The experience of having a crush can begin as early as preschool, and crushes can continue to occur throughout one's life. Do you know your child's crush? At what age do you think it is appropriate to talk to your children about crushes, and how far are you willing to go to teach them the right way? We love hearing back from you! Sound off in the comments below. #Crushes #SchoolCrush #Motherhood #BumpLove

@nabakiibijulian1626

Жыл бұрын

I can relate cos I have a rrussssshhhh on some guy in classsss banange hooo kikaaa

I hear Racheal is like an angel,she is nicely humble

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

RIGHT?????????? 😅🤣😂😅🤣😂

@rachaelmwine611

Жыл бұрын

🙊🙊🙊

@politeayikiriza4605

Жыл бұрын

Very true

Honestly that has been the toughest discuss with my son, at 11, he came and told me mummy I have this girl I like, can I have a girlfriend " my eyes went wide....I lost it and I was so angry with him. With the world going bad, at the back of my mind I had the worst imagination, thanks to my sister,I called her to advise and she was totally different, she guided me on how to talk to him, make him know it was normal, but tell him to look at what comes first. However that came later after I had lost it. I called my son back, we talked through it calmly and since then my son is very open, and confines in me, otherwise I would have lost him. Today with my hubby listening to this, we just wished it came earlier. Thanks Bump Love for opening our eyes. This has become a learning ground for many. Blessings

Recently a boy refused to come to school because the previous day he had seen his "crush" kiss another boy under the table. As parents its calls for vigilance with our children. Thanks ladies for sharing. Blessings galore Love S.Korea

Absolutely Angie, we have to keep in mind the time lost. Two years is a long time and a hell of processes in a child's body. We must speak to them while taking into account their new mindset. And kids these days have much more information than we did back then. Beautiful episode. Love you guys.

Wow! Thanks KZread for putting this in front of me. Thank you lovely ladies. Great topic, great discussion and much needed. Will be sharing this with my young sister.

Such a valuable discussion. Parenting in this era is an extreme sport, may God help us. Dicussions like these are so important and something that I have appreciated with my parents that I would love to create with my children is relationship and a safe space so I don't have to hear about my child's shenigans from the school.

That is a very good point that Angie makes about closing the gap between parents and teachers. We really need that.

Great conversation ladies and such great points 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

You all are great and wonderful moms! Thank you for such an incredible selfless job you all are doing! Blessings to you all and your families ❤️!

I remember a guy who confessed to me he had a crush on me when we were younger. Made me want to confess to my to my crush, Lord I thought he was cool still is. One day i will gather the courage 😂😂😂 Angie's last statement about filling the gap between parents and teachers totally agree, you cannot be undermining a teacher's authority in front of your child not cool never have been.We should do better your sending a very wrong message to your child. Overall a delightful conversations from you beautiful ladies.

Honest conversation, God help our new generation. Thanks ladies.

Love you All! . Angie you need your own show👏👏

maaannnnn..... i had so much fun watching this....and i enjoyed Manuela's emphasis most...."i canotttttttttt ,let you know that i like you.....ku deal kyi......" i wish Pumla was here she would have all the crushing stories in the world for us🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Pliz tell us about you ladies we need to know how you met and what actually keeps you together

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

We have a show coming up where we will answer this. P

Thanks for this wonderful conversation.

This is so informative .Thank you ladies

I just love Angie the only honest person on this person ❤️❤️❤️

Good job ladies💃💃💃Pumla we missed you

Ladies you have done good about this topic

Thank you for this ladies

Good conversation ladies thank u ❤

Good topic ladies well done LOL❤.

Hahahaha,you ladies just make my day.

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

Good stuff ladies. This is real and bo

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

Welldone ladies. This is so informative and eye opening

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

You are welcome. Thanks for watching

Guys I’m here to take notes. Since I’m still a single woman, by the time I reach there I should be having an idea. Thanks for the show ladies, God bless you

Awwwww sweet Myka!!!!!!

