Where to Begin When Feeling Overwhelmed || New Year Goals

The holidays are past us and our guest has gone home. Now where do I begin? Starting with a simple job, like the bathroom, can help get you motivated to clean.
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  • @daisystar25970
    @daisystar259707 ай бұрын

    This year I’m working on loving myself,I just called off an engagement and it’s been really hard on me mentally, I’m working towards loving myself and accepting making decisions for my own good and stop being a people pleaser

  • @alumniadri8716

    @alumniadri8716

    7 ай бұрын

    Why did you share that here?

  • @daisystar25970

    @daisystar25970

    7 ай бұрын

    @@alumniadri8716 Because she asked what I’m working on this year so I said it along with the reason why. I felt comfortable sharing it so I did lol

  • @dannydanny9875

    @dannydanny9875

    7 ай бұрын

    why not?@@alumniadri8716

  • @whosintheyardnow_

    @whosintheyardnow_

    7 ай бұрын

    Alum it made her feel good to say this and it was for Julie.

  • @ashleykurien7274
    @ashleykurien72747 ай бұрын

    I love your wholesome content. It’s hard to find clean content these days but you provide that. You show that parenting isn’t the easiest job but that it’s the most rewarding. Love the Godly values and good morals you are trying to invest in your children. It’s a great example for me and my family. Thank you.

  • @saralynmoore6678
    @saralynmoore66787 ай бұрын

    I have struggled to make friends as an adult. You have been a consistent friend in my life- full of wisdom, compassion, fun, and love!

  • @michaelleary9233
    @michaelleary92337 ай бұрын

    So glad Shari could come see your new house, and hope she had a better holiday season this year.

  • @alumniadri8716

    @alumniadri8716

    7 ай бұрын

    I just heard, “niece” not Shari.

  • @michaelleary9233

    @michaelleary9233

    7 ай бұрын

    @@alumniadri8716 I think they're trying not to bring it up for her sake after what happened, just hope she's doing okay.

  • @NateDVHSAndDVDGuy
    @NateDVHSAndDVDGuy7 ай бұрын

    Your kids are the sweetest! You and Landon have done such a wonderful job raising them to be awesome people!! ❤❤

  • @Chell1496
    @Chell14967 ай бұрын

    Landon and yourself are such wonderful and down-to-earth, genuine parents! 💛 I wish you and your family the best 2024! 🎉

  • @sarahcalarco7227
    @sarahcalarco72277 ай бұрын

    Just wanted to say you’re a great mom Julie! Thank you for keeping the mom life real!

  • @michelebadey3883
    @michelebadey38837 ай бұрын

    JULIE I START WITH THE WORST ROOMS AND THEN YOU WORK TOWARDS THE REST, THAT WAY THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL.🎉🎉🎉

  • @jamesnbrenda8960
    @jamesnbrenda89607 ай бұрын

    I’m so glad to hear you had company. I’m hoping it was Shari!! ♥️ I have been watching your family since before Ellie was pregnant with Jackson!! I just love all of you and am praying for all of you! Take care & God bless 🙏🏻♥️

  • @sandyc6569
    @sandyc65697 ай бұрын

    Wow it's been 9 years all ready? Aww would have loved seeing yur Shari while she was there! Loved this!! See ya's next time!! ❣❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❣

  • @jcclfruitofthespirit
    @jcclfruitofthespirit7 ай бұрын

    I tune in because youre Godly, youre humble, youre good examples, i love how you treat each other..i love how you handle frustrations with the kids, i love how you handled disappointment when faced with a less than perfect home ( that i still think is beautiful), and i love what you are all building. Landon will have a wonderful, fulfilling career. You'll all live in the home of your dreams. The kids are thriving...its the building thats exciting and the love that will see you through. I dont have children. I had a tumor that took that away....but I sure do love the way you love them and respect them❤❤❤ ( pls ignore typos..too tired to correct)

  • @patriciamilczewski8009

    @patriciamilczewski8009

    7 ай бұрын

    That's a beautiful message. God bless and best wishes for a peaceful , healthy new year.

