about you.

@jagritikumari4012

Жыл бұрын

@@mansfieldfamily5389 I'm so sorry for your lose , but I firmly believe that God has gave us life to contribute for the world so these things ( if I ever have ) aren't going to be centre of my life .......

@mangayakposowa4334

7 ай бұрын

@@jagritikumari4012 taking care of your kids and home is contributing to the world

can we appreciate that “maid” that said “she doesn’t like people to know so i won’t tell you” she doesn’t need to prove she knows, she respects the child’s privacy and won’t take advantage of her trust.

@andriwahyudani1302

3 жыл бұрын

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@-Saoussene-

3 жыл бұрын

I actually found that so respectful from her

@alenalaw6941

3 жыл бұрын

That truly is beautiful

@charibelsaw8664

3 жыл бұрын

Up for this.... ❤️

@Hi-ky2wd

3 жыл бұрын

Why would you reveal someone’s crush on the internet in the first place?

They call this “inspirational” but I can’t be the only one who found it more depressing than inspirational.

@yasminthespiritsinger7704

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah.

@_R.T_

3 жыл бұрын

It's depressing... mother don't have to be 24/7 with kids but when they are, even 5min be 100% present.

@kingoffire105

3 жыл бұрын

Yaaa... This is sad

@saisantosh8747

3 жыл бұрын

@@_R.T_ Wth are you uttering?!

@_R.T_

3 жыл бұрын

@@saisantosh8747 you don't understand?? ! Not my problem. 👎

This is actually so sad and wholesome at the same time

The video summarizes such a sad concept that our society is facing. Because of the hard work ethic produced by a prevailing work-based society, most children grow up without the affection and love which is deemed necessary by their psychological needs. The society values productivity more than individual needs. The society treats people as resources, instruments used for the benefit of a select few. This is our society. A society starved of love and compassion. A parasite. Therefore to all parents out there, be with your children. Be contented with what you have and do not be overly grandiose of your future. For in your pursuit of that idea, you lose sight of reality itself. End the cycle of numbness, embrace your humanity. You are not robots. You are people. People who need to produce and reciprocate to love. God bless to everyone! ❤

The ironic part is that these maid probably are also mom who don't know their kids well too, because they also have to work and gain money...

@penguin-tc1cx

3 жыл бұрын

i have had maids (still do) and i remember clearly that they frequently video called with their family/children etc to keep in touch- ofc it's not the same as real life interaction but it's still something

@ko-ul5pr

3 жыл бұрын

Depends on the maid but ive seen a lot of them live in the house that they work in with their children (dont worry, the kids dont do labour)

@m.alifandika345

3 жыл бұрын

and those kid's moms who hired the maids dont know their kids well too😂

@Riachanai

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I saw this documentary about a Filipina domestic worker in Hong Kong, her children (who also now have kids themselves) admitted they felt a little bitter that the Hong Kong family’s kids got to be “raised” by their mom. Ofc they understood why she had to, still doesn’t mean it hurt any less :’)

@ZombieLeo94

3 жыл бұрын

Struggles of a working mom, not knowing what to prioritize 😔

0:54 Iffah is crying right now.

@wkwkek8675

3 жыл бұрын

Sump ngakak so hard

@apostropheboy

3 жыл бұрын

Sjksjsksjskksjsdd

@lof.2247

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@camilaisabele5905

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@somethink.g

3 жыл бұрын

@@wkwkek8675 wkwkwew

This same thing is in my country (Bangladesh) and i feel deeply sorry for them. We have to give them days off and proper wage. (TW: abuse) There are often many cases of abuse too. So, my heart goes out to all of the hard working aunties.

These kids got the love of a mother ❤ maybe it’s unconventional but they seem to be cared for

_"everyone in your family loves you, but nobody likes you"_ - most pre-teens familes today

@brigittejoan7139

3 жыл бұрын

That statement hurts, I know, my own mother said it to me

@bunishrimp

3 жыл бұрын

Fr though, and I'd always refute by saying "Then why do I have friends? And why do they always invite me out to hang out?" Such utter bullshit.

@whitneyd6827

3 жыл бұрын

That doesn't get better, so you do you. You're the one who has to live with yourself every day. You be who you're most proud to be. Don't be who your family wants to be for acceptance because eventually you'll just visit occasionally and you'll wonder why you ever did that.

@starryeyed6659

3 жыл бұрын

im sorry, but what does that statement mean?

@dontmindme9046

3 жыл бұрын

@@starryeyed6659 Google it. Type "statement definition".

I love the last kid for she calls their maid "Auntie" it sounds so endearing than calling someone as nanny.

@notlikeyouneedmyname.4378

3 жыл бұрын

I'm just gonna assume this is Malaysian (because I see Chinese Malay and Indian representating this) and I wanna share another thing, we usually don't call maids as maids but we rather call them kakak as in "big sister" and idk but it sounds kinda sweet to me.