This information has come in handy my gal is 8 and I know this is coming soon. Thanks ladies 😊

Great conversation, awesome hosts. With love from Kenya.

@alatirushamim4514

Жыл бұрын

Ooh wau +254 tunakuluv dada

You ladies are the best 👌

Am glad I stambled on this,my maid is going through this phase.i didn't know what to do.although my children are still young and I haven't seen anything calling for attention.atleast I now have hit on how to approach my maid.she has been a good girl. I hope I can be helpful to her.

Thanks guys banange that crushing moment like how Rachel has said u will be there confused 😂😂😂

😆😆😆 bum forcing. Had forgotten that term.

Ooh my God, I can't believe this, I have a daughter who told me she has a crush at age of 6 & I couldn't believe it. Thank you so much

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Please believe it ....... it's exactly that. A crush..... just a crush 😍

Thanks bump love

Thanks for its really a good topic 👏

I missed you on this episode, Pum Pum. I would have loved to hear your reaction on the crush by Angie's boys 😂😂😂 I really found it funny.

This is good Well done my ladies Pumla we've missed u

Thanks ladies

Thanx guys this z really agd topic n we can know wea to srart from as parents. This z really cool❤❤❤❤thanx vry much

We need to raise our children using different lenses. When I was growing up, we had no social media. However much we police these children, there will be one who will bring juicy stories in the dormitory. Then others will think they are missing out on social media. Children are curious. How can we satisfy their curiosity? I love Manuela's take on teaching a child the consequence of doing bad. Thank you ladies

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

You are welcome. Thanks for watching

Me I had many crushes! For different reasons and there wasn't actual reciprocation of those feelings. I'm glad

OMG! Crushes, Crushes! Nice topic. I crushed on several teachers banange ....kyokka when I look at them now😂😂 I wonder! Nwayz, crushes are normal but times have changed! Forass😆we used to crush n stop at that but now we have to appreciate that kids of late are too exposed n so any thing can happen! As parents we need to talk to our children on crushes! Well-done Ladies.

Rachael, you are GLOWING! My Gosh😻

@rachaelmwine611

Жыл бұрын

Hihihi thank you😍

Thx for the shows ladies , greetings to pumula I have missed her so much

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

I truly missed too. P

Love you ladies watching from the UK 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

ITS ALWAYS GOOD A PARENT TO PLAY YOUR PART AND LEAVE THE REST TO GOD.

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Very true......

Girls I love all of you. You represent each and everyone of us. I am personally not a Mama by Choice, but will always listen to your conversations. You are all awesome

Wow I love you girls and what you are talking about it's real ... crushes are real and the first boy I crushed on.... The crushing has never died ....I still do...

Pumla we really missed you on this. Me and my girlfriends we are having conversations about what you would have said, how many people crushed on you coz you are so beautiful.

Thank you bump love

Have been eagerly waiting

Gd content always.

Off topic buh I gatta say.... Rachel I love love ur makeup

@rachaelmwine611

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Gloria 🥰

@glorianora9819

Жыл бұрын

@@rachaelmwine611 🤗🤗🤗allow me also ask....who does ur makeup? Is it u

The guy that had a huge crush on me in A level is now my spouse ❤

Thank you

i love your ideas they are cool we have to fight for the next generations

Thanks ladies luv u nyo

Following instructions - you guys do a great job!! For real though, I've enjoyed so many of your videos! God bless!

We missed Pumla on this but I really enjoyed it 😊 my childhood crush 🤦

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

We missed her too

I'm like you Manuela, I will not let you know, I died with my crush. Am those secretive people in that at uni third year, my dad had to sit me down and ask if I had a boyfriend. I think he didn't see any signs of crushes or relationships, which explains the fact that if your child reaches a certain age without crushes on the opposite sex, you need to worry

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Yikes!!!!!!! I hear you on the worrying

We need end of year dinner ladies entrance @50k🤣🤣🤣mulaba mutya

@tushemerirweshivan79

Жыл бұрын

Any amount we are ready......love you ladies

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

We agree 😅🤣😂

@rachaelmwine611

Жыл бұрын

This is actually a great idea...

