Shout out to Aba and Preach for covering this -- glad you're getting well deserved recognition!

@vjm3

Жыл бұрын

Kom-booboo-cha

@rza884

Жыл бұрын

@@vjm3 brrrrrrb

@EdivaldoSilver

Жыл бұрын

@@vjm3 😅😝💀

@dwaynehiler5735

Жыл бұрын

Came he from the link in their description

@DragonbornOfTamriel

Жыл бұрын

They right about the approach but she’s right in general

Male here, when this woman (I don't know her name) says to compliment your man when he does masculine things, that is 100% correct, guys love being complimented BUT, keep it short and sweet, a 50 word compliment sounds very suspect/sarcastic to us so when your man says "I booked an Italian restaurant for us at 8pm tomorrow" all you need to say is "I like it when you pick for us, can you do it more often?" Anything over expressive and emotional and your man will feel talked down to in a way

@LitosWay357

Жыл бұрын

To add on, long and flowery words of affirmation is gonna sound suspicious because it's not a natural response. If you don't usually speak that way, don't start now. Just show appreciation how you would normally. If you DON'T show appreciation normally, well then you've stumbled upon a bigger issue.

@itgurl7552

Жыл бұрын

Why is booking a restaurant a masculine thing?

@investa9772

Жыл бұрын

@@itgurl7552 because it shows leadership which is something that is masculine

@itgurl7552

Жыл бұрын

@@investa9772 leadership is not an inherent masculine thing. A 16 year old could book a reservation but that doesn’t mean they have leadership skills

@investa9772

Жыл бұрын

@@itgurl7552 Im talking about in a relationship someone who takes charge and leads the couple thats is a masculine thing to do, it has always been that way since the beginning of time

This whole feminine energy topic has changed my life in ways I could have never imagined. It gets me excited every single day. 😍😍

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

I love this for you girl 🥹

@xandria_magic777

Жыл бұрын

@@awwlexis aww thank you i love your content and vibe

As a man, hearing a woman say she appreciates me that really does feel good to hear and know

Preach girl thanks for appreciating us for what we are as men.

Here from Aba & Preach, keep fighting the good fight my black sister! Too many women nowadays are pushing the narrative that women need to be more feminine, or only be "feminine" to the right guy, which is the exact opposite of what should be the case. You show your best self and that brings out the best in others as well, and if it doesn't then you move on. Glad to see not all of our women have been brainwashed by the media. 1 Note: Kinda along the lines of what the other men are saying, showing appreciation is 100% an amazing thing, just make sure it seems genuine. Would much rather appreciate a "thank you babe" after opening the car door for her, then hearing a whole monologue on why she appreciates it, because then it seems almost sarcastic or as if she has ulterior motives

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I appreciate your advice and perspective. I absolutely agree appreciation should be genuine. I should’ve mentioned that, I assumed it was a given 😜

@itgurl7552

Жыл бұрын

Gratitude has nothing to do with femininity. Some of the things that men want women to be greatful for are things that any grown adult should be doing. Like contributing to your household by washing dishes or taking out the trash

@MunkeyyCANA

Жыл бұрын

@@itgurl7552 no one’s asking for gratitude for doing simple household responsibilities. take your negativity elsewhere

@itgurl7552

Жыл бұрын

@@MunkeyyCANA People are trying to do that. I seen men complain about there wives not showing gratitude towards them for not taking out trash or cleaning.

i love when women are not jealous from each other and recommend each otther. its so attractive reallly :)

I'm currently sitting in my car eating food by myself listening to this video while I wait for my bf to step into his masculine energy. 😂

I love this! As a woman who was raised in an environment that my natural desire to be femenine was shamed, this is truly beautiful and needed! My husband and I are working opening up space for the other to being out Divine Masculine and Divine Feminin, and demonstrating what that looks like for our kids. Thank you for the encouragement!

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

I LOVE that. So amazing. I can relate to you about growing up in that type of environment, I’m so happy you are here ♥️

It is also helpful to invite him to take action..not telling him but inviting him... Nice work you get it !!