@emilynshimmi785

3 жыл бұрын

umm not to be rude, but asian's do not really call their "maids" "maids", but auntie. It is just a name and a way to respect

@milklychee6277

3 жыл бұрын

YUP Asians just call every woman older "auntie" I do when I visit mt parent's boyfriend

@jacesdiary6512

3 жыл бұрын

I call my nanny "mama"

@notlikeyouneedmyname.4378

3 жыл бұрын

@@emilynshimmi785 yeah, it's actually weird when I see people call maids as "maids".

Wow. After watching this video, I’m going to give my maid weekends off, and hire a part-timer. Thank God they raised awareness for all of us maid employers out here.

@Hikaru306

11 ай бұрын

smart!

@korruptnovellst4751

10 ай бұрын

Why was she working seven days a week to begin with?

@le_oracle

Ай бұрын

​@@korruptnovellst4751its a maid they clean the house and live in it.... respect to them tho

I used to never see my mom, but I drank coffee with my nanny every morning, it was our little joy. I miss her sometimes

As a former nanny, this is kind of true. You learn all the secret codes and inside jokes because your job is to be focused on the kid all day

@honestfriend767

3 жыл бұрын

The sad thing is that should be the job of the parents. They are giving you their responsibility.

@3StarLogo

3 жыл бұрын

@@honestfriend767 the real sad thing is parents have to work a lot to be able to afford the roof over their heads let alone a nanny to help care for their kids. I would LOVE to be with my kids all the time but it's impossible, I can't do a lot I want because I can't afford to be at home.

@SPDcru

3 жыл бұрын

@@3StarLogo I don't think this is the same case for these Singaporean parents.

@pomberry3591

3 жыл бұрын

@@honestfriend767 maybe instead of shaming parents we can start having a conversation about why they need to work so many hours to give basic necessities and opportunities to their children?

@honestfriend767

3 жыл бұрын

@@3StarLogo but the times that you are at home you can spend maybe 30 minutes with them. Kids don’t need you to spend a day, they just need to see you make an attempt and try to be there for them when you can. When they grow up they will remember that you tried.

There should have been an interview of fathers too!

@sharmilaacharya2224

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@juveriyahashmi4897

3 жыл бұрын

Yess...because most of the fathers know nothing about thier children. Just like mine. He knows nothing about me. He doesn't know my likes and dislikes. He does not know how i feel about people around me. He does not know if i am happy or lonely. But still he knows how to care and love and in my opinion a father should also know about thier children besides loving and caring about them

@nandinick365

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah! In all such videos the mothers are blamed and shamed. As if none other in the family has a responsibility. These maids may also be mothers who is spending most of their time taking care of others’ children, which is their job, which they do for their family and children. Dear society, can we stop judging women, please!

@gulafshan6806

3 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure they gonna get their genders wrong

@deadinside8719

3 жыл бұрын

They gonna Oh! I have a son when

I was raised by a maid for most part of my childhood. My mom was studying at that time and needed someone to take care of me. When I was in 4 th grade she got married and left us. We lost touch with her and even though I am really close with my mom right now, I wish I could talk with her as an adult now and thank her for taking care of me.

this is why i want a maid even when im already 13.. i can tell ‘em everything i have on my heart because i know those people have good hearts

“Ya! She likes a boy..Darius” “She doesn’t like people to know, so I won’t tell you” That’s loyalty right there

@vengefulpianist257

2 жыл бұрын

Unrelated but Darius is a sick name. Props to whoever named their kid Darius.

@kacp6485

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think that mother wanted to betray the kid :-D she probably just didn't know or take seriously her wish to keep it a secret ...and i like the boy's name, actually

@lene658

2 жыл бұрын

@@vengefulpianist257 AHH MY LITTLE BROTHERS NAME IS DARIUS :DD

@patcam8652

2 жыл бұрын

I don't like the name, reminds me of *shudders* league of legends.

@abiyyufh1566

2 жыл бұрын

Right

I love how the maids says "i think" even if the kids probably tell them directly, cause probably they considered that the kids maybe change their minds already

@rosettastoned3567

3 жыл бұрын

They also might feel more comfortable telling their secrets to a friend or a maid (in this case) cause there are subjects we prefer to share with friends rather than our parents mostly because of the age/generation gap.

@aini6570

3 жыл бұрын

it also meant that they’re being considerate and careful as well as being understanding to what the kids thinking while the mothers on the other hand might just say things that they want their children to be

All these maid were very good taking care of the children huge appreciation

I love my aunt so much she's been there for me through tough times

“A family by heart is a true family, not family by blood”

@duttocatalina6008

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. Family is not by blood but by choice

@r3ll282

3 жыл бұрын

You cannot choose your kin, but you can choose your family

@kidabear2434

3 жыл бұрын

Omg Tohru Honda

@queentulip

3 жыл бұрын

@@kidabear2434 You watch Fruits Basket too?

@mrlion728

3 жыл бұрын

Those people who hires maid didn't understand the concept of family at all.