  • @irmaibarra358
    @irmaibarra3587 ай бұрын

    Hello Julie, watching your videos reminds me of my self and my family. Now that my kids are adults 26-25-24-23 it brings back so many fun memories. Thank you so much for sharing your life.

  • @NicoleBertrand26
    @NicoleBertrand267 ай бұрын

    I LOVE your videos, thank you for doing them. I can imagine it is hard. I started following Ellie way before she had Jackson and I discovered everyone else and you guys have been a part of my life for more than 10 years :) Ive seen everyones pregnancy's, deliveries and now watching the kids grow. You are the type of family I want to have for my kids. so THANK YOU!

  • @SmoBoo

    @SmoBoo

    7 ай бұрын

    Me too, I found the family via Jared and Ellie. I still watch Julie (obviously) Bonnie, Ellie and Jared (when they post) and Grandma and Grandpa Griffin...hoping they will post soon.

  • @nancysparks6181
    @nancysparks61817 ай бұрын

    So nice to see you and your family today, ❤

  • @lubiannreichert8436
    @lubiannreichert84367 ай бұрын

    Oh Julie, don’t beat yourself up. You are a great mom. You have so much on your plate. Being a supportive wife and mom is a full time job. Remember to “stop and smell the roses”. Take time for yourself! Oh yeah, and saying, no, sometimes is a good thing.

  • @vanessaspencer355
    @vanessaspencer3557 ай бұрын

    I felt overwhelmed today from my house not being clean. I don't know where to start, but your video gave me some motivation

  • @kariwebb5523
    @kariwebb55237 ай бұрын

    I’m glad your back!! I’m happy that Shari came to spend time with you all and see your new house. When does grandma and grandpa come back from their mission. I miss them.

  • @KaylaKukla
    @KaylaKukla7 ай бұрын

    Julie, in your video statement regarding Ruby, you said your content was changing and that we will see what that meant. I was hopeful you weren’t going to show your children but that’s not the case. What did you mean by that? Your nephews and nieces are in my constant prayers and my prayer for Ruby and Jodie, is a lifetime of imprisonment.

  • @dukeblockington1179
    @dukeblockington11797 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad you are back. Love seeing that you are not afraid to share your house and how you all pitch in to help. Great job

  • @daniellerose1114
    @daniellerose11147 ай бұрын

    Great video. One thing I'm working on is not taking everything so personally. I'm a highly sensitive person so this is very hard for me but I can do it.

  • @maczoo4584

    @maczoo4584

    7 ай бұрын

    Me too. I work daily on it. I take a step back and analyze how that person works and thinks and did they mean to offend. I gently set boundaries and don't back down if you have to start getting firmer. It's helping my confidence in myself. Look for life coaching video for what you struggle with. Prayers for you. ❤

  • @DH-tn5qd

    @DH-tn5qd

    7 ай бұрын

    Same! It’s so hard but we can do it💪🏽😊

  • @daniellerose1114

    @daniellerose1114

    7 ай бұрын

    @maczoo4584 I will. Appreciate it thank you!

  • @MischiefMiner
    @MischiefMiner7 ай бұрын

    I think I needed that pep talk, thank you! lol I really am trying to do better this year in many things. I want this to be a better year all round, more positive, throw out the negative and feel better! My health is my main goal. Try try again. Thank you, have a great day! 😃

  • @MichiganMike
    @MichiganMike7 ай бұрын

    I watch your WHOLE FAMILY (IES) because I enjoy watching large family life styles, I guess the older I get the more I miss and enjoy that. After I loss my wife I have played the mom and Dad role for many years, the cleaning, organizing, dr appointments/schools, I even took in my oldest living sons four children and raised them on my own when he went to prison, I learned alot from My mom before she passed, I think my adult daughter would disown me if I wore bunny ears to clean though. my brothers and I worked at moms resturant until she went with the Lord and we sold out. I love your channel as well as your family, God Bless and thankyou

  • @reneegoodin1317

    @reneegoodin1317

    7 ай бұрын

    Your a devoted Man!!