I admire the time and effort youu went to put this video togethere and like the fact that you can see from both sides of the spectrum and be wise about it at a young age. Aba & Preach viewers apperecieate your wisdom.

This has been an eye opening video for me. I feel like expressing my needs by inspiring it in a feminine positive way instead of demanding in a negative masculine way, not only would get me what I want faster and easier, but also bring us together AND prove to me I'm wrong that there aren't any trustworthy men out there.

KZread recommended your channel to me and I am so happy 💕✨

These are such good feeling statements omg I’m single rn but I love hearing you say your man 💕Omg girl I really need one! 🙋🏼‍♀️

Aba and preach sent me. Happy to hear this coming from a woman. Keep on doing what you do. New subscriber here.

omg I love your videos! your voice is so sweet and peaceful

Have you trained yourself to talk. Your voice and communication gestures are great! Can you do a video on that?

Thought you had great points, hope your channel thrives

Here from Aba and Preach! Well done you! Refreshing to see some solutions provided to helping women with their relationships without bashing men!❤️👌🏾

The way you teach things is amazing and so simple thank you!

I think these tips are relevant to women in most relationships but I also think there are some men who are just so wounded and so stubborn that you cannot be in your feminine energy around them no matter how hard you try to flip the dynamic without their participation. Stay there too long, and you will run into the same problem later when you become afraid of letting go of your own masculinity.

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree ♥️🙌🏽

You convinced me , you have a new follower!

I like the term from Alice von Hildebrand to describe the feminine. Receptibility. It's not passive but receptive. And the importants of receptibility can not be overstated.

Here from Aba & Preach, I must admit that you nailed it all on the head. Shout out to you!!!

Came from Aba and Preach. Your video has clarified so much for me. As a young woman who was raised by a single mother I didn’t know about this. Thank you!

I appreciate you for this one. Btw your energy and that smile. YES. you definitely have the feminine energy that inspires a guy... Oh, and here from Aba and Preach.

I love all your videos! Thanks and you’re absolutely stunning

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I am happy to have you here 🥰

Loved the questions!

Girl I discovered ur channel today and I love u allah ybark u deserve millions ♥️♥️

I lovee ur energy!! ❤️❤️

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Thank you beautiful ❤

This should be a series.

you look amazing and i'm loving your energy i can feel it

You are so well spoken!

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Thank you beautiful 🥰

@princerak8881

Жыл бұрын

i hate when people say that

@overthrone3494

Жыл бұрын

@@princerak8881 a lot of people wish they were able to communicate their ideas clearly to others without rambling or not having the words to do so. I get how it can be condescending when someone’s not actually listening to what you say like in the first episode of the Boondocks but there’s many people who wish they were well spoken to communicate and have trouble due to their upbringing and internalized abuse from early childhood or just simple learning disabilities or adhd. Hope you’re getting the respect you deserved from here on out

@princerak8881

Жыл бұрын

@@overthrone3494 when people say to me they act like poc can't talk very well which I'm not too fond of maybe if I get older but I still cringe when people says that

@aidan2849

Жыл бұрын

@@overthrone3494 I tend to be able to speak my mind more clearly when its something I'm passionate about

let these ladies know !!!! this is a lost art thease days

Just found you today and LOVE your videos and your energy you're teaching me so much and are such a beautiful person

Some of the best advice

Thanks Alexis! ❤

Saw you on Aba and preaches channel and became curious about the full content of the video. Thank you for the information. I’ll give some of these tips a try

Your advice and wisdom always hits so good. It is so true that transformation is never comfortable because if nothing changes, nothing changes. I am so open for change and growth and maturation! This can only level up my relationships, romantic and otherwise. Thank you 🙏 All the light and love and healing ❤

You have a very beautiful and positive energy and your advice is on point :-) Lot's of success with your feminine channel and greetings from a fellow KZreadr 🌹

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Hi love ❤ Thank you so much!

I am married and I do this, but it is good the reminder because it is super easy to forget about all this when you are focused on the kids. We should be watering the plan after kids.