@ruthneumbe3024

Жыл бұрын

Hahahahahaha yeso Bump love

@Fattahssesanga9747

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 👏🏽👏🏽 Why not

THANKS LADIES

This is so informative an episode, i wish all parents can watch it. I was actually having a conversation with a friend of mine who has a kid at kabojja. They were so stressed out about it n not that their child was involved. I told them that these things were there when we were growing up n they r not about to stop. So u just have to play your role as a parent n continue having these uncomfortable conversations with your child. It will atleast help curb these habits. Like Manuela said, we need to table the consequences to these kids n also like Rosette said, schools also have to have a hand in this so that the whole village is involved. Otw parents n teachers have got to be to ready to work hand in hand to see to it that these kids are helped. Thx for the show ladies. Much love🥰😍

Omwana oyo Pumla aliwa 😂😂😂😂😂 Angie

I learned this year that we sexualize and romanticize so many things as adults because we already have been corrupted and exposed as adults. Yet most crushes are innocent things, we can have age-appropriate conversations. As children most crushes are innocent, they can only hold hands. We can teach them about boundaries as they get older, what not to do, not play secret games, etc. I agree with all of you today; let's talk to the children, open up conversations, and show them the consequences.

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

This is so right BTW. Our corrupted minds just interprete things beyond what children do. But see - one day, just like Adam & Eve, their eyes will be opened and when that happens, you really want to be a point of information. P

@sunshineheaven1802

Жыл бұрын

@@pumlanabachwa8668 agreed.

@namaramartha1637

Жыл бұрын

I agree

@kojokiliberty1002

Жыл бұрын

@@pumlanabachwa8668 true

Pumla should type her experience. Dearly missed your opinion. Nice show ladies.

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

I think crushes are just that - Crushes. And before a certain age, they are innocent and fleeting. Just ground your kids and don't worry too much. P

Actually, all of these ladies have something that I admire or that I relate with.

I remember that story on ride with the mulondo😂😂😂😂😂😂

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

Just like Manuela..i have same reaction towards Rachael's revelation🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣can't wait to hear Angie's experience🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Manuela u die with yo things..olinga nze🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Rosette has reminded me how we used to even add our names with the dreams of marriage

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Bwahahahahahahahaha. This comment has all of us tied up in a neat little bow. 😅🤣😂

@christabellrutabingwa5118

Жыл бұрын

When crushes started in my house, I approached it scientifically...we talked about the hormones and what they do to our bodies along the way especially as adolocents....I told them my story and how right now I dont even know where my crush is... We've talked so freely and they understand it more like a biological confusion. A while back I asked my teen son if crushes were happening and he told me nah! The hormones aren't doing their job. It is important to understand their bodies and have reason above those emotions.

I real like bump love ,mother of one

Abaye where is Pumla bagyenzi 😅 very nice topic .

Good conversation and I liked the ending part of it. May God grant us the wisdom and grace in raising the children of our and next generation.

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Amen.....

@maryflorenceangiro6276

Жыл бұрын

@@manuelap.mulondo please talk about parenting step children. Does any of you have something to share

The age is at adolescent stage😁buh still at my early school loved company from many moreov each class l had a different boy 😃.sumububi naye its just normal.thanks for episode.love u ladies

Banaye nange I love Pumla.ladies thanx for the show ❤

I confess😅 I had a crush on Mr. Mulondo 😅😅 who I have never met, but here I am in love with his beautiful wife, wanting to watch her😁 not jealous that ddnt meet him, very very happy he has a beautiful n intelligent woman n beautiful kids🥰🥰

@scovianinsiima6190

Жыл бұрын

Otyoo

@gloriamn9013

Жыл бұрын

weird

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

Hahahaahhaaaaa! This is such a funny confession. P

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Hahahahahahahahahaha oh thanks girl. 😊

@ruthneumbe3024

Жыл бұрын

Uhmm crushes happen with out permission but thank God just as they come they vanish phewks