  • @djuptonful
    @djuptonful7 ай бұрын

    I love your little family. I know it’s been a hard time lately and we are all behind you. ❤️

  • @galeburns9377
    @galeburns93777 ай бұрын

    It’s so good to see you again. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Sdh317
    @Sdh3177 ай бұрын

    Always sending positive vibes to you while watching your channel. Love to your mom and dad as well. ❤ From a grandma

  • @cherylmiller6033
    @cherylmiller60337 ай бұрын

    COLD PLUNGE That's a hard no!!! BRRRR!! I turned on my electric blanket!!!! :) Virtual hugs to you and keep the videos coming!!

  • @dianeh.3327
    @dianeh.33277 ай бұрын

    I need to work on getting back in shape. I have let it go far too long! Glad you are back, you have been missed. I miss your parents as well.

  • @jannyleader3818
    @jannyleader38187 ай бұрын

    The Griffith’s family Christmas made me feel nostalgic, of our past family Christmas and family get-togethers, the older we get the less we have time to spend together and because of family drama we don’t spend as much time as we would like so like one viewer said it does bring me joy watching your family time. I hope you have a safe and try to have a wonderful new year, which truthfully can be hard sometimes. Take care.

  • @glennadaniels4104
    @glennadaniels41047 ай бұрын

    I love watching your family and all your activities is such a pleasure. It always gives me something look forward to.❤

  • @christinem9280
    @christinem92807 ай бұрын

    Im so glad Shari could come be with you guys! I hope 2024 is a better year for you guys! You guys are so strong!

  • @novasoto5092
    @novasoto50927 ай бұрын

    I love watching your family. Im one of those people that like to watch you and families vlogs, including your parents, because i dont have any siblings, nieces/nephews. My parents have both passed. What I do have is my two adult son's that I'm thankful for and love so much! Most of all I'm thankful for Heavenly Father and his son Jesus Christ to help me through. 🙏🏻 Sending love to you and your Family.😊

  • @mistervanagon
    @mistervanagon7 ай бұрын

    Thank you Julie, thank you. I love watching you and your voice helps me sleep. I never had this type of family

  • @staceykey9836
    @staceykey98367 ай бұрын

    I am working on trying to feel peaceful and less worry over things I can’t control. ❤

  • @kathyromano2736
    @kathyromano27367 ай бұрын

    🎉thankyou for sharing your family life with us

  • @thetruthhurts540
    @thetruthhurts5407 ай бұрын

    I love to see everyones traditions around the holiday and yours were so cute. The meal wad awesome. Great way to teach kids is to submerge them into it like that.

  • @keilysilva809
    @keilysilva8097 ай бұрын

    Hi Julie and Lendon and Emma and Lucy and Cooper ❤❤

  • @robinrasmusson1194

    @robinrasmusson1194

    7 ай бұрын

    What about Porter?

  • @maryr7256

    @maryr7256

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@robinrasmusson1194and Millie 😁

  • @stephanieodonnell8849
    @stephanieodonnell88496 ай бұрын

    Missed you❤️your doing a great job. Relax and it will all get done

  • @elizabethcabrera5718
    @elizabethcabrera57187 ай бұрын

    Julie I am working on learning how to love myself and that everything in life is not about taking care of someone else first . So I guess on putting my self first now that my children are all grown up . Reading heavenly father’s word daily . ❤😊it’s so good to see you back lots of hugs

  • @duckyone20
    @duckyone207 ай бұрын

    So that means I've been here for 9 years?! I'm such a whimp, I could never cold plunge. I don't even like a cold shower😂.

  • @chloefrazier1289
    @chloefrazier12897 ай бұрын

    I Love Your Videos Don't Ever Stop Making Them They Are Great You Guys Are Awesome I Love Love Love Your Videos.

  • @RollwithLauren
    @RollwithLauren7 ай бұрын

    Your house is beautiful after Christmas is put away lol 😅but stick in love with your string lights, but thanks for posting a clog again, I fan missed you all.