You’re so lovely. I appreciate you so much.

New subbie. Loved your perspective ❤

I just love your videos!!

Yo yo yo A/P sent ya Boy ...Youre doing work of the heavens mama!!

Here from Aba and Preach! Solid points.

Your advice is spot on. The only thing I would say is to keep the compliments short and sweet. Came from Aba and Preach

From my experience , Men who are in their natural masculine energy is normal for them , unfortunately there are not so many left on the planet , trying to elicit something from feminine man is like too HARD work , just skip them . No many providers are out there , women earn much more money these days .

@vanessak7069

Жыл бұрын

True. They offer so little and want respect but I earn my own money, am independent with a large, clean and beautiful flat and will not take their bs. My mental health, time, friends, hobbies, spirituality and bank account are more important.

@JerseyBoy489

Жыл бұрын

@@vanessak7069 Respect = money No wonder y'all so confused degrading yourselves basically

@tam_to_evolve

Жыл бұрын

This is a channel of positive vibes and positive light. Take your man hating and negative comments to a different challenge please. There’s no space for that here 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️👎

@JerseyBoy489

Жыл бұрын

@@tam_to_evolve what your husband think?

@lifemarketing9876

Жыл бұрын

If you attract a lot of feminine men, you are probably too masculine and repel the masculine men away. The good news is, this is something you can fix! Simply rewatch the video again until you get it through your head.

thanks Alexis!!! much love, Elle

Here from A&P. Everything was you said was facts, only thing id have disagree with is the long compliments. Im sure im speaking for 90% of men but the longer the compliment the more it feels like 🧢, the shorter and more to the point the better and more genuine the compliment feels

@alexindigo8904

Жыл бұрын

Forreal my bf would think I’m messing with him😂😂

I love your videos💕

Great way to reprogram/recondition a person in a healthy way

I love this! great advice coming from a red pill man this is gold🔥

Straight facts💯

Just came from Aba and Preach video. Just wanted to drop a like and subscribe. Keep up the good work.

Great video ❤❤❤

Here from the Aba N Preach. I'm a guy. Big ups to Aba and Preach for reacting to your vid and speaking candidly on this topic on their channel too. All three of you spoke candidly. You make sense sis. You're wise and intelligent. Your smile is nice. You are an attractive woman. You facially resemble my fellow vegan Cydnie Chanel. You and her look alike. Shout out to Vegas. I went to Vegas one time with some of my friends I went to college with. I went over 6 years ago to LV. That happened one week before my 21st earthstrong. Word. The strip was cool to drive down. @awwlexis

Here from Aba and Preach!!! Just showing some support. Your are GORGEOUS!! Im definitely subbing, interested in your content

Thanks!

I want to learn more about inner work :)

A women is giving relationship advice, and doesn't seem to have this urge most women have to hate men every 5 seconds while doing it? How is this possible! I can't believe it, not a trace of hatred to be seen! Maybe I just get recommended the worst type of content I just see hatred most of the time. Here from Aba and Preach btw. Tho I feel this content is mainly targeted for women and I haven't watched her other stuff (yet), this video is overall fun and interesting. I'm a guy and I enjoyed it, lets hope that more people will find this girl she seems very sweet.

Aba and preach sent me , Great video keep it up you got my sub

Thank you love

Fantastic video

Love your video

Aba & Preach brought me here I am so happy another woman is the same as me just subbed

Came here from Aba and Preach. All we gotta say is, keep up the good work. and uhh ditch the KAMBUCHAAA.

Just saw this vid on Aba N Preach... Much love!