The title really brought me here am single mother 1 beautiful daughter she made 12 in July so am looking forward on how to deal with her concern these rush things

Am exactly like Manuela am too proud to show

Thanks for the programme ladies. My child's step mum thinks I'm too much and demand so much that upsets her especially when my kid's dad is with us. Please help bring up topic on where or how best we can co operate without convenienting his marriage

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

We have a co-parenting episode coming up soon. Watch this space. Subscribe!!! P

@veejef3331

Жыл бұрын

@@pumlanabachwa8668 thank you, eagerly waiting and oh, I subscribed from Ann k's episode

Me to " I caaànnnnnooottttt ever allow you to know that am rili crushing"😋😎😅

Love from Burundi🇧🇮

@rachaelmwine611

Жыл бұрын

We love you🥰

I love you guys

Missed Pumla on this one😊

Much love from Kenya. Been watching you guys since October 2020 when I somehow bumped into your show. I enjoy learning from you and binged watched all your videos.

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

Love you Amaniiiiiiiii! ❤️. P

@amaniamani4282

Жыл бұрын

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I am a sucker for budgeting and I know how starting and maintaining a simple household budget can help moms save more and invest, and if they are like me, I typically will save more so I can have money for the fun things. Is this a topic you have considered talking about on the show? I recently conducted a quick survey in my email list and have been quite amazed to note that many of us know about it, want to do it, but do not actually know where our money is going. This gap has motivated me to start working on a digital course for mums on 'getting started with budgeting''. Strange though, I have never made a comment here, even though I watch all your shows and sometimes read through the comments. This week I learnt a new concept DSD (do something different), and showing up in the comments here today is how I am applying the concept!

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

@@amaniamani4282 DSD! Let me do that this coming week. I too am a sucker for Financial Planning & Management. We have had a show on this. We invited a colleague of mine from the Bank to share with us. Look out for it in our older KZread episodes. Thanks for watching love. P

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Karibu Amani.......Great to have you.....

@amaniamani4282

Жыл бұрын

@@manuelap.mulondo Asante Manuela

I loved today's episode......but I would really have loved to hear pumlas crush.💯💖

@pumlanabachwa8668

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately I couldn't be here for this. But I feel like I survived kubanga! Ho! P

@asterlois12

Жыл бұрын

😂 same here

Please make a special episode with Pumla. I want to hear her submission 😆😆. I'm just like Manuela though.

@chrisgrace311

Жыл бұрын

Me too 😂😂

God were is Pumla 😅nice conversation ladies

I am the first here👌, no motherhood experience but i am here nonetheless

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Woop woop. Thanks for showing up girl. Loads of love from us

Rach, looking good

I love u all walai

Angie🙌🙌

Missed pumla's experience ❤

The first Lady is talking my experience with crushes right from p4 hmmm I always wanted to stay near them all the time

My goodness

At least I have got where to start from,I was shying to talk about it with my son and I know he is in this situation crushing on someone's daughter

Woow you guys this was so needed. My 3 year old son has a crush on a certain girl at home. How I kmow is that they are 6girls in our compound but he prefers to play this particular one. 😀😀😀😀

Ohhh I can't forget my friend Don we crushed on each other ohhhh

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

And then what happened? Naawe finish the story 😅🤣😂

@nanduggaaisha1179

Жыл бұрын

@@manuelap.mulondo mukyala mulondo eventually my mum noticed the only way to solve things was to take me back to mabarara but it was serious war that every holy day I had to be in Kampala for my Don upto senior 4 when he was taken to Germany and I lost him to amuzingu but and Don we enjoyed our primary 3 to 5 homework we were always together class ohhh

Kale Pumla your absence was so loud in the video....... anyway thanks guys

Kinda unrelated but it's like we haven't had ride with the mulondos updated for 2 weeks.

@manuelap.mulondo

Жыл бұрын

Fuel prices 😅🤣😂😅🤣😂🤣🤣😂. Jokes aside though......they are coming soon......