  • @RollwithLauren

    @RollwithLauren

    7 ай бұрын

    😅oh m g Julie your goals sound like something I should work on in relationship with my birth family and yes 😂😅 I get dehydrated too, let me know how it goes with you drinking more water. I ❤you and your fam. Happy 2024.

  • @RollwithLauren

    @RollwithLauren

    7 ай бұрын

    And Julie I hope you do well being a good podcast listener, I’m doing it 😊❤🎉

  • @user-vi2iw4vj5x
    @user-vi2iw4vj5x7 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad being friends with you guys. I'm with yea do better on food. My dad went into the er again not looking great❤

  • @laurengreuel1042
    @laurengreuel10427 ай бұрын

    I am glad you're back I love you're chanal ❤

  • @user-br6xo1ud2i
    @user-br6xo1ud2i7 ай бұрын

    The kids have grown up

  • @latonyaricks3294
    @latonyaricks32947 ай бұрын

    I always enjoy your videos. I’m working on less screen time and being fully engaged with those in my presence. As well as increasing my water consumption.

  • @meganyounger4842
    @meganyounger48427 ай бұрын

    We definitely got lots of snow today and no school! Hopefully you guys still have power.

  • @eileenkillen1481
    @eileenkillen14817 ай бұрын

    I love all your video's Julie, you and Landon are a lovely team raising well adjusted kiddos. Give yourself a pat cos you are doing great, praying that 2024 is a beautiful new year for you all. Xx❤🇮🇪🙏

  • @doriswalsh3929
    @doriswalsh39297 ай бұрын

    Awwwwww sorry 😞 prayers 💕 🙏 for a better year I'm new to your channel ☺️ I know something sometimes its a lot but got to keep 💪

  • @lisahause8705
    @lisahause87057 ай бұрын

    Good morning! Happy New Year! May God continue to bless you , Landon & children! Keep well & stay safe! 🙏🏻🫶😊

  • @user-vi2iw4vj5x
    @user-vi2iw4vj5x7 ай бұрын

    I know how that feels❤ we just got more snow life can be overwhelming sometimes 😊

  • @laurasorrell9713
    @laurasorrell97137 ай бұрын

    Julie, love you and your family , and you are correct my mom was raised in a convent Catholic Church. They did not teach her anything. My dad is the one that taught me how to cook and how to clean but I have learned a lot from you and your sisters and especially your mama and I also start cleaning the bathrooms first, it seems to go quicker and from watching you and your sisters I make the bed every morning and that helps. I hope this new year brings you happiness and good health one question for your husband I have a fibrillation would I be able to do the cold plunge.

  • @jberryinn

    @jberryinn

    7 ай бұрын

    Negative Nancy's tell us everything we need to know about their personality! I for one look forward to all your videos! Here is to a wonderful 2024!

  • @ruthiler4151
    @ruthiler41517 ай бұрын

    I’m so happy to see guys. I hope you continue to vlog more. I’ve missed the Griffith families. ❤

  • @junethompson3291
    @junethompson32917 ай бұрын

    I really enjoy all your videos

  • @PeaPie74
    @PeaPie747 ай бұрын

    I just love and support you❤

  • @nighthawkdragonfly8339
    @nighthawkdragonfly83397 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your life and being real. Last year was a lot for me and I'm kind of starting from zero but I have lots of support. Love from Canada.

  • @JulieDeru

    @JulieDeru

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m glad you have support. Best of luck with the new year.

  • @jillbradshaw7220
    @jillbradshaw72207 ай бұрын

    Love your vlogs Started with ellie and jared I work with young ladies with behavioral issues and mental illness and substance abuse it helps to watch to give them lessons and helps me be more up on young families. I also follow Bonnie and Joel and your parents. Your family is very informative and real. I appreciate your recipes and reccomendations. I love how your children are involved with almost everything you and Landon do. Thanks to Landon and cold plunges i have been reading alotbof postive results. Akso Julie i would love to see your chemical free changes. Thank you for being apart of making a difference. Our Heavenly Father brought us all here together for reasons. Thank you Deru family for letting us in and sharing your family ❤

  • @robinnieto2703
    @robinnieto27036 ай бұрын

    I’m working on maintaining the healthy weight I’m currently at. From January 30, 2023, I’ve lost from 221.4 pounds to138. I am now just 10 pounds more than my weight before children 38 years ago!