What your are saying is called trying too hard. Makes it seem ingenuine

Aba and preach 🙌 👏🏾 🙏

Super interesting! And you are so smiley and gorgeous

@audreyshakara6928

Жыл бұрын

both forsure but it should definitely always be more feminine we have both feminine and masculin within us and mastering your femininity is mastering the two within us, kzread.info/dash/bejne/oniVrNJ-fZadkrA.html dr michelle gad goes into more details about this and gives you practical tips on how to start being more conscious of your masculinity and how to start transforming that today, good luck w everything babes 🤍

@HiLifeItsMe

Жыл бұрын

I agree I think it’s beautiful to Be in your Femininity, but also you must celebrate your dark side. Embrace it when necessary or organically coming out, but I think the goal is finding the perfect Balance for you. I like to be assertive in moments at work or with men in my personal life, but saying it in a feminine way. Drives men crazy at work and in My personal. Gives you that “edge.”Tell men what you want. But first know what you want. I.E. Time alone.

@thecuratedfeminine

Жыл бұрын

It depends on how you lead, lovely! Feminine energy is intuitive and focuses on feelings and empathy. If you need to make quick judgements and make black and white decisions, you're in the masculine (which is sometimes necessary - we can't be in the feminine all the time!). When you're focussed on building relationships with your team, listening, using your intuition - you're in your feminine leadership energy :)

@arianna.lexi.

Жыл бұрын

@@thecuratedfeminine Thank you xx

Aba and preach ….. The video is amazing 👍🏾🔥

Towards the end of this video, there was a question “How do you change your life from being at the bottom?” And what she answered is sooo true. Two years ago I was in a car accident. Where I nearly lost my life. But I didn’t. 🎉 And what I have thought after that is: I have hit rock bottom. The only way there is now, is up. ☝️ So I think that that is very good advice ❤

Hi love your videos. Can you please do a video on relationship where the man can’t step up into his masculinity or won’t- reasons why and how to remind in your feminine energy regardless pls? ❤ You touched on this briefly 19:40 mins in 😊

@k7.629

Жыл бұрын

Id say, see if he is watching porn frequently. From personal experience, that fucks with men and makes them act more feminine. Another thing could be due to social media and who he watches on there. Apart from that i can not think of any other reasons. Good Luck and wish you the best

Here from Aba & Preach, great video. My wife and I just subscribed

Good Vid. I'm no youtuber but as a viewer if you would like to continue to grow I suggest editing the pause moments and transition points, out of the video. It being to long will lower view ship i would assume. quick cuts and edits work best

Here from Aba and Preach, keep it up! Good video.

Ngl if this happened in my relationship we would still be together, these are some of the things she pointed out after the fact and I feel like shit for it , being comfortable as a man never be comfortable it’s not healthy for your relationship

old school feminine is a refreshing sight to see.

Though I agree with some of your points, women are more in their feminine energy with compliments and men are most in their masculine with competition. There's best selling book by David Deida called 'The way of the Superior Man' which gives an essential guide to masculine and feminine energy between men and women.

Can you speak on examples of cooking? I love cooking, and love cooking for people. My last boyfriend had the worst diet of fast food and easy meals. So I did all the cooking and the kitchen management. But I definitely mothered too much. Not really sure how I should approach this

The algorithm sent me this way. So far all I hear is truth..it's from your perspective but it's no denial because I can't debunk itso it must be truth and my experience and my soul tells me the same thing..we far from who we should be..they would say u wrong but u literally super right..we all imperfect, but that's what makes us perfect

Factual 👍

Is it too late to change? I realized prior to my last relationship I operated thoroughly in my feminine but due to abuse it changed me. I am 37, can I truly change?

I hope she has some single sisters haha, we need to promote this lady! This is some gold information and exactly what I'd love to have

W video, coming from Aba n preach. Keep it up, show these ladies wassup

So I love this video so much. But 19:30 it was a game-changer for me! This is where I am currently at.

@adelante3938

Жыл бұрын

Same. Whats the latest?

New Subscriber here!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️✨

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

Welcome beautiful 🥰

I live in las vegas too and my curly hair is dead dead 💀

I am here because of Aba & Preach. She's very wise for somebody of her age.

finally someone respecting men energy ! this was so nice to hear i was tired of hearing men are the bad guys

@Main3account

Жыл бұрын

You are the bad guys

@BiblicallyHandle

Жыл бұрын

Man hating is all too common today. Men should be appreciated more instead of torn down.