When your own kid find someone else when she had a nightmare. That were the worsts scenario I ever imagined if I become a mother in future.

@eddie210

3 жыл бұрын

That’s true but it’s probably because the kid didn’t feel like they could rely on their mother or perhaps they didn’t have a close relationship.

@yippedoodah

3 жыл бұрын

@@eddie210 This is it. I'm assuming a lot of the families shown in this video are more well off/part of a higher society since they can afford to hire maids and thus, they care more for the image of a perfect family without having to deal with the hard parts.

@lilycha9398

2 жыл бұрын

Back then my youngest sister would often prefer to sleep with our househelper than my mother, not because my mother didn't care for her but because the househelper would brainwash her. My parents were both working so they couldn't do much about it. There were lots of other issues but she was the most problematic househelper we ever had. I was suicidal the entire 7 years she lived with us.

@a.tiredlesbian

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilycha9398 i am so sorry that happened to you, i hope you have someone better in your life now

@edwardosaragi

2 жыл бұрын

@@yippedoodah I don't think so, Idk of it's will be the same for Singapore, but in my country, Indonesia, maid is affordable for middle class.

nanny was very kind I hope they give what they deserve I'm really proud of them❤❤

As someone who grew up with nannies, this made me cry.

“She doesn't like people to know, so I don't tell you.” She doesn't want to prove she knows, she just wants the child to be happy. Round of applause

@Abyss_Trips

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@joemama6710

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@jesusislord6545

2 жыл бұрын

Repent to Jesus Christ “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3:5-6‬ ‭NIV‬‬ I

@miuiswaifu

2 жыл бұрын

@@jesusislord6545 shut up

@LittleRedMads

2 жыл бұрын

@@jesusislord6545 this has nothing to do with this please excuse yourself

the fact that the last child would go to the “maid” for comfort after a nightmare instead of her mother really says something

@samanthalau3696

2 жыл бұрын

I used to do that too lmao

@aayurome1743

2 жыл бұрын

Of course, when children are afraid they go to their attachment figure who is the one who gives them the most security (in this case the nannies)

@berrybloom2000

2 жыл бұрын

@@samanthalau3696 I hope that you find comfort in your heart to love yourself and others unconditionally, to do what you want to do... There is only love or lessons to strengthen you

@animoorimi2858

2 жыл бұрын

Right now I feel that I have really been lucky as a child to always have my mom with me .....even though she doesn't usually understand my feelings so I don't tell her , but I am happy atleast I have her by my side

@shreyadas2100

2 жыл бұрын

@@animoorimi2858 same here 😊

The nostalgia from this video hits HARD I remember watching this when I was younger, ❤❤😊

The fact that majority of maids knew more about the children than their own mothers is both really sweet and sad at the same time

Notice how the mum said “i dont think he has set amything to his mind yet“ and the maid said “he wants to be a pilot“ ..............................

@jorgee_pena

3 жыл бұрын

Wow its like we watched the same video!

@dezonfilm

3 жыл бұрын

I was about to hit the 1k like but someone beat me to it by a second

"it _should_ be english" "chinese" see the difference?

@808spicysushi

3 жыл бұрын

Yes... that remark was very telling.

@luiserenner7147

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. But in a caring way i think

@BokeTsukiBoke

3 жыл бұрын

There are really two ways one could take it. And all because she uses the words *should be* which was a huge mistake on her part. She could be saying should be as that’s what she wants her kids favorite subject to be (which is being seen due to negativity throughout the comments due to the point of the video,) and it can also be questioning like she doesn’t actually know (which obviously she didn’t and just assumed)

@kawaiiamarii2240

3 жыл бұрын

@@BokeTsukiBoke finally someone pointed it out like geez, "should be" doesn't mean "it must be" depending on the context. Example: "[I think] it should be English" they aren't opposing anything on anyone.

@BokeTsukiBoke

3 жыл бұрын

@@kawaiiamarii2240 mhm, I think it’s just the tone of her voice being so unsure that makes perceive it negatively instead.

My husband is from Singapore, and he told me stories about the family maid. She raised my husband. He turned out great.

The fact that the last kid seeks out the maid for comfort after having a nightmare instead of their own mother just tells you everything.

@iulianaghimici7579

2 жыл бұрын

The fact that the mother knows her child cries and screams during the night but doesn't check up on her tells you even more.

@NOOBMASTER-yn6dv

2 жыл бұрын

@@iulianaghimici7579 it's just straight up neglect at that point.

@Modishstar

2 жыл бұрын

@@NOOBMASTER-yn6dv how do you know that tho?

@Modishstar

2 жыл бұрын

@@iulianaghimici7579 more about what all she said was she scream and cry but she never said if she went or not

@iulianaghimici7579

2 жыл бұрын

@@Modishstar She said she screams and cries but doesn't wake up, but the girl said she wakes up and goes crying to the maid. Does that give you the impression that the mother went to check up on the kid?