  • @mamawfrancy
    @mamawfrancy7 ай бұрын

    Julie, I hope any comment that I leave could help you feel half the inspiration & positivity that you give your viewers. Your family is wholesome examples & I appreciate all that you do.

  • @Musicteach97

    @Musicteach97

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree! I look forward to your content and down to earth approach to all you do. ❤

  • @annaalford6595
    @annaalford65957 ай бұрын

    Yaaaaaay I’m so glad you guys are back. I’ve missed you all

  • @nliver1
    @nliver17 ай бұрын

    wishing you all a happy new year and hope its a great year for you

  • @maemonitored4186
    @maemonitored41866 ай бұрын

    Yes,

  • @cindyparker4714
    @cindyparker47147 ай бұрын

    Julie I'm with you on swapping out the old for better and newer. I also get dehydrated. I'm going to try to drink more water this year. We can do this!!!

  • @SusyTH
    @SusyTH7 ай бұрын

    Hi Deru Crew! It's nice to catch up. And I'm laughing how our lives align sometimes. I often find the two youngest putting diapers on their plushies. And we too are low on diapers & I'll have to remind Papa to pick up diaper wipes too.

  • @andreanielsen6513
    @andreanielsen65137 ай бұрын

    For the silverware, the basket hooks onto the lid/front panel vs sitting in the bottom basket area. It might make it easier for him to unload since he can keep it in the door.

  • @svu11
    @svu117 ай бұрын

    I appreciate your sweet and kindness filled content

  • @deborahthwaites7546
    @deborahthwaites75467 ай бұрын

    Hi deru crew love your family and I do appreciate your vlogs thanks for sharing xx happy 2024 from australia

  • @loripretti843
    @loripretti8437 ай бұрын

    I love watching your vlogs!!! I enjoy all of you!!! God Bless Us All!!!

  • @lilysgram5886
    @lilysgram58867 ай бұрын

    Happy New Year!! 🎉🥳

  • @NikkiScatch84
    @NikkiScatch847 ай бұрын

    I hate when things get overwhelming. It’s nice to have alone time once in a while then I feel better.

  • @lynnette3020
    @lynnette30207 ай бұрын

    love seeing you do videos, great family life

  • @lonelinessinmilan6486
    @lonelinessinmilan64866 ай бұрын

    Regarding dehydration, try a morning lemon squeeze, bio apple cider vinegar in a glass of water, and love your kidneys.

  • @dougmcmillan4464
    @dougmcmillan446427 күн бұрын

    I love you videos of yours and your sister's

  • @herneathabelton1245
    @herneathabelton12457 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate you and your family. love and support you share with us as family logger ❤❤❤❤

  • @claudialeger3208
    @claudialeger32087 ай бұрын

    Hope 2024 brings much peace and joy to you and all your family.

  • @janejones1797
    @janejones17977 ай бұрын

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video! Thank you!

  • @cristielb1033
    @cristielb10337 ай бұрын

    I love watching your vlogs and think you have a beautiful family, so just ignore the negative people. Seeing your containter of markers brought joy to my heart because it reminds me of when my girls were little. I'm pretty sure they each had the same exact kind of plastic container with green latches for their markers that they decorated with stickers. We finally got around to packing them up not too long ago, which I had been putting off for so long because it felt like I was closing the book on their childhood, but they hadn't used their markers in years and are both teenagers now, so it's time for a new chapter whether I like it or not. Btw, I love the layout of your new house! It is so unique to see the kitchen on a different level than the living room. I hope the kids are able to help bring groceries up all those stairs or that you have another entrance to your house to bring them in at that doesn't require using the stairs because that would be tiring. On the other hand, it would also be good exercise! Lol! 😅😊

  • @JulieDeru

    @JulieDeru

    7 ай бұрын

    The kids are very helpful with bringing up groceries :) it’s a different layout but I do like it as well.