@Main3account

Жыл бұрын

@@BiblicallyHandle no not at all men always hurt us and make us feel unsafe

@hordevran

Жыл бұрын

@@BiblicallyHandle Men caused this they validate all these self-centered women all the time they can't control their lust women can behave like gods, caring women are being made fun of but its all just loan they will need to pay that off with yields some day.

@ayushmitachakraborty3414

Жыл бұрын

No you're not 😂

Why is anyone on here assuming she means to give the entirety of what she says in examples as a script for your own compliments? She's not giving you a script. She's giving you multiple examples of things to say. Use 👏🏻your 👏🏻noggins 👏🏻people.

@awwlexis

Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU! 😂🙌🏾

he is depressed now going through many emotions and anxious. i do not know how else i could make him feel better as a gf. any tips how to apply feminie energy when bf is feeling umotivated, anxious?? i always listen and comfort him and he is thankful for that. i wonder what else i can do. he used be in his masculine energy. but these past few wks. he has been like this.

@sebaalsaleh5091

Жыл бұрын

I’m going through the same thing and I need some advice

@DaBeautyIAm

Жыл бұрын

, nor are we most folk trained to help others through depression.

@DaBeautyIAm

Жыл бұрын

Some things aren't our job. I would suggest him seeing a therapist and praying for him if you do that. All we can do is let him know that we are here to listen, ask good questions, and provide encouragement.

@goofygothalien618

Жыл бұрын

Let him know that you care and are there for him, but that you would think it's best if he could reach out to a therapist. It's not your job to counsel and heal him. He must want to do that for himself if he decides to. It's not your responsibility.

I pray God i get a girl like you one day, much love.

What should we do if we’ve felt we need to be the planners for so long that our men accuse us of not putting in effort when we try to lean back?

@FriskyTendervittles

Жыл бұрын

@Mel C how to do that when they don’t want to hear it? When they cannot take any sort of feedback that not positive?

@Jay-mx5ky

Жыл бұрын

@@FriskyTendervittles Then you're in the wrong relationship. If couples can't take honest criticism from one another, they'll never improve their relationship.

@FriskyTendervittles

Жыл бұрын

@@Jay-mx5ky ugh I know 😞

@Kroitk

Жыл бұрын

@@FriskyTendervittles The real issue is you are with not a proper, mature, self-respecting partner in your relationship. The funny thing is YOU know this too. You can't be their mother, therapist, and their woman at the same time. If your man has issues or not mature enough, you will be picking up the slack and the mental load your entire life being together. Meaning you will be carrying the team on your back. If you want to struggle and keep doing this, then you lose ALL RIGHT to complain in the future, as that is YOUR choice to continue this. Period.

aBA & pREACH sent me. Excellent advice, Sis. God bless you!

Can Someone explain to me about that “Aba and Preach” thing? I don’t get it. I’m from South-America (Specifically, Chile 🇨🇱) and I love this girl energy. Putting your advices into work ☺️🙏🏻❤️ God bless you ❤

Can you give us more examples about different ways or words that we can say to our man to make them feel more in their masculine?

@nessaleyva1149

Жыл бұрын

Like different ways to make them know that we r grateful, that they matter to us or just another ways to flatter them

@nazaninai

Жыл бұрын

I remember the time my friend told our teacher, how should I show my team that I love them and that they are valuable to me? Our teacher said, really love them

@nazaninai

Жыл бұрын

Hi nessa, u know at first we have to be really that energy, then we can flow it ... with the strategies that alexis said, specially in dark & light feminine energy, when we make moves with our energy it show it self in a best way

@nazaninai

Жыл бұрын

For example when he say one of his secrets to u, whats ur feeling? U r pretty happy that he trust u and talk to u about himself, so u will say babe its so precious for me that u said that to me...

@nazaninai

Жыл бұрын

Dear girl, hope u doing well🥰

1. Appreciate ur man when he’s in masculine 2. Lean back 3. Get into feminine energy

Here and subscribed from Aba and Preach