  • @edithdimuro101
    @edithdimuro1017 ай бұрын

    Your children have grown so much!

  • @kellygrant9023
    @kellygrant90237 ай бұрын

    Awwww welcome bk so good to watch ur videos and vlogs i am working on my self of sewing and really trying make my life better and have money back ups so also travelling too and have fun from kelly from uk xx

  • @christinam.8243
    @christinam.82433 ай бұрын

    Can you show what you start using? With going green please

  • @katrina4690
    @katrina46907 ай бұрын

    O look Julie is normal like us lol Julie u sound just like me stumbling for words ❤ watching ur vlogs is very refreshing. It work and home for me most days.

  • @bryanbearsley6227
    @bryanbearsley62277 ай бұрын

    i enjoy watching your vlogs julie. i love not missing your vlogs 🥰

  • @dreuzelfan
    @dreuzelfan7 ай бұрын

    Jeej! I am happy you are back!!

  • @Christian-xo2eo
    @Christian-xo2eo7 ай бұрын

    Beautiful family ❤❤

  • @RollwithLauren
    @RollwithLaurenАй бұрын

    I’m still struggling myself on family topic but thank you as a million 36 of my lifetime a lot of people old new do feel more like family to me with my own selfish birth family I was never number one lucky to just think you for your loving warm true real family invite to me from you and whole Griffith family. Roll with Lauren, Lauren Roy Franklin tn. July 2024 comment

  • @THINKINGEIREANN
    @THINKINGEIREANN7 ай бұрын

    ❤❤love watching you blogs so please don’t give up

  • @Emma-AnneHarmer-Collin70
    @Emma-AnneHarmer-Collin707 ай бұрын

    It's cold here

  • @shelbybrown3032
    @shelbybrown30327 ай бұрын

    Always so inspired by you! ❤️

  • @verawilson473
    @verawilson4737 ай бұрын

    Zip ties! Zip tie the dishwasher silverware thingy shut. I used to have one like that and I used to do that all the time. I still have PTSD from that, all these years later that that's gonna happen, even though my new dishwasher doesn't have a silverware holder like that.

  • @taniapagliai4218
    @taniapagliai42187 ай бұрын

    I bet you have plenty of snow now from yesterday's storm--we have 8" in NE MO.

  • @navjotbal6904
    @navjotbal69047 ай бұрын

    Hello Dreu Crew family Thank you for sharing this amazing video ❤❤

  • @makaylabaldwin1450
    @makaylabaldwin14507 ай бұрын

    Can you talk more about your schooling/working as a nurse/ if you miss it etc??

  • @joelleurack8590
    @joelleurack85907 ай бұрын

    Love you little family vidéo and I also miss you mum and dad vidéos 😊❤

  • @JulieDeru

    @JulieDeru

    7 ай бұрын

    I miss them too 😉

  • @gracerequa7663
    @gracerequa76637 ай бұрын

    This year I am foucusing on school. I graduate this June

  • @ellahutchins4933
    @ellahutchins49337 ай бұрын

    I Julie hope you guys had a great holiday break ❤❤

  • @keilysilva809
    @keilysilva8097 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @lizlund7091
    @lizlund70917 ай бұрын

    Love your vlogs!

  • @nelliepisani4348
    @nelliepisani43487 ай бұрын

    Great vlog thank you for sharing ❤

  • @fluffykitten8181
    @fluffykitten81817 ай бұрын

    Love your channel 💝👍

  • @KayeCarterTV
    @KayeCarterTV7 ай бұрын

    🌹Sending you all lots of love prayers hugs and kindness with positive thought! ♥️🙏🏼🌹

  • @beverleyprice
    @beverleyprice7 ай бұрын

    I love your videos. Am in Auckland New Zealand.